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7<br />

JADE EGG<br />

SECRETS<br />

for more pleasure &<br />

deeper orgasms<br />

LEARN THE SECRETS OF THE SEXUAL<br />

PRACTICE THAT WILL UNLOCK DEEP<br />

VAGINAL PLEASURE AND ORGASMS!<br />

By <strong>Amber</strong> <strong>Leitz</strong>


<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> 101 .............................................................. 6<br />

All of this is possible through cultivating a regular jade egg practice…and so much MORE.<br />

...........................................................................................................................................6<br />

Benefits of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> ............................................. 9<br />

Why use a jade egg? ............................................................................................................. 9<br />

My Story With the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice .................................................................................. 11<br />

The jade egg helps you awaken the erotic power within you. ....................................... 14<br />

The ‘Tight Pussy’ Epidemic .................................................................................................. 15<br />

Set Your Intention — Why Do YOU Want to Begin a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice? ........................ 18<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Basics ........................................................ 19<br />

All you need to know before you begin ............................................................................... 19<br />

JADE EGG SECRET #1 .......................................... 24<br />

Your Breath is Key to Accessing ......................................................................................... 24<br />

Your Sexual Energy ............................................................................................................. 24<br />

Using Your Sexual Energy ....................................... 25<br />

Simple rituals to harness & store your sexual energy ....................................................... 25<br />

SEXUAL POWER CENTER ............................................................................................ 25<br />

WATERFALL & GLOBE OF LIGHT ............................................................................... 25<br />

JADE EGG SECRET #2 .......................................... 28<br />

Your Pelvic Floor is Like a Trampoline for Your Pleasure & Sexual Energy ................... 28<br />

JADE EGG SECRET #3 .......................................... 30<br />

Your Vagina is Articulate & Orgasmic! .............................................................................. 30<br />

JADE EGG SECRET #4 .......................................... 32<br />

Sexual Energy is Arousal on a Primal Level! ..................................................................... 32<br />

JADE EGG SECRET #5 .......................................... 35<br />

Sexual Energy is Creative Energy! ..................................................................................... 35<br />

Going Deeper with Your .......................................... 37<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice .................................................... 37


The power of your jade egg, womb & pussy ....................................................................... 37<br />

JADE EGG SECRET #6 .......................................... 41<br />

Orgasm is a state of being! .................................................................................................. 41<br />

JADE EGG SECRET #7 .......................................... 44<br />

Your Whole Body is Orgasmic! ........................................................................................... 44<br />

Warm-up Rituals ..................................................... 45<br />

Pleasurable, sensual rituals to open your body for jade egg use ...................................... 45<br />

SECRET SEXY SQUEEZE .............................................................................................. 45<br />

MICROCOSMIC ORBIT ................................................................................................. 46<br />

SENSUAL OR EROTIC DANCE ..................................................................................... 48<br />

HEART-OPENING BREAST MASSAGE ....................................................................... 48<br />

WOMB MASSAGE .......................................................................................................... 50<br />

SELF-PLEASURE OR SELF-PUSSY MASSAGE ........................................................... 50<br />

Basic <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Exercises ......................................... 53<br />

Inserting & using the jade egg internally ........................................................................... 53<br />

EXERCISE 2: PELVIC LIFTS ......................................................................................... 56<br />

EXERCISE 3: FOOT ROTATIONS ................................................................................. 57<br />

WEARING THE EGG AROUND ................................................................................... 58<br />

Removing the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> ............................................ 59<br />

Masculine vs Feminine Removal Techniques ..................................................................... 59<br />

FEMININE TECHNIQUE (BIRTHING)........................................................................<br />

60<br />

MASCULINE TECHNIQUE (STRING) .......................................................................... 61<br />

FAQ’s ....................................................................... 62<br />

The answers to your jade egg questions ............................................................................. 62<br />

About the Author ...................................................... 69<br />

Get to know <strong>Amber</strong> <strong>Leitz</strong> & how to receive deeper support from her ............................... 69


Welcome to 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong>, Lover!<br />

Welcome to the beginning of a life-changing journey and orgasmic experience that<br />

is going to transform you on a mind-body-heart-soul level. I’m honored to be here<br />

as an erotic guide and teacher for you as you navigate the sexual practice of using a<br />

jade egg and mastering sexual energy as a woman.<br />

This is such a courageous path you’ve chosen and I’m delighted to know that yet<br />

another woman is harnessing the power of her sexual energy, sensuality and<br />

pleasure to find deeper satisfaction and fulfillment in her body and life sensually,<br />

emotionally, sexually and spiritually.<br />

I’m excited to share not only information on how to start your jade egg practice,<br />

but 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for more pleasure and deeper orgasms! <br />

GET READY TO SAY YES TO:<br />

‣ Deeper vaginal pleasure!<br />

‣ More fulfilling sex (whether solo or partnered)!<br />

‣ An array of deeply satisfying orgasms!<br />

‣ Falling madly in love with your sexual self!<br />

IN THIS EBOOK YOU’LL LEARN:<br />

‣ Taoist breathing exercises to access & move your sexual energy for whole body<br />

orgasms!<br />

‣ How to use your jade egg to create an orgasmic body & life!<br />

‣ How to expand your orgasmic potential through the jade egg practice!<br />

‣ How to create a strong yet toned, supple & open vagina & pelvic floor!


‣ How to replace vaginal numbness & dryness with sensation, pleasure &<br />

overflowing lubrication!<br />

‣ How to heal from stress or bladder incontinence & experience deep vaginal<br />

orgasms!<br />

‣ The ancient sexual secrets I use to experience whole body orgasms, deeper<br />

vaginal pleasure & increased arousal!<br />

Getting Started:<br />

What to expect from this ebook<br />

I recommend reading this entire ebook in its entirety so that you know all of the<br />

basics, how to take your jade egg practice deeper and how to use and store your<br />

sexual energy. All of these are essentials to having a jade egg practice that keeps<br />

you coming back for more (pun totally intended) and allows you to expand your<br />

orgasmic potential and fully circulate your sexual energy.<br />

I have 7 SECRETS that I’ll be sharing with you throughout this ebook that will allow<br />

you to become an orgasmic woman. In fact, a highly, multi AND whole-body<br />

orgasmic woman at that!<br />

Here’s what you’ll need in order to get the most of out of this ebook and your jade<br />

egg practice:<br />

‣ You’ll need this ebook<br />

‣ A high-quality jade egg (more on that in the following chapters) I have a jade egg<br />

online course you can join if you want actual step-by-step guidance on HOW to<br />

use the jade egg and sustain your practice. You can check it out here.<br />

‣ Sacred space devoted to your practice (a sensual, erotic sanctuary that turns you<br />

on and makes you feel safe) and privacy for your sexual practices.<br />

‣ Any other items you may need will be sprinkled throughout the rest of the ebook.<br />

Enjoy the 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for More Pleasure & Deeper Orgasms!


<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> 101<br />

‣ Perhaps you’ve stumbled across this ebook because you’re intrigued by the jade<br />

egg practice and the sexual mastery arts of ancient rituals used to reach spiritual<br />

enlightenment and fulfillment in the body, heart and soul.<br />

‣ Or maybe you’ve experienced bladder incontinence, vaginal numbness, dryness or<br />

a weak pelvic floor and you just want to start a practice to cultivate a strong, but<br />

supple, vagina and pelvis.<br />

‣ Or maybe you feel unsatisfied in your current sex life, whether solo or in a<br />

relationship, and you want to experience greater intimacy, more pleasure and<br />

deeper orgasms that lead you to states of heightened love and ecstasy beyond<br />

your wildest dreams.<br />

‣ Or maybe you feel as though your libido is low or non-existent and you want to<br />

get your sexual spark and drive back so you can feel juicy, TURNED ON and ALIVE<br />

again.<br />

‣ Or maybe you want to call in the lover of your dreams, magnetize your dream life<br />

into reality or find abundance, prosperity and wealth in your sexuality, money, life<br />

and career.<br />

All of this is possible through cultivating a regular jade egg practice…and so<br />

much MORE.


What Exactly is a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong>? <br />

The jade egg is an egg shaped crystal made of genuine Nephrite jade, which is a<br />

very dense crystal that doesn’t consist of a normal crystalline structure like other<br />

crystals, such as rose or clear quartz. <strong>Jade</strong> is stronger than steel so it’s the top<br />

recommended crystal for vaginal use.<br />

This is a healing tool that you insert into the vagina to internally massage the<br />

vaginal walls, which awakens the neural, pleasure and energy pathways inside of<br />

the tissue. It also helps you heal from sexual shame or trauma since women store<br />

almost all of their trauma or blocks in their sexual regions, especially the vagina.<br />

The jade egg helps you strengthen the pelvic floor muscles which reduces<br />

incontinence and deepens your pleasure and orgasmic potential.


Why Nephrite <strong>Jade</strong>?<br />

History of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> is recommended for the practice for many reasons. One reason being that jade<br />

has been used for thousands of years in ancient China Taoist sexual practices by<br />

concubines who were harnessing their sexual energy (Jing in Taoism) for radiance,<br />

vitality, fulfillment and spiritual evolution.<br />

The concubines would use this energy to help the Chinese emperor become a better<br />

leader and increase his own vitality and power.<br />

The Taoists believe that learning to raise your sexual life-force energy, or chi as<br />

they call it, through your whole body and into the brain can help you not only have<br />

more clarity, greater cognitive function and intuitive insight in your brain, but to<br />

use this sexual energy as spiritual energy for reaching enlightenment or higher<br />

states of consciousness or oneness with the Divine, whatever that means for you<br />

personally.<br />

Genuine, 100% nephrite jade ensures that you are using a real egg comprised of<br />

jade that is certified to be used for the jade egg practice and not one that has been<br />

combined with harsh or unnatural materials or other stones.<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> is a great stone for healing not only sexual shame, trauma, and blocks related<br />

to sexuality, but it’s great for the heart chakra as well (an energy center located in<br />

your heart center), which increases the sex and love connection and healing of<br />

both.<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> also helps you tap deep into your sexual energy, womb, creativity, femininity,<br />

sensuality and raises the vibration of each to enhance, cultivate and harness the<br />

power that exists inside of you as a woman.<br />

This erotic power within you is insatiably delicious as you’ll find once you begin or<br />

deepen your jade egg practice…


Benefits of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />

Why use a jade egg?<br />

The benefits of using a jade egg are vast, unique and powerful! The jade egg is one<br />

of my favorite sacred tools in my sexual toolbox and I recommend the practice to<br />

every woman I connect with, especially the women in my erotic tribe.<br />

I’m going to break the benefits of adopting a regular jade egg practice down into<br />

two categories for you so you can digest the information a little easier. PHYSICAL &<br />

SEXUAL and ENERGETIC, EMOTIONAL & SPIRITUAL. Take a look below to see the<br />

benefits of both categories.<br />

PHYSICAL & SEXUAL BENEFITS<br />

• Strengthened pelvic floor and vaginal muscles<br />

• Increased libido, arousal and vaginal lubrication (You’ll feel more TURNED ON!)<br />

• Deeper, stronger, longer and more fulfilling orgasms (Whole body? Multiple? Both<br />

are possible!)<br />

• Different styles of orgasms (clitoral, g-spot, cervical, energetic—yes there is such<br />

a thing!)<br />

• Awakens the nerve pathways in the vagina for increased pleasure (rewires your<br />

body and pussy for pleasure!)<br />

• Supple, open, soft and receptive vagina that can easily draw the jade egg, a finger<br />

or a cock/dildo in naturally<br />

• Glowing skin and a sense of radiance that appears externally. You may also notice<br />

a more youthful lift in your skin as you are pulling your sexual energy (energy that<br />

enhances vitality) inwards and upwards in your vagina, which creates a natural lift<br />

and simultaneously connects energetically to the tissue in your face and throat<br />

while releasing healthy hormones and stimulating your endocrine glands and<br />

organs


• Decrease or elimination of pain, numbness and/or dryness during sex and/or<br />

self-pleasure<br />

• Increased vitality and boosted energy in your body (You won’t need that extra cup<br />

of coffee in the morning—or maybe any coffee at all!)<br />

• Sexual healing and releasing of shame, guilt, trauma or pain that is lodged in your<br />

vaginal tissues (even if you’ve experienced sexual abuse or assault in the past)<br />

• Better, deeper sleep and waking up invigorated and rejuvenated<br />

ENERGETIC, EMOTIONAL & SPIRITUAL BENEFITS<br />

• Deeper connection between your womb, heart and pussy<br />

• Awakens and circulates your sexual energy through your whole body, which can<br />

be used for healing, manifestation, creation and more<br />

• Spiritual awakening and enlightenment<br />

• Feeling safe and fully at home in your body, pleasure and sexuality<br />

• Deeper levels of embodying WHO you are as a sensual, erotic woman<br />

• Magnetism of your desires, money, opportunities, love etc. to you naturally and<br />

easily<br />

• Increase in desire and passion for your own body and your lover’s body (if you<br />

have one/many)<br />

• Being able to take any sexual trauma or shame and transmute it into love, safety<br />

and trust using your sexual energy<br />

• Healing the relationship with your finances and money (sexuality and money are<br />

often connected with similar wounds and patterns from childhood)<br />

• Finding deeper love and intimacy with yourself and any lover/partner you engage<br />

with


• Owning your power, feeling confident in your skin and empowering yourself to<br />

live your life the way you desire<br />

• Strengthened connection to your own intuition and divinity (the goddess within,<br />

Highest Self, whatever you want to refer to her as)<br />

My Story With the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice<br />

I never expected to begin experiencing bladder incontinence at all, let alone at the<br />

young age of 21. Not only did I have bladder incontinence, but I had zero<br />

connection to my sexuality, couldn’t orgasm with my partner at the time or even in<br />

the same vicinity as him and I could only have very weak clitoral orgasms when I<br />

was alone.<br />

My pelvic floor felt numb and really tense and my sex drive was at an all time low<br />

and it took a toll on me in every way possible, spiritually, emotionally, mentally and<br />

definitely in my relationship at the time.<br />

I felt the pressure that a lot of women feel to be sexual, but I just didn’t feel sexual.<br />

I didn’t feel passionate, turned on or alive in my body. I felt disconnected, turned<br />

off and really fucking frustrated to be honest.<br />

So when I began experiencing urinary incontinence almost six years ago I felt<br />

miserable and hopeless. I remember thinking to myself...doesn’t this only happen<br />

to older people? Or maybe even a woman who just had a really rough birth? But me,<br />

a seemingly healthy 21-year old?<br />

I felt like something was seriously wrong with me and I didn’t know where to get<br />

the answers or medicine from. I was “diagnosed” by my local urinary practitioner as<br />

having interstitial cystitis and their idea of treatment was to take a monthly pill<br />

similar to UTI medicine for the rest of my life.<br />

I said fuck no to that and chose a different and more empowering path. A path that<br />

would ultimately change my entire life and I had no idea at the time how much<br />

would really change for me and how orgasmic all of this change would actually be.


That’s when my journey took a holistic turn. I started to eat healthier, organic food.<br />

I started getting into movement and embodiment, and cutting out toxins while<br />

connecting back to my own personal spiritual practice.<br />

This was also the time I got certified as a holistic health coach, but something still<br />

felt like it was missing...like it just wasn’t right. I felt like there was a big part of me<br />

that was simply put, missing.<br />

I still felt a little broken and like something was seriously wrong with me, because I<br />

was doing all of these healthy things, but still felt like I didn’t quite have a grasp on<br />

what was underneath it all.<br />

All of that was and is important since everything is connected and holistic, but<br />

nothing really changed until I began to dive deep into what the real problem was for<br />

me--a disconnection from my sexuality and my pussy.<br />

A lack of acknowledging my deeply erotic nature and pushing my sexuality into a<br />

deep dark box to be hidden, shamed and repressed.<br />

For my whole life I had been running from my sexual nature and that meant that I<br />

was manifesting some really serious pelvic issues like the incontinence, uti’s, yeast<br />

infections and vaginal dryness.<br />

The jade egg was one of the first practices I began to incorporate into my body and<br />

life once I decided to consciously work on connecting back to my sexuality and it<br />

changed everything and I mean EVERYTHING for me.<br />

My vagina wasn’t the only part of me that became more open, receptive, alive and<br />

juicy. My whole life became that way. My relationships, my business, my offerings,<br />

the way I showed up in my erotic power and what I was creating, receiving and<br />

calling in.<br />

You’ll learn more about the holistic aspect of your sexuality and sexual energy later<br />

in the ebook, but I just wanted to give you some perspective so you can understand<br />

that having a low libido, incontinence, weak pelvic floor, sexual frustration or<br />

trauma is not the end of the line for you.<br />

It’s only the beginning.


Like me, it can become your catalyst for reconnecting back to your sexuality,<br />

pleasure, erotic nature and orgasmic potential better than ever before. Better than<br />

you could have ever dreamed or desired.<br />

I went into this practice mostly to heal my overly tense pelvic floor and bladder.<br />

I also knew that I needed to face some dark wounds, shame and trauma around my<br />

sensuality, sexuality and pleasure. What I didn’t expect though was to experience a<br />

life-changing transformation on all levels.<br />

I’d heard other jade egg advocates speak of spiritual and sexual energy concepts<br />

and how the jade egg can turn you into a multi-orgasmic woman, but I didn’t think<br />

that would happen for me.<br />

Here’s a small snippet of what I experienced though…<br />

I completely changed as a woman. I went from speaking very low as though I had<br />

no voice to owning who I was and always speaking my truth…and my desires<br />

(especially erotic desires) aloud to myself and to my lover, with confidence.<br />

I switched my business model around completely, shifting from health coaching to<br />

realizing that my sensual and sexual awakening journey had been leading me to<br />

empower women through my own erotic journey. Teaching women about the jade<br />

egg, orgasm, pleasure and remembering their deeply erotic nature. Using sensuality<br />

to come home to the body.<br />

I felt more confident and grounded in my body—as if I was no longer trying to<br />

abandon or escape from my own body and skin. The usual fight, flight or freeze<br />

mode that I would enter into began to fade as my nervous system and brain were<br />

calmed and rewired for safety and pleasure in my body and sexuality.<br />

I cultivated deeper relationships with those in my life, let go of relationships that no<br />

longer served me and started calling in more aligned men and women.<br />

While I’ve always been able to experience an array of orgasms in my solo sex<br />

sessions, which have only gotten even more delicious and mind-blowing, I’ve also<br />

been able to experience deep vaginal orgasms (over and over) with a lover during<br />

intercourse.<br />

Because of my sexual practices, including the jade egg, I feel way more confident to<br />

share my sexual energy with a man and let him not only give me pleasure (while I


lie back and receive without feeling guilty or overly-indulgent), but to let him SEE<br />

me in my pleasure.<br />

As you can see, the benefits of starting and maintaining a regular jade egg practice<br />

can literally shift who you are as a woman on all levels.<br />

I understand some or all of this might seem scary to you.<br />

‣ Maybe you’re wondering, ‘what will my partner, friends or children think?’<br />

‣ Maybe you’re thinking… “this can’t possibly work for me.”<br />

‣ Or maybe you fear all of the unknown, new and exciting changes that deep down<br />

you really do KNOW and FEEL (because you’re really intuitive, even if you don’t<br />

know it yet) are possible for you.<br />

‣ Maybe you wonder how your friends, family members or children will react to the<br />

woman you’ll begin to embrace that is already INSIDE OF YOU.<br />

That’s the beauty of the jade egg practice though. You may go into it solely to heal<br />

a numb, dry vagina, strengthen your weak pelvic floor or to get a few juicy orgasms<br />

under your belt, but you’ll quickly realize that it takes you much deeper into who<br />

you are as a woman — sexually, spiritually, emotionally and more. <br />

The jade egg helps you awaken the erotic power within you.


The ‘Tight Pussy’ Epidemic<br />

As a huge advocate, teacher and regular user of the jade egg practice, I know that it<br />

can also feed into society’s obsession with women having a super tight pussy.<br />

The jade egg practice is not designed to give you an overly tight pussy and I’ll share<br />

with you why that is and what kind of vagina you want to cultivate instead to really<br />

feel all of the sensation, pleasure and orgasmic potential available to you.<br />

Let’s touch briefly on society’s seriously messed up obsession with the tight pussy<br />

or vagina. You see it plastered all over magazines and the internet. Things like<br />

Kegel Your Way to a Tight Pussy or How to Make Your Vagina Feel Like New Again.<br />

Not only do we have the tight pussy epidemic, but we have the typical white,<br />

virginal pussy obsession that is so bad that some women are fucking up their pelvic<br />

health or altering their labia and clitoris to match what society claims to be the<br />

perfect, tight pussy.<br />

Society tells us that a tight pussy equals a youthful, healthy pussy. A normal pussy.<br />

This only feeds into the belief that we are simply inadequate or not good enough as<br />

we are with our beautiful, natural pussies.<br />

This couldn’t be farther from the truth. Every woman’s vulva and vagina is so<br />

unique and beautiful in its own way, whether she’s had children or not. Whether her<br />

labia are symmetrical or not. Regardless of the colors, textures, shapes and folds --<br />

all completely perfect and beautiful.<br />

So with this obsession being fed to women and young girls, so many are opting for<br />

things like kegels or strenuous pelvic floor exercises that either A) do nothing at all,<br />

because you’re basically squeezing around air or B) cause damage to the pelvic<br />

floor, not to mention our emotional, mental and spiritual health.<br />

Let’s talk about WHY you don’t want a tight vagina, specifically why having a tight<br />

vagina is really unhealthy for your vagina and pelvis.<br />

Your pelvic floor muscles are so incredibly important for several different functions<br />

like orgasms, giving birth, sipping your lover’s cock or a dildo in, assisting you<br />

during urination or defecation and more. The pelvic floor keeps all of your organs<br />

lifted and in their rightful positions inside of your body so they don’t prolapse.<br />

They fill your entire pelvis and vagina, literally surrounding your your clitoris,<br />

urethra, vaginal opening and rectum. Despite the fact that there are several muscles<br />

comprising your pelvic floor, they all work together as one muscle. When you


contract your vaginal opening, those are your pelvic floor muscles and the same<br />

with contracting your anal muscles.<br />

So knowing the function and design of your pelvic floor muscles, why is it<br />

detrimental to follow the fad of having an overly tight pussy?<br />

It actually creates pelvic tension. Pelvic tension comes from not fully exhaling and<br />

releasing and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles, especially after a contraction of<br />

the muscles.<br />

If you put tension in, you need to let the tension go out as well. Just like you’d do at<br />

the gym with your muscles. You wouldn’t hold the weight forever or just keep<br />

lifting and increasing weight and strength in the same moment. You need to relax<br />

and release your muscles not only in between each repetition, but in between your<br />

times exercising during the week. The same with your vagina.<br />

Pelvic tension can lead to stress or bladder incontinence that stems from excessive<br />

tension or tightness in the pelvis. This was what I struggled with and it ended up<br />

causing vaginal numbness and dryness, which we’ll touch on too.<br />

The pelvic floor muscle is a big player in the orgasm -- there has to be suppleness,<br />

tone and flexibility not just strength or tightness in order for the muscles to<br />

contract AND release during orgasm. This is why orgasms are so pleasurable<br />

because there’s the balance of contract and release -- not just contract, tension<br />

and tightness.<br />

So if we don’t want a super tight pussy...what do we really want instead?<br />

You want an open, supple, receptive vagina that is strong but toned, sentient and<br />

flexible -- like a hand. You want dexterity and the ability to control and isolate each<br />

section, but to remain in the relaxed, fullness of your pelvis and vagina.<br />

You want a vagina that is articulate, supple, strong yet toned and able to massage<br />

up and down a cock/dildo or move the egg up and down.<br />

If your vagina is too tight and tense, then you’ll experience heightened pain or<br />

numbness but decreased sensation for pleasure. Your orgasms will be weak or not<br />

as pleasurable because you don’t have the delicious balance of contract and<br />

release. Just like you need an equal exhale to your inhale, you need an equal release<br />

and relax fully surrendering in your pelvic floor and vagina to your strength and<br />

contract or squeeze.


You can’t be open and receptive with a tight vagina. You never hear good things<br />

about someone who is called a tight-ass so what do you think about having a tight<br />

vagina?<br />

If your pussy is too tight, then you’ll have less flexibility, openness and blood flow<br />

from circulation which decreases lubrication and sensation.<br />

Now this is essential for you to know. Having an overly tight pussy or experiencing<br />

pelvic tension or even incontinence doesn’t just happen from improper stimulation<br />

of the pelvic floor muscles. It can also be a byproduct of us holding onto stress,<br />

trauma, shame or blocked sexual energy inside of the vagina. As women, we<br />

literally store and embed pretty much everything, especially negative experiences,<br />

into the tissues and cellular memories of our vaginas.<br />

This could be something as deep and painful as sexual shame or trauma, physical,<br />

emotional or verbal abuse. Or something like a harmful comment, violating<br />

experiencing or just something that made you feel unloved, unaccepted and<br />

unworthy.<br />

All of this stores itself in the psyche of our minds and in the cellular memory of our<br />

pussies.<br />

That’s why it’s important to heal on a cellular, physiological level to release shame,<br />

trauma and other experiences which show up as as pain, tightness/tension or<br />

numbness in the vagina.<br />

Ok let’s talk about HOW you can cultivate an open, supple yet strong and toned<br />

vagina through jade egg use. A vagina that is flexible, sentient and receptive.<br />

I often say that the jade egg is truly a practice of surrender. It teaches you how to<br />

relax, let go and soften. The jade egg literally massages the tissues inside of your<br />

vagina, allowing you to rewire the nerve endings in your vagina for sensation and<br />

pleasure while recalibrating your cellular memory in your vagina for suppleness,<br />

receptivity and openness.<br />

Those qualities are not present in a pussy that is tight and closed down, which also<br />

creates a tight and closed down heart space and breasts because in Taoism the<br />

reflexology point located deeply in the vagina, nestled near the cervix, links to the<br />

heart space and organ. Spiritually, sexually and emotionally this is a huge thing for<br />

us as women.<br />

So open and receptive heart, open and receptive pussy is what we’re after here.


The jade egg is also amazing because, when used properly, it teaches you how to<br />

fully relax your your pelvic floor after each contraction.<br />

Throughout this ebook, you truly will be learning the secrets of the sexual practice<br />

that will help you unlock deep vaginal pleasure and orgasms!<br />

Let’s get started, lover. Take a deep breath (or three), smile to yourself, and know<br />

that you are embarking on a beautiful journey into embodying who you are as a<br />

sensual, deeply erotic and highly orgasmic woman.<br />

Set Your Intention — Why Do YOU Want to<br />

Begin a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice?<br />

Where attention goes, energy flows.<br />

So what is YOUR intention for beginning a jade egg practice?<br />

What do you want to get out of it?<br />

What’s the ideal outcome for you?<br />

What needs to change sexually?<br />

Emotionally?<br />

Mentally?<br />

Spiritually?<br />

Getting clear on your intention will help you stay grounded during the times where<br />

the practice is challenging for you. Maybe you have some old shame you’re working<br />

through. Maybe you remember a repressed memory of trauma. Maybe you feel less<br />

than orgasmic, but you know you’re right on the edge of a sexual breakthrough.<br />

Don’t give up! Just come back to your intention.<br />

Light a candle, say your intention aloud and let’s begin…


<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Basics<br />

All you need to know before you begin<br />

I’m going to give you the low down on the basic information you need to begin your<br />

jade egg practice TODAY, given that you have a jade egg and that you want to start<br />

a practice, of course.<br />

If you need a jade egg to begin our practice, check out my shop at bit.ly/<br />

jadeeggshop or check out the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery digital course for women.<br />

Let’s take a look at some of the common basics before you begin using your jade<br />

egg.<br />

We’ll soon be diving into the 7 <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for More Pleasure & Deeper<br />

Orasms..<br />

DRILLED VS. UN-DRILLED JADE EGGS<br />

When buying a jade egg you may see drilled and un-drilled eggs. What does it<br />

mean and what’s the difference? Drilled means that there are holes drilled<br />

through one side of the egg so that you can insert a piece of string, thread or<br />

unflavored floss through it for removal and/or gentle weightlifting exercises (a<br />

more advanced practice that you won’t be learning in this ebook but that I touch on<br />

in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery digital course).<br />

Usually the hole goes through the shorter/skinnier side of the egg so that you loop<br />

string through it and then insert the larger side of the egg into your vagina.<br />

I personally only work with drilled eggs and it’s what I sell/recommend. This is<br />

because I see the jade egg practice similar to a Yoga practice or meditation practice.<br />

In my jade egg work, we use the string a lot for various exercises that not only help<br />

you strengthen, tone or isolate different sections of the vagina, but enhance<br />

pleasure, sexual energy and orgasmic sensation.


We use it to release shame and trauma or to amplify and expand pleasure and<br />

orgasmic potential.<br />

It’s a practice. Meant to be life-long, deepened over time and sustainable. It’s<br />

NOT a quick fix.<br />

It’s something you do for 5-30 minutes several times a week (3-4x is my<br />

recommendation, unless daily feels good — listen to your body!) with focus and<br />

intention using different movements with your pelvic floor muscles and the string to<br />

build strength, tone the vaginal walls and create more dexterity, blood flow,<br />

sensation and lubrication.<br />

It’s a deep tissue massage, yoga practice and orgasmic meditation all in one!<br />

Un-drilled refers to an egg that has no holes drilled in it, which means you must<br />

rely on your own body and vaginal muscles for releasing and removing the egg,<br />

which can be a powerful exercise in trust, surrender and femininity in your body.<br />

You can purchase either egg for your practice and I invite you to weigh the options<br />

for what works best for your body. I always recommend for women who want to<br />

have a regular jade egg practice to use a drilled egg so they can use string for<br />

exercises or removal (while they’re training their muscles to push/birth the jade egg<br />

down and out).<br />

HOW TO STRING YOUR JADE EGG:<br />

For your drilled jade egg (I recommend medium, drilled) you can use thread, silk<br />

string or even unflavored unwaxed floss.<br />

‣ Measure the right length — usually your entire arm’s length — to insert through<br />

the hole of the egg to the other side of the egg through the opposite hole.<br />

‣ The wide end is the part you insert into your vagina.<br />

‣ Pull the string through the hole so that the egg is in the center of the string and<br />

there are equal amounts of string on either side.<br />

‣ Tie a double knot right right on top of the jade egg.


‣ You can also tie a knot with the loose ends so it’s easier to grasp. There are other<br />

ways to string/knot it, but this is my favorite so play around with it!<br />

‣ If the string happens to come out during your practice, not to worry, you can see<br />

more on birthing the egg out naturally in a coming section.<br />

‣ If you need to, cut the string so that there is about 6-7 inches of string that you<br />

can use to pull or guide the egg out with. You can always trim it if it seems too<br />

long for your liking. <br />

CLEANSING YOUR JADE EGG BEFORE & AFTER USE<br />

There are a several methods for cleansing your jade egg for the first time and<br />

whenever you feel like it needs to be thoroughly cleansed afterwards. Here are<br />

some popular options:<br />

• Place your jade egg in a heatproof bowl or dish. Boil a small pot of water, remove<br />

from heat, pour the hot water over your jade egg into the dish and let it soak for<br />

5-10 minutes. Make sure to remove with tongs or something that will prevent you<br />

from getting burned by the egg. Allow it to cool for an hour before use. You can<br />

also use this method to warm your jade egg up for use — just make sure it’s<br />

warm, NOT hot, before inserting into your vagina. The warmth can be extra<br />

yummy!<br />

• Hot or warm water with a few drops each of tea tree oil and lavender essential oil<br />

(both organic).<br />

• Soak it in a dish of water with pink Himalayan salt overnight.<br />

• Cleanse your egg under a full moon (energetically and spiritually).<br />

• Cleanse your egg with sage, palo santo or other smudge herbs, which is great to<br />

do on the new and full moon each month. Or whenever you feel as though your<br />

egg needs to let go of some old energy.<br />

• Cleanse your egg with natural soap (I love castile soap by Dr. Bronner’s in<br />

lavender or rose hemp scent) or just hot water in between each use. Use your own<br />

judgement here.


AN IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT CLEANING DRILLED EGGS: You will notice if you<br />

are using a drilled egg (which has holes) that sometimes your vaginal fluids and<br />

mucus will get lodged inside of the the holes.<br />

You can simply blast hot water through each side of the hole to loosen and remove<br />

the residue.<br />

Sometimes I put my mouth to the hole and blow through it. This might seem gross<br />

or weird to you, but it’s YOUR pussy and fluids. I invite you to build a healthier, and<br />

more loving and intimate relationship with your body.<br />

No need for shame or feeling disgusted by your pussy and bodily fluids. Easier said<br />

than done sometimes, but honestly, using the jade egg will help you become more<br />

comfortable with your body and the fluids she produces.<br />

Alright, lover. Let’s get into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #1!


JADE EGG<br />

SECRET<br />

#1<br />

Your breath is key to<br />

accessing your<br />

sexual energy


JADE EGG SECRET #1<br />

Your Breath is Key to Accessing<br />

Your Sexual Energy<br />

While you’re doing these exercises (and more advance exercises that will be offered<br />

in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery course, which focus primarily on awakening,<br />

circulating, directing and storing sexual energy), you will begin to feel your sexual<br />

energy awakening and beginning to move around your body.<br />

‣ It may feel like a buzzing or electrical current in your body or cells. You may feel<br />

ecstatic, euphoric or super energized. You may feel turned on, wet and open or<br />

feel tingly in certain parts of your body.<br />

‣ You may notice this energy in any of the breathing exercises from the previous<br />

chapters and it will awaken even more as you do practices with your egg in.<br />

‣ You might feel energized, aroused and TURNED ON and your libido may feel<br />

supercharged.<br />

‣ You might feel extra creative and notice that you can get more done in less time,<br />

with more ease.<br />

That’s your sexual energy at work.


Using Your Sexual Energy<br />

Simple rituals to harness & store your sexual<br />

energy<br />

SEXUAL POWER CENTER<br />

When you’re done with your jade egg practice or anything that stirs up sexual<br />

energy, you’ll want to always store your sexual energy in your ‘Sexual Power<br />

Center,’ which is near your sacral chakra in your womb space/lower belly and back.<br />

Why do you want to store your sexual energy?<br />

Because this energy is your life-force, vitality and source of abundance, creativity<br />

and turn on. It’s YOURS, therefore, you want it to remain inside of you. You don’t<br />

want it to leak out and leave you feeling depleted, sluggish, turned off and tapped<br />

out of your creativity.<br />

You want to store it within your body so you can glow from the inside out, feel<br />

radiant, TURNED ON and filled with pleasure, creativity, abundance and joy, which<br />

then radiates out into the external world— not the other way around.<br />

Imagine all of your sexual energy flowing into your Sexual Power Center, which is 2<br />

fingers below your navel and about an inch and a half in towards your spine.<br />

Then take your hands, palms facing down, and rub them first counter-clockwise<br />

over your Sexual Power Center and navel region 9 times (this collects and amplifies<br />

your sexual energy) and then switching directions and circling your palms clockwise<br />

9 times (this packs and stores it), packing your sexual energy into this spot,<br />

containing it deeply within you.<br />

WATERFALL & GLOBE OF LIGHT<br />

You can actually do this protection/storing ritual any time you like, but it works<br />

great to use after you store the energy in your Sexual Power Center. I like to do this


itual before I leave my house, when I’m in public or around others to keep my<br />

sexual energy contained and for me to use as I like.<br />

Imagine a waterfall of warm, golden light or nectar pouring out of the cosmos,<br />

filling your whole entire body from head to toe.<br />

Feel it as if it’s warm honey or some kind of sacred nectar or white hot heat and<br />

light filling you, consuming you. Then imagine this expanding out and around you,<br />

enveloping you in a globe of light.<br />

You are now completely protected and safe. This will only allow good to come in<br />

and good to go out. You can even recite that mantra aloud to yourself as you<br />

envision this waterfall and globe of light filling you and encircling you completely.<br />

You can stretch it out even further to cover some of the air surrounding you or you<br />

can keep it tight around your body, like a latex suit.<br />

Are you ready to dive into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #2?


JADE EGG<br />

SECRET<br />

#2<br />

Your pelvic floor is like a<br />

trampoline for your<br />

pleasure & sexual energy


JADE EGG SECRET #2<br />

Your Pelvic Floor is Like a Trampoline for<br />

Your Pleasure & Sexual Energy<br />

Now that you know more about your sexual energy and how breath is the key to<br />

accessing, circulating and moving it up your spine, down the front or moving it into<br />

your whole body, let’s get into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #2!<br />

Your pelvic floor muscles act like a trampoline that pumps your sexual energy and<br />

pleasure (usually felt as arousal or turn on) up the back of your spine and down<br />

your front. Or up into other parts of your body or chakras.<br />

Every time you squeeze and release or pulse your pelvic floor muscles, those<br />

muscles are like a pleasurable trampoline sending your sexual energy upwards into<br />

the rest of your body.<br />

Whether it’s your perineum, anus, vaginal opening or the different sections of your<br />

vagina that you’re squeezing, they all pump your energy upwards. Playing with the<br />

different sections of your vagina or pulsing the muscles near your perineum or anus<br />

may have different effects on the raising and circulation of your sexual energy.<br />

That’s what makes the jade egg practice so enjoyable! There’s countless ways to<br />

squeeze and release your muscles in a sequence that feel good and allow you to<br />

raise your sexual energy for whole body or multiple orgasms.<br />

Very soon you’ll be learning a few easy jade egg practices you can do that will help<br />

you use your pelvic floor like a trampoline for your pleasure and sexual energy!<br />

Now it’s time to go deeper into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> #3 and #4!


JADE EGG<br />

SECRET<br />

#3<br />

Your vagina is<br />

artciulate & ogasmic


JADE EGG SECRET #3<br />

Your Vagina is Articulate & Orgasmic!<br />

Your vagina is naturally meant to be strong and toned, supple and flexible AND<br />

articulate like a hand.<br />

This means you can isolate different sections of the vagina to massage the jade egg<br />

up and down your vaginal canal using the pelvic floor muscles.<br />

Think about how you can use you hand to massage a man’s cock (or a dildo) for<br />

pleasure and helping him reach orgasm.<br />

Your vagina is capable of being able to do this too. Massaging a cock, dildo, finger,<br />

jade egg, etc. for YOUR pleasure and your partner’s pleasure.<br />

Your pussy is naturally meant to be open, receptive and lubricated.<br />

Your pussy is naturally orgasmic — beyond just experiencing external clitoral<br />

orgasms.<br />

Sadly, this isn’t the experience for most women nowadays for many reasons:<br />

‣ Not having proper sexual education and pelvic floor health information.<br />

‣ Experiencing rough births or less natural birthing methods.<br />

‣ Sitting on the pelvis all day long in masculine style jobs.<br />

‣ Not being taught about our natural orgasmic nature as women — multi-orgasmic,<br />

highly orgasmic, whole body orgasmic!<br />

‣ Things like stress incontinence, being influenced by society’s views of the “perfect<br />

pussy,” sexual shame, trauma and disconnection from our sexuality and pussy.<br />

‣ The list goes on!<br />

So let’s move beyond the concept of having a weak pelvis and vagina being the<br />

common, normal state and experience for women. Let’s reclaim our highly, multi,<br />

whole body orgasmic nature as women!!! This requires us to understand our<br />

sexual energy and pleasure at the most primal, basic level first and foremost…


JADE EGG<br />

SECRET<br />

#4<br />

Sexual energy is arousal<br />

on a primal level


JADE EGG SECRET #4<br />

Sexual Energy is Arousal on a Primal Level!<br />

When women start working with the jade egg practice, sometimes it’s difficult for<br />

them to have an awareness of what their sexual energy feels like.<br />

This is normal and common and it’s something you can work with!<br />

The easiest way to understand your sexual energy and begin FEELING it and moving<br />

it up your spine or into your whole body (or parts of your body) is to know that<br />

sexual energy is essentially just arousal.<br />

It’s your TURN ON.<br />

When you feel turned on and horny that is your sexual energy at it’s most basic,<br />

primal level.<br />

You can use the 8,000 nerve endings of your clitoris to begin working with sexual<br />

energy in the form of arousal.<br />

As you are feeling pleasure in your swelling clitoris (or even in your vagina) you can<br />

use the more primal, localized arousal as your focal point.<br />

Once you focus on the pleasure swelling there, you can use your breath, pelvic floor<br />

(the pleasure trampoline) to pump the energy up and your mind’s eye for<br />

imagination purposes to RAISE the energy up as a sensation.<br />

Sometimes it feels like a buzzing, tingling or electric sensation. The more you work<br />

with it and move it using pelvic floor squeezes and breath work, the more you’ll feel<br />

it in your whole body or actually flowing up and down.<br />

You can imagine it as a color, temperature or sensation.<br />

You can imagine it as warm, golden light or flowing water or fire.<br />

But often, it helps to FEEL and LOCATE your arousal — the most primal version of<br />

your sexual energy — and BREATHE it up into your body. You can also use your


hands to massage the energy upwards from your clitoris, vagina or pelvis up into<br />

your womb, belly, breasts, heart, neck, face and brain.<br />

Now that you understand more about your sexual energy at a more primal, basic<br />

level….let’s dive deep into how you can work with your sexual energy on a<br />

higher, more orgasmic and creative level to help you create the orgasmic body<br />

and life of your wildest desires!<br />

Allow me to introduce you to <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #5…


JADE EGG<br />

SECRET<br />

#5<br />

Sexual energy is<br />

creative energy


JADE EGG SECRET #5<br />

Sexual Energy is Creative Energy!<br />

Did you know that you can create with your sexual energy? It’s the energy that you<br />

and I are both born from and have within us naturally.<br />

THE JADE EGG: Vessel of Fertility — allowing you to infuse your intention into<br />

your jade egg and use the power of your sexual energy, pussy and womb to CREATE<br />

whatever it is that you desire.<br />

Here are some things I’ve used my jade egg to call in, create, manifest or receive:<br />

‣ Heal my skin (I used to struggle with terrible acne on my face, back and even<br />

chest) … now it radiates and glows, because I’m accessing my pleasure, sexual<br />

energy and orgasm<br />

‣ Call in an aligned lover who is a true partner in life and sex<br />

‣ Call in amazing clients who I adore in my online courses, programs or sexuality<br />

mentoring and coaching<br />

‣ Manifest thousands of dollars on a monthly basis through my passion and<br />

pleasure<br />

‣ Make a bigger impact than I ever dreamed was possible…and this is only the<br />

beginner for ME! What’s possible for YOU?<br />

Here’s a simple model you can reference to understand how your egg, and even<br />

your womb and pussy, are vessels of fertility. Every time I go to the use the jade<br />

egg, I’ll hold it and infuse an intention into it for that practice. It can be something<br />

as simple as “love,” “abundance” or “forgiveness.” See below for more information. <br />

Infusing Intention or Desire —> Gestation/Cultivation in the Womb —> Birth/<br />

Manifestation of Desire


1. First, you infuse your intention or desire into the jade egg AND the feelings of<br />

what that would feel like to manifest/embody/achieve/have. Really feel into how<br />

that would feel for you.<br />

2. Then, you place the egg inside of you.<br />

3. Next, you work with your sexual energy and feminine energy of your womb<br />

(which allows you to RECEIVE your desire) through various jade egg, massage<br />

and breathing exercises to cultivate and gestate what you desire.<br />

4. Lastly, you ‘birth’ the intention or desire out into the physical world through<br />

manifestation. <br />

HERE’S A GOOD EXAMPLE:<br />

1. I infuse my intention of ‘I want to call in an open, honest lover’ into the egg. I call<br />

in the feelings of what it would be like to engage with this lover and infuse those<br />

FEELINGS into the egg. This is a crucial step. Imagine it swirling like golden<br />

light into your egg, impregnating it.<br />

2. I sip the egg inside of my pussy and do jade egg exercises.<br />

3. Along with the jade egg exercises, I do breathing exercises, dance and harness<br />

my sexual and feminine energies to become magnetic as a woman and allow my<br />

desire to come to fruition. <br />

I also may be required to take physical action in the world, like being open to<br />

someone who asks me on a date (as long as it feels like a YES in my body) or<br />

getting clarity on the qualities I want in an ideal lover and only dating people<br />

who match that or exceed it. This is not a totally passive concept - it takes work<br />

and action, but the more you work with your sexual energy, the more fun and<br />

ease-filled it becomes.<br />

4. I enjoy the manifestation as I come together with an aligned partner and lover!<br />

This is just an example, but you get the idea. It can be applied to anything you<br />

want!<br />

By the way, I go more in depth on the concepts of sexual energy, using your jade<br />

egg to create your desires and cleansing the womb and pussy in my digital salon


<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery, which is my 9-week online course teaching you how to<br />

use a jade egg to go from vaginal numbness to deep vaginal pleasure, overflowing<br />

lubrication and whole body orgasms!<br />

If you’re reading this ebook right now, you’re already on the list to be notified when<br />

doors opens for the next live round.<br />

Now let’s touch on how to go deeper with your jade egg and sexual energy!<br />

Going Deeper with Your<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Practice<br />

The power of your jade egg, womb & pussy<br />

Now that you know the basics of the jade egg itself and how to clean it before use,<br />

let’s go a little deeper into the power of your jade egg, womb and pussy.<br />

CONNECTING WITH YOUR JADE EGG<br />

I always recommend that my clients and other women I know who are about to<br />

begin their own jade egg practice connect with the egg first.<br />

What do I mean by that? Well, you are sticking this egg in your vagina and a lot of<br />

women (myself included for a long time) may have trauma, numbness, hesitations<br />

or anxiety around just sticking something new inside of their vaginas.<br />

I think it’s wise to build a relationship with the egg before you let it get deep inside<br />

of you! Court the egg and let it warm up to you and you to it—no Netflix and Chill<br />

with your egg, ok? haha<br />

But really, it’s good to connect with the egg first, because it lets you get connected<br />

with the energy and presence of the jade properties (which I listed in the first<br />

section about Why Nephrite <strong>Jade</strong>).


Crystals are very healing on their own and the vibrations will begin to activate as<br />

you bond with it (touching it, holding it, meditating with it) and then when you go a<br />

step further and take it inside of you, you’ll get those supercharged healing<br />

properties amplified by the power of your pussy and sexual energy.<br />

Here are some sensual, powerful, and erotically fun ways to connect with and<br />

date your egg before taking it inside of you:<br />

• Sleep with it under your pillow. The jade egg can help with dream retention, good<br />

dreams and even sex dreams. I’ve been able to experience sex dream orgasms<br />

many times since starting with the had egg…mmm.<br />

• Place it in your bra, bandeau or top if you can and wear it nestled between your<br />

breasts so it can stir up some of that intimate, loving, sensual energy located in<br />

your heart and breasts.<br />

• Meditate with it in the palm of your hand, with both hands cradling it, or even<br />

with it nestled by your naked (or clothed) pussy.<br />

• Put it in your bath water while you bathe and feel the energy supercharge the<br />

healing waters with even more sexual energy and love.<br />

• Do a guided meditation that allows you to infuse your dreams and desires into the<br />

egg or you can simply tell your egg what you desire and imagine those desires<br />

swirling into the egg like a brilliant, white light. Every day you can infuse an<br />

intention, desire, or wish into it or you can focus on the same intention or desire! <br />

I actually lead you through a guided jade egg desire meditation in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />

Sexual Mastery course.<br />

EXAMPLES: I desire to call in an honest, open lover. My intention is to be open to<br />

love today. I desire to manifest a trip to Bali. I desire to receive x amount of<br />

money. My intention is to play every day and feel good in my body.<br />

• Keep the egg near you (by your pussy is especially powerful) while you work, play<br />

or relax.


• Place the jade egg on different parts of your body while you lie down in<br />

meditation. Heart chakra/heart space, Solar Plexus chakra/upper belly, Sacral<br />

chakra/womb space, etc.<br />

• Get creative! How else can you connect with your egg and invite it into your daily,<br />

morning and nighttime rituals and routines?<br />

CLEANSING THE WOMB & PUSSY<br />

One of the most powerful and healing things you can do before you begin using a<br />

jade egg internally is to energetically cleanse your womb space and pussy. Why?<br />

Because these regions, along with your breasts, store the most trauma, shame, pain<br />

and blocked or stuck sexual energy.<br />

You want to clear and cleanse the womb and pussy so that you can then imprint<br />

what you actually want to experience in the cellular memory.<br />

So we cleanse and detox before imprinting in the new — helping you essentially<br />

return back to your original sexual blueprint of orgasmic wholeness.<br />

You can do this through meditation, visualization or doing some kind of self-love<br />

cleansing ritual where you bathe your womb and pussy in water, love and light<br />

(whether physically or imaginatively.)<br />

It’s helpful to cleanse your womb and pussy before you insert your fresh, clean<br />

(energetically and physically speaking) jade egg inside.<br />

Let’s move into <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #6…


JADE EGG<br />

SECRET<br />

#6<br />

Orgasm is a<br />

state of being


JADE EGG SECRET #6<br />

Orgasm is a state of being!<br />

We’ve been taught that orgasm is limited to the explosive sensation of a clitoral<br />

orgasm. The release of built-up sexual tension in the genitals, resulting in the<br />

contraction and release of the pelvic floor muscles and reproductive organs.<br />

Orgasm is much deeper and expansive than that limited definition. Orgasm is a<br />

state of BEING!<br />

What I live and teach my clients is that orgasm is a path of being, living and<br />

embodying the feeling of orgasm, even if you don’t have a climax.<br />

It’s feeling waves of ecstasy and pleasure at any time, not just upon climax and<br />

release in your genitals. I do believe that every woman is capable of having an<br />

orgasm (climax) so if that is what’s stopping you, shift your mindset around it so<br />

you can open and surrender.<br />

But can you allow yourself to BECOME your orgasm? Become ORGASMIC in a state of<br />

how you are living and being.<br />

This will allow you to find orgasmic sensations from things like…<br />

‣ Drinking a glass of fresh spring water with a slice of juicy, sour lemon. Feeling the<br />

cool water slide down your throat. Finding pleasure in each sip and swallow.<br />

‣ Sensually rubbing a piece of raw organic chocolate over your lips, teasing yourself<br />

and slowly tasting it with the tip of your tongue.<br />

‣ Feeling your jade egg swirling and twisting around your vaginal opening,<br />

seducing your vagina to open.<br />

‣ Inhaling the romantic, floral scent of a bouquet of red roses, closing your eyes<br />

and smiling as you take it deep into your lungs and feel the soft, petals gently<br />

tickling your nose.


So you’ve been initiated into BEING ORGASMIC…now let’s go deeper and explore<br />

how your WHOLE BODY is ORGASMIC through <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret #7…<br />

The final <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Secret for more pleasure &<br />

deeper orgasms!


JADE EGG<br />

SECRET<br />

#7<br />

Your whole body<br />

is orgasmic


JADE EGG SECRET #7<br />

Your Whole Body is Orgasmic!<br />

You’ve been learning about the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> <strong>Secrets</strong> for more pleasure and deeper<br />

orgasms throughout this entire ebook. Using the jade egg will help you extend,<br />

expand and deepen your orgasms.<br />

If you’ve never had an orgasm, or at least not a vaginal orgasm before, then this<br />

next secret will help you tap into the whole body orgasm!<br />

It’s not just your clitoris — or even your pussy — that is capable of orgasm.<br />

You just learned about how orgasm is a state of BEING.<br />

You can have clitoral, g-spot, deep vagina, cervical, multiple, energy, breath, whole<br />

body orgasms, etc.!<br />

Your skin is your largest erogenous, orgasmic zone, because you can train your<br />

entire body to feel sensual or orgasmic pleasure.<br />

Spend some time playing around with your WHOLE body and through raising your<br />

sexual energy, which naturally happens when you regularly use a jade egg practice,<br />

you can experience whole body orgasm bliss!


Warm-up Rituals<br />

Pleasurable, sensual rituals to open your<br />

body for jade egg use<br />

One of the most important parts of your jade egg practice starts before you even<br />

insert the egg into your pussy. Yes, that’s right. You want to feel TURNED ON in<br />

your body so that you easily open and receive the egg. Imagine your pussy like a<br />

rose at nighttime.<br />

If she’s all tight and curled inward, how easy will it be for her to open and take the<br />

egg in? Not very easy!<br />

Now imagine the red rose at sunrise, opening, unfurling, blossoming into the<br />

sunlight and still lightly saturated with morning drops of dew. It’s much easier to<br />

get your egg into your pussy when she’s open, lubricated, TURNED ON and ready to<br />

receive.<br />

I’m going to share some of my favorite rituals with you that you can try before<br />

using your jade egg, but feel free to mix and match. Play around with them, create<br />

your own or explore what your body does like (and what she doesn’t!)<br />

SECRET SEXY SQUEEZE<br />

This is one of my favorite quick and easy rituals that combines breathing with<br />

pulsing your pelvic floor muscles (also referred to as ‘Kegels’). <br />

What you do is inhale from your pussy, pulling up the pelvic floor muscles — the<br />

same muscles you squeeze to stop your urine flow — and inflate your belly. Hold<br />

for a count of three if you like. Exhale, deflating your belly and releasing the hold<br />

on your pelvic floor muscles completely.<br />

Make sure to relax your pelvic floor muscles completely on the exhale. The exhale<br />

and release of your pelvic floor muscles is just as important for creating an open,


supple and flexible pussy as the inhale and squeeze is, if not more, since most<br />

women have trouble fully relaxing in their pussies.<br />

Repeat as many times as you like. You can bring this into your meditation too.<br />

Inhale from your pussy as if she has a mouth (imagine her breathing in), inflate your<br />

belly and squeeze your pelvic floor muscles.<br />

Hold for a count of three.<br />

Exhale, deflate your belly and release the squeeze on your pelvic floor muscles.<br />

Relax fully and repeat.<br />

You can also squeeze and release your pelvic floor muscles quickly like you’re<br />

pulsing them pleasurably! Bringing your jade egg in will amplify the orgasmic<br />

bliss!<br />

MICROCOSMIC ORBIT<br />

The Microcosmic Orbit exercise is a Taoist breathing exercise that loops your<br />

sexual energy up the back of your spine and down your front. Sexual energy is<br />

typically felt in the genitals as turn on or pleasure, especially localized in the clitoris<br />

for women.<br />

I practice a more simplified version that isn’t as complicated.<br />

In Taoism the Microcosmic Orbit is meant to take your sexual energy up into your<br />

brain, which not only enhances sexual vitality and overall wellbeing, but also<br />

provides mental clarity in your brain, activating the pineal and pituitary glands.<br />

They also believed that harnessing your sexual energy or chi in the brain and mind<br />

helps you to balance the left and right hemispheres which can be used for spiritual<br />

energy as in reaching enlightenment or higher levels of consciousness.<br />

This is something you can bring into your normal meditation, which will awaken<br />

and circulate your sexual energy, therefore doing the same thing with your pleasure


and turn on, which means you can become more easily aroused, pleasured and<br />

orgasmic in your whole body, not just your genitals.<br />

Essentially this simplified microcosmic orbit can be brought in before you do a jade<br />

egg practice, during sex, self pleasure or as a breathing exercise and meditation in<br />

itself to feel more orgasmic.<br />

We’ll be working with three components: your breath, pelvic pulsations and your<br />

mind’s eye for visualization and imagination purposes.<br />

Sometimes when you’re first beginning to awaken and work with your sexual energy<br />

you may not be able to directly feel it so using your breath and mind’s eye will help<br />

move it along.<br />

This will also help you notice if your sexual energy gets stuck in a specific spot or<br />

area in your body.<br />

Here’s how to practice it, but feel free to adjust it to your needs.<br />

‣ Sit in a comfortable position or lying down. Easy pose (cross-legged) works.<br />

‣ Inhale, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles, which are the same muscles you<br />

squeeze to stop your flow of urine. Imagine squeezing and lifting up, which draws<br />

your sexual energy upwards.<br />

‣ As you do the inhale and squeeze, hold it and imagine your sexual energy<br />

gathering in your perineum, which is located between your anus and vaginal<br />

opening.<br />

‣ Hold for about 8 seconds and then exhale, release.<br />

‣ Do this this two more times to gather the energy in your perineum.<br />

‣ Now on the inhale, you are going to have a very gentle, but firm hold on your<br />

pelvic floor muscles as you inhale deeply down into your perineum and raise that<br />

energy up the back of your spine into your brain.


‣ Place your tongue at the roof of your mouth, behind your front teeth and keep it<br />

there to complete the circuit and prevent your sexual energy from leaking out of<br />

your mouth.<br />

‣ Exhale, visualizing your sexual energy flowing down your face, through your<br />

mouth and throat down through the center of your breasts and stomach and back<br />

into your perineum.<br />

‣ You’ll just keep inhaling it up the back of your spine and down your front on the<br />

exhale over and over, as long as you like. You can really pump the energy<br />

upwards with your vaginal muscles and slightly relax them on the exhale.<br />

I love to aim for five minutes a day. You can also rock against your heel to stimulate<br />

your clitoris making it even more pleasurable.<br />

SENSUAL OR EROTIC DANCE<br />

Create a special playlist of songs that you enjoy on YouTube or Spotify and allow<br />

your body to move freely. I love music that is sensual or erotic and it changes with<br />

my mood (I personally love anything by Enigma, Phaeleh or Erykah Badu).<br />

Don’t judge yourself as you move or any emotions that come up. Sometimes you<br />

need to rage dance, slow dance with yourself and other times you’ll feel really<br />

turned on and sexual while you dance.<br />

Let yourself play with it. Touch yourself. Claw yourself. Moan, laugh, jump up and<br />

down!<br />

I love a different mix of music, depending on my mood and my menstrual cycle.<br />

Some of my favorites for really sensual, erotic music are anything by Enigma, FKA<br />

Twigs, Lana Del Rey and other times I like really dirty rap, rock, heavy metal or even<br />

piano music if I want to tap into a gentler or even more sorrow side of my sexuality. <br />

HEART-OPENING BREAST MASSAGE


This is great to do as a daily practice as it reduces your risk of breast cancer,<br />

increases lymphatic flow and keeps your breasts perky and healthy.<br />

Warm up some oil in a double boiler (I love organic coconut oil) and feel free to add<br />

a few drops of rose hip oil, raspberry seed oil, jasmine or another sacred oil that<br />

opens your heart in a sensual way.<br />

Light some candles and incense if you like, turn on some sensual music and remove<br />

your clothes (or at least your top) in front of a mirror.<br />

Take some warm oil in between your palms and rub them together, generating that<br />

sexual energy.<br />

Place them on your heart and breathe in deeply three times, pulsing your pelvic<br />

floor muscles on each inhale and releasing on each exhale.<br />

Now begin to massage your breasts in whatever way feels good. Move in circles<br />

around the whole breast.<br />

Squeeze them, shake them, press into them. Knead them like bread dough.<br />

Move up, down, in, out.<br />

Let yourself explore each whole breast, your chest, underarms, and the area<br />

beneath your breasts as well.<br />

Save the nipples for last and feel free to circle around them with extra oil, feeling<br />

your pussy respond to the pleasure. You can even give them a gentle, or firm, if you<br />

prefer, squeeze.<br />

By the way, I’ll be sharing a really pleasurable Taoist Nipple Massage Ritual to take<br />

your breast massage—AND PLEASURE—to the next level in my <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual<br />

Mastery salon.


WOMB MASSAGE<br />

You can follow the beginning instructions for the Womb Massage as you did for the<br />

Heart-Opening Breast Massage ritual.<br />

Prepare your oil of choice, place your hands over your womb and breathe into our<br />

womb three times, squeezing and releasing your pelvic floor muscles.<br />

Then, play with different strokes, pressures, techniques to massage your belly,<br />

womb and lower abdomen. You can even move into the lower pelvis or massage<br />

your pubic mound and vulva too.<br />

Rub your palms in a wave-like motion from side to side over your belly.<br />

Circle around your belly button, feel into what feels good and healing for you.<br />

You may experience some pain if you have stored erotic energy or trauma. Just<br />

breathe deeply and play with the strokes and pressure.<br />

SELF-PLEASURE OR SELF-PUSSY MASSAGE<br />

If you’re comfortable touching your pussy you can try self-pleasuring, which I<br />

recommend you become comfortable with or your jade egg practice will be limited<br />

and your healing will be as well.<br />

If you need to start slow with this and only touch the vulva and not insert fingers<br />

inside of your vagina, then please take your time, but allow your sexual energy to<br />

awaken and build through breathing deeply and evenly regardless of whether you<br />

insert fingers (or even a pleasure wand, which is a dildo made of crystal) or not. I<br />

love a company called Chakrubs (www.chakrubs.com).<br />

You can start with one or a few of the other Warm-up Rituals before you explore<br />

your body and I suggest turning your WHOLE body on before touching your pussy.<br />

Women need to be sensually stimulated starting outwards and moving inwards and<br />

we require being turned on from head to to in order to open and lubricate fully for<br />

optimal pleasure and deeper, more expansive orgasms.<br />

The rituals above should help you do that.


You can also just massage your pussy (externally and/or internally) with warm<br />

coconut oil.<br />

Coconut oil is great for using in the genital region because it’s anti-fungal,<br />

anti-microbial, anti-bacterial and more.<br />

You may notice resistance, pain, numbness, or stuck emotions or sexual energy<br />

surfacing if you stroke your clitoris, g-spot or even your cervix. Just keep breathing<br />

and know that you can slow down or stop anytime you need to and come back<br />

another time.<br />

Healing does take time so be compassionate, patient and loving with yourself. <br />

If you need deeper support with releasing trauma, shame, pain, or past<br />

experiences, please feel free to reach out to me or another mentor who offers<br />

private coaching for sensual and sexual healing. A module on releasing trauma and<br />

healing sexually will be offered in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery course as well.<br />

One thing to keep in mind is that you’ll want to become familiar with the inner<br />

regions of your vagina so that you can move on to other exercises, either now or<br />

later on in the future.<br />

Let me break it down quickly for you and feel free to use the Self-Pleasure/Self-<br />

Pussy Massage Ritual to feel them out and get to know them better, which will make<br />

your jade egg practice go more smoothly too.<br />

The vaginal canal is divided into three regions/sections.<br />

Vaginal Canal: 3- Sections<br />

OPENING <br />

The opening of your vagina, where you insert the egg. <br />

MIDDLE <br />

Usually the first few inches in or so, depending on how deep your vaginal canal is.<br />

Your vagina does expand and deepen the more aroused you are, which is why the<br />

Warm-up Rituals are highly recommended.


CERVIX<br />

This is where your cervix is located back the deepest and furthers. The egg can’t go<br />

beyond this point, by the way, so it won’t get stuck inside of you forever or get lost<br />

somewhere else in your body. The cervix is actually rounded and may feel like the<br />

cartilage in the tip of your nose.<br />

It’s somewhat hard and may experience a lot of pain if you are shut down in the<br />

heart (remember that Taoist connection between your heart and cervix?), have<br />

experienced sexual trauma or you hold a lot of deep shame within your body. It<br />

may also feel painful if you aren’t fully aroused.


Basic <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Exercises<br />

Inserting & using the jade egg internally<br />

Now that you’ve been lead through the sensual, magical, and super practical<br />

methods for cleansing, connecting with and infusing your egg with delicious<br />

intentions while getting yourself all warmed up, it’s time to learn how to insert and<br />

practice with your egg internally!<br />

By the way, I’m so proud of you for getting this far. You are an absolute Goddess so<br />

make sure to take some time to celebrate YOU today. Buy yourself some red roses.<br />

Eat a piece of raw chocolate. Take a hot bath. Massage your breasts with oil.<br />

Whatever it is, let yourself soak up every drop of pleasure! You deserve it, lover.<br />

What you’ll need is your naked body, your jade egg (no string looped through it if<br />

you have a drilled egg), some coconut oil and a comfortable place to lie down. I<br />

suggest a yoga mat or your bed.<br />

Make sure the space you’re in is private, makes you feel safe (THIS IS SUPER<br />

IMPORTANT) and has a sensual, or even erotic, vibe. (I love red roses, red silk<br />

sheets, fluffy blankets and sensual Egyptian Musk incense burning personally).<br />

I like lighting candles, turning on some music, and making sure my heat is on so I<br />

don't get chilly.<br />

You can lock the door and let your partner, kids, lover, etc. know you need some<br />

privacy and alone time.<br />

We’re going to begin by going over <strong>Egg</strong> Discernment, then moving into sipping the<br />

egg in gently and then I’ll share a few basic, simple exercises you can do with the<br />

egg in.


<strong>Egg</strong> Discernment<br />

This allows your body to determine whether she wants to receive the egg on any<br />

given day or not. This is a practice you’ll want to do every single time you go to use<br />

the egg, because sometimes your vagina won’t want to receive the egg (and you’ll<br />

KNOW and FEEL it), which means you probably shouldn’t force it.<br />

The best thing to do is to put a small amount of coconut oil on your jade egg and<br />

place it near your vaginal opening.<br />

Then, start to swirl it around the area surrounding your vaginal opening, pleasuring<br />

yourself with it. You can also do a twisting or light pulsing motion. Feel free to<br />

moan if it feels good. Let yourself play with the egg on the outside of your whole<br />

vulva (around the inner and outer lips, pubic mound, near the perineum, etc.) and<br />

near your vaginal opening— whatever feels good.<br />

This is also how you learn what you like sexually—WHAT TURNS YOU ON and<br />

AWAKENS YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY.<br />

When it feels right or you feel your vagina naturally wanting to suck the egg in, ask<br />

your pussy and body aloud (or in your mind if you can’t say it aloud for some<br />

reason) if she wants to receive the egg today.<br />

Then, wait patiently for a response. You’ll be able to tell with practice, if not right<br />

away.<br />

Usually you can look for expansion (YES) vs contraction (NO), pulsing deliciously<br />

(YES) or seeming to push away (NO), feeling open, wet, and desirous for the egg<br />

(YES) or or feeling dry, shut down and numb (NO).<br />

You may even notice hardness or softness (or other signs) in your heart and/or<br />

womb. Perhaps in other areas of your body, too.<br />

Expansion, softening, opening, pleasure, pulsing and warmth flooding through<br />

your body or pussy is a good sign it’s a YES.<br />

Contraction, numbness, dryness, shutting down, closing off, hardness,<br />

tightness or feeling pain is a sign it’s a NO.


IMPORTANT: But, you also want to discern between resistance to going deeper in<br />

your healing and awakening journey and actually experiencing a threshold you<br />

simply can’t cross right now (due to past trauma).<br />

Gently try to push the egg in a little bit to see if it’s resistance to using the egg and<br />

if so, feel free to proceed when I explain the next step.<br />

If it feels traumatic, simply stop trying to push it in and just hold the egg at your<br />

vaginal opening for a few minutes per day BREATHING DEEPLY and just know that<br />

your body is doing great telling you what she’s ready for and what she isn’t ready<br />

for.<br />

Holding the egg at your vaginal opening while breathing deeply every day until she<br />

starts to feel like a YES will calm your nervous system and de-armor your vaginal<br />

opening, rewiring your brain’s neural pathways to associate something near your<br />

vaginal opening as SAFE and OK and eventually, pleasurable.<br />

Be gentle and compassionate and then let yourself rest (Savasana like in Yoga is<br />

great).<br />

Now that you you’re body is ready, or ready enough if you have some resistance, to<br />

taking the egg in, you’re going to learn how to ‘sip’ the egg in…<br />

Sipping the <strong>Egg</strong> In<br />

With the egg still at the entrance of your vaginal open, begin to pulse your pelvic<br />

floor muscles slowly as if you were trying to ‘sip’ the egg in.<br />

Imagine your vaginal opening is a mouth sucking through a straw and drawing the<br />

egg in. This does take practice, but as you pulse, the egg will start to come in and<br />

as you release and relax, the egg will drop in even further.<br />

The tissue in our pussy is energetically linked with the tissue in your mouth, throat<br />

and jaw so if you form an ‘O’ with your mouth (like you’re drinking through a straw)<br />

and inhale through your O-shaped mouth, then your pussy will respond accordingly<br />

and make it easier to sip the egg in.


Relaxing your entire mouth, throat and jaw on the exhale helps your pelvic floor<br />

relax too, letting the egg slip in further.<br />

You can lift your hips up off the bed or floor, which allows you to access the deeper<br />

vaginal canal easier.<br />

If you struggle with this at first, just push the egg in very gently and slowly and see<br />

if you can start to sip it in from there. If need be, just guide the egg in with your<br />

fingertips, slowly and gently.<br />

You want the egg to go beyond just the opening of our vagina so it feels as though<br />

it will stay in on its own when you remove your fingers.<br />

The Warm-up Rituals are all great because they involve pulsing your pelvic floor<br />

muscles, which helps you with sipping your egg in and taking it into your vagina<br />

further.<br />

EXERCISE 1: HIP CIRCLES<br />

With your egg inserted into your vaginal canal completely, plant your feet near your<br />

butt. Your knees should be facing upward, bent. This is the first position of Bridge<br />

Pose in Yoga, before you lift up your hips, of course.<br />

Now that you’re stationed comfortable, begin to circle your hips clockwise.<br />

Imagine that you have a point at 12 o’clock, 3 o’clock, 6 o’clock, and 9 o’clock that<br />

your hips are hitting as you rotate.<br />

Feel what’s going on inside of your vagina as you circle your hips. Make sure you’re<br />

breathing deeply into your pussy.<br />

Circle your hips clockwise six times.<br />

Then, switch and go counter-clockwise six times, breathing deeply, feeling into the<br />

sensations going on inside of your vagina.<br />

EXERCISE 2: PELVIC LIFTS


You’ll want to begin in the same position as the last exercise, Hip Circles, on your<br />

back with your feet planted near your butt, knees pointing upward.<br />

The Pelvic Lifts exercise is basically using your jade egg in Bridge Pose in Yoga.<br />

Inhale, raise your hips up so they’re parallel with the floor beneath you, squeeze<br />

and hold your pelvic floor muscles around the jade egg for a count of three while<br />

holding your breath as well.<br />

Exhale, release the hold on your egg and drop your butt back down to the floor<br />

gently. Remain here for a count of three so your pussy can rest. The inhale and hold<br />

up and exhale and release down is one rep.<br />

Repeat five more times so you’re doing a total of six reps.<br />

EXERCISE 3: FOOT ROTATIONS<br />

Remain lying down on your back. Stretch your legs out so you’re lying in a similar<br />

position to Savasana (Corpse Pose in Yoga).<br />

You want there to be enough space in between your feet so that you can roll your<br />

ankles inward and your big toes will gently touch one another.<br />

Now let your feet fall back to normal position, facing upward mostly. Curl your toes<br />

backwards towards your body and keep them that way as you continue, which pulls<br />

on the nerves and muscles leading to your vaginal canal.<br />

Inhale, rolling your ankles inward so that your big toes meet.<br />

Hold for a count of three, noticing the sensations present in your vaginal canal<br />

around the egg. Allow your pussy to be relaxed, but feel your muscles around the<br />

egg.<br />

Now exhale, rolling your feet in the complete opposite direction so that your pinky<br />

toes touch (or almost touch) the floor.<br />

Hold for a count of three, noticing the sensations present in your vagina around the<br />

jade egg when your feet are in this position.


It’s basically a windshield wiper type motion with your feet, toes curled back.<br />

Slowly, of course, since you’re holding each for a count of three.<br />

Repeat the whole thing (inhale, rolling feet inward, hold for three, exhale, rolling<br />

feet outward, hold for three) six times.<br />

There is another basic exercise (before we get into the deeper jade egg practices)<br />

that I will be offering in the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery course as well, but these<br />

three are a really good start to your new practice!<br />

WEARING THE EGG AROUND<br />

Another basic exercise is to simply wear your egg around while you do normal daily<br />

activities. You can dance with it in, bathe with it in, make love with it in, wear it to<br />

work or out for drinks with your girlfriends.<br />

Imagine all of that juicy, sexual energy swirling around inside of you, making you<br />

magnetic, alluring and radiant to those around you!<br />

This energy (your sexual energy) goes EVERYWHERE with you. It’s always inside of<br />

you and the jade egg practice helps you awaken it and tap into the sacred power of<br />

your sexual energy and sensuality.<br />

I recommend starting with the three basic exercises first, especially if you have a<br />

very weak pelvic floor.<br />

Why? Because if your pelvic floor is weak and you stand up and your egg drops out<br />

immediately, then it won’t be as easy for you to wear it around.<br />

This is something you’ll have to explore on your own to see how strong your pelvic<br />

floor muscles are.<br />

IMPORTANT THING TO CONSIDER: I only recommend keeping the egg in for an<br />

hour if this is your first use. Otherwise 8 hours is the maximum — because I see<br />

the jade egg as a practice and if you want sustainable, real change in your vagina,<br />

sexual energy and orgasmic potential, then you’ll want to do different exercises.<br />

It’s not just about strength. It’s also about the relax phase. You need an exhale to<br />

your inhale and a release to your squeeze.


This because you want to allow your pelvic floor time to relax. You wouldn’t go to<br />

the gym and hold up a 20 lb weight for 8 hours would you? The same thing for your<br />

pussy! Allow her time to rest, relax and grow stronger and more flexible, supple<br />

and toned in the relaxed phase too. This is why I recommend specific jade egg<br />

exercises as opposed to only wearing it around.<br />

Some women prefer to wear the egg around (with no string or weights attached)<br />

and allow the egg to stay in while doing things like dancing, grocery shopping, etc.<br />

Everyone is different, but you’ll learn through this practice how to trust your body<br />

and surrender to healing.<br />

I encourage you to play around with the exercises AND just wearing it around for a<br />

few hours if you like. Your body will let you know when she doesn’t want the egg in<br />

anymore.<br />

Typically you’ll experience a sensation of it trying to fall out or descend. Or you’ll<br />

feel a dull ache or just longing to ‘birth’ the egg out. Now you’re going to learn how<br />

to remove or ‘birth’ the egg out safely and comfortably!<br />

Removing the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />

Masculine vs Feminine Removal Techniques<br />

When you’re ready to remove the egg (unless it slid out on its own already), you can<br />

take two approaches.<br />

The first approach is what I consider to be a more ‘Masculine’ technique, involving<br />

removal of the egg through the string.<br />

The second approach is what I consider to be a more ‘Feminine’ technique, which<br />

involves you birthing the jade egg out, as if you were literally giving birth to a baby.<br />

Neither technique is right or wrong, but most of the time using the Feminine<br />

technique is more natural for how our bodies are produced to operate.


The approach you use may depend on whether you chose to attach string to your<br />

egg before you started wearing it around or doing the exercises.<br />

I typically recommend doing the feminine approach whenever possible since it’s<br />

natural for your pussy to ‘birth’ things out, just like it’s natural for you to ‘sip’ and<br />

receiving things into your vagina.<br />

Of course, our bodies have been through a lot over the years, whether due to<br />

trauma, having children, aging, injuries, etc. so what’s ‘natural’ isn’t always<br />

common like it ideally should be.<br />

Your pussy should ideally be supple, strong, open, receptive and able to birth and<br />

that’s what the jade egg practice will help you create. You want your pussy to have<br />

the dexterity, flexibility and control similar to your hand. Not super tight, but open,<br />

receptive and soft with muscle control instead.<br />

Let me break down each technique for removal so you can feel into it and see what<br />

works best for you.<br />

You may have to start by using the masculine version first if your muscles aren’t<br />

strong enough to push it down and out or it may simply fall out on its own. Either<br />

way, just be patient with your body.<br />

FEMININE TECHNIQUE (BIRTHING)<br />

Give this technique a try before attempting the ‘Masculine’ version just to see how<br />

strong your pelvic floor is and if you can birth the egg out, then there’s no need to<br />

ever really pull the egg out.<br />

The easiest way is to squat down on the floor with your hips open and soft, then<br />

breathe deeply and bare down with your pelvic floor muscles, contracting and trying<br />

to push the egg down and out.<br />

If you feel it starting to slide down, keep squatting, breathing deeply, and baring<br />

down (lightly, but firmly) until it comes out all the way.


Make sure you have a towel or your hand below you so you can catch the egg. You<br />

don’t want it to fall on your tiled floor and potentially crack the tile.<br />

Sometimes if your pelvic floor muscles are really strong, you can simply push the<br />

egg down and out by standing with your feet a little wider than hip width apart,<br />

gently bending your knees, and gently pushing down while you breathe.<br />

This is more of an advanced approach though, but you can certainly give it a try as<br />

long as it feels comfortable and doesn’t cause you to strain.<br />

MASCULINE TECHNIQUE (STRING)<br />

If you used a string in your egg, start by squatting as comfortably as possible (get<br />

as low as you can) and try to push with your pelvic floor muscles, like you’re giving<br />

birth. Contract them and relax and release.<br />

If you don’t feel the egg moving, you can gently grab the string and slowly pull<br />

down, while still baring down to push it out.<br />

It’s kind of similar to when you’re constipated and you’re trying to push and bare<br />

down to release the waste from your body.<br />

If you have to pull on the string, go slowly and gently while breathing deeply. Don’t<br />

hold your breath or strain your muscles. Just try to relax in between each push and<br />

let it come out.<br />

Of course, if you can’t feel your muscles pulsing at all, just gently glide the egg out<br />

by slowly pulling it out with the string. Make sure to clean it once you’ve removed<br />

your egg. You can use any of the methods mentioned on cleansing the jade egg.


FAQ’s<br />

The answers to your jade egg questions<br />

I’m going to take a moment to answer all of the juicy, burning questions you may<br />

have around the jade egg. These are questions I get asked pretty often and<br />

questions I found myself asking or wondering to myself before beginning my own<br />

practice. You can also check out the Q&A video I made here.<br />

If you have any other questions that weren’t answered in this ebook, please don’t<br />

hesitate to join my private Facebook group for women The Sensually Embodied<br />

Woman Sisterhood. You’re also welcome to email me directly at<br />

amberleitz@sacredglow.com and I’ll happily support you in any way that I can, with<br />

pleasure, of course!<br />

Can the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> get stuck or lost inside of my vagina (or somewhere else in<br />

my body)?<br />

Nope, your vagina is a closed canal. The cervix is the end of the line when using<br />

your jade egg and prevents the egg from going any further!<br />

This means your egg won’t exit your vagina and float around somewhere in your<br />

body. No worries, lover. Your jade egg will be kept nestled deeply inside of your<br />

vagina by your beautifully magical cervix.<br />

The egg also can’t get stuck. You might find that your vagina naturally sucks the<br />

egg up further (to your cervix) and it may seem as though it’s stuck and never<br />

coming down.<br />

The best approach is to relax, trust your body and pussy’s timing and surrender.<br />

Sometimes your body needs to retain the egg longer for healing or deepening into<br />

your sexual energy. You can do some journaling, dancing or meditating with it in to<br />

see what’s coming up for you.<br />

Don’t panic or freak out. It won’t stay up there forever. You can try bearing down,<br />

laughing or if all else fails and you absolutely have to have the egg out, just insert<br />

your fingers and pull it down.


Eventually the egg will come out on its own after a few minutes, hours or days<br />

depending on the strength of your pelvic floor. If you’re truly worried about it, you<br />

can use a drilled egg and thread<br />

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some string through it for easy removal, although I recommend trying to use the<br />

Feminine approach described in Chapter 7 as much as possible.<br />

Can I use a jade egg while pregnant?<br />

I highly recommend that you reach out to your OB/GYN before starting or<br />

continuing a jade egg practice. It’s usually not recommended to use a jade egg until<br />

6-8 weeks after giving birth. You’ll definitely want to give your body and pelvic<br />

floor some time to rest and heal before diving into a jade egg practice, whether<br />

beginning or continuing.<br />

I personally recommend to wait for energetic reasons as well. When you have a<br />

baby, which is created using your sexual ‘life-force’ energy (which is your creative<br />

energy), a lot of that energy goes into the development and birth of the baby.<br />

Therefore, it’s good to let your energy be for a bit so you can heal your pussy AND<br />

restore the baseline of your sexual, creative energy.<br />

Can I use a jade egg while I’m menstruating?<br />

This is totally your call. I’ve found much pleasure and erotic delight in the past<br />

during my menstrual cycle while using my jade egg, but every woman’s body is<br />

different. Nowadays I don’t use my jade egg on my menstrual cycle (and typically<br />

don’t recommend it) since this is a good time to let things flow down and out, not<br />

to mention relaxing the pelvic floor muscles and uterus.<br />

Energetically our period is a time of shedding and releasing so you don’t want to<br />

obstruct the flow! But again, listen to YOUR body.<br />

Your vagina is naturally more sensitive during this time of your cycle and the<br />

positioning of your cervix is lower as well for the release of your menstrual blood.


I encourage you to use the <strong>Egg</strong> Discernment ritual from Chapter 6 to ask your body<br />

if she wants to use the egg or not on your period.<br />

On occasion my body likes to use the egg (and even have sex with it in) on my<br />

menstrual cycle, but most of the time my body doesn’t feel up to it. Just make sure<br />

to clean your egg really well if you choose to do so.<br />

I notice there are different sizes available online, what size jade egg should I<br />

use?<br />

You may see online that there are small, medium and large sized eggs. I<br />

recommend starting out with a medium sized jade egg as it’s the right weight and<br />

size for beginners and advanced jade egg practicers alike. I sell the medium sized,<br />

genuine Nephrite drilled jade egg here.<br />

The medium egg is the best size for beginners because you may have some<br />

numbness in your vagina, and the medium size will allow your vagina to feel the<br />

weight of the egg without the egg being too heavy and large to hold inside of you.<br />

It’s also normal if you don’t quite feel or notice the egg inside of you, depending on<br />

how numb your vagina is. All the more reason to devote to a practice 3-4x per<br />

week.<br />

A smaller sized egg is usually only recommended for those who’ve had a more<br />

advance jade egg practice since the smaller the egg, the less likely your vagina will<br />

‘feel’ the egg as you go about your day or do practices.<br />

I don’t think it’s necessary to have multiple eggs though. I’ve only been using<br />

medium for the few years that I’ve been practicing and it’s probably all I’ll ever use!<br />

What if my egg keeps falling out?<br />

If your egg keeps falling out, please try not to worry or stress about it. It simply<br />

means that your body will really benefit from using a jade egg and building up


supple strength, awakening your sexual energy and re-sensitizing the soft tissues<br />

of your vaginal canal.<br />

If it keeps falling out, just ‘sip’ it back in or gently pop it back in with your fingers.<br />

It takes time, patience and courage (plus a healthy dose of love and compassion) to<br />

heal and build up that delicious supple strength of your pussy again. Be as playful<br />

as possible about it!<br />

Is it safe to have sex or self-pleasure with the egg in?<br />

Yes it’s absolutely safe! However, some women are hesitant or afraid to try it. I<br />

encourage you to follow your own body, pussy and pleasure. Whatever erotically<br />

entices you, follow that. If you’re curious about self-pleasuring or making love with<br />

your egg in, give it a try.<br />

It’s not harmful and again, the egg won’t get stuck inside of you. Sure, you’ll want<br />

to inform your partner that your egg is in and to go slowly and gently at first so you<br />

can test it out. Depending on your erotic and sexual desires and tastes it may not<br />

feel amazing to you with hardcore pounding-style sex (or it might — you never<br />

know until you try!).<br />

I encourage you to be playful about this too and just allow yourself to explore. I’ve<br />

had some of the most intense orgasms from pleasuring myself or having sex with<br />

my jade egg in.<br />

Where can I purchase a jade egg?<br />

You can purchase one directly from my shop HERE. What does it come with?<br />

This is a medium 100% genuine Nephrite <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong>, sideways drilled, that comes in a<br />

small black velvet pouch PLUS you receive TWO free guided mp3 jade egg practice<br />

and an instructional video going over the basics of using a jade egg!


What if I want further support on my erotic jade egg journey?<br />

You can check out my salon <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery, which is<br />

transformational 9-week online course teaching you how to use a jade egg to go<br />

from vaginal numbness to deep vaginal pleasure, overflowing lubrication and whole<br />

body orgasms!<br />

If you’re reading this ebook right now, it means you’re most likely on the list to be<br />

one of the first to hear about it when doors open again. Yay!<br />

Will the jade egg help me with sexual healing?<br />

Yes! The jade egg has many practical benefits like strengthening the pelvic floor,<br />

keeping it soft and supple, and increasing your libido and lubrication in the vagina,<br />

but it also has some really magical benefits. Including sexual healing.<br />

The jade egg is a crystal made of jade, which helps to soak up trauma, blocks and<br />

pain through its natural vibrational frequency while awakening the sexual energy<br />

pathways (these are reflexology points and energetic meridians) within your pussy.<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> helps you to purify and release what no longer serves you while transmuting<br />

any pain into pleasure, fear into love and anxiety into ecstasy. It’s very Alchemical,<br />

but it’s also an emotional release and healing as you draw out negative, traumatic<br />

energy and blocks with the sacred gemstone egg.<br />

<strong>Jade</strong> is also excellent for the heart chakra, which can be tied to sexual shame,<br />

trauma and numbness. The density of the jade egg helps to reawaken the nerve<br />

endings, tissues, passion and sexual energy within your pussy, which then amplifies<br />

the healing of your sexuality.<br />

You can watch Heal Sexual Trauma & Release Shame With a <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> for more on<br />

this.<br />

Will the jade egg help me with achieving orgasm?<br />

The jade egg can definitely help you experience all kinds of vaginal orgasms<br />

(multiple, cervical, g-spot, etc.) and even energetic orgasms (whole body orgasms<br />

or orgasms in your chakras, for instance). Of course it does take time to heal, open


and blossom into your sensuality and awaken the sexual energy pathways within so<br />

it may not happen right away.<br />

Plus you want to keep your amount of sexual trauma, shame, pain and/or<br />

numbness in mind, which can prevent women from experiencing orgasm or climax.<br />

I always recommend to my clients and those who use the jade egg to practice<br />

without a goal or end in mind, such as climax/orgasm. Instead choose to see<br />

orgasm as a path. It’s a way of BEING, LIVING and EMBODYING waves of pleasure in<br />

your entire body. Each sensation or moment can be an orgasm in itself.<br />

This takes the pressure off of you and allows you to drop deeper into delicious<br />

states of pleasure, ecstasy, love and surrender — which is the key to orgasm/<br />

climax. Safety and surrender.<br />

So the more open, loving, soft, surrendered and safe you feel, whether alone or<br />

with a partner, the easier it will be for you to circulate your pleasure and sexual<br />

energy and melt into a yummy orgasm.<br />

Having said that, the jade egg awakens your sexual energy and the sensitive,<br />

pleasurable tissue and nerve endings in your vagina and around your entire vulva<br />

(cervix, g-spot, clitoris, included) so this does make it easier to experience waves of<br />

orgasmic bliss!<br />

I have a really weak pelvic floor and/or bladder incontinence can I use a jade<br />

egg and will it help me?<br />

Yes! Using a jade egg will definitely retrain and re-sensitize the nerve and energy<br />

pathways in your vagina while helping you to strengthen the muscles. Using a jade<br />

egg also teaches you how to relax properly, which aids with incontinence.<br />

Most people put an emphasis on squeezing the pelvic floor muscles, creating<br />

strength in the vagina and having a “tight” pussy, but in reality, learning to exhale<br />

and relax your pelvic floor muscles is the key to having the pleasure and orgasms<br />

you desire. I encourage you to reach out to your medical practitioner if you have<br />

any additional worries or concerns.


I have an IUD, can I use a jade egg?<br />

It’s usually not recommended to use a jade egg if you have an IUD inserted as it<br />

there is slight risk that it will dislodge in your uterus, although that’s very rare.<br />

Having said that, I do know many women who’ve purchased jade eggs from me or<br />

joined <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery with an IUD inserted who’ve had great success.<br />

Listen to your body. She knows best. You’ll just want to focus more on relaxing<br />

your pelvic floor and doing gentler toning exercises rather than focusing on heavy<br />

strength training or weightlifting.<br />

There are many amazing, orgasmic benefits to using a jade egg, but it’s ultimately<br />

your choice on whether you want to make the shift and begin a jade egg practice or<br />

not.<br />

If you’re interested in alternatives to preventing pregnancy and would like to use a<br />

jade egg, please make sure to do your research AND listen to your body! You’re<br />

welcome to contact your health care professional for more information on your<br />

options.<br />

What’s the difference between doing ‘Kegels’ and using a jade egg?<br />

Kegel is a term (coined by a man, by the way) referring to squeezing and releasing<br />

the pelvic floor muscles in a rhythm or pattern. This is the same way you stop your<br />

flow of urine.<br />

Using a jade egg adds in resistance to strengthen and relax your vagina, among<br />

many other emotional, sexual, spiritual and healing benefits. Simply doing ‘Kegels’<br />

doesn’t necessarily strengthen the pelvic floor the same way as if you were using<br />

resistance through a jade egg, which trains your pelvic floor muscles to hold,<br />

tighten and fully surrender into release around the egg.<br />

There’s also the risk of creating an overly tight and tense pelvic floor from doing<br />

too many Kegels.


I can’t feel my jade egg…is that normal?<br />

While wearing your jade egg you may notice that at times you feel the egg and<br />

other times you don’t. If you can’t feel it at all, don’t stress! It takes time to heal<br />

and awaken the nerve endings and rebuild the connection between your vagina and<br />

brain along with your sexual energy pathways.<br />

Plus you naturally won’t be able to feel the egg all of the time as your pussy is<br />

meant to relax around it too. Even if you become or are an advanced jade egg user,<br />

it’s perfectly normal (and healthy) to not always feel the egg with your vaginal wall<br />

muscles.<br />

You will notice that you can sense the egg around your g-spot or cervix as you<br />

build up strength and awaken your nerves further, but it won’t be a constant feeling<br />

of the egg at all times. It’s totally normal!<br />

About the Author<br />

Get to know <strong>Amber</strong> <strong>Leitz</strong> & how to receive<br />

deeper support from her<br />

Congratulations on making it to the end of the ebook! I can’t wait for you to start or<br />

deepen your jade egg practice. It’s been one of the most healing, empowering and<br />

pleasurable tools I’ve used in my body and life and I couldn’t be happier for you to<br />

join me on this journey.<br />

Before I share a little bit more about myself with you, I invite you to slow down and<br />

take a moment (or however long!) and celebrate how open, amazing and<br />

courageous you’ve been for exploring the jade egg!<br />

Now I just want you to know that I’ve committed my life, whether I was conscious<br />

and aware at all times or not, to healing the relationship with my own body,


sensuality, sexuality, and erotic power while supporting other women to do the<br />

same.<br />

I’ve studied, implemented and embodied many teachings, books, philosophies,<br />

exercise, practices and rituals over the years that have led me to confidently teach,<br />

mentor and support women around sensual and sexual healing, awakening, and<br />

embodiment. You can learn more about me here.<br />

MY OFFICIAL BIO:<br />

<strong>Amber</strong> is a Sensuality & Sexuality Mentor who focuses on helping women to awaken<br />

their sensuality, tap into their pleasure and access their sexual energy through<br />

various rituals, practices and sexual healing techniques. She helps women<br />

remember that they are exquisitely sensual, deeply erotic and highly orgasmic by<br />

nature. Through her love of sexuality and philosophies based in Tantra and Taoism<br />

she guides women in connecting back to their ecstatic pleasure and expanding their<br />

orgasmic potential into a whole body experience of deep bliss.<br />

She also sells the jade egg in her online shop on Etsy, The Erotic Woman Shop.<br />

She is the creator of the <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong> Sexual Mastery salon, which is an online course<br />

for women who desire to begin (or deepen) a jade egg practice and fully awaken<br />

their sensuality, pleasure and erotic power!


Do you desire to go deeper?<br />

If you find that you desire deeper support from me, please don’t hesitate to email<br />

me at amberleitz@sacredglow.com. You can check out my digital course <strong>Jade</strong> <strong>Egg</strong><br />

Sexual Mastery here for more information on how to go deeper into your jade egg<br />

practice.<br />

It’s been an absolute pleasure to guide you through the jade egg journey!<br />

I’m sending you so much sensual, erotic love.<br />

xx<br />

<strong>Amber</strong>

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