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Blonde Ambition<br />

CARSON KRESSLEY AND KRISTINE W MIX COMEDY AND<br />

CLASSICS IN ‘STRAIGHT UP WITH A TWIST’<br />

On March 16, TV personality Carson Kressley will join forces with hit<br />

dance recording sensation Kristine W at New York City’s Joe’s Pub for<br />

an evening to remember, filled with comedy and song.<br />

Kressley, of course, is best known for being the fashion virtuoso on<br />

the hit television program “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy.” He’s also<br />

appeared on “Dancing With the Stars,” the “Miss Universe Pageant”<br />

and was a host on the ABC series “True Beauty.” He regularly critiques<br />

red carpet events including the Oscars and the Golden Globes and can<br />

currently be seen judging the queens on “RuPaul’s Drag Race.”<br />

Kristine W is an international dance music diva. Billboard <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

recently named her “Dance Music Artist of the Decade.” Her latest<br />

single, “Stars,” ties her with Mariah Carey for the sixth artist with the<br />

most #1 club hits ever. She’s had an astounding 17, including “Feel<br />

What You Want” and “One More Try.”<br />

The long-time friends are excited<br />

to take the stage together for<br />

the first time in “Straight Up<br />

With a Twist.”<br />

PHOTO BY KARL GIANT<br />

So tell us a little about the show.<br />

Carson: We have two amazing<br />

shows coming up: March 16 at<br />

Joe’s Pub in New York City and the<br />

17th in New Hope. It will be two<br />

evenings of cabaret, classics and<br />

comedy. Kristine and I have been<br />

great friends for years. We travel in<br />

the same circles professionally, and<br />

it’s exciting to finally get together<br />

for a fun night entertaining people.<br />

Sounds like a lot of fun.<br />

Carson: This is kind of like our pilot<br />

show in New York and New Hope. If<br />

all goes well, we’ll take it across the<br />

country and beyond.


PHOTO CREDIT VH1 NETWORKS<br />

Kristine, congratulations on “Stars”<br />

climbing to #1!<br />

Kristine: It’s pretty exciting stuff. It was<br />

a nail biter. I don’t generally put out a<br />

song in the fourth quarter. Everybody<br />

and their dog puts out records this<br />

time of year, so I took a leap of faith.<br />

I just thought this song was going to<br />

do it, and it happened. It’s my first #1<br />

record in seven years. My team and I<br />

are over the moon.<br />

I bet! So Carson, you’ve done<br />

everything in the world...<br />

Carson: Everyone or everything?<br />

Both.<br />

Carson: I like to do fun and interesting<br />

things. I’ve been so blessed to do a<br />

lot of television projects, from “Queer<br />

Eye” to “Drag Race.” Sometimes when<br />

stage opportunities like this come<br />

along, they are so out of your normal<br />

wheelhouse, you say, “That can be<br />

really fun.” It’s also a bit terrifying, but<br />

this sounded like something too fun<br />

not to do. I’ve always wanted to do<br />

a standup show, but I didn’t want to<br />

do it alone. So doing the show with<br />

Kristine, adding classics to comedy in a<br />

cabaret setting, seems like the perfect<br />

combination.<br />

Joe’s Pub is a cool, intimate venue.<br />

What are you looking forward to<br />

most about the show? What do you<br />

think the audience will most react to<br />

and love?<br />

Carson: Well, everyone reacts to<br />

Kristine’s music, because it’s just been<br />

part of our lives for so long, and she is<br />

such a talent.<br />

Kristine: Aww, you are such a<br />

sweetheart, Carson. I think it’s nice for<br />

people to hear songs that they’ve been<br />

dancing to at tea dances and big circuit<br />

parties. I think the thing that has drawn<br />

people to my music for years is that I<br />

always try to have a message in there.<br />

I try to make it a song that can be<br />

applied to people and situations. Fans<br />

can take the messages and call it their<br />

own. I’ve always thought that music<br />

was such good medicine for people.<br />

“Straight Up With a Twist” is going<br />

to be a really fun time for everyone.<br />

The audience can sing along, they<br />

can reminisce. I’m looking forward to<br />

asking people, “Hey, what were you<br />

doing when ‘Feel What You Want’<br />

came out?”.<br />

Carson: I was always doing something,<br />

but I can’t remember.


PHOTO CREDIT VH1 NETWORKS<br />

Something, or someone?<br />

Carson: Both. I’ve been putting my<br />

Pandora on auto loop for the last three<br />

days in Miami trying to get inspired<br />

for our show. There are so many great<br />

songs, and I’m constantly reflecting: “I<br />

remember where I was when this came<br />

out, and I remember this.” So that’s<br />

fun to reminisce! I think that people<br />

love the nostalgia, but also hearing the<br />

songs in a totally new way, unplugged<br />

and acoustic. You really get to listen<br />

to the words. When you sit down and<br />

listen, and you’re not in a big party<br />

environment, you realize the songs<br />

are really well written with beautiful<br />

messages. I am excited for people<br />

to see and hear that side of Kristine.<br />

Then, for my part, I’m just excited<br />

because I love to entertain people and<br />

make people feel at home, relaxed,<br />

comfortable and celebrated. Kristine<br />

and I hope to have a really great<br />

time in a world that’s kind of not so<br />

awesome at times. We’ll be in our little<br />

bubble and celebrate each other.<br />

Kristine: It’s definitely something<br />

everybody needs right now. I think it’s<br />

going to be great to come together.<br />

We’re going to have a music and<br />

comedy love fest.<br />

Kristine, the new song has a really<br />

cool message. Can you share that?<br />

Kristine: “Stars” is about going<br />

through difficult times and trying to<br />

find that secret hero in you that makes<br />

you feel empowered. People come in<br />

and out of your life for many different<br />

reasons. There are successes, there are<br />

failures. Emotionally, it’s been a really<br />

difficult year for me. I’ve been going<br />

through a divorce. It’s going to be final<br />

soon, but it’s really cut me to the core.<br />

When you’ve been with somebody<br />

for a long time, you have to find the<br />

superhero inside you to forge on. So<br />

it’s a special song to me, message wise.<br />

It’s about something I’ve been going<br />

through that many others have also<br />

gone through. It’s a pretty heartfelt<br />

song and bittersweet. I’m relishing the<br />

fact that it went to #1, even more so<br />

because the lyrics are so real to me.<br />

You tied with Mariah Carey on the<br />

Billboard charts.<br />

Kristine: Yeah, that’s amazing and such<br />

an honor. I’m still in shock.<br />

Carson, are you going to sing?<br />

Carson: I don’t know. I’d have to pull<br />

a Milli Vanilli and lip sync up there.<br />

You know, I have done a couple of<br />

Broadway musicals, so I might whip<br />

out some of my past singing skills and<br />

do something for the children. Maybe<br />

we will do a duet or something, who<br />

knows? You will have to come to the<br />

show and see.<br />

I’m so there!<br />

Kristine: There are going to be a lot of<br />

surprises in person.<br />

It sounds like you guys are going to<br />

have a blast.<br />

Carson: I think so. I think we’re both<br />

old enough to know the importance<br />

of making it fun and working with nice<br />

people, and I think we’re both looking<br />

forward to that.


Carson, how is “Drag Race”<br />

going for you?<br />

Carson: It’s a really fun job,<br />

and I’m so blessed to be part<br />

of it. New York Times magazine<br />

recently called it the most radical<br />

show on TV. I’m always surprised<br />

by that. We’re not trying to push<br />

an agenda, but somehow the<br />

show opens people’s minds—I<br />

think because it showcases<br />

people trying to be the best<br />

at what they do. At the end of<br />

the day, everybody does drag.<br />

Everybody puts on their work<br />

games and their battle gear and<br />

goes out into the world. “Drag<br />

Race” shows that we are all a lot<br />

more alike than we are different.<br />

Kristine: I agree, very well said.<br />

Carson: It’s made many young<br />

people socially aware, and there<br />

are many fans of the show from<br />

all different walks of life.<br />

If either one of you could<br />

tell your fans or followers<br />

anything, what would you say<br />

to them?<br />

Carson: Step away from those<br />

pleated khakis. They are the<br />

devil’s playground.<br />

PHOTO BY KORBY BANNER<br />

Kristine: That’s a good one, Carson! I’d<br />

say, thanks for the love. We’ve both got<br />

a fun family of fans, and I’m so looking<br />

forward to bringing them together.<br />

Seriously, I think it’s going to be one big<br />

love fest. Everyone’s going to leave with<br />

happy hearts. It couldn’t come at a better<br />

time for that, right?<br />

Carson Kressley and Kristine W<br />

star in “Stand-Up With a Twist” at<br />

Joe’s Pub on Friday, March 16.<br />

Tickets are $35 at<br />

www.publictheater.org<br />

PHOTO BY KORBY BANNER<br />

Facebook:<br />

@carsonkressley<br />

@kristinew


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stories GET OUT! MAGAZINE >> GETOUTMAG.COM<br />

It’s 3 a.m., and I can’t<br />

sleep. So I write.<br />

Last night, I was late<br />

meeting my boyfriend. I’m<br />

usually late, but this was<br />

important.<br />

I rushed down 9th Avenue<br />

to Barrage. There he was,<br />

sitting in the corner booth,<br />

exactly where I would have<br />

picked. He knows me well.<br />

I haven’t written about<br />

him much. I don’t know<br />

that I will. I haven’t written<br />

about how we met, or<br />

when I asked him to be<br />

my boyfriend, or our<br />

one-year anniversary.<br />

It’s hard to write about<br />

things when you’re in it:<br />

I find my writing is better<br />

in retrospect. When<br />

something is over, I know<br />

the entire plot of the story,<br />

start to finish, and only<br />

then can I begin to write it.<br />

So here we are. Me and<br />

my boyfriend. Neither of<br />

us can look at each other,<br />

because we know: It’s<br />

over. When we finally start<br />

talking, we do so for two<br />

hours. What we’re feeling.<br />

Where we went wrong.<br />

It’s hard not to feel like<br />

you’ve failed. Another<br />

relationship, another<br />

two years dedicated to<br />

something that no longer<br />

exists. We tried - both of<br />

us, I think. We tried so<br />

hard.<br />

I wonder if it’s me. I<br />

wonder, if giving all of<br />

myself isn’t enough, will<br />

anything ever be?<br />

I wonder why love isn’t<br />

enough?<br />

I got through most of<br />

our conversation without<br />

getting emotional, mostly<br />

because nothing we talked<br />

about was new. I knew he<br />

wasn’t invested anymore. I<br />

knew he didn’t love me. It<br />

wasn’t until the end, when<br />

he asked if I’d ever tried<br />

to intentionally push him<br />

away. “No,” I said quickly.<br />

“Did it feel like I had?”<br />

“Near the end. You started<br />

talking about marriage a<br />

lot, like you knew it made<br />

me uncomfortable.”<br />

That’s when I choked<br />

up. “No,” I managed to<br />

say, shaking my head.<br />

I couldn’t look at him; I<br />

slumped in the booth,<br />

staring at the ceiling,<br />

the disco ball’s reflection<br />

changing color every<br />

two seconds. “That’s<br />

just me. That’s just want<br />

I want. That’s just who I<br />

am.” A disco version of<br />

“We Could Have Had<br />

It All” played in the<br />

background—I’m not even<br />

kidding.<br />

When he left, I went<br />

to pay my tab, and the<br />

bartender told me that<br />

my boyfriend - my exboyfriend<br />

- covered all of<br />

my drinks. “Hey - aren’t<br />

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vitamins, and herbal supplements. TRUVADA may<br />

interact with other medicines. Keep a list of all<br />

your medicines and show it to your healthcare<br />

provider and pharmacist when you get a new<br />

medicine.<br />

® If you take certain other medicines with<br />

TRUVADA, your healthcare provider may need to<br />

check you more often or change your dose. These<br />

medicines include certain medicines to treat<br />

hepatitis C (HCV) infection.<br />

You are encouraged to report negative side<br />

effects of prescription drugs to the FDA.<br />

Visit www.FDA.gov/medwatch,<br />

or call 1-800-FDA-1088.<br />

Learn more at truvada.com


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IMPORTANT FACTS<br />

This is only a brief summary of important information<br />

about taking TRUVADA for PrEP TM (pre-exposure<br />

prophylaxis) to help reduce the risk of getting HIV-1<br />

infection. This does not replace talking to your<br />

healthcare provider about your medicine.<br />

MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT TRUVADA FOR PrEP<br />

Before starting TRUVADA for PrEP:<br />

• You must be HIV-1 negative. You must get<br />

tested to make sure that you do not already<br />

have HIV-1. Do not take TRUVADA for PrEP to<br />

reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 unless you are<br />

confi rmed to be HIV-1 negative.<br />

• Many HIV-1 tests can miss HIV-1 infection in<br />

a person who has recently become infected.<br />

Symptoms of new HIV-1 infection include fl u-like<br />

symptoms, tiredness, fever, joint or muscle aches,<br />

headache, sore throat, vomiting, diarrhea, rash,<br />

night sweats, and/or enlarged lymph nodes in the<br />

neck or groin. Tell your healthcare provider if you<br />

have had a fl u-like illness within the last month<br />

before starting TRUVADA for PrEP.<br />

While taking TRUVADA for PrEP:<br />

• You must continue to use safer sex practices.<br />

Just taking TRUVADA for PrEP may not keep<br />

you from getting HIV-1.<br />

• You must stay HIV-negative to keep taking<br />

TRUVADA for PrEP. <strong>Get</strong> tested for HIV-1 at least<br />

every 3 months while taking TRUVADA for PrEP.<br />

Tell your healthcare provider right away if you<br />

think you were exposed to HIV-1 or have a fl u-like<br />

illness while taking TRUVADA for PrEP.<br />

• If you do become HIV-1 positive, you need<br />

more medicine than TRUVADA alone to treat<br />

HIV-1. If you have HIV-1 and take only TRUVADA,<br />

your HIV-1 may become harder to treat over time.<br />

• See the “How to Further Reduce Your Risk”<br />

section for more information.<br />

w<br />

TRUVADA may cause serious side effects,<br />

including:<br />

• Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection.<br />

TRUVADA is not approved to treat HBV. If you<br />

have HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if<br />

you stop taking TRUVADA. Do not stop taking<br />

TRUVADA without fi rst talking to your healthcare<br />

provider, as they will need to check your health<br />

regularly for several months.<br />

ABOUT TRUVADA FOR PrEP<br />

TRUVADA for PrEP is a prescription medicine<br />

used together with safer sex practices to help<br />

reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 through sex. This<br />

use is only for HIV-negative adults who are at<br />

high risk of getting HIV-1.<br />

• To help determine your risk of getting HIV-1, talk<br />

openly with your healthcare provider about your<br />

sexual health.<br />

Do NOT take TRUVADA for PrEP if you:<br />

• Already have HIV-1 infection or if you do not<br />

know your HIV-1 status.<br />

• Take certain medicines to treat hepatitis B<br />

infection.<br />

HOW TO TAKE TRUVADA FOR PrEP<br />

• Take 1 tablet once a day, every day, not just<br />

when you think you have been exposed to HIV-1.<br />

• Do not miss any doses. Missing doses may<br />

increase your risk of getting HIV-1 infection.<br />

• Use TRUVADA for PrEP together with condoms<br />

and safer sex practices.<br />

• <strong>Get</strong> tested for HIV-1 at least every 3 months. You<br />

must stay HIV-negative to keep taking TRUVADA<br />

for PrEP.


POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF TRUVADA FOR PrEP<br />

TRUVADA can cause serious side effects,<br />

including:<br />

• Those in the “Most Important Information<br />

About TRUVADA for PrEP" section.<br />

• New or worse kidney problems, including<br />

kidney failure.<br />

• Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic<br />

acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical<br />

emergency that can lead to death. Tell your<br />

healthcare provider right away if you get these<br />

symptoms: weakness or being more tired than<br />

usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of<br />

breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with<br />

nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and<br />

feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or<br />

abnormal heartbeat.<br />

• Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can<br />

lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider<br />

right away if you get these symptoms: skin or<br />

the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark<br />

“tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of<br />

appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or<br />

stomach-area pain.<br />

• Bone problems.<br />

Common side effects in people taking TRUVADA<br />

for PrEP include stomach-area (abdomen) pain,<br />

headache, and decreased weight.<br />

These are not all the possible side effects of<br />

TRUVADA. Tell your healthcare provider right<br />

away if you have any new symptoms while taking<br />

TRUVADA for PrEP.<br />

Your healthcare provider will need to do tests<br />

to monitor your health before and during<br />

treatment with TRUVADA for PrEP.<br />

BEFORE TAKING TRUVADA FOR PrEP<br />

Tell your healthcare provider if you:<br />

• Have or have had any kidney, bone, or liver<br />

problems, including hepatitis.<br />

• Have any other medical conditions.<br />

• Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant.<br />

• Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed.<br />

Do not breastfeed. If you become HIV-positive,<br />

HIV can pass to the baby in breast milk.<br />

Tell your healthcare provider about all the<br />

medicines you take:<br />

• Keep a list that includes all prescription and<br />

over-the-counter medicines, vitamins, and<br />

herbal supplements, and show it to your<br />

healthcare provider and pharmacist.<br />

• Ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist<br />

about medicines that should not be taken with<br />

TRUVADA for PrEP.<br />

HOW TO FURTHER REDUCE YOUR RISK<br />

• Know your HIV status and the HIV status<br />

of your partners.<br />

• <strong>Get</strong> tested for other sexually transmitted<br />

infections. Other infections make it easier for<br />

HIV to infect you.<br />

• <strong>Get</strong> information and support to help reduce<br />

risky sexual behavior, such as having fewer sex<br />

partners.<br />

• Do not share needles or personal items that can<br />

have blood or body fl uids on them.<br />

GET MORE INFORMATION<br />

• This is only a brief summary of important<br />

information about TRUVADA for PrEP. Talk to your<br />

healthcare provider or pharmacist to learn more,<br />

including how to prevent HIV infection.<br />

• Go to start.truvada.com or call 1-800-GILEAD-5<br />

• If you need help paying for your medicine, visit<br />

start.truvada.com for program information.<br />

TRUVADA FOR PREP, the TRUVADA FOR PREP Logo, the TRUVADA Blue Pill Design, TRUVADA,<br />

GILEAD, and the GILEAD Logo are trademarks of Gilead Sciences, Inc., or its related companies.<br />

All other marks referenced herein are the property of their respective owners.<br />

Version date: April 2017<br />

© 2017 Gilead Sciences, Inc. All rights reserved. TVDC0136 08/17


BY EILEEN SHAPIRO<br />

CELEBRITY CORRESPONDENT<br />

President Mark Costanzo:<br />

NIGHT OF A THOUSAND GOWNS<br />

On April 7, The Imperial<br />

Court of New York’s Night<br />

of a Thousand Gowns will<br />

take place, and it promises<br />

to be a night to remember.<br />

The night is a glamorous<br />

and opulent event laced<br />

with celebrities and<br />

royalty, all in the name of<br />

charity.<br />

I shared questions with<br />

Mark Costanzo, president<br />

of The Imperial Court<br />

of New York, about the<br />

extravaganza, what can be<br />

expected and some useful<br />

information about how to<br />

attend.<br />

I always like to begin by asking<br />

where, when and what charity was<br />

selected this year for Night of a<br />

Thousand Gowns.<br />

This year Night of a Thousand Gowns will take<br />

place on April 7, <strong>2018</strong>, at the Marriott Marquis<br />

in the heart of New York City. Our beneficiary<br />

this year is God’s Love We Deliver.<br />

Who will be present, aside from<br />

the fabulous Imperial Court of New<br />

York?<br />

This year we will be giving our Diamond<br />

Award to Cleve Jones and our Gina<br />

Quattrochi Award to David Bruinooge for<br />

all of their hard work and dedication to the<br />

LGBT community. We also have two great<br />

performers this year, Beth Sacks and Dawn<br />

Tallman, who will both bring down the house.<br />

Is there anything new and<br />

unexpected for this year’s<br />

extravaganza?<br />

Every year something is new and unexpected.<br />

This year our theme is Carnival, with wild<br />

decor and colors.<br />

What does the event mean to you<br />

personally?<br />

This event means a lot, not only to me but to<br />

every member of the Imperial Court of New<br />

York. We work so hard every year to make<br />

this event more spectacular than the year<br />

before. We are an all-volunteer organization,<br />

and we put our heart and soul in this<br />

production.


What are you most looking<br />

forward to?<br />

To a wonderful evening of fun and to raise a<br />

lot of money for God’s Love We Deliver.<br />

What are the steps one would<br />

take to become involved with the<br />

ICNY?<br />

To get involved with our organization you<br />

can attend our monthly meeting, which<br />

meets on the first Wednesday of each<br />

month at 7:30 p.m. at the LGBT Center. Our<br />

meetings are open to the public. If you join<br />

with us, you start off as a lord or a lady, and<br />

the more that you get involved and the more<br />

you do to help raise money, you climb up the<br />

ladder to get elevated to the next level. The<br />

highest level you can achieve is to become an<br />

emperor or empress.<br />

What are some of the charities<br />

ICNY supports throughout the<br />

year?<br />

God’s Love We Deliver, Bailey House,<br />

GMHC, PFLAG, Ali Forney, amFAR, Callen<br />

Lorde, Matthew Shepard Foundation, The<br />

Center—there are so many others that we<br />

have helped raise much-needed funds for.<br />

How many guests are you<br />

expecting this year?<br />

We are expecting 800 to 900 guests this<br />

year.<br />

Who is that handsome man<br />

standing next to you in the photo<br />

of your interview? How long have<br />

you both been involved with ICNY?<br />

This handsome man standing next to me<br />

is the love of my life, James. We have been<br />

together for 36 wonderful and amazing years.<br />

We both joined this wonderful organization<br />

in 1999 and are both active members.<br />

How did you get started, and what<br />

was your motivation in becoming<br />

involved?<br />

I joined the Imperial Court of New York in<br />

September of 1999. I was so intrigued by<br />

what was happening that I wanted to be a<br />

part of this group. So I joined, and started off<br />

as a lord and worked my way up to become<br />

Emperor XV Fantasia. I have served on the<br />

board for the past 15 years, and now I am<br />

the current president of this organization.<br />

I could not have done what I have done<br />

for the past year and a half without our<br />

wonderful board officers and board<br />

members at large and our membership.<br />

Together we have done a lot of wonderful<br />

and amazing things. We are in full force now<br />

with our outreach program, Hearts & Voices.<br />

This is where we go to AIDS/HIV facilities<br />

and entertain those who are battling with<br />

AIDS/HIV and put a huge smile on their<br />

faces. We like to be known that we put the<br />

fun in fundraising.<br />

PHOTO BY WILSONMODELS


BY MYLO WHALEN<br />

As fashion and fetish-wear<br />

continue to become increasingly<br />

intertwined, designers are striving<br />

to incorporate the latter’s seedy<br />

aesthetic into their collections.<br />

The latest to combine ready-towear<br />

design sensibilities with kinkwear<br />

is Addicted, the Barcelonabased<br />

menswear designer.<br />

This Valentine’s Day, they are<br />

unveiling AD Fetish, their new<br />

steamy line of designer harnesses,<br />

singlets, jocks and boxers.<br />

The collection draws inspiration<br />

from the gay bathhouse<br />

scene, yet everything is finely<br />

and meticulously crafted by<br />

Addicted’s superior artisan team.<br />

“When you go into a sex store,<br />

and you see fetish clothes, the<br />

first thing you notice is they’re not<br />

very wearable,” says Addicted<br />

founder Eduardo Suner. “I wanted<br />

to blend fetish and fashion<br />

together, to make accessories<br />

and clothing that looked fetish-y<br />

but were more wearable and<br />

stylized.”<br />

Designer Carmen Monforte says<br />

her team has had fun redefining<br />

the Addicted collection for the<br />

after-hours set. “The AD Fetish<br />

collection allows us to go beyond<br />

the cotton, lycra and mesh in<br />

our sports collections. We’re<br />

able to incorporate exciting new<br />

materials like rubber, leather<br />

and transparencies into our<br />

creations.”<br />

She says the collection’s purpose<br />

goes beyond sex and seduction:<br />

It’s about embracing the male<br />

body in a way that complements<br />

every body size. “Similar to<br />

Addicted, AD Fetish garments are<br />

sewn and tailored to fit perfectly<br />

on all body shapes.”<br />

Feasting on Fetish<br />

Nir Zilberman, the U.S. sales representative for the brand, adds,<br />

“The collection breaks the barrier that is there when guys buy<br />

clothes. The one that says, ‘My stomach’s too big to wear this,’<br />

or ‘My legs are too skinny to wear that.’ We’re giving guys a new<br />

confidence, inspiring them to be secure in who they are, their<br />

bodies, and to not let anyone interfere with that.”<br />

On the retail end, Zilberman says the response has been<br />

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the globe Instagramming themselves in their favorite looks. The<br />

harnesses, in particular, have been fan favorites.<br />

Suner is encouraged by the initial success and says he plans to<br />

use it as a springboard to take the line even further. “I want to<br />

take the collection beyond the niche. I want to reach guys who<br />

wouldn’t normally wear fetish gear. I want them to see kink wear as<br />

empowering.”<br />

With demand for fetish-inspired looks at an all-time high, Addicted<br />

stands to tap into a huge market with AD Fetish - one where<br />

collars, body chains and, of course, those sexy leather harnesses<br />

all become must-have accessories in the closets of every man,<br />

beginning this Valentine’s Day and beyond. Says Suner, “I see the<br />

AD Fetish guy as someone who will walk out the door and boldly<br />

proclaim, ‘Hey, this is me, and I don’t give a f*ck what anyone else<br />

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