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we need to be clear about what particular<br />
situations and circumstances we need to<br />
gain control of. We need to know in order to<br />
optimise our decisions, optimise our actions<br />
and thereby optimise our lives.<br />
We all need to be aware of where we<br />
are in life and make a decision to make the<br />
necessary changes. When we ask ourselves<br />
the difficult questions, and give real, honest<br />
consideration to the answers, we can<br />
determine whether we are living by design<br />
or by default. Once we know this, it’s then a<br />
matter of deciding whether or not we want to<br />
make changes.<br />
Ask yourself for example: what kind of life<br />
do I want to live, and am I living it? What kind<br />
of family life do I have now, and is this how<br />
I want it to be? What kind of marriage do I<br />
want to enjoy? Is it the kind of marriage I’m<br />
experiencing now? What kind of business and<br />
financial life do I want to establish, and is that<br />
what I have now? What kind of ministry do<br />
I want to operate in and am I operating in it<br />
now in the way I want to?<br />
RECOGNISE WHERE YOU ARE<br />
When you find yourself restless, unfulfilled<br />
in life, be aware that this may be an indicator<br />
that something in your life may be out of<br />
line. For example, where there is pain, it’s a<br />
sign of disorder. Pain in your life, pain in your<br />
body, pain in your marriage is always a sign of<br />
disorder. There may be an alignment problem.<br />
Just as with a car when the tyres are out of<br />
alignment, they are said to be non-aligned or<br />
misaligned. When there’s non-alignment or<br />
misalignment in life, just as with cars, people<br />
experience ‘shaking’. Things are uncomfortable<br />
and bumpy.<br />
That’s why often on a daily basis, my prayer<br />
is ‘Lord, help me to name the days you have<br />
appointed for me. Help me to know on a daily<br />
basis what to do when I’m 50, when I’m 60 ...’<br />
That’s why we should pray at the beginning<br />
of the day: ‘Lord, what’s your plan and<br />
purpose for me today.’ Every day of our lives<br />
is significant. Every day God has a purpose<br />
and a plan for us. Psalm 68:19 says: “Blessed<br />
be the Lord, who daily loadeth us with<br />
benefits.” KJV<br />
You are important to God. You are made<br />
in His image and likeness (Genesis 1:27).<br />
We have a ‘Big God’, who has the capacity.<br />
He is able to and does take care of millions<br />
and billions of people. He knows everybody<br />
because He is God. God said even the<br />
hairs on our head are numbered (Luke 12:7,<br />
Matthew 10:30). All things are known to Him,<br />
as Romans 11:33–36 says.<br />
Now, it’s possible that you are going through<br />
something and you are wondering ‘is this part<br />
of the plan?’ I’m not suggesting that when<br />
things are part of the ‘design’ they are smooth<br />
sailing and painless. No! Part of the ‘design’<br />
was that Christ had to die on the cross – it<br />
wasn’t easy!<br />
When you’re wondering why some things<br />
are not happening at the time you really want<br />
them to, realise that other things that should<br />
be in place for it to happen, may not yet be.<br />
God has you waiting. There’s often a waiting<br />
time, for the fullness of God’s time for that<br />
particular thing to come to pass. A time to<br />
patiently wait on the Lord.<br />
At these times let your prayer be ‘Lord, let<br />
the people and provision you’ve prepared for<br />
me, before the foundation of the earth, be<br />
ready for what you have ordained for me to<br />
do. I believe you for divine connections and to<br />
open the doors at the right time.’ Remember<br />
“all things God works for the good of those<br />
who love him.” (Romans 28:8)<br />
LIVE BY HIS DESIGN<br />
There are many things people desire to<br />
do and be in the Kingdom of God, but they<br />
often allow themselves to be limited by their<br />
circumstances, limited by the way they think,<br />
and/or limited by a lack of knowledge and<br />
understanding.<br />
People who remain in a limited or<br />
compromised mind-set, people who live a<br />
compromised life, do become frustrated;<br />
even angry and intolerant of those around<br />
them. They can end up feeling very resentful<br />
and become embittered. Bitter because<br />
they haven’t found fulfilment, they didn’t<br />
achieve what they’d intended to or they didn’t<br />
maximise life to the level they knew they were<br />
capable of. It’s a very, very dangerous place<br />
to be in.<br />
If you have many dreams and desires, things<br />
you want to accomplish in life, for them to<br />
come to pass, ask yourself are they part of the<br />
plan of God for your life. It really isn’t about<br />
wishful thinking. God will fulfil and give us<br />
the desires of our hearts, when we trust and<br />
delight in Him (Psalm 37:4), True! But our<br />
plans have to be in consonance with His will<br />
and desire for our lives.<br />
The good news is that God has a good<br />
plan. His plan for our lives is for us to have<br />
an abundant life (John 10:10), for us to have<br />
all things that pertain to life and Godliness<br />
(2 Peter 1:3). If you’ve got to the point in life<br />
where you know you had the capacity to<br />
do this or that, and you didn’t, or if you feel<br />
you’re on the wrong road, it’s not too late. In<br />
fact, you have an opportunity now to get it<br />
right.<br />
Make up your mind about the life you’re<br />
going to live. Decide that your life is going<br />
to be great, your home joyful, your business<br />
or career prosperous, your call and ministry<br />
successful.<br />
Decide that you’re going to walk by the<br />
Spirit. Decide that you’re not going to be<br />
entangled in sin or a life that doesn’t please<br />
God or befit a child of the Most High.<br />
This article is<br />
based on the<br />
Book Living by<br />
Design and not<br />
by Default<br />
© Dipo Oluyomi.<br />
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