Community Life Magazine - Bedford Issue 1
Community Life magazine is a fresh approach to showcasing community life. Focussing on local charities, volunteers, wellbeing, local animal shelters, champions of the community. This edition is Bedford - 1st edition.
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<strong>Issue</strong>: 01 - September 2012<br />
...it’s all about <strong>Bedford</strong>!<br />
PEOPLE - PROJECTS - CHARITY - HEALTH & WELLBEING - LIFESTYLE - BUSINESS<br />
BEDFORD<br />
DAYCARE<br />
HOSPICE<br />
Supporting the people<br />
Adopt Me<br />
see pg.29<br />
of <strong>Bedford</strong> for 20 years ... your FREE copy
If you have already been to us at <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Hearing Healthcare you<br />
will know that we pride ourselves on doing what’s right for you.<br />
We are proud members of the Association of Independent Hearing<br />
Healthcare Professionals (AIHHP) which is a well respected, professional<br />
association dedicated to promoting excellence within the UK<br />
Hearing Care profession.<br />
We are now proud to have the wonderful opportunity, along with<br />
other AIHHP Members across the country, to be involved with the<br />
charity Help for Heroes. In conjunction with Phonak (hearing aid<br />
manufacturer), we will be fitting hearing aids free of charge to our<br />
country’s war heroes who have suffered a hearing loss whilst serving<br />
in the Armed Services.<br />
These men and women are ordinary people doing extraordinary things<br />
for our country, and some of them are living with the consequences<br />
of their service for life.<br />
We are extremely gratified that we can be of help and if you know of<br />
anyone who could benefit, or would like advice on your hearing loss,<br />
call:<br />
01234 348144<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong>shire Hearing Healthcare, 52 Harpur Street, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK42 0HD<br />
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Editor<br />
Teresa Brooks<br />
T: 01234 310521<br />
M: 07429 136815<br />
E: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />
Advertising Manager<br />
Marie Rugg<br />
T: 01234 930634<br />
M: 07761 472164<br />
E: communitylifemag@yahoo.co.uk<br />
Front Cover Image<br />
Richard Corbyn<br />
Design & Artwork<br />
tweet: @doodlemunky<br />
Production<br />
info@tmmedia.co.uk<br />
Printed by<br />
White Hart Press, <strong>Bedford</strong><br />
Publisher<br />
Brooks Media<br />
Th e <strong>Community</strong><br />
<strong>Life</strong> Donation<br />
Every month, we will make a £25<br />
donation from our advertising<br />
revenues to one of the charities<br />
or projects in our magazine so<br />
look out for<br />
the star! £25<br />
FROM COMMUNITY LIFE<br />
Disclaimer<br />
All adverts and editorial are printed in<br />
good faith. While we make every eff ort to<br />
ensure the reliability and accuracy of the<br />
material contained in <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong>, we<br />
can accept no responsibility for the veracity<br />
of any claims made by our advertisers or<br />
contributors. No part of this publication<br />
may be reproduced or copied in any form<br />
without the written consent of the publisher.<br />
Welcome...<br />
<strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong> is a monthly local<br />
magazine about your town and your<br />
people with 5000 copies available<br />
across pick up points in <strong>Bedford</strong> and<br />
the surrounding areas.<br />
We have a big focus on charity work,<br />
home grown groups, volunteering,<br />
projects of all kinds and true stories. In addition, features and<br />
articles on health, beauty and wellbeing will ensure there is<br />
something for everyone.<br />
We want you to be part of it and to contribute, share and enjoy!<br />
Your stories and experiences are all welcome and if you are part<br />
of anything new and would like people to know about it or if<br />
you have something you want to raise the profi le for, please let<br />
us know. We will try to include as much as we can about the<br />
things that matter to you!<br />
Look out for the <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong> Donation - We will gift £25<br />
every month to one of the groups, charities or projects we<br />
feature. Th is month our donation is to the new Breast of Health<br />
charity featured on page 5.<br />
Th ank you to our lovely, local businesses, contributors and all<br />
who have supported our launch.<br />
Enjoy! J Teresa & the team x<br />
Contents<br />
New local Breast of Health charity sets up ...................... 5<br />
Blood Pressure Numbers ................................................................... 6<br />
My Story – Lynne East’s personal battle ............................ 9<br />
Parade in your Pants .............................................................................. 10<br />
What Skin Type are you? ................................................................... 11<br />
Keeping your home Safe ....................................................................12-13<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong>’s Memory Walk for Alzheimer’s ........................... 14<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Daycare Hospice – 20 years on .............................16-17<br />
Central Volunteering Services ...................................................... 18<br />
Sitting down can damage your health ................................. 19<br />
YMCA Supported Lodgings Scheme ..................................... 20<br />
A Day in the <strong>Life</strong> of a Home-Start volunteer ................. 23<br />
Relationships – Taking the Curves ........................................... 25<br />
Artie’s Olympics for schools ........................................................... 26<br />
Take me Home – Can you help an animal? .................... 29<br />
Resources and What’s On ................................................................. 30<br />
Mini Ads and Services .......................................................................... 31<br />
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />
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The Wig Salon<br />
'We Inspire Great Style'<br />
Run by Dianne Cullip, The Wig Salon is<br />
nestled in Deep Spinney, Biddenham<br />
and offers a warm welcome to a<br />
professional and individual service.<br />
Hair loss can occur for a number of reasons<br />
such as Alopecia, Hormonal changes,<br />
Chemotherapy or Genetics.<br />
In comfortable surroundings, clients have<br />
complete privacy and Dianne offers help and<br />
advice to decide on the right style and image<br />
for each client.<br />
Wigs can be customised,<br />
styled and designed<br />
individually to suit.<br />
After Care Pack<br />
• Wig Stand •<br />
• Special Formulated shampoo & conditioner •<br />
• Wig Shine Spray • Brush •<br />
Strictly by Appointment – Partners and Family welcome<br />
20 Deep Spinney, Biddenham, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 4QH<br />
Tel 01234 351177<br />
e: onlyyou@btconnect.com | www.onlyyousalon.co.uk<br />
Free Parking at the Salon or Pavillion<br />
Part of<br />
Only You Salon<br />
Opening Hours<br />
Tues - Wed 9.30am-9pm<br />
Thurs 9.30am-6pm<br />
Friday 9.30am-5pm<br />
Saturday 9.00am-4pm<br />
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Breast of Health is a charity based in<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> which has been recently set<br />
up in response to the increasing number<br />
of younger women under 50 years of age<br />
presenting with a variety of breast health<br />
problems.<br />
At present, there is no offi cial breast education<br />
programme for younger women unless a problem is<br />
detected. Chairperson, Margaret Duggan comments<br />
“We are encouraged to have dental checks and eye<br />
tests on a six monthly or yearly basis but a regular<br />
check for breast health is not currently off ered to<br />
women under 50. Yet too many women today are<br />
suff ering with breast disease, particularly breast<br />
cancer, at a much younger age.<br />
Th e mission of Breast of Health is to educate and<br />
promote good practice so women can make informed<br />
choices and have the tools to take responsibility for<br />
their own breast health.”<br />
Breast of Health charity is available to girls from<br />
the age of 16 years to older<br />
women of any age. Th e<br />
emphasis is to highlight the<br />
importance of being proactive<br />
rather than re-active<br />
about breast health and<br />
lifestyle, including nutrition<br />
and fi tness. Th is is delivered by<br />
the charity’s service providers<br />
through talks, workshops and<br />
demonstrations on how to<br />
do a breast self examination<br />
using visual aids, Digital<br />
Th ermography Screening,<br />
and correct bra fi tting and<br />
measurement.<br />
Service Provider, Sue <strong>Bedford</strong><br />
from Pulse Health Screening<br />
said: “Th e Breast of Health<br />
charity programme off ers<br />
help and guidance on breast<br />
self-examination along with<br />
practical ways for women<br />
to maintain a healthy mind<br />
and body”.<br />
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CHARITY<br />
Local women establish new breast charity<br />
Sue <strong>Bedford</strong><br />
Margaret Duggan<br />
If you would like more information on<br />
the Breast of Health charity please visit:<br />
www.breastofhealth.org and nd become a friend oon<br />
Facebook and Twitter.<br />
Or contact Margaret<br />
on: 07791 505511<br />
e: info@breastofhealth.org<br />
£25<br />
FROM COMMUNITY LIFE<br />
BREAST HEALTH EALTH TIPS<br />
• A proper fi tting bra is essential – ensure that you are<br />
measured correctly and professionally every 6 months<br />
• Examine your breasts on a monthly basis. You can attend one<br />
of our presentations or visit your Practice Nurse<br />
• Exercise – if you exercise ensure you have a well fi tted<br />
sports bra, especially if running, jogging, dancing or aerobic<br />
• Eat well with plenty of green veggies, colourful fruit and<br />
vegetables<br />
• Drink water regularly throughout the day and keep alcohol<br />
consumption moderate<br />
• Supplement your diet with good quality Omega-3 fatty acids<br />
• Reduce stress, through meditation, relaxation, exercise,<br />
counselling<br />
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HEALTH<br />
Oxfam’s shops<br />
in <strong>Bedford</strong><br />
Oxfam Bookshop<br />
16 St Paul’s Square (Phone 213768)<br />
Oxfam Shop<br />
91/93 High Street (Phone 269204)<br />
– selling clothes, accessories,<br />
homeware, gifts, FairTrade<br />
food, greetings cards ......<br />
Both helping to raise money for<br />
Oxfam’s vital work across the<br />
world, welcoming customers &<br />
donations of saleable goods!<br />
Thank you for your support.<br />
Know your numbers<br />
Your blood pressure numbers are hugely<br />
important. Yet many of us have no idea<br />
what they are or what they should be.<br />
120/80 is considered to be the optimum level. Th e<br />
fi rst number is your systolic blood pressure - the<br />
highest level your blood pressure reaches when your<br />
heart beats. Th e second number is your diastolic<br />
blood pressure - the lowest level your blood pressure<br />
reaches when your heart relaxes between beats. Th e<br />
higher these numbers are, the higher your risk of<br />
health problems.<br />
Check your BP regularly<br />
Blood pressure increases with age so even in your<br />
thirties you have a 30% chance of having raised blood<br />
pressure, putting you at risk of health problems.High<br />
blood pressure is responsible for 60% of strokes and<br />
40% of heart attacks. Around 16 million people in<br />
the UK have it and it is estimated that a third of these<br />
– more than 5 million people - are unaware of it so<br />
are not taking any steps to reduce it.<br />
Blood Pressure UK believes everyone should know<br />
their blood pressure numbers so everyone can get a<br />
free blood pressure check from September 10th-16th<br />
during their annual awareness campaign, Know Your<br />
Numbers Week!<br />
Th ousands of organisations and health professionals<br />
take part in this award winning event. Free blood<br />
pressure checks are available<br />
at ‘Pressure Stations’ across<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong>shire. So fi nd yours<br />
and get checked!<br />
Enter your postcode at:<br />
www.bloodpressureuk.org/kyn<br />
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A lifeline for Lynne<br />
Lynne and her daughter, Katie<br />
I t was on a family holiday to Jamaica in 2007<br />
that Lynne East from Oakley fi rst started<br />
feeling dizzy and breathless, suff ering from<br />
headaches and having trouble maintaining<br />
her balance.<br />
Her legs were also swollen which she put down to the<br />
heat but when these symptoms continued at home<br />
she began to wonder if it might be something else.<br />
During a routine eye test, the optician noticed an<br />
alarming irregularity and sent her straight to hospital.<br />
On arrival, scans were done and Lynne was admitted.<br />
“I was scared and confused,” she said. “One minute<br />
I was at the opticians, the next I was needing an<br />
immediate operation. I didn’t know what to think.”<br />
Lynne deteriorated and was transferred to a London<br />
hospital where her fi rst operation removed what was<br />
confi rmed to be a brain tumour.<br />
Lynne endured a further eight operations over four<br />
years which at stages left her bed bound and unable<br />
to speak, eat or drink. She suff ered partial paralysis<br />
and needed extensive physiotherapy to enable her<br />
to walk again. She showed tremendous courage,<br />
learning twice over to speak, drink and eat. After<br />
nearly a year of being fed entirely through a tube, the<br />
fi rst solid food Lynne ate was a packet of Quavers!<br />
Lynne told us: “My family and friends had travelled<br />
miles to be by my side. At one stage, it looked like<br />
I wasn’t going to make it but the thought of seeing<br />
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PEOPLE<br />
my daughter Katie at her prom inspired me to keep<br />
going. I was determined to fi ght this all the way for<br />
her and to be at home again.’<br />
Th e family from Oakley received invaluable support<br />
from Th e Brains Trust based in the Isle of Wight.<br />
Founder Dr Helen Bulbeck said: “We aim to provide<br />
help and support to suff erers and their families and<br />
to be there during times when they feel alone and<br />
like no-one understands. Advice, information, phone<br />
lines and online forums are all available day or night.”<br />
For Lynne, they were a true lifeline.<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Hospital staff also became her saviours<br />
when she spent a week there waiting for yet another<br />
operation. Suff ering depression, Lynne says this was<br />
her lowest point and she would never have coped<br />
without them. “Th eir patience, encouragement<br />
and support helped me when I couldn’t see any<br />
light. Th anks to them, I started to gather my<br />
physical, mental and emotional strength again.”<br />
Remarkable inner strength<br />
Today, Lynne lives life day to day. A tiny piece of her<br />
tumour remains, deemed too dangerous to remove.<br />
She has regular scans and relies on painkillers and<br />
medication. Everyday tasks take much longer but<br />
despite the permanent paralysis in her hand and<br />
right side, she still cooks and enjoys gardening. Her<br />
biggest concerns are balance, memory and diffi culty<br />
with facts and fi gures but she meets all her troubles<br />
with a great sense of humour and a remarkable inner<br />
strength. Lynne has been medically retired but she<br />
is happy to be alive, and credits her attitude to her<br />
Mum who passed away from cancer in 2007. She said:<br />
“Mum would have told me to fi ght – and fi ght I did.”<br />
Lynne would like to get in touch with other brain<br />
tumour suff erers in the area and set up a local<br />
support group. If you would like to be put in touch<br />
with Lynne, please contact <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong>. You can<br />
read Lynne’s story in full at www.brainstrust.org.uk<br />
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CHARITY EVENT<br />
Parade In Your Pants 2012 –<br />
this year it’s personal!<br />
Family fundraising days<br />
O<br />
ver 37,400 men will be diagnosed with<br />
a male-specifi c cancer in 2012. From<br />
sons to grandfathers, all men face the risk<br />
of prostate, penile or testicular cancer.<br />
Orchid plays a leading role in the fi ght<br />
against male cancer and a local <strong>Bedford</strong><br />
man and his family raise funds for this<br />
worthy cause in quite a unique and fun<br />
way.<br />
In 2009, Adrian Course was given the<br />
devastating news that he had developed<br />
testicular cancer. After supporting<br />
Adrian through the diffi culties of<br />
diagnosis, treatment and recovery, his<br />
wife, Lisa and sister, Julia decided to do<br />
‘One for the Lads’ and fundraise for Orchid Cancer.<br />
Positive outcome<br />
Lisa told us ‘’We wanted to do our bit in the fi ght<br />
against the disease and help not only the men<br />
aff ected but also their families. Luckily, Adrian’s<br />
outcome was a positive one thanks to the excellent<br />
treatment and support available from Orchid and<br />
our local services but it aff ected us as a family and.<br />
we want to support the fi ght against the disease.’<br />
Parade in Your Pants is an event where men complete<br />
a 5 mile sponsored walk in their pants with pubs en<br />
route! It is now in its’ third year and the team has<br />
got even bigger so the annual Fundraising Day on<br />
September 23rd at Kempston Hammers promises to<br />
be a good one!<br />
Julia said ‘In the fi rst two years, we have raised a<br />
fantastic £19,000 for Orchid Cancer and this year,<br />
with the help of our wonderful participants and<br />
helpers, we want to add to this amount! Th is time,<br />
we want YOU to design your own pants to run, walk<br />
or pub crawl in! It doesn’t have<br />
to be just your pants you can be<br />
creative with – personalise your<br />
entire outfi t and prizes will be<br />
awarded! Th e shy men out there<br />
can just wear their normal clothes<br />
or your shorts over your trousers –<br />
anything goes!’<br />
And it’s not just the walk, the<br />
Adrian Course<br />
Fun Day will be on from 2pm to<br />
5pm to keep the rest of the family<br />
entertained followed by an early disco and raffl e in<br />
the evening! Please join in and help to raise awareness<br />
and funds for a fantastic cause! Not to mention<br />
having a lot of fun along the way!<br />
Saturday 23rd September at Kempston Hammers<br />
You can sign up by visiting:<br />
www.paradeinyourpants.com<br />
Tel: 01234 349488<br />
Lisa 07941 455147 Julia 07966 696784<br />
www.facebook.com/ParadeinyourPants<br />
Twitter: @ParadeinPants<br />
www.orchid-cancer.org.uk<br />
Orchid registered charity number: 1080540<br />
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Skin Types ... what is yours?<br />
Follow this easy guide to determine<br />
your skin type and how to look after<br />
it. Remember to always buy the right<br />
products for your skin type and follow<br />
our best-care tips. Products that are not<br />
appropriate for your skin type will be<br />
ineff ective and could irritate your<br />
skin even more.<br />
Normal Skin: Skin that’s smooth and fi rm<br />
to the touch with small or medium-sized<br />
pores, never gets too dry or too oily and<br />
only suff ers the occasional blemish. Best care<br />
– moisturise, cleanse, use a spot treatment<br />
and maybe a night solution.<br />
Dry Skin: Skin that feels very tight and<br />
is noticeably fl aky in areas. It can be<br />
caused by lack of hydration or malnutrition, can<br />
look rough and bumpy and rarely gets oily. Best<br />
care – a deep moisturiser, use a spot treatment and<br />
also a night serum.<br />
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BEAUTY<br />
Oily Skin: Face is visibly shiny and can be slightly<br />
moist to the touch. Oily skin is more prone<br />
to blemishes and has large pores. Best care –<br />
tone, exfoliate, use a spot treatment and lightly<br />
moisturise once in a while.<br />
Combination Skin: Tends to get oily around<br />
your nose, chin and forehead but dry around<br />
your cheek while the rest of your skin is<br />
pretty normal. Best care – exfoliate, cleanse,<br />
moisturise and use a spot treatment.<br />
Sensitive Skin: You might burn easily, react to<br />
cosmetics and fi nd blemishes hard to treat.<br />
Th is is hard to deal with because it’s not<br />
as tolerant as other skin types and you<br />
must test products thoroughly before<br />
purchase. Best care – use a cleanser,<br />
moisturiser and a spot treatment.<br />
Top Tip: ALWAYS cleanse, tone and moisturise<br />
twice a day – once in the morning before you put<br />
on make-up, and once at night before you go to<br />
bed and STICK to your routine!<br />
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FEATURE<br />
Keep Your Home Safe and beat the burglars<br />
We all want our homes and possessions<br />
to be safe so by working together<br />
and tackling security issues, we can help to<br />
reduce burglary rates in our areas.<br />
Over the last year in <strong>Bedford</strong>shire, domestic burglary<br />
fell by 20%, non-domestic burglary<br />
fell by 24% and by following some<br />
simple security steps, we can<br />
continue to beat this crime.<br />
Did you know that around a<br />
third of all break-ins are the result<br />
of people leaving doors and<br />
windows unlocked? As the nights<br />
start to draw in, the burglary rate<br />
traditionally goes up and simple<br />
security measures can help to<br />
reduce the risk and keep your home safe. Getting<br />
into good habits before you leave the house means<br />
security will become second nature.<br />
Make sure you double lock your doors. If they are<br />
made out of UPVC make sure you push the handle<br />
up when you lock it to ensure all the bolts are in<br />
place. Leaving it on the latch makes is easy for a<br />
burglar to ‘pop’ the door and help himself. Going<br />
out for the night? Leave a few lights on and a plug<br />
your radio into a time so that it comes on,<br />
suggesting someone’s home. If it seems too<br />
risky, burglars won’t bother.<br />
Bogus callers<br />
Th ese days, distraction burglaries are<br />
very common and ‘bogus callers’ posing as<br />
private or council workers talk their way into<br />
your home or divert your attention. Always answer<br />
the door with the chain on and ask for identifi cation.<br />
Th ere will be a number on the card you can call while<br />
they wait. You are under no obligation to allow them<br />
in so if you are not sure of their identity, DON’T.<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong>shire Police continue the crackdown on<br />
this crime and actively encourage people to keep<br />
their homes safe and are always available to off er<br />
help and advice to the community. Assistant<br />
Chief Constable Andrew Richer said: “We continue<br />
to arrest and prosecute those people actively<br />
committing burglaries. Th is crime is not acceptable<br />
in our communities and we make it our priority to<br />
protect people and their property.”<br />
Please contact <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Police if you have<br />
any information about burglary. Anyone who has<br />
information but does not wish to contact police<br />
direct, can contact Crimestoppers, anonymously,<br />
on 0800 555111.<br />
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Assistant Chief Constable Andrew Richer<br />
Tips to keep your home safe<br />
C Double lock all UPVC doors<br />
C Ensure doors and windows are<br />
properly locked Security mark your<br />
property<br />
C Install a visible burglar alarm — Use<br />
security lights<br />
C Leave lights and radio on when out<br />
C Secure sheds and garages with good<br />
quality locks<br />
C Don’t hide keys under mats<br />
fl owerpots<br />
0845 30 30 900<br />
www.victimsupport.org.uk<br />
Emergency: 999<br />
Non-Emergency: 101<br />
www.bedfordshire.police.uk<br />
ALARM DOCTOR<br />
Old and Sick Alarms, Fire Alarms & CCTV<br />
Repaired and Serviced<br />
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01234 348572<br />
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To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylife.co.uk<br />
FEATURE<br />
4SEASONS<br />
SECURITY<br />
PAUL MULLINGS<br />
07860<br />
278872<br />
4seasonssecurity@ gmail.com<br />
www.4seasonssecurity.com<br />
Specialising in Burglar Alarms<br />
& Security Systems<br />
KEYHOLDING<br />
SERVICES<br />
If your premises are suffi ciently protected<br />
by an intruder alarm system, Arena Security<br />
can save your staff or neighbours the risk<br />
and inconvenience of being called out when<br />
an alarm goes off.<br />
Keys are kept in totally secure custody. Upon alarm<br />
activation we will send a licensed Response<br />
Offi cer to check the premises, reset alarms and, if<br />
necessary, remain in the premises until your staff<br />
or alarm engineer arrive. All operations are carried<br />
out to high standards of BS7984 and with<br />
complete co-operation with Police Authorities.<br />
Offi cers are fully monitored by our Control<br />
Centre operatives to ensure their total safety.<br />
01234 739031<br />
ARENA<br />
SECURITY<br />
www.arenasecurity.co.uk<br />
We also supply:<br />
Mobile Patrols and Security Offi cers<br />
13
I<br />
CHARITY EVENT<br />
n its 11th year, Memory Walk is Alzheimer’s<br />
Society’s biggest annual fundraiser. <strong>Bedford</strong>’s<br />
Memory Walk will take place on Sunday<br />
16 September 2012. Th e walk is suitable for all ages<br />
and takes place at Priory County Park, starting at<br />
10.30am. Both routes –1.5 or 8 miles – are traffi c free.<br />
With entertainment and refreshments, it will be a<br />
family day to remember.<br />
More than 4,500 people in <strong>Bedford</strong>shire live with<br />
dementia and money raised from the walk will help<br />
fund vital services for them and their carers including<br />
support groups, drop-in centres, allotment projects ,<br />
home visits and ‘music for memory’ sessions.<br />
Sarah Russell, Development Worker, Alzheimer’s<br />
Society, <strong>Bedford</strong>, said: “Families, friends, colleagues<br />
and individuals can walk together to raise money to<br />
help local people with dementia. A special thanks to<br />
Mayor Dave Hodgson and Richard Fuller MP for being<br />
amongst the fi rst to sign up for this year’s 8-mile route.<br />
I hope many more <strong>Bedford</strong>ians take up the challenge.”<br />
Registration is free and you will receive a welcome<br />
pack through the post with more details and<br />
information. Th e organisers hope that each walker<br />
can raise an average of £50.<br />
Register at www.memorywalk.org.uk<br />
or call Liz Simmonds 07803 191563 or<br />
email: bedfordmemorywalk@hotmail.co.uk<br />
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A fabulous treatment before a night out<br />
Designed to target puff y eyes, dark<br />
circles, lines and visibly lift the eyes,<br />
the Ultimate Eye Treatment sounds like<br />
a miracle.<br />
I went along to Rani’s Beauty in Lime Street to<br />
fi nd out. Rani explained: ‘Th is is a very popular<br />
and aff ordable treatment. It is like training<br />
your eyes muscles and you can achieve an<br />
improvement over several treatments without<br />
the need for more invasive procedures. Th e<br />
more you ‘train’ the muscles this way, the better<br />
they respond’.<br />
Th e fi rst stage was to cleanse the skin and<br />
massage around the delicate eye areas to drain<br />
toxins. Th e second stage used galvanic probes<br />
which were moved gently around the eye area<br />
and forehead, passing a microcurrent<br />
through, which detoxifi es and stimulates.<br />
Immediate diff erence<br />
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />
BEAUTY<br />
Th e fi nal element was a refreshing botanical<br />
gel based eye mask, blended to suit individual<br />
skin types. An eye fi rming cream provided the<br />
fi nishing touches.<br />
It was more than I expected. I could see an<br />
immediate diff erence and my eyelids were visibly<br />
lifted! A fabulous treatment to have before<br />
a night out or a one off but for longer lasting<br />
results, Rani recommends six initial treatments<br />
then monthly maintenance. A very impressive<br />
45 minute treatment that performed as it<br />
promised and at £20 — absolutely worth it.<br />
Rani’s Beauty, Lime Street - 01234 930159<br />
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CHARITY<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Daycare Hospice celebrate 20 Years!<br />
H<br />
Looking forward to the next 20 years caring for people<br />
ow do you feel when the word hospice is mentioned? Th ere are diff erent<br />
interpretations or personal experiences surrounding the word. A hospice is much<br />
more than you may think -it is a philosophy of care. Hospice care commits to helping<br />
patients remain as alert and pain-free as possible, maintaining their dignity and being<br />
sensitive to all their needs.<br />
At <strong>Bedford</strong> Daycare Hospice, an independent charity<br />
based at Gladys Ibbett House on Linden Road, the<br />
focus is on the person and their family. Th ey treat the<br />
person, not just the disease and include the patient<br />
and the family in all decisions.<br />
Now celebrating their 20th year, the team pride<br />
themselves on their care, support and dedication<br />
and look forward to another 20 years helping people.<br />
Working closely with MacMillan Nurses, GPS &<br />
District Nurses, they provide daily specialist palliative<br />
care to people aff ected by cancer or other life<br />
limiting illness, helping to enhance the quality of<br />
life for up to 70 patients a week. Th e patients that<br />
attend here are able to take part in a wide range of<br />
activities and there are additional services including<br />
a Lymphoedema Service, Cancer Information<br />
Support Service, Benefi ts Advice, Support Groups,<br />
Counselling and Education Programmes.<br />
Invaluable support is off ered to the carers, family<br />
members and close friends. Sue attended the hospice<br />
during her treatment through cancer and credits<br />
them for the support they gave her ‘I could never<br />
have got through my cancer if it hadn’t been for<br />
everyone there. Also, the wonderful friends I met<br />
there have made everything much easier to cope<br />
with. Th ank you.’<br />
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With 12 staff members and over 75 volunteers, they<br />
work tirelessly to raise funds so they can continue<br />
to provide excellent standards of specialist care<br />
and continue to help the patient to feel valued and<br />
worthwhile. Th e events are varied and many include<br />
fancy dress and lots of fun!. From bungee jumps to<br />
Pamper evenings, reading groups to Italian theme<br />
nights, they are forever creating new ways to raise<br />
money and everyone gives their time happily. Th ey<br />
are supported well by local businesses who give their<br />
goods and services to assist these fabulous events..<br />
Teamwork and dedication<br />
Fundraising & Facilities Manager Babs Astle explains<br />
the personal commitment they hold to the patients<br />
and families ‘When people come to us, we provide<br />
a real home from home environment and have<br />
a highly skilled multi-disciplinary team to off er<br />
support. We are with them for their whole journey.<br />
Th e families can also gain support from us -we are<br />
here to help them cope too. Th e volunteers are our<br />
life blood and we just could not function without<br />
them- their contribution is priceless. We all work as<br />
a team and are dedicated to our patients and<br />
families’<br />
Taking care of people’s physical needs<br />
is just as essential as looking after<br />
their emotional, spiritual and social needs.<br />
‘Ways Ahead’ Salon off ers a consultation<br />
and advice service for those experiencing<br />
hair loss while the complementary therapy<br />
rooms include Massage, Refl exology, Indian Head<br />
Massage and Reiki treatments.<br />
Tuesday’s are ‘pop in’ time for people who have<br />
been newly diagnosed. Sam Edhouse who attends<br />
says ‘I receive support from fellow patients through<br />
good and bad<br />
times. Th e staff<br />
and volunteers are<br />
wonderful and give<br />
us the opportunity<br />
to share experiences<br />
and meet new<br />
friends. Everything<br />
that is available<br />
here really has made<br />
such a diff erence<br />
to my wellbeing.<br />
Th ey always have<br />
Sam and Phil Edhouse time for you, seeing<br />
Bab Astle with Daycare volunteers<br />
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />
CHARITY<br />
past the illness to the person you are and make you<br />
feel important and valued. I treasure the friends I<br />
have made here and the support has made such a<br />
diff erence to myself, my husband and my family.’<br />
Th e hospice itself is warm and welcoming with an<br />
incredible spirit of unity.<br />
Bob who also attends the hospice says<br />
‘For me it has been a great support over the<br />
last couple of years, providing practical<br />
help with unconditional kindness,<br />
friendship and love’<br />
Lorraine Womack, partner of a patient,<br />
says sa ‘It is an irony that this service is<br />
probably the only thing a terminally ill patient<br />
won’t have to pay for and yet one of the most<br />
valuable. Th ey rely on donations, fundraising and<br />
volunteers to provide such invaluable support to<br />
our loved ones. Please support the fantastic work<br />
here as they provide a lifeline to people and with<br />
their care, compassion and skills make life a little<br />
easier at a time that is so diffi cult to cope with.’<br />
You can make a diff erence<br />
At a time when charities have felt the eff ect of<br />
funding cuts, it is more important than<br />
ever to continue to work hard to keep<br />
their services going. If you could<br />
make the diff erence and would like<br />
to volunteer or even arrange your<br />
own fundraising event, please<br />
contact Babs on 01234 352015.<br />
www.bedforddaycarehospice.co.uk<br />
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VOLUNTEERING<br />
Th e Volunteer Centre <strong>Bedford</strong><br />
Paul and two regular volunteers at the <strong>Bedford</strong> River Festival<br />
What is Th e Volunteer Centre?<br />
Th e Volunteer Centre <strong>Bedford</strong>, based in Bromham<br />
Road, is part of <strong>Community</strong> and Voluntary Services<br />
(CVS), recruiting volunteers for <strong>Bedford</strong>shire’s local<br />
charities and community groups. Th ey off er support<br />
and help to charities, ensuring their volunteers are<br />
treated well, the role descriptions are appropriate and<br />
that a volunteer has great volunteering experience.<br />
What types of work can I do?<br />
• Mentoring young people/adults with special needs<br />
• Advice work • Conservation work<br />
• Offi ce admin work • Campaigning & fundraising<br />
• Volunteering with disabled children<br />
• Volunteering with homeless people<br />
• Befriending • Charity shops<br />
• Gardening • Event organising<br />
• Youth project for young people in Central Beds<br />
Why volunteer?<br />
Volunteering’s hugely rewarding. It makes you feel<br />
good to off er help to others and you develop and<br />
improve your confi dence and self-esteem. You will<br />
learn new skills and meet lots of diff erent types of<br />
people. It’s an excellent way to spend spare time if you<br />
have young children and commitments but would<br />
like to do something more, are retired, studying or<br />
in between jobs.<br />
Th ere are volunteer opportunities to suit all ages<br />
from all walks of life. Volunteering could lead to a<br />
new career and often involves training that will help<br />
and support you.<br />
Would-be employers are often impressed if you give<br />
your own time volunteering. It shows you have other<br />
interests which you can talk about at an interview.<br />
Volunteer work can give you a reference and will help<br />
you fi ll any gaps on your CV.<br />
How much time would I give?<br />
You can volunteer from 1–30 hours a week. Th ese<br />
hours won’t aff ect any benefi ts you might receive<br />
and most organisations will pay travel expenses.<br />
Where do I fi nd out more?<br />
New volunteer sessions are held each week at Th e<br />
Volunteer Centre in <strong>Bedford</strong> from 10am–1pm.<br />
You don’t need an appointment and you can chat<br />
to an advisor about the type of volunteering you’re<br />
looking for. You can be put in touch with any<br />
organisation you’re interested in, while 13–18-yearolds<br />
living in the Central Beds area can join our Youth<br />
Project.<br />
To fi nd out more, call Bec or Paul on 01234 213100.<br />
43 Bromham Road, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 2AA<br />
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Sitting down can damage your health ...<br />
staying perched on our derrieres all<br />
day is offi cially bad for your health!<br />
Over half of our day is spent sitting and this can result<br />
in poor posture, balance and mobility as well as pain<br />
in your lower back, neck and hip. Your body adapts<br />
to constant sitting, making you less<br />
skilled at basic functions like standing,<br />
walking, running and jumping.<br />
When big muscles like your legs are<br />
immobile, your circulation slows and<br />
the calorie burning rate slows to 1 per<br />
minute. For every two hours a day spent<br />
sitting, your chance of contracting<br />
diabetes goes up by 7% and your risk of<br />
heart disease increases.<br />
Sitting too much is also hell on posture<br />
and spine health. When you sit all day,<br />
your hip fl exors and hamstrings shorten<br />
Bad for your health<br />
Want the Celebrity look?<br />
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BOOKINGS NOW BEING TAKEN — Tel 01234 930 159<br />
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10A Lime Street, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 1LD<br />
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www.ranisbeauty.com<br />
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylife.co.uk<br />
HEALTH<br />
and tighten while the muscles that support your<br />
spine become weak and stiff resulting in chronic<br />
lower back pain.<br />
Even if you exercise, you are not immune! 30 minutes<br />
a day at the gym may not do enough to counteract<br />
the eff ects of up to10 hours of sitting. It is one big<br />
reason many women still struggle with<br />
weight, blood sugar, and cholesterol<br />
despite consistent workouts.<br />
So, next time you reach for the remote,<br />
think twice! But don’t worry, there<br />
are ways to improve this with simple<br />
lifestyle changes and taking better care<br />
of your body .<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Chiropractic Clinic can help<br />
you make these changes.<br />
Call 01234 353937 for more<br />
information about Spinal Checks.<br />
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YOUTH<br />
Put Your Spare Room to Good Use!<br />
It has been a busy yet successful year for the<br />
YMCA <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Supported Lodgings<br />
Scheme. A positive response from the local<br />
community has resulted in the recruitment<br />
and training of twelve <strong>Community</strong> Hosts.<br />
Th ese hosts off er a combination of Supported<br />
Lodgings and Crash Pad placements to homeless and<br />
vulnerable young people across <strong>Bedford</strong>shire. As of<br />
September Supported Lodgings Placements will be<br />
provided to seven young people .<br />
Rosalyn heard of the scheme just as her own grown<br />
up children were moving on. “I was so interested<br />
in the idea of giving a young person a safe and<br />
supportive place in which to settle down and do the<br />
vital things around growing up and making good<br />
choices – those years 16-18 are so important. I also<br />
fancied some company and youthful energy back in<br />
the house!”<br />
Excellent progress<br />
Debbie, a community host, was a foster carer for<br />
many years and wanted to work with the older age<br />
range. “I think there is a real need for this kind of<br />
scheme, promoting independent living skills, giving<br />
good boundaries for young people to live within and<br />
move on in their lives.<br />
“Th e young person who transferred to Supported<br />
Lodgings with me has been here for 5 months now<br />
and all is going well. Th ere have been a few challenges<br />
but she is making excellent progress and I am looking<br />
forward to seeing her achieve even more of her goals!”<br />
Th e young person lodging with Debbie says: “I’ve<br />
been in the scheme for 17 weeks now and it has<br />
completely turned my life around.<br />
“I am now more independent and practical and I feel<br />
happier. It is a scheme that works with you and not for<br />
you. It is also a stepping stone to the big wide world.”<br />
So if you have a spare room, an interest<br />
in young people and being involved in a<br />
community project where you can share your<br />
life experience and skills, please contact:<br />
Amy Elliott on 01234 307040 or 07508807441<br />
or email: amy@ymcabedfordshire.org.uk for<br />
an information pack or informal discussion.<br />
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THE BEDFORD OUSE<br />
VALLEY STROKE CLUB<br />
Helping you and your<br />
family after your illness<br />
Have you had a<br />
stroke?<br />
Are you dealing with<br />
someone who has had<br />
a stroke?<br />
WE WANT TO HELP YOU<br />
For more information on the<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Ouse Valley Stroke<br />
Club please call:<br />
Cliff Broughton -01234<br />
214849<br />
Or visit our website:-<br />
www.ousevalleystroke.org.uk<br />
Beauty Salon<br />
Waxing & Hair Removal<br />
Dermalogica Facials<br />
Manicures<br />
Pedicures<br />
Gel Nails<br />
Massage<br />
Botox & Fillers by G.P.<br />
Hair Salon<br />
Cutting<br />
Colouring<br />
Styling<br />
Special Occasions<br />
. . . . . . . . . Plus much more<br />
Professional<br />
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&<br />
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Book an<br />
appointment with our<br />
Professional<br />
Hair Stylists and<br />
Beauty Therapists, and<br />
experience the<br />
ShipShape service.<br />
71-73 High St. Kempston.<br />
01234 841416<br />
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />
Counselling<br />
Training<br />
Find out about the wide range of<br />
nationally accredited counselling<br />
courses we deliver by calling:<br />
01234 - 930454<br />
Visit:<br />
www.independentcounsellingtraining.com<br />
OPEN DAY<br />
SATURDAY, 8TH SEPTEMBER<br />
(10AM - 2PM)<br />
12 St Cuthberts Street, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 3JB<br />
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VOLUNTEERING<br />
Volunteering Opportunities<br />
Can you give some time to help others?<br />
Learning Support Assistant Adults<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Borough<br />
To provide help and support to learners in a wide range of subjects<br />
and a variety of community settings and classrooms.<br />
Volunteer Boatmaster Skippers<br />
We run support and educational services in our wheelchair<br />
accessible boats and are looking for a supervisor to oversee the<br />
preparation of the boat before each trip and helping to clean it<br />
afterwards.<br />
Receptionist/Clerical assistant<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Borough<br />
To provide help and provide assistance to the offi ce staff and to<br />
support learners with form fi lling and course information.<br />
Note Taker<br />
To interview and take notes from clients with regard to their<br />
fi nancial situation and pass the details onto a trained Debt Advisor.<br />
Youth Inclusion Project Worker<br />
To work alongside children aged 6-12 years old attending the<br />
Youth Inclusion Project. Mondays 6-8pm.<br />
My Guide - Volunteer Level 1 Accredited<br />
To support a blind or partially sighted persons safe negotiation of<br />
the environment. Training provided.<br />
Mentoring young off enders to build<br />
a life without crime<br />
We are looking for volunteer mentors to work with young off enders<br />
aged 18-21. Mentors will work with their mentees for 6 months<br />
whilst in prison, and for up to 9 months after release. High quality<br />
training is provided before and during your mentoring relationships.<br />
Trailblazers are holding informal information events to fi nd<br />
out more and meet the staff . HMPYOI Littlehey on Saturday 22nd<br />
September 10 am-12 noon and Sunday 7th October10am -12 noon,<br />
Sunday 7th October, 10 am - 12 noon.<br />
Administrator<br />
To welcome visitors, answer the telephone and take messages, fi ling<br />
and typing. Arranging and attending meetings when necessary.<br />
Town Centre Shop Worker & Customer Support<br />
We are looking for enthusiastic volunteers to help our<br />
expansion by joining the retail team as a Shop Worker/<br />
Customer Support role.<br />
Call: 01234 213100 43 Bromham Road, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 2AA www.voluntaryworks.org.uk<br />
THE<br />
WHITE HART PRESS<br />
OF<br />
QUALITY PRINTING<br />
Est. 1987<br />
01234 270465<br />
www.whitehartpress.co.uk<br />
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A DAY IN THE LIFE ...<br />
Home-Start are a <strong>Bedford</strong> charity<br />
providing help and support to families<br />
with children in need. Th ey off er trained<br />
befrienders to enable these families to cope<br />
and learn to learn skills they need for family<br />
life. ‘Parents supporting Parents’ is their<br />
ethos and all their volunteers are already<br />
parents of varying ages.<br />
At 21, Sara Waggott from <strong>Bedford</strong> is one of their<br />
youngest volunteers. Sara shares with us her typical<br />
day with her ‘family’.<br />
“In 2009, I had my son and I was lucky to have the<br />
support of a great family. It was hard being so young<br />
and having a lot of responsibility. Th ere were times I<br />
didn’t know where to turn but thanks to my family<br />
support, I coped. I always wanted to work with<br />
children so after completing my NVQ Level 2, I<br />
looked for something I could do while still caring for<br />
my son. I found Home-Start and never looked back.<br />
Helping daily challenges<br />
My ‘family’ are wonderful. I was nervous when I fi rst<br />
met them but the Home-Start training gave me the<br />
confi dence and knowledge I needed. When I met<br />
them, Mum was still living at home and I supported<br />
her through the transition to the new home, a<br />
stressful time for them all but they are settled and<br />
happy now. Dad has autism and Mum has mild<br />
learning disabilities so they still face daily challenges<br />
that I help them through.<br />
Today I spend some time with her sorting out some<br />
letters and bills, help her to make some calls and run<br />
through her shopping budget to help plan healthy<br />
family meals. She needs some guidance and likes<br />
being shown once and then she can manage from<br />
there. Th e support I off er makes a real diff erence.<br />
Th en we make some blueberry muffi ns. She loves<br />
cooking with the children and always has the<br />
ingredients ready, I just help her to measure and<br />
follow the recipe. Th e girls really enjoyed helping and<br />
Sara Waggott<br />
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylife.co.uk<br />
VOLUNTEERING<br />
it is good for them all to bond and share an activity.<br />
One of their daughters has autism, so later we played<br />
some Wii Bowling which is not only fun but also<br />
helps with her hand to eye co-ordination.<br />
One thing I don’t do is housework but I help her to<br />
get organised and provide practical help if needed. I<br />
recently supported her at a college interview and she<br />
is now successfully enrolled on a course.<br />
We spend some time talking and this is a chance for<br />
any worries to be shared in confi dence. Simply being<br />
there to listen is often enough to help. She says she<br />
likes my level headedness and the fact that I never<br />
pass judgement.<br />
Time to walk the dog – in the rain of course! Th e girls<br />
really enjoy the visits, we often draw and paint and I<br />
help mum get involved with these activities too.<br />
I enjoy every minute, it is hugely rewarding. I have<br />
been with my family for a year now and they are<br />
coping so much better. It’s an incredible feeling to<br />
know I have been a part of this. I highly recommend<br />
this kind of volunteering. It’s not always easy and<br />
it takes patience and commitment. Th ere are high<br />
standards to meet, not to mention some paperwork<br />
but it has helped me to develop as a person and a<br />
mum and I have gained great skills along the way.”<br />
If you are interested in becoming<br />
a Home-Start volunteer,<br />
please call Wendie on 01234 270601.<br />
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PEOPLE<br />
TAKING THE CURVES<br />
<strong>Life</strong> is a journey, and the life stages and<br />
circumstances are similar for most<br />
people – starting out, making partnerships,<br />
careers, children, juggling demands, hitting<br />
unexpected obstacles, all these can be seen<br />
as curves in the road.<br />
So what makes some marriages and partnerships<br />
last a lifetime while others skid on the fi rst curve?<br />
No two relationships are the same, but there seem<br />
to be the same fi ve<br />
characteristics in<br />
most successful<br />
relationships.<br />
Be realistic. It’s<br />
tricky out there and<br />
things won’t always<br />
go smoothly.<br />
Marriage is not a<br />
fairytale ending.<br />
People cannot be<br />
perfect but they can<br />
try and accept their<br />
partners’ failings – obviously within reason.<br />
Relationships need compromise<br />
Don’t take each other for granted. Over time, roles,<br />
responsibilities and expectations become fi xed<br />
in relationships. Over time, these will need to be<br />
reviewed and renegotiated depending on the new life<br />
stage and the current challenges and responsibilities.<br />
Communication is vital, but simply talking isn’t the<br />
answer. Th e important thing about communicating<br />
is the interaction between talking, really listening and<br />
trying to understand. It is about having emotional<br />
intelligence, the ability to empathise and be honest<br />
and fair with each other.<br />
Putting words into actions. Turn discussion<br />
into actions – the actions may not be huge but<br />
they do need to happen. Do not over promise<br />
and underperform – on the other hand do show<br />
commitment to really making change. Negotiate and<br />
be prepared to compromise.<br />
Managing Confl ict. Research into successful<br />
relationships indicates that managing confl ict is<br />
the real crunch point and seems to have the most<br />
signifi cant eff ect on relationships.<br />
Confl ict is inevitable but it is how it is resolved that<br />
makes relationships work. Some people squabble,<br />
others argue and<br />
some walk away.<br />
Th e overall goal<br />
of addressing the<br />
issue isn’t about<br />
who wins, it’s<br />
about resolving the<br />
situation.<br />
Valdation. Putting<br />
the other person<br />
down and being<br />
over controlling<br />
won’t help, nor will<br />
dragging up past issues. Stick with the present and<br />
try to focus on the resolution.Th e most important<br />
thing is that each recognises, even in confl ict, the<br />
other person’s point of view.<br />
Most people want to be in a loving, supportive,<br />
adaptive relationship for the long haul but the<br />
journey can be over some tricky terrain, so keep an<br />
eye out for the next curve in the road.<br />
Can we help?<br />
01234 356350<br />
www.relatebedsandluton.org.uk to fi nd out more<br />
appointments@relatebedsandluton.org.uk<br />
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The British Heart Foundation has<br />
fantastic events for schools and youth<br />
groups to enjoy<br />
The nation’s heart charity has three activity-based fundraising events for teachers, youth<br />
leaders and workers to help them show their children that keeping fit and healthy can be fun,<br />
whilst raising funds for their school, nursery or youth group. These fantastic activities are<br />
suitable for children of all abilities. They are simple to organise and we provide everything<br />
needed to organise a fun, successful event.<br />
Artie’s Olympics<br />
For 8 years old and under<br />
A fabulous event that encourages children to get active and have fun<br />
through taking part in a number of games and activities, which once they<br />
are familiar with, are carried out in front of an audience of their friends and<br />
family.<br />
Gold medal stickers, balloons, laurel crowns, posters and sponsorship<br />
forms are provided as well as an organiser’s guide.<br />
Ultimate Dodgeball<br />
For 7 – 16 year olds<br />
Jump Rope for Heart<br />
For 5 – 13 year olds<br />
A popular skipping event that encourages children to learn<br />
skipping skills, either individually, in pairs or in groups.<br />
Skipping is great fun and a superb way to get kids active.<br />
The kit provided (worth up to £100) includes skipping ropes,<br />
activity cards, posters and sponsorship forms, as well as an<br />
organiser’s guide.<br />
A great way for children of different ages and abilities to have fun and get<br />
active. Just choose your teams, create a team identity and organise your<br />
own fun event.<br />
The kit provided (worth £30) includes three dodgeballs, teaching resources, posters and<br />
sponsorship forms, as well as an organiser’s guide.<br />
How to find out more about these great events<br />
Visit bhf.org.uk/schools Call 01892 893 913 Email youngfun@bhf.org.uk
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />
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Tim Layman/rspb-images.com<br />
Take Me Home<br />
MORTIMER BLUE MIA<br />
He is one of the most friendly & chatty cats<br />
we’ve met. (healthy 16yr-old) likes to spend<br />
time with humans on their lap.<br />
Wood Green Heydon 0844 2488181<br />
2 year old male ginger and white,<br />
Seeks nice, quiet home, no other animals<br />
or children.<br />
RSPCA <strong>Bedford</strong>shire North 0845 6036137<br />
Rhinoceros hornbills<br />
T<br />
esco and the RSPB have<br />
joined forces for an exciting<br />
new partnership, Together For<br />
Trees, to raise over £1 million<br />
towards protecting and restoring<br />
tropical rainforests all over the<br />
world from Asia and Africa to the<br />
Caribbean.<br />
Tropical rainforests are home to at<br />
least six million diff erent species,<br />
including some of the world’s<br />
most endangered wildlife. Every<br />
four seconds an area the size of a<br />
football pitch is chopped down for<br />
Blue is a gorgeous, very friendly rabbit who<br />
would love a home with a spayed female<br />
rabbit to fall in love with!<br />
Wood Green Heydon 0844 2488181<br />
ALFIE BETTY<br />
Female, shorthaired and a crossbreed,<br />
13 year-old young, very loving, happiest as<br />
the only pet.<br />
RSPCA <strong>Bedford</strong>shire North 0845 6036137<br />
commercial gain. Your support will<br />
help save threatened species such<br />
as sun bears, agile gibbons, clouded<br />
leopards and rhinoceros hornbills.<br />
Funds will enable vital conservation<br />
work to be carried out and provide<br />
important equipment for teams of<br />
researchers and conservationists.<br />
Th e RSPB will be holding bucket<br />
collections at participating Tesco<br />
stores across the UK on Friday 21st<br />
and Saturday 22nd September 2012<br />
as part of the Together For Trees<br />
National Collection.<br />
Local collections<br />
Your local store collections are<br />
being held at <strong>Bedford</strong> Metro,<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Cardington Road Extra and<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Riverfi eld Drive Superstore.<br />
Th ey urgently need 80 more<br />
volunteers in the area - you don’t<br />
To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylife.co.uk<br />
ANIMALS<br />
Mia is a lively young girl looking for a home<br />
where she will have the guidance and<br />
training that she needs.<br />
Wood Green Godmanchester 0844 2488181<br />
HERMIONE<br />
Female, shorthaired, tabby, approx 18<br />
months old. Can be with other cats, maybe<br />
a dog. Loves a fuss.<br />
RSPCA <strong>Bedford</strong>shire North 0845 6036137<br />
Rainforests need you<br />
need any special knowledge to take<br />
part in bucket collections, just a<br />
winning smile!<br />
Please get involved and help save<br />
the rainforests.<br />
If you would like to sign up for a<br />
collection at a Tesco store near<br />
you, please visit:<br />
www.rspb.org.uk/bucketcollections<br />
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RESOURCES & WHATS ON<br />
Resources What’s on<br />
Alcoholics Anonymous 0845 769 7555<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Borough Council 01234 267422<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Hospital 01234 355122<br />
Benefi ts for People with disabilities 0800 882200<br />
Carers Line 0808 808 7777<br />
Central <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Council 0300 300 8000<br />
Childline 0800 1111<br />
Crimestoppers UK 0800 555 111<br />
Cruse Bereavement Care 0870 167 1677<br />
Emergency Services 999 or 112<br />
Non-Emergency Police Line 101<br />
Floodline 0845 988 1188<br />
Frank Drugs Advisory 0800 776600<br />
Housing Services Immigration Advisory 020 7373 9191<br />
Learndirect 0800 030 4690<br />
Lesbian & Gay Switch Board 020 7837 7324<br />
Missing People 0500 700 700<br />
National Debt Line 0808 808 4000<br />
National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247<br />
National Gas Emergency 0800 111 999<br />
NHS Direct 0845 4647<br />
NSPCC 0808 800 5000<br />
Parentline Plus 0808 800 2222<br />
Stop Hate UK 24rh Helpline 0800 138 1625<br />
Late Night Pharmacies 08457 48 49 50<br />
Relate 08457 48 49 50<br />
RSPCA Cruelty Line 0300 1234 999<br />
Samaritans 08457 90 90 90<br />
Shelterline 0808 800 4444<br />
Tax Credit Helpline 0845 300 3900<br />
Victim Support 0845 30 30 900<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Clanger Run Road Victims Trust Charity<br />
Vehicle Rally Box End Park Kempston<br />
Sunday 16th September. Forms 01234 843345 –<br />
enquiries@rvtrust.co.uk<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong>shire Fire Station Open Day<br />
Saturday 15th September, 1pm to 4pm<br />
Barkers Lane, <strong>Bedford</strong>.<br />
Alzheimer’s Society Memory Walk<br />
Priory Marina <strong>Bedford</strong> Sunday 16th September<br />
10.30am start call Liz 07803 191563<br />
www.memorywalk.org.uk<br />
Wood Green Animal Fun Day<br />
Sunday 16th September 10-4pm<br />
£2 Adults Kings Bush Farm London Rd,<br />
Godmanchester Cambridgeshire<br />
Every Wednesday night at Th e White Horse,<br />
Newnham Avenue Charity Pub Quiz<br />
Call Sue or Nigel on 01234 409306<br />
Th e Great Balloon Race –Caremark (<strong>Bedford</strong>)<br />
raising funds for Beds Daycare Hospice.<br />
Saturday September 15th at <strong>Bedford</strong> Park -<br />
£2 entry- www.caremark.co.uk/bedford<br />
Parade In your Pants – Orchid Cancer- Kempston<br />
Hammers Saturday 15th September-Sponsored<br />
Walk at 10am & Family Fun Day till 5pm.<br />
www.paradeinyourpants.com<br />
50+ Bingo Night at Th e Guild House Wednesday<br />
26th September 7.30pm, £10 per person, supper,<br />
bingo, raffl e. Bring your own drinks, glasses<br />
supplied. 56 Harpur Street <strong>Bedford</strong> 01234 352038<br />
Riseley Show and Fayre Saturday 8th September<br />
Riseley Playing Fields from 1pm, Cookery, Arts &<br />
Crafts, Ouse Valley Swing Band, Rally & Vintage<br />
Vehicle Display Admission £1, under 14’s 50p<br />
<strong>Bedford</strong> Rotaract Club 18-30 meet up every<br />
Tuesday 8.30pm at Embankment Pub. First<br />
weekend of the month at Swan Hotel.<br />
www.bedfordrotaract.org.uk<br />
Please email us your local community events<br />
by the 15th of the month for publication the<br />
following month J<br />
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