UNCOMFORTABLE CONVERSATION

For how long am I going to teach you these things? You haven’t
learnt a thing! Why does your mother need to know about your
break up with Alex? I can’t believe that you are even
considering telling her about the baby daddy dilemma, who
does that?
Aunty,
U-Crazy
Kwani how old are you? If I were you, I would
focus on the pregnancy thingy it kinda covers
everything. “I am pregnant”. All it takes is a 3
letter sentence, what is the big deal there?
Wait until she leaves then text her that you are pregnant; She is in
a hurry after all and might not process the
information well. If she doesn’t reply or come
to your house, give her a day or two to process
then call her. If she doesn’t pick, show up and
inform her that you need to talk. Aunty Crazy is
right this one time, your mum does not need to
know aboutthe break up or the baby daddy drama.
It would tear her in pieces.
Aunty,
U-Nice
Aunty,
U-Wise
This is a delicate situation, first if she is in a hurry
to leave, this might not be the right time to bring
this up. Ask her when she is available for an hour
or two you would like to have an important
conversation with her. If she insists that you tell
her what it is, tell her that you will not be able to
go to Australia for the scholarship because you are
pregnant and you would like to have the baby before you
proceed. You are still eligible for the scholarship and you would
further it in a year or so.
DADAZINE
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