Get Out! GAY Magazine – Issue 390 –October 24, 2018

Happy Halloween! Now
everyone, take your
clothing off! I worked as
a bartender for almost
15 years, and I saw more
skin working Halloween
night than any night at a
strip club. The gays love
a good costume that
shows off their bodies,
and why shouldn’t they?
They’ve worked hard for
them. But, the creativity
is sometimes lacking. I
mean, how many shirtless
superheroes can there
really be? Someone give
me sexy John Wayne
Gacy, am I right?
Last Halloween, I feel in
love… with a vampire.
I was at an apartment
party on 18th Street
in Chelsea when this
beautiful guy showed
up: blue eyes, jet black
hair and dressed like
that Twilight guy. He
was in character the
entire night. I ended up
getting messed up, and
we eventually f*cked in
the stairwell (real classy,
I know). He disappeared
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after, and I haven’t seen
him since. I asked a few
people about him, but it
was packed, and no one
seemed to know. It was
the hottest sex, and I
can’t stop thinking about
him. This isn’t as much
a question as it’s me
hoping you’ll print this
and he’ll come looking
for me. Dramatic?
Tragic? Pathetic? - Male,
Gay, 23
There you go. I’m putting
it out into the universe.
I don’t know if this is
dramatic, tragic, pathetic,
weird or maybe fun?
Might be a fetish, an
attraction to vampires?
Are you a certified fang
banger? Seriously though,
this might be something
you want to explore, just
in case this guy doesn’t
come flying back around.
Fingers crossed you
meet him again this year,
but maybe try to get his
contact info too, instead
of just his vampire D.
I’ve been struggling
with my gender identity
for a while. I think I
might actually be a
woman. I’ve felt this
way for a really long
time, but always hid it
and thought maybe I
was just gay. I guess I
identify as bi though?
Lots of questioning
MASHING
going on. As a little
kid I remember telling
my mom that I was her
little girl, not boy, and
she would yell at me.
Eventually I stopped.
I was thinking that
maybe this year for
Halloween I’d go out in
public wearing women’s
clothing for the first
time and just tell my
friends it’s a joke. Test
the waters? Is this a
terrible idea? Or totally
offensive? I’m really
scared, but also really
excited. - Trans?, Bi, 21
I say go for it. Allow
yourself to really dive in
and see how you feel.
Remember, though,
being trans isn’t about
just dressing up and
going out for a night; it’s
more complicated. I’d
recommend you check
out some online forums
and get acquainted with
the trans community in
NYC. Luckily there are
tons of people here who
know what you’re going
through and can help you
make the best decisions
for yourself. I think it’s
awesome that you want
to explore and express
this side of yourself, and
even though it’s just one
night, I hope you have an
amazing time!
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