THE HAIRPOLITAN MAGAZINE VOL 6 MAY 2017
Celebrating Mothers
Celebrating Mothers
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<strong>VOL</strong> 6: <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
Our<br />
Mamas<br />
Stories<br />
#OurMamasStories<br />
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I recently told a friend that I really don’t see myself<br />
as a mother. I am aware that I have three little boys<br />
to kiss, cuddle and spank; but I don’t readily identify<br />
myself with or feel comfortable being called Mama<br />
Nani (someone’s mother) unless it’s by my sons’<br />
playmates.<br />
Don’t get me wrong, I love being their Mama but I<br />
fight a daily battle of remembering that I am more<br />
than just that. I am a daughter, a sister, a wife, a<br />
family member and friend to many. I have ambitions,<br />
dreams and career/business goals that I’d like to<br />
achieve. I also have passions and desires that go far<br />
beyond my role as a mother.<br />
As we celebrate mothers this month, this issue seeks<br />
to get to know different women (who are mothers)<br />
and understand who they are beyond motherhood.<br />
Before we get into what’s in this issue I’d like to<br />
thank everyone who voted for us at the <strong>2017</strong> BAKE<br />
Awards. Your continued support and cheerleading<br />
is invaluable and appreciated.<br />
I would also like to announce that we shall be<br />
taking a break from publishing the monthly issue of<br />
the online magazine. This is to enable us sort out<br />
some admin and back-end matters. Not to worry<br />
though, we’ll be back shortly, hopefully bigger and<br />
better. Our online weekly articles will continue, so<br />
remember to subscribe to our website to receive<br />
updates via email.<br />
On our cover this month is Janet Mgeni Muchura<br />
who candidly answers our COVER GIRL’S 21<br />
QUESTIONS on P4. Then Wagio Mokaya talks to<br />
Onea on Hair on the resurgence of the Kamatana<br />
HAIRSTYLE on P5.<br />
In line with the issue’s title “Our Mamas’ Stories” we<br />
join Karimi Kagwe as she sits with her mother Mrs.<br />
Margaret Mbae to reminisce about her childhood<br />
in RAISE on P12-13. I get to FEATURE my mother<br />
Grace N. Kihara on how she came to be a pioneer<br />
Graphic Designer in Kenya on P14-18.<br />
In CREATE we join Wagio Mokaya as she learns how<br />
to tie & dye at the feet of Cucu Janet on P42-44.<br />
The team at Mambo Pambo let us know what they<br />
have for us to WEAR during the coming Kenyan<br />
winter on P26-31. In INDUSTRY this month we<br />
talk to Agnes Maganjo, proprietor of Leo Salon &<br />
Barber on P22-25.<br />
Evie Dondi explores the trend where grey is the new<br />
black in KNOW HAIR on P32-33. On P6-9, I get<br />
to ask Jacinta Mueni-Kaikai a few questions about<br />
leaving employment after many years in LIFE.<br />
Image by The Githegi Photography<br />
In MOVE/EAT, Nina Odongo schools us on<br />
Osteoporosis and how we can mitigate it by adopting<br />
a healthy lifestyle on P19-21.<br />
Our TOPICAL segment this month is by Al Kags. He<br />
explains the idea and reasons behind his book Living<br />
Memories and gives us some interesting information<br />
on Gathoni Wa Koinange who is set to turn 117 this<br />
year on P46-47.<br />
We’re excited to host our Ugandan natural sisters in<br />
ENJOY on P34-37 as they tell us about their recent<br />
annual Naturalista event dubbed Kinks & Kurls<br />
Expo Uganda that saw our very own, Sheila Ndinda<br />
feature as their guest speaker. All the way from<br />
Aussie, we welcome Tabitha Tongoi of the famed<br />
Craving Yellow blog as she shares with us how she<br />
put together her recent event Craving Too on P38-<br />
41.<br />
Finally, we REVIEW a product that got high praise<br />
in our Monday #HairpolitanAsks segment. Check it<br />
out on P10-11.<br />
Yours,<br />
Wambui JL<br />
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COVER GIRL’S<br />
21 QUESTIONS HAIRSTYLE<br />
WE ASK <strong>THE</strong><br />
FEATURED COVER<br />
GIRL 21 QUESTIONS<br />
WITH AN AIM TO<br />
GET TO KNOW HER<br />
BETTER!<br />
Cover Girl: Janet Mgeni Muchura<br />
Photographer: Jeri Muchura of<br />
Photos by Jeri<br />
Makeup: She woke up like this!<br />
1. Once I wake up and reach out for my ginger &<br />
lemon water.<br />
2. I always have a notebook and pen in my<br />
handbag.<br />
3. My children are the greatest achievement in<br />
my life.<br />
4. My favourite meal to cook ahhhem...Ugali<br />
5. I would advise a new and young mother to go<br />
with her instincts, get guidance from older<br />
women, pray and trust God.<br />
6. Best compliment I’ve ever received was I love<br />
deeply...I guess sometimes to a fault.<br />
7. I keep my hair natural because it’s freeing,<br />
though I would prefer to have it short than<br />
long.<br />
8. My favorite book of all time is the Holy Bible.<br />
9. I have never traveled to my son-in-law’s<br />
“shaggs” and ISRAEL.<br />
10. I am passionate about unity and peace in all<br />
spheres.<br />
11. I would never leave my home without my<br />
glasses.<br />
12. Lip stick, lipgloss or lipbalm? Lipstick<br />
13. I am not on any social media platforms.<br />
14. The one thing I dreamed of doing and achieved<br />
is getting back to ‘ngumbaro’ to learn more.<br />
15. My current dietary goals are trying to eat smart<br />
16. The happiest day in my life was birthing my<br />
children - Awesome experience!<br />
17. I am privileged to have a great number of<br />
children including my own.<br />
18. I am dad’s little girl, a sister, a wife and A<br />
WOMAN first before I am a mother .<br />
19. I loved studying mathematics in school though<br />
never got the grasp of it. Sigh!<br />
20. I don’t have a problem with tattoos (used to<br />
though), as long as they are appropriate and<br />
properly done.<br />
21. The best advice I would give about being a<br />
woman - Be genuine. Be yourself. Be smart.<br />
Love much. Forgive all. You are a Powerful<br />
being!<br />
<strong>THE</strong><br />
KAMATANA<br />
RETURNS<br />
by Wagio Mokaya:<br />
“IT IS A<br />
PROTECTIVE<br />
STYLE THAT’S<br />
FRIENDLY ON<br />
<strong>THE</strong> HAIRLINE<br />
“<br />
Images courtesy of Sarah Onea Osiako<br />
As we return natural, it makes sense when we start to see hairstyles that we left in our childhood make a<br />
modern day comeback. One such hair do is the Kamatana style. I enquire from Sarah Onea Osiako, owner<br />
of Onea on Hair, what the resurgence is about.<br />
How can you describe the style?<br />
It is a style that I can bet was created even before even the normal cornrows. Kamatana back in the day was<br />
done using one’s own hair and that was it. I thought of redoing it but giving it a fresh twist by adding Kinky<br />
Braids on natural hair and Abuja Braids on relaxed hair. The end result was being able to achieve different<br />
looks from a Mohawk, to a middle bun to even a push back.<br />
Why the resurgence?<br />
The resurgence is happening because we are slowly embracing our African hairstyles that seemed lost. It<br />
is a protective style that’s friendly on the hairline.<br />
What are your charges?<br />
I charge are a little bit higher with Kinky braids than the normal straight braids. With Kinky braids one ends<br />
up using 2 packets, which retail at Kes. 700/= to which I add my labour so it comes to Kes. 2,500/=. While<br />
for normal braids I can use up to 4 packets at Kes. 280/= plus labour that comes to a total of Kes. 1,800/=.<br />
The benefit of Kinky braids is that they can be re-used.<br />
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LIFE<br />
Jacinta and her lovely family<br />
Mr & Mrs. Kaikai on a night out<br />
BALANCING<br />
LIFE, WORK<br />
AND FAMILY<br />
Interview with Jacinta Mueni<br />
Kaikai<br />
My first official job was at Ogilvy & Mather<br />
(K), where I met many interesting people who<br />
have now become life long friends, business<br />
mentors, cheerleaders and inspirations. One<br />
such person is Jacinta. She was in the Production<br />
department while I started my career in the<br />
Creative Department. If I had to pick a successful<br />
mother & career woman, it would have to be her.<br />
I’ve watched her eldest son grow from a little<br />
boy to a man; I saw her go through her last two<br />
pregnancies with ease and grace. All the while,<br />
Jacinta would keep us in line at the office to<br />
promptly deliver work. She would then take off<br />
at 5pm sharp to check into Mommy-mode. Last<br />
year, she left employment after what seemed to<br />
be many years. I knew I’d one day have to tell her<br />
story, so here goes:<br />
Before you worked at Ogilvy and Mather where<br />
were you employed and what were you doing?<br />
My first job immediately after University (KU) was<br />
at a company called Kenwide Media. Being a small<br />
firm I worked in all departments but specifically as<br />
a Media Planner. Thereafter, I joined KulGraphics<br />
where I got trained in the world of Graphics and<br />
‘Colour Separations’ and all technical aspects of<br />
Production, while still doing Client service. I was<br />
then head hunted to join Ogilvy. May I add that the<br />
Advert that recruited me won a Gold at the APA<br />
Awards!<br />
How many years did you work at Ogilvy and what<br />
was that like throughout the years? I worked at<br />
Ogilvy for over 15 years. Ogilvy was a great and fun<br />
place to work! We were like a family and everyone<br />
knew what everyone was doing and going through<br />
and where they were! You called Ogilvy people first<br />
when anything good or bad happened. We fought<br />
like crazy at times but we would forget all about it<br />
over a drink at our office pub, the O Bar. The work<br />
environment and atmosphere was fantastic.<br />
What sparked the thought of leaving a job you’d<br />
dedicated yourself to for that long? Over the last<br />
3 years I felt a discontent start to come over me.<br />
Work was no longer fulfilling for me, and my constant<br />
feeling was a quiet desperation to be in control of<br />
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my time. My job was hectic, straddling between TV,<br />
Radio and Print. I have young kids who still need me<br />
to check homework and spend time with them, yet<br />
there I was going for weekend shoots etc.Two years<br />
ago, I also set up a physical shop which I had run<br />
online and from the boot of my car for as long as I<br />
was employed but now I wanted to also have some<br />
time to dedicate to it. As a family, we have business<br />
plans and it was important that one of us has time to<br />
actualize them.<br />
What was the process of deciding to leave and<br />
how did it affect your family when you told them?<br />
The process of leaving ended up being quite easy;<br />
it was a negotiated exit. For the last two years, I<br />
had told everyone who cared to listen especially<br />
the HR ladies, that I would want to leave but I had<br />
dedicated so many years there that resigning was<br />
not the best option for me. However, people kept<br />
being let go and I would be left out! Finally, last<br />
December the opportunity to leave came. I will not<br />
go into too many details for legal reasons.<br />
How many children do you have? How has it<br />
been being a career woman while raising them?<br />
I have 3 children, 2 boys and a girl. Raising them<br />
while working was not a walk in the park. I did<br />
suffer guilt once in a while about not being able to<br />
spend as much time as I would have wanted with<br />
them, and at times leaving them to go do my work<br />
out of town. But all in all, I managed well because<br />
although I was employed, I came up with my own<br />
rule that I would not work past 5pm except in very<br />
exceptional cases. It used to frustrate some people<br />
but for me I preferred doing most of my work during<br />
the 8 working hours and leaving on time because<br />
I was more than an employee. My most important<br />
role was at home. Work can wait, the family cannot.<br />
Your employer will forget you in a week but your kids<br />
need you all the time. In my case I must mention it<br />
helped having their dad there and very hands on<br />
with them so he would step in whenever I was not<br />
available.<br />
Would you encourage your children to be<br />
employed or to employ themselves? I like to<br />
think I am a very pragmatic person. I have enjoyed<br />
being employed very much and now I am enjoying<br />
being self employed. I would want my children<br />
to be free to make their own choices, but for me<br />
I was always both a Business person and a Career<br />
person. However, I do not mind them starting out<br />
as employees for a while to give them insight into<br />
how businesses are run, and how to work within a<br />
structured environment.<br />
How is life outside of the working routine of<br />
9-5pm? Is it what you expected? It has now been<br />
four months, my best four months! I now have what<br />
Jacinta with Resiato (girl) and Lenkai (boy).<br />
I wanted, control of my time. Yaay! It is up to me to<br />
choose what to do and when. Finally, I can engage<br />
in some of the passions that I had neglected. For<br />
example, I have not drawn anything for years, I<br />
plan to go back to this, which is one of the things I<br />
enjoyed doing before. Well my only surprise is that<br />
I do not have the acres of free or idle time, which I<br />
expected. A lot is happening all at the same time.<br />
How has leaving work affected your relationship<br />
with your children? My family was ecstatic that I<br />
was leaving work, especially my husband who had<br />
listened to me moan about work for a few years! The<br />
children are one happy lot, they now almost always<br />
find me at home when they come from school,<br />
something they really like. I check homework and<br />
guide them through it personally, whereas before,<br />
at times, I would check it in a hurry in order to fit my<br />
own evening activities in and prepare for the next<br />
day.<br />
I have more time to indulge in different activities<br />
with them and now when they are on holiday we<br />
are doing much more. It is tough when kids are on<br />
holiday but you only see them in the evenings and<br />
weekends.<br />
What are you currently up to now? I am still<br />
Consulting in Advertising & Production and<br />
specifically for Oxygene Marketing; I am also still<br />
running my household & home accessories shop<br />
where I stock top quality items. Two months ago we<br />
dug a borehole, and have set up a water purification<br />
plant. We are doing a 6-step water purification<br />
“I DO NOT HAVE<br />
<strong>THE</strong> ACRES OF<br />
FREE OR IDLE<br />
TIME, WHICH I<br />
EXPECTED<br />
“<br />
Images courtesy of Jacinta Mueni Kaikai<br />
process and will pack all quantities from 500ml to 20<br />
litres. We also plan to offer customized labels. I also<br />
take on interior design projects. Basically my hands<br />
are full!<br />
What would you advise a working mother who<br />
is just starting out? I will start with the cliché that<br />
it will all work out and so one should not worry to<br />
death about everything, as working mothers starting<br />
out are bound to do.<br />
My first piece of advice is be well organized both<br />
at home and in the office. One way of organizing<br />
yourself at home is to make sure you have a good<br />
nanny who will take care of your children so that<br />
you can work without too many disruptions. You can<br />
also involve your family to help out with the kids as<br />
necessary.<br />
Jacinta with her eldest Leon<br />
Work smart at work and deliver, that way, when you<br />
need some time off to tend to mummy duties most<br />
employers will understand.<br />
Prioritize your family and people will understand<br />
and respect that. For example, let everyone know<br />
that if your baby is unwell, you will not be able to go<br />
to work, when there are school events, you will need<br />
to go for them and also that when you have small<br />
children working very late nights almost daily cannot<br />
work for you.<br />
Ask other mums for help/advice in navigating<br />
motherhood.<br />
Create me time, for wine and a catch up with the<br />
girls, a spa visit, do your nails, or just lie down<br />
quietly on your own!<br />
Be fearless and pray.<br />
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& Decor on Facebook<br />
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REVIEW<br />
hold the good ingredients and at the same time last<br />
long. After four months of research and training on<br />
soap making at KIRDI (Kenya Industrial Research<br />
and Development Institute) I was able to come up<br />
with a shampoo bar that contained beer barley,<br />
honey, glycerine, rose water, avocado oil, bentonite<br />
clay, castor oil & coconut oil. A bar that was ideal<br />
for all hair types.<br />
It took about another year for the Kenyan market<br />
to embrace the product but now three years later, I<br />
am happy with the response we are getting as the<br />
pioneers of the shampoo bar in Kenya.<br />
One of of bu.ke’s clients and champions had this to<br />
say:<br />
Scent:<br />
I was worried about it because it is the clay<br />
shampoo bar and I thought it would have an<br />
overpowering clay smell. It was earthy like when<br />
rain hits the ground. A nice smell.<br />
Use:<br />
I rarely use shampoo because it dries my hair too<br />
much so I was cautious of this but my hair didn’t<br />
feel snap and crack clean. It was clean but not dry.<br />
I love that it lathered well without tooooo much<br />
water and it is value for money.<br />
Jennifer Githae - Hairpolitan Issue 2 Cover Girl<br />
In our #HairpolitanAsks segment every<br />
Monday on Instagram we asked you “Which<br />
locally made soap or shampoo do you use<br />
and why do you like it?”<br />
Hands down the Shampoo Bar by bu.ke<br />
products won the day. Here are your<br />
comments.<br />
The @bu.ke_products shampoo bar. I like<br />
that it doesn’t leave my hair feeling dry.<br />
via @agirlcalledsonn<br />
I use @bu.ke_products shampoo bars. I<br />
like the activated black soap one for deep<br />
clarifying, it is fantastic for using after gel<br />
styles. I like bentonite one for every other<br />
wash.<br />
via @suziannaloves<br />
I also use @bu.ke_products shampoo bar as<br />
a clarifier and S.S. shea butter forest styling<br />
and the growth stimulating oil for the scalp.<br />
via @newnowandnextnatural<br />
bu.ke’s SHAMPOO BAR<br />
with Lucy King’ori<br />
REBRAND (from Shea By Asal):<br />
We rebranded at the beginning of the year from Shea By Asal to bu.ke because we wanted to incorporate<br />
other ingredients such as deep conditioners, toners and wipes which will not necessarily have shea butter<br />
in them. The name “Shea by Asal” originally worked for our product range but for the new range, it would<br />
have been limiting.<br />
SHAMPOO BARS:<br />
In April 2014, I felt the need to come up with a shampoo that would be ‘value for money’ for our clients<br />
because most good shampoos cost quite a bit. I had personally gotten tired of spending a lot on a bottle<br />
that would only last me three washes so I did research on formulating a solid bar that would be able to<br />
I use @bu.ke_products shampoo bar, it lathers<br />
really well, I think I’ll use it for the rest of<br />
the year, it also does not do the squeaky<br />
clean wash. via @nyasuba_lando_lando<br />
@bu.ke_products shampoo bar and<br />
@akusiorganics ... works well for my hair.<br />
via @4c_hair_chiq<br />
@bu.ke_products shampoo bars are all I use.<br />
via @karimikagwe<br />
Shampoo bar by @bu.ke_products<br />
via @pulchraevey<br />
Thank you for your comments, keep<br />
following and responding to our questions<br />
every Monday.<br />
If you have any question you’d like an answer<br />
to email talktous@hairpolitan.com<br />
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RAISE<br />
THROWING<br />
BACK WITH<br />
MRS. MBAE<br />
by Karimi Kagwe<br />
I love the month of May. Every year my family joins<br />
the rest of the world in celebrating our mum, Mrs<br />
Margaret Mbae, on Mother‘s day. Mum was also<br />
born in May! So we have two wonderful reasons to<br />
reflect on the special gift that she is.<br />
Our time together, was punctuated with lots of<br />
laughter as mum regaled me with tales of her<br />
upbringing. She is the fifth born in a family of nine<br />
children and she has seven brothers and one sister.<br />
In their younger years, she and her sister were<br />
responsible for most of the household chores. The<br />
chores included fetching water, cleaning the house,<br />
cooking meals, and laundering clothes for all the<br />
children. “I remember washing the khaki school<br />
uniforms. They were really hard and difficult to scrub<br />
clean, ’’ she recalls. These clothes were vigorously<br />
washed on a stone at the village well on weekends.<br />
The villagers would meet to wash their clothes, fetch<br />
water and take a bath. Surprisingly, the well water<br />
Mwende Mbae (Sister), Karimi Kagwe, Nimrod Mbae<br />
(Dad), Margaret Mbae (Mum) & Muthoni Ngari (Sister).<br />
was clean enough to do the afore mentioned tasks,<br />
plus for drinking and household use.<br />
I was shocked to find out that, during those days,<br />
there was no playtime. Children were to be seen<br />
and not heard, especially when there were visitors.<br />
However, mum and her siblings still found creative<br />
ways to play their games yet still attend to their<br />
daily chores. Cleverly, this only happened when their<br />
parents were away. Nowadays, children have rights<br />
and entitlements to play and leisure.<br />
“There were no televisions or smartphones. We<br />
“<br />
WE GREW UP IN A<br />
HAPPY HOME AND<br />
NEVER FELT LIKE<br />
WE MISSED OUT ON<br />
ANYTHING<br />
“<br />
Credit to Pixell8 Photography.<br />
would occupy ourselves with games of our own<br />
creation. We didn’t feel like we were poor or needy;<br />
we grew up in a happy home and never felt like we<br />
missed out on anything. My mum was a great story<br />
teller and would, whenever time allowed, tell us<br />
interesting stories which I remember to this day,”<br />
Mum expounds.<br />
There were advantages of being born into a large<br />
family, which came to be seen in the sharing out of<br />
duties. Her parents hired extra hands to work in the<br />
garden, but only as support staff. The children would<br />
all work together and be given rows of coffee for<br />
weeding, spraying insecticide and pruning. “Parents<br />
do not give children responsibilities as they used to<br />
like in our time,” Mum notes. Later, in her teenage<br />
years she went to a boarding high school while most<br />
of her siblings at that time were in a day school.<br />
“When I returned from boarding school it felt like<br />
payback time as I had to do all the chores because I<br />
had been away, it was my time to do the work!’’ she<br />
quips.<br />
In the coffee-picking season, they would at times be<br />
at the coffee factory late into the night. When they<br />
would return home, the boys would help to fetch<br />
water because of the lateness of the hour. They<br />
would then work together to cook the large ugali<br />
(a dish made from maizemeal). If a chicken were to<br />
be cooked for their large family, it would be just<br />
enough. Every morsel would be cooked, eaten and<br />
the nice pieces belonged to the grown ups. “To this<br />
day, I don’t like to eat the drumsticks because I grew<br />
up knowing that the two pieces belonged to my<br />
parents!” Mum shares.<br />
When the holidays came along, her mother would<br />
send the girls to a family friend’s home. They would<br />
be sent bearing gifts from the garden. However,<br />
because the destination was quite a distance<br />
away, they would spend the night at the home and<br />
return the next day. It was safer for children to walk<br />
unaccompanied, as there were no kidnapping cases.<br />
I note that this is in stark contrast to modern times.<br />
I ask her what her views are on the differences<br />
between raising children, then and now. She talks<br />
about smart phones being accessible to very young<br />
children; and if not monitored, it can lead to unwanted<br />
exposure to pornography and other societal vices.<br />
Mum highlights that even in the slum areas children<br />
can pay as little as Kes. 5/= to watch whatever they<br />
want as they are mostly on their own. “Nowadays we<br />
find both parents working and coming home late.<br />
They do not have as much influence on their children<br />
who are being raised by the media, the house helps<br />
and peers in school.”<br />
We wind down the interview with her remembering<br />
how they went to boarding school later in life. While,<br />
in this day & age, Mum’s heard of children being sent<br />
off when they are still very young. She feels it takes<br />
something away form the parent-child relationship.<br />
“Once they become teenagers it is harder to form a<br />
bond,” she adds.<br />
I’ve enjoyed listening to my mother sharing about<br />
her childhood but all she had to say couldn’t fit in<br />
this article. I left, deep in thought considering the<br />
demanding parenting journey ahead. There is truly a<br />
lot we can learn from the past.<br />
Mum later went on to work for decades in the<br />
education sector and is now retired. She now spends<br />
some of her time as a director at Koinoinia Education<br />
Centre.<br />
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FEATURE STORY<br />
<strong>THE</strong> MAKING OF A<br />
PIONEER CREATIVE<br />
Interview with Grace Nyokabi Kihara<br />
Before joining the University of Nairobi, 1969<br />
I remember once in lower primary being asked to<br />
explain, to the entire class, what our parents did<br />
for a living. I was at a great loss! I knew my mother,<br />
Grace, was a Graphic Designer because she said<br />
so but I didn’t know how to explain exactly what it<br />
meant. I spent many a weekend at her design studio<br />
playing with sticky rubbers made from cow gum or<br />
with left over fonts from discarded letrasets. Yet to<br />
be perfectly honest, my young mind, did not grasp<br />
the illustrious career that Mum was crafting as a<br />
female creative of her generation. When the idea to<br />
interview our mothers for this issue came up I took<br />
the chance to ask her as many questions about her<br />
career as I could.<br />
CHILDHOOD<br />
“<br />
INFLUENCES<br />
I was curious to know what<br />
in her childhood, being<br />
the fifth born in a family of<br />
seven children, could have<br />
contributed to her being a<br />
creative mind. She credits<br />
this to her late Mum, Peris<br />
Wambui Kihara (whom I<br />
am named after), who had<br />
a strong creative streak in<br />
her. My grandmother loved<br />
to cut and sew her own<br />
dresses. She also, at some<br />
point, attended a course<br />
offered by a colonial white<br />
lady where she learned to<br />
knit, quilt, bake and make jam and marmalade.<br />
Grace says she ended up learning how to knit at an<br />
early age and was already sewing her own underwear<br />
by the time she was in upper primary. She was also<br />
encouraged by her older sister, Lois, who taught<br />
her how to read and follow knitting patterns. While<br />
in Alliance Girls’ High School, she went on to knit<br />
pieces, which were entered for a competition at<br />
the Home Craft Section of the Nairobi International<br />
Show<br />
Grace goes on to credit her creative exposure,<br />
especially in the field of photography, to her late<br />
father Joshua Kihara Wang’ang’a. “Dad was taking<br />
us to the studio for family pictures in the 40’s and<br />
50’s. I found myself going for studio portraits before<br />
joining campus and actually seeking out a couple<br />
of good studios. We did basic photography at the<br />
University but I was to find myself slowly developing<br />
interest and buying my own cameras and snapping<br />
away especially during my travels out of the country,”<br />
she expounds.<br />
BECOMING A DESIGNER<br />
Growing up, I had a vague<br />
idea of her being part of<br />
the first batch of Graphic<br />
Designers out of the<br />
University of Nairobi (UoN).<br />
I finally sought to know<br />
exactly how this happened.<br />
She explained that after her<br />
studies in High School, she<br />
was at a loss on her career<br />
choice. The ones on offer<br />
namely Nursing, Secretarial<br />
and Teaching didn’t suit her<br />
tastes. She instead went to<br />
take up her A Levels at the<br />
then Highlands School (now<br />
Moi Girls), Eldoret. It was<br />
formerly an all European<br />
School that the Kenyan<br />
Government was taking<br />
over and africanizing. There she studied Fine Art,<br />
Geography and English Literature. She graduated<br />
and once again was faced with the dilemma of a<br />
career choice.<br />
“<br />
In those days, they who were artistically inclined<br />
attended Makerere University (Kampala,Uganda)<br />
where they could study Fine Art majoring in Painting<br />
and Sculpture. “I am not sure if I was good at drawing<br />
but I loved drawing maps in Geography and really<br />
coloring them,” she muses. At the time Nairobi was<br />
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Presenting final project at the University of Nairobi<br />
just but a constituent college of the University of East<br />
Africa and they only offered a Diploma in Fine Art.<br />
“It just happened that a new degree Design Course<br />
was being started at the University and without<br />
knowing what it was all about the career advisor<br />
recommended that I should try it because of my Fine<br />
Arts course.”<br />
The new course offered options in Graphic Design,<br />
Textile Design, Product and Industrial Design. The<br />
lecturers came from different parts of the world i.e.<br />
East Africa, Denmark, Germany, USA and Yugoslavia;<br />
therefore it gave the graduates multi-disciplinary<br />
exposure. The students had no idea what the course<br />
would mean in terms of a career path.<br />
was privileged to visit leading designers in London,<br />
Paris, Zurich and Munich.<br />
EMPLOYMENT<br />
Sadly, when Mum got back home she was in for a<br />
rude shock as there were no established posts for<br />
graduate designers in Government. “The private<br />
sector and specifically the fewadvertising agencies<br />
did not have openings for us because they were<br />
training their own employees on the job straight from<br />
High School. My colleagues were being placed in<br />
departments that had a section or anything remotely<br />
creative like KBC for Television captioning,” she<br />
bemoans. Grace was to be absorbed by the then<br />
“We spent time putting our lecturers to task to tell<br />
us what we were training for and where we would<br />
get jobs. We had a committed advisor and guide,<br />
our Professor and Head of Department who tirelessly<br />
scouted and invited people from Government and<br />
Industry to talk to us,” she explains. She goes on<br />
to add that those who were to take the course later<br />
had the benefit of seeing the past graduates in<br />
practice and would go on to choose design and have<br />
established careers.<br />
TRAVELLING <strong>THE</strong> WORLD<br />
Once she finished the degree course she was<br />
offered a Dutch Government scholarship, which saw<br />
her attend the Academie Industriele Vormgeving<br />
(Design Academy) in Eindhoven. After which, and<br />
with the help of her Nairobi Professor and Head of<br />
Department, she bagged a 3-month internship at<br />
Holland’s leading Graphic Design firm - Associatie<br />
voor Total Design NV (Total Design). Once done, she<br />
Grace in her time at Associatie voor Total Design NV<br />
(Total Design)<br />
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Ministry of Works (MOW). She had taken part and<br />
won their logo design competition in her final year at<br />
UoN. She was tasked with applying the logo on their<br />
range of stationery and to oversee its application.<br />
EAT / MOVE<br />
As fate would have it she was once again at the<br />
right place at the right time. The then Commander<br />
of the Presidential Escort to the Late President<br />
Mzee Jomo Kenyatta came looking for a design of a<br />
Commemorative Medal. It was for the Armed Forces<br />
for the 10th Independence Anniversary (1973). “I<br />
had not done anything like that but I did manage to<br />
produce a design that was acceptable and that was<br />
minted at the Royal Mint. I misplaced my sample but<br />
still have a Certificate signed by the Late President.”<br />
Grace went on to do more work for the ministry,<br />
one that earned her employer the Best Government<br />
Stand Design Award at the Nairobi International<br />
Show. However, her stint as an employee ended 18<br />
months later, once she got a full scholarship to study<br />
for her Masters in Graphic Design at the University<br />
of California in Los Angeles (UCLA).<br />
<strong>THE</strong> ENTREPRENEUR<br />
Grace all dolled up at her daughter’s wedding in<br />
2009.<br />
UNDERSTANDING<br />
OSTEOPOROSIS<br />
by Nina Odongo<br />
She returned home 3 years later and opened Viscom<br />
(a portmanteau of Visual Communication), a design<br />
agency that she run from 1978-2008. “I must say I<br />
was the most exposed in the field of Graphic Design<br />
and was glad to share this with others and contribute<br />
to the establishment of the Design Profession and its<br />
growth in the country. I found many of the projects<br />
exciting and I am happy to see some of the logos we<br />
designed still in use all these years later.”<br />
Towards mid 80’s the pioneer Graphic Designers<br />
started facing challenges. “We were old school as far<br />
as our training went. The introduction of computers<br />
hit us and threatened to drive us out of business,”<br />
Grace says. “As a woman and a single parent I was<br />
a experiencing problems networking and pitching<br />
for jobs. Unlike today when you now have women in<br />
decision-making positions who one can interact and<br />
network with at a professional and social level; back<br />
in the early days it was mostly men in those offices.<br />
I could only interact with them at the office level,<br />
not at the pub or social level. It lead me in search<br />
of a business line that could appeal to the general<br />
public.”<br />
for bringing this concept my way and at that point in<br />
time. I would not have gone into studio photography<br />
if it was not for this concept which greatly appealed<br />
to my creative background.”<br />
I ask her what she would advise someone starting<br />
up a business in <strong>2017</strong>. “I would just advise them to<br />
be very committed in whatever they venture into.<br />
The space today is even more competitive than it<br />
was in the earlier years so it is a very different ball<br />
game. They now have the advantage of Technology<br />
and are in a position to do much better in the world<br />
of communication.”<br />
As we wind up, I wonder what would keep her<br />
going to run her design company for 14 years and<br />
the photography studio for 26 years, “As a single<br />
parent of two daughters, I was challenged to make it<br />
work and failing was not an option. If it would have<br />
failed I knew I just had to pick myself up and start<br />
something all over again.”<br />
Now more than ever I finally have a proper<br />
understanding of the magnitude of shoes I, as<br />
Grace’s daughter, have to fill in regards to taking<br />
her creative pioneering to the next level. Clearly my<br />
work is cut out for me but I am comforted that I stand<br />
on great shoulders from which to launch myself.<br />
While her colleagues went into fields such as Interior<br />
Design she was lucky to come across a studio<br />
photography concept called Virtual Backgrounds.<br />
She learned of this concept through her older brother<br />
who had traveled and came back with a brochure.<br />
Grace opened Beta Portrait Studio in Cargen House<br />
on Harambee Avenue. I ask her how she feels about<br />
Bone fracture on bone with mild Osteopenia<br />
having a business successfully run for close to 26<br />
years, “I feel very happy and grateful and thank God<br />
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Age takes a toll on our bodies, no matter how<br />
gracefully we age on the outside. For women,<br />
in particular, life changes like pregnancy and<br />
menopause can wreak havoc on our bodies. One of<br />
the more serious side effects of aging is osteoporosis.<br />
Osteoporosis is a medical condition in which your<br />
bones become brittle and fragile from loss of tissue.<br />
This reduction in bone density is more common in<br />
women as we have smaller, thinner bones than men.<br />
There are many causes of osteoporosis, but we will<br />
examine in greater detail the ones that are pertinent<br />
to older women.<br />
One of the main causes of osteoporosis is a change<br />
in hormone levels. The onset of menopause brings<br />
about a sharp drop in oestrogen, which in turn<br />
can cause bone loss. The chance of developing<br />
osteoporosis as women age increases significantly<br />
after menopause. There are now drugs on the market<br />
that are used to moderate this hormone drop and<br />
that can treat and prevent osteoporosis.<br />
While some of the causes of osteoporosis are out of<br />
our control, many of them are lifestyle related. As<br />
we age, we tend to become more sedentary, which<br />
impacts us negatively in more ways than simply a<br />
widening waistline. Bones weaken if they aren’t<br />
worked, and an inactive lifestyle causes rapid bone<br />
loss. One of the reasons osteoporosis is called the<br />
‘The Silent Disease’ is because you will never know<br />
you have it until you fracture a bone. Without a bone<br />
density scan, it is impossible to tell whether or not<br />
you are experiencing a degradation in your bone<br />
density.<br />
It is not all bad news however. Implementing<br />
a regimen of consistent exercise can prevent<br />
osteoporosis caused by inactivity. It is not enough<br />
to just do cardio like walking or aerobics; to keep<br />
your bones dense and strong, you have to subject<br />
them to gentle stress through weight bearing<br />
exercises. Weight lifting at least three times a week<br />
is one of the most effective remedies against loss<br />
of bone mass. The added benefits of weight lifting<br />
are improved muscle strength and better balance,<br />
both of which infinitely increase your quality of life<br />
as you age. Seek the advice of a qualified fitness<br />
professional to help you with an exercise program.<br />
Make your smoothie a meal in a glass<br />
by adding oats and spinach<br />
pressure and diabetes. Micronutrient deficiencies<br />
are more common as we age because the variety in<br />
our diets tends to stagnate. It also becomes harder<br />
for our bodies to absorb the necessary nutrients.<br />
Lack of calcium and Vitamin D are dietary causes of<br />
osteoporosis. Without calcium, you can’t rebuild new<br />
bones, while Vitamin D helps your body’s absorption<br />
of calcium. A deficiency in the latter will therefor<br />
inhibit the amount you would absorb, even with a<br />
balanced diet. As well as eating a balanced diet,<br />
taking supplements helps fill in any gaps in our diet<br />
and helps us meet our increased nutritional needs.<br />
There are other things that can affect the loss of<br />
bone density, such as medication, smoking and<br />
drinking alcohol. It is important to understand<br />
whether or not you fall into an at-risk bracket. It is<br />
“IT IS POSSIBLE<br />
TO MITIGATE<br />
<strong>THE</strong> EFFECTS OF<br />
GROWING OLD.<br />
“<br />
Images Courtesy of Nina Odongo<br />
worth discussing with your doctor the possibility of<br />
getting a bone density scan. Even if you don’t have<br />
full-blown osteoporosis, these scans can pick up on<br />
a reduction in bone mass.<br />
Osteopenia is a precursor to osteoporosis,<br />
presenting as only a small reduction in bone density.<br />
With supplements, it is possible to prevent a further<br />
deterioration and with the suggestions above, to<br />
make lifestyle changes that can actually improve<br />
your density.<br />
The thought of aging may be frightening for some,<br />
with the prospect of physical deterioration, however,<br />
it IS possible to mitigate the effects of growing old.<br />
Living a healthy, active, well-considered lifestyle will<br />
not only slow the aging process, it will significantly<br />
improve your quality of life and allow you to embrace<br />
the aging process, live happily and age successfully.<br />
Consult your doctor before you embark on a marked<br />
lifestyle change, including taking supplements.<br />
Get your five-a-day by snacking on fruit and veg<br />
Lifting weight keeps you strong and fit.<br />
Diet is also an important factor when considering<br />
causes of osteoporosis. As we get older, it becomes<br />
even more crucial that we pay attention to our diet<br />
to prevent or control lifestyle diseases commonly<br />
associated with age, such as increased blood<br />
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FEATURE STORY<br />
Leo Salon & Barber, Two Rivers Mall<br />
“DO NOT TAKE<br />
MO<strong>THE</strong>RING AS A<br />
WEAKNESS<br />
“<br />
Images Courtesy of Leo Salon & Barber<br />
LOVING BEAUTIFUL SPACES<br />
& LIVING HEALTHY<br />
Interview with Agnes Maganjo of Leo Salon & Barber<br />
It all started more than 25 years ago when, as a<br />
young mother & wife, Agnes decided to open her<br />
own salon near her then home, in South B Estate,<br />
Nairobi. Out of the many reasons one would want<br />
to open a salon, from starting a lucrative business<br />
venture, to indulging in their passion for hair,<br />
Agnes’ reason takes the cake. She opened her salon<br />
because she loved beautiful spaces. “As a child, my<br />
mother would leave home, only to come find I had<br />
re-arranged the house,” she recalls.<br />
Agnes says she’s stickler for detail, so she would go<br />
to salons and not like how they were designed. “I<br />
would quickly notice something that’s not good and<br />
won’t be at ease. I got tired of going into town to<br />
get my hair done then I thought, ‘Why can’t I look<br />
for space here and create a beautiful salon?’” That<br />
she did, and her journey into running salons started.<br />
She named her first salon Dainty after a nickname<br />
given to her because of her small frame. “I believe<br />
my strongest point is in pushing beautiful salons. If<br />
you go to all my salons you will be able to notice that<br />
somebody was behind its creation.” I am inclined to<br />
believe her. We are sitting in her Two Rivers branch<br />
and I can attest to its well-designed space with clean<br />
whites and vibrant pinks and greens.<br />
She sold Dainty and opened the first Leo Salon at<br />
Capital Centre mall on Mombasa road when it first<br />
opened up. I enquire about the name, Leo. Agnes<br />
clarifies to me that it’s not Leo as in the zodiac<br />
symbol or in relation to lion; but instead it the<br />
Kiswahili word for today. “I wanted an easy name,<br />
and something that would mean current. I wanted<br />
to always be relevant,” she explains. Since then she<br />
opened the Westlands branch, then Garden City and<br />
now the Two Rivers branch.<br />
There are lots of aspects that go into owning and<br />
running a salon. Agnes is clear on what she can<br />
and cannot do. “I can’t be a manager I’ll harass<br />
people,” she declares. “But I am a fantastic trainer. I<br />
am patient I’ll train you over and over. I don’t throw<br />
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Leo Salon & Barber, Westlands Branch<br />
people out.” A testament to this is that her longest<br />
serving staff member has been with her for 16years.<br />
As we chat, Leo’s staff members are moving around<br />
expertly tending to the clientele. They call her Aunty<br />
Agnes, a testament to their view of her as their<br />
mother.<br />
Agnes is trained Economist, and was a lecturer in<br />
Economics & Research Methods at the University of<br />
Nairobi for 8 years. She quit to take up consulting<br />
and at the height of her consulting career she was a<br />
CEO of the firm she worked. She was earning Kes.<br />
80,000/= per day, choosing jobs, living the good<br />
life, traveling extensively and shopped at high-end<br />
stores.<br />
Then 7 years ago she started to notice she had<br />
trouble pronouncing some words, but laughed it off<br />
and concluded that she was suffering from dementia.<br />
Her eyesight was also deteriorating but she got<br />
spectacles to take care of that problem. Eventually<br />
it’s the constant headaches that took her to seek<br />
medical attention.<br />
want to go through that process be it chemo or<br />
radiation.” With the permission and support of her<br />
husband and an American Neurosurgeon she opted<br />
to go the natural route, which she had come across<br />
out of interest a few years earlier.<br />
She took 3-months to learn as much as she could.<br />
In the interim she changed her lifestyle and started<br />
to juice her fruits and vegetables in earnest. For<br />
120days she lived on 8 glasses of juice a day. Her<br />
research took her to Spain, Britain and South Africa<br />
to benchmark on natural healing remedies. While in<br />
the Mediterranean country she was challenged not<br />
only about her diet; but also what she applied to her<br />
skin, the largest organ on her body. She then started<br />
to explore natural ingredients that would work well<br />
with her skin.<br />
I ask her if her hair was natural before she was<br />
diagnosed with cancer. She responded that she had<br />
a perm and retouched every month. She shares that<br />
going and living natural, as a salon owner was a<br />
struggle to her. She wondered why she was applying<br />
chemicals to clients but not to herself. “Three years<br />
ago I almost sold Leo, until God told me that my<br />
task was to create awareness and help people to<br />
make informed choices.” Today, Leo hairdressers<br />
advise clients to have breaks as long as 4 months<br />
before retouching. This mitigates the amount and<br />
frequency of chemicals entering the body. She also<br />
declines to apply a perm or retouch anyone under<br />
the age of 14.<br />
“I think I might have contributed to that cancer. My<br />
lifestyle wasn’t ok. I wasn’t resting enough. I was<br />
flying like crazy, and feeling good about making<br />
money. I was stressed up; something so small would<br />
stress me! I wanted to be perfect. I needed to present<br />
myself perfectly to the world. So in that fight to be<br />
perfect I really stressed out. Now I’ll still feel that<br />
that’s not ok but we shall sit and talk about it. It<br />
doesn’t have to affect my day, or how I am feeling<br />
or my emotions.<br />
I ask Agnes what advise she would give to a young<br />
mother who wants to open a salon business. She<br />
advises that as a woman one should develop a<br />
healthy life philosophy of. It’ll help you instead,<br />
you create time and interact with people that<br />
matter most in your life. Do not take mothering as a<br />
weakness; communicate when you need to focus on<br />
your family. “Create time for your children,<br />
should surround themselves with good people that<br />
you can pass the knowledge to. “The people that<br />
you are working with, empower them, trust them,<br />
and incentivize them. Make them feel important<br />
about themselves, that they are doing something<br />
great for you. It’s ok to be vulnerable.”<br />
Finally, she says if you are married or in a relationship,<br />
find a way to balance the marriage vs. the business/<br />
work. At the end of the day the business, money<br />
and success will come and go but it is important to<br />
have someone by your side. “Being friends with your<br />
husband is an important thing.”<br />
Agnes just turned 55 in April and while she used<br />
to check the tumor every 6 months, she hasn’t in a<br />
while. “I am so grateful to God. I don’t tell people<br />
not to go to hospital, as this was my own personal<br />
choice. But whatever you decide, I think changing<br />
your lifestyle, not just food, but also your entire<br />
lifestyle. From the sense of stress, to your sense of<br />
rest, to what I eat, to my rhythm and to what I put on<br />
my skin & my hair. I really guard my emotions now;<br />
you won’t push me. I devised a saying, ‘No one can<br />
annoy Aggie apart from Aggie herself.’”<br />
LOCATION CONTACTS:<br />
Leo Salon & Barber<br />
Garden City Mall<br />
0708440797<br />
Leo Salon & Barber<br />
Victoria Court, Westlands<br />
0701299296<br />
Leo Salon & Barber<br />
Two Rivers Malls<br />
0715815441<br />
Social Media Pages<br />
Facebook: Leo Salon and Barber<br />
Twitter & IG: @weareleoske<br />
She was met with the news that she had a golf ball<br />
sized stage two tumor in her brain. Her options<br />
were either surgery or surgery but her heart told her<br />
otherwise. “Once they remove such, people don’t<br />
go so well. I told myself that if I die let me die the<br />
way I am. I wasn’t afraid of death, I just knew I didn’t<br />
Do not think that money is everything, “When I<br />
started to relax about looking for money, I realised<br />
that it started to look for me and I started to get a<br />
healthy attitude towards money.”<br />
In regards to hiring, she would advise that one<br />
Agnes explaining the function of the<br />
carrier oils and essential oils<br />
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WEAR<br />
WINTER IS<br />
COMING<br />
with Mambo Pambo<br />
The Mambo Pambo Masika Collection features cold<br />
season apparel made from heavy cotton jersey with<br />
assorted wax print trims. Pieces in the collection<br />
include Waterfall Cardigans, Kimonos also known as<br />
Dusters, Ponchos, and Wrap Dresses for both adults<br />
and children.<br />
The jersey is heavy to ward off the cold and the<br />
assorted wax print trims give the solid colored jersey<br />
a splash of color while adding visual interest. Mambo<br />
Pambo (MP) makes a limited number of garments<br />
per trim to ensure each client’s garment is uniquely<br />
theirs.<br />
Mambo Pambo is a Fashion Design Studio that offers<br />
afro-contemporary clothes, designed and made in<br />
Kenya. The team at Mambo Pambo works on the<br />
ethos that clothes made in Kenya for Kenyans can<br />
be modern, impeccably tailored and made to last.<br />
The Creative Director at Mambo Pambo, Kawira<br />
Mirero believes style transcends age and body size.<br />
She designs clothes that flatter all body shapes<br />
and sizes. She draws inspiration from her client’s<br />
lifestyles, environment, and unique personalities.<br />
Mambo Pambo is based along Mbaazi Avenue, in<br />
Kilimani. The Studio offers ready-to-wear apparel,<br />
made-to-measure and styling services.<br />
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KNOW - HAIR<br />
Twist Outs<br />
“<br />
<strong>THE</strong>RE ARE<br />
REALLY NO LINKS<br />
TO ONSET OF<br />
GREYING DUE TO<br />
STRESS, DIET OR<br />
LIFESTYLE<br />
“<br />
Images via www. 123rf.com<br />
GREY IS <strong>THE</strong><br />
NEW BLACK<br />
by Evie Dondi<br />
You wake up one day, go through your daily morning<br />
routine and when you get to the part where you<br />
scrutinize yourself in the mirror, you freeze. You see<br />
a silver/grey hair – one hair and that’s it, your brain<br />
goes into a semi-panic state wondering, should you<br />
grab some tweezers and pluck it? Then you remember<br />
the grapevine information that states if you pull it,<br />
more will appear and that’s what you are avoiding.<br />
Then it dawns on you, but why? Why do you fear<br />
having greys/silvers? You are not alone. According<br />
to a survey by Crown Clinic, the UK’s leading hair<br />
transplant clinic, 72% of women dread the sight of<br />
their first grey hair.<br />
So what’s the science behind greying? It is as a result<br />
of the reduction of pigment and as you age. Chances<br />
of going grey increase anywhere from 10% - 20% every<br />
decade after you hit the 30year mark. Hair, believe it<br />
or not, is originally white and gets its pigment from<br />
melanin. There are two types of melanin responsible<br />
for the array of hair colors we see, dark (eumelanin)<br />
and light (phaeomelanin). Specialized pigment cells<br />
called melanocytes position themselves at the skin’s<br />
surface as the hair grows. During the formation of<br />
hair, these melanocytes inject melanin into the cells<br />
containing keratin. Keratin is known as the protein<br />
that makes up skin, hair and nails.<br />
The hair follicle has a melanogenic clock and as<br />
we age this clock slows or stops all together the<br />
melanocyte activity. This in turn reduces the amount<br />
of melanin that the hair receives, thus it turns<br />
grey. How soon the clock slows or stops is entirely<br />
controlled by age and genes, thus explaining the<br />
different rates at which we all grey. In 2009, scientists<br />
discovered that a slow build up hydrogen peroxide,<br />
produced by hair follicles, in the hair shaft, lead to<br />
a gradual loss of color. (FASEB Journal, v. 23, July<br />
2009: 2065-2075)<br />
We’ve all heard the saying ‘teenagers will give<br />
you grey hair’ but apparently there really no links<br />
to onset of greying due to stress, diet or lifestyle.<br />
However, an interesting factor that lends a hand to<br />
greying is race. In a survey of 4,000 people from<br />
around the world published in 2012 by the British<br />
Journal of Dermatology, 74% of those between the<br />
ages of 45-65 had grey hair. People of Asian and<br />
African American decent had less grey hair at any<br />
age than Caucasians.<br />
Lifestyle choice is another factor that speeds up<br />
greying of hair. According to a report in 2013 in the<br />
Indian Dermatology Journal, smokers are two and<br />
a half times more likely to start greying before the<br />
age of 30 than smokers. Looking for a reason to quit<br />
smoking? Well now you have it!<br />
The idea of women going grey/silver always receives<br />
mixed reactions and sometimes there’s a double<br />
standard. See, its ‘OK’ for men to grey early or rather<br />
gracefully and they even get sexy names such as the<br />
‘Salt & Pepper’ look. On the flip side, for women,<br />
there’s this social pressure to keep the hair colored<br />
as a sign of youth or vibrancy. Many women have<br />
reported feeling a need to keep looking youthful in<br />
order to maintain a successful career path. In any<br />
case it’s unfair. Additionally the hair market seems<br />
to subscribe to the same ageist agenda and dozens<br />
of hair dyes on the market are specifically made to<br />
cover up errant grey. However, the social pressure<br />
that befalls a woman who decides to let her hair do<br />
what it will naturally is slowly lifting and in fact grey<br />
is the new black.<br />
The new trend was first spotted on runways in 2014<br />
and is now spreading like wild fire across the globe.<br />
Grey has now gone from symbolizing aging to being<br />
a symbol of high fashion. This swap in representation<br />
has also lessened the stigma of aging and allowed<br />
older women to embrace the process. In the words<br />
of Erykah Badu, “Body and brain have aged. My<br />
consciousness has witnessed this, yet has not aged.<br />
This “awareness” is who we are.”<br />
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ENJOY<br />
KINKS & KURLS EXPO UG<br />
with Kyomm<br />
Kyomm and Mimi (KK Expo Ug organisers)<br />
with Sheila Ndinda<br />
exhibiting their products, experts hosting group<br />
classes, networking brunch for exhibitors, hair craft<br />
and entertainment for the kids, hair demos by salons,<br />
food provision by local vendors, band performance<br />
amongst many other activities. To cap it all off we<br />
planned to hear from our regional guest speaker<br />
Sheila Ndinda. We are total fan girls!<br />
Did the event meet or exceed your expectations?<br />
Looking back at the photos and footage, it warms out<br />
hearts to see how our expectations were exceeded.<br />
We were so busy on the day and exhausted by the<br />
end of it… but our hard work paid off.<br />
We noted that from the previous year, the attendance<br />
increased, the vendors increased, the quality of<br />
products on offer increased, the hair demos were<br />
superb, the classes were a hit, the kiddies corner<br />
rocked and the panellists were so giving. The only<br />
regret we have is that our photo booth was not fully<br />
utilised.<br />
When is the next event? The Kinks and Kurls Expo<br />
is held annually in March. However, the exact date<br />
for the 4th edition (2018) will be communicated in<br />
due time. We shall be revealing the juicy details in<br />
the months leading up to the event.<br />
Happy time!<br />
What can attendees look forward to? This event is<br />
growing every year and therefore, attendees should<br />
look forward to a bigger and better event. On our<br />
wish list specifically though are two things (probably<br />
a few more but let’s start with these) that:<br />
Attendees chatting about natural hair<br />
We love us some Sheila Ndinda and we follow her on<br />
all her platforms. So when she announced that she<br />
would be the guest speaker at a Natural hair event<br />
in Uganda, we were all eyes and ears. The event<br />
dubbed Kinks & Kurls Expo Uganda was lovely to<br />
watch as it unfolded.<br />
We reached out to the organisers to answer some<br />
questions. They were just as excited to share details<br />
about what’s happening on their side of the lake in<br />
regards to the natural hair and lifestyle.<br />
What’s new and happening in the natural hair<br />
space in Uganda? The number of Naturalistas and<br />
Naturalistas-to-be is rapidly increasing, in Uganda,<br />
as shown by growth in the local Natural hair<br />
forums and/or Facebook groups. This in turn has<br />
created business opportunities for local natural hair<br />
product manufacturers who are meeting the need<br />
for affordable, good quality, easily accessible and<br />
premium organic/natural based products.<br />
It’s absolutely amazing to see more of us embracing<br />
our natural hair textures and helping each other<br />
to make it work for us as individuals. Way to go<br />
#KawekeMovement – we are embracing our Afrotextured<br />
hair!<br />
Why did you feel the importance of hosting an<br />
event such as the one you did? The Kinks and<br />
Kurls Expo UG is a festive collective of Ugandan<br />
women donning natural hair, (otherwise known as<br />
‘Naturalistas’), getting together with the objective<br />
of celebrating natural hair in its various forms and<br />
personalities, and embracing natural lifestyles in<br />
general.<br />
We’d like to demonstrate to girls/women of all ages<br />
that it is possible and acceptable to have natural<br />
hair, and to feel comfortable in their skin, without<br />
breaking the bank. Further more, we would like to<br />
showcase the growing set of Ugandan entrepreneurs<br />
that have carved out their niche by catering to the<br />
need for homegrown products on the market.<br />
What were your expectations & plans for the<br />
event? We planned for an intimate garden party<br />
affair. The idea was to have local businesses<br />
• The Beard Gang and Loc Nation support the<br />
event in larger numbers and,<br />
• The event becomes the go-to event for<br />
Naturalistas on the continent.<br />
We welcome feedback and new ideas for future<br />
events so please feel free to send us some on via<br />
our email.<br />
<strong>THE</strong> KURL FRIENDS TEAM<br />
Email: kinksandkurlsug@gmail.com<br />
Phone:<br />
Kyomm +256 778 697 227<br />
Mimi +256 705 069 047 (Whatsapp only)<br />
Cathy - Event manager +256 751 236 739<br />
Charlene - Graphics Designer +256 778 968<br />
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Follow uås on:<br />
Twitter: kinksandkurlsug<br />
Instagram: kinksandkurls_expoug<br />
Facebook: Kinks and Kurls Expo Ug<br />
Babies’ day out<br />
But first let’s take a selfie<br />
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Checking out the exhibition<br />
Panel discussion on going<br />
Checking out the exhibition<br />
Exhibitor (Kentaro) tee<br />
Winner of ‘most interesting style’ award<br />
Winner of ‘twistout’ award and TWA friend<br />
But first let’s take a selfie<br />
Such sunny accessories - exhibitors<br />
Sparkles salon models<br />
Little naturalista in attendance<br />
Handmade braided wigs<br />
Photographers: Andrew Pacutho (The Photography of Andrew Pacutho, Instagram: szion256) • Tsaubah<br />
Stone (Facebook: Stone Photography) • Ninno Jack Jr (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: Ninno Jack Jr) •<br />
Immaculate Nabayunga (Instagram, Website: kikalamu)<br />
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ENJOY<br />
visualize what I needed for the day. I mainly handled my corporate sponsors and publicity campaign on<br />
Social Media. All in all, a team of 10 ushers was at hand on the day to assist with crowd control. I also had<br />
the venue team who were also about 10 in number. From start to finish, I’d say 40 people were involved in<br />
some shape or form in ensuring the success of the event.<br />
What tips and tricks can you share with someone planning a similar event?<br />
I’d advice that they start early - I’m still not sure just how I pulled this all off in one week of planning!<br />
Secondly, I’d encourage them to keep the focus of the event on their readership rather than on themselves.<br />
At the end of the day, Craving Yellow would be nothing without its faithful readers and subscribers.<br />
Maureen Marunga (Amadiva) and<br />
Njeri Ngige (Sitara)<br />
CRAVING YELLOW TOO<br />
with Tabitha Tongoi<br />
I knew as soon as I saw the invite’s request to<br />
dress in a touch of yellow; I knew it would mean<br />
having a lovely, sunny and happy day out. I was<br />
not disappointed by the Craving Yellow Too event<br />
hosted by Tabitha Tongoi, the creator of Craving<br />
Yellow website and social media platforms. I queried<br />
Tabitha on how she put it together and how she felt<br />
it went down.<br />
What did you have in mind for the Meet and Greet<br />
and did the actual event surpass them or not?<br />
My Meet and Greet was an opportunity for me to<br />
connect face to face with my Kenyan readership. I<br />
have a following of over 150,000 on all my social<br />
media platforms and many of them are Kenyan. This<br />
is the first time I’ve been in Kenya since I started the<br />
blog and while I’ve spoken to many of my readers<br />
on the blog, this was a chance to finally catch up<br />
with them on the same piece of land!<br />
subscribers got to take selfies with me and sample<br />
some of my favorite hair goodies from my corporate<br />
sponsors. It was worth every minute! I’m humbled<br />
by the outcome.<br />
Why did you choose Asmara Restaurant (a fairly<br />
new and unknown spot) for your event?<br />
I wanted an outdoor venue with enough room for my<br />
readers and I to interact freely. Asmara Restaurant<br />
offered me their venue at a discounted price.<br />
Their layout matched what I needed for the day<br />
with enough space to hold up to 300 people quite<br />
comfortably. The venue was also quite accessible by<br />
public transport and far enough from the Nairobi<br />
CBD to deter any gatecrashers.<br />
How big was your organizing team, what role<br />
did you play and how did you communicate your<br />
vision to the team?<br />
Girls just wanna have fun!<br />
Guests at the Harvest of Sunshine stand<br />
The event far surpassed my expectations. I planned<br />
for 50 attendees and got 250! It was a fantastic day<br />
filled with lots of love and sunshine. My readers and<br />
I worked closely with my events planner and my<br />
manager - they were both fantastic and honestly did<br />
most of the behind the scenes work and helped me<br />
Guests looking through products on display<br />
Photography by: Greg of Complement Pictures.<br />
Natural Hair Kenya and Zene Naturals<br />
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Tabitha taking a selfie with fans<br />
Photo booth time!<br />
Shopping, shopping and more shopping<br />
Cake time!<br />
Prayer time<br />
Anita Mogere (From Curves with Love)<br />
poses with Tabitha<br />
Amadiva Beauty stand<br />
Ladies looking all fly!<br />
Audience member asking a question<br />
The audiece attentive!<br />
Tabitha on stage<br />
Tabitha posing in her Vivo wrap<br />
Hugs!<br />
Lynn Sheri (Afrosheri) and friends chatting<br />
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CREATE<br />
Begin with getting the item that you want to dye, in<br />
my case we were working with a face cloth. In this<br />
case we are working with face cloth. Draw, with a<br />
pencil, the pattern that you desire to create. The<br />
pencil marks indicate the areas that will be tied.<br />
STEP 1: PREPPING<br />
STEP 2: TYING<br />
Tie the areas with the pencil marks and be sure to<br />
have a strong grip otherwise if it’s loose, the design<br />
will not come out as desired.<br />
LEARNING TO TIE & DYE<br />
by Wagio Mokaya<br />
Mrs. Janet Nyambura Kagwe a.k.a Cũcũ Janet, first fell in love with the craft in the 1960s while doing a<br />
course in Nutrition at the then Karen College. She went on to improve her skills through BSF (a German<br />
company) where she would access affordable and easier to use vat dyes.<br />
Over the course of the years she has continued to learn new techniques and the positive response from her<br />
clients gave her the impetus to go on. “The craft is in my blood!” she says, and goes on to explain that she<br />
has tried to stop but has always found herself going back to it.<br />
Cũcũ (meaning Grandmother in the local Kikuyu language) sources her raw materials from Nairobi’s Industrial<br />
area. Her market has consisted of tourists, corporate companies and individuals. She ties & dyes t-shirts,<br />
towels and bed covers; and displays her items at exhibitions, schools and churches. She recently opened<br />
Facebook Page perhaps to gain a new & younger market for her wares.<br />
In a bucket, mix in small amounts of the dye color<br />
of your choice and sodium dithionite. Pour in<br />
boiling water into the tin and let it dissolve. Insert<br />
the face cloth in the tin until completely immersed.<br />
STEP 3: DYEING<br />
She has over the years, trained individuals and groups to assist her in her business and to also to grow their<br />
own crafts. Therefore, it was an honor for her to run me through her process.<br />
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STEP 4: DRYING<br />
Let the cloth soak for 10mins then remove it from the<br />
dyed water and place it on a drying surface. Leave<br />
it to dry under the sun for about 30mins to 1hour to<br />
let it oxidize.<br />
Dip the cloth in water, undo the knots and wash it<br />
thoroughly with soap until the water is clear. Then<br />
hang to dry.<br />
STEP 5: WASH & DRY<br />
Follow & like @janetsdyes on Facebook<br />
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TOPICAL<br />
IN SEARCH<br />
OF ROOTS<br />
by Al Kags<br />
To be perfectly honest, I started seeking the stories<br />
you would find in Living Memories for entirely selfish<br />
reasons - or more accurately one entirely selfish<br />
reason: I needed to find myself. The reality that<br />
people of my generation live in is that we straddle<br />
many worlds, many cultures and they all have<br />
relevance and meaning. We understand western<br />
cultures and we have swag. We learn English that our<br />
grandparents were taught by the British and then we<br />
supplement it with that supplied by the Americans.<br />
But we speak sheng’ with defiance and denounce<br />
those who twang’. We ‘proudly’ don’t speak our<br />
mother tongue - except when it benefits us or when<br />
the politics of the day require it. We are well read<br />
and ignorant at the same time. We crave for Nyama<br />
Choma and cocktails, Designer cloths and the fresh<br />
air of “shags”.<br />
“I SEEK OUT <strong>THE</strong><br />
PEOPLE WHO<br />
HAVE <strong>THE</strong> BEST<br />
CHANCE OF<br />
TELLING ME WHO<br />
I AM<br />
“<br />
Images Courtesy of Al Kags<br />
We are bombarded with all manner of identities and<br />
tags and labels.<br />
The more we become global (blame technology),<br />
the more we know about the world (from the movies<br />
and Facebook), the more our aspirations converge<br />
with those of the rest of the world, the less we know<br />
about who we uniquely are, what we are about.<br />
Even if this is not your reality, it is mine. So I seek out<br />
the people who have the best chance of telling me<br />
who I am, my ancestors - living and dead. They told<br />
me what growing up was like for them and through<br />
their experiences in some pretty extraordinary times,<br />
I got a glimpse of how I came to be.<br />
Here’s a story that I heard recently from Gathoni<br />
wa Koinange, the only surviving widow of the late<br />
Paramount Chief Koinange wa Mbiyu.<br />
GATHONI WA KOINANGE<br />
“If I survive this year, I will have lived one hundred<br />
and seventeen years. I am thankful to God that I<br />
am still strong and spry and cheerful. I have lived<br />
a good life.”<br />
“I was born in a place called Ting’ang’a beyond<br />
Kiambu. My father was a traditional man, a<br />
senior elder - a foreman who was chosen to head<br />
the council of elders because he was wise and<br />
strong.”<br />
“In those days, the Gikuyu elders arbitrated<br />
small disputes, oversaw initiation and other rites<br />
of passage and collected hut tax. When there<br />
was issues that were to serious for the elders<br />
to deal with themselves, or when a villager was<br />
unable to pay the one rupee (2 shillings) hut tax,<br />
the elders then deferred the case to the senior<br />
Gathoni wa Koinange and, my son Harry,<br />
her great-great-great grandson<br />
chief under whom they served. In my father’s case, the senior chief was Koinange.”<br />
“When I was a girl, my job was to take care of goats that my brother was going to use to pay bride<br />
price for a girl who lived not far from us. According to our customs, while Njuguna could give the few<br />
goats he had to the father of the girl as a down payment of sorts, the goats would still remain his until<br />
the Ngurario was done (which would involve the killing of a goat). While the goats were his to breed,<br />
he had to provide the labour for them and that is what I was.”<br />
“It was in those days that I met the senior chief. He would come to my father’s boma regularly and I<br />
would receive him on the outskirts of my father’s shamba where I would be tending the goats. I would<br />
help him with whatever he was carrying and walk home with him.”<br />
“I had no idea that there were marriage discussions going on between the senior chief and my folks. I<br />
had no cause for concern anyway because I had an elder sister before me who was yet unmarried and<br />
she would have had to be married before I could be considered.”<br />
“Girls had really no say in their own destiny and usually when the time for marriage came, they were<br />
simply informed who they were going to marry. My sister wanted to marry someone in particular and<br />
eloped with him before she was told to marry the chief; and so to my surprise, I was told I would marry<br />
the chief. My feeble protests were met with a stern warning from my father: “You will go with him or I<br />
will kill you.” I believed him and so I became the senior chief’s fifth wife.”<br />
Al Kags is the Author of Living Memories<br />
Available on: www.books.magunga.com<br />
Price: Kes 450/=<br />
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