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7<br />
JADE EGG<br />
SECRETS<br />
for more pleasure &<br />
deeper orgasms<br />
LEARN THE SECRETS OF THE SEXUAL<br />
PRACTICE THAT WILL UNLOCK DEEP<br />
VAGINAL PLEASURE AND ORGASMS!<br />
By <strong>Amber</strong> <strong>Leitz</strong>
<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> 101 .............................................................. 6<br />
All of this is possible through cultivating a regular jade egg practice…and so much MORE.<br />
...........................................................................................................................................6<br />
Benefits of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> ............................................. 9<br />
Why use a jade egg? ............................................................................................................. 9<br />
My Story With the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice .................................................................................. 11<br />
The jade egg helps you awaken the erotic power within you. ....................................... 14<br />
The ‘Tight Pussy’ Epidemic .................................................................................................. 15<br />
Set Your Intention — Why Do YOU Want to Begin a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice? ........................ 18<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Basics ........................................................ 19<br />
All you need to know before you begin ............................................................................... 19<br />
JADE EGG SECRET #1 .......................................... 24<br />
Your Breath is Key to Accessing ......................................................................................... 24<br />
Your Sexual Energy ............................................................................................................. 24<br />
Using Your Sexual Energy ....................................... 25<br />
Simple rituals to harness & store your sexual energy ....................................................... 25<br />
SEXUAL POWER CENTER ............................................................................................ 25<br />
WATERFALL & GLOBE OF LIGHT ............................................................................... 25<br />
JADE EGG SECRET #2 .......................................... 28<br />
Your Pelvic Floor is Like a Trampoline for Your Pleasure & Sexual Energy ................... 28<br />
JADE EGG SECRET #3 .......................................... 30<br />
Your Vagina is Articulate & Orgasmic! .............................................................................. 30<br />
JADE EGG SECRET #4 .......................................... 32<br />
Sexual Energy is Arousal on a Primal Level! ..................................................................... 32<br />
JADE EGG SECRET #5 .......................................... 35<br />
Sexual Energy is Creative Energy! ..................................................................................... 35<br />
Going Deeper with Your .......................................... 37<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice .................................................... 37
The power of your jade egg, womb & pussy ....................................................................... 37<br />
JADE EGG SECRET #6 .......................................... 41<br />
Orgasm is a state of being! .................................................................................................. 41<br />
JADE EGG SECRET #7 .......................................... 44<br />
Your Whole Body is Orgasmic! ........................................................................................... 44<br />
Warm-up Rituals ..................................................... 45<br />
Pleasurable, sensual rituals to open your body for jade egg use ...................................... 45<br />
SECRET SEXY SQUEEZE .............................................................................................. 45<br />
MICROCOSMIC ORBIT ................................................................................................. 46<br />
SENSUAL OR EROTIC DANCE ..................................................................................... 48<br />
HEART-OPENING BREAST MASSAGE ....................................................................... 48<br />
WOMB MASSAGE .......................................................................................................... 50<br />
SELF-PLEASURE OR SELF-PUSSY MASSAGE ........................................................... 50<br />
Basic <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Exercises ......................................... 53<br />
Inserting & using the jade egg internally ........................................................................... 53<br />
EXERCISE 2: PELVIC LIFTS ......................................................................................... 56<br />
EXERCISE 3: FOOT ROTATIONS ................................................................................. 57<br />
WEARING THE EGG AROUND ................................................................................... 58<br />
Removing the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> ............................................ 59<br />
Masculine vs Feminine Removal Techniques ..................................................................... 59<br />
FEMININE TECHNIQUE (BIRTHING)........................................................................<br />
60<br />
MASCULINE TECHNIQUE (STRING) .......................................................................... 61<br />
FAQ’s ....................................................................... 62<br />
The answers to your jade egg questions ............................................................................. 62<br />
About the Author ...................................................... 69<br />
Get to know <strong>Amber</strong> <strong>Leitz</strong> & how to receive deeper support from her ............................... 69
Welcome to 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong>, Lover!<br />
Welcome to the beginning of a life-changing journey and orgasmic experience that<br />
is going to transform you on a mind-body-heart-soul level. I’m honored to be here<br />
as an erotic guide and teacher for you as you navigate the sexual practice of using a<br />
jade egg and mastering sexual energy as a woman.<br />
This is such a courageous path you’ve chosen and I’m delighted to know that yet<br />
another woman is harnessing the power of her sexual energy, sensuality and<br />
pleasure to find deeper satisfaction and fulfillment in her body and life sensually,<br />
emotionally, sexually and spiritually.<br />
I’m excited to share not only information on how to start your jade egg practice,<br />
but 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for more pleasure and deeper orgasms! <br />
GET READY TO SAY YES TO:<br />
‣ Deeper vaginal pleasure!<br />
‣ More fulfilling sex (whether solo or partnered)!<br />
‣ An array of deeply satisfying orgasms!<br />
‣ Falling madly in love with your sexual self!<br />
IN THIS EBOOK YOU’LL LEARN:<br />
‣ Taoist breathing exercises to access & move your sexual energy for whole body<br />
orgasms!<br />
‣ How to use your jade egg to create an orgasmic body & life!<br />
‣ How to expand your orgasmic potential through the jade egg practice!<br />
‣ How to create a strong yet toned, supple & open vagina & pelvic floor!
‣ How to replace vaginal numbness & dryness with sensation, pleasure &<br />
overflowing lubrication!<br />
‣ How to heal from stress or bladder incontinence & experience deep vaginal<br />
orgasms!<br />
‣ The ancient sexual secrets I use to experience whole body orgasms, deeper<br />
vaginal pleasure & increased arousal!<br />
Getting Started:<br />
What to expect from this ebook<br />
I recommend reading this entire ebook in its entirety so that you know all of the<br />
basics, how to take your jade egg practice deeper and how to use and store your<br />
sexual energy. All of these are essentials to having a jade egg practice that keeps<br />
you coming back for more (pun totally intended) and allows you to expand your<br />
orgasmic potential and fully circulate your sexual energy.<br />
I have 7 SECRETS that I’ll be sharing with you throughout this ebook that will allow<br />
you to become an orgasmic woman. In fact, a highly, multi AND whole-body<br />
orgasmic woman at that!<br />
Here’s what you’ll need in order to get the most of out of this ebook and your jade<br />
egg practice:<br />
‣ You’ll need this ebook<br />
‣ A high-quality jade egg (more on that in the following chapters) I have a jade egg<br />
online course you can join if you want actual step-by-step guidance on HOW to<br />
use the jade egg and sustain your practice. You can check it out here.<br />
‣ Sacred space devoted to your practice (a sensual, erotic sanctuary that turns you<br />
on and makes you feel safe) and privacy for your sexual practices.<br />
‣ Any other items you may need will be sprinkled throughout the rest of the ebook.<br />
Enjoy the 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for More Pleasure & Deeper Orgasms!
<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> 101<br />
‣ Perhaps you’ve stumbled across this ebook because you’re intrigued by the jade<br />
egg practice and the sexual mastery arts of ancient rituals used to reach spiritual<br />
enlightenment and fulfillment in the body, heart and soul.<br />
‣ Or maybe you’ve experienced bladder incontinence, vaginal numbness, dryness or<br />
a weak pelvic floor and you just want to start a practice to cultivate a strong, but<br />
supple, vagina and pelvis.<br />
‣ Or maybe you feel unsatisfied in your current sex life, whether solo or in a<br />
relationship, and you want to experience greater intimacy, more pleasure and<br />
deeper orgasms that lead you to states of heightened love and ecstasy beyond<br />
your wildest dreams.<br />
‣ Or maybe you feel as though your libido is low or non-existent and you want to<br />
get your sexual spark and drive back so you can feel juicy, TURNED ON and ALIVE<br />
again.<br />
‣ Or maybe you want to call in the lover of your dreams, magnetize your dream life<br />
into reality or find abundance, prosperity and wealth in your sexuality, money, life<br />
and career.<br />
All of this is possible through cultivating a regular jade egg practice…and so<br />
much MORE.
What Exactly is a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong>? <br />
The jade egg is an egg shaped crystal made of genuine Nephrite jade, which is a<br />
very dense crystal that doesn’t consist of a normal crystalline structure like other<br />
crystals, such as rose or clear quartz. <strong>Jade</strong> is stronger than steel so it’s the top<br />
recommended crystal for vaginal use.<br />
This is a healing tool that you insert into the vagina to internally massage the<br />
vaginal walls, which awakens the neural, pleasure and energy pathways inside of<br />
the tissue. It also helps you heal from sexual shame or trauma since women store<br />
almost all of their trauma or blocks in their sexual regions, especially the vagina.<br />
The jade egg helps you strengthen the pelvic floor muscles which reduces<br />
incontinence and deepens your pleasure and orgasmic potential.
Why Nephrite <strong>Jade</strong>?<br />
History of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> is recommended for the practice for many reasons. One reason being that jade<br />
has been used for thousands of years in ancient China Taoist sexual practices by<br />
concubines who were harnessing their sexual energy (Jing in Taoism) for radiance,<br />
vitality, fulfillment and spiritual evolution.<br />
The concubines would use this energy to help the Chinese emperor become a better<br />
leader and increase his own vitality and power.<br />
The Taoists believe that learning to raise your sexual life-force energy, or chi as<br />
they call it, through your whole body and into the brain can help you not only have<br />
more clarity, greater cognitive function and intuitive insight in your brain, but to<br />
use this sexual energy as spiritual energy for reaching enlightenment or higher<br />
states of consciousness or oneness with the Divine, whatever that means for you<br />
personally.<br />
Genuine, 100% nephrite jade ensures that you are using a real egg comprised of<br />
jade that is certified to be used for the jade egg practice and not one that has been<br />
combined with harsh or unnatural materials or other stones.<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> is a great stone for healing not only sexual shame, trauma, and blocks related<br />
to sexuality, but it’s great for the heart chakra as well (an energy center located in<br />
your heart center), which increases the sex and love connection and healing of<br />
both.<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> also helps you tap deep into your sexual energy, womb, creativity, femininity,<br />
sensuality and raises the vibration of each to enhance, cultivate and harness the<br />
power that exists inside of you as a woman.<br />
This erotic power within you is insatiably delicious as you’ll find once you begin or<br />
deepen your jade egg practice…
Benefits of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />
Why use a jade egg?<br />
The benefits of using a jade egg are vast, unique and powerful! The jade egg is one<br />
of my favorite sacred tools in my sexual toolbox and I recommend the practice to<br />
every woman I connect with, especially the women in my erotic tribe.<br />
I’m going to break the benefits of adopting a regular jade egg practice down into<br />
two categories for you so you can digest the information a little easier. PHYSICAL &<br />
SEXUAL and ENERGETIC, EMOTIONAL & SPIRITUAL. Take a look below to see the<br />
benefits of both categories.<br />
PHYSICAL & SEXUAL BENEFITS<br />
• Strengthened pelvic floor and vaginal muscles<br />
• Increased libido, arousal and vaginal lubrication (You’ll feel more TURNED ON!)<br />
• Deeper, stronger, longer and more fulfilling orgasms (Whole body? Multiple? Both<br />
are possible!)<br />
• Different styles of orgasms (clitoral, g-spot, cervical, energetic—yes there is such<br />
a thing!)<br />
• Awakens the nerve pathways in the vagina for increased pleasure (rewires your<br />
body and pussy for pleasure!)<br />
• Supple, open, soft and receptive vagina that can easily draw the jade egg, a finger<br />
or a cock/dildo in naturally<br />
• Glowing skin and a sense of radiance that appears externally. You may also notice<br />
a more youthful lift in your skin as you are pulling your sexual energy (energy that<br />
enhances vitality) inwards and upwards in your vagina, which creates a natural lift<br />
and simultaneously connects energetically to the tissue in your face and throat<br />
while releasing healthy hormones and stimulating your endocrine glands and<br />
organs
• Decrease or elimination of pain, numbness and/or dryness during sex and/or<br />
self-pleasure<br />
• Increased vitality and boosted energy in your body (You won’t need that extra cup<br />
of coffee in the morning—or maybe any coffee at all!)<br />
• Sexual healing and releasing of shame, guilt, trauma or pain that is lodged in your<br />
vaginal tissues (even if you’ve experienced sexual abuse or assault in the past)<br />
• Better, deeper sleep and waking up invigorated and rejuvenated<br />
ENERGETIC, EMOTIONAL & SPIRITUAL BENEFITS<br />
• Deeper connection between your womb, heart and pussy<br />
• Awakens and circulates your sexual energy through your whole body, which can<br />
be used for healing, manifestation, creation and more<br />
• Spiritual awakening and enlightenment<br />
• Feeling safe and fully at home in your body, pleasure and sexuality<br />
• Deeper levels of embodying WHO you are as a sensual, erotic woman<br />
• Magnetism of your desires, money, opportunities, love etc. to you naturally and<br />
easily<br />
• Increase in desire and passion for your own body and your lover’s body (if you<br />
have one/many)<br />
• Being able to take any sexual trauma or shame and transmute it into love, safety<br />
and trust using your sexual energy<br />
• Healing the relationship with your finances and money (sexuality and money are<br />
often connected with similar wounds and patterns from childhood)<br />
• Finding deeper love and intimacy with yourself and any lover/partner you engage<br />
with
• Owning your power, feeling confident in your skin and empowering yourself to<br />
live your life the way you desire<br />
• Strengthened connection to your own intuition and divinity (the goddess within,<br />
Highest Self, whatever you want to refer to her as)<br />
My Story With the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice<br />
I never expected to begin experiencing bladder incontinence at all, let alone at the<br />
young age of 21. Not only did I have bladder incontinence, but I had zero<br />
connection to my sexuality, couldn’t orgasm with my partner at the time or even in<br />
the same vicinity as him and I could only have very weak clitoral orgasms when I<br />
was alone.<br />
My pelvic floor felt numb and really tense and my sex drive was at an all time low<br />
and it took a toll on me in every way possible, spiritually, emotionally, mentally and<br />
definitely in my relationship at the time.<br />
I felt the pressure that a lot of women feel to be sexual, but I just didn’t feel sexual.<br />
I didn’t feel passionate, turned on or alive in my body. I felt disconnected, turned<br />
off and really fucking frustrated to be honest.<br />
So when I began experiencing urinary incontinence almost six years ago I felt<br />
miserable and hopeless. I remember thinking to myself...doesn’t this only happen<br />
to older people? Or maybe even a woman who just had a really rough birth? But me,<br />
a seemingly healthy 21-year old?<br />
I felt like something was seriously wrong with me and I didn’t know where to get<br />
the answers or medicine from. I was “diagnosed” by my local urinary practitioner as<br />
having interstitial cystitis and their idea of treatment was to take a monthly pill<br />
similar to UTI medicine for the rest of my life.<br />
I said fuck no to that and chose a different and more empowering path. A path that<br />
would ultimately change my entire life and I had no idea at the time how much<br />
would really change for me and how orgasmic all of this change would actually be.
That’s when my journey took a holistic turn. I started to eat healthier, organic food.<br />
I started getting into movement and embodiment, and cutting out toxins while<br />
connecting back to my own personal spiritual practice.<br />
This was also the time I got certified as a holistic health coach, but something still<br />
felt like it was missing...like it just wasn’t right. I felt like there was a big part of me<br />
that was simply put, missing.<br />
I still felt a little broken and like something was seriously wrong with me, because I<br />
was doing all of these healthy things, but still felt like I didn’t quite have a grasp on<br />
what was underneath it all.<br />
All of that was and is important since everything is connected and holistic, but<br />
nothing really changed until I began to dive deep into what the real problem was for<br />
me--a disconnection from my sexuality and my pussy.<br />
A lack of acknowledging my deeply erotic nature and pushing my sexuality into a<br />
deep dark box to be hidden, shamed and repressed.<br />
For my whole life I had been running from my sexual nature and that meant that I<br />
was manifesting some really serious pelvic issues like the incontinence, uti’s, yeast<br />
infections and vaginal dryness.<br />
The jade egg was one of the first practices I began to incorporate into my body and<br />
life once I decided to consciously work on connecting back to my sexuality and it<br />
changed everything and I mean EVERYTHING for me.<br />
My vagina wasn’t the only part of me that became more open, receptive, alive and<br />
juicy. My whole life became that way. My relationships, my business, my offerings,<br />
the way I showed up in my erotic power and what I was creating, receiving and<br />
calling in.<br />
You’ll learn more about the holistic aspect of your sexuality and sexual energy later<br />
in the ebook, but I just wanted to give you some perspective so you can understand<br />
that having a low libido, incontinence, weak pelvic floor, sexual frustration or<br />
trauma is not the end of the line for you.<br />
It’s only the beginning.
Like me, it can become your catalyst for reconnecting back to your sexuality,<br />
pleasure, erotic nature and orgasmic potential better than ever before. Better than<br />
you could have ever dreamed or desired.<br />
I went into this practice mostly to heal my overly tense pelvic floor and bladder.<br />
I also knew that I needed to face some dark wounds, shame and trauma around my<br />
sensuality, sexuality and pleasure. What I didn’t expect though was to experience a<br />
life-changing transformation on all levels.<br />
I’d heard other jade egg advocates speak of spiritual and sexual energy concepts<br />
and how the jade egg can turn you into a multi-orgasmic woman, but I didn’t think<br />
that would happen for me.<br />
Here’s a small snippet of what I experienced though…<br />
I completely changed as a woman. I went from speaking very low as though I had<br />
no voice to owning who I was and always speaking my truth…and my desires<br />
(especially erotic desires) aloud to myself and to my lover, with confidence.<br />
I switched my business model around completely, shifting from health coaching to<br />
realizing that my sensual and sexual awakening journey had been leading me to<br />
empower women through my own erotic journey. Teaching women about the jade<br />
egg, orgasm, pleasure and remembering their deeply erotic nature. Using sensuality<br />
to come home to the body.<br />
I felt more confident and grounded in my body—as if I was no longer trying to<br />
abandon or escape from my own body and skin. The usual fight, flight or freeze<br />
mode that I would enter into began to fade as my nervous system and brain were<br />
calmed and rewired for safety and pleasure in my body and sexuality.<br />
I cultivated deeper relationships with those in my life, let go of relationships that no<br />
longer served me and started calling in more aligned men and women.<br />
While I’ve always been able to experience an array of orgasms in my solo sex<br />
sessions, which have only gotten even more delicious and mind-blowing, I’ve also<br />
been able to experience deep vaginal orgasms (over and over) with a lover during<br />
intercourse.<br />
Because of my sexual practices, including the jade egg, I feel way more confident to<br />
share my sexual energy with a man and let him not only give me pleasure (while I
lie back and receive without feeling guilty or overly-indulgent), but to let him SEE<br />
me in my pleasure.<br />
As you can see, the benefits of starting and maintaining a regular jade egg practice<br />
can literally shift who you are as a woman on all levels.<br />
I understand some or all of this might seem scary to you.<br />
‣ Maybe you’re wondering, ‘what will my partner, friends or children think?’<br />
‣ Maybe you’re thinking… “this can’t possibly work for me.”<br />
‣ Or maybe you fear all of the unknown, new and exciting changes that deep down<br />
you really do KNOW and FEEL (because you’re really intuitive, even if you don’t<br />
know it yet) are possible for you.<br />
‣ Maybe you wonder how your friends, family members or children will react to the<br />
woman you’ll begin to embrace that is already INSIDE OF YOU.<br />
That’s the beauty of the jade egg practice though. You may go into it solely to heal<br />
a numb, dry vagina, strengthen your weak pelvic floor or to get a few juicy orgasms<br />
under your belt, but you’ll quickly realize that it takes you much deeper into who<br />
you are as a woman — sexually, spiritually, emotionally and more. <br />
The jade egg helps you awaken the erotic power within you.
The ‘Tight Pussy’ Epidemic<br />
As a huge advocate, teacher and regular user of the jade egg practice, I know that it<br />
can also feed into society’s obsession with women having a super tight pussy.<br />
The jade egg practice is not designed to give you an overly tight pussy and I’ll share<br />
with you why that is and what kind of vagina you want to cultivate instead to really<br />
feel all of the sensation, pleasure and orgasmic potential available to you.<br />
Let’s touch briefly on society’s seriously messed up obsession with the tight pussy<br />
or vagina. You see it plastered all over magazines and the internet. Things like<br />
Kegel Your Way to a Tight Pussy or How to Make Your Vagina Feel Like New Again.<br />
Not only do we have the tight pussy epidemic, but we have the typical white,<br />
virginal pussy obsession that is so bad that some women are fucking up their pelvic<br />
health or altering their labia and clitoris to match what society claims to be the<br />
perfect, tight pussy.<br />
Society tells us that a tight pussy equals a youthful, healthy pussy. A normal pussy.<br />
This only feeds into the belief that we are simply inadequate or not good enough as<br />
we are with our beautiful, natural pussies.<br />
This couldn’t be farther from the truth. Every woman’s vulva and vagina is so<br />
unique and beautiful in its own way, whether she’s had children or not. Whether her<br />
labia are symmetrical or not. Regardless of the colors, textures, shapes and folds --<br />
all completely perfect and beautiful.<br />
So with this obsession being fed to women and young girls, so many are opting for<br />
things like kegels or strenuous pelvic floor exercises that either A) do nothing at all,<br />
because you’re basically squeezing around air or B) cause damage to the pelvic<br />
floor, not to mention our emotional, mental and spiritual health.<br />
Let’s talk about WHY you don’t want a tight vagina, specifically why having a tight<br />
vagina is really unhealthy for your vagina and pelvis.<br />
Your pelvic floor muscles are so incredibly important for several different functions<br />
like orgasms, giving birth, sipping your lover’s cock or a dildo in, assisting you<br />
during urination or defecation and more. The pelvic floor keeps all of your organs<br />
lifted and in their rightful positions inside of your body so they don’t prolapse.<br />
They fill your entire pelvis and vagina, literally surrounding your your clitoris,<br />
urethra, vaginal opening and rectum. Despite the fact that there are several muscles<br />
comprising your pelvic floor, they all work together as one muscle. When you
contract your vaginal opening, those are your pelvic floor muscles and the same<br />
with contracting your anal muscles.<br />
So knowing the function and design of your pelvic floor muscles, why is it<br />
detrimental to follow the fad of having an overly tight pussy?<br />
It actually creates pelvic tension. Pelvic tension comes from not fully exhaling and<br />
releasing and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles, especially after a contraction of<br />
the muscles.<br />
If you put tension in, you need to let the tension go out as well. Just like you’d do at<br />
the gym with your muscles. You wouldn’t hold the weight forever or just keep<br />
lifting and increasing weight and strength in the same moment. You need to relax<br />
and release your muscles not only in between each repetition, but in between your<br />
times exercising during the week. The same with your vagina.<br />
Pelvic tension can lead to stress or bladder incontinence that stems from excessive<br />
tension or tightness in the pelvis. This was what I struggled with and it ended up<br />
causing vaginal numbness and dryness, which we’ll touch on too.<br />
The pelvic floor muscle is a big player in the orgasm -- there has to be suppleness,<br />
tone and flexibility not just strength or tightness in order for the muscles to<br />
contract AND release during orgasm. This is why orgasms are so pleasurable<br />
because there’s the balance of contract and release -- not just contract, tension<br />
and tightness.<br />
So if we don’t want a super tight pussy...what do we really want instead?<br />
You want an open, supple, receptive vagina that is strong but toned, sentient and<br />
flexible -- like a hand. You want dexterity and the ability to control and isolate each<br />
section, but to remain in the relaxed, fullness of your pelvis and vagina.<br />
You want a vagina that is articulate, supple, strong yet toned and able to massage<br />
up and down a cock/dildo or move the egg up and down.<br />
If your vagina is too tight and tense, then you’ll experience heightened pain or<br />
numbness but decreased sensation for pleasure. Your orgasms will be weak or not<br />
as pleasurable because you don’t have the delicious balance of contract and<br />
release. Just like you need an equal exhale to your inhale, you need an equal release<br />
and relax fully surrendering in your pelvic floor and vagina to your strength and<br />
contract or squeeze.
You can’t be open and receptive with a tight vagina. You never hear good things<br />
about someone who is called a tight-ass so what do you think about having a tight<br />
vagina?<br />
If your pussy is too tight, then you’ll have less flexibility, openness and blood flow<br />
from circulation which decreases lubrication and sensation.<br />
Now this is essential for you to know. Having an overly tight pussy or experiencing<br />
pelvic tension or even incontinence doesn’t just happen from improper stimulation<br />
of the pelvic floor muscles. It can also be a byproduct of us holding onto stress,<br />
trauma, shame or blocked sexual energy inside of the vagina. As women, we<br />
literally store and embed pretty much everything, especially negative experiences,<br />
into the tissues and cellular memories of our vaginas.<br />
This could be something as deep and painful as sexual shame or trauma, physical,<br />
emotional or verbal abuse. Or something like a harmful comment, violating<br />
experiencing or just something that made you feel unloved, unaccepted and<br />
unworthy.<br />
All of this stores itself in the psyche of our minds and in the cellular memory of our<br />
pussies.<br />
That’s why it’s important to heal on a cellular, physiological level to release shame,<br />
trauma and other experiences which show up as as pain, tightness/tension or<br />
numbness in the vagina.<br />
Ok let’s talk about HOW you can cultivate an open, supple yet strong and toned<br />
vagina through jade egg use. A vagina that is flexible, sentient and receptive.<br />
I often say that the jade egg is truly a practice of surrender. It teaches you how to<br />
relax, let go and soften. The jade egg literally massages the tissues inside of your<br />
vagina, allowing you to rewire the nerve endings in your vagina for sensation and<br />
pleasure while recalibrating your cellular memory in your vagina for suppleness,<br />
receptivity and openness.<br />
Those qualities are not present in a pussy that is tight and closed down, which also<br />
creates a tight and closed down heart space and breasts because in Taoism the<br />
reflexology point located deeply in the vagina, nestled near the cervix, links to the<br />
heart space and organ. Spiritually, sexually and emotionally this is a huge thing for<br />
us as women.<br />
So open and receptive heart, open and receptive pussy is what we’re after here.
The jade egg is also amazing because, when used properly, it teaches you how to<br />
fully relax your your pelvic floor after each contraction.<br />
Throughout this ebook, you truly will be learning the secrets of the sexual practice<br />
that will help you unlock deep vaginal pleasure and orgasms!<br />
Let’s get started, lover. Take a deep breath (or three), smile to yourself, and know<br />
that you are embarking on a beautiful journey into embodying who you are as a<br />
sensual, deeply erotic and highly orgasmic woman.<br />
Set Your Intention — Why Do YOU Want to<br />
Begin a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice?<br />
Where attention goes, energy flows.<br />
So what is YOUR intention for beginning a jade egg practice?<br />
What do you want to get out of it?<br />
What’s the ideal outcome for you?<br />
What needs to change sexually?<br />
Emotionally?<br />
Mentally?<br />
Spiritually?<br />
Getting clear on your intention will help you stay grounded during the times where<br />
the practice is challenging for you. Maybe you have some old shame you’re working<br />
through. Maybe you remember a repressed memory of trauma. Maybe you feel less<br />
than orgasmic, but you know you’re right on the edge of a sexual breakthrough.<br />
Don’t give up! Just come back to your intention.<br />
Light a candle, say your intention aloud and let’s begin…
<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Basics<br />
All you need to know before you begin<br />
I’m going to give you the low down on the basic information you need to begin your<br />
jade egg practice TODAY, given that you have a jade egg and that you want to start<br />
a practice, of course.<br />
If you need a jade egg to begin our practice, check out my shop at bit.ly/<br />
jadeeggshop or check out the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery digital course for women.<br />
Let’s take a look at some of the common basics before you begin using your jade<br />
egg.<br />
We’ll soon be diving into the 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for More Pleasure & Deeper<br />
Orasms..<br />
DRILLED VS. UN-DRILLED JADE EGGS<br />
When buying a jade egg you may see drilled and un-drilled eggs. What does it<br />
mean and what’s the difference? Drilled means that there are holes drilled<br />
through one side of the egg so that you can insert a piece of string, thread or<br />
unflavored floss through it for removal and/or gentle weightlifting exercises (a<br />
more advanced practice that you won’t be learning in this ebook but that I touch on<br />
in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery digital course).<br />
Usually the hole goes through the shorter/skinnier side of the egg so that you loop<br />
string through it and then insert the larger side of the egg into your vagina.<br />
I personally only work with drilled eggs and it’s what I sell/recommend. This is<br />
because I see the jade egg practice similar to a Yoga practice or meditation practice.<br />
In my jade egg work, we use the string a lot for various exercises that not only help<br />
you strengthen, tone or isolate different sections of the vagina, but enhance<br />
pleasure, sexual energy and orgasmic sensation.
We use it to release shame and trauma or to amplify and expand pleasure and<br />
orgasmic potential.<br />
It’s a practice. Meant to be life-long, deepened over time and sustainable. It’s<br />
NOT a quick fix.<br />
It’s something you do for 5-30 minutes several times a week (3-4x is my<br />
recommendation, unless daily feels good — listen to your body!) with focus and<br />
intention using different movements with your pelvic floor muscles and the string to<br />
build strength, tone the vaginal walls and create more dexterity, blood flow,<br />
sensation and lubrication.<br />
It’s a deep tissue massage, yoga practice and orgasmic meditation all in one!<br />
Un-drilled refers to an egg that has no holes drilled in it, which means you must<br />
rely on your own body and vaginal muscles for releasing and removing the egg,<br />
which can be a powerful exercise in trust, surrender and femininity in your body.<br />
You can purchase either egg for your practice and I invite you to weigh the options<br />
for what works best for your body. I always recommend for women who want to<br />
have a regular jade egg practice to use a drilled egg so they can use string for<br />
exercises or removal (while they’re training their muscles to push/birth the jade egg<br />
down and out).<br />
HOW TO STRING YOUR JADE EGG:<br />
For your drilled jade egg (I recommend medium, drilled) you can use thread, silk<br />
string or even unflavored unwaxed floss.<br />
‣ Measure the right length — usually your entire arm’s length — to insert through<br />
the hole of the egg to the other side of the egg through the opposite hole.<br />
‣ The wide end is the part you insert into your vagina.<br />
‣ Pull the string through the hole so that the egg is in the center of the string and<br />
there are equal amounts of string on either side.<br />
‣ Tie a double knot right right on top of the jade egg.
‣ You can also tie a knot with the loose ends so it’s easier to grasp. There are other<br />
ways to string/knot it, but this is my favorite so play around with it!<br />
‣ If the string happens to come out during your practice, not to worry, you can see<br />
more on birthing the egg out naturally in a coming section.<br />
‣ If you need to, cut the string so that there is about 6-7 inches of string that you<br />
can use to pull or guide the egg out with. You can always trim it if it seems too<br />
long for your liking. <br />
CLEANSING YOUR JADE EGG BEFORE & AFTER USE<br />
There are a several methods for cleansing your jade egg for the first time and<br />
whenever you feel like it needs to be thoroughly cleansed afterwards. Here are<br />
some popular options:<br />
• Place your jade egg in a heatproof bowl or dish. Boil a small pot of water, remove<br />
from heat, pour the hot water over your jade egg into the dish and let it soak for<br />
5-10 minutes. Make sure to remove with tongs or something that will prevent you<br />
from getting burned by the egg. Allow it to cool for an hour before use. You can<br />
also use this method to warm your jade egg up for use — just make sure it’s<br />
warm, NOT hot, before inserting into your vagina. The warmth can be extra<br />
yummy!<br />
• Hot or warm water with a few drops each of tea tree oil and lavender essential oil<br />
(both organic).<br />
• Soak it in a dish of water with pink Himalayan salt overnight.<br />
• Cleanse your egg under a full moon (energetically and spiritually).<br />
• Cleanse your egg with sage, palo santo or other smudge herbs, which is great to<br />
do on the new and full moon each month. Or whenever you feel as though your<br />
egg needs to let go of some old energy.<br />
• Cleanse your egg with natural soap (I love castile soap by Dr. Bronner’s in<br />
lavender or rose hemp scent) or just hot water in between each use. Use your own<br />
judgement here.
AN IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT CLEANING DRILLED EGGS: You will notice if you<br />
are using a drilled egg (which has holes) that sometimes your vaginal fluids and<br />
mucus will get lodged inside of the the holes.<br />
You can simply blast hot water through each side of the hole to loosen and remove<br />
the residue.<br />
Sometimes I put my mouth to the hole and blow through it. This might seem gross<br />
or weird to you, but it’s YOUR pussy and fluids. I invite you to build a healthier, and<br />
more loving and intimate relationship with your body.<br />
No need for shame or feeling disgusted by your pussy and bodily fluids. Easier said<br />
than done sometimes, but honestly, using the jade egg will help you become more<br />
comfortable with your body and the fluids she produces.<br />
Alright, lover. Let’s get into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #1!
JADE EGG<br />
SECRET<br />
#1<br />
Your breath is key to<br />
accessing your<br />
sexual energy
JADE EGG SECRET #1<br />
Your Breath is Key to Accessing<br />
Your Sexual Energy<br />
While you’re doing these exercises (and more advance exercises that will be offered<br />
in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery course, which focus primarily on awakening,<br />
circulating, directing and storing sexual energy), you will begin to feel your sexual<br />
energy awakening and beginning to move around your body.<br />
‣ It may feel like a buzzing or electrical current in your body or cells. You may feel<br />
ecstatic, euphoric or super energized. You may feel turned on, wet and open or<br />
feel tingly in certain parts of your body.<br />
‣ You may notice this energy in any of the breathing exercises from the previous<br />
chapters and it will awaken even more as you do practices with your egg in.<br />
‣ You might feel energized, aroused and TURNED ON and your libido may feel<br />
supercharged.<br />
‣ You might feel extra creative and notice that you can get more done in less time,<br />
with more ease.<br />
That’s your sexual energy at work.
Using Your Sexual Energy<br />
Simple rituals to harness & store your sexual<br />
energy<br />
SEXUAL POWER CENTER<br />
When you’re done with your jade egg practice or anything that stirs up sexual<br />
energy, you’ll want to always store your sexual energy in your ‘Sexual Power<br />
Center,’ which is near your sacral chakra in your womb space/lower belly and back.<br />
Why do you want to store your sexual energy?<br />
Because this energy is your life-force, vitality and source of abundance, creativity<br />
and turn on. It’s YOURS, therefore, you want it to remain inside of you. You don’t<br />
want it to leak out and leave you feeling depleted, sluggish, turned off and tapped<br />
out of your creativity.<br />
You want to store it within your body so you can glow from the inside out, feel<br />
radiant, TURNED ON and filled with pleasure, creativity, abundance and joy, which<br />
then radiates out into the external world— not the other way around.<br />
Imagine all of your sexual energy flowing into your Sexual Power Center, which is 2<br />
fingers below your navel and about an inch and a half in towards your spine.<br />
Then take your hands, palms facing down, and rub them first counter-clockwise<br />
over your Sexual Power Center and navel region 9 times (this collects and amplifies<br />
your sexual energy) and then switching directions and circling your palms clockwise<br />
9 times (this packs and stores it), packing your sexual energy into this spot,<br />
containing it deeply within you.<br />
WATERFALL & GLOBE OF LIGHT<br />
You can actually do this protection/storing ritual any time you like, but it works<br />
great to use after you store the energy in your Sexual Power Center. I like to do this
itual before I leave my house, when I’m in public or around others to keep my<br />
sexual energy contained and for me to use as I like.<br />
Imagine a waterfall of warm, golden light or nectar pouring out of the cosmos,<br />
filling your whole entire body from head to toe.<br />
Feel it as if it’s warm honey or some kind of sacred nectar or white hot heat and<br />
light filling you, consuming you. Then imagine this expanding out and around you,<br />
enveloping you in a globe of light.<br />
You are now completely protected and safe. This will only allow good to come in<br />
and good to go out. You can even recite that mantra aloud to yourself as you<br />
envision this waterfall and globe of light filling you and encircling you completely.<br />
You can stretch it out even further to cover some of the air surrounding you or you<br />
can keep it tight around your body, like a latex suit.<br />
Are you ready to dive into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #2?
JADE EGG<br />
SECRET<br />
#2<br />
Your pelvic floor is like a<br />
trampoline for your<br />
pleasure & sexual energy
JADE EGG SECRET #2<br />
Your Pelvic Floor is Like a Trampoline for<br />
Your Pleasure & Sexual Energy<br />
Now that you know more about your sexual energy and how breath is the key to<br />
accessing, circulating and moving it up your spine, down the front or moving it into<br />
your whole body, let’s get into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #2!<br />
Your pelvic floor muscles act like a trampoline that pumps your sexual energy and<br />
pleasure (usually felt as arousal or turn on) up the back of your spine and down<br />
your front. Or up into other parts of your body or chakras.<br />
Every time you squeeze and release or pulse your pelvic floor muscles, those<br />
muscles are like a pleasurable trampoline sending your sexual energy upwards into<br />
the rest of your body.<br />
Whether it’s your perineum, anus, vaginal opening or the different sections of your<br />
vagina that you’re squeezing, they all pump your energy upwards. Playing with the<br />
different sections of your vagina or pulsing the muscles near your perineum or anus<br />
may have different effects on the raising and circulation of your sexual energy.<br />
That’s what makes the jade egg practice so enjoyable! There’s countless ways to<br />
squeeze and release your muscles in a sequence that feel good and allow you to<br />
raise your sexual energy for whole body or multiple orgasms.<br />
Very soon you’ll be learning a few easy jade egg practices you can do that will help<br />
you use your pelvic floor like a trampoline for your pleasure and sexual energy!<br />
Now it’s time to go deeper into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> #3 and #4!
JADE EGG<br />
SECRET<br />
#3<br />
Your vagina is<br />
artciulate & ogasmic
JADE EGG SECRET #3<br />
Your Vagina is Articulate & Orgasmic!<br />
Your vagina is naturally meant to be strong and toned, supple and flexible AND<br />
articulate like a hand.<br />
This means you can isolate different sections of the vagina to massage the jade egg<br />
up and down your vaginal canal using the pelvic floor muscles.<br />
Think about how you can use you hand to massage a man’s cock (or a dildo) for<br />
pleasure and helping him reach orgasm.<br />
Your vagina is capable of being able to do this too. Massaging a cock, dildo, finger,<br />
jade egg, etc. for YOUR pleasure and your partner’s pleasure.<br />
Your pussy is naturally meant to be open, receptive and lubricated.<br />
Your pussy is naturally orgasmic — beyond just experiencing external clitoral<br />
orgasms.<br />
Sadly, this isn’t the experience for most women nowadays for many reasons:<br />
‣ Not having proper sexual education and pelvic floor health information.<br />
‣ Experiencing rough births or less natural birthing methods.<br />
‣ Sitting on the pelvis all day long in masculine style jobs.<br />
‣ Not being taught about our natural orgasmic nature as women — multi-orgasmic,<br />
highly orgasmic, whole body orgasmic!<br />
‣ Things like stress incontinence, being influenced by society’s views of the “perfect<br />
pussy,” sexual shame, trauma and disconnection from our sexuality and pussy.<br />
‣ The list goes on!<br />
So let’s move beyond the concept of having a weak pelvis and vagina being the<br />
common, normal state and experience for women. Let’s reclaim our highly, multi,<br />
whole body orgasmic nature as women!!! This requires us to understand our<br />
sexual energy and pleasure at the most primal, basic level first and foremost…
JADE EGG<br />
SECRET<br />
#4<br />
Sexual energy is arousal<br />
on a primal level
JADE EGG SECRET #4<br />
Sexual Energy is Arousal on a Primal Level!<br />
When women start working with the jade egg practice, sometimes it’s difficult for<br />
them to have an awareness of what their sexual energy feels like.<br />
This is normal and common and it’s something you can work with!<br />
The easiest way to understand your sexual energy and begin FEELING it and moving<br />
it up your spine or into your whole body (or parts of your body) is to know that<br />
sexual energy is essentially just arousal.<br />
It’s your TURN ON.<br />
When you feel turned on and horny that is your sexual energy at it’s most basic,<br />
primal level.<br />
You can use the 8,000 nerve endings of your clitoris to begin working with sexual<br />
energy in the form of arousal.<br />
As you are feeling pleasure in your swelling clitoris (or even in your vagina) you can<br />
use the more primal, localized arousal as your focal point.<br />
Once you focus on the pleasure swelling there, you can use your breath, pelvic floor<br />
(the pleasure trampoline) to pump the energy up and your mind’s eye for<br />
imagination purposes to RAISE the energy up as a sensation.<br />
Sometimes it feels like a buzzing, tingling or electric sensation. The more you work<br />
with it and move it using pelvic floor squeezes and breath work, the more you’ll feel<br />
it in your whole body or actually flowing up and down.<br />
You can imagine it as a color, temperature or sensation.<br />
You can imagine it as warm, golden light or flowing water or fire.<br />
But often, it helps to FEEL and LOCATE your arousal — the most primal version of<br />
your sexual energy — and BREATHE it up into your body. You can also use your
hands to massage the energy upwards from your clitoris, vagina or pelvis up into<br />
your womb, belly, breasts, heart, neck, face and brain.<br />
Now that you understand more about your sexual energy at a more primal, basic<br />
level….let’s dive deep into how you can work with your sexual energy on a<br />
higher, more orgasmic and creative level to help you create the orgasmic body<br />
and life of your wildest desires!<br />
Allow me to introduce you to <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #5…
JADE EGG<br />
SECRET<br />
#5<br />
Sexual energy is<br />
creative energy
JADE EGG SECRET #5<br />
Sexual Energy is Creative Energy!<br />
Did you know that you can create with your sexual energy? It’s the energy that you<br />
and I are both born from and have within us naturally.<br />
THE JADE EGG: Vessel of Fertility — allowing you to infuse your intention into<br />
your jade egg and use the power of your sexual energy, pussy and womb to CREATE<br />
whatever it is that you desire.<br />
Here are some things I’ve used my jade egg to call in, create, manifest or receive:<br />
‣ Heal my skin (I used to struggle with terrible acne on my face, back and even<br />
chest) … now it radiates and glows, because I’m accessing my pleasure, sexual<br />
energy and orgasm<br />
‣ Call in an aligned lover who is a true partner in life and sex<br />
‣ Call in amazing clients who I adore in my online courses, programs or sexuality<br />
mentoring and coaching<br />
‣ Manifest thousands of dollars on a monthly basis through my passion and<br />
pleasure<br />
‣ Make a bigger impact than I ever dreamed was possible…and this is only the<br />
beginner for ME! What’s possible for YOU?<br />
Here’s a simple model you can reference to understand how your egg, and even<br />
your womb and pussy, are vessels of fertility. Every time I go to the use the jade<br />
egg, I’ll hold it and infuse an intention into it for that practice. It can be something<br />
as simple as “love,” “abundance” or “forgiveness.” See below for more information. <br />
Infusing Intention or Desire —> Gestation/Cultivation in the Womb —> Birth/<br />
Manifestation of Desire
1. First, you infuse your intention or desire into the jade egg AND the feelings of<br />
what that would feel like to manifest/embody/achieve/have. Really feel into how<br />
that would feel for you.<br />
2. Then, you place the egg inside of you.<br />
3. Next, you work with your sexual energy and feminine energy of your womb<br />
(which allows you to RECEIVE your desire) through various jade egg, massage<br />
and breathing exercises to cultivate and gestate what you desire.<br />
4. Lastly, you ‘birth’ the intention or desire out into the physical world through<br />
manifestation. <br />
HERE’S A GOOD EXAMPLE:<br />
1. I infuse my intention of ‘I want to call in an open, honest lover’ into the egg. I call<br />
in the feelings of what it would be like to engage with this lover and infuse those<br />
FEELINGS into the egg. This is a crucial step. Imagine it swirling like golden<br />
light into your egg, impregnating it.<br />
2. I sip the egg inside of my pussy and do jade egg exercises.<br />
3. Along with the jade egg exercises, I do breathing exercises, dance and harness<br />
my sexual and feminine energies to become magnetic as a woman and allow my<br />
desire to come to fruition. <br />
I also may be required to take physical action in the world, like being open to<br />
someone who asks me on a date (as long as it feels like a YES in my body) or<br />
getting clarity on the qualities I want in an ideal lover and only dating people<br />
who match that or exceed it. This is not a totally passive concept - it takes work<br />
and action, but the more you work with your sexual energy, the more fun and<br />
ease-filled it becomes.<br />
4. I enjoy the manifestation as I come together with an aligned partner and lover!<br />
This is just an example, but you get the idea. It can be applied to anything you<br />
want!<br />
By the way, I go more in depth on the concepts of sexual energy, using your jade<br />
egg to create your desires and cleansing the womb and pussy in my digital salon
<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery, which is my 9-week online course teaching you how to<br />
use a jade egg to go from vaginal numbness to deep vaginal pleasure, overflowing<br />
lubrication and whole body orgasms!<br />
If you’re reading this ebook right now, you’re already on the list to be notified when<br />
doors opens for the next live round.<br />
Now let’s touch on how to go deeper with your jade egg and sexual energy!<br />
Going Deeper with Your<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice<br />
The power of your jade egg, womb & pussy<br />
Now that you know the basics of the jade egg itself and how to clean it before use,<br />
let’s go a little deeper into the power of your jade egg, womb and pussy.<br />
CONNECTING WITH YOUR JADE EGG<br />
I always recommend that my clients and other women I know who are about to<br />
begin their own jade egg practice connect with the egg first.<br />
What do I mean by that? Well, you are sticking this egg in your vagina and a lot of<br />
women (myself included for a long time) may have trauma, numbness, hesitations<br />
or anxiety around just sticking something new inside of their vaginas.<br />
I think it’s wise to build a relationship with the egg before you let it get deep inside<br />
of you! Court the egg and let it warm up to you and you to it—no Netflix and Chill<br />
with your egg, ok? haha<br />
But really, it’s good to connect with the egg first, because it lets you get connected<br />
with the energy and presence of the jade properties (which I listed in the first<br />
section about Why Nephrite <strong>Jade</strong>).
Crystals are very healing on their own and the vibrations will begin to activate as<br />
you bond with it (touching it, holding it, meditating with it) and then when you go a<br />
step further and take it inside of you, you’ll get those supercharged healing<br />
properties amplified by the power of your pussy and sexual energy.<br />
Here are some sensual, powerful, and erotically fun ways to connect with and<br />
date your egg before taking it inside of you:<br />
• Sleep with it under your pillow. The jade egg can help with dream retention, good<br />
dreams and even sex dreams. I’ve been able to experience sex dream orgasms<br />
many times since starting with the had egg…mmm.<br />
• Place it in your bra, bandeau or top if you can and wear it nestled between your<br />
breasts so it can stir up some of that intimate, loving, sensual energy located in<br />
your heart and breasts.<br />
• Meditate with it in the palm of your hand, with both hands cradling it, or even<br />
with it nestled by your naked (or clothed) pussy.<br />
• Put it in your bath water while you bathe and feel the energy supercharge the<br />
healing waters with even more sexual energy and love.<br />
• Do a guided meditation that allows you to infuse your dreams and desires into the<br />
egg or you can simply tell your egg what you desire and imagine those desires<br />
swirling into the egg like a brilliant, white light. Every day you can infuse an<br />
intention, desire, or wish into it or you can focus on the same intention or desire! <br />
I actually lead you through a guided jade egg desire meditation in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />
Sexual Mastery course.<br />
EXAMPLES: I desire to call in an honest, open lover. My intention is to be open to<br />
love today. I desire to manifest a trip to Bali. I desire to receive x amount of<br />
money. My intention is to play every day and feel good in my body.<br />
• Keep the egg near you (by your pussy is especially powerful) while you work, play<br />
or relax.
• Place the jade egg on different parts of your body while you lie down in<br />
meditation. Heart chakra/heart space, Solar Plexus chakra/upper belly, Sacral<br />
chakra/womb space, etc.<br />
• Get creative! How else can you connect with your egg and invite it into your daily,<br />
morning and nighttime rituals and routines?<br />
CLEANSING THE WOMB & PUSSY<br />
One of the most powerful and healing things you can do before you begin using a<br />
jade egg internally is to energetically cleanse your womb space and pussy. Why?<br />
Because these regions, along with your breasts, store the most trauma, shame, pain<br />
and blocked or stuck sexual energy.<br />
You want to clear and cleanse the womb and pussy so that you can then imprint<br />
what you actually want to experience in the cellular memory.<br />
So we cleanse and detox before imprinting in the new — helping you essentially<br />
return back to your original sexual blueprint of orgasmic wholeness.<br />
You can do this through meditation, visualization or doing some kind of self-love<br />
cleansing ritual where you bathe your womb and pussy in water, love and light<br />
(whether physically or imaginatively.)<br />
It’s helpful to cleanse your womb and pussy before you insert your fresh, clean<br />
(energetically and physically speaking) jade egg inside.<br />
Let’s move into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #6…
JADE EGG<br />
SECRET<br />
#6<br />
Orgasm is a<br />
state of being
JADE EGG SECRET #6<br />
Orgasm is a state of being!<br />
We’ve been taught that orgasm is limited to the explosive sensation of a clitoral<br />
orgasm. The release of built-up sexual tension in the genitals, resulting in the<br />
contraction and release of the pelvic floor muscles and reproductive organs.<br />
Orgasm is much deeper and expansive than that limited definition. Orgasm is a<br />
state of BEING!<br />
What I live and teach my clients is that orgasm is a path of being, living and<br />
embodying the feeling of orgasm, even if you don’t have a climax.<br />
It’s feeling waves of ecstasy and pleasure at any time, not just upon climax and<br />
release in your genitals. I do believe that every woman is capable of having an<br />
orgasm (climax) so if that is what’s stopping you, shift your mindset around it so<br />
you can open and surrender.<br />
But can you allow yourself to BECOME your orgasm? Become ORGASMIC in a state of<br />
how you are living and being.<br />
This will allow you to find orgasmic sensations from things like…<br />
‣ Drinking a glass of fresh spring water with a slice of juicy, sour lemon. Feeling the<br />
cool water slide down your throat. Finding pleasure in each sip and swallow.<br />
‣ Sensually rubbing a piece of raw organic chocolate over your lips, teasing yourself<br />
and slowly tasting it with the tip of your tongue.<br />
‣ Feeling your jade egg swirling and twisting around your vaginal opening,<br />
seducing your vagina to open.<br />
‣ Inhaling the romantic, floral scent of a bouquet of red roses, closing your eyes<br />
and smiling as you take it deep into your lungs and feel the soft, petals gently<br />
tickling your nose.
So you’ve been initiated into BEING ORGASMIC…now let’s go deeper and explore<br />
how your WHOLE BODY is ORGASMIC through <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #7…<br />
The final <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret for more pleasure &<br />
deeper orgasms!
JADE EGG<br />
SECRET<br />
#7<br />
Your whole body<br />
is orgasmic
JADE EGG SECRET #7<br />
Your Whole Body is Orgasmic!<br />
You’ve been learning about the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for more pleasure and deeper<br />
orgasms throughout this entire ebook. Using the jade egg will help you extend,<br />
expand and deepen your orgasms.<br />
If you’ve never had an orgasm, or at least not a vaginal orgasm before, then this<br />
next secret will help you tap into the whole body orgasm!<br />
It’s not just your clitoris — or even your pussy — that is capable of orgasm.<br />
You just learned about how orgasm is a state of BEING.<br />
You can have clitoral, g-spot, deep vagina, cervical, multiple, energy, breath, whole<br />
body orgasms, etc.!<br />
Your skin is your largest erogenous, orgasmic zone, because you can train your<br />
entire body to feel sensual or orgasmic pleasure.<br />
Spend some time playing around with your WHOLE body and through raising your<br />
sexual energy, which naturally happens when you regularly use a jade egg practice,<br />
you can experience whole body orgasm bliss!
Warm-up Rituals<br />
Pleasurable, sensual rituals to open your<br />
body for jade egg use<br />
One of the most important parts of your jade egg practice starts before you even<br />
insert the egg into your pussy. Yes, that’s right. You want to feel TURNED ON in<br />
your body so that you easily open and receive the egg. Imagine your pussy like a<br />
rose at nighttime.<br />
If she’s all tight and curled inward, how easy will it be for her to open and take the<br />
egg in? Not very easy!<br />
Now imagine the red rose at sunrise, opening, unfurling, blossoming into the<br />
sunlight and still lightly saturated with morning drops of dew. It’s much easier to<br />
get your egg into your pussy when she’s open, lubricated, TURNED ON and ready to<br />
receive.<br />
I’m going to share some of my favorite rituals with you that you can try before<br />
using your jade egg, but feel free to mix and match. Play around with them, create<br />
your own or explore what your body does like (and what she doesn’t!)<br />
SECRET SEXY SQUEEZE<br />
This is one of my favorite quick and easy rituals that combines breathing with<br />
pulsing your pelvic floor muscles (also referred to as ‘Kegels’). <br />
What you do is inhale from your pussy, pulling up the pelvic floor muscles — the<br />
same muscles you squeeze to stop your urine flow — and inflate your belly. Hold<br />
for a count of three if you like. Exhale, deflating your belly and releasing the hold<br />
on your pelvic floor muscles completely.<br />
Make sure to relax your pelvic floor muscles completely on the exhale. The exhale<br />
and release of your pelvic floor muscles is just as important for creating an open,
supple and flexible pussy as the inhale and squeeze is, if not more, since most<br />
women have trouble fully relaxing in their pussies.<br />
Repeat as many times as you like. You can bring this into your meditation too.<br />
Inhale from your pussy as if she has a mouth (imagine her breathing in), inflate your<br />
belly and squeeze your pelvic floor muscles.<br />
Hold for a count of three.<br />
Exhale, deflate your belly and release the squeeze on your pelvic floor muscles.<br />
Relax fully and repeat.<br />
You can also squeeze and release your pelvic floor muscles quickly like you’re<br />
pulsing them pleasurably! Bringing your jade egg in will amplify the orgasmic<br />
bliss!<br />
MICROCOSMIC ORBIT<br />
The Microcosmic Orbit exercise is a Taoist breathing exercise that loops your<br />
sexual energy up the back of your spine and down your front. Sexual energy is<br />
typically felt in the genitals as turn on or pleasure, especially localized in the clitoris<br />
for women.<br />
I practice a more simplified version that isn’t as complicated.<br />
In Taoism the Microcosmic Orbit is meant to take your sexual energy up into your<br />
brain, which not only enhances sexual vitality and overall wellbeing, but also<br />
provides mental clarity in your brain, activating the pineal and pituitary glands.<br />
They also believed that harnessing your sexual energy or chi in the brain and mind<br />
helps you to balance the left and right hemispheres which can be used for spiritual<br />
energy as in reaching enlightenment or higher levels of consciousness.<br />
This is something you can bring into your normal meditation, which will awaken<br />
and circulate your sexual energy, therefore doing the same thing with your pleasure
and turn on, which means you can become more easily aroused, pleasured and<br />
orgasmic in your whole body, not just your genitals.<br />
Essentially this simplified microcosmic orbit can be brought in before you do a jade<br />
egg practice, during sex, self pleasure or as a breathing exercise and meditation in<br />
itself to feel more orgasmic.<br />
We’ll be working with three components: your breath, pelvic pulsations and your<br />
mind’s eye for visualization and imagination purposes.<br />
Sometimes when you’re first beginning to awaken and work with your sexual energy<br />
you may not be able to directly feel it so using your breath and mind’s eye will help<br />
move it along.<br />
This will also help you notice if your sexual energy gets stuck in a specific spot or<br />
area in your body.<br />
Here’s how to practice it, but feel free to adjust it to your needs.<br />
‣ Sit in a comfortable position or lying down. Easy pose (cross-legged) works.<br />
‣ Inhale, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles, which are the same muscles you<br />
squeeze to stop your flow of urine. Imagine squeezing and lifting up, which draws<br />
your sexual energy upwards.<br />
‣ As you do the inhale and squeeze, hold it and imagine your sexual energy<br />
gathering in your perineum, which is located between your anus and vaginal<br />
opening.<br />
‣ Hold for about 8 seconds and then exhale, release.<br />
‣ Do this this two more times to gather the energy in your perineum.<br />
‣ Now on the inhale, you are going to have a very gentle, but firm hold on your<br />
pelvic floor muscles as you inhale deeply down into your perineum and raise that<br />
energy up the back of your spine into your brain.
‣ Place your tongue at the roof of your mouth, behind your front teeth and keep it<br />
there to complete the circuit and prevent your sexual energy from leaking out of<br />
your mouth.<br />
‣ Exhale, visualizing your sexual energy flowing down your face, through your<br />
mouth and throat down through the center of your breasts and stomach and back<br />
into your perineum.<br />
‣ You’ll just keep inhaling it up the back of your spine and down your front on the<br />
exhale over and over, as long as you like. You can really pump the energy<br />
upwards with your vaginal muscles and slightly relax them on the exhale.<br />
I love to aim for five minutes a day. You can also rock against your heel to stimulate<br />
your clitoris making it even more pleasurable.<br />
SENSUAL OR EROTIC DANCE<br />
Create a special playlist of songs that you enjoy on YouTube or Spotify and allow<br />
your body to move freely. I love music that is sensual or erotic and it changes with<br />
my mood (I personally love anything by Enigma, Phaeleh or Erykah Badu).<br />
Don’t judge yourself as you move or any emotions that come up. Sometimes you<br />
need to rage dance, slow dance with yourself and other times you’ll feel really<br />
turned on and sexual while you dance.<br />
Let yourself play with it. Touch yourself. Claw yourself. Moan, laugh, jump up and<br />
down!<br />
I love a different mix of music, depending on my mood and my menstrual cycle.<br />
Some of my favorites for really sensual, erotic music are anything by Enigma, FKA<br />
Twigs, Lana Del Rey and other times I like really dirty rap, rock, heavy metal or even<br />
piano music if I want to tap into a gentler or even more sorrow side of my sexuality. <br />
HEART-OPENING BREAST MASSAGE
This is great to do as a daily practice as it reduces your risk of breast cancer,<br />
increases lymphatic flow and keeps your breasts perky and healthy.<br />
Warm up some oil in a double boiler (I love organic coconut oil) and feel free to add<br />
a few drops of rose hip oil, raspberry seed oil, jasmine or another sacred oil that<br />
opens your heart in a sensual way.<br />
Light some candles and incense if you like, turn on some sensual music and remove<br />
your clothes (or at least your top) in front of a mirror.<br />
Take some warm oil in between your palms and rub them together, generating that<br />
sexual energy.<br />
Place them on your heart and breathe in deeply three times, pulsing your pelvic<br />
floor muscles on each inhale and releasing on each exhale.<br />
Now begin to massage your breasts in whatever way feels good. Move in circles<br />
around the whole breast.<br />
Squeeze them, shake them, press into them. Knead them like bread dough.<br />
Move up, down, in, out.<br />
Let yourself explore each whole breast, your chest, underarms, and the area<br />
beneath your breasts as well.<br />
Save the nipples for last and feel free to circle around them with extra oil, feeling<br />
your pussy respond to the pleasure. You can even give them a gentle, or firm, if you<br />
prefer, squeeze.<br />
By the way, I’ll be sharing a really pleasurable Taoist Nipple Massage Ritual to take<br />
your breast massage—AND PLEASURE—to the next level in my <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual<br />
Mastery salon.
WOMB MASSAGE<br />
You can follow the beginning instructions for the Womb Massage as you did for the<br />
Heart-Opening Breast Massage ritual.<br />
Prepare your oil of choice, place your hands over your womb and breathe into our<br />
womb three times, squeezing and releasing your pelvic floor muscles.<br />
Then, play with different strokes, pressures, techniques to massage your belly,<br />
womb and lower abdomen. You can even move into the lower pelvis or massage<br />
your pubic mound and vulva too.<br />
Rub your palms in a wave-like motion from side to side over your belly.<br />
Circle around your belly button, feel into what feels good and healing for you.<br />
You may experience some pain if you have stored erotic energy or trauma. Just<br />
breathe deeply and play with the strokes and pressure.<br />
SELF-PLEASURE OR SELF-PUSSY MASSAGE<br />
If you’re comfortable touching your pussy you can try self-pleasuring, which I<br />
recommend you become comfortable with or your jade egg practice will be limited<br />
and your healing will be as well.<br />
If you need to start slow with this and only touch the vulva and not insert fingers<br />
inside of your vagina, then please take your time, but allow your sexual energy to<br />
awaken and build through breathing deeply and evenly regardless of whether you<br />
insert fingers (or even a pleasure wand, which is a dildo made of crystal) or not. I<br />
love a company called Chakrubs (www.chakrubs.com).<br />
You can start with one or a few of the other Warm-up Rituals before you explore<br />
your body and I suggest turning your WHOLE body on before touching your pussy.<br />
Women need to be sensually stimulated starting outwards and moving inwards and<br />
we require being turned on from head to to in order to open and lubricate fully for<br />
optimal pleasure and deeper, more expansive orgasms.<br />
The rituals above should help you do that.
You can also just massage your pussy (externally and/or internally) with warm<br />
coconut oil.<br />
Coconut oil is great for using in the genital region because it’s anti-fungal,<br />
anti-microbial, anti-bacterial and more.<br />
You may notice resistance, pain, numbness, or stuck emotions or sexual energy<br />
surfacing if you stroke your clitoris, g-spot or even your cervix. Just keep breathing<br />
and know that you can slow down or stop anytime you need to and come back<br />
another time.<br />
Healing does take time so be compassionate, patient and loving with yourself. <br />
If you need deeper support with releasing trauma, shame, pain, or past<br />
experiences, please feel free to reach out to me or another mentor who offers<br />
private coaching for sensual and sexual healing. A module on releasing trauma and<br />
healing sexually will be offered in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery course as well.<br />
One thing to keep in mind is that you’ll want to become familiar with the inner<br />
regions of your vagina so that you can move on to other exercises, either now or<br />
later on in the future.<br />
Let me break it down quickly for you and feel free to use the Self-Pleasure/Self-<br />
Pussy Massage Ritual to feel them out and get to know them better, which will make<br />
your jade egg practice go more smoothly too.<br />
The vaginal canal is divided into three regions/sections.<br />
Vaginal Canal: 3- Sections<br />
OPENING <br />
The opening of your vagina, where you insert the egg. <br />
MIDDLE <br />
Usually the first few inches in or so, depending on how deep your vaginal canal is.<br />
Your vagina does expand and deepen the more aroused you are, which is why the<br />
Warm-up Rituals are highly recommended.
CERVIX<br />
This is where your cervix is located back the deepest and furthers. The egg can’t go<br />
beyond this point, by the way, so it won’t get stuck inside of you forever or get lost<br />
somewhere else in your body. The cervix is actually rounded and may feel like the<br />
cartilage in the tip of your nose.<br />
It’s somewhat hard and may experience a lot of pain if you are shut down in the<br />
heart (remember that Taoist connection between your heart and cervix?), have<br />
experienced sexual trauma or you hold a lot of deep shame within your body. It<br />
may also feel painful if you aren’t fully aroused.
Basic <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Exercises<br />
Inserting & using the jade egg internally<br />
Now that you’ve been lead through the sensual, magical, and super practical<br />
methods for cleansing, connecting with and infusing your egg with delicious<br />
intentions while getting yourself all warmed up, it’s time to learn how to insert and<br />
practice with your egg internally!<br />
By the way, I’m so proud of you for getting this far. You are an absolute Goddess so<br />
make sure to take some time to celebrate YOU today. Buy yourself some red roses.<br />
Eat a piece of raw chocolate. Take a hot bath. Massage your breasts with oil.<br />
Whatever it is, let yourself soak up every drop of pleasure! You deserve it, lover.<br />
What you’ll need is your naked body, your jade egg (no string looped through it if<br />
you have a drilled egg), some coconut oil and a comfortable place to lie down. I<br />
suggest a yoga mat or your bed.<br />
Make sure the space you’re in is private, makes you feel safe (THIS IS SUPER<br />
IMPORTANT) and has a sensual, or even erotic, vibe. (I love red roses, red silk<br />
sheets, fluffy blankets and sensual Egyptian Musk incense burning personally).<br />
I like lighting candles, turning on some music, and making sure my heat is on so I<br />
don't get chilly.<br />
You can lock the door and let your partner, kids, lover, etc. know you need some<br />
privacy and alone time.<br />
We’re going to begin by going over <strong>Egg</strong> Discernment, then moving into sipping the<br />
egg in gently and then I’ll share a few basic, simple exercises you can do with the<br />
egg in.
<strong>Egg</strong> Discernment<br />
This allows your body to determine whether she wants to receive the egg on any<br />
given day or not. This is a practice you’ll want to do every single time you go to use<br />
the egg, because sometimes your vagina won’t want to receive the egg (and you’ll<br />
KNOW and FEEL it), which means you probably shouldn’t force it.<br />
The best thing to do is to put a small amount of coconut oil on your jade egg and<br />
place it near your vaginal opening.<br />
Then, start to swirl it around the area surrounding your vaginal opening, pleasuring<br />
yourself with it. You can also do a twisting or light pulsing motion. Feel free to<br />
moan if it feels good. Let yourself play with the egg on the outside of your whole<br />
vulva (around the inner and outer lips, pubic mound, near the perineum, etc.) and<br />
near your vaginal opening— whatever feels good.<br />
This is also how you learn what you like sexually—WHAT TURNS YOU ON and<br />
AWAKENS YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY.<br />
When it feels right or you feel your vagina naturally wanting to suck the egg in, ask<br />
your pussy and body aloud (or in your mind if you can’t say it aloud for some<br />
reason) if she wants to receive the egg today.<br />
Then, wait patiently for a response. You’ll be able to tell with practice, if not right<br />
away.<br />
Usually you can look for expansion (YES) vs contraction (NO), pulsing deliciously<br />
(YES) or seeming to push away (NO), feeling open, wet, and desirous for the egg<br />
(YES) or or feeling dry, shut down and numb (NO).<br />
You may even notice hardness or softness (or other signs) in your heart and/or<br />
womb. Perhaps in other areas of your body, too.<br />
Expansion, softening, opening, pleasure, pulsing and warmth flooding through<br />
your body or pussy is a good sign it’s a YES.<br />
Contraction, numbness, dryness, shutting down, closing off, hardness,<br />
tightness or feeling pain is a sign it’s a NO.
IMPORTANT: But, you also want to discern between resistance to going deeper in<br />
your healing and awakening journey and actually experiencing a threshold you<br />
simply can’t cross right now (due to past trauma).<br />
Gently try to push the egg in a little bit to see if it’s resistance to using the egg and<br />
if so, feel free to proceed when I explain the next step.<br />
If it feels traumatic, simply stop trying to push it in and just hold the egg at your<br />
vaginal opening for a few minutes per day BREATHING DEEPLY and just know that<br />
your body is doing great telling you what she’s ready for and what she isn’t ready<br />
for.<br />
Holding the egg at your vaginal opening while breathing deeply every day until she<br />
starts to feel like a YES will calm your nervous system and de-armor your vaginal<br />
opening, rewiring your brain’s neural pathways to associate something near your<br />
vaginal opening as SAFE and OK and eventually, pleasurable.<br />
Be gentle and compassionate and then let yourself rest (Savasana like in Yoga is<br />
great).<br />
Now that you you’re body is ready, or ready enough if you have some resistance, to<br />
taking the egg in, you’re going to learn how to ‘sip’ the egg in…<br />
Sipping the <strong>Egg</strong> In<br />
With the egg still at the entrance of your vaginal open, begin to pulse your pelvic<br />
floor muscles slowly as if you were trying to ‘sip’ the egg in.<br />
Imagine your vaginal opening is a mouth sucking through a straw and drawing the<br />
egg in. This does take practice, but as you pulse, the egg will start to come in and<br />
as you release and relax, the egg will drop in even further.<br />
The tissue in our pussy is energetically linked with the tissue in your mouth, throat<br />
and jaw so if you form an ‘O’ with your mouth (like you’re drinking through a straw)<br />
and inhale through your O-shaped mouth, then your pussy will respond accordingly<br />
and make it easier to sip the egg in.
Relaxing your entire mouth, throat and jaw on the exhale helps your pelvic floor<br />
relax too, letting the egg slip in further.<br />
You can lift your hips up off the bed or floor, which allows you to access the deeper<br />
vaginal canal easier.<br />
If you struggle with this at first, just push the egg in very gently and slowly and see<br />
if you can start to sip it in from there. If need be, just guide the egg in with your<br />
fingertips, slowly and gently.<br />
You want the egg to go beyond just the opening of our vagina so it feels as though<br />
it will stay in on its own when you remove your fingers.<br />
The Warm-up Rituals are all great because they involve pulsing your pelvic floor<br />
muscles, which helps you with sipping your egg in and taking it into your vagina<br />
further.<br />
EXERCISE 1: HIP CIRCLES<br />
With your egg inserted into your vaginal canal completely, plant your feet near your<br />
butt. Your knees should be facing upward, bent. This is the first position of Bridge<br />
Pose in Yoga, before you lift up your hips, of course.<br />
Now that you’re stationed comfortable, begin to circle your hips clockwise.<br />
Imagine that you have a point at 12 o’clock, 3 o’clock, 6 o’clock, and 9 o’clock that<br />
your hips are hitting as you rotate.<br />
Feel what’s going on inside of your vagina as you circle your hips. Make sure you’re<br />
breathing deeply into your pussy.<br />
Circle your hips clockwise six times.<br />
Then, switch and go counter-clockwise six times, breathing deeply, feeling into the<br />
sensations going on inside of your vagina.<br />
EXERCISE 2: PELVIC LIFTS
You’ll want to begin in the same position as the last exercise, Hip Circles, on your<br />
back with your feet planted near your butt, knees pointing upward.<br />
The Pelvic Lifts exercise is basically using your jade egg in Bridge Pose in Yoga.<br />
Inhale, raise your hips up so they’re parallel with the floor beneath you, squeeze<br />
and hold your pelvic floor muscles around the jade egg for a count of three while<br />
holding your breath as well.<br />
Exhale, release the hold on your egg and drop your butt back down to the floor<br />
gently. Remain here for a count of three so your pussy can rest. The inhale and hold<br />
up and exhale and release down is one rep.<br />
Repeat five more times so you’re doing a total of six reps.<br />
EXERCISE 3: FOOT ROTATIONS<br />
Remain lying down on your back. Stretch your legs out so you’re lying in a similar<br />
position to Savasana (Corpse Pose in Yoga).<br />
You want there to be enough space in between your feet so that you can roll your<br />
ankles inward and your big toes will gently touch one another.<br />
Now let your feet fall back to normal position, facing upward mostly. Curl your toes<br />
backwards towards your body and keep them that way as you continue, which pulls<br />
on the nerves and muscles leading to your vaginal canal.<br />
Inhale, rolling your ankles inward so that your big toes meet.<br />
Hold for a count of three, noticing the sensations present in your vaginal canal<br />
around the egg. Allow your pussy to be relaxed, but feel your muscles around the<br />
egg.<br />
Now exhale, rolling your feet in the complete opposite direction so that your pinky<br />
toes touch (or almost touch) the floor.<br />
Hold for a count of three, noticing the sensations present in your vagina around the<br />
jade egg when your feet are in this position.
It’s basically a windshield wiper type motion with your feet, toes curled back.<br />
Slowly, of course, since you’re holding each for a count of three.<br />
Repeat the whole thing (inhale, rolling feet inward, hold for three, exhale, rolling<br />
feet outward, hold for three) six times.<br />
There is another basic exercise (before we get into the deeper jade egg practices)<br />
that I will be offering in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery course as well, but these<br />
three are a really good start to your new practice!<br />
WEARING THE EGG AROUND<br />
Another basic exercise is to simply wear your egg around while you do normal daily<br />
activities. You can dance with it in, bathe with it in, make love with it in, wear it to<br />
work or out for drinks with your girlfriends.<br />
Imagine all of that juicy, sexual energy swirling around inside of you, making you<br />
magnetic, alluring and radiant to those around you!<br />
This energy (your sexual energy) goes EVERYWHERE with you. It’s always inside of<br />
you and the jade egg practice helps you awaken it and tap into the sacred power of<br />
your sexual energy and sensuality.<br />
I recommend starting with the three basic exercises first, especially if you have a<br />
very weak pelvic floor.<br />
Why? Because if your pelvic floor is weak and you stand up and your egg drops out<br />
immediately, then it won’t be as easy for you to wear it around.<br />
This is something you’ll have to explore on your own to see how strong your pelvic<br />
floor muscles are.<br />
IMPORTANT THING TO CONSIDER: I only recommend keeping the egg in for an<br />
hour if this is your first use. Otherwise 8 hours is the maximum — because I see<br />
the jade egg as a practice and if you want sustainable, real change in your vagina,<br />
sexual energy and orgasmic potential, then you’ll want to do different exercises.<br />
It’s not just about strength. It’s also about the relax phase. You need an exhale to<br />
your inhale and a release to your squeeze.
This because you want to allow your pelvic floor time to relax. You wouldn’t go to<br />
the gym and hold up a 20 lb weight for 8 hours would you? The same thing for your<br />
pussy! Allow her time to rest, relax and grow stronger and more flexible, supple<br />
and toned in the relaxed phase too. This is why I recommend specific jade egg<br />
exercises as opposed to only wearing it around.<br />
Some women prefer to wear the egg around (with no string or weights attached)<br />
and allow the egg to stay in while doing things like dancing, grocery shopping, etc.<br />
Everyone is different, but you’ll learn through this practice how to trust your body<br />
and surrender to healing.<br />
I encourage you to play around with the exercises AND just wearing it around for a<br />
few hours if you like. Your body will let you know when she doesn’t want the egg in<br />
anymore.<br />
Typically you’ll experience a sensation of it trying to fall out or descend. Or you’ll<br />
feel a dull ache or just longing to ‘birth’ the egg out. Now you’re going to learn how<br />
to remove or ‘birth’ the egg out safely and comfortably!<br />
Removing the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />
Masculine vs Feminine Removal Techniques<br />
When you’re ready to remove the egg (unless it slid out on its own already), you can<br />
take two approaches.<br />
The first approach is what I consider to be a more ‘Masculine’ technique, involving<br />
removal of the egg through the string.<br />
The second approach is what I consider to be a more ‘Feminine’ technique, which<br />
involves you birthing the jade egg out, as if you were literally giving birth to a baby.<br />
Neither technique is right or wrong, but most of the time using the Feminine<br />
technique is more natural for how our bodies are produced to operate.
The approach you use may depend on whether you chose to attach string to your<br />
egg before you started wearing it around or doing the exercises.<br />
I typically recommend doing the feminine approach whenever possible since it’s<br />
natural for your pussy to ‘birth’ things out, just like it’s natural for you to ‘sip’ and<br />
receiving things into your vagina.<br />
Of course, our bodies have been through a lot over the years, whether due to<br />
trauma, having children, aging, injuries, etc. so what’s ‘natural’ isn’t always<br />
common like it ideally should be.<br />
Your pussy should ideally be supple, strong, open, receptive and able to birth and<br />
that’s what the jade egg practice will help you create. You want your pussy to have<br />
the dexterity, flexibility and control similar to your hand. Not super tight, but open,<br />
receptive and soft with muscle control instead.<br />
Let me break down each technique for removal so you can feel into it and see what<br />
works best for you.<br />
You may have to start by using the masculine version first if your muscles aren’t<br />
strong enough to push it down and out or it may simply fall out on its own. Either<br />
way, just be patient with your body.<br />
FEMININE TECHNIQUE (BIRTHING)<br />
Give this technique a try before attempting the ‘Masculine’ version just to see how<br />
strong your pelvic floor is and if you can birth the egg out, then there’s no need to<br />
ever really pull the egg out.<br />
The easiest way is to squat down on the floor with your hips open and soft, then<br />
breathe deeply and bare down with your pelvic floor muscles, contracting and trying<br />
to push the egg down and out.<br />
If you feel it starting to slide down, keep squatting, breathing deeply, and baring<br />
down (lightly, but firmly) until it comes out all the way.
Make sure you have a towel or your hand below you so you can catch the egg. You<br />
don’t want it to fall on your tiled floor and potentially crack the tile.<br />
Sometimes if your pelvic floor muscles are really strong, you can simply push the<br />
egg down and out by standing with your feet a little wider than hip width apart,<br />
gently bending your knees, and gently pushing down while you breathe.<br />
This is more of an advanced approach though, but you can certainly give it a try as<br />
long as it feels comfortable and doesn’t cause you to strain.<br />
MASCULINE TECHNIQUE (STRING)<br />
If you used a string in your egg, start by squatting as comfortably as possible (get<br />
as low as you can) and try to push with your pelvic floor muscles, like you’re giving<br />
birth. Contract them and relax and release.<br />
If you don’t feel the egg moving, you can gently grab the string and slowly pull<br />
down, while still baring down to push it out.<br />
It’s kind of similar to when you’re constipated and you’re trying to push and bare<br />
down to release the waste from your body.<br />
If you have to pull on the string, go slowly and gently while breathing deeply. Don’t<br />
hold your breath or strain your muscles. Just try to relax in between each push and<br />
let it come out.<br />
Of course, if you can’t feel your muscles pulsing at all, just gently glide the egg out<br />
by slowly pulling it out with the string. Make sure to clean it once you’ve removed<br />
your egg. You can use any of the methods mentioned on cleansing the jade egg.
FAQ’s<br />
The answers to your jade egg questions<br />
I’m going to take a moment to answer all of the juicy, burning questions you may<br />
have around the jade egg. These are questions I get asked pretty often and<br />
questions I found myself asking or wondering to myself before beginning my own<br />
practice. You can also check out the Q&A video I made here.<br />
If you have any other questions that weren’t answered in this ebook, please don’t<br />
hesitate to join my private Facebook group for women The Sensually Embodied<br />
Woman Sisterhood. You’re also welcome to email me directly at<br />
amberleitz@sacredglow.com and I’ll happily support you in any way that I can, with<br />
pleasure, of course!<br />
Can the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> get stuck or lost inside of my vagina (or somewhere else in<br />
my body)?<br />
Nope, your vagina is a closed canal. The cervix is the end of the line when using<br />
your jade egg and prevents the egg from going any further!<br />
This means your egg won’t exit your vagina and float around somewhere in your<br />
body. No worries, lover. Your jade egg will be kept nestled deeply inside of your<br />
vagina by your beautifully magical cervix.<br />
The egg also can’t get stuck. You might find that your vagina naturally sucks the<br />
egg up further (to your cervix) and it may seem as though it’s stuck and never<br />
coming down.<br />
The best approach is to relax, trust your body and pussy’s timing and surrender.<br />
Sometimes your body needs to retain the egg longer for healing or deepening into<br />
your sexual energy. You can do some journaling, dancing or meditating with it in to<br />
see what’s coming up for you.<br />
Don’t panic or freak out. It won’t stay up there forever. You can try bearing down,<br />
laughing or if all else fails and you absolutely have to have the egg out, just insert<br />
your fingers and pull it down.
Eventually the egg will come out on its own after a few minutes, hours or days<br />
depending on the strength of your pelvic floor. If you’re truly worried about it, you<br />
can use a drilled egg and thread<br />
63<br />
some string through it for easy removal, although I recommend trying to use the<br />
Feminine approach described in Chapter 7 as much as possible.<br />
Can I use a jade egg while pregnant?<br />
I highly recommend that you reach out to your OB/GYN before starting or<br />
continuing a jade egg practice. It’s usually not recommended to use a jade egg until<br />
6-8 weeks after giving birth. You’ll definitely want to give your body and pelvic<br />
floor some time to rest and heal before diving into a jade egg practice, whether<br />
beginning or continuing.<br />
I personally recommend to wait for energetic reasons as well. When you have a<br />
baby, which is created using your sexual ‘life-force’ energy (which is your creative<br />
energy), a lot of that energy goes into the development and birth of the baby.<br />
Therefore, it’s good to let your energy be for a bit so you can heal your pussy AND<br />
restore the baseline of your sexual, creative energy.<br />
Can I use a jade egg while I’m menstruating?<br />
This is totally your call. I’ve found much pleasure and erotic delight in the past<br />
during my menstrual cycle while using my jade egg, but every woman’s body is<br />
different. Nowadays I don’t use my jade egg on my menstrual cycle (and typically<br />
don’t recommend it) since this is a good time to let things flow down and out, not<br />
to mention relaxing the pelvic floor muscles and uterus.<br />
Energetically our period is a time of shedding and releasing so you don’t want to<br />
obstruct the flow! But again, listen to YOUR body.<br />
Your vagina is naturally more sensitive during this time of your cycle and the<br />
positioning of your cervix is lower as well for the release of your menstrual blood.
I encourage you to use the <strong>Egg</strong> Discernment ritual from Chapter 6 to ask your body<br />
if she wants to use the egg or not on your period.<br />
On occasion my body likes to use the egg (and even have sex with it in) on my<br />
menstrual cycle, but most of the time my body doesn’t feel up to it. Just make sure<br />
to clean your egg really well if you choose to do so.<br />
I notice there are different sizes available online, what size jade egg should I<br />
use?<br />
You may see online that there are small, medium and large sized eggs. I<br />
recommend starting out with a medium sized jade egg as it’s the right weight and<br />
size for beginners and advanced jade egg practicers alike. I sell the medium sized,<br />
genuine Nephrite drilled jade egg here.<br />
The medium egg is the best size for beginners because you may have some<br />
numbness in your vagina, and the medium size will allow your vagina to feel the<br />
weight of the egg without the egg being too heavy and large to hold inside of you.<br />
It’s also normal if you don’t quite feel or notice the egg inside of you, depending on<br />
how numb your vagina is. All the more reason to devote to a practice 3-4x per<br />
week.<br />
A smaller sized egg is usually only recommended for those who’ve had a more<br />
advance jade egg practice since the smaller the egg, the less likely your vagina will<br />
‘feel’ the egg as you go about your day or do practices.<br />
I don’t think it’s necessary to have multiple eggs though. I’ve only been using<br />
medium for the few years that I’ve been practicing and it’s probably all I’ll ever use!<br />
What if my egg keeps falling out?<br />
If your egg keeps falling out, please try not to worry or stress about it. It simply<br />
means that your body will really benefit from using a jade egg and building up
supple strength, awakening your sexual energy and re-sensitizing the soft tissues<br />
of your vaginal canal.<br />
If it keeps falling out, just ‘sip’ it back in or gently pop it back in with your fingers.<br />
It takes time, patience and courage (plus a healthy dose of love and compassion) to<br />
heal and build up that delicious supple strength of your pussy again. Be as playful<br />
as possible about it!<br />
Is it safe to have sex or self-pleasure with the egg in?<br />
Yes it’s absolutely safe! However, some women are hesitant or afraid to try it. I<br />
encourage you to follow your own body, pussy and pleasure. Whatever erotically<br />
entices you, follow that. If you’re curious about self-pleasuring or making love with<br />
your egg in, give it a try.<br />
It’s not harmful and again, the egg won’t get stuck inside of you. Sure, you’ll want<br />
to inform your partner that your egg is in and to go slowly and gently at first so you<br />
can test it out. Depending on your erotic and sexual desires and tastes it may not<br />
feel amazing to you with hardcore pounding-style sex (or it might — you never<br />
know until you try!).<br />
I encourage you to be playful about this too and just allow yourself to explore. I’ve<br />
had some of the most intense orgasms from pleasuring myself or having sex with<br />
my jade egg in.<br />
Where can I purchase a jade egg?<br />
You can purchase one directly from my shop HERE. What does it come with?<br />
This is a medium 100% genuine Nephrite <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong>, sideways drilled, that comes in a<br />
small black velvet pouch PLUS you receive TWO free guided mp3 jade egg practice<br />
and an instructional video going over the basics of using a jade egg!
What if I want further support on my erotic jade egg journey?<br />
You can check out my salon <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery, which is<br />
transformational 9-week online course teaching you how to use a jade egg to go<br />
from vaginal numbness to deep vaginal pleasure, overflowing lubrication and whole<br />
body orgasms!<br />
If you’re reading this ebook right now, it means you’re most likely on the list to be<br />
one of the first to hear about it when doors open again. Yay!<br />
Will the jade egg help me with sexual healing?<br />
Yes! The jade egg has many practical benefits like strengthening the pelvic floor,<br />
keeping it soft and supple, and increasing your libido and lubrication in the vagina,<br />
but it also has some really magical benefits. Including sexual healing.<br />
The jade egg is a crystal made of jade, which helps to soak up trauma, blocks and<br />
pain through its natural vibrational frequency while awakening the sexual energy<br />
pathways (these are reflexology points and energetic meridians) within your pussy.<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> helps you to purify and release what no longer serves you while transmuting<br />
any pain into pleasure, fear into love and anxiety into ecstasy. It’s very Alchemical,<br />
but it’s also an emotional release and healing as you draw out negative, traumatic<br />
energy and blocks with the sacred gemstone egg.<br />
<strong>Jade</strong> is also excellent for the heart chakra, which can be tied to sexual shame,<br />
trauma and numbness. The density of the jade egg helps to reawaken the nerve<br />
endings, tissues, passion and sexual energy within your pussy, which then amplifies<br />
the healing of your sexuality.<br />
You can watch Heal Sexual Trauma & Release Shame With a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> for more on<br />
this.<br />
Will the jade egg help me with achieving orgasm?<br />
The jade egg can definitely help you experience all kinds of vaginal orgasms<br />
(multiple, cervical, g-spot, etc.) and even energetic orgasms (whole body orgasms<br />
or orgasms in your chakras, for instance). Of course it does take time to heal, open
and blossom into your sensuality and awaken the sexual energy pathways within so<br />
it may not happen right away.<br />
Plus you want to keep your amount of sexual trauma, shame, pain and/or<br />
numbness in mind, which can prevent women from experiencing orgasm or climax.<br />
I always recommend to my clients and those who use the jade egg to practice<br />
without a goal or end in mind, such as climax/orgasm. Instead choose to see<br />
orgasm as a path. It’s a way of BEING, LIVING and EMBODYING waves of pleasure in<br />
your entire body. Each sensation or moment can be an orgasm in itself.<br />
This takes the pressure off of you and allows you to drop deeper into delicious<br />
states of pleasure, ecstasy, love and surrender — which is the key to orgasm/<br />
climax. Safety and surrender.<br />
So the more open, loving, soft, surrendered and safe you feel, whether alone or<br />
with a partner, the easier it will be for you to circulate your pleasure and sexual<br />
energy and melt into a yummy orgasm.<br />
Having said that, the jade egg awakens your sexual energy and the sensitive,<br />
pleasurable tissue and nerve endings in your vagina and around your entire vulva<br />
(cervix, g-spot, clitoris, included) so this does make it easier to experience waves of<br />
orgasmic bliss!<br />
I have a really weak pelvic floor and/or bladder incontinence can I use a jade<br />
egg and will it help me?<br />
Yes! Using a jade egg will definitely retrain and re-sensitize the nerve and energy<br />
pathways in your vagina while helping you to strengthen the muscles. Using a jade<br />
egg also teaches you how to relax properly, which aids with incontinence.<br />
Most people put an emphasis on squeezing the pelvic floor muscles, creating<br />
strength in the vagina and having a “tight” pussy, but in reality, learning to exhale<br />
and relax your pelvic floor muscles is the key to having the pleasure and orgasms<br />
you desire. I encourage you to reach out to your medical practitioner if you have<br />
any additional worries or concerns.
I have an IUD, can I use a jade egg?<br />
It’s usually not recommended to use a jade egg if you have an IUD inserted as it<br />
there is slight risk that it will dislodge in your uterus, although that’s very rare.<br />
Having said that, I do know many women who’ve purchased jade eggs from me or<br />
joined <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery with an IUD inserted who’ve had great success.<br />
Listen to your body. She knows best. You’ll just want to focus more on relaxing<br />
your pelvic floor and doing gentler toning exercises rather than focusing on heavy<br />
strength training or weightlifting.<br />
There are many amazing, orgasmic benefits to using a jade egg, but it’s ultimately<br />
your choice on whether you want to make the shift and begin a jade egg practice or<br />
not.<br />
If you’re interested in alternatives to preventing pregnancy and would like to use a<br />
jade egg, please make sure to do your research AND listen to your body! You’re<br />
welcome to contact your health care professional for more information on your<br />
options.<br />
What’s the difference between doing ‘Kegels’ and using a jade egg?<br />
Kegel is a term (coined by a man, by the way) referring to squeezing and releasing<br />
the pelvic floor muscles in a rhythm or pattern. This is the same way you stop your<br />
flow of urine.<br />
Using a jade egg adds in resistance to strengthen and relax your vagina, among<br />
many other emotional, sexual, spiritual and healing benefits. Simply doing ‘Kegels’<br />
doesn’t necessarily strengthen the pelvic floor the same way as if you were using<br />
resistance through a jade egg, which trains your pelvic floor muscles to hold,<br />
tighten and fully surrender into release around the egg.<br />
There’s also the risk of creating an overly tight and tense pelvic floor from doing<br />
too many Kegels.
I can’t feel my jade egg…is that normal?<br />
While wearing your jade egg you may notice that at times you feel the egg and<br />
other times you don’t. If you can’t feel it at all, don’t stress! It takes time to heal<br />
and awaken the nerve endings and rebuild the connection between your vagina and<br />
brain along with your sexual energy pathways.<br />
Plus you naturally won’t be able to feel the egg all of the time as your pussy is<br />
meant to relax around it too. Even if you become or are an advanced jade egg user,<br />
it’s perfectly normal (and healthy) to not always feel the egg with your vaginal wall<br />
muscles.<br />
You will notice that you can sense the egg around your g-spot or cervix as you<br />
build up strength and awaken your nerves further, but it won’t be a constant feeling<br />
of the egg at all times. It’s totally normal!<br />
About the Author<br />
Get to know <strong>Amber</strong> <strong>Leitz</strong> & how to receive<br />
deeper support from her<br />
Congratulations on making it to the end of the ebook! I can’t wait for you to start or<br />
deepen your jade egg practice. It’s been one of the most healing, empowering and<br />
pleasurable tools I’ve used in my body and life and I couldn’t be happier for you to<br />
join me on this journey.<br />
Before I share a little bit more about myself with you, I invite you to slow down and<br />
take a moment (or however long!) and celebrate how open, amazing and<br />
courageous you’ve been for exploring the jade egg!<br />
Now I just want you to know that I’ve committed my life, whether I was conscious<br />
and aware at all times or not, to healing the relationship with my own body,
sensuality, sexuality, and erotic power while supporting other women to do the<br />
same.<br />
I’ve studied, implemented and embodied many teachings, books, philosophies,<br />
exercise, practices and rituals over the years that have led me to confidently teach,<br />
mentor and support women around sensual and sexual healing, awakening, and<br />
embodiment. You can learn more about me here.<br />
MY OFFICIAL BIO:<br />
<strong>Amber</strong> is a Sensuality & Sexuality Mentor who focuses on helping women to awaken<br />
their sensuality, tap into their pleasure and access their sexual energy through<br />
various rituals, practices and sexual healing techniques. She helps women<br />
remember that they are exquisitely sensual, deeply erotic and highly orgasmic by<br />
nature. Through her love of sexuality and philosophies based in Tantra and Taoism<br />
she guides women in connecting back to their ecstatic pleasure and expanding their<br />
orgasmic potential into a whole body experience of deep bliss.<br />
She also sells the jade egg in her online shop on Etsy, The Erotic Woman Shop.<br />
She is the creator of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery salon, which is an online course<br />
for women who desire to begin (or deepen) a jade egg practice and fully awaken<br />
their sensuality, pleasure and erotic power!
Do you desire to go deeper?<br />
If you find that you desire deeper support from me, please don’t hesitate to email<br />
me at amberleitz@sacredglow.com. You can check out my digital course <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />
Sexual Mastery here for more information on how to go deeper into your jade egg<br />
practice.<br />
It’s been an absolute pleasure to guide you through the jade egg journey!<br />
I’m sending you so much sensual, erotic love.<br />
xx<br />
<strong>Amber</strong>