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See, what I have found is that very proactive viewpoint, you know ‘by me’, veryproactive, it’s powerful. It helped me to leave jobs and start my own company. It helpedme to take a lot of risks in my life and go after all the dreams and goals I ever wanted;you know, traveling the world and having a certain kind of lifestyle and freedom. Lotsand lots and lots of great things that I have achieved I achieved with that mentality. It’skind of strong determination and this belief that I create my own destiny.However, what I’ve found lately as I’ve achieved most of those things is that if you’reconstantly in that mindset it can become exhausting after a while and I’ve recentlybegun to feel tired, kind of tired of always having to be ah, I must push and drive andovercome these obstacles and rah! I still find that viewpoint useful. So sometimes that isa very useful viewpoint to have and I still do use it. I’m not saying it’s bad. It’s not bad,it’s very good.It depends on the phase in your life that you’re at. For some people that is exactly whatthey should focus on, that ‘by me’ consciousness, being super proactive and they don’tneed to worry about this ‘through me’ idea. But as you get a little older maybe or as youbegin to achieve some of these goals, it’s good to develop something wider. Becausethe nice thing about this ‘through me’ idea, that you’re working for something bigger andthat something bigger is working through you, the great thing about that is it’s muchmore peaceful and effortless and relaxing.You see, when you’re trying to be very proactive and a problem comes then you have torah, get really energetic. I will get through this challenge, rah! But when you’re workingfor something greater and something greater is helping you and you feel that andbelieve that then when a problem comes you’re kind of more relaxed. You’re like well,okay, this is another message. This is just another message I have to figure out. This isjust another piece of guidance that is here to help me in some way. I just have to figureout how it’s supposed to help and what I’m supposed to do.So, challenges actually become almost welcome. You almost welcome them. Whenthey come you’re like oh, okay, what’s this meant to teach me? What’s this meant to do?How is this meant to guide me? You can kind of greet it with more of a relaxed smileand then just figure it out. Also, you have a feeling that it’s not just your own energy thatyou’re using, but that you’re actually connected to some great big energy out there andthat let’s you work harder but feel more relaxed.So that’s what I’ve been focusing on lately in my own life is really developing thismindset, this mentality and, you know, sometimes I do and sometimes I don’t.Sometimes I’m much more proactive and, rah, super energized and goal-oriented, butwww.EffortlessEnglishClub.com