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34 | May 3, 2018 | The Northbrook tower faith<br />
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chemistry, maneuvering<br />
through the different<br />
channels of the brain that<br />
are active when children<br />
are engaging with content<br />
on a screen.<br />
One of Dreiske’s main<br />
methodologies involves<br />
giving parents homework<br />
for their kids to ask them<br />
questions about what<br />
they liked and what they<br />
didn’t like upon a screen<br />
interaction. From her perspective,<br />
the exercise is<br />
as simple to do as work<br />
through a picture book<br />
but now creates a parent/<br />
children sphere around<br />
screens.<br />
“When you think about<br />
it, nobody motormouths<br />
through a kid’s book;<br />
you’re constantly interacting<br />
with the book. You’re<br />
cuddling, you’re talking<br />
about something that happened<br />
that day at school<br />
or at the park, and you’re<br />
relating what’s happening<br />
in the story with the book<br />
to things in the child’s<br />
life. It’s highly interactive,”<br />
she said.<br />
Essentially, Dreiske<br />
said, what parents have<br />
is the ability to connect<br />
with their children on core<br />
family and societal values<br />
before their children get<br />
to their screens. Additionally,<br />
she said parents’ relationships<br />
with their childrens’<br />
screens should be<br />
more than just selection,<br />
supervision and censorship.<br />
“We can change that<br />
very simply by No. 1, letting<br />
them know we care<br />
about how they’re responding;<br />
No. 2, giving<br />
them a job, something to<br />
watch for, something that<br />
makes them accountable<br />
for what they’re watching;<br />
and No. 3, making<br />
sure that they’re ideas<br />
are paid attention to from<br />
adults,” she said.<br />
From panel discussions,<br />
conference presentations<br />
with physicians<br />
and children’s workshops,<br />
Dreiske said the reception<br />
to her methods have been<br />
overwhelmingly positive.<br />
“Parents respond in extraordinary<br />
ways when<br />
they see the interest and<br />
the intelligence that their<br />
children demonstrate<br />
in relation to engaging<br />
screens,” she said. “When<br />
you’re interacting with<br />
children, let them own the<br />
answers.”<br />
To promote her new book,<br />
Dreiske will be at the Northbrook<br />
Public Library on<br />
May 24 from 6:30-8:30 p.m.<br />
Faith Briefs<br />
Congregation Beth Shalom (3433<br />
Walters Ave.)<br />
Shabba-Teen Shabbat<br />
Experience<br />
Join if you are in ninth-<br />
12th grade for the Shabba-<br />
Teen Shabbat Experience<br />
on May 5, 2018, 10:30<br />
a.m.-noon. Hang out in the<br />
Youth Lounge and discuss<br />
topics that are relevant<br />
with Rabbi Ari Averbach<br />
and Matt Rissien, Director<br />
of Youth Activities. Topic<br />
on May 5th: #AskTheRabbi.<br />
HAZAK<br />
Join for HAZAK (programming<br />
for adults over<br />
age 55) Dine and Discuss,<br />
featuring Rabbi Carl and<br />
Judy Wolkin: “A Jewish<br />
Year in Our Lives From<br />
– CBS, Northbrook, IL,<br />
USA To Sams, St. Albans,<br />
Herts., UK.” on May 30<br />
from 6:30-8:15 p.m., $15<br />
CBS members, $20 nonmembers,<br />
light dinner included.<br />
RSVP by May 24<br />
to Bernie (847) 498-4100<br />
x46 or email BBalbot@<br />
BethShalomNB.org.<br />
Northbrook Community Synagogue<br />
(2548 Jasper Court)<br />
Morning Minyan<br />
Join morning minyan<br />
followed by breakfast on<br />
weekdays at 7:15 a.m.<br />
and on Sundays and holidays<br />
at 9 a.m. For information,<br />
call (847) 509-<br />
9204.<br />
NCS Lag B’Omer Bonfire<br />
Join us for the annual<br />
Lag B’omer Bonfire on<br />
May 3 at 6 p.m. This funfilled<br />
event includes fun<br />
activities for kids, smores<br />
and music. Everyone is<br />
welcome. For more information<br />
visit our website<br />
at www.ncshul.org or call<br />
(847) 509-9204.<br />
St. Giles Episcopal Church (3025<br />
Walters Ave.)<br />
Grace Space<br />
This is an informal and<br />
shorter worship service<br />
geared to those with young<br />
children, but open to all,<br />
at 8:30 a.m.; or worship in<br />
a more traditional, formal<br />
setting at 10:15 a.m. A free<br />
breakfast is served the second<br />
Sunday of each month<br />
from 9-10:30 a.m. For<br />
more information, visit<br />
www.saint-giles.org.<br />
Choir<br />
Join us for choir practice<br />
every Thursday evening<br />
at 7:30 p.m. For more information,<br />
contact Jim<br />
Brown, director of music,<br />
(847) 272-6622.<br />
Men’s Night Out<br />
St. Giles men and their<br />
male friends and family<br />
are welcome to gather at<br />
Grandpa’s in Glenview,<br />
across from the downtown<br />
train station, at 7<br />
p.m. on the second Tuesday<br />
of the month. For<br />
more information, call<br />
(847) 272-6622.<br />
Islamic Cultural Center of Greater<br />
Chicago (1810 Pfingsten Road)<br />
Juma’ah Prayer<br />
This prayer includes a<br />
khutba (sermon) by Imam,<br />
followed by the prayer<br />
from 1-2 p.m. on Fridays.<br />
For more information, call<br />
(847) 272-0319.<br />
Sunday Talk<br />
Every Sunday the Islamic<br />
Cultural Center will<br />
hold a discussion at 12:30-<br />
1 p.m. For more information,<br />
call (847) 272-0319<br />
or visit www.icc-greaterchicago.com.<br />
Young Israel of Northbrook (3545<br />
Walters Ave.)<br />
Weekly Monday Night<br />
Torah Study<br />
Study Torah with<br />
Rabbi Herschel Berger,<br />
spiritual leader of Young<br />
Israel of Northbrook,<br />
at 7 p.m. on Mondays.<br />
Discussions will correlate<br />
the study topic to modern<br />
daily life. No charge.<br />
For more information,<br />
contact Rabbi Berger<br />
at (847) 205-1910 or<br />
hbglobemet@aol.com.<br />
Casual Morning Minyan<br />
On Saturdays at 9:30<br />
a.m., join for a Shabbat,<br />
lay-led, participatory service<br />
held in the mishkan.<br />
The one-hour service is informal<br />
and open to young<br />
and old alike. After worship,<br />
many participants<br />
remain for a lively discussion<br />
about the Torah portion<br />
over a bagel and coffee.<br />
Lubavitch Chabad of Northbrook (2095<br />
Landwehr Road)<br />
Tuesday Women to Women<br />
Class<br />
Weekly women’s class<br />
hosted by Chaya Epstein at<br />
2:15 p.m. Women to Women<br />
is a Jewish women’s organization<br />
run by women<br />
for women. For more information,<br />
call (847) 564-<br />
8770.<br />
Gloria Dei Lutheran Church (1133<br />
Pfingsten)<br />
“The American Protestant<br />
Experience”<br />
Starting mid-<br />
January:“The American<br />
Protestant Experience,” a<br />
10-week series. For more<br />
information, call (847) 272-<br />
0400 or email jane@gloriadeinorthbrook.org<br />
to RSVP.<br />
Submit information for<br />
The Tower’s Faith page to<br />
m.dwojak@22ndcentury<br />
media.com. Deadline is noon<br />
on Thursday.<br />
In Memoriam<br />
Margaret Coombe<br />
Margaret “Peg”<br />
Coombe, 92, of Northbrook,<br />
died April 20.<br />
She was the beloved<br />
wife of Jack Coombe. She<br />
will be greatly missed by<br />
all who knew her.<br />
Julia Dula Van Patten Fuller<br />
Julia Dula Van Patten<br />
Fuller, 83, died March 29.<br />
She was born Julia Dula<br />
Van Patten on Dec. 8,<br />
1934, in Norfolk, Va. She<br />
was the daughter of the<br />
late Isaac Toll Van Patten<br />
Jr. and Carolyn Lucelia<br />
McClain Van Patten of<br />
Norfolk and sister to Isaac<br />
Toll Van Patten, III, Gabriella<br />
Van Patten McDowell,<br />
Margaret Van Patten Colwell,<br />
Lucelia Van Patten<br />
White and Dinah Van Patten,<br />
she was the last of her<br />
generation to pass.<br />
She married the love of<br />
her life, Mark A. Fuller Jr.,<br />
of Cincinnati in 1956 and<br />
was happily married for<br />
53 years until he passed<br />
in 2009. She is survived<br />
by three adult children,<br />
Mark A. Fuller III (Cynthia)<br />
of Winnetka, Ellen<br />
Fuller Ashcraft (James)<br />
of Cincinnati and Mallory<br />
McKnight Fuller (Anja) of<br />
Ashville, North Carolina,<br />
10 grandchildren and six<br />
great grandchildren.<br />
Dula will be remembered<br />
for her love of family,<br />
dogs and gardening.<br />
She was an active homemaker<br />
and most involved<br />
with garden clubs in Cincinnati,<br />
New Canaan, CT,<br />
Asheville, NC and West<br />
Palm Beach, FL.<br />
In lieu of flowers, the<br />
family suggests a donation<br />
to the Alzheimer’s<br />
Society at www.alz.org.<br />
John E. Halversen<br />
John E. Halversen,<br />
90, of Northbrook, died<br />
Wednesday, April 11.<br />
Gerald H. Newmark<br />
Gerald H. Newmark<br />
(Jerry), 87, of Northbrook,<br />
died April 17 in<br />
Scottsdale, Ariz.<br />
He was the founder and<br />
owner of MJ Vending;<br />
beloved husband for 58<br />
years of Donna Rae, nee<br />
Carlin; loving father of<br />
Esther (Lorenzo) Orlando,<br />
Judy (Brian) Brenner<br />
and Michael Newmark;<br />
adored grandfather of Rachel,<br />
Jordan and Alyssa<br />
Handmaker, Jacob, Shifra,<br />
Shoshana and Shayna<br />
Brenner, Nathan, Natalie,<br />
Ben and Maya Newmark;<br />
cherished brother of David<br />
(Sandy) Newmark;<br />
dear brother-in-law of<br />
Dennis Carlin.<br />
In lieu of flowers, donations<br />
can be made to<br />
www.infokomen.org/<br />
site/PageNavigator/HQ_<br />
PP11_homepage.html.<br />
Have someone’s life you’d<br />
like to honor? Email<br />
m.dwojak@22ndcentury<br />
media.com with information<br />
of a loved one who was part<br />
of the NB community.