Get Out! GAY Magazine – Issue 381 – August 22, 2018

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BY EILEEN SHAPIRO
CELEBRITY CORRESPONDENT
SANDRA
BERNHARD
SANDEMONIUM
AT THE PAVILION IN THE
FIRE ISLAND PINES
- AUGUST 25
Riotous comedian, accomplished
actress and superb songstress
Sandra Bernhard will be bringing
Sandemonium to The Pavilion in the
Fire Island Pines on August 25 at 6
p.m. and 8 p.m. Her newest show
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heaven. Along with her band and
music director, she will share song
and decadent sarcasm in the best
possible way.
Bernhard is currently celebrating
her third year hosting “Sandyland”
on her own massively popular daily
radio show on Sirius XM Radio Andy
(channel 102), headed by Andy
Cohen. The show features a wide
selection of guests in the world of
entertainment and fashion along
with her provocative perspectives.
She can also be recognized for
her portrayal of Teresa Lubarsky in
her recurring role on ABC’s family
drama “Switched at Birth.” In
addition, she recently appeared as
a guest on the Hulu comedy series
“Difficult People,” and returned to
her recurring role on the CBS hit
sitcom, “2 Broke Girls.”
I spoke with Bernhard regarding her
appearance at The Pavilion, as well
as her radio show and several other
aspects of her very busy life.

So what are we looking forward
to regarding Sandemonium?
It will be me and Mitch Kaplan,
my musical director. It’s a small
venue. You know Fire Island better
than I do. I’ve performed there
before. The bottom line is it’s an
intimate night with me. There
are two shows. It will have the
fun, summer vibe...the end of the
summer winding down, looking
into the new year, the fall and
getting back to work.
I was at the last show you did at
The Pines. It was sold out and
filled to the brim, with a room
exploding with men.
Yeah, I know. I expect that it will
be similar this time. It seems that
it is a mainly male-driven situation
in The Pines, if I’m correct.
You’re very correct.
And nobody is complaining! I
mean, without gay men where
would we all be?
True! So what is one of your
favorite episodes that you’ve
ever done on your radio show?
Oh, God. It’s really week to
week. I have to say most recently
Guy Pearce, the actor, was on
yesterday. He’s actually a singer
and has a new album out called
“The Nomad” that Joe Henry
produced, and it is really
beautiful, and I didn’t
know he sang.

A lot of people don’t know that I sing. So
whenever I meet a kind of kindred spirit—
somebody who is an actor, and people
expect a certain thing from them, and
they surprise you—it’s always sort of like,
yeah. I guess he started off singing from
Australia. So I guess right now Guy Pearce
is my most recent favorite guest.
You know what, many people aren’t
aware that you do sing, especially in
the U.K., where I happen to be at the
moment.
Well, they should have all been at Ronnie
Scotts when I was there in February. It
doesn’t matter—all the shows were sold
out, and they couldn’t have gotten in,
but next time I’m back, which should be
a year from this fall, they should all come
and see me. You will let them know next
time.
I absolutely will. So how is your
daughter and Sarah?
They are great. They are so busy doing
all sorts of interesting things this summer.
Actually, she’s going to do her junior year
abroad in London. We’re all just like pedal
to the metal. It’s all exciting and great!
Things are really moving and grooving.
You’re still based in New York, and you
will still be doing Joe’s Pub?
Yeah, I’ll be doing Joe’s again, my usual
day after Christmas through New Year’s.
So I’m looking forward to that.
Is the show at The Pines brand new?
It’s the show that I did essentially last
December at Joe’s. My material, most of
it is evergreen, based on stories of my life
and growing up, my family. So it’s always
pretty fresh, even if I pick something up
that I thought about doing 10 years ago.
It’s sort of all for my intimate collection:
the intimate collection of Sandra
Bernhard.
I hear a new show title in that.
Well, there will be a new show title. I don’t
know if it will be that, but that’s a good
one to keep on reserve.

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BY EILEEN SHAPIRO
CELEBRITY CORRESPONDENT
Celebrated actresses and singers
Jane Lynch and Kate Flannery will
make their praised debut at the
elegant Café Carlyle (35 East 76th
Street, Manhattan) beginning
September 11 to September 22
with Two Lost Souls.
Jane Lynch is the two-time Emmywinning
host of “Hollywood
Game Night” and Emmy winner
and Golden Globe victor for her
portrayal of the devious gym
teacher Sue Sylvester in “Glee.”
Lynch began appearing in her
own live concert tour “See Jane
Sing” shortly after her Broadway
debut in “Annie” in 2013. “See
Jane Sing” also included Tim
Davis and Kate Flannery, who
is best known for her nine
season role as Meredith the
drunk on NBC’s “The Office.”
Together they also recorded a
holiday album, “A Swingin’ Little
Christmas,” which charted on
Billboard’s top 10.
Lynch is currently appearing in
“The Good Fight” on CBS and
on Amazon’s “The Amazing Mrs.
Maisel.” On August 26, she will
be doing an hour-long special on
NBC titled “Clear the Shelters,” a
plea for animal rescue.
The Café Carlyle originally
opened in 1955 and is the
opulent height of cabaret
entertainment in a close, intimate
setting. It has been featured
in American Airlines’ in-flight
magazine as one of the top-three
music venues on the planet. For
this performance, Lynch and
Flannery will be doing a variety
of songs from Broadway to music
of the Swingin’ Sixties in their
very own style, along with music
director Tony Guerrero.
Tickets for the show can be
purchased online via Ticketweb,
or at (212) 744-1600.
I spoke with Lynch regarding
her debut as well as her current
endeavors.

You’ve been touring for a while
with “See Jane Sing.” How will
your debut at Café Carlyle vary
from that?
Well, it’s just Kate and myself, and
we’re doing all new songs. We have
a four-piece band as opposed to a
five-piece band. We’re calling this
show “Two Lost Souls.” “See Jane
Sing” was kind of me in the
driver’s seat, and after a
certain amount of time
I realized how stupid
it was to not have
Kate front and
center with me.
So in fact “See
Jane Sing” is
really “See
Jane and
Kate Sing.”
So it’s just
the two of
us doing
our thing.
We don’t
have Tim
Davis
doing this
one. It’s
going to
be me and
Kate in “Two
Lost Souls.”
Can you give
me a sneak
preview?
It’s just one of those
things. We won’t
even really know what
the show is until we actually
do it. We’re rehearsing at this
point. We’re doing “Two Lost Souls”
from “Damn Yankees.” We’re going
to do “The One Note Samba,” which
is going to be hilarious. We’re doing
“Bei Mir Bistu Shein,” the Yiddish
version by the Barry sisters. We are
going to do the “Hallelujah Chorus.”
We’re all over the map.
So it’s singing and comedy, and
everyone is going to love it?
Let’s hope so. We’re going to love it.
I hope everybody else will enjoy the
experience.
How did you and Kate come to
team up?
I’ve known Kate for
decades. We met in
Chicago when we
were both doing
what we call
non-equity
theater.
We were
doing the
comedy
club stuff,
and she
and I
found
our way
to doing
duets
a lot
of the
time.
When
we came
down here
to LA we
continued
with this
sketch
comedy. We
got together with
a lot of people, and
we came from “The
Real Live Brady Bunch”—
that was our show that we first
did together back in Chicago. We
did sketch comedy here in LA, and
then four years would pass, and we
would do a duet for a charity event.
Then at 54 Below I was asked to do
four nights there.

I said, “I’d love to, but I’d have to put
Kate Flannery in there, and we would
have to create the show together.”
We’ve been on tour together for four
years. I’m on my way to her house
right now to do a little singing.
Are there any other cool projects
that you are working on at the
moment?
Not really. We’re going to
New York in a couple
of weeks. I just take
it a day at a time.
You might want
to add we are
doing our
Christmas
tour. We’ve
got a
monster
Christmas
tour this
year
with Tim
Davis,
who
is also
performing
with us. It’s
called “The
Swingin’ Little
Christmas,”
and we’ve been
doing it for the
last three years.
We’re going to be
all over the country. We
have a Christmas album that
we released called “The Swingin’
Little Christmas,” and it was #8
on Billboard last year. It did very
well. We’re going to be in Seattle,
Portland, and we’re going to be in
Florida for like a week. We’re going
to be all over the place: Tennessee,
the Midwest, we’re going out East,
we will be all over the country.
Chicago is my hometown—we will be
there for a few days.
Will you be hitting New York?
No. We did last year at the City
Winery.
If you could say something to
promote “Two Lost Souls,”
what would you say?
Oh God, you’re asking
the worst person.
What I will say
is Kate and I
have fun. Even
though it
appears really
loose and
spur of the
moment—
and a lot
of it is,
because
Kate is a
wildcard—I
am much
more of a
precision
person, and
I kind of map
things out.
Then she goes
and blows it all up.
That’s why it works so
well. I never know what
the hell she’s going to do,
but she’s always gold. That’s why I
keep her around. I work something
out; she blows it up and makes it
better.
So then you’re not scripted?
Well, I’m not going to give away
those secrets. It’s a combination.

Is there anything that you want to
add that I haven’t asked you?
I’m doing an initiative with NBC, and
it’s a pretty big deal, and it’s close
to my heart. It’s called “Clear the
Shelters.” It’s a month initiative and
a challenge to Americans to come in
and adopt a dog. Either the shelters
will do it for free or at a minimal cost.
Our goal is to clear the shelters and
to make sure that all of these dogs
and cats and sometimes rabbits have
a forever home. So far in over four
years we have joined over 150,000
pets with forever homes. I’m going to
be hosting the show, which is August
26. The show is an hour long
and will be highlighting some
of the more touching stories
that have occurred. It’s on NBC.
I feel like you have many
of these dogs in your own
home.
We have four now. Especially
Arbuckle. He was 150
pounds; he’s supposed to
be 50. We treated him for his
hypothyroid, and now he’s
down to 85 pounds. He’s our
success story. He’s a happy
boy. The Instagram handle is
@allaboutarbuckle. He was
named after the actor Fatty
Arbuckle.
Get your tickets to “Two Lost Souls” at Café Carlyle here:
www.ticketweb.com/venue/cafe-carlyle-new-york-ny/284974
Follow Jane Lynch on Twitter @janemarielynch
Follow Kate Flannery on Twitter @KateFlannery

THOMAS
TALKS
ABOUT: YOUR BEST
we hooked up. I
don’t want anything
with his brother,
but should I tell my
friend?
- Male, Gay, 23
FRIEND’S
BROTHER
I always laugh when I
hear gay guys make
comments about how
they want to date a
“straight guy.” Mostly,
I laugh because I grew
up in the Midwest
surrounded by “straight
guys,” and they’re not
the same ones you see in
movies. I do wonder how
much of the attraction
has to do with the idea
of being the “first” or
“only” to the “straight”
person, thus leading to a
feeling of being special.
Either way, most of us
know of a “straight hot
brother,” and y’all got
stories.
Last weekend I went a
beach house in Jersey
with my best friend to
stay with his family. One
night his hot “straight”
brother and I stayed
up chatting, and then
eventually I went to
sleep on the living
room couch. A few
hours later, he woke
me up with his hard on
in my face. Of course,
Congrats on living
the plotline of a porno—
we’re all very jealous and
a little turned on. No, I
don’t think you should
tell your friend unless
you have a real reason
to—and it doesn’t sound
like you do. Most people
don’t want to hear about
their family members
hooking up, even if it’s
their attractive brother.
Your friend probably
doesn’t view him as hot.
Also, you don’t know his
brother’s story, and there
is no reason for you to
“out” him, especially if
you don’t want to pursue
anything with him. I say
keep it for your spank
bank or the next time you
visit his family. No reason
to start drama.
My best friend and
his brother share an
apartment in HK, and
there’s a running joke
that his brother is gay.
Honestly, I think he
might be, or at least
curious. Also, if he is,
I’d love to break him in,
ya know what I mean?
Sometimes he jokes
back with us about
being gay, but I can’t
tell if he’s flirting or just
comfortable. Any tips
on how I can tell if his
brother is gay? - Male,
Gay, 22
Read the above question,
and wait for him to wake
you up with his hard on.
Just kidding, obviously.
It’s funny, because when
you’re in your 20s, I think
you spend a lot more
time trying to figure out
each other’s sexuality,
whereas when you’re a bit
older, it just becomes too
much work and energy
to care. I understand the
curiosity, but you can
also rest assured that if
he wants you to know
he’s gay—especially if he
wants to have sex with
you—he’s going to make
it clear. When, if ever,
has one gay guy said to
another, “I wanted to
have sex with you, but I
just didn’t know how to
tell you”? If anything, it’s
more so, “OK, I get the
point, you want to fuck?”
His brother sounds like a
nice guy, so the best way
to find out is probably
not to have an agenda
and attempt to be his
genuine friend.
Sex/Love/Relationship advice? Send your questions to: ThomasTalksAbout@gmail.com
@ThomasWhitfield84

BY IAN-MICHAEL BERGERON
@ianmichaelinwonderland
PHOTO BY STEVE BRENNAN
WARDROBE: NATHAN AYON SWIMWEAR
Where You Lead,
I Will Follow
A few weeks ago, I was
lucky enough to be invited
to a fashion event for Out
Magazine.
Well, I wasn’t technically
invited: I was +1 to E,
who I’d describe as the
sweetest socialite I know.
He’s out every night, making
appearances at whichever
event sounds the most
interesting, with a full face
of makeup and scandalous
outfits. Even in my Prada
sequin top, I couldn’t even
begin to compare to him.
The open bar served specialty
cocktails sponsored by
Absolut Vodka, and every
cocktail had the generic name
of a boy I’ve dated—The
Lukas with hints of lavender,
The Adam with hints of
apple, The Camden with
hints of citrus. I ordered The
Oliver, with hints of orange,
and sipped it greedily as we
walked around the party.
E introduced me to everyone
he knew, which happened
to be everyone: the clothing
designer with 40K followers
on Instagram, the YouTuber
with 248K Instagram
followers, the porn star with
448K. I looked each of them
up while pretending to use
the bathroom, wondering if
my measly 1,461 followers
was the reason I was never
invited to such parties.
Are followers how we
establish ourselves socially?
I fall into the Instagram trap
myself: I post
a picture
every day,
and as much
as I pretend
I don’t care
how many
followers I
have or likes
a picture
gets, I’m
definitely
keeping
track. And
I’d be lying if
I said I wasn’t
intimidated
a little bit by people who
actually have a following.
Washing my hands and
going back to the party, I saw
two familiar faces: a fashion
executive and photographer,
standing near the end of
the bar. I ordered another
Oliver and went to say hello
to them. They both looked
confused, then nodded.
“Remind me where we met?”
the photographer asked,
sipping his Lukas.
We’d met a million times
before, and my face flushed.
I hoped he couldn’t see in
the dimly lit room. “Oh, some
event or another I’m sure,” I
shrugged.
“I love your top,” the
executive smiled. “Who’s it
by?”
“Prada.” They both looked
at me funny, like they didn’t
believe me—and I hated
myself for caring.
My 1,451 followers must have
been showing.
I found E again, chatting
with the porn star—when I
approached them, the porn
star shook my hand, and
when I cocked my head he
said, “Oh, I’m so sorry, I met
you when I got here!” But he
didn’t sound apologetic.
When E said they were
moving to The Box, I
downed my last Oliver and
said goodnight—not that
staying out all night wouldn’t
have been fun, but not on
a weeknight. A couch near
the front was littered with
pillows proclaiming OUT
MAGAZINE—I stuffed one
into my bag, like the classy
socialite I am, and walked to
the subway.
E texted me the next day,
asking if I’d like to go out
with him again. To which, of
course, I said “Abso-fuckinglutely.”

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