04022017

SATURDAY Vanguard, FEBRUARY 4, 2017—23
JULIET EBIRIM
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What is the unpardonable
thing a spouse or lover
can do to you?
Have you been wronged by a lover or spouse?
Is it unforgivable? Some people who have
been wronged find it hard to forgive and let
go of the feelings of anger, pain and betrayal. But in
marriages and relationships, forgiveness is key as
mistakes and offenses are inevitable. However, most
marriages and relationships have crashed due to
irreconcilable differences as people involved find it
difficult to forgive. In this edition, Saturday Vanguard
got the responses of Nigerian celebrities on some acts
that are downright 'Beyond Pardon'. Read on...
•Dimplez
Cheat on me
with a relative
— Dimplez, Singer,
T he
unforgivable
thing that can be
done to me is if I
catch my spouse
making out with
a family member.
I will be
disappointed and
hurt. So I will
just stay away
from them – my
spouse and the
family member
involved. I am
definitely going
to quit the
relationship.
•Jennifer
Enujiugha
Stare at another
woman in my
presence
—Sandra Ifudu, Singer
Iknow this might sound
petty but when I'm with
my lover, it's downright
offensive for him to stare at
another woman or
even give another
woman a second
look. It is
disrespectful because
it means that he
thinks that she is
more attractive or
she has something
that appeals to
him that I don't. It
happened to me
once and I stood
up, walked away
and called it quits!
That was the end
of the relationship.
It's petty I know,
but to me, it's
beyond pardon!
Nothing is
beyond pardon
— Jennifer Enujiugha, Model
Personally, the
way I see life I
don't think
anything is beyond
pardon. It might
take a while, but at
some point I will
forgive and let it go.
There is nothing that
can't be forgiven.
•Sandra
•Nev
Harrison
Sleep with anyone
related to me
— Cynthia Agholor, Actress
Where there
is love,
nothing is
unpardonable,
but if he sleeps
with anyone
related to me -
my sister,
cousin, niece or
any other
relative, I will
hardly forgive
him. For me,
that is the
height of
betrayal and
disrespect and I
will be very
hurt. In that
case, divorce is
a sure thing.
•Cynthia Agholor
Keep past marriage and kids a secret
— Nev Harrison, Comedian/Ventriloquist
If I find out my spouse was
once married and kept the news
from me, I'm going to have great
difficulty forgiving her. I say this
because I don't understand why
people do it. A lot of people with
children from previous relationships
•Iyabo
Ojo
and failed marriages start new
marriages and relationships
without informing their new spouse
of what has occurred in the past.
It's best to tell your present partner
that you were once married or that
you already have kids. Let them
decide whether to stay or leave. I
won't leave if I love you that much
because I appreciate honesty. But if
you keep it a secret, I will show you
the way out through the back door.
Keep it a secret, get kicked out!
Hate my kids
— Iyabo Ojo, Actress
The only thing I can
never forgive a
spouse or lover is if he
hates my kids. That is
totally unpardonable.
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