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<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong><br />

<strong>January</strong>/<strong>February</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

The Magazine of the<br />

American Women’s Club<br />

of The Hague<br />

Denneweg 56<br />

2514CH The Hague<br />

Tel. 0703458442<br />

www.lifestylesalonthehague.nl<br />

Holiday Bazaar<br />

Thanksgiving in Leiden<br />

Winter Blues<br />

22<br />

44<br />

48<br />

5 Officers and Chairwomen<br />

6 Message from the President<br />

7 Winter Welcome Back<br />

Coffee and Borrel<br />

7 <strong>February</strong> General Meeting<br />

8 Letter from the Editor<br />

10 Membership<br />

12 Ongoing Activities<br />

19 One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />

22 <strong>AWC</strong> Holiday Bazaar<br />

28 <strong>January</strong> Calendar<br />

30 <strong>February</strong> Calendar<br />

33 Holocaust Memorial Day<br />

33 Private Art Tour<br />

34 F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />

35 F<strong>AWC</strong>O Handbag and Art<br />

Auction<br />

36 Handbag Auction<br />

37 Restaurant<br />

Recommendations<br />

38 C, C & C Open House Recap<br />

40 MLK, Jr. Tribute and Dinner<br />

42 The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />

44 Thanksgiving in Leiden<br />

46 <strong>AWC</strong> Benefit Event<br />

47 Women in Need: TLC Dinner<br />

48 8 Ways to Beat the Winter<br />

Blues<br />

50 Clues in the Calico<br />

52 Announcements<br />

56 Classifieds<br />

57 Index of Advertisers<br />

and Ad Rates<br />

58 Proost! Interview<br />

JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 3


Editor<br />

Audrey Goodman<br />

2018-<strong>2019</strong> <strong>AWC</strong> Officers<br />

Committee Chairs<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

Johan van Oldenbarneveltlaan 43<br />

2582 NJ Den Haag<br />

Tel: 070 350 6007<br />

info@awcthehague.org<br />

www.awcthehague.org<br />

<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> Magazine<br />

goingdutchmag@gmail.com<br />

Clubhouse Hours<br />

Tuesday and Thursday<br />

10 a.m. - 2 p.m.<br />

Monday, Wednesday and Friday Closed<br />

Dues (Effective 2018-<strong>2019</strong>)<br />

€ 110 per year (€ 66 after <strong>January</strong> 1)<br />

€ 90 business, professional<br />

€ 55 valid US military ID<br />

€ 35 student<br />

€ 35 Outside the Netherlands (<strong>Going</strong><br />

<strong>Dutch</strong> magazine not included)<br />

Add € 15 new member registration fee<br />

Design and Layout<br />

Teresa Mahoney<br />

Cover Photo<br />

Snow in Voorschoten, December 2017 by<br />

Melissa White<br />

Back Cover ad by Marcel Vermeulen:<br />

Vintage brooch transformed into a necklace<br />

Photography<br />

Mary Adams, Susan Cave, Susanne Dundas,<br />

Greetje Engelsman, Amber Gatewood,<br />

Rebecca Hines, Jaimie Keppel, Suzanne<br />

MacNeil, Teresa Mahoney, Julie Mowat,<br />

Melissa Rider, Liliana Todorovic, Michelle<br />

Voorn, Melissa White<br />

Proofreaders<br />

Celeste Brown, Jane Gulde, Diane Schaap,<br />

Debbie van Hees<br />

Advertising Manager & Invoicing<br />

Open<br />

Contributors<br />

Susan Cave, Jane Choy, Susanne Dundas,<br />

Greetje Engelsman, Roberta Enschede, Dena<br />

Haggerty, Marsha Hagney, Eileen Harloff,<br />

Suzanne MacNeil, Julie Mowat, Naya<br />

Pessoa, Melissa Rider, Holly Savoie, Liliana<br />

Todorovic, Michelle Voorn, Melissa White<br />

Printer<br />

www.dwcprint.nl<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Bank Account Number<br />

IBAN: NL42ABNA0431421757<br />

KvK Den Haag<br />

40409274<br />

Honorary President Diane Hoekstra<br />

President Suzanne MacNeil<br />

awcthehague.president@gmail.com<br />

Vice President Marsha Hagney<br />

awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com<br />

Treasurer Sheyla Karman<br />

awcthehague.treasurer@gmail.com<br />

Secretary Heather DeWitt<br />

awcthehague.secretary@gmail.com<br />

Club and Community Development<br />

Naya Pessoa<br />

awcthehague.community@gmail.com<br />

Clubhouse Administrator<br />

Jan Essad<br />

awcthehague.clubhousemgr@gmail.com<br />

Communications Audrey Goodman<br />

awcthehague.communications@gmail.com<br />

Member-at-Large<br />

Sunita Menon<br />

Front Office<br />

Liduine Bekman, Siska Datema-Kool,<br />

Dominique Duysens, Amber Gatewood,<br />

Machelle Hollar, Paula Looijmans, Melissa<br />

Rider, Robin Rose, Holly Savoie, Carol<br />

Schapira, Chelsea Wald<br />

Activities: Greetje Engelsman<br />

Arts: Jane Choy<br />

Assistant Treasurer: Teresa Insalaco<br />

Benefit Event: Michelle Voorn & Deana<br />

Kreitler<br />

Board Advisor: Jessie Rodell<br />

Caring Committee: Naomi Keip<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake: Suzanne Dundas<br />

eNews Amber Gatewood<br />

Evening Events: Elizabeth Zeller<br />

Events & Tours: Liduine Bekman<br />

F<strong>AWC</strong>O: Julie Mowat and Teresa<br />

Mahoney<br />

Front Office Coordinator: Open<br />

General Meeting Programs: Dena<br />

Haggerty<br />

Heart Pillow: Jan de Vries<br />

Historian/Archivist: Open<br />

Holiday Bazaar: Jaimie Keppel-Molenaar<br />

IT Administrator: Julie Otten<br />

Kids’ Club: Lindsey Turnau<br />

Library: Dena Haggerty<br />

Membership: Melissa Rider<br />

Newcomers: Holly Savoie, Greetje<br />

Engelsman<br />

Parliamentarian: Georgia Regnault<br />

Philanthropy: Holly Savoie<br />

Public Relations: Open<br />

Social Media: Ceci Wong and Julie Otten<br />

Tennis: Molly Boed<br />

Volunteer Coordinator: Laurie<br />

Martecchini<br />

Webmaster: Julie Otten<br />

Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners: Open<br />

Deadlines: Submissions are due no later than the last Monday of the month preceding the publication month.<br />

For example, for the March issue, submissions are due before Monday, <strong>January</strong> 28<br />

Please Note: Articles submitted to <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will be published subject to space limitations and editorial approval.<br />

All rights reserved; reprints only by written permission of the Editor. Please email to: goingdutchmag@<br />

gmail.com<br />

Legal Notice: Articles in <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> express the views and opinions of their authors alone, and not necessarily<br />

those of the <strong>AWC</strong> of The Hague, its Members or this publication.<br />

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<strong>AWC</strong> Mission Statement<br />

The <strong>AWC</strong> is an association formed to provide social and educational activities for American<br />

women living in the Netherlands and to promote amicable relations among people of all nations,<br />

as well as acquiring funds for general public interest. Membership in the club is open<br />

to women of all nations who are friendly and welcoming to American culture. The association<br />

does not endeavor to make a profit. The <strong>AWC</strong> is a 100% volunteer organization.<br />

JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 5


Message from the President<br />

by Suzanne MacNeil<br />

Welcome to <strong>2019</strong>! I hope your holiday<br />

celebrations were filled with<br />

family and lots of love. I started<br />

the holidays in early December with those<br />

eight crazy nights of Hanukkah. Then, it was<br />

off to the U.S. where I spent time with my<br />

mom, brother and his family in Jacksonville.<br />

After Florida, we hit the cold climate of Lake<br />

Tahoe where we rented a house for a week,<br />

with plenty of space for family. It was the<br />

perfect way to end the year…with my boys<br />

plus one girlfriend and my sister.<br />

The New Year marks the start of the second<br />

half of this Club year and I’m looking<br />

forward to the next few months of events<br />

and activities, including the annual benefit<br />

on April 13. Plans are still under way, but<br />

our beneficiary organization has been chosen<br />

(see page 46), and I know you’ll want<br />

to attend to support it by buying a ticket<br />

and bidding on fab items in our auctions. It<br />

promises to be a fun and exciting evening.<br />

Stay tuned for more information in the next<br />

few weeks. Please mark your calendars for<br />

Saturday, April 13!<br />

The first half of the Club year has been<br />

a whirlwind for your Board Members and<br />

Committee Chairs as we started implementing<br />

our three-to-five-year plan. Here’s<br />

a recap of the work that has already been<br />

accomplished, with so much more to come.<br />

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As of the first of this new year we bid<br />

adieu to GroupSpaces (good riddance) and<br />

have migrated to our<br />

new website platform<br />

thanks to<br />

Julie Otten, our<br />

IT Chair and<br />

Webmaster.<br />

She worked<br />

tirelessly,<br />

and though<br />

there are minor<br />

tweaks under<br />

way, the most challenging<br />

aspects<br />

of the project are<br />

complete.<br />

Marsha<br />

Hagney, our<br />

Vice President,<br />

worked side by<br />

side with Julie in<br />

November and<br />

December learning<br />

how to populate the new calendar on the<br />

website and helping Members sign up for<br />

events and activities during our transition.<br />

She told me she’s enjoyed learning new technology<br />

skills and working with Members.<br />

The newly refurbished Clubhouse<br />

looks amazing and inviting, thanks to the<br />

intrepid team of Jan Essad, our Clubhouse<br />

Administrator, and Sunita Menon, our<br />

Member-at-Large. Many of their wishes<br />

came true as our landlord agreed to cover<br />

the cost of some of the requests from Jan<br />

and Sunita. The redo isn’t over yet!<br />

Our Communications Team is led by<br />

Audrey Goodman, who is also the <strong>Going</strong><br />

<strong>Dutch</strong> Editor. She is working to expand our<br />

marketing materials and increase activity<br />

on the Club’s public Facebook page over<br />

the next year.<br />

As I mentioned earlier, there is a benefit<br />

event planned for Saturday, April 13.<br />

The Benefit Committee includes our Club<br />

& Community Chair, Naya Pessoa. Naya is<br />

also working with Philanthropy Chair Holly<br />

Savoie to prepare for our annual TLC Dinner<br />

(see page 47) and the Easter basket project<br />

for children and families who may need a<br />

helping hand. Volunteers will be needed!<br />

The GDPR has tested our Club in various<br />

ways, not the least of which is ensuring<br />

we maintain our Members’ privacy.<br />

Melissa Rider, who chairs the Membership<br />

Committee, is collecting forms signed >>11<br />

Winter Welcome Back Coffee<br />

and Borrel<br />

Ring in the New Year by connecting and<br />

reconnecting after the busy holidays!<br />

Daytime best for you? Join us for our<br />

morning coffee…<br />

Evenings better? Stop by for an evening borrel…<br />

The Winter Welcome Back Coffee and Borrel<br />

are just what we need to settle back into our<br />

routines after the holidays. Reconnect with<br />

friends, meet new Members, or introduce potential<br />

Members and share all that our <strong>AWC</strong><br />

has to offer. Learn about upcoming activities,<br />

programs, philanthropic efforts, and volunteer<br />

opportunities from our Board Members<br />

and the chairs of our many programs and<br />

activities. Come and go as your schedule allows!<br />

What better way to start <strong>2019</strong> than in the company<br />

of your <strong>AWC</strong> friends? Come join us!<br />

We are still working on the details<br />

for our <strong>February</strong> meeting as we<br />

go to print, so please look to our<br />

Facebook page and eNews for further information.<br />

Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 14<br />

10 a.m. - 12 p.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 17<br />

Morning Coffee: 10:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.<br />

Evening Borrel: 6 – 8 p.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

FREE<br />

<strong>February</strong> General Meeting<br />

Did you know that any Englishspeaking<br />

woman may join the <strong>AWC</strong>?<br />

Invite your English-speaking friends<br />

from other countries who have an<br />

affinity for Americans to join us today!<br />

JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 7


Letter from the Editor<br />

by Audrey Goodman<br />

Wow, 2018 was a whirlwind! My<br />

husband, Dan, and I arrived in<br />

The Hague just days after the New<br />

Year, jet lagged and still in shock that we had<br />

moved to the Netherlands. For the first couple<br />

of months, we kept saying, “I can’t believe we<br />

actually live here.” That feels like an eternity<br />

ago. And yet, this past year has also gone by<br />

in the blink of an eye.<br />

Well-behaved women seldom<br />

make history.<br />

~Laurel Thatcher Ulrich<br />

We had agreed to move to The Hague<br />

before we ever set foot here, and I had this<br />

preconceived idea of how our lives would be<br />

in the Netherlands: My husband and I would<br />

ride our bikes all over the country, past endless<br />

fields of blooming tulips and countless<br />

windmills. We would speak <strong>Dutch</strong> fluently<br />

within the first six months, and I would effortlessly<br />

cook <strong>Dutch</strong> food. Ha! We don’t<br />

own bikes. Tulips don’t bloom year-round.<br />

My <strong>Dutch</strong> vocabulary is limited. And I can’t<br />

make decent stamppot or erwtensoep.<br />

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Our lives may be nothing like I imagined,<br />

but this experience has been better than I<br />

could have hoped. I truly think my easy adjustment<br />

is attributable to my amazing husband<br />

and the wonderful women of the <strong>AWC</strong>.<br />

Dan handles change much better than I do;<br />

I like routines and prefer familiarity. On the<br />

days when I’m frustrated or homesick, he<br />

has been patient and understanding. Having<br />

a supportive partner makes all the difference.<br />

Not only is the <strong>AWC</strong> full of interesting<br />

and generous women, there are countless<br />

activities and events to keep me busy. From<br />

our recurring activities to our unique events,<br />

I’m never bored. Recently I’ve attended a<br />

Thanksgiving service in Leiden, made a pearl<br />

bracelet in a lovely jewelry shop, attended<br />

a sculpture tour with a local artist, joined a<br />

book club, and had a glass of wine (or two)<br />

with other Members at a newly-discovered<br />

restaurant. Our events range from day to night<br />

and weekdays to weekends, providing options<br />

for everyone. Thirsty Thursday (one<br />

of my favorite events) is a great opportunity<br />

for prospective Members to come meet<br />

other women and find out what our Club is<br />

all about. I’ve discovered places and activities<br />

I would have otherwise missed and met<br />

women whose paths I would likely not have<br />

crossed. I’m beyond grateful for the friends<br />

I’ve made through the <strong>AWC</strong>, and I can’t wait<br />

to see what <strong>2019</strong> has in store for us.<br />

Audrey<br />

JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 9


Membership<br />

by Melissa Rider<br />

Message from the President (cont.)<br />

Continued from page 8<br />

<strong>January</strong> marks the one-year anniversary<br />

of me taking over the role of Membership<br />

Coordinator. I have found this volunteer<br />

job of welcoming new Members and keeping<br />

the membership records very rewarding.<br />

Our Club has grown by more than 20<br />

new Members since our Fall Kick-Off, and<br />

I know we will be seeing more new faces<br />

after the <strong>January</strong> Kick-Off.<br />

You can help recruit new Members by inviting<br />

friends or acquaintances to our activities<br />

and events throughout the year. Your best<br />

recruitment tool is our website, where prospective<br />

Members can read <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong><br />

online to learn in-depth about all that the<br />

Club has to offer, from philanthropic events<br />

to social activities. New Member registration<br />

and dues payment are all done on our<br />

website too, so it is one-stop-shopping. If<br />

you meet someone whom you think would<br />

be a good fit, suggest they visit our website:<br />

www.awcthehague.org.<br />

Welcome New Member<br />

Maria Linkogle<br />

by Members giving them allowing them<br />

to opt in or out of allowing their likeness<br />

to be used in the Club’s social media and<br />

collateral material outreach per the GDPR.<br />

Membership falls under the Secretary,<br />

Heather DeWitt, who is responsible for<br />

taking minutes at Board meetings and annual<br />

general meetings.<br />

Club finances are always at the top of<br />

mind for your Board. Sheyla Karman, who<br />

is our Treasurer and an accountant by trade,<br />

keeps us on track and reminds us of the funds<br />

coming in and what’s needed to pay our bills<br />

and cover costs. We are in constant contact<br />

and I so appreciate her dedication and guidance<br />

these last six months.<br />

As for me, I still have much to learn<br />

about overseeing our <strong>AWC</strong>. I met the <strong>AWC</strong><br />

Amsterdam (<strong>AWC</strong>A) President at our<br />

Prinsjesdag Luncheon and we’ve stayed in<br />

touch about various aspects of our Clubs.<br />

We’ve agreed to hold a Joint Board Meeting<br />

(with some of our Committee Chairs) on<br />

Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 22 at our Clubhouse to<br />

share best practices. I’ll report the key<br />

takeaways from the session at our General<br />

Meeting on Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 14.<br />

As a TV news anchor I once worked with<br />

signed off each newscast, “That’s it for now<br />

from here.”<br />

Happy New Year and tot ziens!<br />

Suzanne<br />

<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> is Available Online<br />

Go to www.awcthehague.org to share the current month’s issue with friends and family. You will<br />

also find links to our annual advertisers, whose support makes this magazine possible. If you<br />

visit or contact one of our advertisers, let them know <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> sent you!<br />

The <strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse, which has been closed for the holidays,<br />

will re-open <strong>January</strong> 8<br />

Birthdays<br />

Due to changes in European privacy<br />

laws, and because <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will soon<br />

be posted on our external Facebook<br />

page, we won’t be sharing birthdays<br />

in print any longer. Instead, you’ll see<br />

Members’ birthdays in the weekly<br />

eNews, which is sent to your private<br />

email account and is more secure. We<br />

value our Members’ privacy. If you have<br />

any questions, please contact Melissa<br />

Rider, our Membership Coordinator, at:<br />

awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />

Members: eNews Distribution<br />

A weekly electronic newsletter<br />

is sent to all <strong>AWC</strong> Members.<br />

If you have not been receiving your<br />

eNews, please contact Melissa at<br />

awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />

Travel4U@americantravelcenter.net/www.americantravelcenter.nl/tel. +3261234901<br />

“Our next holiday is<br />

a safari. They do<br />

the whole world!”<br />

“They make booking a<br />

holiday so easy. I just<br />

leave it to them!”<br />

“Every trip is<br />

customized, just for<br />

me! That’s unique!”<br />

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JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 11


Credit: Amazon<br />

Ongoing Activities<br />

Book Clubs<br />

The <strong>AWC</strong> Book Clubs are open to all<br />

readers, and new Members are especially<br />

welcome! There are no requirements that<br />

you must attend every meeting or lead<br />

a discussion. Snacks are provided by a<br />

different Member each month. There are<br />

two Book Clubs hosted by <strong>AWC</strong> Members:<br />

One in the daytime and one in the evening.<br />

Questions? Teresa Mahoney organizes the<br />

daytime group, and Dena Haggerty handles<br />

the evening meetings. For more information,<br />

please contact them at awcthehague.<br />

bookclub@gmail.com. Happy reading!<br />

Daytime Book Club<br />

<strong>January</strong> Selection:<br />

The Secret Scripture<br />

(McNulty Family) by<br />

Sebastian Barry<br />

In The Secret Scripture,<br />

Sebastian Barry revisits<br />

County Sligo, Ireland, the<br />

setting for his previous<br />

three books, to tell the<br />

unforgettable story of Roseanne McNulty.<br />

Once one of the most beguiling women in<br />

Sligo, she is now a resident of Roscommon<br />

Regional Mental Hospital and nearing her<br />

hundredth year. Set against an Ireland besieged<br />

by conflict, this is an engrossing tale<br />

Cancellation Policy<br />

Members may reserve a spot for an <strong>AWC</strong> tour, activity or<br />

event in advance. Payment is required within five business<br />

days of the reservation or before the deadline date (whichever<br />

is sooner) otherwise your name will be moved to a waitlist.<br />

It is the responsibility of the Member to notify the Club at<br />

awcthehague.finance@gmail.com to cancel a reservation<br />

prior to the cancellation deadline. Please note that there will<br />

be NO REFUNDS (no exceptions) after the cancellation deadline.<br />

Members may find a substitute in lieu of cancellation<br />

provided that arrangements are made with the tour, activity<br />

or event organizer. Members shall be held responsible for<br />

their guest reservations in accordance with this policy.<br />

Daytime Book Club Reading List:<br />

Thursday, March 28: 21 Lessons for the 21st<br />

Century by Yuval Noah Harari<br />

of one woman’s life, and a poignant story<br />

of the cruelties of civil war and corrupted<br />

power. This novel was made into a film starring<br />

Rooney Mara, Eric Bana, and Vanessa<br />

Redgrave.<br />

Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 24<br />

10 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

FREE<br />

<strong>February</strong> Selection:<br />

Milkman by Anna Burns<br />

In an unnamed city, middle<br />

sister stands out for the<br />

wrong reasons. She reads<br />

while walking, for one. And<br />

she has been taking French<br />

night classes downtown. So<br />

when a local paramilitary<br />

known as the milkman begins pursuing her,<br />

she suddenly becomes “interesting,” the last<br />

thing she ever wanted to be. Despite middle<br />

sister’s attempts to avoid him—and to keep<br />

her mother from finding out about her maybe-boyfriend—rumors<br />

spread and the threat<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Guest Policy<br />

Guests are welcome<br />

to participate in <strong>AWC</strong><br />

activities and tours on<br />

a limited basis. As a<br />

nonmember, a guest<br />

is limited to attend<br />

two functions per<br />

calendar year and will be<br />

charged an additional<br />

nonmember fee. Only<br />

Members are entitled to<br />

use babysitting services.<br />

Credit: Amazon<br />

of violence lingers. Milkman is a story of the<br />

way inaction can have enormous repercussions,<br />

in a time when the wrong flag, wrong<br />

religion, or even a sunset can be subversive.<br />

Told with ferocious energy and sly, wicked<br />

humor, this novel establishes Anna Burns as<br />

one of the most consequential voices of our<br />

day.<br />

Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 28<br />

10 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

FREE<br />

Daytime Book Club Recap – November:<br />

Tara Westover’s Educated: A Memoir<br />

brought up strong emotions from the readers<br />

about education, families, communities,<br />

religion and politics. The author’s path from<br />

a rural, Mormon community household to<br />

Cambridge University was considered by<br />

some as a hero’s journey and by others as<br />

a contrived memory map. The group discussed<br />

public school, home-schooling and<br />

“un-schooling”, and concluded that any type<br />

of schooling is a way to unlock intelligence.<br />

In the academic world, the author was able<br />

to write her dissertation on world religion<br />

comparisons without being hampered by her<br />

strict Mormon upbringing. But education<br />

in our personal worlds, the school of life, is<br />

more difficult to write about. Westover shares<br />

how family love evolved into societal isolation<br />

and abuse. She examines the challenges<br />

of separating herself from her family in her<br />

struggle to selfhood. Our families act as our<br />

frame of reference—our definition of normal.<br />

What happens when you discover your<br />

family isn’t normal? The group discussed our<br />

own familial bonds. Where do we draw the<br />

line (or even cut the line) to discover and empower<br />

ourselves? Westover gives us a hint,<br />

“Education means access to as many ideas<br />

and perspectives as you can to make up your<br />

own mind.” A memoir at such an early age<br />

isn’t a definitive work—but is a compelling<br />

depiction of a work in progress.<br />

Evening Book Club<br />

<strong>January</strong> Selection: The<br />

Only Story by Julian Barnes<br />

One summer in the ‘60s,<br />

in a staid suburb south of<br />

London, Paul comes home<br />

from university, aged 19,<br />

and is urged by his mother<br />

to join the tennis club. In<br />

the mixed-doubles tournament<br />

he’s partnered with Susan Macleod, a<br />

fine player who’s 48, confident, ironic,<br />

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and married, with 2 nearly adult daughters.<br />

She is also a warm companion, their bond<br />

immediate. And they soon, inevitably, are<br />

lovers. Clinging to each other as though<br />

their lives depend on it, they then set up<br />

house in London to escape his parents and<br />

the abusive Mr. Mcleod. Decades later, Paul<br />

looks back at how they fell in love, how he<br />

freed Susan from a sterile marriage, and<br />

how—gradually, relentlessly—everything<br />

fell apart, and he found himself struggling<br />

to understand the intricacy and depth of the<br />

human heart. It’s a piercing account of helpless<br />

devotion, and of how memory can confound<br />

us and fail us and surprise us (sometimes<br />

all at once), of how, as Paul puts it,<br />

“first love fixes a life forever.”<br />

The location changes every month, so please<br />

contact Dena Haggerty at awcthehague.<br />

bookclub@gmail.com if you are interested<br />

in attending.<br />

Evening Book Club Reading List:<br />

March: The Dinner by Herman Koch<br />

April: The Song of Achiles by Madeline Miller<br />

Wednesday, <strong>January</strong> 9<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

Location TBA<br />

FREE<br />

<strong>February</strong> Selection: The Mars Room by<br />

Rachel Kushner<br />

It’s 2003 and Romy Hall is at<br />

the start of two consecutive<br />

life sentences at Stanville<br />

Women’s Correctional<br />

Facility, deep in California’s<br />

Central Valley. Outside is<br />

the world from which she<br />

has been severed: the San<br />

Credit: Amazon<br />

Francisco of her youth and her young son,<br />

Jackson. Inside is a new reality: thousands of<br />

women hustling for the bare-essentials needed<br />

to survive; the bluffing and pageantry and<br />

casual acts of violence by guards and prisoners<br />

alike; and the deadpan absurdities of institutional<br />

living, which Kushner evokes with<br />

great humor and precision. Stunning and unsentimental,<br />

The Mars Room demonstrates<br />

new levels of mastery and depth in Kushner’s<br />

work. It is audacious and tragic, propulsive<br />

and yet beautifully refined. As James Wood<br />

said in The New Yorker, her fiction “succeeds<br />

because it is so full of vibrantly different stories<br />

and histories, all of them particular, all of<br />

them brilliantly alive.”<br />

Wednesday, <strong>February</strong> 13<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

Location TBA<br />

FREE<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake is a weekly<br />

highlight for those who enjoy crafts and<br />

camaraderie. Whether your craft is knitting,<br />

quilting, needlepoint or simply mending your<br />

clothes, or whether you are a beginner or an<br />

expert, you are welcome to join us. Fish that<br />

UFO (Unfinished Object) out of the drawer<br />

and get going on it again. CCandCers are<br />

always ready with a helping hand, a lesson,<br />

or some advice. Each week, a different<br />

Member brings a cake - tried and true, or<br />

experimental. Babysitting is not available<br />

and there are lots of sharp objects about<br />

(pins, needles, scissors and wit) so we cannot<br />

accommodate children. Contact Suzanne<br />

Dundas at awcthehague.crafts@gmail.com<br />

for more information.<br />

Every Tuesday<br />

10 a.m. – Noon<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

FREE<br />

Heart Pillow Project<br />

Members work together to make heartshaped<br />

pillows designed to help support the<br />

arms of recent mastectomy patients. Each<br />

pillow is made with TLC, wrapped, and<br />

comes with a note signed by an <strong>AWC</strong> volunteer.<br />

No sewing skills are needed, as you<br />

can cut, stuff, or wrap the heart pillows.<br />

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We are proud to provide men and women<br />

with something both practical and comforting,<br />

and we know our work helps because<br />

we often receive thank-you notes and emails<br />

from the patients who have received a heart<br />

pillow. For more information, please contact<br />

Jan de Vries at awctehhague.heartpillow@<br />

gmail.com.<br />

Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 8 &<br />

Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 12<br />

Noon – 2 p.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

FREE<br />

Visitors Welcome<br />

Out to Lunch Bunch<br />

If you’re interested in making new friends<br />

and exploring new restaurants throughout<br />

The Hague, then this is the group for you!<br />

Rather than setting one specific day of the<br />

month, we change our days each month in<br />

order to accommodate a variety of schedules.<br />

If you have a favorite restaurant in your<br />

neighborhood you’d like to share with the<br />

group, please contact Greetje Engelsman<br />

at awcthehague.activities@gmail.com.<br />

Out to Lunch Bunch: <strong>January</strong><br />

This restaurant is named after Jamey<br />

Bennett, a diplomate and spy who worked<br />

for the British Secret Service. He was sophisticated<br />

and naughty, an irresistible<br />

Upcoming Out to Lunch Bunch:<br />

Wednesday, March 20<br />

Monday, April 15<br />

combination. He knew the world and preferred<br />

luxury. He wanted to sit down on a<br />

Chesterfield with a good gin & tonic. Never<br />

a dull moment with Jamey. Those were the<br />

days… and still are!<br />

Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 22<br />

Noon – 2:30 p.m.<br />

Jamey Bennett<br />

Plaats 11, Den Haag<br />

www.jameybennett.nl<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

Out to Lunch Bunch: <strong>February</strong><br />

Restaurant Van Kinsbergen in the<br />

Zeeheldenkwartier is named after the<br />

commander in Chief Van Kinsbergen of the<br />

<strong>Dutch</strong> Navy. The restaurant is a mix of a<br />

<strong>Dutch</strong> grand café and the popular gastropubs<br />

in London. Many choices in drinks, and<br />

surprisingly good and affordable food.<br />

Families, colleagues, couples and groups of<br />

friends eat here: from meat from a charcoal<br />

grill to vegetarian and fish dishes. The<br />

gigantic bar has 15 taps with many English,<br />

American, <strong>Dutch</strong> and Belgian specialty<br />

beers. Mmm… time to try this restaurant for<br />

lunch in <strong>February</strong>.<br />

Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 19<br />

Noon – 2:30 p.m.<br />

Restaurant Van Kinsbergen<br />

Prins Hendrikplein 15, Den Haag<br />

www.gastropubvankinsbergen.nl<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

Thirsty Thursday<br />

Join us again for our monthly gathering.<br />

Thirsty Thursday is a casual evening of<br />

companionship and good conversation – a<br />

favorite for <strong>AWC</strong> Members and prospective<br />

Members. Two soft drinks, wine or beer,<br />

plus snacks.<br />

Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 24<br />

6 – 9 p.m.<br />

Grand Central Food Market<br />

The Hague Central Station<br />

1st floor, Koningin Julianaplein 17<br />

€ 15 for two drinks and food<br />

No RSVP needed<br />

<strong>February</strong>’s monthly gathering will be a bit<br />

different—at an art gallery! We’ll have an<br />

interesting discussion about the retail side of<br />

the art world: What is takes to run a gallery,<br />

and to work as a go-between for the artists<br />

and customers. As usual, prospective<br />

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Continued from page 17<br />

One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />

by Marsha Hagney<br />

Members and guests are welcome!<br />

Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 21<br />

6 – 9 p.m.<br />

Project 2.0 Gallery, Noordeinde 57<br />

€ 15 for two drinks and food<br />

No RSVP needed<br />

Walkie Talkies<br />

Whether you count your steps or just want<br />

to walk with friends, the Monday morning<br />

Walkie Talkies is a fun, healthy and energetic<br />

way to start the week. The group meets in<br />

front of the Clubhouse before heading out<br />

to walk to various destinations in the area,<br />

usually racking up 10,000 steps along the<br />

way. Sign up on the <strong>AWC</strong> website to receive<br />

email updates, or contact Emily van Eerten<br />

or Greetje Engelsman at awcthehague.<br />

walkietalkies@gmail.com.<br />

Mondays<br />

9:30 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

Free<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

Wassenaar Coffee & Conversation<br />

If you live in or north of Wassenaar, join<br />

your neighbors for coffee and conversation<br />

once-a-month without having to drive to<br />

the clubhouse. One Member will host a<br />

casual coffee at her home at 9:30 on the<br />

first Thursday of every month. Prospective<br />

Members are welcome too. Suzanne<br />

Dundas coordinates these meetings and can<br />

be reached at awcthehague.crafts@gmail.<br />

com. Because the location changes every<br />

month, contact Suzanne if you are interested<br />

in attending or for more information.<br />

Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 7<br />

9:30 a.m.<br />

Location TBA<br />

FREE<br />

RSVP directly on www.awcthehague.org. Direct any questions to<br />

awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com.<br />

Payment must be made within 5 calendar days of reserving or your name will be moved to a waitlist.<br />

Payment can be made in the Front Office by PIN, on the <strong>AWC</strong> website (www.awcthehague.org) or by<br />

bank transfer to the <strong>AWC</strong> account NL42ABNA0431421757.<br />

Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners<br />

Holiday Party<br />

Celeste Brown will<br />

be hosting a WWDP<br />

Post-Holiday gathering<br />

at her home in<br />

Oegstgeest. Everyone<br />

is asked to bring:<br />

• a delicious item for<br />

the buffet table (we<br />

are using SignUp Genius to keep track of<br />

what everyone’s bringing), and<br />

• a wrapped gift for the gift exchange, €10<br />

maximum. Consider bringing a gift you<br />

received that you would rather “re-gift”.<br />

Remember, one person’s “trash” is another<br />

person’s “treasure”!<br />

Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners is a loose collection<br />

of Club Members who have/had<br />

<strong>Dutch</strong> partners. If you identify with this<br />

group but have not yet received your invitation<br />

from SignUpGenius, please let us know<br />

and we’ll add you to the list.<br />

Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 10<br />

Begins at 6:30 p.m.<br />

Address will be provided upon registration<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

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with professional and tailored advice.<br />

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One-of-a-Kind Activities (cont.)<br />

Continued from page 19<br />

Defend Yourself Class<br />

Have you ever felt you needed to be on guard<br />

or wary of your surroundings while out and<br />

about? Have you worried about what to do<br />

if someone tries to mug or attack you? Tim<br />

MacNeil, (Suzanne MacNeil’s husband)<br />

is a graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy,<br />

a retired marine, and a blackbelt in Iaido, a<br />

Japanese martial art that honors the samurai<br />

traditions. Tim will teach participants basic<br />

self-defense moves and methods to prevent<br />

you from being hurt or violated. There<br />

won’t be any tossing or throwing of opponents,<br />

but the class will involve participants<br />

to work in pairs to help master effective defense<br />

methods.<br />

Wednesday, <strong>January</strong> 16<br />

7 – 9:30 p.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

€ 10 Members / € 15 Non-Members<br />

Maximum 30 / No Minimum<br />

Please wear sneakers or other flat shoes,<br />

and comfortable pants<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

Guided Tour of Femmes Fatales—<br />

Strong Women in Fashion<br />

Femmes Fatales will be the first exhibition<br />

in fashion history to focus exclusively on<br />

female designers. The exhibition includes<br />

work by Coco Chanel, Jeanne Lanvin,<br />

Mary Quant, Vivieene Westwood, Miuccia<br />

Prada, Maria Grazia Chiuri (Dior), as well<br />

as <strong>Dutch</strong> greats like Fong Leng, Sheila de<br />

Vries, and Iris van Herpen, among many<br />

other. For more information, contact Jane<br />

Choy at jechoy@me.com.<br />

Wednesday, <strong>January</strong> 23<br />

11 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.<br />

Gemeente Museum, Den Haag<br />

€ 10 Members / € 15 Non-Members<br />

Museum entrance fee of € 13.50 not<br />

included (Entrance is free with Museum<br />

Card)<br />

Maximum 20 / Minimum 12<br />

Registration/Cancellation Deadline:<br />

<strong>January</strong> 13<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

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<strong>Dutch</strong> Products Class<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Member and long-term resident<br />

of the Netherlands, Carol Slootweg,<br />

will explain <strong>Dutch</strong> cooking and cleaning<br />

products. She teaches cooking classes, so<br />

she is an expert in using local products and<br />

converting American recipes. Carol and<br />

Greetje Engelsman have co-produced a<br />

book entitled <strong>Dutch</strong> Products, which will be<br />

available for € 10. Join this class and you<br />

Credit: Gemeente Museum<br />

will never be confused about cooking or<br />

cleaning products in the Netherlands again!<br />

If you have questions, contact Greetje at<br />

awcthehague.newcomers@gmail.com.<br />

Friday, <strong>January</strong> 25<br />

10 a.m. – Noon<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

FREE<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

Guided Tour Behind the Scenes<br />

of Panorama Mesdag<br />

Panorama Mesdag gives you a 360-degree<br />

vista of the sea, dunes and fishing village of<br />

Scheveningen as it was in 1881. Step back<br />

in time and experience a unique view of our<br />

cultural heritage—the oldest 19th century<br />

panorama in the world on its original site.<br />

This cylindrical painting, more than 14 meters<br />

high and 120 meters in circumference,<br />

was painted by one of the most important<br />

painters of the The Hague School, Hendrik<br />

Willem Mesdag, with help from his wife<br />

and friends. A very impressive piece of art!<br />

We will have a guided tour in the Panorama<br />

Mesdag, as well as a behind-the-scenes<br />

look. Join us and be amazed!<br />

Wednesday, <strong>February</strong> 13<br />

10:30 a.m.<br />

Museum Panorama Mesdag<br />

Zeestraat 65, Den Haag<br />

www.panorama-mesdag.nl<br />

€ 7 Members / € 12 Non-Members<br />

Tour does not include € 8.50 admission<br />

fee for the museum (Free with Museum<br />

Card)<br />

20 Maximum / 15 Minimum<br />

Registration Deadline: <strong>February</strong> 7<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

F<strong>AWC</strong>O Handbag & Art Auction<br />

We will have an afternoon of bubbly, bites<br />

and fun, bidding on donated items from our<br />

own Club Members to support the F<strong>AWC</strong>O<br />

charity, Hope Beyond Displacement.<br />

Donations of once-loved handbags or art, to<br />

be auctioned off, can be dropped off at the<br />

clubhouse during opening hours between<br />

<strong>January</strong> 8 and <strong>February</strong> 14.<br />

Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 21<br />

Begins at 1 p.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />

Playball Netherlands is now<br />

taking bookings for <strong>2019</strong>!<br />

Want to get your little one involved?<br />

www.playballkids.com to see the fun for ages<br />

2-7 years<br />

Email kidsplayball@hotmail.com to arrange a<br />

FREE trial class<br />

www.facebook.com/PlayballNetherlands<br />

Or call Maggie on: 0627214347<br />

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2018 <strong>AWC</strong><br />

Holiday<br />

Bazaar<br />

by Naya Pessoa<br />

Last month our <strong>AWC</strong> hosted the annual<br />

Holiday Bazaar and I’m happy to report<br />

that volunteers and attendees ended<br />

the two-day event with bellies full of baked<br />

sweets and warm memories. The vendor list<br />

was extensive with 40+ participants, with<br />

quite a few returning from last year combined<br />

with new vendors from The Hague area. It<br />

was a full showcase of talent including handmade<br />

arts and crafts products, accessories<br />

for adults and children, jewelry, chocolate<br />

sculptures, wine, and so much more variety.<br />

This year’s Holiday Bazaar was one of<br />

many firsts: trying out the new venue at the<br />

Hilton The Hague, new faces on the organizing<br />

committee, and a new sponsorship<br />

from PlayBall Netherlands.<br />

The Kids’ Corner activities were organized<br />

by Holly Savoie, and professionally<br />

supervised thanks to the staff of PlayBall<br />

Netherlands, which donated its staff and<br />

time for both days—which is an incredible<br />

gift to the <strong>AWC</strong> and to the parents<br />

who attended the Holiday Bazaar! Many<br />

thanks to Teresa Mahoney for bringing<br />

PlayBall Netherlands into the loop. To top<br />

off the festivities for the kids, thank you<br />

to Roberta Enschede for helping recruit<br />

our dear Santa “Peter” Claus who stopped<br />

by to say hello. Rest assured that Santa and<br />

everyone else made a pit-stop for cookies<br />

and other treats at the Bake Sale organized<br />

for the first time by Cathleen Owens.<br />

Thank you to everyone who contributed<br />

their culinary skills so we could start gaining<br />

that requisite holiday weight!<br />

The success of the event is fully attributable<br />

to the event’s committee members for their<br />

attention to detail (and deadlines!). A special<br />

thank you dedication to:<br />

Jaimie Keppel – Chair<br />

Teresa Insalaco – Finance<br />

Laurie Martecchini – Volunteer Coordinator<br />

Cathleen Owens – Bake Sale<br />

Amber Gatewood – Public Relations<br />

Emily van Eerten – Raffle<br />

Holly Savoie – Kids’ Corner<br />

We appreciate the valuable guidance from<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> President Suzanne MacNeil as she<br />

answered questions and offered advice<br />

while some of us navigated uncharted<br />

waters. This was the first year for Jaimie<br />

Keppel to serve as the Chair of the Holiday<br />

Bazaar, and she unquestionably rocked it!<br />

Jaimie’s role in the Holiday Bazaar was<br />

spotlighted in an article in the <strong>Dutch</strong> publication<br />

AD, thanks to the efforts of Amber<br />

Gatewood who spread the word in classic<br />

print and digital media.<br />

At the end of the day, our efforts would be<br />

nothing were it not for our fearless volunteers<br />

who offered to roll up their sleeves<br />

in preparation before, during, and after the<br />

event. Laurie Martecchini was tasked<br />

with the coordination of volunteers—both<br />

skills and scheduling—and it is fair to<br />

say she is a professional at it! Speaking<br />

of professional, did you see the raffle display?<br />

Another successful display from the<br />

experienced Raffle Organizer, Emily van<br />

Eerten, who coordinated raffle prizes and<br />

ticket sales. It really is such a gift to be<br />

able to work with committee members who<br />

are so incredibly committed to this annual<br />

event. Not everyone’s efforts are immediately<br />

visible during the two-day event, but<br />

trust that they were surely hard at work—<br />

shout out to the finance team of Teresa<br />

Insalaco and the Club’s Treasurer, Sheyla<br />

Karman.<br />

Personally, it was my first Holiday Bazaar<br />

and I can’t believe what an experience I’ve<br />

been missing. To top it off, it is incredible<br />

to see how such a beautiful event comes together<br />

through 100% volunteer effort. The<br />

gathering of the community—young and<br />

old, <strong>Dutch</strong> and international, entrepreneurs<br />

and customers—is unmatched, and thank<br />

you to everyone who shared with friends<br />

and family!<br />

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Holiday<br />

Bazaar<br />

Volunteers<br />

LaTasha Baker<br />

Laurie Martecchini<br />

Liduine Bekman<br />

Loren Mealy<br />

Lori Schnebelie<br />

Lynne Roukema<br />

Marianne de Beer<br />

Marsha Hagney<br />

Mary Ellen Brennan<br />

Melissa Ride<br />

Michele Jacquemain<br />

Michelle Voorn<br />

Naomi Keip<br />

Anne van Oorschot<br />

Belgin Genc<br />

Cathleen Owens<br />

Celeste Brown<br />

Chelsea Wald<br />

Claire Talbot<br />

Deana Kreitler<br />

Dominique Duysens<br />

Dory Ritchie<br />

Elaine Pimm<br />

Emily van Eerten<br />

Emma Patterson<br />

Georgia Regnault<br />

Naya Pessoa<br />

Rachel Hines<br />

Sabine Crowley<br />

Shanon Gonzalez<br />

Sheyla Karman<br />

Silke van Eerten<br />

Sue Cramp<br />

Susan Cave<br />

Suzanne Dundas<br />

Suzanne MacNeil<br />

Teresa Insalaco<br />

Teresa Mahoney<br />

Una Mulvihill<br />

Ginnie Rempt<br />

Heather DeWitt<br />

Holly Savoie<br />

Jaimie Keppel-Molenaar<br />

Jan de Vries<br />

Jan Essad<br />

Jo van Kalveen<br />

Julie Bravo<br />

Julie Mowat<br />

Julie van der Wolf<br />

Kimberly Carlton<br />

Lana Heidar


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<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat<br />

1 2 3 4 5<br />

Clubhouse Closed through <strong>January</strong> 7<br />

6 7 8 9 10 11 12<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

Buddy Check 12<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Board Meeting<br />

6:30 p.m.<br />

Clubhouse Closed through <strong>January</strong> 7<br />

Heart Pillow Workshop<br />

Noon<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

Evening Book Club<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

WWDP Post Holiday Party<br />

6:30 p.m.<br />

13 14 15 16 17 18 19<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

Winter Welcome Back<br />

Coffee<br />

10:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.<br />

Defend Yourself Class<br />

7 p.m.<br />

Winter Welcome Back<br />

Borrel 6 - 8 p.m.<br />

20 21 22 23 24 25 26<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

Out to Lunch Bunch Noon<br />

Guided Tour of Femmes<br />

Fatales—Strong Women in<br />

Fashion 11 a.m.<br />

Daytime Book Club 10 a.m.<br />

<strong>Dutch</strong> Products Class<br />

10 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

Thirsty Thursday 6 p.m.<br />

27 28 29 30 31<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

Martin Luther King Jr.<br />

Tribute and Dinner<br />

5:30 p.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

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<strong>February</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />

Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat<br />

1 2<br />

Save the Dates:<br />

March 20: Lunch Bunch with Art Tour<br />

April 13: Benefit Event<br />

April 25: Keukenhof Castle Tour<br />

3 4<br />

5<br />

6 7<br />

8 9<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

Wassenaar Coffee and<br />

Conversation 9:30 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Board Meeting<br />

6:30 p.m.<br />

10 11<br />

12<br />

13<br />

14<br />

15 16<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

Heart Pillow Workshop<br />

Noon<br />

Guided Tour Behingd<br />

the Scenes of Panorama<br />

Mesdag 10:30 a.m.<br />

Coffee 10 a.m.<br />

<strong>February</strong> General Meeting<br />

10:30 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

Buddy Check 12<br />

Evening Book Club<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

17 18<br />

19<br />

20 21<br />

22 23<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

Out to Lunch Bunch Noon<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

F<strong>AWC</strong>O Handbag & Art<br />

Auction 1 p.m.<br />

Women in Need TLC Dinner<br />

5 p.m.<br />

Thirsty Thursday 6 p.m.<br />

24 25<br />

26<br />

27 28<br />

Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />

Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />

Daytime Book Club 10 a.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />

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Holocaust Memorial Day<br />

The new <strong>AWC</strong> Website is now up and running!<br />

Please visit<br />

www.awcthehague.org<br />

for all of your Club-related needs:<br />

Payment of Membership dues, registration for activities and events,<br />

Membership directory, etc.<br />

If you have any questions about the website, please contact<br />

awcthehague.communications@gmail.com.<br />

On <strong>January</strong> 27, 2005, the U.N. General<br />

Assembly held a special session in<br />

remembrance of the liberation of<br />

Auschwitz on that same day in 1945. It declared<br />

the 27th of <strong>January</strong> the International<br />

Day in Memory of the Victims of the<br />

Holocaust.<br />

Since that time, there are ceremonies and<br />

projects worldwide. In the Netherlands, the<br />

Nooit Meer Auschwitz lecture (Never Again<br />

Auschwitz) is held each year in Amsterdam.<br />

Private Art Tour<br />

by Susanne MacNeil<br />

There are gems hidden among us. One of those gems, a private art collection, was opened<br />

to Members for a tour. The who and the where remain private, but the reactions from those<br />

who took part speak volumes.<br />

Credit: Roel Wimmenhove<br />

Emily van Eerten: “What an amazing private art tour we had today! I’m so thankful to<br />

our host, and to Suzanne MacNeil, Jane Choy and Marsha Hagney for arranging it. I’m<br />

feeling rather smug for signing up for it not having had any clue what it would be. Fortune<br />

favors the bold! Since I respect the host’s request for privacy, I’ll just leave it there.”<br />

Jo van Kalveen: “It was incredible. I felt so moved by all that we saw and heard about.”<br />

Heather DeWitt: “It truly was a very special event!”<br />

Marsha Hagney: “What a wonderful morning!”<br />

Michelle Voorn: “Thank you for putting this together. It was an amazing experience! And,<br />

as unique and particular as it was, it had passion, love, and most of all approachability. Plus,<br />

who can resist interesting and beautiful art!”<br />

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F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />

by Julie Mowat, <strong>AWC</strong> The Hague F<strong>AWC</strong>O Representative<br />

Handbag and Art Auction<br />

by Teresa Mahoney<br />

Federation of American Women’s Clubs Overseas, a United Nations NGO with<br />

consultative status with the UN Economic and Social Council<br />

www.fawco.org.<br />

On November 5, the inspiring Amanda Lane,<br />

Executive Director of Collateral Repair<br />

Project (CRP), joined us for coffee and gave<br />

a presentation about their program. Our Club<br />

will be raising money for their community<br />

center programs for refugees, which is the<br />

F<strong>AWC</strong>O Target Fundraiser: Hope Beyond<br />

Displacement. Please see the facing page<br />

about our Handbag and Art Auction to be<br />

held on <strong>February</strong> 21.<br />

Amanda shared stories about the refugees<br />

and how CRP makes a difference in their<br />

lives. She was able to tell us how the money<br />

we raise will be used for the SuperGirls program,<br />

gender-based violence program, salon<br />

and auto skills, women’s empowerment,<br />

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school supplies and uniforms, etc. With the<br />

additional funds raised by F<strong>AWC</strong>O Clubs<br />

through the end of <strong>February</strong>, they hope to:<br />

• Fund participation for 30 more women<br />

in the Economic Empowerment<br />

Program for hair styling, beauty and<br />

self-employment skills,<br />

• Renovate a playground,<br />

• Launch the After School Club at a new<br />

community center in downtown Amman,<br />

reaching more refugee children,<br />

• Translate the SuperGirls’ curriculum<br />

into Arabic to ensure it can be used in<br />

the future by all staff,<br />

• And create a dedicated space for women<br />

to learn and train.<br />

It was a wonderful chance to ask questions<br />

and learn more about refugees in Jordan.<br />

You can learn more by visiting www.<br />

collateralrepairproject.org.<br />

One Billion Rising is the biggest massaction<br />

to end violence against women in<br />

human history. The theme of SOLIDARITY<br />

remained the focus of One Billion Rising<br />

2018, with the call to “Rise, Resist,<br />

Unite!”. F<strong>AWC</strong>O encourages its Clubs to<br />

participate, and last year we had so much<br />

fun in a flash mob dance in Leiden with<br />

Leiden University. Save the Date: <strong>February</strong><br />

14. We hope to do something again this year!<br />

Visit www.onebillionrising.org for more<br />

information.<br />

F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s Biennial Conference is March 21<br />

to 24 in Edinburgh, and all <strong>AWC</strong> Members<br />

are invited to attend. It is a great way to<br />

learn about all the things F<strong>AWC</strong>O has to<br />

offer. There will be excellent speakers<br />

and workshops. Please ask me or Teresa<br />

Mahoney if you have any questions. Register<br />

at www.fawco.org.<br />

You might find this hard to believe, but<br />

despite all these years of being involved<br />

with <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>, I have never written<br />

a single article! Well I am finally inspired to<br />

do so because I am thrilled to be in charge of<br />

the Handbag and Art Auction that will take<br />

place <strong>February</strong> 21, and am excited to get everyone<br />

involved. For you new Members, I will<br />

explain the details more in-depth in a minute.<br />

For us veterans, I just want to reminisce a<br />

little about some of the emotional moments<br />

we have experienced together at previous<br />

Handbag Auctions.<br />

Remember the<br />

time when Dru desperately<br />

wanted that<br />

beautiful pink Chanel<br />

bag but the bidding<br />

went beyond her budget<br />

and she very reluctantly<br />

had to stop?<br />

Then Nancy stepped<br />

in, bought the bag, and<br />

presented it to Dru as<br />

a present. Drew burst<br />

into tears—and, oh my<br />

gosh, I am tearing up thinking about it now.<br />

What<br />

about when<br />

Lara won<br />

the beautiful<br />

white-beaded<br />

bridal clutch<br />

donated by<br />

her own<br />

mother Georgia? There were very few dry<br />

eyes in the room after that touching motherdaughter<br />

moment.<br />

Did you hear about Melissa bidding on<br />

that gorgeous vintage Hermes scarf as a surprise<br />

for me? (Have I mentioned my scarf<br />

obsession?) Again, the bidding started going<br />

high, and suddenly Melissa thought “Crap<br />

(sorry for the swearing but you know how<br />

Melissa thinks!) what if Teresa had actually<br />

donated that scarf!?” So<br />

she stopped bidding only<br />

to have Susan swoop in,<br />

buy it, and present it to<br />

her as a gift. And I am<br />

the happy recipient of that auction highlight!<br />

New Members, you can tune back in<br />

now… So how does the auction work?<br />

First: Over the next few weeks, have a<br />

look to see if you have any well-loved handbags<br />

that need a new home. Accessories like<br />

scarves or gloves are appreciated, too. This<br />

year we are introducing a new category: art.<br />

If you have any nice pieces that need a new<br />

home, please donate those as well.<br />

Second: Bring those lovely auction items<br />

to the Clubhouse during office hours through<br />

<strong>February</strong> 14.<br />

Third: Relax while my team and I put<br />

together a catalog and get some bubbly and<br />

snacks ready. The lovely and talented Loren<br />

has volunteered to be auctioneer again this<br />

year, so thank goodness success is assured!<br />

Fourth: Come to the Auction <strong>February</strong><br />

21! There will be bubbly, good cheer, lots of<br />

fun and, of course, snacks! All proceeds go to<br />

the very worthy and well researched F<strong>AWC</strong>O<br />

Charity: Hope Beyond Displacement. Have a<br />

look at the facing page for more info in case<br />

you missed Amanda Lane’s inspiring presentation.<br />

When she explains about all the good<br />

work they are doing, you just want to throw<br />

money at her! How much nicer to throw money<br />

to support the charity while also getting a few<br />

handbags in return.<br />

Ok, I feel I have gushed enough. Here’s the<br />

condensed message for those who have dozed<br />

off despite the plethora of exclamation points:<br />

Handbag and Art Auction<br />

Thursday <strong>February</strong> 21<br />

starting at 1 p.m.<br />

Please drop off auction items (wellloved<br />

handbags and art) at the<br />

Clubhouse starting now!<br />

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Restaurant Recommendations<br />

by Audrey Goodman<br />

Thank you to <strong>AWC</strong> Member Michelle Voorn, for submitting the following restaurants<br />

to be featured this month. Please send your recommendations to goingdutchmag@<br />

gmail.com.<br />

Cencalli<br />

Authentic Mexican restaurant. They even<br />

make their own tortillas!<br />

Korte Houtstraat 14C, 2511 CD,<br />

Den Haag<br />

070 215 7547<br />

cencalli.com<br />

Mexican, Latin, Spanish<br />

€€ - €€€<br />

Tuesday, 5 – 10 p.m.<br />

Wednesday – Saturday,<br />

11:30 a.m. – 4 p.m. & 5 – 10 p.m.<br />

Closed Sunday & Monday<br />

KUA Mexican Kitchen<br />

They make their own mole and have a<br />

pozole to die for!<br />

Torenstraat 77, 2513 BP, Den Haag<br />

070 737 1335<br />

Kuarestaurant.nl<br />

Mexican, Latina, Vegetarian<br />

€€ - €€€<br />

Tuesday – Sunday, 5:30 – 11 p.m.<br />

Closed Monday<br />

Madestein Restaurant & Events<br />

Relaxed but trendy restaurant, with a variety<br />

of dishes. And a very pretty location by a<br />

lake.<br />

Madepolderweg 100, 2553 EG,<br />

Den Haag<br />

017 424 4843<br />

madestein.nl<br />

French, <strong>Dutch</strong>, Seafood<br />

€€ - €€€<br />

Monday – Saturday, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m.<br />

Sunday, 9 a.m. – 10 p.m.<br />

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Chat, Craft & Cake Open House Recap<br />

by Susanne Dundas<br />

“You are all so talented.”<br />

“I must have the recipe for the Sarah Bernhardt cookies.”<br />

Yes, we enjoyed the accolades, but Chat, Craft & Cake was more pleased to welcome<br />

some new faces (and Rebecca Wood, a former <strong>AWC</strong> Member visiting from Texas)<br />

during our community-wide open house on November 27. It was also nice to display<br />

our projects and admire what other CCandCers have accomplished through<br />

the years. Chat, Craft & Cake meets every Tuesday at the Clubhouse from 10 a.m.<br />

until noon.<br />

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“Your stitches are so precise.”<br />

“You designed that yourself?!”<br />

Sarah Bernhardt Bars<br />

Submitted by Hilde Hatlestad Volle<br />

Ingredients:<br />

Almond Base<br />

400 g almonds<br />

400 g sugar<br />

4 tsp baking powder<br />

6 egg whites<br />

Chocolate buttercream<br />

250 g butter<br />

200 g powdered sugar<br />

6 egg yolks<br />

4 tsp cocoa powder<br />

2 tsp vanilla sugar<br />

Chocolate glaze<br />

200 g chocolate (I used milk chocolate, but<br />

use the dark one if you prefer that)<br />

2 tbsp butter<br />

Directions:<br />

Grind the almonds and mix them with the<br />

baking powder. Whisk the egg whites until<br />

stiff. Add the sugar little by little and whisk<br />

until it is a thick merengue. Fold in the almonds.<br />

Put the mixture in a roasting pan (approx.<br />

30x40 cm) and bake it in the oven on 175°C<br />

for 20 minutes. Let it cool in the pan until<br />

completely cold.<br />

Whisk soft butter together with the powdered<br />

sugar. Whisk in the egg yolks until you get a<br />

fluffy buttercream. Then whisk in the cocoa<br />

powder and the vanilla sugar. Spread it all<br />

over the almond base and put it in the fridge<br />

for a couple of hours. If you can’t fit the pan<br />

in the fridge you can divide it in two and put<br />

in on serving plates.<br />

Melt the chocolate together with the butter.<br />

Spread it over the cold cake in a thin layer.<br />

Let it cool in the fridge again until the chocolate<br />

glaze is stiff. Slice the cake with a sharp<br />

knife – and enjoy!<br />

P.S. – This cake is excellent for the freezer. I<br />

slice it and put it in the freezer, then I take out<br />

as much as I need/want. Thaw it for 10 – 15<br />

minutes before serving.<br />

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Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.<br />

Tribute and Dinner<br />

by Roberta Enschede<br />

On November 2, 1983, President Ronald Reagan signed a bill making the third Monday<br />

in <strong>January</strong> a federal holiday in honor of the birth of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. At the<br />

time he noted that Dr. King’s 39 years changed America forever, “The conscience of<br />

America has been touched,” he said.<br />

Since 1986, we have commemorated Martin Luther King Day in this community. Then<br />

as now, there is much to reflect upon and much to do. The poet Nikki Giovanni wrote, “If<br />

we are wrong, then the Constitution of the United States is wrong. This is a sacred poem.”<br />

Dan Rather, former news anchor who covered Dr. King commented, “There are Lifters and<br />

Leaners. While thousands leaned on him, I never saw his shoulders give way or his back<br />

bent.” Former Secretary of State General Colin Powell warned, “We cannot forget where<br />

we came from.”<br />

In these times, General Powell’s statement is more urgent than ever. It is a call to action!<br />

In November 2018, the FBI released a report that documented a significant increase in hate<br />

crimes. The totals included a doubling of anti-Arab hate crimes and a 37 % increase in anti-<br />

Semitic incidents. African-Americans made up nearly half of all the victims of hate crimes.<br />

We will never forget what happened when people were praying in the Mother Emanuel<br />

Church in Charleston, South Carolina or in the synagogue in Pittsburgh or on the streets of<br />

Credit: TJ Brown<br />

Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 27 at 5:30 p.m.<br />

Hotel Den Haag-Wassenaar, Zijdeweg 54, Wassenaar<br />

(just off the A-44 at the bridge)<br />

€ 30 Adults / € 15 Children under 12<br />

Charlotteville, Virginia, when men<br />

carrying torches reminiscent of Nazi<br />

times and the KKK shouted “Jews<br />

will not replace us.” They even carried<br />

signs emblazoned with the words<br />

“Diversity is a code word for White<br />

Genocide.” They explained, “We’re<br />

just going up there to, like, stand up<br />

for the white race and defend our<br />

heritage, keep the Confederate monuments<br />

from coming down.” Rep.<br />

John Lewis, a hero of the Civil Rights<br />

Movement, said, “I cannot believe in<br />

my heart what I am witnessing today<br />

in America. Why do people put each other down because of their race or what part of the<br />

world they come from. We can and must do better.”<br />

Like Rep. Lewis, our speakers Lois Mothershed-Pot and Reverend Harcourt Klinefelter<br />

lived through the times and the struggles. Like his, theirs are the voices of history who see<br />

their personal experiences manifest not in the past, but in the world today and tomorrow.<br />

Lois was the first African-American student in her university and the first Black President<br />

of the National Christian Students Union. Her sister, Thelma Mothershed, was one of the<br />

Little Rock Nine, the young high school students who tried to integrate Central High School<br />

in Little Rock against the orders of Governor Orval Faubus. Ultimately President Eisenhower<br />

had to send in the National Guard. Her father was a U.S. Army officer in WWII, who fought<br />

in Europe and the Pacific in the segregated U.S. Army. He fought for freedom that was not<br />

his in the army or back home in Little Rock.<br />

Reverend Harcourt Kinefelter finished his studies in Theology at Yale University and<br />

went down South to find Dr. King. He worked for him for three years till his death. Since<br />

that time, he has devoted his life to non-violent conflict resolution.<br />

Agence France Presse – Getty Images<br />

We hope you will come and bring the children. TS Galloway from Chicago will be<br />

there with his trombone and other musician friends. TS used to play with Count Basie and<br />

before that with Ben Branch in Chicago for Dr. King’s rallies. We’ll have some wonderful<br />

singing too and U.S. Deputy Chief of Mission, Shawn Crowley, will speak as will some of<br />

our young people.<br />

Though so much of the news has been negative this past year, we know “deep in our<br />

hearts, we shall overcome someday.” Please join us for a simple dinner, the kind Dr. King<br />

would have liked. Join us to share the words and wisdom of the young and the people who<br />

were there and remember.<br />

Sponsored by OAR – Overseas Americans Remember<br />

Anneke Beeuwkes, Michelle Beier, Roberta Enschede, Tove McGrew, and Jessie Rodell<br />

For reservations or further information, please contact Roberta Enschede at<br />

oarinnl@yahoo.com.<br />

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The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />

by Eileen Harloff<br />

A Tale of Two Dams<br />

Under this intriguing headline was a twopage<br />

story that opened up a whole new world<br />

for me—that of sophisticated food and cooking.<br />

It was reported that on an evening at<br />

the end of October 2018, for a ticket costing<br />

$180, some 80 people were served a modern<br />

<strong>Dutch</strong> menu at the James Beard House in<br />

New York City. This is the site of the James<br />

Beard Foundation, the most prestigious culinary<br />

institute of America, and to be invited to<br />

prepare a meal there is not only a great honor,<br />

but also an opportunity to receive international<br />

recognition. Five <strong>Dutch</strong> restaurants were<br />

involved—Choux, Vermeer and Kaagman,<br />

and Kortekaas from Amsterdam, and Aloha<br />

and Dertien from Rotterdam (hence the “two<br />

dams”). These restaurants were selected by<br />

010/020, an organization that was set up two<br />

years ago with the aim of highlighting the<br />

“diversity of the large city gastronomy within<br />

and outside the Netherlands.” This entails an<br />

exchange of chefs at local, national and international<br />

levels, and promoting the “activist<br />

chef,” who regards cooking as an art, not just<br />

a job, and chefs as agents of change, who operate<br />

with a social agenda. This means cooking<br />

with natural ingredients, using more vegetables<br />

and biological products, paying cooks<br />

and food personnel decent wages, avoiding<br />

unnecessary waste, and the like.<br />

As for the menu of the <strong>Dutch</strong> dinner last<br />

October, three creative examples include<br />

sunflower seed cream with apple espuma,<br />

calves brain with oysters, and pig cheeks<br />

with fermented pears. As for me, I’ll stick to<br />

my peanut butter cookies and tuna fish sandwiches—at<br />

least I’ll know how to pronounce<br />

them.<br />

From Restauranteur to<br />

Archaeologist<br />

Among the cultural treasures of the City of<br />

Delft for visitors to see in the coming year<br />

may well be artifacts that restauranteur Jon<br />

Cornelese found in his recently purchased<br />

building located next to the Grote Kerk.<br />

These were discovered when he was checking<br />

for a potential leak in the floor and came<br />

upon a cellar with two parts—one dating<br />

back to the 15th century and the other to the<br />

13th century. Archaeologists were called in to<br />

inventory the site, and their findings were impressive.<br />

There were blue tiles (one of which<br />

featured an elephant, long before elephants<br />

were widely known), clay pipes, a beer tankard<br />

dating back to 1280, and even a human<br />

leg bone. There were also several bricks that<br />

were identified as coming from the 13th and<br />

14th centuries and had probably been part of<br />

Credit: Fred Leeflang<br />

Credit: Museum Mondial<br />

Miniatures at Their Minimalist<br />

They were created in the Soviet era. They<br />

require a microscope to see and recognize<br />

them. They are few in number. They are<br />

unique and truly spectacular. They are 14<br />

of the many miniatures created by Mykola<br />

Syadristy, a well-known artist in his home<br />

country of the Ukraine. They are on display<br />

in Museum Mondial in Volendam, which<br />

was created especially for this purpose after<br />

a visit that Mural Bilan made to an exhibition<br />

of Syadristy’s work in Turkey. What<br />

he saw astonished and impressed him, and<br />

he enthusiastically told his neighbor in the<br />

Netherlands, Marc van Hartog, who was<br />

then Director of the Stedelijk Museum in<br />

Zwolle. He too was impressed, and an exhibition<br />

was arranged in his museum. In the<br />

meantime, Bilan and van Hartog envisioned<br />

a museum dedicated to just the works of<br />

Syadristy, who agreed to the plan if he himself<br />

could select its location. The three men<br />

visited many sites and finally, in the small<br />

town of Volendam, the artist chose a site on<br />

items on display are portraits of Rembrandt<br />

and Yuri Gagarin, the first person in space,<br />

a bug on a foot and a 1.8 millimeter beautifully<br />

detailed windmill. The materials used<br />

by the artist are pliable gold and fruit pits.<br />

The history of the artist is as fascinating as<br />

his works. Born in 1937 in Ukraine, then a<br />

part of Russia, he was an engineer by career<br />

and a diver for sport. As such, he learned to<br />

slow down his breathing, which stood him<br />

in good stead in his art, whereby a slight<br />

trilling of the hand could lead to the destroying<br />

of a work in progress. The KGB—<br />

the Russian Secret Service—wanted to<br />

recruit him to make miniature devices for<br />

listening in on people’s conversations, but<br />

he refused and as a result he was arrested<br />

and tortured. Fortunately, he survived and<br />

has become a well-known artist. Museum<br />

Mondial is open Tuesday to Sunday, from<br />

10 a.m. to 6 p.m.<br />

The Last Post Office<br />

In November the only remaining post office<br />

in The Hague was closed. The era of<br />

the local post office, with the head office<br />

next to the Grote Kerk in the center of town,<br />

is over. They have been replaced by neighborhood<br />

postal agencies in stores, tobacconists,<br />

and supermarkets. One of the most<br />

unusual of these locations is situated across<br />

the street from the former central office and<br />

is in the shop Papegaaien Paleis, or Parrot<br />

Palace. Here can be found some 300 parrots<br />

of various colors, attributes and countries<br />

of origin. As the owner of the Palace<br />

says, “nowhere else in the Netherlands can<br />

you buy stamps or send packages among<br />

parrots” and, incidentally, you may even be<br />

prompted to buy one.<br />

Credit: James Beard Foundation<br />

a nearby cloister of that time. These bricks<br />

have now been donated to the Grote Kerk,<br />

whose tower is currently under renovation.<br />

While the archaeological findings have delayed<br />

the opening of the new restaurant by<br />

half a year, they have earned their keep as<br />

a unique addition to the finished building.<br />

Cornelese plans to place a glass floor over<br />

the cellar, which will house the WCs, and<br />

thereby take the customers 800 years back in<br />

time with a simple “wash room visit.”<br />

the harbor, with a beautiful view. And so<br />

Museum Mondial was established.<br />

Syadristy loaned the 14 works to the museum.<br />

Among this collection is a gold replica,<br />

3.85 millimeters small and containing<br />

256 details, of the Santa Maria, the lead<br />

ship that Christopher Columbus sailed to<br />

America. Syadristy commanded that this<br />

work of art should be so placed in the museum<br />

that it looked out over the harbor. Other<br />

Credit: Parrot Palace<br />

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Thanksgiving in<br />

Leiden


Women in Need TLC Dinner<br />

by Holly Savoie<br />

Continuing the tradition of community outreach, the <strong>AWC</strong> is hosting its annual TLC<br />

Dinner on Saturday, <strong>February</strong> 23. Our goal is to share a bit of TLC with some women<br />

outside or inside our Club, who are experiencing personal struggles and could use a<br />

building up. A personal struggle might be trying to pay bills without enough funds, watching<br />

a loved one suffer, grieving the loss of a spouse or child, dealing with the collapse of a<br />

marriage, battling cancer or other illness, or losing a job and struggling to find a new one.<br />

You can always tell who the strong women are. They are the<br />

ones you see building each other up. ~Anonymous<br />

We want to provide an opportunity for women to put their trouble behind them for a few<br />

hours and maybe make some new friends, to support one another and make connections.<br />

Our goal for this project is to have these women walk away after a relaxing evening and see<br />

that the <strong>AWC</strong> is an organization of strong women determined to make a difference in the<br />

lives of those around us.<br />

If you know of a woman who could benefit from this uplifting and fulfilling evening, please<br />

send her name and a bit of her “story” to me by <strong>January</strong> 19 at hpsavoie@comcast.net and<br />

the committee will send out an invitation. If you would like to be involved, there are several<br />

ways that you can help:<br />

• Donate or find sponsors for gifts for the guests.<br />

• On the night of the event itself, we need the help of six volunteers to decorate and serve<br />

the ladies.<br />

• We are also looking for musicians who are willing to donate their services.<br />

Saturday, <strong>February</strong> 23<br />

5 – 10 p.m.<br />

<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />

Guests by Invitation Only<br />

Volunteers Needed<br />

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8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues<br />

by Liliana Todorovic<br />

While many people rejoice at the arrival<br />

of Sinterklaas and oliebollen,<br />

changes in the weather can bring<br />

about changes in our emotional state. With<br />

the temperature dropping and days getting<br />

shorter, it’s easy to get caught up in a flurry<br />

of negativity.<br />

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD), or winter<br />

depression, is characterized by changes<br />

of mood during the colder, darker days of<br />

autumn and winter. You are suffering from<br />

SAD if, at the turn of the season, you are<br />

suddenly experiencing never-ending negative<br />

moods, exhaustion first thing in the<br />

morning and throughout the day, sugar and carbohydrate cravings, lethargy, irritability, or<br />

feelings of worthlessness and despair.<br />

The recognition of the impact of the seasons on our emotional wellbeing dates back to<br />

Ancient Greece. As early as around 400 BC, pioneer physician Hippocrates described how<br />

seasonal changes influence our health. It is believed that seasonal affective disorder is triggered<br />

by our brain’s response to a decrease in daylight. Shorter days can disrupt our biological<br />

clock, the circadian rhythm, and decrease our levels of serotonin and melatonin,<br />

chemicals crucial to regulating our mood and sleep. Luckily, most symptoms subside with<br />

the arrival of spring.<br />

In the meantime, here are eight things you can do to beat the winter blues:<br />

1. Take advantage of your lunch break to step outside and soak in some rays. Studies have<br />

shown that vitamin D deficiency can affect up to 50% of people in the northern hemisphere.<br />

If you are new to the Netherlands and hail from warmer climates, the lack of<br />

sunshine might be affecting your health and wellbeing. Breaking up your day by going<br />

for a walk can boost your positive energy. Taking vitamin D and B12 supplements is<br />

proven to be beneficial.<br />

beta-carotene, and vitamin C and E. If you are in the mood for comfort food, try<br />

cooking a protein-rich curry with pumpkin, sweet potatoes, chickpeas or lentils and<br />

a sprinkling of turmeric, a spice known for its health benefits. Instead of bingeing on<br />

desserts—share your holiday cookies with your friends or your office.<br />

4. Stick to a regular sleep schedule. Because seasonal depression is caused by changes in<br />

the circadian rhythm, it’s important to make sure that you wake up and go to sleep at<br />

roughly the same time. Create an evening routine to help you unwind by stowing away<br />

electronics an hour before bedtime, doing a guided meditation, or cozying up with a<br />

good book.<br />

5. Use light therapy to improve your mood. Healthy light exposure prevents the development<br />

of severe winter depression by reducing the level of melatonin, which makes<br />

you sleepy, and increasing the level of serotonin. Studies show that a highly effective<br />

treatment for seasonal depression is the exposure to a light box, or SAD lamp, which<br />

mimics sunlight. Basking under the lamp every morning for up to one hour will significantly<br />

improve your mood and energy levels. The use of dawn-simulating alarm<br />

clocks, that progressively lighten up in the early hours to imitate the sunrise, is also a<br />

good option. Don’t be afraid to brighten your mood by wearing bright colors, lighting<br />

candles and sitting by a fireplace.<br />

6. Invest in a negative ion generator, or ionizer. About the size of an air purifier, this<br />

device is proven to fight effects of seasonal depression by increasing healthy air molecules<br />

in your home, the same that can be found on mountains, beaches and waterfalls.<br />

When inhaled, negative ions increase the flow of oxygen in our bloodstream and the<br />

production of serotonin. Negative ion generators make us feel rejuvenated and less<br />

drowsy, like a deep breath of crisp, mountain air.<br />

7. Spend time with your friends and loved ones. As the end of the year approaches, many<br />

people struggle with deadlines at work, exams, or the holiday rush. Take a break from<br />

the grind to connect with an old friend. Instead of stressing out about Christmas presents,<br />

why don’t you give a friend something even more precious: the chance to spend<br />

some quality time together trying a new activity?<br />

8. Talk it through. Seasonal depression can take away our ability to see the light at the end<br />

of the tunnel. If you are feeling hopeless, do not be afraid to seek help. A good, long<br />

talk with a professional therapist, who can can help you identify and personalize coping<br />

mechanisms, is the best cure for seasonal depression.<br />

2. Stay active. As much as we all want to<br />

cozy up at home during the winter, it’s<br />

important to keep moving. Don’t wait<br />

until the New Year to decide to get fit.<br />

Try a new sport with a friend, go to the<br />

gym, join a yoga class—all of this will<br />

lead to an increase in the production of<br />

serotonin, the feel-good hormone.<br />

3. Fight the urge to load up on<br />

carbohydrates and sugar. You can<br />

boost your energy by eating fruits and<br />

vegetables loaded with antioxidants,<br />

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Clues in the Calico<br />

by Susan Cave<br />

I<br />

am a collector of old quilts. I bought my<br />

first in 1969 when I was in graduate school<br />

at the University of Georgia. It snowed<br />

in December, my thin dorm blanket left me<br />

freezing and I resorted to sleeping under my<br />

coat. I was envious of girls whose mothers<br />

arrived with armfuls of colorful quilts, both<br />

new and old. I was foreign and had no notion<br />

of them. I found a pink and white one at<br />

the local flea market for $3. It cost $2 for a<br />

box of soap powder and six quarters for the<br />

communal washer and dryer. I have been<br />

studying quilts and their stories ever since.<br />

She can spot the pattern. I can spot the fabric<br />

age and type. We feel the weight, look at the<br />

stitching, the color damage, the edges and<br />

the measurements, discuss and between us<br />

we can make the quilts tell their stories. And<br />

what stories they turn out to be.<br />

Some clues are easy to recognize, others<br />

are very subtle, and the obscure messages<br />

send us running for the textbooks. There were<br />

distinctive eras of fashionable quilt making—<br />

from the early 1840s through the 1850s, the<br />

1880s to 1900, and the Depression quilts of<br />

the 1930s. Some designs hit us in the eyes the<br />

minute we see them. The Double Wedding<br />

Ring and the Dresden Plate are classic patterns<br />

of the Depression, and they are both<br />

part of Sherry’s collection in Leiden. Others<br />

are more elusive and take time.<br />

Gentleman’s Fancy, Chinese Holidays, Flying<br />

<strong>Dutch</strong>man, Henry of the West or Hearts and<br />

Gizzards? Occasionally we come up with<br />

several names for the same pattern and try<br />

to correlate the correct one with the time it<br />

was made.<br />

My quilt journey has taken me across<br />

continents and time zones. I have a Ralli from<br />

the Sind province of Pakistan, a Kantha dated<br />

in Bengali from eastern India, a modern New<br />

Zealand quilt celebrating the end of the Maori<br />

land wars, an English quilt made in 1890<br />

by a man called Wilbur Blenkinsopp, and a<br />

signed and dated 1906 Swiss silk quilt from<br />

Berne. From the U.S., I have a quilt made by<br />

a woman born a slave, a patchwork from a<br />

girl belonging to the Sauk and Fox tribe of<br />

Oklahoma, and a cross stitch quilt made by<br />

a lady from Virginia who met Martin Luther<br />

King, Jr. in person. That same lady, nearing<br />

the end of her time, gave me a Tree of Life<br />

quilt made for her great grandmother’s wedding<br />

in 1884. The maker was the bride’s part<br />

Iroquois grandmother. I feel privileged to be<br />

the guardian of such treasures.<br />

Earlier this year I received an unexpected<br />

email from a lady living on the west coast of<br />

the U.S. named Sherry Cook. Both of us were<br />

members of the American Quilt Study Group<br />

of Lincoln, Nebraska, and our profiles of collecting<br />

were remarkably similar, as we started<br />

around the same time. She collected vastly<br />

more than I ever did, as I was limited by my<br />

irregular trips back to the U.S. But surprise,<br />

surprise, some of her Depression-era quilts,<br />

made from feed sacks, were being exhibited at<br />

the Textile Research Centre (TRC) in Leiden.<br />

Did I want to go and see them? I shared this<br />

news at the <strong>AWC</strong> with Chat, Craft and Cake<br />

(CC&C) members who meet every Tuesday at<br />

the <strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse, and off we went to meet<br />

the Director, Dr. Gillian Vogelsang-Eastwood,<br />

and enjoy the exhibition.<br />

Sherry is in the process of donating a<br />

substantial number of quilts to the TRC and<br />

Gillian has plans for a major exhibition in<br />

2020, coinciding with the 400th anniversary<br />

of the Mayflower. The TRC already had quilts<br />

(American and English) but no specialists<br />

who could identify and catalogue the collection.<br />

Between us, <strong>AWC</strong> Member Beverley<br />

Bennett and I have about 75 years of experience<br />

in quilting and collecting. We felt we<br />

could add value to the details sent by Sherry<br />

and add to the conversation of the others.<br />

Loren Mealey, not a quilt maker but an expert<br />

in textile and design in the CC&C group,<br />

was keen to offer her skills to the TRC too,<br />

so the three of us volunteered.<br />

The clues are in the calico, the batting,<br />

the design, the making, and sometimes in the<br />

papers of the quilt. It is like a detective story.<br />

Few quilt makers had the foresight to sign<br />

and date their work, so we can only make an<br />

educated best guess. But we read and analyze<br />

the clues and categorize them by pattern and<br />

style. Quilts, like clothing, follow fashion.<br />

Beverley and I fortunately have good visual<br />

discriminating skills and good memories.<br />

One of Sherry’s quilts turned up with a<br />

date of 1940, but no further information. By<br />

a process of elimination and lots of research,<br />

we are now satisfied that the quilt date was<br />

out by 100 years and have assigned the date<br />

at 1840. It is indigo and white, and possibly<br />

the most valuable of the entire collection.<br />

Beverley has used her considerable skill to<br />

preserve small parts which were falling away<br />

and we are confident that researchers will be<br />

able to study it for the next 100 years.<br />

Each time we go to the TRC, we wonder<br />

what we will find. There is a quilt made by<br />

three different pairs of hands and a pre-Civil<br />

War quilt where a new fabric from the 1980s<br />

was expertly used in a mend. The modern<br />

dyes gave it away. Another quilt was made<br />

using the pages of a Sears Roebuck catalogue<br />

in the days when a wedding ring cost<br />

$24.99, and some women made quilts using<br />

new fabrics but adding blocks from their<br />

grandmothers sewing boxes, so the making<br />

spanned decades. Every now and then we<br />

find initials or a name. One day we wondered<br />

aloud, “Who was Amy?”<br />

For me, one of the greatest charms of<br />

the American quilt are the pattern names.<br />

The lyricism of Jacob’s Ladder, the Rose<br />

of Sharon, Crown of Thorns, and The Old<br />

Rugged Cross evoke a simpler time when<br />

the Bible was the only book in the home.<br />

And whoever thought of naming a patchwork<br />

Loren has been left open-mouthed when<br />

Beverley and I get excited about saw teeth,<br />

prairie points, feathers, butted edges, nibbed<br />

corners, quilting in the ditch, husks, lozenges,<br />

long arms and broken dishes. Standing back,<br />

we must sound daft, but it all adds to the story.<br />

We hope that by the time the exhibition<br />

arrives in 2020, we will have added to the<br />

collection, filled in the missing years and<br />

the TRC will have the largest quilt holding<br />

in Europe. The American quilt is an amazing<br />

example of women’s social history and we are<br />

privileged to be part of it at the TRC.<br />

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Announcements<br />

The Arts Society Lecture<br />

The Gods of Egypt<br />

Tanja van der Zon, Art Historian and<br />

Exhibition Manager at the Rijksmuseum<br />

van Oudheden in Leiden, will introduce<br />

us to the fascinating world of the Gods<br />

of the ancient Egyptians. Where did the<br />

Gods live and what was their purpose in<br />

the Netherworld? Myths and stories will<br />

show their extraordinary existence and<br />

influence. Nonmember fee is € 13. www.<br />

theartssocietythehague.org<br />

Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 15 at 8 p.m.<br />

Doors open at 7:15 p.m.<br />

Cultural Centrum Warenar<br />

Kerkstraat 75, Wassenaar<br />

International Literature Festival<br />

Writers Unlimited, an annual international<br />

literature festival connecting over 80 authors,<br />

poets and musicians from all over the<br />

world with each other and with audiences,<br />

will take place from <strong>January</strong> 17 – 20 on 13<br />

stages around The Hague. The theme of the<br />

24th edition is Who Wants to Live Forever?,<br />

focusing on the future, including the relationship<br />

between humans and robots, impact<br />

of technological innovations, and hope<br />

and fear for the political future. There are<br />

programs in English as well as <strong>Dutch</strong>. www.<br />

writersunlimited.nl<br />

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Rotterdam International Film<br />

Festival<br />

The 48th International Film Festival<br />

Rotterdam (IFFR) takes place from <strong>January</strong><br />

23 – <strong>February</strong> 3. One of the largest audience<br />

and industry-driven film festivals in the<br />

world, IFFR offers a line-up of carefully selected<br />

fiction and documentary feature films,<br />

short films and media art from 50 countries.<br />

This year’s festival will move through a<br />

plethora of emotion, and will consider how<br />

our feelings can be evoked, understood or<br />

manipulated by images in a contemporary<br />

world. www iffr.com<br />

Burns’ Night Supper<br />

The St. Andrew’s Society extends an<br />

invitation to the <strong>AWC</strong> to attend their annual<br />

ceilidh (Scottish country dancing) and dinner<br />

in honor of Robert Burrns, Scotland’s most<br />

famous poet. Dinner will include haggis<br />

(dispatched with a swirling sword), neeps<br />

(turnips) and tatties (mashed potatoes);<br />

please note if you’d prefer vegetarian<br />

haggis when booking your tickets for € 40<br />

with Marion at maria.janine@ziggo.nl. No<br />

dancing experience is necessary as you will<br />

be encouraged to join in with step-by-step<br />

instructions by a caller―the dance teacher<br />

who walks everyone through each dance.<br />

www.standrews.nl<br />

Friday, <strong>January</strong> 25<br />

Door open at 6:30 p.m.<br />

Prompt start at 7 p.m.<br />

BSN Leidschenveen<br />

Vrouw Avenweg 640, Den Haag<br />

Grab Your Skates<br />

Winter is here and in addition to the<br />

chance of skating on natural ice, there are<br />

several outdoor rinks that have been set<br />

up around The Hague. The seaside resort<br />

of Scheveningen offers ice skating in front<br />

of the Kurhaus through <strong>January</strong> 20 (www.<br />

cooleventscheveningen.nl). Although<br />

Leidsenhage, the large shopping center with<br />

free parking in Leidschendam, is largely<br />

under construction, its large rink is once<br />

again open daily through March 3. This rink<br />

is occasionally closed for private parties,<br />

so be sure to check the calendar first (www.<br />

iceparadise.nl).<br />

Feel at Home in The Hague Fair<br />

Whether you are new to The Hague and its<br />

surrounding area or have lived here for years,<br />

you shouldn’t miss the biggest international<br />

community event in the region. There<br />

will be an International<br />

Food Court and more than<br />

150 exhibitors providing<br />

information on every aspect<br />

of life in and around The<br />

Hague as well as shows and<br />

displays from local schools,<br />

theater groups, musicians<br />

and sports teams. Be sure to<br />

stop by the <strong>AWC</strong> table. Free<br />

tickets are offered online:<br />

www.feelathomeinthehague.<br />

com/registration<br />

Sunday, <strong>February</strong> 3<br />

11 a.m. – 5 p.m.<br />

Den Haag Stadhuis<br />

Spui 70, Den Haag<br />

www.<br />

feelathomeinthehague.com<br />

Art Fair in Rotterdam<br />

The 20th edition of Art Rotterdam, an<br />

international art fair for contemporary<br />

modern art, takes place from <strong>February</strong> 7 –<br />

10 in the Van Nelle Factory, a UNESCO<br />

World Heritage Site. Built in 1931, this<br />

factory produced tobacco, coffee and tea<br />

from until 1995. It is an iconic example of<br />

the Modern Movement in the Netherlands.<br />

This is an excellent opportunity to visit this<br />

unique site in addition to browsing around<br />

an art fair known for discovering up-andcoming<br />

talent. Discounted tickets are<br />

available online: www.artrotterdam.com<br />

Chinese New Year Festival<br />

There is a lot to see at the official opening<br />

of the annual Chinese New Year Festival<br />

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2018 Photo by Richard Mulder


Announcements (cont.)<br />

Continued from page 53<br />

Saturday, <strong>February</strong> 9. In and around The<br />

Hague Stadhuis (City Hall), the national<br />

celebration is organized with Chinese<br />

dragons and lions dancing, performances<br />

by Chinese and <strong>Dutch</strong> artists, and an Asian<br />

market in the Stadhuis starting at 11 a.m.<br />

www.chineesnieuwjaar-denhaag.nl<br />

The Arts Society Lecture<br />

The Art of Turner<br />

William Turner (1775 – 1851) once said,<br />

“The only secret I have is damned hard<br />

work.” He was the classic example of a<br />

self-made man, experimenting and taking<br />

landscape painting to a radically new level,<br />

truly exploring the face of nature and the<br />

sublime. Lecturer Sarah Stopford majored<br />

in art history at Harvard and English at<br />

Cambridge. She has a special interest in<br />

the connections between literature and<br />

visual arts. Nonmember fee is € 13. www.<br />

theartssocietythehague.org<br />

Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 12 at 8 p.m.<br />

Doors open at 7:15 p.m.<br />

Cultural Centrum Warenar<br />

Kerkstraat 75, Wassenaar<br />

46th ABN AMRO World Tennis<br />

Tournament<br />

Over 100,000 spectators are expected at<br />

this annual indoor tennis tournament from<br />

<strong>February</strong> 9 – 17 at the Ahoy Rotterdam.<br />

The event offers men’s singles, men’s<br />

doubles and the World Wheelchair Tennis<br />

Tournament. Ladies’ Day will be on<br />

Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 12 featuring tennis of<br />

the very highest standards. Tickets for Kids’<br />

Day on Wednesday, <strong>February</strong> 13 can only<br />

be purchased through the Ahoy Box Office.<br />

www.abnamrowtt.com<br />

Blues Festival Delft<br />

Delft is home to the Netherland’s biggest<br />

indoor blues event from <strong>February</strong> 22 – 24.<br />

More than 70 <strong>Dutch</strong> and foreign bands perform<br />

at more than 30 cafés and restaurants<br />

throughout the city during this free festival.<br />

If you love Chicago and Texas blues, blues<br />

rock and acoustic Delta blues, you’ll feel<br />

right at home. www.delftblues.nl<br />

Children’s Books Illustrator<br />

Exhibit<br />

The House of the Book within the<br />

Meermanno Museum in The Hague is<br />

presenting a major exhibition about Quentin<br />

Blake, the British illustrator of over 300<br />

children’s books including such Roald<br />

Dahl classics as Charlie and the Chocolate<br />

Factory, and Matilda. Through March 3,<br />

the exhibition will provide an overview<br />

of the complete oeuvre of the worldfamous<br />

illustrator, who began illustrating<br />

children’s books in 1960. Visitors can gain<br />

an insight into his thought process as he<br />

explains step-by-step how he uses a text as<br />

the basis for an illustration. In addition to<br />

many original drawings, there will also be<br />

photographs, illustrations and miniatures.<br />

www.meermanno.nl<br />

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Proost! Questionnaire<br />

Answers by Michelle Voorn<br />

Why are you living in the Netherlands, and<br />

when did you arrive?<br />

My initiation to living in the Netherlands<br />

was in 2000, of course, for love. Stayed<br />

three years and then moved back to Houston.<br />

Second round, same said love reason, and<br />

this time work moved us back. We arrived in<br />

June of 2018.<br />

Give us a quick wrap-up of your family.<br />

My birth family is all over the U.S. and my<br />

brother is in Mexico City. In the Netherlands,<br />

my <strong>Dutch</strong> (well-Texanized) husband Sander<br />

and I have two Texas-born boys: Aidan (13)<br />

and Liam (12).<br />

What do you enjoy most about the <strong>AWC</strong>?<br />

Probably like many before me have said, it<br />

has taken away some of the loneliness of being<br />

a newcomer and leaving home behind.<br />

Not to mention, the social activities are so<br />

varied, from art, to coffee, to royal parades. I<br />

am having so much fun getting to know new<br />

lovely women, whom I hope will become<br />

close friends.<br />

Where is your favorite place in the<br />

Netherlands?<br />

Many don’t know, but I suffer from tinnitus<br />

(the perception of ringing/noise in the ears).<br />

Although mine is a loud engine room with<br />

a mixture of low pitch electrostatic hum,<br />

24/7… so it’s easy to say THE BEACH,<br />

Kijkduin or Scheveningen! The sounds of the<br />

ocean and the waves mask the noise which<br />

my silly brain has decided to recreate. I guess<br />

I should feel connected to Van Gogh since<br />

they now suspect he also suffered from tinnitus.<br />

Which locations haven’t been ticked off<br />

your bucket list?<br />

Maldives, Seychells, Tahiti… oh wait, other<br />

than lazying around on a beautiful beach?<br />

Too many to count. But I’d love to go to Asia,<br />

Japan being one of my top spots in the bucket<br />

list; China, Thailand. Then closer to this<br />

side, I am still missing the Nordic countries<br />

(Denmark, Norway, Sweden). Egypt. The<br />

Transiberian Express. I better think about<br />

getting a job to subsidize all these dreams!<br />

What’s your hobby?<br />

I’m not going to pretend I don’t like TV, I am<br />

a Nordic Noir junky… dark mystery/detective<br />

TV series. I do love the dystopias like<br />

The Handmaids Tale. I can’t get away from<br />

Grey’s Anatomy, and the new one A Million<br />

Little Things. Plus all the cooking shows<br />

from Netflix, particularly Chef’s Table!<br />

Cooking! In the last year or two I started focusing<br />

more on my native Mexican cuisine.<br />

There is so much variety and depth that the<br />

world hasn’t gotten to see and experience, so<br />

I have to start at home.<br />

Then I love reading! Although the move gave<br />

me “Fried Brain Syndrome” (FBS), my brain<br />

and I have had a hard time finishing a book in<br />

the last few months. I’ll get back into it soon.<br />

Music, love music as well. And board games.<br />

Pffff… I have too many and not enough time<br />

for them all!<br />

What is your favorite flower?<br />

Orchids, definitely orchids.<br />

What is your favorite drink?<br />

Again, with limiting me to a single favorite<br />

one… coffee, water, fresh teas (fresh ginger,<br />

cardamom pods, clove and star anise is<br />

my current fave), then there’s vodka (Texas<br />

Tito’s), and wine. And I’ve discovered my<br />

taste has evolved into a good Scotch or<br />

Bourbon.<br />

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