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Community Life Magazine - Bedford Issue 1

Community Life magazine is a fresh approach to showcasing community life. Focussing on local charities, volunteers, wellbeing, local animal shelters, champions of the community. This edition is Bedford - 1st edition.

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<strong>Issue</strong>: 01 - September 2012<br />

...it’s all about <strong>Bedford</strong>!<br />

PEOPLE - PROJECTS - CHARITY - HEALTH & WELLBEING - LIFESTYLE - BUSINESS<br />

BEDFORD<br />

DAYCARE<br />

HOSPICE<br />

Supporting the people<br />

Adopt Me<br />

see pg.29<br />

of <strong>Bedford</strong> for 20 years ... your FREE copy


If you have already been to us at <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Hearing Healthcare you<br />

will know that we pride ourselves on doing what’s right for you.<br />

We are proud members of the Association of Independent Hearing<br />

Healthcare Professionals (AIHHP) which is a well respected, professional<br />

association dedicated to promoting excellence within the UK<br />

Hearing Care profession.<br />

We are now proud to have the wonderful opportunity, along with<br />

other AIHHP Members across the country, to be involved with the<br />

charity Help for Heroes. In conjunction with Phonak (hearing aid<br />

manufacturer), we will be fitting hearing aids free of charge to our<br />

country’s war heroes who have suffered a hearing loss whilst serving<br />

in the Armed Services.<br />

These men and women are ordinary people doing extraordinary things<br />

for our country, and some of them are living with the consequences<br />

of their service for life.<br />

We are extremely gratified that we can be of help and if you know of<br />

anyone who could benefit, or would like advice on your hearing loss,<br />

call:<br />

01234 348144<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong>shire Hearing Healthcare, 52 Harpur Street, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK42 0HD<br />

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Editor<br />

Teresa Brooks<br />

T: 01234 310521<br />

M: 07429 136815<br />

E: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

Advertising Manager<br />

Marie Rugg<br />

T: 01234 930634<br />

M: 07761 472164<br />

E: communitylifemag@yahoo.co.uk<br />

Front Cover Image<br />

Richard Corbyn<br />

Design & Artwork<br />

tweet: @doodlemunky<br />

Production<br />

info@tmmedia.co.uk<br />

Printed by<br />

White Hart Press, <strong>Bedford</strong><br />

Publisher<br />

Brooks Media<br />

Th e <strong>Community</strong><br />

<strong>Life</strong> Donation<br />

Every month, we will make a £25<br />

donation from our advertising<br />

revenues to one of the charities<br />

or projects in our magazine so<br />

look out for<br />

the star! £25<br />

FROM COMMUNITY LIFE<br />

Disclaimer<br />

All adverts and editorial are printed in<br />

good faith. While we make every eff ort to<br />

ensure the reliability and accuracy of the<br />

material contained in <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong>, we<br />

can accept no responsibility for the veracity<br />

of any claims made by our advertisers or<br />

contributors. No part of this publication<br />

may be reproduced or copied in any form<br />

without the written consent of the publisher.<br />

Welcome...<br />

<strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong> is a monthly local<br />

magazine about your town and your<br />

people with 5000 copies available<br />

across pick up points in <strong>Bedford</strong> and<br />

the surrounding areas.<br />

We have a big focus on charity work,<br />

home grown groups, volunteering,<br />

projects of all kinds and true stories. In addition, features and<br />

articles on health, beauty and wellbeing will ensure there is<br />

something for everyone.<br />

We want you to be part of it and to contribute, share and enjoy!<br />

Your stories and experiences are all welcome and if you are part<br />

of anything new and would like people to know about it or if<br />

you have something you want to raise the profi le for, please let<br />

us know. We will try to include as much as we can about the<br />

things that matter to you!<br />

Look out for the <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong> Donation - We will gift £25<br />

every month to one of the groups, charities or projects we<br />

feature. Th is month our donation is to the new Breast of Health<br />

charity featured on page 5.<br />

Th ank you to our lovely, local businesses, contributors and all<br />

who have supported our launch.<br />

Enjoy! J Teresa & the team x<br />

Contents<br />

New local Breast of Health charity sets up ...................... 5<br />

Blood Pressure Numbers ................................................................... 6<br />

My Story – Lynne East’s personal battle ............................ 9<br />

Parade in your Pants .............................................................................. 10<br />

What Skin Type are you? ................................................................... 11<br />

Keeping your home Safe ....................................................................12-13<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong>’s Memory Walk for Alzheimer’s ........................... 14<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Daycare Hospice – 20 years on .............................16-17<br />

Central Volunteering Services ...................................................... 18<br />

Sitting down can damage your health ................................. 19<br />

YMCA Supported Lodgings Scheme ..................................... 20<br />

A Day in the <strong>Life</strong> of a Home-Start volunteer ................. 23<br />

Relationships – Taking the Curves ........................................... 25<br />

Artie’s Olympics for schools ........................................................... 26<br />

Take me Home – Can you help an animal? .................... 29<br />

Resources and What’s On ................................................................. 30<br />

Mini Ads and Services .......................................................................... 31<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

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The Wig Salon<br />

'We Inspire Great Style'<br />

Run by Dianne Cullip, The Wig Salon is<br />

nestled in Deep Spinney, Biddenham<br />

and offers a warm welcome to a<br />

professional and individual service.<br />

Hair loss can occur for a number of reasons<br />

such as Alopecia, Hormonal changes,<br />

Chemotherapy or Genetics.<br />

In comfortable surroundings, clients have<br />

complete privacy and Dianne offers help and<br />

advice to decide on the right style and image<br />

for each client.<br />

Wigs can be customised,<br />

styled and designed<br />

individually to suit.<br />

After Care Pack<br />

• Wig Stand •<br />

• Special Formulated shampoo & conditioner •<br />

• Wig Shine Spray • Brush •<br />

Strictly by Appointment – Partners and Family welcome<br />

20 Deep Spinney, Biddenham, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 4QH<br />

Tel 01234 351177<br />

e: onlyyou@btconnect.com | www.onlyyousalon.co.uk<br />

Free Parking at the Salon or Pavillion<br />

Part of<br />

Only You Salon<br />

Opening Hours<br />

Tues - Wed 9.30am-9pm<br />

Thurs 9.30am-6pm<br />

Friday 9.30am-5pm<br />

Saturday 9.00am-4pm<br />

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Breast of Health is a charity based in<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> which has been recently set<br />

up in response to the increasing number<br />

of younger women under 50 years of age<br />

presenting with a variety of breast health<br />

problems.<br />

At present, there is no offi cial breast education<br />

programme for younger women unless a problem is<br />

detected. Chairperson, Margaret Duggan comments<br />

“We are encouraged to have dental checks and eye<br />

tests on a six monthly or yearly basis but a regular<br />

check for breast health is not currently off ered to<br />

women under 50. Yet too many women today are<br />

suff ering with breast disease, particularly breast<br />

cancer, at a much younger age.<br />

Th e mission of Breast of Health is to educate and<br />

promote good practice so women can make informed<br />

choices and have the tools to take responsibility for<br />

their own breast health.”<br />

Breast of Health charity is available to girls from<br />

the age of 16 years to older<br />

women of any age. Th e<br />

emphasis is to highlight the<br />

importance of being proactive<br />

rather than re-active<br />

about breast health and<br />

lifestyle, including nutrition<br />

and fi tness. Th is is delivered by<br />

the charity’s service providers<br />

through talks, workshops and<br />

demonstrations on how to<br />

do a breast self examination<br />

using visual aids, Digital<br />

Th ermography Screening,<br />

and correct bra fi tting and<br />

measurement.<br />

Service Provider, Sue <strong>Bedford</strong><br />

from Pulse Health Screening<br />

said: “Th e Breast of Health<br />

charity programme off ers<br />

help and guidance on breast<br />

self-examination along with<br />

practical ways for women<br />

to maintain a healthy mind<br />

and body”.<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

CHARITY<br />

Local women establish new breast charity<br />

Sue <strong>Bedford</strong><br />

Margaret Duggan<br />

If you would like more information on<br />

the Breast of Health charity please visit:<br />

www.breastofhealth.org and nd become a friend oon<br />

Facebook and Twitter.<br />

Or contact Margaret<br />

on: 07791 505511<br />

e: info@breastofhealth.org<br />

£25<br />

FROM COMMUNITY LIFE<br />

BREAST HEALTH EALTH TIPS<br />

• A proper fi tting bra is essential – ensure that you are<br />

measured correctly and professionally every 6 months<br />

• Examine your breasts on a monthly basis. You can attend one<br />

of our presentations or visit your Practice Nurse<br />

• Exercise – if you exercise ensure you have a well fi tted<br />

sports bra, especially if running, jogging, dancing or aerobic<br />

• Eat well with plenty of green veggies, colourful fruit and<br />

vegetables<br />

• Drink water regularly throughout the day and keep alcohol<br />

consumption moderate<br />

• Supplement your diet with good quality Omega-3 fatty acids<br />

• Reduce stress, through meditation, relaxation, exercise,<br />

counselling<br />

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HEALTH<br />

Oxfam’s shops<br />

in <strong>Bedford</strong><br />

Oxfam Bookshop<br />

16 St Paul’s Square (Phone 213768)<br />

Oxfam Shop<br />

91/93 High Street (Phone 269204)<br />

– selling clothes, accessories,<br />

homeware, gifts, FairTrade<br />

food, greetings cards ......<br />

Both helping to raise money for<br />

Oxfam’s vital work across the<br />

world, welcoming customers &<br />

donations of saleable goods!<br />

Thank you for your support.<br />

Know your numbers<br />

Your blood pressure numbers are hugely<br />

important. Yet many of us have no idea<br />

what they are or what they should be.<br />

120/80 is considered to be the optimum level. Th e<br />

fi rst number is your systolic blood pressure - the<br />

highest level your blood pressure reaches when your<br />

heart beats. Th e second number is your diastolic<br />

blood pressure - the lowest level your blood pressure<br />

reaches when your heart relaxes between beats. Th e<br />

higher these numbers are, the higher your risk of<br />

health problems.<br />

Check your BP regularly<br />

Blood pressure increases with age so even in your<br />

thirties you have a 30% chance of having raised blood<br />

pressure, putting you at risk of health problems.High<br />

blood pressure is responsible for 60% of strokes and<br />

40% of heart attacks. Around 16 million people in<br />

the UK have it and it is estimated that a third of these<br />

– more than 5 million people - are unaware of it so<br />

are not taking any steps to reduce it.<br />

Blood Pressure UK believes everyone should know<br />

their blood pressure numbers so everyone can get a<br />

free blood pressure check from September 10th-16th<br />

during their annual awareness campaign, Know Your<br />

Numbers Week!<br />

Th ousands of organisations and health professionals<br />

take part in this award winning event. Free blood<br />

pressure checks are available<br />

at ‘Pressure Stations’ across<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong>shire. So fi nd yours<br />

and get checked!<br />

Enter your postcode at:<br />

www.bloodpressureuk.org/kyn<br />

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To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

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A lifeline for Lynne<br />

Lynne and her daughter, Katie<br />

I t was on a family holiday to Jamaica in 2007<br />

that Lynne East from Oakley fi rst started<br />

feeling dizzy and breathless, suff ering from<br />

headaches and having trouble maintaining<br />

her balance.<br />

Her legs were also swollen which she put down to the<br />

heat but when these symptoms continued at home<br />

she began to wonder if it might be something else.<br />

During a routine eye test, the optician noticed an<br />

alarming irregularity and sent her straight to hospital.<br />

On arrival, scans were done and Lynne was admitted.<br />

“I was scared and confused,” she said. “One minute<br />

I was at the opticians, the next I was needing an<br />

immediate operation. I didn’t know what to think.”<br />

Lynne deteriorated and was transferred to a London<br />

hospital where her fi rst operation removed what was<br />

confi rmed to be a brain tumour.<br />

Lynne endured a further eight operations over four<br />

years which at stages left her bed bound and unable<br />

to speak, eat or drink. She suff ered partial paralysis<br />

and needed extensive physiotherapy to enable her<br />

to walk again. She showed tremendous courage,<br />

learning twice over to speak, drink and eat. After<br />

nearly a year of being fed entirely through a tube, the<br />

fi rst solid food Lynne ate was a packet of Quavers!<br />

Lynne told us: “My family and friends had travelled<br />

miles to be by my side. At one stage, it looked like<br />

I wasn’t going to make it but the thought of seeing<br />

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PEOPLE<br />

my daughter Katie at her prom inspired me to keep<br />

going. I was determined to fi ght this all the way for<br />

her and to be at home again.’<br />

Th e family from Oakley received invaluable support<br />

from Th e Brains Trust based in the Isle of Wight.<br />

Founder Dr Helen Bulbeck said: “We aim to provide<br />

help and support to suff erers and their families and<br />

to be there during times when they feel alone and<br />

like no-one understands. Advice, information, phone<br />

lines and online forums are all available day or night.”<br />

For Lynne, they were a true lifeline.<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Hospital staff also became her saviours<br />

when she spent a week there waiting for yet another<br />

operation. Suff ering depression, Lynne says this was<br />

her lowest point and she would never have coped<br />

without them. “Th eir patience, encouragement<br />

and support helped me when I couldn’t see any<br />

light. Th anks to them, I started to gather my<br />

physical, mental and emotional strength again.”<br />

Remarkable inner strength<br />

Today, Lynne lives life day to day. A tiny piece of her<br />

tumour remains, deemed too dangerous to remove.<br />

She has regular scans and relies on painkillers and<br />

medication. Everyday tasks take much longer but<br />

despite the permanent paralysis in her hand and<br />

right side, she still cooks and enjoys gardening. Her<br />

biggest concerns are balance, memory and diffi culty<br />

with facts and fi gures but she meets all her troubles<br />

with a great sense of humour and a remarkable inner<br />

strength. Lynne has been medically retired but she<br />

is happy to be alive, and credits her attitude to her<br />

Mum who passed away from cancer in 2007. She said:<br />

“Mum would have told me to fi ght – and fi ght I did.”<br />

Lynne would like to get in touch with other brain<br />

tumour suff erers in the area and set up a local<br />

support group. If you would like to be put in touch<br />

with Lynne, please contact <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Life</strong>. You can<br />

read Lynne’s story in full at www.brainstrust.org.uk<br />

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CHARITY EVENT<br />

Parade In Your Pants 2012 –<br />

this year it’s personal!<br />

Family fundraising days<br />

O<br />

ver 37,400 men will be diagnosed with<br />

a male-specifi c cancer in 2012. From<br />

sons to grandfathers, all men face the risk<br />

of prostate, penile or testicular cancer.<br />

Orchid plays a leading role in the fi ght<br />

against male cancer and a local <strong>Bedford</strong><br />

man and his family raise funds for this<br />

worthy cause in quite a unique and fun<br />

way.<br />

In 2009, Adrian Course was given the<br />

devastating news that he had developed<br />

testicular cancer. After supporting<br />

Adrian through the diffi culties of<br />

diagnosis, treatment and recovery, his<br />

wife, Lisa and sister, Julia decided to do<br />

‘One for the Lads’ and fundraise for Orchid Cancer.<br />

Positive outcome<br />

Lisa told us ‘’We wanted to do our bit in the fi ght<br />

against the disease and help not only the men<br />

aff ected but also their families. Luckily, Adrian’s<br />

outcome was a positive one thanks to the excellent<br />

treatment and support available from Orchid and<br />

our local services but it aff ected us as a family and.<br />

we want to support the fi ght against the disease.’<br />

Parade in Your Pants is an event where men complete<br />

a 5 mile sponsored walk in their pants with pubs en<br />

route! It is now in its’ third year and the team has<br />

got even bigger so the annual Fundraising Day on<br />

September 23rd at Kempston Hammers promises to<br />

be a good one!<br />

Julia said ‘In the fi rst two years, we have raised a<br />

fantastic £19,000 for Orchid Cancer and this year,<br />

with the help of our wonderful participants and<br />

helpers, we want to add to this amount! Th is time,<br />

we want YOU to design your own pants to run, walk<br />

or pub crawl in! It doesn’t have<br />

to be just your pants you can be<br />

creative with – personalise your<br />

entire outfi t and prizes will be<br />

awarded! Th e shy men out there<br />

can just wear their normal clothes<br />

or your shorts over your trousers –<br />

anything goes!’<br />

And it’s not just the walk, the<br />

Adrian Course<br />

Fun Day will be on from 2pm to<br />

5pm to keep the rest of the family<br />

entertained followed by an early disco and raffl e in<br />

the evening! Please join in and help to raise awareness<br />

and funds for a fantastic cause! Not to mention<br />

having a lot of fun along the way!<br />

Saturday 23rd September at Kempston Hammers<br />

You can sign up by visiting:<br />

www.paradeinyourpants.com<br />

Tel: 01234 349488<br />

Lisa 07941 455147 Julia 07966 696784<br />

www.facebook.com/ParadeinyourPants<br />

Twitter: @ParadeinPants<br />

www.orchid-cancer.org.uk<br />

Orchid registered charity number: 1080540<br />

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Skin Types ... what is yours?<br />

Follow this easy guide to determine<br />

your skin type and how to look after<br />

it. Remember to always buy the right<br />

products for your skin type and follow<br />

our best-care tips. Products that are not<br />

appropriate for your skin type will be<br />

ineff ective and could irritate your<br />

skin even more.<br />

Normal Skin: Skin that’s smooth and fi rm<br />

to the touch with small or medium-sized<br />

pores, never gets too dry or too oily and<br />

only suff ers the occasional blemish. Best care<br />

– moisturise, cleanse, use a spot treatment<br />

and maybe a night solution.<br />

Dry Skin: Skin that feels very tight and<br />

is noticeably fl aky in areas. It can be<br />

caused by lack of hydration or malnutrition, can<br />

look rough and bumpy and rarely gets oily. Best<br />

care – a deep moisturiser, use a spot treatment and<br />

also a night serum.<br />

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BEAUTY<br />

Oily Skin: Face is visibly shiny and can be slightly<br />

moist to the touch. Oily skin is more prone<br />

to blemishes and has large pores. Best care –<br />

tone, exfoliate, use a spot treatment and lightly<br />

moisturise once in a while.<br />

Combination Skin: Tends to get oily around<br />

your nose, chin and forehead but dry around<br />

your cheek while the rest of your skin is<br />

pretty normal. Best care – exfoliate, cleanse,<br />

moisturise and use a spot treatment.<br />

Sensitive Skin: You might burn easily, react to<br />

cosmetics and fi nd blemishes hard to treat.<br />

Th is is hard to deal with because it’s not<br />

as tolerant as other skin types and you<br />

must test products thoroughly before<br />

purchase. Best care – use a cleanser,<br />

moisturiser and a spot treatment.<br />

Top Tip: ALWAYS cleanse, tone and moisturise<br />

twice a day – once in the morning before you put<br />

on make-up, and once at night before you go to<br />

bed and STICK to your routine!<br />

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FEATURE<br />

Keep Your Home Safe and beat the burglars<br />

We all want our homes and possessions<br />

to be safe so by working together<br />

and tackling security issues, we can help to<br />

reduce burglary rates in our areas.<br />

Over the last year in <strong>Bedford</strong>shire, domestic burglary<br />

fell by 20%, non-domestic burglary<br />

fell by 24% and by following some<br />

simple security steps, we can<br />

continue to beat this crime.<br />

Did you know that around a<br />

third of all break-ins are the result<br />

of people leaving doors and<br />

windows unlocked? As the nights<br />

start to draw in, the burglary rate<br />

traditionally goes up and simple<br />

security measures can help to<br />

reduce the risk and keep your home safe. Getting<br />

into good habits before you leave the house means<br />

security will become second nature.<br />

Make sure you double lock your doors. If they are<br />

made out of UPVC make sure you push the handle<br />

up when you lock it to ensure all the bolts are in<br />

place. Leaving it on the latch makes is easy for a<br />

burglar to ‘pop’ the door and help himself. Going<br />

out for the night? Leave a few lights on and a plug<br />

your radio into a time so that it comes on,<br />

suggesting someone’s home. If it seems too<br />

risky, burglars won’t bother.<br />

Bogus callers<br />

Th ese days, distraction burglaries are<br />

very common and ‘bogus callers’ posing as<br />

private or council workers talk their way into<br />

your home or divert your attention. Always answer<br />

the door with the chain on and ask for identifi cation.<br />

Th ere will be a number on the card you can call while<br />

they wait. You are under no obligation to allow them<br />

in so if you are not sure of their identity, DON’T.<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong>shire Police continue the crackdown on<br />

this crime and actively encourage people to keep<br />

their homes safe and are always available to off er<br />

help and advice to the community. Assistant<br />

Chief Constable Andrew Richer said: “We continue<br />

to arrest and prosecute those people actively<br />

committing burglaries. Th is crime is not acceptable<br />

in our communities and we make it our priority to<br />

protect people and their property.”<br />

Please contact <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Police if you have<br />

any information about burglary. Anyone who has<br />

information but does not wish to contact police<br />

direct, can contact Crimestoppers, anonymously,<br />

on 0800 555111.<br />

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Assistant Chief Constable Andrew Richer<br />

Tips to keep your home safe<br />

C Double lock all UPVC doors<br />

C Ensure doors and windows are<br />

properly locked Security mark your<br />

property<br />

C Install a visible burglar alarm — Use<br />

security lights<br />

C Leave lights and radio on when out<br />

C Secure sheds and garages with good<br />

quality locks<br />

C Don’t hide keys under mats<br />

fl owerpots<br />

0845 30 30 900<br />

www.victimsupport.org.uk<br />

Emergency: 999<br />

Non-Emergency: 101<br />

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ALARM DOCTOR<br />

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To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylife.co.uk<br />

FEATURE<br />

4SEASONS<br />

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07860<br />

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www.4seasonssecurity.com<br />

Specialising in Burglar Alarms<br />

& Security Systems<br />

KEYHOLDING<br />

SERVICES<br />

If your premises are suffi ciently protected<br />

by an intruder alarm system, Arena Security<br />

can save your staff or neighbours the risk<br />

and inconvenience of being called out when<br />

an alarm goes off.<br />

Keys are kept in totally secure custody. Upon alarm<br />

activation we will send a licensed Response<br />

Offi cer to check the premises, reset alarms and, if<br />

necessary, remain in the premises until your staff<br />

or alarm engineer arrive. All operations are carried<br />

out to high standards of BS7984 and with<br />

complete co-operation with Police Authorities.<br />

Offi cers are fully monitored by our Control<br />

Centre operatives to ensure their total safety.<br />

01234 739031<br />

ARENA<br />

SECURITY<br />

www.arenasecurity.co.uk<br />

We also supply:<br />

Mobile Patrols and Security Offi cers<br />

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I<br />

CHARITY EVENT<br />

n its 11th year, Memory Walk is Alzheimer’s<br />

Society’s biggest annual fundraiser. <strong>Bedford</strong>’s<br />

Memory Walk will take place on Sunday<br />

16 September 2012. Th e walk is suitable for all ages<br />

and takes place at Priory County Park, starting at<br />

10.30am. Both routes –1.5 or 8 miles – are traffi c free.<br />

With entertainment and refreshments, it will be a<br />

family day to remember.<br />

More than 4,500 people in <strong>Bedford</strong>shire live with<br />

dementia and money raised from the walk will help<br />

fund vital services for them and their carers including<br />

support groups, drop-in centres, allotment projects ,<br />

home visits and ‘music for memory’ sessions.<br />

Sarah Russell, Development Worker, Alzheimer’s<br />

Society, <strong>Bedford</strong>, said: “Families, friends, colleagues<br />

and individuals can walk together to raise money to<br />

help local people with dementia. A special thanks to<br />

Mayor Dave Hodgson and Richard Fuller MP for being<br />

amongst the fi rst to sign up for this year’s 8-mile route.<br />

I hope many more <strong>Bedford</strong>ians take up the challenge.”<br />

Registration is free and you will receive a welcome<br />

pack through the post with more details and<br />

information. Th e organisers hope that each walker<br />

can raise an average of £50.<br />

Register at www.memorywalk.org.uk<br />

or call Liz Simmonds 07803 191563 or<br />

email: bedfordmemorywalk@hotmail.co.uk<br />

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A fabulous treatment before a night out<br />

Designed to target puff y eyes, dark<br />

circles, lines and visibly lift the eyes,<br />

the Ultimate Eye Treatment sounds like<br />

a miracle.<br />

I went along to Rani’s Beauty in Lime Street to<br />

fi nd out. Rani explained: ‘Th is is a very popular<br />

and aff ordable treatment. It is like training<br />

your eyes muscles and you can achieve an<br />

improvement over several treatments without<br />

the need for more invasive procedures. Th e<br />

more you ‘train’ the muscles this way, the better<br />

they respond’.<br />

Th e fi rst stage was to cleanse the skin and<br />

massage around the delicate eye areas to drain<br />

toxins. Th e second stage used galvanic probes<br />

which were moved gently around the eye area<br />

and forehead, passing a microcurrent<br />

through, which detoxifi es and stimulates.<br />

Immediate diff erence<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

BEAUTY<br />

Th e fi nal element was a refreshing botanical<br />

gel based eye mask, blended to suit individual<br />

skin types. An eye fi rming cream provided the<br />

fi nishing touches.<br />

It was more than I expected. I could see an<br />

immediate diff erence and my eyelids were visibly<br />

lifted! A fabulous treatment to have before<br />

a night out or a one off but for longer lasting<br />

results, Rani recommends six initial treatments<br />

then monthly maintenance. A very impressive<br />

45 minute treatment that performed as it<br />

promised and at £20 — absolutely worth it.<br />

Rani’s Beauty, Lime Street - 01234 930159<br />

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CHARITY<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Daycare Hospice celebrate 20 Years!<br />

H<br />

Looking forward to the next 20 years caring for people<br />

ow do you feel when the word hospice is mentioned? Th ere are diff erent<br />

interpretations or personal experiences surrounding the word. A hospice is much<br />

more than you may think -it is a philosophy of care. Hospice care commits to helping<br />

patients remain as alert and pain-free as possible, maintaining their dignity and being<br />

sensitive to all their needs.<br />

At <strong>Bedford</strong> Daycare Hospice, an independent charity<br />

based at Gladys Ibbett House on Linden Road, the<br />

focus is on the person and their family. Th ey treat the<br />

person, not just the disease and include the patient<br />

and the family in all decisions.<br />

Now celebrating their 20th year, the team pride<br />

themselves on their care, support and dedication<br />

and look forward to another 20 years helping people.<br />

Working closely with MacMillan Nurses, GPS &<br />

District Nurses, they provide daily specialist palliative<br />

care to people aff ected by cancer or other life<br />

limiting illness, helping to enhance the quality of<br />

life for up to 70 patients a week. Th e patients that<br />

attend here are able to take part in a wide range of<br />

activities and there are additional services including<br />

a Lymphoedema Service, Cancer Information<br />

Support Service, Benefi ts Advice, Support Groups,<br />

Counselling and Education Programmes.<br />

Invaluable support is off ered to the carers, family<br />

members and close friends. Sue attended the hospice<br />

during her treatment through cancer and credits<br />

them for the support they gave her ‘I could never<br />

have got through my cancer if it hadn’t been for<br />

everyone there. Also, the wonderful friends I met<br />

there have made everything much easier to cope<br />

with. Th ank you.’<br />

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With 12 staff members and over 75 volunteers, they<br />

work tirelessly to raise funds so they can continue<br />

to provide excellent standards of specialist care<br />

and continue to help the patient to feel valued and<br />

worthwhile. Th e events are varied and many include<br />

fancy dress and lots of fun!. From bungee jumps to<br />

Pamper evenings, reading groups to Italian theme<br />

nights, they are forever creating new ways to raise<br />

money and everyone gives their time happily. Th ey<br />

are supported well by local businesses who give their<br />

goods and services to assist these fabulous events..<br />

Teamwork and dedication<br />

Fundraising & Facilities Manager Babs Astle explains<br />

the personal commitment they hold to the patients<br />

and families ‘When people come to us, we provide<br />

a real home from home environment and have<br />

a highly skilled multi-disciplinary team to off er<br />

support. We are with them for their whole journey.<br />

Th e families can also gain support from us -we are<br />

here to help them cope too. Th e volunteers are our<br />

life blood and we just could not function without<br />

them- their contribution is priceless. We all work as<br />

a team and are dedicated to our patients and<br />

families’<br />

Taking care of people’s physical needs<br />

is just as essential as looking after<br />

their emotional, spiritual and social needs.<br />

‘Ways Ahead’ Salon off ers a consultation<br />

and advice service for those experiencing<br />

hair loss while the complementary therapy<br />

rooms include Massage, Refl exology, Indian Head<br />

Massage and Reiki treatments.<br />

Tuesday’s are ‘pop in’ time for people who have<br />

been newly diagnosed. Sam Edhouse who attends<br />

says ‘I receive support from fellow patients through<br />

good and bad<br />

times. Th e staff<br />

and volunteers are<br />

wonderful and give<br />

us the opportunity<br />

to share experiences<br />

and meet new<br />

friends. Everything<br />

that is available<br />

here really has made<br />

such a diff erence<br />

to my wellbeing.<br />

Th ey always have<br />

Sam and Phil Edhouse time for you, seeing<br />

Bab Astle with Daycare volunteers<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

CHARITY<br />

past the illness to the person you are and make you<br />

feel important and valued. I treasure the friends I<br />

have made here and the support has made such a<br />

diff erence to myself, my husband and my family.’<br />

Th e hospice itself is warm and welcoming with an<br />

incredible spirit of unity.<br />

Bob who also attends the hospice says<br />

‘For me it has been a great support over the<br />

last couple of years, providing practical<br />

help with unconditional kindness,<br />

friendship and love’<br />

Lorraine Womack, partner of a patient,<br />

says sa ‘It is an irony that this service is<br />

probably the only thing a terminally ill patient<br />

won’t have to pay for and yet one of the most<br />

valuable. Th ey rely on donations, fundraising and<br />

volunteers to provide such invaluable support to<br />

our loved ones. Please support the fantastic work<br />

here as they provide a lifeline to people and with<br />

their care, compassion and skills make life a little<br />

easier at a time that is so diffi cult to cope with.’<br />

You can make a diff erence<br />

At a time when charities have felt the eff ect of<br />

funding cuts, it is more important than<br />

ever to continue to work hard to keep<br />

their services going. If you could<br />

make the diff erence and would like<br />

to volunteer or even arrange your<br />

own fundraising event, please<br />

contact Babs on 01234 352015.<br />

www.bedforddaycarehospice.co.uk<br />

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VOLUNTEERING<br />

Th e Volunteer Centre <strong>Bedford</strong><br />

Paul and two regular volunteers at the <strong>Bedford</strong> River Festival<br />

What is Th e Volunteer Centre?<br />

Th e Volunteer Centre <strong>Bedford</strong>, based in Bromham<br />

Road, is part of <strong>Community</strong> and Voluntary Services<br />

(CVS), recruiting volunteers for <strong>Bedford</strong>shire’s local<br />

charities and community groups. Th ey off er support<br />

and help to charities, ensuring their volunteers are<br />

treated well, the role descriptions are appropriate and<br />

that a volunteer has great volunteering experience.<br />

What types of work can I do?<br />

• Mentoring young people/adults with special needs<br />

• Advice work • Conservation work<br />

• Offi ce admin work • Campaigning & fundraising<br />

• Volunteering with disabled children<br />

• Volunteering with homeless people<br />

• Befriending • Charity shops<br />

• Gardening • Event organising<br />

• Youth project for young people in Central Beds<br />

Why volunteer?<br />

Volunteering’s hugely rewarding. It makes you feel<br />

good to off er help to others and you develop and<br />

improve your confi dence and self-esteem. You will<br />

learn new skills and meet lots of diff erent types of<br />

people. It’s an excellent way to spend spare time if you<br />

have young children and commitments but would<br />

like to do something more, are retired, studying or<br />

in between jobs.<br />

Th ere are volunteer opportunities to suit all ages<br />

from all walks of life. Volunteering could lead to a<br />

new career and often involves training that will help<br />

and support you.<br />

Would-be employers are often impressed if you give<br />

your own time volunteering. It shows you have other<br />

interests which you can talk about at an interview.<br />

Volunteer work can give you a reference and will help<br />

you fi ll any gaps on your CV.<br />

How much time would I give?<br />

You can volunteer from 1–30 hours a week. Th ese<br />

hours won’t aff ect any benefi ts you might receive<br />

and most organisations will pay travel expenses.<br />

Where do I fi nd out more?<br />

New volunteer sessions are held each week at Th e<br />

Volunteer Centre in <strong>Bedford</strong> from 10am–1pm.<br />

You don’t need an appointment and you can chat<br />

to an advisor about the type of volunteering you’re<br />

looking for. You can be put in touch with any<br />

organisation you’re interested in, while 13–18-yearolds<br />

living in the Central Beds area can join our Youth<br />

Project.<br />

To fi nd out more, call Bec or Paul on 01234 213100.<br />

43 Bromham Road, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 2AA<br />

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Sitting down can damage your health ...<br />

staying perched on our derrieres all<br />

day is offi cially bad for your health!<br />

Over half of our day is spent sitting and this can result<br />

in poor posture, balance and mobility as well as pain<br />

in your lower back, neck and hip. Your body adapts<br />

to constant sitting, making you less<br />

skilled at basic functions like standing,<br />

walking, running and jumping.<br />

When big muscles like your legs are<br />

immobile, your circulation slows and<br />

the calorie burning rate slows to 1 per<br />

minute. For every two hours a day spent<br />

sitting, your chance of contracting<br />

diabetes goes up by 7% and your risk of<br />

heart disease increases.<br />

Sitting too much is also hell on posture<br />

and spine health. When you sit all day,<br />

your hip fl exors and hamstrings shorten<br />

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HEALTH<br />

and tighten while the muscles that support your<br />

spine become weak and stiff resulting in chronic<br />

lower back pain.<br />

Even if you exercise, you are not immune! 30 minutes<br />

a day at the gym may not do enough to counteract<br />

the eff ects of up to10 hours of sitting. It is one big<br />

reason many women still struggle with<br />

weight, blood sugar, and cholesterol<br />

despite consistent workouts.<br />

So, next time you reach for the remote,<br />

think twice! But don’t worry, there<br />

are ways to improve this with simple<br />

lifestyle changes and taking better care<br />

of your body .<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Chiropractic Clinic can help<br />

you make these changes.<br />

Call 01234 353937 for more<br />

information about Spinal Checks.<br />

19


YOUTH<br />

Put Your Spare Room to Good Use!<br />

It has been a busy yet successful year for the<br />

YMCA <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Supported Lodgings<br />

Scheme. A positive response from the local<br />

community has resulted in the recruitment<br />

and training of twelve <strong>Community</strong> Hosts.<br />

Th ese hosts off er a combination of Supported<br />

Lodgings and Crash Pad placements to homeless and<br />

vulnerable young people across <strong>Bedford</strong>shire. As of<br />

September Supported Lodgings Placements will be<br />

provided to seven young people .<br />

Rosalyn heard of the scheme just as her own grown<br />

up children were moving on. “I was so interested<br />

in the idea of giving a young person a safe and<br />

supportive place in which to settle down and do the<br />

vital things around growing up and making good<br />

choices – those years 16-18 are so important. I also<br />

fancied some company and youthful energy back in<br />

the house!”<br />

Excellent progress<br />

Debbie, a community host, was a foster carer for<br />

many years and wanted to work with the older age<br />

range. “I think there is a real need for this kind of<br />

scheme, promoting independent living skills, giving<br />

good boundaries for young people to live within and<br />

move on in their lives.<br />

“Th e young person who transferred to Supported<br />

Lodgings with me has been here for 5 months now<br />

and all is going well. Th ere have been a few challenges<br />

but she is making excellent progress and I am looking<br />

forward to seeing her achieve even more of her goals!”<br />

Th e young person lodging with Debbie says: “I’ve<br />

been in the scheme for 17 weeks now and it has<br />

completely turned my life around.<br />

“I am now more independent and practical and I feel<br />

happier. It is a scheme that works with you and not for<br />

you. It is also a stepping stone to the big wide world.”<br />

So if you have a spare room, an interest<br />

in young people and being involved in a<br />

community project where you can share your<br />

life experience and skills, please contact:<br />

Amy Elliott on 01234 307040 or 07508807441<br />

or email: amy@ymcabedfordshire.org.uk for<br />

an information pack or informal discussion.<br />

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THE BEDFORD OUSE<br />

VALLEY STROKE CLUB<br />

Helping you and your<br />

family after your illness<br />

Have you had a<br />

stroke?<br />

Are you dealing with<br />

someone who has had<br />

a stroke?<br />

WE WANT TO HELP YOU<br />

For more information on the<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Ouse Valley Stroke<br />

Club please call:<br />

Cliff Broughton -01234<br />

214849<br />

Or visit our website:-<br />

www.ousevalleystroke.org.uk<br />

Beauty Salon<br />

Waxing & Hair Removal<br />

Dermalogica Facials<br />

Manicures<br />

Pedicures<br />

Gel Nails<br />

Massage<br />

Botox & Fillers by G.P.<br />

Hair Salon<br />

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To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylifemag.co.uk<br />

Counselling<br />

Training<br />

Find out about the wide range of<br />

nationally accredited counselling<br />

courses we deliver by calling:<br />

01234 - 930454<br />

Visit:<br />

www.independentcounsellingtraining.com<br />

OPEN DAY<br />

SATURDAY, 8TH SEPTEMBER<br />

(10AM - 2PM)<br />

12 St Cuthberts Street, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 3JB<br />

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VOLUNTEERING<br />

Volunteering Opportunities<br />

Can you give some time to help others?<br />

Learning Support Assistant Adults<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Borough<br />

To provide help and support to learners in a wide range of subjects<br />

and a variety of community settings and classrooms.<br />

Volunteer Boatmaster Skippers<br />

We run support and educational services in our wheelchair<br />

accessible boats and are looking for a supervisor to oversee the<br />

preparation of the boat before each trip and helping to clean it<br />

afterwards.<br />

Receptionist/Clerical assistant<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Borough<br />

To provide help and provide assistance to the offi ce staff and to<br />

support learners with form fi lling and course information.<br />

Note Taker<br />

To interview and take notes from clients with regard to their<br />

fi nancial situation and pass the details onto a trained Debt Advisor.<br />

Youth Inclusion Project Worker<br />

To work alongside children aged 6-12 years old attending the<br />

Youth Inclusion Project. Mondays 6-8pm.<br />

My Guide - Volunteer Level 1 Accredited<br />

To support a blind or partially sighted persons safe negotiation of<br />

the environment. Training provided.<br />

Mentoring young off enders to build<br />

a life without crime<br />

We are looking for volunteer mentors to work with young off enders<br />

aged 18-21. Mentors will work with their mentees for 6 months<br />

whilst in prison, and for up to 9 months after release. High quality<br />

training is provided before and during your mentoring relationships.<br />

Trailblazers are holding informal information events to fi nd<br />

out more and meet the staff . HMPYOI Littlehey on Saturday 22nd<br />

September 10 am-12 noon and Sunday 7th October10am -12 noon,<br />

Sunday 7th October, 10 am - 12 noon.<br />

Administrator<br />

To welcome visitors, answer the telephone and take messages, fi ling<br />

and typing. Arranging and attending meetings when necessary.<br />

Town Centre Shop Worker & Customer Support<br />

We are looking for enthusiastic volunteers to help our<br />

expansion by joining the retail team as a Shop Worker/<br />

Customer Support role.<br />

Call: 01234 213100 43 Bromham Road, <strong>Bedford</strong> MK40 2AA www.voluntaryworks.org.uk<br />

THE<br />

WHITE HART PRESS<br />

OF<br />

QUALITY PRINTING<br />

Est. 1987<br />

01234 270465<br />

www.whitehartpress.co.uk<br />

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A DAY IN THE LIFE ...<br />

Home-Start are a <strong>Bedford</strong> charity<br />

providing help and support to families<br />

with children in need. Th ey off er trained<br />

befrienders to enable these families to cope<br />

and learn to learn skills they need for family<br />

life. ‘Parents supporting Parents’ is their<br />

ethos and all their volunteers are already<br />

parents of varying ages.<br />

At 21, Sara Waggott from <strong>Bedford</strong> is one of their<br />

youngest volunteers. Sara shares with us her typical<br />

day with her ‘family’.<br />

“In 2009, I had my son and I was lucky to have the<br />

support of a great family. It was hard being so young<br />

and having a lot of responsibility. Th ere were times I<br />

didn’t know where to turn but thanks to my family<br />

support, I coped. I always wanted to work with<br />

children so after completing my NVQ Level 2, I<br />

looked for something I could do while still caring for<br />

my son. I found Home-Start and never looked back.<br />

Helping daily challenges<br />

My ‘family’ are wonderful. I was nervous when I fi rst<br />

met them but the Home-Start training gave me the<br />

confi dence and knowledge I needed. When I met<br />

them, Mum was still living at home and I supported<br />

her through the transition to the new home, a<br />

stressful time for them all but they are settled and<br />

happy now. Dad has autism and Mum has mild<br />

learning disabilities so they still face daily challenges<br />

that I help them through.<br />

Today I spend some time with her sorting out some<br />

letters and bills, help her to make some calls and run<br />

through her shopping budget to help plan healthy<br />

family meals. She needs some guidance and likes<br />

being shown once and then she can manage from<br />

there. Th e support I off er makes a real diff erence.<br />

Th en we make some blueberry muffi ns. She loves<br />

cooking with the children and always has the<br />

ingredients ready, I just help her to measure and<br />

follow the recipe. Th e girls really enjoyed helping and<br />

Sara Waggott<br />

To advertise please call 01234 310521 or email: teresa@communitylife.co.uk<br />

VOLUNTEERING<br />

it is good for them all to bond and share an activity.<br />

One of their daughters has autism, so later we played<br />

some Wii Bowling which is not only fun but also<br />

helps with her hand to eye co-ordination.<br />

One thing I don’t do is housework but I help her to<br />

get organised and provide practical help if needed. I<br />

recently supported her at a college interview and she<br />

is now successfully enrolled on a course.<br />

We spend some time talking and this is a chance for<br />

any worries to be shared in confi dence. Simply being<br />

there to listen is often enough to help. She says she<br />

likes my level headedness and the fact that I never<br />

pass judgement.<br />

Time to walk the dog – in the rain of course! Th e girls<br />

really enjoy the visits, we often draw and paint and I<br />

help mum get involved with these activities too.<br />

I enjoy every minute, it is hugely rewarding. I have<br />

been with my family for a year now and they are<br />

coping so much better. It’s an incredible feeling to<br />

know I have been a part of this. I highly recommend<br />

this kind of volunteering. It’s not always easy and<br />

it takes patience and commitment. Th ere are high<br />

standards to meet, not to mention some paperwork<br />

but it has helped me to develop as a person and a<br />

mum and I have gained great skills along the way.”<br />

If you are interested in becoming<br />

a Home-Start volunteer,<br />

please call Wendie on 01234 270601.<br />

23


PEOPLE<br />

TAKING THE CURVES<br />

<strong>Life</strong> is a journey, and the life stages and<br />

circumstances are similar for most<br />

people – starting out, making partnerships,<br />

careers, children, juggling demands, hitting<br />

unexpected obstacles, all these can be seen<br />

as curves in the road.<br />

So what makes some marriages and partnerships<br />

last a lifetime while others skid on the fi rst curve?<br />

No two relationships are the same, but there seem<br />

to be the same fi ve<br />

characteristics in<br />

most successful<br />

relationships.<br />

Be realistic. It’s<br />

tricky out there and<br />

things won’t always<br />

go smoothly.<br />

Marriage is not a<br />

fairytale ending.<br />

People cannot be<br />

perfect but they can<br />

try and accept their<br />

partners’ failings – obviously within reason.<br />

Relationships need compromise<br />

Don’t take each other for granted. Over time, roles,<br />

responsibilities and expectations become fi xed<br />

in relationships. Over time, these will need to be<br />

reviewed and renegotiated depending on the new life<br />

stage and the current challenges and responsibilities.<br />

Communication is vital, but simply talking isn’t the<br />

answer. Th e important thing about communicating<br />

is the interaction between talking, really listening and<br />

trying to understand. It is about having emotional<br />

intelligence, the ability to empathise and be honest<br />

and fair with each other.<br />

Putting words into actions. Turn discussion<br />

into actions – the actions may not be huge but<br />

they do need to happen. Do not over promise<br />

and underperform – on the other hand do show<br />

commitment to really making change. Negotiate and<br />

be prepared to compromise.<br />

Managing Confl ict. Research into successful<br />

relationships indicates that managing confl ict is<br />

the real crunch point and seems to have the most<br />

signifi cant eff ect on relationships.<br />

Confl ict is inevitable but it is how it is resolved that<br />

makes relationships work. Some people squabble,<br />

others argue and<br />

some walk away.<br />

Th e overall goal<br />

of addressing the<br />

issue isn’t about<br />

who wins, it’s<br />

about resolving the<br />

situation.<br />

Valdation. Putting<br />

the other person<br />

down and being<br />

over controlling<br />

won’t help, nor will<br />

dragging up past issues. Stick with the present and<br />

try to focus on the resolution.Th e most important<br />

thing is that each recognises, even in confl ict, the<br />

other person’s point of view.<br />

Most people want to be in a loving, supportive,<br />

adaptive relationship for the long haul but the<br />

journey can be over some tricky terrain, so keep an<br />

eye out for the next curve in the road.<br />

Can we help?<br />

01234 356350<br />

www.relatebedsandluton.org.uk to fi nd out more<br />

appointments@relatebedsandluton.org.uk<br />

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The British Heart Foundation has<br />

fantastic events for schools and youth<br />

groups to enjoy<br />

The nation’s heart charity has three activity-based fundraising events for teachers, youth<br />

leaders and workers to help them show their children that keeping fit and healthy can be fun,<br />

whilst raising funds for their school, nursery or youth group. These fantastic activities are<br />

suitable for children of all abilities. They are simple to organise and we provide everything<br />

needed to organise a fun, successful event.<br />

Artie’s Olympics<br />

For 8 years old and under<br />

A fabulous event that encourages children to get active and have fun<br />

through taking part in a number of games and activities, which once they<br />

are familiar with, are carried out in front of an audience of their friends and<br />

family.<br />

Gold medal stickers, balloons, laurel crowns, posters and sponsorship<br />

forms are provided as well as an organiser’s guide.<br />

Ultimate Dodgeball<br />

For 7 – 16 year olds<br />

Jump Rope for Heart<br />

For 5 – 13 year olds<br />

A popular skipping event that encourages children to learn<br />

skipping skills, either individually, in pairs or in groups.<br />

Skipping is great fun and a superb way to get kids active.<br />

The kit provided (worth up to £100) includes skipping ropes,<br />

activity cards, posters and sponsorship forms, as well as an<br />

organiser’s guide.<br />

A great way for children of different ages and abilities to have fun and get<br />

active. Just choose your teams, create a team identity and organise your<br />

own fun event.<br />

The kit provided (worth £30) includes three dodgeballs, teaching resources, posters and<br />

sponsorship forms, as well as an organiser’s guide.<br />

How to find out more about these great events<br />

Visit bhf.org.uk/schools Call 01892 893 913 Email youngfun@bhf.org.uk


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He is one of the most friendly & chatty cats<br />

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Seeks nice, quiet home, no other animals<br />

or children.<br />

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Rhinoceros hornbills<br />

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esco and the RSPB have<br />

joined forces for an exciting<br />

new partnership, Together For<br />

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Funds will enable vital conservation<br />

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important equipment for teams of<br />

researchers and conservationists.<br />

Th e RSPB will be holding bucket<br />

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and Saturday 22nd September 2012<br />

as part of the Together For Trees<br />

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Local collections<br />

Your local store collections are<br />

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training that she needs.<br />

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months old. Can be with other cats, maybe<br />

a dog. Loves a fuss.<br />

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Rainforests need you<br />

need any special knowledge to take<br />

part in bucket collections, just a<br />

winning smile!<br />

Please get involved and help save<br />

the rainforests.<br />

If you would like to sign up for a<br />

collection at a Tesco store near<br />

you, please visit:<br />

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RESOURCES & WHATS ON<br />

Resources What’s on<br />

Alcoholics Anonymous 0845 769 7555<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Borough Council 01234 267422<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Hospital 01234 355122<br />

Benefi ts for People with disabilities 0800 882200<br />

Carers Line 0808 808 7777<br />

Central <strong>Bedford</strong>shire Council 0300 300 8000<br />

Childline 0800 1111<br />

Crimestoppers UK 0800 555 111<br />

Cruse Bereavement Care 0870 167 1677<br />

Emergency Services 999 or 112<br />

Non-Emergency Police Line 101<br />

Floodline 0845 988 1188<br />

Frank Drugs Advisory 0800 776600<br />

Housing Services Immigration Advisory 020 7373 9191<br />

Learndirect 0800 030 4690<br />

Lesbian & Gay Switch Board 020 7837 7324<br />

Missing People 0500 700 700<br />

National Debt Line 0808 808 4000<br />

National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247<br />

National Gas Emergency 0800 111 999<br />

NHS Direct 0845 4647<br />

NSPCC 0808 800 5000<br />

Parentline Plus 0808 800 2222<br />

Stop Hate UK 24rh Helpline 0800 138 1625<br />

Late Night Pharmacies 08457 48 49 50<br />

Relate 08457 48 49 50<br />

RSPCA Cruelty Line 0300 1234 999<br />

Samaritans 08457 90 90 90<br />

Shelterline 0808 800 4444<br />

Tax Credit Helpline 0845 300 3900<br />

Victim Support 0845 30 30 900<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Clanger Run Road Victims Trust Charity<br />

Vehicle Rally Box End Park Kempston<br />

Sunday 16th September. Forms 01234 843345 –<br />

enquiries@rvtrust.co.uk<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong>shire Fire Station Open Day<br />

Saturday 15th September, 1pm to 4pm<br />

Barkers Lane, <strong>Bedford</strong>.<br />

Alzheimer’s Society Memory Walk<br />

Priory Marina <strong>Bedford</strong> Sunday 16th September<br />

10.30am start call Liz 07803 191563<br />

www.memorywalk.org.uk<br />

Wood Green Animal Fun Day<br />

Sunday 16th September 10-4pm<br />

£2 Adults Kings Bush Farm London Rd,<br />

Godmanchester Cambridgeshire<br />

Every Wednesday night at Th e White Horse,<br />

Newnham Avenue Charity Pub Quiz<br />

Call Sue or Nigel on 01234 409306<br />

Th e Great Balloon Race –Caremark (<strong>Bedford</strong>)<br />

raising funds for Beds Daycare Hospice.<br />

Saturday September 15th at <strong>Bedford</strong> Park -<br />

£2 entry- www.caremark.co.uk/bedford<br />

Parade In your Pants – Orchid Cancer- Kempston<br />

Hammers Saturday 15th September-Sponsored<br />

Walk at 10am & Family Fun Day till 5pm.<br />

www.paradeinyourpants.com<br />

50+ Bingo Night at Th e Guild House Wednesday<br />

26th September 7.30pm, £10 per person, supper,<br />

bingo, raffl e. Bring your own drinks, glasses<br />

supplied. 56 Harpur Street <strong>Bedford</strong> 01234 352038<br />

Riseley Show and Fayre Saturday 8th September<br />

Riseley Playing Fields from 1pm, Cookery, Arts &<br />

Crafts, Ouse Valley Swing Band, Rally & Vintage<br />

Vehicle Display Admission £1, under 14’s 50p<br />

<strong>Bedford</strong> Rotaract Club 18-30 meet up every<br />

Tuesday 8.30pm at Embankment Pub. First<br />

weekend of the month at Swan Hotel.<br />

www.bedfordrotaract.org.uk<br />

Please email us your local community events<br />

by the 15th of the month for publication the<br />

following month J<br />

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