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Opinion 15<br />

The wrong kind of attention<br />

We need to talk more about sexual harassment<br />

DT<br />

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST <strong>30</strong>, <strong>2017</strong><br />

But this isn’t always that<br />

easy, especially when the media<br />

is dragged in. Although there<br />

are some news media that are<br />

concerned about the victim and<br />

hide his/her identity, there are<br />

others that fail to conceal the<br />

victim’s identity for petty profits,<br />

which makes the life of the victim<br />

all the more difficult.<br />

This is mostly why many<br />

victims do not want to seek legal<br />

justice.<br />

Sadly, society is of no help.<br />

Most people try to blame the<br />

victim for the harasser’s offense,<br />

or say it is a plot to extort money.<br />

So unless we evolve into a good,<br />

supportive society, victims will<br />

think twice before taking the<br />

matter to the police.<br />

Considering the effects on the<br />

victim, the best way to deal with<br />

sexual harassment is to have an<br />

ironclad policy in the university<br />

and a safe, supportive, nonjudgmental<br />

environment for the<br />

victims so they can easily get<br />

the assistance and justice they<br />

deserve.<br />

Do we have a system in place to complain about harassment?<br />

BIGSTOCK<br />

The government can help<br />

The government can take many<br />

practical steps such as including<br />

the topic in textbooks, requiring<br />

every educational institute to have<br />

a strict policy about it, establishing<br />

a special hotline to report<br />

• Niaz Islam Arif<br />

What is “sexual<br />

harassment”?<br />

The answer is<br />

simple: Any kind<br />

of unwanted activity directed<br />

at a particular person, which is<br />

sexually offensive in nature, is<br />

sexual harassment.<br />

It could happen in different<br />

forms: Verbal, non-verbal, or<br />

physical -- such as spreading<br />

rumours, lewd jokes, comments<br />

on personal choices, and<br />

unwanted physical contact.<br />

As society advances, people are<br />

using new ways to harass others<br />

via things like fake photos, social<br />

media, text, email, etc. University<br />

students, especially female<br />

students, are some of the primary<br />

victims of sexual harassment.<br />

In Bangladesh, now and then,<br />

we hear about some harassment<br />

of university students by their<br />

own professors, but they are<br />

not the only victims. Moreover<br />

their professors are not the only<br />

offenders.<br />

A university student often gets<br />

harassed by classmates, seniors,<br />

lovers, and in some cases, even<br />

by the staff. It is also true that the<br />

harasser could be of the same sex<br />

as the victim. To stand against<br />

this social menace, we can take<br />

precautions, but even that fails to<br />

guarantee its prevention -- but the<br />

most effective measures can be<br />

taken by the victim.<br />

Speak up<br />

When facing any sort of<br />

harassment, the best way to deal<br />

with it is to speak up. One has to<br />

speak instantly when it occurs,<br />

and tell the harasser in a definitive<br />

manner to stop doing it, regardless<br />

of how trivial the offense may<br />

seem. Because, when someone<br />

does not protest small matters, it<br />

often paves the way for serious<br />

offenses.<br />

And sometimes, the offender<br />

is unaware of the fact that his/<br />

her actions are hurting someone<br />

else or that for someone else, it is<br />

an invasion of personal space. In<br />

those cases, if the victim speaks<br />

up, then the harasser understands<br />

his own fault.<br />

And if the victim feels shy<br />

about talking to the offender, then<br />

this could be handled in several<br />

other ways too.<br />

Victims could write anonymous<br />

letters or send an email to the<br />

harasser explaining the incident<br />

that troubled her/him. And it is<br />

always a good idea to keep a copy<br />

of the letter or email as it can be<br />

used as evidence in the future,<br />

in case the offender does not<br />

cooperate.<br />

If things start to get out of<br />

hand, then students must speak<br />

up, loudly and clearly. In many<br />

cases, the offender gets scared<br />

when someone asks loudly to stop,<br />

because he/she fears that someone<br />

may hear and come to the rescue.<br />

Fortunately, we now live in an<br />

era of technology where victims<br />

can easily use that for his/her<br />

defense -- by voice recording,<br />

taking pictures, and making<br />

videos.<br />

And to be on the safe side,<br />

victims should write down the<br />

offensive act in a diary or in an<br />

electronic device with all the<br />

details.<br />

It is always a good idea to<br />

inform someone else about the<br />

harassment, like a close friend or<br />

a classmate, so that someone else<br />

can also look out for the victim<br />

and at times can speak on behalf of<br />

the victim.<br />

The next step is to involve the<br />

appropriate university authority in<br />

the matter.<br />

Educational institutions can<br />

do a lot to help victims. Every<br />

institute should have a definitive<br />

policy on how to handle such<br />

matters.<br />

Often, the victim gets blamed<br />

for the offender’s crime. University<br />

authorities have to be very<br />

cautious, and make sure that it<br />

does not happen.<br />

If the university doesn’t have<br />

such a policy, then students<br />

should talk to the faculty about it,<br />

and ask the policy-makers to make<br />

one. Even then, if they fail to do<br />

so, students should take further<br />

action.<br />

University students can also<br />

increase awareness by arranging<br />

seminars, workshops, street plays,<br />

etc around the campus. They can<br />

distribute informational leaflets<br />

and put up posters so that every<br />

student knows what they can do<br />

when they face sexual harassment.<br />

Break the taboo<br />

The more we talk about it and let<br />

people know about it, the better.<br />

Students are the<br />

ones who can take a<br />

strong stand against<br />

sexual harassment<br />

incidences of sexual harassment,<br />

providing shelter, and ensuring<br />

safe passage of the victims to<br />

normal life.<br />

Students themselves are the<br />

ones who can take a strong stand<br />

against the sexual harassment<br />

that goes on within their own<br />

institutions. They have to<br />

stick together to fight sexual<br />

harassment. They have to<br />

support each other and always<br />

be conscious of what is going on<br />

around them.<br />

If students set an example for<br />

society, other people will soon<br />

follow. Hopefully, one day, we<br />

will be able to live in a beautiful<br />

society free from such horrible<br />

sexual harassment. •<br />

Niaz Islam Arif is a freelance contributor.

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