Another Twist in The Tale
My Granddad's book about his life
My Granddad's book about his life
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We went to bed by about midnight after gett<strong>in</strong>g the kids to bed much earlier and we both <br />
found it very difficult to adjust and I'll never forget say<strong>in</strong>g to myself how difficult it must have <br />
been after the last war when some soldiers, wives, girlfriends etc had been separated for 5 to <br />
6 years cont<strong>in</strong>uously... I then realised why so many marriages and friendships never survived, <br />
as these couples had lived totally different lives for 5 to 6 years. <br />
My dream of celebrat<strong>in</strong>g my first night with my wife, gett<strong>in</strong>g her up on the chandeliers, never <br />
materialised, th<strong>in</strong>gs were quite cold. But life soon hotted up at 7 o'clock <strong>in</strong> the morn<strong>in</strong>g, I <br />
heard Valerie scream<strong>in</strong>g but I couldn't see her, she was <strong>in</strong> the bathroom, so I rushed <strong>in</strong> and <br />
she screamed at me “I can't stand this, there's rats been eat<strong>in</strong>g the soap on the soap dish on <br />
the s<strong>in</strong>k... and look there's rat poo on the floor of the bathroom”!! <strong>The</strong>y had also eaten most <br />
of my underpants. <br />
I was absolutely flabbergasted and we had a row there and then when she said “I can't stand <br />
this we will have to move out”. I was broken hearted, I really was and I thought oh my god, <br />
<strong>in</strong>stead of pleasure we had agro, we hadn't even been there 24 hours!! I said to myself, if she <br />
is go<strong>in</strong>g to get so upset over a couple of rats, this cultural change which was about to hit her <br />
as she landed <strong>in</strong> Ceylon could destroy her... <br />
I say that because Valerie's trip from Rotterdam to Colombo took 7 weeks (and we had not <br />
seen each other for about six months) and <strong>in</strong> that time the cultural shock really hit me, <br />
however not <strong>in</strong> a negative way but <strong>in</strong> a very <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>tellectual understand<strong>in</strong>g of how <br />
different cultures survive and exist. <br />
Whilst wait<strong>in</strong>g for Valerie to arrive I met John Hunt, who I've already mentioned, and we both <br />
found that <strong>in</strong> those 7 weeks with me visit<strong>in</strong>g the club daily and all weekends I soon realised <br />
how many male members of the club were on their own without a wife and then I realized, <br />
like John Hunts wife refused to jo<strong>in</strong> him <strong>in</strong> Ceylon (which he was very happy to accept), many <br />
ladies and girlfriends soon left for home because they could not accept the different way of <br />
life to what they had been used to <strong>in</strong> the UK. Asia is the opposite of visit<strong>in</strong>g Eastbourne and <br />
Brighton beach for example, and it's this stra<strong>in</strong> which caused many broken marriages. <br />
Christmas Eve, Colombo Swimm<strong>in</strong>g Club, 1968, 7pm <br />
<strong>The</strong> club was absolutely packed, everyone dr<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g, danc<strong>in</strong>g, swimm<strong>in</strong>g, div<strong>in</strong>g, really <strong>in</strong> the <br />
Christmas spirit when suddenly that spirit was ru<strong>in</strong>ed because Johnny boy, who was I th<strong>in</strong>k 6, <br />
suddenly appeared scream<strong>in</strong>g his head off and everybody rushed around to see what the <br />
problem was, it was someth<strong>in</strong>g to do with Peters arm. <br />
<strong>The</strong>y had a contest “Slippery Pole”, which was two children straddl<strong>in</strong>g a greasy pole and <br />
hitt<strong>in</strong>g each other with pillow slips to knock each other off. Unfortunately it was put over the <br />
stone dance area and Peter fell off onto his elbow, which was fractured. <br />
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