Upbringing of Children

Epilogue
As stated previously, this book is a very general guide and not the final
word. The parents themselves need to be the best judges in
determining what methods are best for their situation and when to
utilise them.
The subject of upbringing children is not something that is read and
memorised and acted upon to the letter. It is rather an entire
occupation in which parents have to experiment and find the best
methods for themselves and their children to achieve the ultimate goal
of becoming people who love their Creator and lead lives of
submission to His guidance. Surely All\h is the best of objectives and
attaining Him is itself the greatest reward.
May our parenting experience be a reflection of the Qur’\nic Du`\’:
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rabbanc hab lanc min azwcjinc wa dhur-riy-yctinc
qurrata ‘a`yun. waj`alnc lil-muttaqena imcmc.
"Our Lord! grant us in our spouses and offspring the joy of our eyes.
And make us leading examples for the righteous." al-Furq\n 25:74
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