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ONE OF EIGHT CHILDREN GROWING<br />

UP IN ST. LOUIS, MO., GERRY BUCKLEY<br />

WAS BORN HARD-OF-HEARING. AS HE<br />

GREW, HIS CONDITION PROGRESSED.<br />

THE MORE HEARING HE LOST, THE<br />

MORE DISCONNECTED HE FELT<br />

FROM THE WORLD AROUND HIM. TO<br />

COPE, HE PRETENDED TO HEAR THE<br />

CONVERSATIONS OF HIS FRIENDS AND<br />

FAMILY AS HE SAT IN SILENCE.<br />

“You act like you understand. You<br />

become a good faker,” he explains. “But I was<br />

becoming increasingly frustrated by the time I<br />

was done with high school.”<br />

After graduating in 1974, Buckley came to<br />

the National Technical Institute for the Deaf,<br />

a college at Rochester Institute of Technology<br />

serving deaf and hard-of-hearing students.<br />

Unlike his experience in his mainstream high<br />

school, he was surrounded by deaf students<br />

just like him, as well as hearing students who<br />

were interested and cared about deaf culture.<br />

It was transformational.<br />

“In high school, I would have to watch<br />

for visual cues. I’d laugh when they laughed,<br />

but I never really knew what was going on,”<br />

he recalls. “I came here, and all of the students<br />

were talking, communicating. You don’t have<br />

to fake it. You can be who you are.”<br />

But the climate outside of NTID wasn’t<br />

as welcoming. As a social work major, he and<br />

his fellow classmates had difficulty getting<br />

placements, even in Rochester. People simply<br />

weren’t ready for a deaf workforce. Buckley<br />

was undeterred.<br />

NTID was a national experiment,<br />

established in 1965 through an act of<br />

Congress. As a young student, Buckley was<br />

reminded that the eyes of the nation were on<br />

him and his peers.<br />

“There was a feeling that we were<br />

breaking barriers. That was our role. That was<br />

our responsibility,” he says.<br />

After graduating and working in state<br />

hospitals and mental health institutes, Buckley<br />

increasingly found that he was educating the<br />

people he served, helping them to become<br />

self-advocates. He channeled this passion<br />

“There was a<br />

feeling that we<br />

were breaking<br />

barriers. That<br />

was our role.<br />

That was our<br />

responsibility.”<br />

into more schooling, obtaining a master’s of<br />

social work from the University of Missouri<br />

and earning a doctorate in special education<br />

from the University of Kansas. For the deaf,<br />

education meant so much more than a<br />

diploma.<br />

“Until we have equivalent degrees, we<br />

can’t speak for ourselves.”<br />

He also got involved in the political<br />

process, lobbying for establishment of deaf<br />

social work positions, and seeking to help<br />

an underserved deaf population dealing<br />

with issues such as suicide, alcoholism, and<br />

domestic abuse.<br />

“There was no mental health system for<br />

the deaf. The system wasn’t serving them. It<br />

didn’t know how,” he remembers.<br />

In 1990, Buckley made the decision to<br />

return to NTID, this time as an educator. He<br />

was again called by a sense of responsibility, to<br />

give back to the school that had given him so<br />

much opportunity. He also felt an even greater<br />

responsibility: One of his three children is<br />

deaf.<br />

“He started bringing me to NTID<br />

functions when I was seven years old,” recalls<br />

Dr. Jennifer Miller, Buckley’s daughter. “He’d<br />

point out a wide variety of deaf role models,<br />

and it really cultivated my interest in coming<br />

here and being a part of the college experience<br />

once I was older.”<br />

Like Buckley’s experience decades before,<br />

Miller felt a sense of belonging in Rochester.<br />

“I was very young, but distinctly<br />

remember feeling shocked by how quickly<br />

we were invited to events and holiday<br />

get-togethers,” she says. “It was thrilling<br />

to understand everything, and strangely<br />

wonderful to be around people who didn’t see<br />

me as different.”<br />

The exposure to deaf culture at NTID and<br />

in Rochester contributed to Miller pursuing<br />

her own dreams, without worrying about<br />

being limited by her deafness. She is now a<br />

veterinarian living in Rochester.<br />

After serving NTID for nearly 20 years,<br />

Buckley was named NTID president and RIT<br />

vice president and dean in 2011. He can think<br />

of no better place for new deaf students to<br />

learn and find a sense of belonging.<br />

“I say Rochester is the only place that<br />

you have to worry about finding people who<br />

don’t sign,” Buckley says, joking that it can<br />

be difficult having a private conversation in<br />

American Sign Language in Rochester, because<br />

so many Rochesterians sign.<br />

“Most places here have learned how to<br />

communicate and be accessible. Because it’s<br />

so comfortable, many students don’t want<br />

to leave, but they should,” he says. “We’re<br />

preparing them to give back. We want them<br />

to go back and work on advocacy for other<br />

opportunities in other cities.”<br />

Buckley stays focused on the future,<br />

always looking for ways that he can positively<br />

impact the deaf community, and not resting<br />

on achievements such as a 94 percent job<br />

placement rate and higher average salaries for<br />

NTID graduates.<br />

Right now, the bulk of his time is spent<br />

working with the students at NTID, preparing<br />

them for a career and life ahead.<br />

“I have the best job in the world. This<br />

place believed enough in me to help me<br />

overcome my doubts. I look at the students,<br />

and I know one day one of them will replace<br />

me. One of them will look up and say, ‘That’s<br />

possible.’”<br />

—Jen Palumbo<br />

Matt Calabrese<br />

Issue 9 <strong>January</strong> / <strong>February</strong> <strong>2015</strong> | <strong>POST</strong> 25

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