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<strong>VOL</strong> 6: <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />

Our<br />

Mamas<br />

Stories<br />

#OurMamasStories<br />

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EDITORIAL<br />

<strong>THE</strong> <strong>HAIRPOLITAN</strong>S<br />

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Evie Dondi<br />

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Karimi Kagwe<br />

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Nina Odongo<br />

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Wagio Mokaya<br />

wagio@hairpolitan.com<br />

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Kawira Mirero<br />

Lucy King’ori<br />

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Jeri Muchura (Photos by Jeri)<br />

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I recently told a friend that I really don’t see myself<br />

as a mother. I am aware that I have three little boys<br />

to kiss, cuddle and spank; but I don’t readily identify<br />

myself with or feel comfortable being called Mama<br />

Nani (someone’s mother) unless it’s by my sons’<br />

playmates.<br />

Don’t get me wrong, I love being their Mama but I<br />

fight a daily battle of remembering that I am more<br />

than just that. I am a daughter, a sister, a wife, a<br />

family member and friend to many. I have ambitions,<br />

dreams and career/business goals that I’d like to<br />

achieve. I also have passions and desires that go far<br />

beyond my role as a mother.<br />

As we celebrate mothers this month, this issue seeks<br />

to get to know different women (who are mothers)<br />

and understand who they are beyond motherhood.<br />

Before we get into what’s in this issue I’d like to<br />

thank everyone who voted for us at the <strong>2017</strong> BAKE<br />

Awards. Your continued support and cheerleading<br />

is invaluable and appreciated.<br />

I would also like to announce that we shall be<br />

taking a break from publishing the monthly issue of<br />

the online magazine. This is to enable us sort out<br />

some admin and back-end matters. Not to worry<br />

though, we’ll be back shortly, hopefully bigger and<br />

better. Our online weekly articles will continue, so<br />

remember to subscribe to our website to receive<br />

updates via email.<br />

On our cover this month is Janet Mgeni Muchura<br />

who candidly answers our COVER GIRL’S 21<br />

QUESTIONS on P4. Then Wagio Mokaya talks to<br />

Onea on Hair on the resurgence of the Kamatana<br />

HAIRSTYLE on P5.<br />

In line with the issue’s title “Our Mamas’ Stories” we<br />

join Karimi Kagwe as she sits with her mother Mrs.<br />

Margaret Mbae to reminisce about her childhood<br />

in RAISE on P12-13. I get to FEATURE my mother<br />

Grace N. Kihara on how she came to be a pioneer<br />

Graphic Designer in Kenya on P14-18.<br />

In CREATE we join Wagio Mokaya as she learns how<br />

to tie & dye at the feet of Cucu Janet on P42-44.<br />

The team at Mambo Pambo let us know what they<br />

have for us to WEAR during the coming Kenyan<br />

winter on P26-31. In INDUSTRY this month we<br />

talk to Agnes Maganjo, proprietor of Leo Salon &<br />

Barber on P22-25.<br />

Evie Dondi explores the trend where grey is the new<br />

black in KNOW HAIR on P32-33. On P6-9, I get<br />

to ask Jacinta Mueni-Kaikai a few questions about<br />

leaving employment after many years in LIFE.<br />

Image by The Githegi Photography<br />

In MOVE/EAT, Nina Odongo schools us on<br />

Osteoporosis and how we can mitigate it by adopting<br />

a healthy lifestyle on P19-21.<br />

Our TOPICAL segment this month is by Al Kags. He<br />

explains the idea and reasons behind his book Living<br />

Memories and gives us some interesting information<br />

on Gathoni Wa Koinange who is set to turn 117 this<br />

year on P46-47.<br />

We’re excited to host our Ugandan natural sisters in<br />

ENJOY on P34-37 as they tell us about their recent<br />

annual Naturalista event dubbed Kinks & Kurls<br />

Expo Uganda that saw our very own, Sheila Ndinda<br />

feature as their guest speaker. All the way from<br />

Aussie, we welcome Tabitha Tongoi of the famed<br />

Craving Yellow blog as she shares with us how she<br />

put together her recent event Craving Too on P38-<br />

41.<br />

Finally, we REVIEW a product that got high praise<br />

in our Monday #HairpolitanAsks segment. Check it<br />

out on P10-11.<br />

Yours,<br />

Wambui JL<br />

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COVER GIRL’S<br />

21 QUESTIONS HAIRSTYLE<br />

WE ASK <strong>THE</strong><br />

FEATURED COVER<br />

GIRL 21 QUESTIONS<br />

WITH AN AIM TO<br />

GET TO KNOW HER<br />

BETTER!<br />

Cover Girl: Janet Mgeni Muchura<br />

Photographer: Jeri Muchura of<br />

Photos by Jeri<br />

Makeup: She woke up like this!<br />

1. Once I wake up and reach out for my ginger &<br />

lemon water.<br />

2. I always have a notebook and pen in my<br />

handbag.<br />

3. My children are the greatest achievement in<br />

my life.<br />

4. My favourite meal to cook ahhhem...Ugali<br />

5. I would advise a new and young mother to go<br />

with her instincts, get guidance from older<br />

women, pray and trust God.<br />

6. Best compliment I’ve ever received was I love<br />

deeply...I guess sometimes to a fault.<br />

7. I keep my hair natural because it’s freeing,<br />

though I would prefer to have it short than<br />

long.<br />

8. My favorite book of all time is the Holy Bible.<br />

9. I have never traveled to my son-in-law’s<br />

“shaggs” and ISRAEL.<br />

10. I am passionate about unity and peace in all<br />

spheres.<br />

11. I would never leave my home without my<br />

glasses.<br />

12. Lip stick, lipgloss or lipbalm? Lipstick<br />

13. I am not on any social media platforms.<br />

14. The one thing I dreamed of doing and achieved<br />

is getting back to ‘ngumbaro’ to learn more.<br />

15. My current dietary goals are trying to eat smart<br />

16. The happiest day in my life was birthing my<br />

children - Awesome experience!<br />

17. I am privileged to have a great number of<br />

children including my own.<br />

18. I am dad’s little girl, a sister, a wife and A<br />

WOMAN first before I am a mother .<br />

19. I loved studying mathematics in school though<br />

never got the grasp of it. Sigh!<br />

20. I don’t have a problem with tattoos (used to<br />

though), as long as they are appropriate and<br />

properly done.<br />

21. The best advice I would give about being a<br />

woman - Be genuine. Be yourself. Be smart.<br />

Love much. Forgive all. You are a Powerful<br />

being!<br />

<strong>THE</strong><br />

KAMATANA<br />

RETURNS<br />

by Wagio Mokaya:<br />

“IT IS A<br />

PROTECTIVE<br />

STYLE THAT’S<br />

FRIENDLY ON<br />

<strong>THE</strong> HAIRLINE<br />

“<br />

Images courtesy of Sarah Onea Osiako<br />

As we return natural, it makes sense when we start to see hairstyles that we left in our childhood make a<br />

modern day comeback. One such hair do is the Kamatana style. I enquire from Sarah Onea Osiako, owner<br />

of Onea on Hair, what the resurgence is about.<br />

How can you describe the style?<br />

It is a style that I can bet was created even before even the normal cornrows. Kamatana back in the day was<br />

done using one’s own hair and that was it. I thought of redoing it but giving it a fresh twist by adding Kinky<br />

Braids on natural hair and Abuja Braids on relaxed hair. The end result was being able to achieve different<br />

looks from a Mohawk, to a middle bun to even a push back.<br />

Why the resurgence?<br />

The resurgence is happening because we are slowly embracing our African hairstyles that seemed lost. It<br />

is a protective style that’s friendly on the hairline.<br />

What are your charges?<br />

I charge are a little bit higher with Kinky braids than the normal straight braids. With Kinky braids one ends<br />

up using 2 packets, which retail at Kes. 700/= to which I add my labour so it comes to Kes. 2,500/=. While<br />

for normal braids I can use up to 4 packets at Kes. 280/= plus labour that comes to a total of Kes. 1,800/=.<br />

The benefit of Kinky braids is that they can be re-used.<br />

Follow & Like ONEA on HAIR on Facebook<br />

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LIFE<br />

Jacinta and her lovely family<br />

Mr & Mrs. Kaikai on a night out<br />

BALANCING<br />

LIFE, WORK<br />

AND FAMILY<br />

Interview with Jacinta Mueni<br />

Kaikai<br />

My first official job was at Ogilvy & Mather<br />

(K), where I met many interesting people who<br />

have now become life long friends, business<br />

mentors, cheerleaders and inspirations. One<br />

such person is Jacinta. She was in the Production<br />

department while I started my career in the<br />

Creative Department. If I had to pick a successful<br />

mother & career woman, it would have to be her.<br />

I’ve watched her eldest son grow from a little<br />

boy to a man; I saw her go through her last two<br />

pregnancies with ease and grace. All the while,<br />

Jacinta would keep us in line at the office to<br />

promptly deliver work. She would then take off<br />

at 5pm sharp to check into Mommy-mode. Last<br />

year, she left employment after what seemed to<br />

be many years. I knew I’d one day have to tell her<br />

story, so here goes:<br />

Before you worked at Ogilvy and Mather where<br />

were you employed and what were you doing?<br />

My first job immediately after University (KU) was<br />

at a company called Kenwide Media. Being a small<br />

firm I worked in all departments but specifically as<br />

a Media Planner. Thereafter, I joined KulGraphics<br />

where I got trained in the world of Graphics and<br />

‘Colour Separations’ and all technical aspects of<br />

Production, while still doing Client service. I was<br />

then head hunted to join Ogilvy. May I add that the<br />

Advert that recruited me won a Gold at the APA<br />

Awards!<br />

How many years did you work at Ogilvy and what<br />

was that like throughout the years? I worked at<br />

Ogilvy for over 15 years. Ogilvy was a great and fun<br />

place to work! We were like a family and everyone<br />

knew what everyone was doing and going through<br />

and where they were! You called Ogilvy people first<br />

when anything good or bad happened. We fought<br />

like crazy at times but we would forget all about it<br />

over a drink at our office pub, the O Bar. The work<br />

environment and atmosphere was fantastic.<br />

What sparked the thought of leaving a job you’d<br />

dedicated yourself to for that long? Over the last<br />

3 years I felt a discontent start to come over me.<br />

Work was no longer fulfilling for me, and my constant<br />

feeling was a quiet desperation to be in control of<br />

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my time. My job was hectic, straddling between TV,<br />

Radio and Print. I have young kids who still need me<br />

to check homework and spend time with them, yet<br />

there I was going for weekend shoots etc.Two years<br />

ago, I also set up a physical shop which I had run<br />

online and from the boot of my car for as long as I<br />

was employed but now I wanted to also have some<br />

time to dedicate to it. As a family, we have business<br />

plans and it was important that one of us has time to<br />

actualize them.<br />

What was the process of deciding to leave and<br />

how did it affect your family when you told them?<br />

The process of leaving ended up being quite easy;<br />

it was a negotiated exit. For the last two years, I<br />

had told everyone who cared to listen especially<br />

the HR ladies, that I would want to leave but I had<br />

dedicated so many years there that resigning was<br />

not the best option for me. However, people kept<br />

being let go and I would be left out! Finally, last<br />

December the opportunity to leave came. I will not<br />

go into too many details for legal reasons.<br />

How many children do you have? How has it<br />

been being a career woman while raising them?<br />

I have 3 children, 2 boys and a girl. Raising them<br />

while working was not a walk in the park. I did<br />

suffer guilt once in a while about not being able to<br />

spend as much time as I would have wanted with<br />

them, and at times leaving them to go do my work<br />

out of town. But all in all, I managed well because<br />

although I was employed, I came up with my own<br />

rule that I would not work past 5pm except in very<br />

exceptional cases. It used to frustrate some people<br />

but for me I preferred doing most of my work during<br />

the 8 working hours and leaving on time because<br />

I was more than an employee. My most important<br />

role was at home. Work can wait, the family cannot.<br />

Your employer will forget you in a week but your kids<br />

need you all the time. In my case I must mention it<br />

helped having their dad there and very hands on<br />

with them so he would step in whenever I was not<br />

available.<br />

Would you encourage your children to be<br />

employed or to employ themselves? I like to<br />

think I am a very pragmatic person. I have enjoyed<br />

being employed very much and now I am enjoying<br />

being self employed. I would want my children<br />

to be free to make their own choices, but for me<br />

I was always both a Business person and a Career<br />

person. However, I do not mind them starting out<br />

as employees for a while to give them insight into<br />

how businesses are run, and how to work within a<br />

structured environment.<br />

How is life outside of the working routine of<br />

9-5pm? Is it what you expected? It has now been<br />

four months, my best four months! I now have what<br />

Jacinta with Resiato (girl) and Lenkai (boy).<br />

I wanted, control of my time. Yaay! It is up to me to<br />

choose what to do and when. Finally, I can engage<br />

in some of the passions that I had neglected. For<br />

example, I have not drawn anything for years, I<br />

plan to go back to this, which is one of the things I<br />

enjoyed doing before. Well my only surprise is that<br />

I do not have the acres of free or idle time, which I<br />

expected. A lot is happening all at the same time.<br />

How has leaving work affected your relationship<br />

with your children? My family was ecstatic that I<br />

was leaving work, especially my husband who had<br />

listened to me moan about work for a few years! The<br />

children are one happy lot, they now almost always<br />

find me at home when they come from school,<br />

something they really like. I check homework and<br />

guide them through it personally, whereas before,<br />

at times, I would check it in a hurry in order to fit my<br />

own evening activities in and prepare for the next<br />

day.<br />

I have more time to indulge in different activities<br />

with them and now when they are on holiday we<br />

are doing much more. It is tough when kids are on<br />

holiday but you only see them in the evenings and<br />

weekends.<br />

What are you currently up to now? I am still<br />

Consulting in Advertising & Production and<br />

specifically for Oxygene Marketing; I am also still<br />

running my household & home accessories shop<br />

where I stock top quality items. Two months ago we<br />

dug a borehole, and have set up a water purification<br />

plant. We are doing a 6-step water purification<br />

“I DO NOT HAVE<br />

<strong>THE</strong> ACRES OF<br />

FREE OR IDLE<br />

TIME, WHICH I<br />

EXPECTED<br />

“<br />

Images courtesy of Jacinta Mueni Kaikai<br />

process and will pack all quantities from 500ml to 20<br />

litres. We also plan to offer customized labels. I also<br />

take on interior design projects. Basically my hands<br />

are full!<br />

What would you advise a working mother who<br />

is just starting out? I will start with the cliché that<br />

it will all work out and so one should not worry to<br />

death about everything, as working mothers starting<br />

out are bound to do.<br />

My first piece of advice is be well organized both<br />

at home and in the office. One way of organizing<br />

yourself at home is to make sure you have a good<br />

nanny who will take care of your children so that<br />

you can work without too many disruptions. You can<br />

also involve your family to help out with the kids as<br />

necessary.<br />

Jacinta with her eldest Leon<br />

Work smart at work and deliver, that way, when you<br />

need some time off to tend to mummy duties most<br />

employers will understand.<br />

Prioritize your family and people will understand<br />

and respect that. For example, let everyone know<br />

that if your baby is unwell, you will not be able to go<br />

to work, when there are school events, you will need<br />

to go for them and also that when you have small<br />

children working very late nights almost daily cannot<br />

work for you.<br />

Ask other mums for help/advice in navigating<br />

motherhood.<br />

Create me time, for wine and a catch up with the<br />

girls, a spa visit, do your nails, or just lie down<br />

quietly on your own!<br />

Be fearless and pray.<br />

Follow & Like Mueni’s Accessories<br />

& Decor on Facebook<br />

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REVIEW<br />

hold the good ingredients and at the same time last<br />

long. After four months of research and training on<br />

soap making at KIRDI (Kenya Industrial Research<br />

and Development Institute) I was able to come up<br />

with a shampoo bar that contained beer barley,<br />

honey, glycerine, rose water, avocado oil, bentonite<br />

clay, castor oil & coconut oil. A bar that was ideal<br />

for all hair types.<br />

It took about another year for the Kenyan market<br />

to embrace the product but now three years later, I<br />

am happy with the response we are getting as the<br />

pioneers of the shampoo bar in Kenya.<br />

One of of bu.ke’s clients and champions had this to<br />

say:<br />

Scent:<br />

I was worried about it because it is the clay<br />

shampoo bar and I thought it would have an<br />

overpowering clay smell. It was earthy like when<br />

rain hits the ground. A nice smell.<br />

Use:<br />

I rarely use shampoo because it dries my hair too<br />

much so I was cautious of this but my hair didn’t<br />

feel snap and crack clean. It was clean but not dry.<br />

I love that it lathered well without tooooo much<br />

water and it is value for money.<br />

Jennifer Githae - Hairpolitan Issue 2 Cover Girl<br />

In our #HairpolitanAsks segment every<br />

Monday on Instagram we asked you “Which<br />

locally made soap or shampoo do you use<br />

and why do you like it?”<br />

Hands down the Shampoo Bar by bu.ke<br />

products won the day. Here are your<br />

comments.<br />

The @bu.ke_products shampoo bar. I like<br />

that it doesn’t leave my hair feeling dry.<br />

via @agirlcalledsonn<br />

I use @bu.ke_products shampoo bars. I<br />

like the activated black soap one for deep<br />

clarifying, it is fantastic for using after gel<br />

styles. I like bentonite one for every other<br />

wash.<br />

via @suziannaloves<br />

I also use @bu.ke_products shampoo bar as<br />

a clarifier and S.S. shea butter forest styling<br />

and the growth stimulating oil for the scalp.<br />

via @newnowandnextnatural<br />

bu.ke’s SHAMPOO BAR<br />

with Lucy King’ori<br />

REBRAND (from Shea By Asal):<br />

We rebranded at the beginning of the year from Shea By Asal to bu.ke because we wanted to incorporate<br />

other ingredients such as deep conditioners, toners and wipes which will not necessarily have shea butter<br />

in them. The name “Shea by Asal” originally worked for our product range but for the new range, it would<br />

have been limiting.<br />

SHAMPOO BARS:<br />

In April 2014, I felt the need to come up with a shampoo that would be ‘value for money’ for our clients<br />

because most good shampoos cost quite a bit. I had personally gotten tired of spending a lot on a bottle<br />

that would only last me three washes so I did research on formulating a solid bar that would be able to<br />

I use @bu.ke_products shampoo bar, it lathers<br />

really well, I think I’ll use it for the rest of<br />

the year, it also does not do the squeaky<br />

clean wash. via @nyasuba_lando_lando<br />

@bu.ke_products shampoo bar and<br />

@akusiorganics ... works well for my hair.<br />

via @4c_hair_chiq<br />

@bu.ke_products shampoo bars are all I use.<br />

via @karimikagwe<br />

Shampoo bar by @bu.ke_products<br />

via @pulchraevey<br />

Thank you for your comments, keep<br />

following and responding to our questions<br />

every Monday.<br />

If you have any question you’d like an answer<br />

to email talktous@hairpolitan.com<br />

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RAISE<br />

THROWING<br />

BACK WITH<br />

MRS. MBAE<br />

by Karimi Kagwe<br />

I love the month of May. Every year my family joins<br />

the rest of the world in celebrating our mum, Mrs<br />

Margaret Mbae, on Mother‘s day. Mum was also<br />

born in May! So we have two wonderful reasons to<br />

reflect on the special gift that she is.<br />

Our time together, was punctuated with lots of<br />

laughter as mum regaled me with tales of her<br />

upbringing. She is the fifth born in a family of nine<br />

children and she has seven brothers and one sister.<br />

In their younger years, she and her sister were<br />

responsible for most of the household chores. The<br />

chores included fetching water, cleaning the house,<br />

cooking meals, and laundering clothes for all the<br />

children. “I remember washing the khaki school<br />

uniforms. They were really hard and difficult to scrub<br />

clean, ’’ she recalls. These clothes were vigorously<br />

washed on a stone at the village well on weekends.<br />

The villagers would meet to wash their clothes, fetch<br />

water and take a bath. Surprisingly, the well water<br />

Mwende Mbae (Sister), Karimi Kagwe, Nimrod Mbae<br />

(Dad), Margaret Mbae (Mum) & Muthoni Ngari (Sister).<br />

was clean enough to do the afore mentioned tasks,<br />

plus for drinking and household use.<br />

I was shocked to find out that, during those days,<br />

there was no playtime. Children were to be seen<br />

and not heard, especially when there were visitors.<br />

However, mum and her siblings still found creative<br />

ways to play their games yet still attend to their<br />

daily chores. Cleverly, this only happened when their<br />

parents were away. Nowadays, children have rights<br />

and entitlements to play and leisure.<br />

“There were no televisions or smartphones. We<br />

“<br />

WE GREW UP IN A<br />

HAPPY HOME AND<br />

NEVER FELT LIKE<br />

WE MISSED OUT ON<br />

ANYTHING<br />

“<br />

Credit to Pixell8 Photography.<br />

would occupy ourselves with games of our own<br />

creation. We didn’t feel like we were poor or needy;<br />

we grew up in a happy home and never felt like we<br />

missed out on anything. My mum was a great story<br />

teller and would, whenever time allowed, tell us<br />

interesting stories which I remember to this day,”<br />

Mum expounds.<br />

There were advantages of being born into a large<br />

family, which came to be seen in the sharing out of<br />

duties. Her parents hired extra hands to work in the<br />

garden, but only as support staff. The children would<br />

all work together and be given rows of coffee for<br />

weeding, spraying insecticide and pruning. “Parents<br />

do not give children responsibilities as they used to<br />

like in our time,” Mum notes. Later, in her teenage<br />

years she went to a boarding high school while most<br />

of her siblings at that time were in a day school.<br />

“When I returned from boarding school it felt like<br />

payback time as I had to do all the chores because I<br />

had been away, it was my time to do the work!’’ she<br />

quips.<br />

In the coffee-picking season, they would at times be<br />

at the coffee factory late into the night. When they<br />

would return home, the boys would help to fetch<br />

water because of the lateness of the hour. They<br />

would then work together to cook the large ugali<br />

(a dish made from maizemeal). If a chicken were to<br />

be cooked for their large family, it would be just<br />

enough. Every morsel would be cooked, eaten and<br />

the nice pieces belonged to the grown ups. “To this<br />

day, I don’t like to eat the drumsticks because I grew<br />

up knowing that the two pieces belonged to my<br />

parents!” Mum shares.<br />

When the holidays came along, her mother would<br />

send the girls to a family friend’s home. They would<br />

be sent bearing gifts from the garden. However,<br />

because the destination was quite a distance<br />

away, they would spend the night at the home and<br />

return the next day. It was safer for children to walk<br />

unaccompanied, as there were no kidnapping cases.<br />

I note that this is in stark contrast to modern times.<br />

I ask her what her views are on the differences<br />

between raising children, then and now. She talks<br />

about smart phones being accessible to very young<br />

children; and if not monitored, it can lead to unwanted<br />

exposure to pornography and other societal vices.<br />

Mum highlights that even in the slum areas children<br />

can pay as little as Kes. 5/= to watch whatever they<br />

want as they are mostly on their own. “Nowadays we<br />

find both parents working and coming home late.<br />

They do not have as much influence on their children<br />

who are being raised by the media, the house helps<br />

and peers in school.”<br />

We wind down the interview with her remembering<br />

how they went to boarding school later in life. While,<br />

in this day & age, Mum’s heard of children being sent<br />

off when they are still very young. She feels it takes<br />

something away form the parent-child relationship.<br />

“Once they become teenagers it is harder to form a<br />

bond,” she adds.<br />

I’ve enjoyed listening to my mother sharing about<br />

her childhood but all she had to say couldn’t fit in<br />

this article. I left, deep in thought considering the<br />

demanding parenting journey ahead. There is truly a<br />

lot we can learn from the past.<br />

Mum later went on to work for decades in the<br />

education sector and is now retired. She now spends<br />

some of her time as a director at Koinoinia Education<br />

Centre.<br />

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FEATURE STORY<br />

<strong>THE</strong> MAKING OF A<br />

PIONEER CREATIVE<br />

Interview with Grace Nyokabi Kihara<br />

Before joining the University of Nairobi, 1969<br />

I remember once in lower primary being asked to<br />

explain, to the entire class, what our parents did<br />

for a living. I was at a great loss! I knew my mother,<br />

Grace, was a Graphic Designer because she said<br />

so but I didn’t know how to explain exactly what it<br />

meant. I spent many a weekend at her design studio<br />

playing with sticky rubbers made from cow gum or<br />

with left over fonts from discarded letrasets. Yet to<br />

be perfectly honest, my young mind, did not grasp<br />

the illustrious career that Mum was crafting as a<br />

female creative of her generation. When the idea to<br />

interview our mothers for this issue came up I took<br />

the chance to ask her as many questions about her<br />

career as I could.<br />

CHILDHOOD<br />

“<br />

INFLUENCES<br />

I was curious to know what<br />

in her childhood, being<br />

the fifth born in a family of<br />

seven children, could have<br />

contributed to her being a<br />

creative mind. She credits<br />

this to her late Mum, Peris<br />

Wambui Kihara (whom I<br />

am named after), who had<br />

a strong creative streak in<br />

her. My grandmother loved<br />

to cut and sew her own<br />

dresses. She also, at some<br />

point, attended a course<br />

offered by a colonial white<br />

lady where she learned to<br />

knit, quilt, bake and make jam and marmalade.<br />

Grace says she ended up learning how to knit at an<br />

early age and was already sewing her own underwear<br />

by the time she was in upper primary. She was also<br />

encouraged by her older sister, Lois, who taught<br />

her how to read and follow knitting patterns. While<br />

in Alliance Girls’ High School, she went on to knit<br />

pieces, which were entered for a competition at<br />

the Home Craft Section of the Nairobi International<br />

Show<br />

Grace goes on to credit her creative exposure,<br />

especially in the field of photography, to her late<br />

father Joshua Kihara Wang’ang’a. “Dad was taking<br />

us to the studio for family pictures in the 40’s and<br />

50’s. I found myself going for studio portraits before<br />

joining campus and actually seeking out a couple<br />

of good studios. We did basic photography at the<br />

University but I was to find myself slowly developing<br />

interest and buying my own cameras and snapping<br />

away especially during my travels out of the country,”<br />

she expounds.<br />

BECOMING A DESIGNER<br />

Growing up, I had a vague<br />

idea of her being part of<br />

the first batch of Graphic<br />

Designers out of the<br />

University of Nairobi (UoN).<br />

I finally sought to know<br />

exactly how this happened.<br />

She explained that after her<br />

studies in High School, she<br />

was at a loss on her career<br />

choice. The ones on offer<br />

namely Nursing, Secretarial<br />

and Teaching didn’t suit her<br />

tastes. She instead went to<br />

take up her A Levels at the<br />

then Highlands School (now<br />

Moi Girls), Eldoret. It was<br />

formerly an all European<br />

School that the Kenyan<br />

Government was taking<br />

over and africanizing. There she studied Fine Art,<br />

Geography and English Literature. She graduated<br />

and once again was faced with the dilemma of a<br />

career choice.<br />

“<br />

In those days, they who were artistically inclined<br />

attended Makerere University (Kampala,Uganda)<br />

where they could study Fine Art majoring in Painting<br />

and Sculpture. “I am not sure if I was good at drawing<br />

but I loved drawing maps in Geography and really<br />

coloring them,” she muses. At the time Nairobi was<br />

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Presenting final project at the University of Nairobi<br />

just but a constituent college of the University of East<br />

Africa and they only offered a Diploma in Fine Art.<br />

“It just happened that a new degree Design Course<br />

was being started at the University and without<br />

knowing what it was all about the career advisor<br />

recommended that I should try it because of my Fine<br />

Arts course.”<br />

The new course offered options in Graphic Design,<br />

Textile Design, Product and Industrial Design. The<br />

lecturers came from different parts of the world i.e.<br />

East Africa, Denmark, Germany, USA and Yugoslavia;<br />

therefore it gave the graduates multi-disciplinary<br />

exposure. The students had no idea what the course<br />

would mean in terms of a career path.<br />

was privileged to visit leading designers in London,<br />

Paris, Zurich and Munich.<br />

EMPLOYMENT<br />

Sadly, when Mum got back home she was in for a<br />

rude shock as there were no established posts for<br />

graduate designers in Government. “The private<br />

sector and specifically the fewadvertising agencies<br />

did not have openings for us because they were<br />

training their own employees on the job straight from<br />

High School. My colleagues were being placed in<br />

departments that had a section or anything remotely<br />

creative like KBC for Television captioning,” she<br />

bemoans. Grace was to be absorbed by the then<br />

“We spent time putting our lecturers to task to tell<br />

us what we were training for and where we would<br />

get jobs. We had a committed advisor and guide,<br />

our Professor and Head of Department who tirelessly<br />

scouted and invited people from Government and<br />

Industry to talk to us,” she explains. She goes on<br />

to add that those who were to take the course later<br />

had the benefit of seeing the past graduates in<br />

practice and would go on to choose design and have<br />

established careers.<br />

TRAVELLING <strong>THE</strong> WORLD<br />

Once she finished the degree course she was<br />

offered a Dutch Government scholarship, which saw<br />

her attend the Academie Industriele Vormgeving<br />

(Design Academy) in Eindhoven. After which, and<br />

with the help of her Nairobi Professor and Head of<br />

Department, she bagged a 3-month internship at<br />

Holland’s leading Graphic Design firm - Associatie<br />

voor Total Design NV (Total Design). Once done, she<br />

Grace in her time at Associatie voor Total Design NV<br />

(Total Design)<br />

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Ministry of Works (MOW). She had taken part and<br />

won their logo design competition in her final year at<br />

UoN. She was tasked with applying the logo on their<br />

range of stationery and to oversee its application.<br />

EAT / MOVE<br />

As fate would have it she was once again at the<br />

right place at the right time. The then Commander<br />

of the Presidential Escort to the Late President<br />

Mzee Jomo Kenyatta came looking for a design of a<br />

Commemorative Medal. It was for the Armed Forces<br />

for the 10th Independence Anniversary (1973). “I<br />

had not done anything like that but I did manage to<br />

produce a design that was acceptable and that was<br />

minted at the Royal Mint. I misplaced my sample but<br />

still have a Certificate signed by the Late President.”<br />

Grace went on to do more work for the ministry,<br />

one that earned her employer the Best Government<br />

Stand Design Award at the Nairobi International<br />

Show. However, her stint as an employee ended 18<br />

months later, once she got a full scholarship to study<br />

for her Masters in Graphic Design at the University<br />

of California in Los Angeles (UCLA).<br />

<strong>THE</strong> ENTREPRENEUR<br />

Grace all dolled up at her daughter’s wedding in<br />

2009.<br />

UNDERSTANDING<br />

OSTEOPOROSIS<br />

by Nina Odongo<br />

She returned home 3 years later and opened Viscom<br />

(a portmanteau of Visual Communication), a design<br />

agency that she run from 1978-2008. “I must say I<br />

was the most exposed in the field of Graphic Design<br />

and was glad to share this with others and contribute<br />

to the establishment of the Design Profession and its<br />

growth in the country. I found many of the projects<br />

exciting and I am happy to see some of the logos we<br />

designed still in use all these years later.”<br />

Towards mid 80’s the pioneer Graphic Designers<br />

started facing challenges. “We were old school as far<br />

as our training went. The introduction of computers<br />

hit us and threatened to drive us out of business,”<br />

Grace says. “As a woman and a single parent I was<br />

a experiencing problems networking and pitching<br />

for jobs. Unlike today when you now have women in<br />

decision-making positions who one can interact and<br />

network with at a professional and social level; back<br />

in the early days it was mostly men in those offices.<br />

I could only interact with them at the office level,<br />

not at the pub or social level. It lead me in search<br />

of a business line that could appeal to the general<br />

public.”<br />

for bringing this concept my way and at that point in<br />

time. I would not have gone into studio photography<br />

if it was not for this concept which greatly appealed<br />

to my creative background.”<br />

I ask her what she would advise someone starting<br />

up a business in <strong>2017</strong>. “I would just advise them to<br />

be very committed in whatever they venture into.<br />

The space today is even more competitive than it<br />

was in the earlier years so it is a very different ball<br />

game. They now have the advantage of Technology<br />

and are in a position to do much better in the world<br />

of communication.”<br />

As we wind up, I wonder what would keep her<br />

going to run her design company for 14 years and<br />

the photography studio for 26 years, “As a single<br />

parent of two daughters, I was challenged to make it<br />

work and failing was not an option. If it would have<br />

failed I knew I just had to pick myself up and start<br />

something all over again.”<br />

Now more than ever I finally have a proper<br />

understanding of the magnitude of shoes I, as<br />

Grace’s daughter, have to fill in regards to taking<br />

her creative pioneering to the next level. Clearly my<br />

work is cut out for me but I am comforted that I stand<br />

on great shoulders from which to launch myself.<br />

While her colleagues went into fields such as Interior<br />

Design she was lucky to come across a studio<br />

photography concept called Virtual Backgrounds.<br />

She learned of this concept through her older brother<br />

who had traveled and came back with a brochure.<br />

Grace opened Beta Portrait Studio in Cargen House<br />

on Harambee Avenue. I ask her how she feels about<br />

Bone fracture on bone with mild Osteopenia<br />

having a business successfully run for close to 26<br />

years, “I feel very happy and grateful and thank God<br />

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Age takes a toll on our bodies, no matter how<br />

gracefully we age on the outside. For women,<br />

in particular, life changes like pregnancy and<br />

menopause can wreak havoc on our bodies. One of<br />

the more serious side effects of aging is osteoporosis.<br />

Osteoporosis is a medical condition in which your<br />

bones become brittle and fragile from loss of tissue.<br />

This reduction in bone density is more common in<br />

women as we have smaller, thinner bones than men.<br />

There are many causes of osteoporosis, but we will<br />

examine in greater detail the ones that are pertinent<br />

to older women.<br />

One of the main causes of osteoporosis is a change<br />

in hormone levels. The onset of menopause brings<br />

about a sharp drop in oestrogen, which in turn<br />

can cause bone loss. The chance of developing<br />

osteoporosis as women age increases significantly<br />

after menopause. There are now drugs on the market<br />

that are used to moderate this hormone drop and<br />

that can treat and prevent osteoporosis.<br />

While some of the causes of osteoporosis are out of<br />

our control, many of them are lifestyle related. As<br />

we age, we tend to become more sedentary, which<br />

impacts us negatively in more ways than simply a<br />

widening waistline. Bones weaken if they aren’t<br />

worked, and an inactive lifestyle causes rapid bone<br />

loss. One of the reasons osteoporosis is called the<br />

‘The Silent Disease’ is because you will never know<br />

you have it until you fracture a bone. Without a bone<br />

density scan, it is impossible to tell whether or not<br />

you are experiencing a degradation in your bone<br />

density.<br />

It is not all bad news however. Implementing<br />

a regimen of consistent exercise can prevent<br />

osteoporosis caused by inactivity. It is not enough<br />

to just do cardio like walking or aerobics; to keep<br />

your bones dense and strong, you have to subject<br />

them to gentle stress through weight bearing<br />

exercises. Weight lifting at least three times a week<br />

is one of the most effective remedies against loss<br />

of bone mass. The added benefits of weight lifting<br />

are improved muscle strength and better balance,<br />

both of which infinitely increase your quality of life<br />

as you age. Seek the advice of a qualified fitness<br />

professional to help you with an exercise program.<br />

Make your smoothie a meal in a glass<br />

by adding oats and spinach<br />

pressure and diabetes. Micronutrient deficiencies<br />

are more common as we age because the variety in<br />

our diets tends to stagnate. It also becomes harder<br />

for our bodies to absorb the necessary nutrients.<br />

Lack of calcium and Vitamin D are dietary causes of<br />

osteoporosis. Without calcium, you can’t rebuild new<br />

bones, while Vitamin D helps your body’s absorption<br />

of calcium. A deficiency in the latter will therefor<br />

inhibit the amount you would absorb, even with a<br />

balanced diet. As well as eating a balanced diet,<br />

taking supplements helps fill in any gaps in our diet<br />

and helps us meet our increased nutritional needs.<br />

There are other things that can affect the loss of<br />

bone density, such as medication, smoking and<br />

drinking alcohol. It is important to understand<br />

whether or not you fall into an at-risk bracket. It is<br />

“IT IS POSSIBLE<br />

TO MITIGATE<br />

<strong>THE</strong> EFFECTS OF<br />

GROWING OLD.<br />

“<br />

Images Courtesy of Nina Odongo<br />

worth discussing with your doctor the possibility of<br />

getting a bone density scan. Even if you don’t have<br />

full-blown osteoporosis, these scans can pick up on<br />

a reduction in bone mass.<br />

Osteopenia is a precursor to osteoporosis,<br />

presenting as only a small reduction in bone density.<br />

With supplements, it is possible to prevent a further<br />

deterioration and with the suggestions above, to<br />

make lifestyle changes that can actually improve<br />

your density.<br />

The thought of aging may be frightening for some,<br />

with the prospect of physical deterioration, however,<br />

it IS possible to mitigate the effects of growing old.<br />

Living a healthy, active, well-considered lifestyle will<br />

not only slow the aging process, it will significantly<br />

improve your quality of life and allow you to embrace<br />

the aging process, live happily and age successfully.<br />

Consult your doctor before you embark on a marked<br />

lifestyle change, including taking supplements.<br />

Get your five-a-day by snacking on fruit and veg<br />

Lifting weight keeps you strong and fit.<br />

Diet is also an important factor when considering<br />

causes of osteoporosis. As we get older, it becomes<br />

even more crucial that we pay attention to our diet<br />

to prevent or control lifestyle diseases commonly<br />

associated with age, such as increased blood<br />

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FEATURE STORY<br />

Leo Salon & Barber, Two Rivers Mall<br />

“DO NOT TAKE<br />

MO<strong>THE</strong>RING AS A<br />

WEAKNESS<br />

“<br />

Images Courtesy of Leo Salon & Barber<br />

LOVING BEAUTIFUL SPACES<br />

& LIVING HEALTHY<br />

Interview with Agnes Maganjo of Leo Salon & Barber<br />

It all started more than 25 years ago when, as a<br />

young mother & wife, Agnes decided to open her<br />

own salon near her then home, in South B Estate,<br />

Nairobi. Out of the many reasons one would want<br />

to open a salon, from starting a lucrative business<br />

venture, to indulging in their passion for hair,<br />

Agnes’ reason takes the cake. She opened her salon<br />

because she loved beautiful spaces. “As a child, my<br />

mother would leave home, only to come find I had<br />

re-arranged the house,” she recalls.<br />

Agnes says she’s stickler for detail, so she would go<br />

to salons and not like how they were designed. “I<br />

would quickly notice something that’s not good and<br />

won’t be at ease. I got tired of going into town to<br />

get my hair done then I thought, ‘Why can’t I look<br />

for space here and create a beautiful salon?’” That<br />

she did, and her journey into running salons started.<br />

She named her first salon Dainty after a nickname<br />

given to her because of her small frame. “I believe<br />

my strongest point is in pushing beautiful salons. If<br />

you go to all my salons you will be able to notice that<br />

somebody was behind its creation.” I am inclined to<br />

believe her. We are sitting in her Two Rivers branch<br />

and I can attest to its well-designed space with clean<br />

whites and vibrant pinks and greens.<br />

She sold Dainty and opened the first Leo Salon at<br />

Capital Centre mall on Mombasa road when it first<br />

opened up. I enquire about the name, Leo. Agnes<br />

clarifies to me that it’s not Leo as in the zodiac<br />

symbol or in relation to lion; but instead it the<br />

Kiswahili word for today. “I wanted an easy name,<br />

and something that would mean current. I wanted<br />

to always be relevant,” she explains. Since then she<br />

opened the Westlands branch, then Garden City and<br />

now the Two Rivers branch.<br />

There are lots of aspects that go into owning and<br />

running a salon. Agnes is clear on what she can<br />

and cannot do. “I can’t be a manager I’ll harass<br />

people,” she declares. “But I am a fantastic trainer. I<br />

am patient I’ll train you over and over. I don’t throw<br />

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Leo Salon & Barber, Westlands Branch<br />

people out.” A testament to this is that her longest<br />

serving staff member has been with her for 16years.<br />

As we chat, Leo’s staff members are moving around<br />

expertly tending to the clientele. They call her Aunty<br />

Agnes, a testament to their view of her as their<br />

mother.<br />

Agnes is trained Economist, and was a lecturer in<br />

Economics & Research Methods at the University of<br />

Nairobi for 8 years. She quit to take up consulting<br />

and at the height of her consulting career she was a<br />

CEO of the firm she worked. She was earning Kes.<br />

80,000/= per day, choosing jobs, living the good<br />

life, traveling extensively and shopped at high-end<br />

stores.<br />

Then 7 years ago she started to notice she had<br />

trouble pronouncing some words, but laughed it off<br />

and concluded that she was suffering from dementia.<br />

Her eyesight was also deteriorating but she got<br />

spectacles to take care of that problem. Eventually<br />

it’s the constant headaches that took her to seek<br />

medical attention.<br />

want to go through that process be it chemo or<br />

radiation.” With the permission and support of her<br />

husband and an American Neurosurgeon she opted<br />

to go the natural route, which she had come across<br />

out of interest a few years earlier.<br />

She took 3-months to learn as much as she could.<br />

In the interim she changed her lifestyle and started<br />

to juice her fruits and vegetables in earnest. For<br />

120days she lived on 8 glasses of juice a day. Her<br />

research took her to Spain, Britain and South Africa<br />

to benchmark on natural healing remedies. While in<br />

the Mediterranean country she was challenged not<br />

only about her diet; but also what she applied to her<br />

skin, the largest organ on her body. She then started<br />

to explore natural ingredients that would work well<br />

with her skin.<br />

I ask her if her hair was natural before she was<br />

diagnosed with cancer. She responded that she had<br />

a perm and retouched every month. She shares that<br />

going and living natural, as a salon owner was a<br />

struggle to her. She wondered why she was applying<br />

chemicals to clients but not to herself. “Three years<br />

ago I almost sold Leo, until God told me that my<br />

task was to create awareness and help people to<br />

make informed choices.” Today, Leo hairdressers<br />

advise clients to have breaks as long as 4 months<br />

before retouching. This mitigates the amount and<br />

frequency of chemicals entering the body. She also<br />

declines to apply a perm or retouch anyone under<br />

the age of 14.<br />

“I think I might have contributed to that cancer. My<br />

lifestyle wasn’t ok. I wasn’t resting enough. I was<br />

flying like crazy, and feeling good about making<br />

money. I was stressed up; something so small would<br />

stress me! I wanted to be perfect. I needed to present<br />

myself perfectly to the world. So in that fight to be<br />

perfect I really stressed out. Now I’ll still feel that<br />

that’s not ok but we shall sit and talk about it. It<br />

doesn’t have to affect my day, or how I am feeling<br />

or my emotions.<br />

I ask Agnes what advise she would give to a young<br />

mother who wants to open a salon business. She<br />

advises that as a woman one should develop a<br />

healthy life philosophy of. It’ll help you instead,<br />

you create time and interact with people that<br />

matter most in your life. Do not take mothering as a<br />

weakness; communicate when you need to focus on<br />

your family. “Create time for your children,<br />

should surround themselves with good people that<br />

you can pass the knowledge to. “The people that<br />

you are working with, empower them, trust them,<br />

and incentivize them. Make them feel important<br />

about themselves, that they are doing something<br />

great for you. It’s ok to be vulnerable.”<br />

Finally, she says if you are married or in a relationship,<br />

find a way to balance the marriage vs. the business/<br />

work. At the end of the day the business, money<br />

and success will come and go but it is important to<br />

have someone by your side. “Being friends with your<br />

husband is an important thing.”<br />

Agnes just turned 55 in April and while she used<br />

to check the tumor every 6 months, she hasn’t in a<br />

while. “I am so grateful to God. I don’t tell people<br />

not to go to hospital, as this was my own personal<br />

choice. But whatever you decide, I think changing<br />

your lifestyle, not just food, but also your entire<br />

lifestyle. From the sense of stress, to your sense of<br />

rest, to what I eat, to my rhythm and to what I put on<br />

my skin & my hair. I really guard my emotions now;<br />

you won’t push me. I devised a saying, ‘No one can<br />

annoy Aggie apart from Aggie herself.’”<br />

LOCATION CONTACTS:<br />

Leo Salon & Barber<br />

Garden City Mall<br />

0708440797<br />

Leo Salon & Barber<br />

Victoria Court, Westlands<br />

0701299296<br />

Leo Salon & Barber<br />

Two Rivers Malls<br />

0715815441<br />

Social Media Pages<br />

Facebook: Leo Salon and Barber<br />

Twitter & IG: @weareleoske<br />

She was met with the news that she had a golf ball<br />

sized stage two tumor in her brain. Her options<br />

were either surgery or surgery but her heart told her<br />

otherwise. “Once they remove such, people don’t<br />

go so well. I told myself that if I die let me die the<br />

way I am. I wasn’t afraid of death, I just knew I didn’t<br />

Do not think that money is everything, “When I<br />

started to relax about looking for money, I realised<br />

that it started to look for me and I started to get a<br />

healthy attitude towards money.”<br />

In regards to hiring, she would advise that one<br />

Agnes explaining the function of the<br />

carrier oils and essential oils<br />

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WEAR<br />

WINTER IS<br />

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with Mambo Pambo<br />

The Mambo Pambo Masika Collection features cold<br />

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The jersey is heavy to ward off the cold and the<br />

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a splash of color while adding visual interest. Mambo<br />

Pambo (MP) makes a limited number of garments<br />

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theirs.<br />

Mambo Pambo is a Fashion Design Studio that offers<br />

afro-contemporary clothes, designed and made in<br />

Kenya. The team at Mambo Pambo works on the<br />

ethos that clothes made in Kenya for Kenyans can<br />

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The Creative Director at Mambo Pambo, Kawira<br />

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She designs clothes that flatter all body shapes<br />

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Mambo Pambo is based along Mbaazi Avenue, in<br />

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made-to-measure and styling services.<br />

Garments available at:<br />

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KNOW - HAIR<br />

Twist Outs<br />

“<br />

<strong>THE</strong>RE ARE<br />

REALLY NO LINKS<br />

TO ONSET OF<br />

GREYING DUE TO<br />

STRESS, DIET OR<br />

LIFESTYLE<br />

“<br />

Images via www. 123rf.com<br />

GREY IS <strong>THE</strong><br />

NEW BLACK<br />

by Evie Dondi<br />

You wake up one day, go through your daily morning<br />

routine and when you get to the part where you<br />

scrutinize yourself in the mirror, you freeze. You see<br />

a silver/grey hair – one hair and that’s it, your brain<br />

goes into a semi-panic state wondering, should you<br />

grab some tweezers and pluck it? Then you remember<br />

the grapevine information that states if you pull it,<br />

more will appear and that’s what you are avoiding.<br />

Then it dawns on you, but why? Why do you fear<br />

having greys/silvers? You are not alone. According<br />

to a survey by Crown Clinic, the UK’s leading hair<br />

transplant clinic, 72% of women dread the sight of<br />

their first grey hair.<br />

So what’s the science behind greying? It is as a result<br />

of the reduction of pigment and as you age. Chances<br />

of going grey increase anywhere from 10% - 20% every<br />

decade after you hit the 30year mark. Hair, believe it<br />

or not, is originally white and gets its pigment from<br />

melanin. There are two types of melanin responsible<br />

for the array of hair colors we see, dark (eumelanin)<br />

and light (phaeomelanin). Specialized pigment cells<br />

called melanocytes position themselves at the skin’s<br />

surface as the hair grows. During the formation of<br />

hair, these melanocytes inject melanin into the cells<br />

containing keratin. Keratin is known as the protein<br />

that makes up skin, hair and nails.<br />

The hair follicle has a melanogenic clock and as<br />

we age this clock slows or stops all together the<br />

melanocyte activity. This in turn reduces the amount<br />

of melanin that the hair receives, thus it turns<br />

grey. How soon the clock slows or stops is entirely<br />

controlled by age and genes, thus explaining the<br />

different rates at which we all grey. In 2009, scientists<br />

discovered that a slow build up hydrogen peroxide,<br />

produced by hair follicles, in the hair shaft, lead to<br />

a gradual loss of color. (FASEB Journal, v. 23, July<br />

2009: 2065-2075)<br />

We’ve all heard the saying ‘teenagers will give<br />

you grey hair’ but apparently there really no links<br />

to onset of greying due to stress, diet or lifestyle.<br />

However, an interesting factor that lends a hand to<br />

greying is race. In a survey of 4,000 people from<br />

around the world published in 2012 by the British<br />

Journal of Dermatology, 74% of those between the<br />

ages of 45-65 had grey hair. People of Asian and<br />

African American decent had less grey hair at any<br />

age than Caucasians.<br />

Lifestyle choice is another factor that speeds up<br />

greying of hair. According to a report in 2013 in the<br />

Indian Dermatology Journal, smokers are two and<br />

a half times more likely to start greying before the<br />

age of 30 than smokers. Looking for a reason to quit<br />

smoking? Well now you have it!<br />

The idea of women going grey/silver always receives<br />

mixed reactions and sometimes there’s a double<br />

standard. See, its ‘OK’ for men to grey early or rather<br />

gracefully and they even get sexy names such as the<br />

‘Salt & Pepper’ look. On the flip side, for women,<br />

there’s this social pressure to keep the hair colored<br />

as a sign of youth or vibrancy. Many women have<br />

reported feeling a need to keep looking youthful in<br />

order to maintain a successful career path. In any<br />

case it’s unfair. Additionally the hair market seems<br />

to subscribe to the same ageist agenda and dozens<br />

of hair dyes on the market are specifically made to<br />

cover up errant grey. However, the social pressure<br />

that befalls a woman who decides to let her hair do<br />

what it will naturally is slowly lifting and in fact grey<br />

is the new black.<br />

The new trend was first spotted on runways in 2014<br />

and is now spreading like wild fire across the globe.<br />

Grey has now gone from symbolizing aging to being<br />

a symbol of high fashion. This swap in representation<br />

has also lessened the stigma of aging and allowed<br />

older women to embrace the process. In the words<br />

of Erykah Badu, “Body and brain have aged. My<br />

consciousness has witnessed this, yet has not aged.<br />

This “awareness” is who we are.”<br />

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ENJOY<br />

KINKS & KURLS EXPO UG<br />

with Kyomm<br />

Kyomm and Mimi (KK Expo Ug organisers)<br />

with Sheila Ndinda<br />

exhibiting their products, experts hosting group<br />

classes, networking brunch for exhibitors, hair craft<br />

and entertainment for the kids, hair demos by salons,<br />

food provision by local vendors, band performance<br />

amongst many other activities. To cap it all off we<br />

planned to hear from our regional guest speaker<br />

Sheila Ndinda. We are total fan girls!<br />

Did the event meet or exceed your expectations?<br />

Looking back at the photos and footage, it warms out<br />

hearts to see how our expectations were exceeded.<br />

We were so busy on the day and exhausted by the<br />

end of it… but our hard work paid off.<br />

We noted that from the previous year, the attendance<br />

increased, the vendors increased, the quality of<br />

products on offer increased, the hair demos were<br />

superb, the classes were a hit, the kiddies corner<br />

rocked and the panellists were so giving. The only<br />

regret we have is that our photo booth was not fully<br />

utilised.<br />

When is the next event? The Kinks and Kurls Expo<br />

is held annually in March. However, the exact date<br />

for the 4th edition (2018) will be communicated in<br />

due time. We shall be revealing the juicy details in<br />

the months leading up to the event.<br />

Happy time!<br />

What can attendees look forward to? This event is<br />

growing every year and therefore, attendees should<br />

look forward to a bigger and better event. On our<br />

wish list specifically though are two things (probably<br />

a few more but let’s start with these) that:<br />

Attendees chatting about natural hair<br />

We love us some Sheila Ndinda and we follow her on<br />

all her platforms. So when she announced that she<br />

would be the guest speaker at a Natural hair event<br />

in Uganda, we were all eyes and ears. The event<br />

dubbed Kinks & Kurls Expo Uganda was lovely to<br />

watch as it unfolded.<br />

We reached out to the organisers to answer some<br />

questions. They were just as excited to share details<br />

about what’s happening on their side of the lake in<br />

regards to the natural hair and lifestyle.<br />

What’s new and happening in the natural hair<br />

space in Uganda? The number of Naturalistas and<br />

Naturalistas-to-be is rapidly increasing, in Uganda,<br />

as shown by growth in the local Natural hair<br />

forums and/or Facebook groups. This in turn has<br />

created business opportunities for local natural hair<br />

product manufacturers who are meeting the need<br />

for affordable, good quality, easily accessible and<br />

premium organic/natural based products.<br />

It’s absolutely amazing to see more of us embracing<br />

our natural hair textures and helping each other<br />

to make it work for us as individuals. Way to go<br />

#KawekeMovement – we are embracing our Afrotextured<br />

hair!<br />

Why did you feel the importance of hosting an<br />

event such as the one you did? The Kinks and<br />

Kurls Expo UG is a festive collective of Ugandan<br />

women donning natural hair, (otherwise known as<br />

‘Naturalistas’), getting together with the objective<br />

of celebrating natural hair in its various forms and<br />

personalities, and embracing natural lifestyles in<br />

general.<br />

We’d like to demonstrate to girls/women of all ages<br />

that it is possible and acceptable to have natural<br />

hair, and to feel comfortable in their skin, without<br />

breaking the bank. Further more, we would like to<br />

showcase the growing set of Ugandan entrepreneurs<br />

that have carved out their niche by catering to the<br />

need for homegrown products on the market.<br />

What were your expectations & plans for the<br />

event? We planned for an intimate garden party<br />

affair. The idea was to have local businesses<br />

• The Beard Gang and Loc Nation support the<br />

event in larger numbers and,<br />

• The event becomes the go-to event for<br />

Naturalistas on the continent.<br />

We welcome feedback and new ideas for future<br />

events so please feel free to send us some on via<br />

our email.<br />

<strong>THE</strong> KURL FRIENDS TEAM<br />

Email: kinksandkurlsug@gmail.com<br />

Phone:<br />

Kyomm +256 778 697 227<br />

Mimi +256 705 069 047 (Whatsapp only)<br />

Cathy - Event manager +256 751 236 739<br />

Charlene - Graphics Designer +256 778 968<br />

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Follow uås on:<br />

Twitter: kinksandkurlsug<br />

Instagram: kinksandkurls_expoug<br />

Facebook: Kinks and Kurls Expo Ug<br />

Babies’ day out<br />

But first let’s take a selfie<br />

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Checking out the exhibition<br />

Panel discussion on going<br />

Checking out the exhibition<br />

Exhibitor (Kentaro) tee<br />

Winner of ‘most interesting style’ award<br />

Winner of ‘twistout’ award and TWA friend<br />

But first let’s take a selfie<br />

Such sunny accessories - exhibitors<br />

Sparkles salon models<br />

Little naturalista in attendance<br />

Handmade braided wigs<br />

Photographers: Andrew Pacutho (The Photography of Andrew Pacutho, Instagram: szion256) • Tsaubah<br />

Stone (Facebook: Stone Photography) • Ninno Jack Jr (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: Ninno Jack Jr) •<br />

Immaculate Nabayunga (Instagram, Website: kikalamu)<br />

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ENJOY<br />

visualize what I needed for the day. I mainly handled my corporate sponsors and publicity campaign on<br />

Social Media. All in all, a team of 10 ushers was at hand on the day to assist with crowd control. I also had<br />

the venue team who were also about 10 in number. From start to finish, I’d say 40 people were involved in<br />

some shape or form in ensuring the success of the event.<br />

What tips and tricks can you share with someone planning a similar event?<br />

I’d advice that they start early - I’m still not sure just how I pulled this all off in one week of planning!<br />

Secondly, I’d encourage them to keep the focus of the event on their readership rather than on themselves.<br />

At the end of the day, Craving Yellow would be nothing without its faithful readers and subscribers.<br />

Maureen Marunga (Amadiva) and<br />

Njeri Ngige (Sitara)<br />

CRAVING YELLOW TOO<br />

with Tabitha Tongoi<br />

I knew as soon as I saw the invite’s request to<br />

dress in a touch of yellow; I knew it would mean<br />

having a lovely, sunny and happy day out. I was<br />

not disappointed by the Craving Yellow Too event<br />

hosted by Tabitha Tongoi, the creator of Craving<br />

Yellow website and social media platforms. I queried<br />

Tabitha on how she put it together and how she felt<br />

it went down.<br />

What did you have in mind for the Meet and Greet<br />

and did the actual event surpass them or not?<br />

My Meet and Greet was an opportunity for me to<br />

connect face to face with my Kenyan readership. I<br />

have a following of over 150,000 on all my social<br />

media platforms and many of them are Kenyan. This<br />

is the first time I’ve been in Kenya since I started the<br />

blog and while I’ve spoken to many of my readers<br />

on the blog, this was a chance to finally catch up<br />

with them on the same piece of land!<br />

subscribers got to take selfies with me and sample<br />

some of my favorite hair goodies from my corporate<br />

sponsors. It was worth every minute! I’m humbled<br />

by the outcome.<br />

Why did you choose Asmara Restaurant (a fairly<br />

new and unknown spot) for your event?<br />

I wanted an outdoor venue with enough room for my<br />

readers and I to interact freely. Asmara Restaurant<br />

offered me their venue at a discounted price.<br />

Their layout matched what I needed for the day<br />

with enough space to hold up to 300 people quite<br />

comfortably. The venue was also quite accessible by<br />

public transport and far enough from the Nairobi<br />

CBD to deter any gatecrashers.<br />

How big was your organizing team, what role<br />

did you play and how did you communicate your<br />

vision to the team?<br />

Girls just wanna have fun!<br />

Guests at the Harvest of Sunshine stand<br />

The event far surpassed my expectations. I planned<br />

for 50 attendees and got 250! It was a fantastic day<br />

filled with lots of love and sunshine. My readers and<br />

I worked closely with my events planner and my<br />

manager - they were both fantastic and honestly did<br />

most of the behind the scenes work and helped me<br />

Guests looking through products on display<br />

Photography by: Greg of Complement Pictures.<br />

Natural Hair Kenya and Zene Naturals<br />

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Tabitha taking a selfie with fans<br />

Photo booth time!<br />

Shopping, shopping and more shopping<br />

Cake time!<br />

Prayer time<br />

Anita Mogere (From Curves with Love)<br />

poses with Tabitha<br />

Amadiva Beauty stand<br />

Ladies looking all fly!<br />

Audience member asking a question<br />

The audiece attentive!<br />

Tabitha on stage<br />

Tabitha posing in her Vivo wrap<br />

Hugs!<br />

Lynn Sheri (Afrosheri) and friends chatting<br />

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CREATE<br />

Begin with getting the item that you want to dye, in<br />

my case we were working with a face cloth. In this<br />

case we are working with face cloth. Draw, with a<br />

pencil, the pattern that you desire to create. The<br />

pencil marks indicate the areas that will be tied.<br />

STEP 1: PREPPING<br />

STEP 2: TYING<br />

Tie the areas with the pencil marks and be sure to<br />

have a strong grip otherwise if it’s loose, the design<br />

will not come out as desired.<br />

LEARNING TO TIE & DYE<br />

by Wagio Mokaya<br />

Mrs. Janet Nyambura Kagwe a.k.a Cũcũ Janet, first fell in love with the craft in the 1960s while doing a<br />

course in Nutrition at the then Karen College. She went on to improve her skills through BSF (a German<br />

company) where she would access affordable and easier to use vat dyes.<br />

Over the course of the years she has continued to learn new techniques and the positive response from her<br />

clients gave her the impetus to go on. “The craft is in my blood!” she says, and goes on to explain that she<br />

has tried to stop but has always found herself going back to it.<br />

Cũcũ (meaning Grandmother in the local Kikuyu language) sources her raw materials from Nairobi’s Industrial<br />

area. Her market has consisted of tourists, corporate companies and individuals. She ties & dyes t-shirts,<br />

towels and bed covers; and displays her items at exhibitions, schools and churches. She recently opened<br />

Facebook Page perhaps to gain a new & younger market for her wares.<br />

In a bucket, mix in small amounts of the dye color<br />

of your choice and sodium dithionite. Pour in<br />

boiling water into the tin and let it dissolve. Insert<br />

the face cloth in the tin until completely immersed.<br />

STEP 3: DYEING<br />

She has over the years, trained individuals and groups to assist her in her business and to also to grow their<br />

own crafts. Therefore, it was an honor for her to run me through her process.<br />

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STEP 4: DRYING<br />

Let the cloth soak for 10mins then remove it from the<br />

dyed water and place it on a drying surface. Leave<br />

it to dry under the sun for about 30mins to 1hour to<br />

let it oxidize.<br />

Dip the cloth in water, undo the knots and wash it<br />

thoroughly with soap until the water is clear. Then<br />

hang to dry.<br />

STEP 5: WASH & DRY<br />

Follow & like @janetsdyes on Facebook<br />

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TOPICAL<br />

IN SEARCH<br />

OF ROOTS<br />

by Al Kags<br />

To be perfectly honest, I started seeking the stories<br />

you would find in Living Memories for entirely selfish<br />

reasons - or more accurately one entirely selfish<br />

reason: I needed to find myself. The reality that<br />

people of my generation live in is that we straddle<br />

many worlds, many cultures and they all have<br />

relevance and meaning. We understand western<br />

cultures and we have swag. We learn English that our<br />

grandparents were taught by the British and then we<br />

supplement it with that supplied by the Americans.<br />

But we speak sheng’ with defiance and denounce<br />

those who twang’. We ‘proudly’ don’t speak our<br />

mother tongue - except when it benefits us or when<br />

the politics of the day require it. We are well read<br />

and ignorant at the same time. We crave for Nyama<br />

Choma and cocktails, Designer cloths and the fresh<br />

air of “shags”.<br />

“I SEEK OUT <strong>THE</strong><br />

PEOPLE WHO<br />

HAVE <strong>THE</strong> BEST<br />

CHANCE OF<br />

TELLING ME WHO<br />

I AM<br />

“<br />

Images Courtesy of Al Kags<br />

We are bombarded with all manner of identities and<br />

tags and labels.<br />

The more we become global (blame technology),<br />

the more we know about the world (from the movies<br />

and Facebook), the more our aspirations converge<br />

with those of the rest of the world, the less we know<br />

about who we uniquely are, what we are about.<br />

Even if this is not your reality, it is mine. So I seek out<br />

the people who have the best chance of telling me<br />

who I am, my ancestors - living and dead. They told<br />

me what growing up was like for them and through<br />

their experiences in some pretty extraordinary times,<br />

I got a glimpse of how I came to be.<br />

Here’s a story that I heard recently from Gathoni<br />

wa Koinange, the only surviving widow of the late<br />

Paramount Chief Koinange wa Mbiyu.<br />

GATHONI WA KOINANGE<br />

“If I survive this year, I will have lived one hundred<br />

and seventeen years. I am thankful to God that I<br />

am still strong and spry and cheerful. I have lived<br />

a good life.”<br />

“I was born in a place called Ting’ang’a beyond<br />

Kiambu. My father was a traditional man, a<br />

senior elder - a foreman who was chosen to head<br />

the council of elders because he was wise and<br />

strong.”<br />

“In those days, the Gikuyu elders arbitrated<br />

small disputes, oversaw initiation and other rites<br />

of passage and collected hut tax. When there<br />

was issues that were to serious for the elders<br />

to deal with themselves, or when a villager was<br />

unable to pay the one rupee (2 shillings) hut tax,<br />

the elders then deferred the case to the senior<br />

Gathoni wa Koinange and, my son Harry,<br />

her great-great-great grandson<br />

chief under whom they served. In my father’s case, the senior chief was Koinange.”<br />

“When I was a girl, my job was to take care of goats that my brother was going to use to pay bride<br />

price for a girl who lived not far from us. According to our customs, while Njuguna could give the few<br />

goats he had to the father of the girl as a down payment of sorts, the goats would still remain his until<br />

the Ngurario was done (which would involve the killing of a goat). While the goats were his to breed,<br />

he had to provide the labour for them and that is what I was.”<br />

“It was in those days that I met the senior chief. He would come to my father’s boma regularly and I<br />

would receive him on the outskirts of my father’s shamba where I would be tending the goats. I would<br />

help him with whatever he was carrying and walk home with him.”<br />

“I had no idea that there were marriage discussions going on between the senior chief and my folks. I<br />

had no cause for concern anyway because I had an elder sister before me who was yet unmarried and<br />

she would have had to be married before I could be considered.”<br />

“Girls had really no say in their own destiny and usually when the time for marriage came, they were<br />

simply informed who they were going to marry. My sister wanted to marry someone in particular and<br />

eloped with him before she was told to marry the chief; and so to my surprise, I was told I would marry<br />

the chief. My feeble protests were met with a stern warning from my father: “You will go with him or I<br />

will kill you.” I believed him and so I became the senior chief’s fifth wife.”<br />

Al Kags is the Author of Living Memories<br />

Available on: www.books.magunga.com<br />

Price: Kes 450/=<br />

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