Lifestyle Glitz - Miscellany October 2016

1. Physical evidence - Lipsticks marks
on his collar and anywhere on his clothing,
or unexpected marks of sexual activity, or
perfume and hair. More than once, such
signs are a red flag, not a coincidence.
2. Sudden changes in working hours
that become longer than usual, and there
may be nights when he is missing. It may
be for a couple of days a week or more.
There may be a sudden increase in expense,
which don't include you.
3. He is not always present mentally,
even if he is there physically. He is often in
his own world.
4. He spends more time improving his
appearance. It may mean that he dresses
better than before, showers before coming
to bed, and he may even spend more time
than necessary cleaning his car.
5. He may express enthusiasm about
a colleague, a single female, or even
friends that you know. He may be talking to
that one woman more often and too willingly.
In fact, he may seem over-helpful, and
make you wonder if he has a crush.
6. Suddenly, you don't matter. He
stopped noticing you, even if you are wearing
the oddest clothing. You may even burn
a hair strand at a candle light dinner but he
wouldn't notice.
7. Friends, family, and colleagues say
things that hint you. People who know you
may have your interest at heart but wouldn't
want to be open. Pay attention to the
hints in their conversations.
8. Listen to your instinct. Women have
an inner voice, which screams he is having
an affair. Your intuition doesn't have an
agenda; it is just a voice telling you to pick
the subtle clues. Pay attention!
9. He accuses you of being too jealous
and obsessed, or even crazy. Remember, a
cheater's best defense is attacking you before
you say anything. It is a classic ploy aiming
to make you doubt yourself. Unless you
are a habitually jealous woman, trust your
gut.
10. An accomplished cheater will show
you his cell phone, text messages, and
emails. That's because he has another cell
phone that you have no idea exists. He will
also cover all tracks on social media.
11. Suddenly, he is over nice. He allows
you to watch whatever you want, buys you
gifts, and even takes you to your favorite restaurant
for dinner. For some men, an affair
makes them happier or gives them guilt so
they make it up to you.
12. Some men constantly pick faults on
you and accuse you of cheating. They become
easy to irritate, and he is always finding
alone moments to check his cell phone.
Besides, they start thinking that if they succeeded
in cheating you, you may be cheating
them too.
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