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I HEAR YOU’RE AFRAID OF DYING<br />

OR AFRAID SOMEONE YOU LOVE WILL DIE BEFORE YOU<br />

MEMORIAL SERVICES FOR ALL LOSSES,<br />

NOT JUST FOR THE PHYSICAL<br />

DEATHS OF HUMANS<br />

While teaching at four residential drug and alcohol<br />

recovery centers over a ten-year period, I encouraged<br />

the clients to hold a memorial service for their old life as<br />

an addict. This type of service can be done alone or with<br />

a few trusted friends.<br />

The loss of:<br />

r our addiction<br />

r any bad habit<br />

r our health<br />

r our job<br />

r our vocation<br />

r our home<br />

r a dream that will not be realized<br />

All deserve acknowledgement. This can be done by<br />

drawing a picture, lighting a candle, playing selected<br />

pieces of music or whatever would be perfect for you to<br />

do.<br />

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