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Opinion 15<br />
The wrong kind of attention<br />
We need to talk more about sexual harassment<br />
DT<br />
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST <strong>30</strong>, <strong>2017</strong><br />
But this isn’t always that<br />
easy, especially when the media<br />
is dragged in. Although there<br />
are some news media that are<br />
concerned about the victim and<br />
hide his/her identity, there are<br />
others that fail to conceal the<br />
victim’s identity for petty profits,<br />
which makes the life of the victim<br />
all the more difficult.<br />
This is mostly why many<br />
victims do not want to seek legal<br />
justice.<br />
Sadly, society is of no help.<br />
Most people try to blame the<br />
victim for the harasser’s offense,<br />
or say it is a plot to extort money.<br />
So unless we evolve into a good,<br />
supportive society, victims will<br />
think twice before taking the<br />
matter to the police.<br />
Considering the effects on the<br />
victim, the best way to deal with<br />
sexual harassment is to have an<br />
ironclad policy in the university<br />
and a safe, supportive, nonjudgmental<br />
environment for the<br />
victims so they can easily get<br />
the assistance and justice they<br />
deserve.<br />
Do we have a system in place to complain about harassment?<br />
BIGSTOCK<br />
The government can help<br />
The government can take many<br />
practical steps such as including<br />
the topic in textbooks, requiring<br />
every educational institute to have<br />
a strict policy about it, establishing<br />
a special hotline to report<br />
• Niaz Islam Arif<br />
What is “sexual<br />
harassment”?<br />
The answer is<br />
simple: Any kind<br />
of unwanted activity directed<br />
at a particular person, which is<br />
sexually offensive in nature, is<br />
sexual harassment.<br />
It could happen in different<br />
forms: Verbal, non-verbal, or<br />
physical -- such as spreading<br />
rumours, lewd jokes, comments<br />
on personal choices, and<br />
unwanted physical contact.<br />
As society advances, people are<br />
using new ways to harass others<br />
via things like fake photos, social<br />
media, text, email, etc. University<br />
students, especially female<br />
students, are some of the primary<br />
victims of sexual harassment.<br />
In Bangladesh, now and then,<br />
we hear about some harassment<br />
of university students by their<br />
own professors, but they are<br />
not the only victims. Moreover<br />
their professors are not the only<br />
offenders.<br />
A university student often gets<br />
harassed by classmates, seniors,<br />
lovers, and in some cases, even<br />
by the staff. It is also true that the<br />
harasser could be of the same sex<br />
as the victim. To stand against<br />
this social menace, we can take<br />
precautions, but even that fails to<br />
guarantee its prevention -- but the<br />
most effective measures can be<br />
taken by the victim.<br />
Speak up<br />
When facing any sort of<br />
harassment, the best way to deal<br />
with it is to speak up. One has to<br />
speak instantly when it occurs,<br />
and tell the harasser in a definitive<br />
manner to stop doing it, regardless<br />
of how trivial the offense may<br />
seem. Because, when someone<br />
does not protest small matters, it<br />
often paves the way for serious<br />
offenses.<br />
And sometimes, the offender<br />
is unaware of the fact that his/<br />
her actions are hurting someone<br />
else or that for someone else, it is<br />
an invasion of personal space. In<br />
those cases, if the victim speaks<br />
up, then the harasser understands<br />
his own fault.<br />
And if the victim feels shy<br />
about talking to the offender, then<br />
this could be handled in several<br />
other ways too.<br />
Victims could write anonymous<br />
letters or send an email to the<br />
harasser explaining the incident<br />
that troubled her/him. And it is<br />
always a good idea to keep a copy<br />
of the letter or email as it can be<br />
used as evidence in the future,<br />
in case the offender does not<br />
cooperate.<br />
If things start to get out of<br />
hand, then students must speak<br />
up, loudly and clearly. In many<br />
cases, the offender gets scared<br />
when someone asks loudly to stop,<br />
because he/she fears that someone<br />
may hear and come to the rescue.<br />
Fortunately, we now live in an<br />
era of technology where victims<br />
can easily use that for his/her<br />
defense -- by voice recording,<br />
taking pictures, and making<br />
videos.<br />
And to be on the safe side,<br />
victims should write down the<br />
offensive act in a diary or in an<br />
electronic device with all the<br />
details.<br />
It is always a good idea to<br />
inform someone else about the<br />
harassment, like a close friend or<br />
a classmate, so that someone else<br />
can also look out for the victim<br />
and at times can speak on behalf of<br />
the victim.<br />
The next step is to involve the<br />
appropriate university authority in<br />
the matter.<br />
Educational institutions can<br />
do a lot to help victims. Every<br />
institute should have a definitive<br />
policy on how to handle such<br />
matters.<br />
Often, the victim gets blamed<br />
for the offender’s crime. University<br />
authorities have to be very<br />
cautious, and make sure that it<br />
does not happen.<br />
If the university doesn’t have<br />
such a policy, then students<br />
should talk to the faculty about it,<br />
and ask the policy-makers to make<br />
one. Even then, if they fail to do<br />
so, students should take further<br />
action.<br />
University students can also<br />
increase awareness by arranging<br />
seminars, workshops, street plays,<br />
etc around the campus. They can<br />
distribute informational leaflets<br />
and put up posters so that every<br />
student knows what they can do<br />
when they face sexual harassment.<br />
Break the taboo<br />
The more we talk about it and let<br />
people know about it, the better.<br />
Students are the<br />
ones who can take a<br />
strong stand against<br />
sexual harassment<br />
incidences of sexual harassment,<br />
providing shelter, and ensuring<br />
safe passage of the victims to<br />
normal life.<br />
Students themselves are the<br />
ones who can take a strong stand<br />
against the sexual harassment<br />
that goes on within their own<br />
institutions. They have to<br />
stick together to fight sexual<br />
harassment. They have to<br />
support each other and always<br />
be conscious of what is going on<br />
around them.<br />
If students set an example for<br />
society, other people will soon<br />
follow. Hopefully, one day, we<br />
will be able to live in a beautiful<br />
society free from such horrible<br />
sexual harassment. •<br />
Niaz Islam Arif is a freelance contributor.