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Because they do not understand coercive<br />

control, many police officers, lawyers,<br />

judges, advocates and therapists roll their<br />

eyes and blame abused women rather than<br />

offering them concrete help and protection.<br />

Professional training programs should<br />

include material on coercive control as a<br />

required part of their coursework. And we<br />

need to educate children and teens about<br />

healthy relationships that involve the joining<br />

of two free people.<br />

Teaching them about breakups is important,<br />

too. "Yes, some day you will probably be in a<br />

relationship where your heart will feel like it is<br />

breaking and you will survive."<br />

Some shelters and domestic violence<br />

agencies have begun buying it by the case--<br />

it is quite inexpensive and readable<br />

compared to other books. I want to do<br />

whatever I can to get the word out about CC,<br />

and I so appreciate the work of <strong>CCChat</strong><br />

<strong>Magazine</strong> in this regard!<br />

Q: Is there a message you’d like to share<br />

for 2018?<br />

With the power of the #MeToo movement,<br />

maybe this will be the year when significant<br />

changes occur in terms of women's status in<br />

the working world and the home. I hope we<br />

will make progress in terms of sexual<br />

violence.<br />

So my message is: "Stay strong, speak up,<br />

and reach out to someone who is isolated by<br />

their partner."<br />

“My message is: "Stay strong, speak up, and reach out to<br />

someone who is isolated by their partner." ”<br />

Lisa Aronson-Fontes, PhD<br />

Perhaps this could help stave off the oftenfatal<br />

violence that some abusers inflict when<br />

they fear the end of a relationship will be<br />

unbearable.<br />

Q: Is there going to be a follow up book to<br />

Invisible Chains?<br />

Invisible Chains was just published in<br />

Japanese. I am translating it into Spanish<br />

and looking for a Spanish language<br />

publisher.<br />

I am working on articles on coercive control<br />

in Urdu and Farsi. I would love to see<br />

information about coercive control reach the<br />

four corners of the earth because although<br />

there are variations across cultures, I have<br />

yet to see a culture where a certain number<br />

of women (and some men) were not being<br />

abusively controlled by their partners.<br />

I am open to doing another book on coercive<br />

control--I have some ideas. But first, I'd like<br />

to see Invisible Chains get into the hands of<br />

more readers.<br />

Further information:<br />

www.lisafontes.com<br />

More information on:<br />

Dirty John<br />

http://www.latimes.com/local/california/<br />

la-me-ln-coercivecontrol-20171011-story.html<br />

"The Vegan Fugitive"<br />

https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2017/<br />

03/sarma-melngailis-vegan-fugitivedefense<br />

Please copy and paste the above links<br />

into your browser.<br />

2018 is the Year For Making The Invisible Visible

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