Self Directed Learning Package - University of Queensland

49 • Self Directed Learning Package - Introductory Registered & Enrolled NurseWhen the resident diesWhile all residential aged care facilities have their own policiesand procedures related to the time of death, the after death caresection of the pathway provides a checklist of tasks that needto be completed and ensures that all the relevant people areinformed of the death.Grief and lossReminisce with family and friends of the deceased resident ifyou feel comfortable to do so. It shows you saw the resident asan individual, not just “another resident”.Acknowledge the grief of those around you. If family membersare visibly upset, you can say ‘It must be hard for you; it is adifficult time…’ Showing family members you are upset e.g.crying is all right.Self-careKey PointNo one ever complained that someone cried; butthey have complained that no one seemed to care.Close relationships can develop between nurses and residents.It is important to be aware that when a resident dies, you maygrieve as well. You are not expected to be a robot, and it ispossible that you may feel sad, angry, upset, confused, guiltyor even relieved at this time. Feelings of grief are different foreveryone and are a normal reaction to a loss.The following suggestions may assist you with your grief:• ask the family’s permission to attend the funeral• talk to your supervisor or colleagues about how you arefeeling• seek support from a professional counsellor.SUCCESS!You have completed Section 2 of the learning package.Please go on with the quiz.