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<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong><br />
<strong>January</strong>/<strong>February</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
The Magazine of the<br />
American Women’s Club<br />
of The Hague<br />
Denneweg 56<br />
2514CH The Hague<br />
Tel. 0703458442<br />
www.lifestylesalonthehague.nl<br />
Holiday Bazaar<br />
Thanksgiving in Leiden<br />
Winter Blues<br />
22<br />
44<br />
48<br />
5 Officers and Chairwomen<br />
6 Message from the President<br />
7 Winter Welcome Back<br />
Coffee and Borrel<br />
7 <strong>February</strong> General Meeting<br />
8 Letter from the Editor<br />
10 Membership<br />
12 Ongoing Activities<br />
19 One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />
22 <strong>AWC</strong> Holiday Bazaar<br />
28 <strong>January</strong> Calendar<br />
30 <strong>February</strong> Calendar<br />
33 Holocaust Memorial Day<br />
33 Private Art Tour<br />
34 F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />
35 F<strong>AWC</strong>O Handbag and Art<br />
Auction<br />
36 Handbag Auction<br />
37 Restaurant<br />
Recommendations<br />
38 C, C & C Open House Recap<br />
40 MLK, Jr. Tribute and Dinner<br />
42 The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />
44 Thanksgiving in Leiden<br />
46 <strong>AWC</strong> Benefit Event<br />
47 Women in Need: TLC Dinner<br />
48 8 Ways to Beat the Winter<br />
Blues<br />
50 Clues in the Calico<br />
52 Announcements<br />
56 Classifieds<br />
57 Index of Advertisers<br />
and Ad Rates<br />
58 Proost! Interview<br />
JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 3
Editor<br />
Audrey Goodman<br />
2018-<strong>2019</strong> <strong>AWC</strong> Officers<br />
Committee Chairs<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Johan van Oldenbarneveltlaan 43<br />
2582 NJ Den Haag<br />
Tel: 070 350 6007<br />
info@awcthehague.org<br />
www.awcthehague.org<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> Magazine<br />
goingdutchmag@gmail.com<br />
Clubhouse Hours<br />
Tuesday and Thursday<br />
10 a.m. - 2 p.m.<br />
Monday, Wednesday and Friday Closed<br />
Dues (Effective 2018-<strong>2019</strong>)<br />
€ 110 per year (€ 66 after <strong>January</strong> 1)<br />
€ 90 business, professional<br />
€ 55 valid US military ID<br />
€ 35 student<br />
€ 35 Outside the Netherlands (<strong>Going</strong><br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> magazine not included)<br />
Add € 15 new member registration fee<br />
Design and Layout<br />
Teresa Mahoney<br />
Cover Photo<br />
Snow in Voorschoten, December 2017 by<br />
Melissa White<br />
Back Cover ad by Marcel Vermeulen:<br />
Vintage brooch transformed into a necklace<br />
Photography<br />
Mary Adams, Susan Cave, Susanne Dundas,<br />
Greetje Engelsman, Amber Gatewood,<br />
Rebecca Hines, Jaimie Keppel, Suzanne<br />
MacNeil, Teresa Mahoney, Julie Mowat,<br />
Melissa Rider, Liliana Todorovic, Michelle<br />
Voorn, Melissa White<br />
Proofreaders<br />
Celeste Brown, Jane Gulde, Diane Schaap,<br />
Debbie van Hees<br />
Advertising Manager & Invoicing<br />
Open<br />
Contributors<br />
Susan Cave, Jane Choy, Susanne Dundas,<br />
Greetje Engelsman, Roberta Enschede, Dena<br />
Haggerty, Marsha Hagney, Eileen Harloff,<br />
Suzanne MacNeil, Julie Mowat, Naya<br />
Pessoa, Melissa Rider, Holly Savoie, Liliana<br />
Todorovic, Michelle Voorn, Melissa White<br />
Printer<br />
www.dwcprint.nl<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Bank Account Number<br />
IBAN: NL42ABNA0431421757<br />
KvK Den Haag<br />
40409274<br />
Honorary President Diane Hoekstra<br />
President Suzanne MacNeil<br />
awcthehague.president@gmail.com<br />
Vice President Marsha Hagney<br />
awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com<br />
Treasurer Sheyla Karman<br />
awcthehague.treasurer@gmail.com<br />
Secretary Heather DeWitt<br />
awcthehague.secretary@gmail.com<br />
Club and Community Development<br />
Naya Pessoa<br />
awcthehague.community@gmail.com<br />
Clubhouse Administrator<br />
Jan Essad<br />
awcthehague.clubhousemgr@gmail.com<br />
Communications Audrey Goodman<br />
awcthehague.communications@gmail.com<br />
Member-at-Large<br />
Sunita Menon<br />
Front Office<br />
Liduine Bekman, Siska Datema-Kool,<br />
Dominique Duysens, Amber Gatewood,<br />
Machelle Hollar, Paula Looijmans, Melissa<br />
Rider, Robin Rose, Holly Savoie, Carol<br />
Schapira, Chelsea Wald<br />
Activities: Greetje Engelsman<br />
Arts: Jane Choy<br />
Assistant Treasurer: Teresa Insalaco<br />
Benefit Event: Michelle Voorn & Deana<br />
Kreitler<br />
Board Advisor: Jessie Rodell<br />
Caring Committee: Naomi Keip<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake: Suzanne Dundas<br />
eNews Amber Gatewood<br />
Evening Events: Elizabeth Zeller<br />
Events & Tours: Liduine Bekman<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O: Julie Mowat and Teresa<br />
Mahoney<br />
Front Office Coordinator: Open<br />
General Meeting Programs: Dena<br />
Haggerty<br />
Heart Pillow: Jan de Vries<br />
Historian/Archivist: Open<br />
Holiday Bazaar: Jaimie Keppel-Molenaar<br />
IT Administrator: Julie Otten<br />
Kids’ Club: Lindsey Turnau<br />
Library: Dena Haggerty<br />
Membership: Melissa Rider<br />
Newcomers: Holly Savoie, Greetje<br />
Engelsman<br />
Parliamentarian: Georgia Regnault<br />
Philanthropy: Holly Savoie<br />
Public Relations: Open<br />
Social Media: Ceci Wong and Julie Otten<br />
Tennis: Molly Boed<br />
Volunteer Coordinator: Laurie<br />
Martecchini<br />
Webmaster: Julie Otten<br />
Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners: Open<br />
Deadlines: Submissions are due no later than the last Monday of the month preceding the publication month.<br />
For example, for the March issue, submissions are due before Monday, <strong>January</strong> 28<br />
Please Note: Articles submitted to <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will be published subject to space limitations and editorial approval.<br />
All rights reserved; reprints only by written permission of the Editor. Please email to: goingdutchmag@<br />
gmail.com<br />
Legal Notice: Articles in <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> express the views and opinions of their authors alone, and not necessarily<br />
those of the <strong>AWC</strong> of The Hague, its Members or this publication.<br />
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<strong>AWC</strong> Mission Statement<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> is an association formed to provide social and educational activities for American<br />
women living in the Netherlands and to promote amicable relations among people of all nations,<br />
as well as acquiring funds for general public interest. Membership in the club is open<br />
to women of all nations who are friendly and welcoming to American culture. The association<br />
does not endeavor to make a profit. The <strong>AWC</strong> is a 100% volunteer organization.<br />
JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 5
Message from the President<br />
by Suzanne MacNeil<br />
Welcome to <strong>2019</strong>! I hope your holiday<br />
celebrations were filled with<br />
family and lots of love. I started<br />
the holidays in early December with those<br />
eight crazy nights of Hanukkah. Then, it was<br />
off to the U.S. where I spent time with my<br />
mom, brother and his family in Jacksonville.<br />
After Florida, we hit the cold climate of Lake<br />
Tahoe where we rented a house for a week,<br />
with plenty of space for family. It was the<br />
perfect way to end the year…with my boys<br />
plus one girlfriend and my sister.<br />
The New Year marks the start of the second<br />
half of this Club year and I’m looking<br />
forward to the next few months of events<br />
and activities, including the annual benefit<br />
on April 13. Plans are still under way, but<br />
our beneficiary organization has been chosen<br />
(see page 46), and I know you’ll want<br />
to attend to support it by buying a ticket<br />
and bidding on fab items in our auctions. It<br />
promises to be a fun and exciting evening.<br />
Stay tuned for more information in the next<br />
few weeks. Please mark your calendars for<br />
Saturday, April 13!<br />
The first half of the Club year has been<br />
a whirlwind for your Board Members and<br />
Committee Chairs as we started implementing<br />
our three-to-five-year plan. Here’s<br />
a recap of the work that has already been<br />
accomplished, with so much more to come.<br />
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As of the first of this new year we bid<br />
adieu to GroupSpaces (good riddance) and<br />
have migrated to our<br />
new website platform<br />
thanks to<br />
Julie Otten, our<br />
IT Chair and<br />
Webmaster.<br />
She worked<br />
tirelessly,<br />
and though<br />
there are minor<br />
tweaks under<br />
way, the most challenging<br />
aspects<br />
of the project are<br />
complete.<br />
Marsha<br />
Hagney, our<br />
Vice President,<br />
worked side by<br />
side with Julie in<br />
November and<br />
December learning<br />
how to populate the new calendar on the<br />
website and helping Members sign up for<br />
events and activities during our transition.<br />
She told me she’s enjoyed learning new technology<br />
skills and working with Members.<br />
The newly refurbished Clubhouse<br />
looks amazing and inviting, thanks to the<br />
intrepid team of Jan Essad, our Clubhouse<br />
Administrator, and Sunita Menon, our<br />
Member-at-Large. Many of their wishes<br />
came true as our landlord agreed to cover<br />
the cost of some of the requests from Jan<br />
and Sunita. The redo isn’t over yet!<br />
Our Communications Team is led by<br />
Audrey Goodman, who is also the <strong>Going</strong><br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> Editor. She is working to expand our<br />
marketing materials and increase activity<br />
on the Club’s public Facebook page over<br />
the next year.<br />
As I mentioned earlier, there is a benefit<br />
event planned for Saturday, April 13.<br />
The Benefit Committee includes our Club<br />
& Community Chair, Naya Pessoa. Naya is<br />
also working with Philanthropy Chair Holly<br />
Savoie to prepare for our annual TLC Dinner<br />
(see page 47) and the Easter basket project<br />
for children and families who may need a<br />
helping hand. Volunteers will be needed!<br />
The GDPR has tested our Club in various<br />
ways, not the least of which is ensuring<br />
we maintain our Members’ privacy.<br />
Melissa Rider, who chairs the Membership<br />
Committee, is collecting forms signed >>11<br />
Winter Welcome Back Coffee<br />
and Borrel<br />
Ring in the New Year by connecting and<br />
reconnecting after the busy holidays!<br />
Daytime best for you? Join us for our<br />
morning coffee…<br />
Evenings better? Stop by for an evening borrel…<br />
The Winter Welcome Back Coffee and Borrel<br />
are just what we need to settle back into our<br />
routines after the holidays. Reconnect with<br />
friends, meet new Members, or introduce potential<br />
Members and share all that our <strong>AWC</strong><br />
has to offer. Learn about upcoming activities,<br />
programs, philanthropic efforts, and volunteer<br />
opportunities from our Board Members<br />
and the chairs of our many programs and<br />
activities. Come and go as your schedule allows!<br />
What better way to start <strong>2019</strong> than in the company<br />
of your <strong>AWC</strong> friends? Come join us!<br />
We are still working on the details<br />
for our <strong>February</strong> meeting as we<br />
go to print, so please look to our<br />
Facebook page and eNews for further information.<br />
Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 14<br />
10 a.m. - 12 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 17<br />
Morning Coffee: 10:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.<br />
Evening Borrel: 6 – 8 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
<strong>February</strong> General Meeting<br />
Did you know that any Englishspeaking<br />
woman may join the <strong>AWC</strong>?<br />
Invite your English-speaking friends<br />
from other countries who have an<br />
affinity for Americans to join us today!<br />
JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 7
Letter from the Editor<br />
by Audrey Goodman<br />
Wow, 2018 was a whirlwind! My<br />
husband, Dan, and I arrived in<br />
The Hague just days after the New<br />
Year, jet lagged and still in shock that we had<br />
moved to the Netherlands. For the first couple<br />
of months, we kept saying, “I can’t believe we<br />
actually live here.” That feels like an eternity<br />
ago. And yet, this past year has also gone by<br />
in the blink of an eye.<br />
Well-behaved women seldom<br />
make history.<br />
~Laurel Thatcher Ulrich<br />
We had agreed to move to The Hague<br />
before we ever set foot here, and I had this<br />
preconceived idea of how our lives would be<br />
in the Netherlands: My husband and I would<br />
ride our bikes all over the country, past endless<br />
fields of blooming tulips and countless<br />
windmills. We would speak <strong>Dutch</strong> fluently<br />
within the first six months, and I would effortlessly<br />
cook <strong>Dutch</strong> food. Ha! We don’t<br />
own bikes. Tulips don’t bloom year-round.<br />
My <strong>Dutch</strong> vocabulary is limited. And I can’t<br />
make decent stamppot or erwtensoep.<br />
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Our lives may be nothing like I imagined,<br />
but this experience has been better than I<br />
could have hoped. I truly think my easy adjustment<br />
is attributable to my amazing husband<br />
and the wonderful women of the <strong>AWC</strong>.<br />
Dan handles change much better than I do;<br />
I like routines and prefer familiarity. On the<br />
days when I’m frustrated or homesick, he<br />
has been patient and understanding. Having<br />
a supportive partner makes all the difference.<br />
Not only is the <strong>AWC</strong> full of interesting<br />
and generous women, there are countless<br />
activities and events to keep me busy. From<br />
our recurring activities to our unique events,<br />
I’m never bored. Recently I’ve attended a<br />
Thanksgiving service in Leiden, made a pearl<br />
bracelet in a lovely jewelry shop, attended<br />
a sculpture tour with a local artist, joined a<br />
book club, and had a glass of wine (or two)<br />
with other Members at a newly-discovered<br />
restaurant. Our events range from day to night<br />
and weekdays to weekends, providing options<br />
for everyone. Thirsty Thursday (one<br />
of my favorite events) is a great opportunity<br />
for prospective Members to come meet<br />
other women and find out what our Club is<br />
all about. I’ve discovered places and activities<br />
I would have otherwise missed and met<br />
women whose paths I would likely not have<br />
crossed. I’m beyond grateful for the friends<br />
I’ve made through the <strong>AWC</strong>, and I can’t wait<br />
to see what <strong>2019</strong> has in store for us.<br />
Audrey<br />
JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 9
Membership<br />
by Melissa Rider<br />
Message from the President (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 8<br />
<strong>January</strong> marks the one-year anniversary<br />
of me taking over the role of Membership<br />
Coordinator. I have found this volunteer<br />
job of welcoming new Members and keeping<br />
the membership records very rewarding.<br />
Our Club has grown by more than 20<br />
new Members since our Fall Kick-Off, and<br />
I know we will be seeing more new faces<br />
after the <strong>January</strong> Kick-Off.<br />
You can help recruit new Members by inviting<br />
friends or acquaintances to our activities<br />
and events throughout the year. Your best<br />
recruitment tool is our website, where prospective<br />
Members can read <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong><br />
online to learn in-depth about all that the<br />
Club has to offer, from philanthropic events<br />
to social activities. New Member registration<br />
and dues payment are all done on our<br />
website too, so it is one-stop-shopping. If<br />
you meet someone whom you think would<br />
be a good fit, suggest they visit our website:<br />
www.awcthehague.org.<br />
Welcome New Member<br />
Maria Linkogle<br />
by Members giving them allowing them<br />
to opt in or out of allowing their likeness<br />
to be used in the Club’s social media and<br />
collateral material outreach per the GDPR.<br />
Membership falls under the Secretary,<br />
Heather DeWitt, who is responsible for<br />
taking minutes at Board meetings and annual<br />
general meetings.<br />
Club finances are always at the top of<br />
mind for your Board. Sheyla Karman, who<br />
is our Treasurer and an accountant by trade,<br />
keeps us on track and reminds us of the funds<br />
coming in and what’s needed to pay our bills<br />
and cover costs. We are in constant contact<br />
and I so appreciate her dedication and guidance<br />
these last six months.<br />
As for me, I still have much to learn<br />
about overseeing our <strong>AWC</strong>. I met the <strong>AWC</strong><br />
Amsterdam (<strong>AWC</strong>A) President at our<br />
Prinsjesdag Luncheon and we’ve stayed in<br />
touch about various aspects of our Clubs.<br />
We’ve agreed to hold a Joint Board Meeting<br />
(with some of our Committee Chairs) on<br />
Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 22 at our Clubhouse to<br />
share best practices. I’ll report the key<br />
takeaways from the session at our General<br />
Meeting on Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 14.<br />
As a TV news anchor I once worked with<br />
signed off each newscast, “That’s it for now<br />
from here.”<br />
Happy New Year and tot ziens!<br />
Suzanne<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> is Available Online<br />
Go to www.awcthehague.org to share the current month’s issue with friends and family. You will<br />
also find links to our annual advertisers, whose support makes this magazine possible. If you<br />
visit or contact one of our advertisers, let them know <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> sent you!<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse, which has been closed for the holidays,<br />
will re-open <strong>January</strong> 8<br />
Birthdays<br />
Due to changes in European privacy<br />
laws, and because <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will soon<br />
be posted on our external Facebook<br />
page, we won’t be sharing birthdays<br />
in print any longer. Instead, you’ll see<br />
Members’ birthdays in the weekly<br />
eNews, which is sent to your private<br />
email account and is more secure. We<br />
value our Members’ privacy. If you have<br />
any questions, please contact Melissa<br />
Rider, our Membership Coordinator, at:<br />
awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />
Members: eNews Distribution<br />
A weekly electronic newsletter<br />
is sent to all <strong>AWC</strong> Members.<br />
If you have not been receiving your<br />
eNews, please contact Melissa at<br />
awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />
Travel4U@americantravelcenter.net/www.americantravelcenter.nl/tel. +3261234901<br />
“Our next holiday is<br />
a safari. They do<br />
the whole world!”<br />
“They make booking a<br />
holiday so easy. I just<br />
leave it to them!”<br />
“Every trip is<br />
customized, just for<br />
me! That’s unique!”<br />
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JANUARY/FEBRUARY <strong>2019</strong> 11
Credit: Amazon<br />
Ongoing Activities<br />
Book Clubs<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> Book Clubs are open to all<br />
readers, and new Members are especially<br />
welcome! There are no requirements that<br />
you must attend every meeting or lead<br />
a discussion. Snacks are provided by a<br />
different Member each month. There are<br />
two Book Clubs hosted by <strong>AWC</strong> Members:<br />
One in the daytime and one in the evening.<br />
Questions? Teresa Mahoney organizes the<br />
daytime group, and Dena Haggerty handles<br />
the evening meetings. For more information,<br />
please contact them at awcthehague.<br />
bookclub@gmail.com. Happy reading!<br />
Daytime Book Club<br />
<strong>January</strong> Selection:<br />
The Secret Scripture<br />
(McNulty Family) by<br />
Sebastian Barry<br />
In The Secret Scripture,<br />
Sebastian Barry revisits<br />
County Sligo, Ireland, the<br />
setting for his previous<br />
three books, to tell the<br />
unforgettable story of Roseanne McNulty.<br />
Once one of the most beguiling women in<br />
Sligo, she is now a resident of Roscommon<br />
Regional Mental Hospital and nearing her<br />
hundredth year. Set against an Ireland besieged<br />
by conflict, this is an engrossing tale<br />
Cancellation Policy<br />
Members may reserve a spot for an <strong>AWC</strong> tour, activity or<br />
event in advance. Payment is required within five business<br />
days of the reservation or before the deadline date (whichever<br />
is sooner) otherwise your name will be moved to a waitlist.<br />
It is the responsibility of the Member to notify the Club at<br />
awcthehague.finance@gmail.com to cancel a reservation<br />
prior to the cancellation deadline. Please note that there will<br />
be NO REFUNDS (no exceptions) after the cancellation deadline.<br />
Members may find a substitute in lieu of cancellation<br />
provided that arrangements are made with the tour, activity<br />
or event organizer. Members shall be held responsible for<br />
their guest reservations in accordance with this policy.<br />
Daytime Book Club Reading List:<br />
Thursday, March 28: 21 Lessons for the 21st<br />
Century by Yuval Noah Harari<br />
of one woman’s life, and a poignant story<br />
of the cruelties of civil war and corrupted<br />
power. This novel was made into a film starring<br />
Rooney Mara, Eric Bana, and Vanessa<br />
Redgrave.<br />
Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 24<br />
10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
<strong>February</strong> Selection:<br />
Milkman by Anna Burns<br />
In an unnamed city, middle<br />
sister stands out for the<br />
wrong reasons. She reads<br />
while walking, for one. And<br />
she has been taking French<br />
night classes downtown. So<br />
when a local paramilitary<br />
known as the milkman begins pursuing her,<br />
she suddenly becomes “interesting,” the last<br />
thing she ever wanted to be. Despite middle<br />
sister’s attempts to avoid him—and to keep<br />
her mother from finding out about her maybe-boyfriend—rumors<br />
spread and the threat<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Guest Policy<br />
Guests are welcome<br />
to participate in <strong>AWC</strong><br />
activities and tours on<br />
a limited basis. As a<br />
nonmember, a guest<br />
is limited to attend<br />
two functions per<br />
calendar year and will be<br />
charged an additional<br />
nonmember fee. Only<br />
Members are entitled to<br />
use babysitting services.<br />
Credit: Amazon<br />
of violence lingers. Milkman is a story of the<br />
way inaction can have enormous repercussions,<br />
in a time when the wrong flag, wrong<br />
religion, or even a sunset can be subversive.<br />
Told with ferocious energy and sly, wicked<br />
humor, this novel establishes Anna Burns as<br />
one of the most consequential voices of our<br />
day.<br />
Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 28<br />
10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Daytime Book Club Recap – November:<br />
Tara Westover’s Educated: A Memoir<br />
brought up strong emotions from the readers<br />
about education, families, communities,<br />
religion and politics. The author’s path from<br />
a rural, Mormon community household to<br />
Cambridge University was considered by<br />
some as a hero’s journey and by others as<br />
a contrived memory map. The group discussed<br />
public school, home-schooling and<br />
“un-schooling”, and concluded that any type<br />
of schooling is a way to unlock intelligence.<br />
In the academic world, the author was able<br />
to write her dissertation on world religion<br />
comparisons without being hampered by her<br />
strict Mormon upbringing. But education<br />
in our personal worlds, the school of life, is<br />
more difficult to write about. Westover shares<br />
how family love evolved into societal isolation<br />
and abuse. She examines the challenges<br />
of separating herself from her family in her<br />
struggle to selfhood. Our families act as our<br />
frame of reference—our definition of normal.<br />
What happens when you discover your<br />
family isn’t normal? The group discussed our<br />
own familial bonds. Where do we draw the<br />
line (or even cut the line) to discover and empower<br />
ourselves? Westover gives us a hint,<br />
“Education means access to as many ideas<br />
and perspectives as you can to make up your<br />
own mind.” A memoir at such an early age<br />
isn’t a definitive work—but is a compelling<br />
depiction of a work in progress.<br />
Evening Book Club<br />
<strong>January</strong> Selection: The<br />
Only Story by Julian Barnes<br />
One summer in the ‘60s,<br />
in a staid suburb south of<br />
London, Paul comes home<br />
from university, aged 19,<br />
and is urged by his mother<br />
to join the tennis club. In<br />
the mixed-doubles tournament<br />
he’s partnered with Susan Macleod, a<br />
fine player who’s 48, confident, ironic,<br />
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and married, with 2 nearly adult daughters.<br />
She is also a warm companion, their bond<br />
immediate. And they soon, inevitably, are<br />
lovers. Clinging to each other as though<br />
their lives depend on it, they then set up<br />
house in London to escape his parents and<br />
the abusive Mr. Mcleod. Decades later, Paul<br />
looks back at how they fell in love, how he<br />
freed Susan from a sterile marriage, and<br />
how—gradually, relentlessly—everything<br />
fell apart, and he found himself struggling<br />
to understand the intricacy and depth of the<br />
human heart. It’s a piercing account of helpless<br />
devotion, and of how memory can confound<br />
us and fail us and surprise us (sometimes<br />
all at once), of how, as Paul puts it,<br />
“first love fixes a life forever.”<br />
The location changes every month, so please<br />
contact Dena Haggerty at awcthehague.<br />
bookclub@gmail.com if you are interested<br />
in attending.<br />
Evening Book Club Reading List:<br />
March: The Dinner by Herman Koch<br />
April: The Song of Achiles by Madeline Miller<br />
Wednesday, <strong>January</strong> 9<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
Location TBA<br />
FREE<br />
<strong>February</strong> Selection: The Mars Room by<br />
Rachel Kushner<br />
It’s 2003 and Romy Hall is at<br />
the start of two consecutive<br />
life sentences at Stanville<br />
Women’s Correctional<br />
Facility, deep in California’s<br />
Central Valley. Outside is<br />
the world from which she<br />
has been severed: the San<br />
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Francisco of her youth and her young son,<br />
Jackson. Inside is a new reality: thousands of<br />
women hustling for the bare-essentials needed<br />
to survive; the bluffing and pageantry and<br />
casual acts of violence by guards and prisoners<br />
alike; and the deadpan absurdities of institutional<br />
living, which Kushner evokes with<br />
great humor and precision. Stunning and unsentimental,<br />
The Mars Room demonstrates<br />
new levels of mastery and depth in Kushner’s<br />
work. It is audacious and tragic, propulsive<br />
and yet beautifully refined. As James Wood<br />
said in The New Yorker, her fiction “succeeds<br />
because it is so full of vibrantly different stories<br />
and histories, all of them particular, all of<br />
them brilliantly alive.”<br />
Wednesday, <strong>February</strong> 13<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
Location TBA<br />
FREE<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake is a weekly<br />
highlight for those who enjoy crafts and<br />
camaraderie. Whether your craft is knitting,<br />
quilting, needlepoint or simply mending your<br />
clothes, or whether you are a beginner or an<br />
expert, you are welcome to join us. Fish that<br />
UFO (Unfinished Object) out of the drawer<br />
and get going on it again. CCandCers are<br />
always ready with a helping hand, a lesson,<br />
or some advice. Each week, a different<br />
Member brings a cake - tried and true, or<br />
experimental. Babysitting is not available<br />
and there are lots of sharp objects about<br />
(pins, needles, scissors and wit) so we cannot<br />
accommodate children. Contact Suzanne<br />
Dundas at awcthehague.crafts@gmail.com<br />
for more information.<br />
Every Tuesday<br />
10 a.m. – Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Heart Pillow Project<br />
Members work together to make heartshaped<br />
pillows designed to help support the<br />
arms of recent mastectomy patients. Each<br />
pillow is made with TLC, wrapped, and<br />
comes with a note signed by an <strong>AWC</strong> volunteer.<br />
No sewing skills are needed, as you<br />
can cut, stuff, or wrap the heart pillows.<br />
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We are proud to provide men and women<br />
with something both practical and comforting,<br />
and we know our work helps because<br />
we often receive thank-you notes and emails<br />
from the patients who have received a heart<br />
pillow. For more information, please contact<br />
Jan de Vries at awctehhague.heartpillow@<br />
gmail.com.<br />
Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 8 &<br />
Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 12<br />
Noon – 2 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Visitors Welcome<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch<br />
If you’re interested in making new friends<br />
and exploring new restaurants throughout<br />
The Hague, then this is the group for you!<br />
Rather than setting one specific day of the<br />
month, we change our days each month in<br />
order to accommodate a variety of schedules.<br />
If you have a favorite restaurant in your<br />
neighborhood you’d like to share with the<br />
group, please contact Greetje Engelsman<br />
at awcthehague.activities@gmail.com.<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch: <strong>January</strong><br />
This restaurant is named after Jamey<br />
Bennett, a diplomate and spy who worked<br />
for the British Secret Service. He was sophisticated<br />
and naughty, an irresistible<br />
Upcoming Out to Lunch Bunch:<br />
Wednesday, March 20<br />
Monday, April 15<br />
combination. He knew the world and preferred<br />
luxury. He wanted to sit down on a<br />
Chesterfield with a good gin & tonic. Never<br />
a dull moment with Jamey. Those were the<br />
days… and still are!<br />
Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 22<br />
Noon – 2:30 p.m.<br />
Jamey Bennett<br />
Plaats 11, Den Haag<br />
www.jameybennett.nl<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch: <strong>February</strong><br />
Restaurant Van Kinsbergen in the<br />
Zeeheldenkwartier is named after the<br />
commander in Chief Van Kinsbergen of the<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> Navy. The restaurant is a mix of a<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> grand café and the popular gastropubs<br />
in London. Many choices in drinks, and<br />
surprisingly good and affordable food.<br />
Families, colleagues, couples and groups of<br />
friends eat here: from meat from a charcoal<br />
grill to vegetarian and fish dishes. The<br />
gigantic bar has 15 taps with many English,<br />
American, <strong>Dutch</strong> and Belgian specialty<br />
beers. Mmm… time to try this restaurant for<br />
lunch in <strong>February</strong>.<br />
Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 19<br />
Noon – 2:30 p.m.<br />
Restaurant Van Kinsbergen<br />
Prins Hendrikplein 15, Den Haag<br />
www.gastropubvankinsbergen.nl<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
Thirsty Thursday<br />
Join us again for our monthly gathering.<br />
Thirsty Thursday is a casual evening of<br />
companionship and good conversation – a<br />
favorite for <strong>AWC</strong> Members and prospective<br />
Members. Two soft drinks, wine or beer,<br />
plus snacks.<br />
Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 24<br />
6 – 9 p.m.<br />
Grand Central Food Market<br />
The Hague Central Station<br />
1st floor, Koningin Julianaplein 17<br />
€ 15 for two drinks and food<br />
No RSVP needed<br />
<strong>February</strong>’s monthly gathering will be a bit<br />
different—at an art gallery! We’ll have an<br />
interesting discussion about the retail side of<br />
the art world: What is takes to run a gallery,<br />
and to work as a go-between for the artists<br />
and customers. As usual, prospective<br />
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One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />
by Marsha Hagney<br />
Members and guests are welcome!<br />
Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 21<br />
6 – 9 p.m.<br />
Project 2.0 Gallery, Noordeinde 57<br />
€ 15 for two drinks and food<br />
No RSVP needed<br />
Walkie Talkies<br />
Whether you count your steps or just want<br />
to walk with friends, the Monday morning<br />
Walkie Talkies is a fun, healthy and energetic<br />
way to start the week. The group meets in<br />
front of the Clubhouse before heading out<br />
to walk to various destinations in the area,<br />
usually racking up 10,000 steps along the<br />
way. Sign up on the <strong>AWC</strong> website to receive<br />
email updates, or contact Emily van Eerten<br />
or Greetje Engelsman at awcthehague.<br />
walkietalkies@gmail.com.<br />
Mondays<br />
9:30 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Free<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
Wassenaar Coffee & Conversation<br />
If you live in or north of Wassenaar, join<br />
your neighbors for coffee and conversation<br />
once-a-month without having to drive to<br />
the clubhouse. One Member will host a<br />
casual coffee at her home at 9:30 on the<br />
first Thursday of every month. Prospective<br />
Members are welcome too. Suzanne<br />
Dundas coordinates these meetings and can<br />
be reached at awcthehague.crafts@gmail.<br />
com. Because the location changes every<br />
month, contact Suzanne if you are interested<br />
in attending or for more information.<br />
Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 7<br />
9:30 a.m.<br />
Location TBA<br />
FREE<br />
RSVP directly on www.awcthehague.org. Direct any questions to<br />
awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com.<br />
Payment must be made within 5 calendar days of reserving or your name will be moved to a waitlist.<br />
Payment can be made in the Front Office by PIN, on the <strong>AWC</strong> website (www.awcthehague.org) or by<br />
bank transfer to the <strong>AWC</strong> account NL42ABNA0431421757.<br />
Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners<br />
Holiday Party<br />
Celeste Brown will<br />
be hosting a WWDP<br />
Post-Holiday gathering<br />
at her home in<br />
Oegstgeest. Everyone<br />
is asked to bring:<br />
• a delicious item for<br />
the buffet table (we<br />
are using SignUp Genius to keep track of<br />
what everyone’s bringing), and<br />
• a wrapped gift for the gift exchange, €10<br />
maximum. Consider bringing a gift you<br />
received that you would rather “re-gift”.<br />
Remember, one person’s “trash” is another<br />
person’s “treasure”!<br />
Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners is a loose collection<br />
of Club Members who have/had<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> partners. If you identify with this<br />
group but have not yet received your invitation<br />
from SignUpGenius, please let us know<br />
and we’ll add you to the list.<br />
Thursday, <strong>January</strong> 10<br />
Begins at 6:30 p.m.<br />
Address will be provided upon registration<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
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with professional and tailored advice.<br />
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Defend Yourself Class<br />
Have you ever felt you needed to be on guard<br />
or wary of your surroundings while out and<br />
about? Have you worried about what to do<br />
if someone tries to mug or attack you? Tim<br />
MacNeil, (Suzanne MacNeil’s husband)<br />
is a graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy,<br />
a retired marine, and a blackbelt in Iaido, a<br />
Japanese martial art that honors the samurai<br />
traditions. Tim will teach participants basic<br />
self-defense moves and methods to prevent<br />
you from being hurt or violated. There<br />
won’t be any tossing or throwing of opponents,<br />
but the class will involve participants<br />
to work in pairs to help master effective defense<br />
methods.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>January</strong> 16<br />
7 – 9:30 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
€ 10 Members / € 15 Non-Members<br />
Maximum 30 / No Minimum<br />
Please wear sneakers or other flat shoes,<br />
and comfortable pants<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
Guided Tour of Femmes Fatales—<br />
Strong Women in Fashion<br />
Femmes Fatales will be the first exhibition<br />
in fashion history to focus exclusively on<br />
female designers. The exhibition includes<br />
work by Coco Chanel, Jeanne Lanvin,<br />
Mary Quant, Vivieene Westwood, Miuccia<br />
Prada, Maria Grazia Chiuri (Dior), as well<br />
as <strong>Dutch</strong> greats like Fong Leng, Sheila de<br />
Vries, and Iris van Herpen, among many<br />
other. For more information, contact Jane<br />
Choy at jechoy@me.com.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>January</strong> 23<br />
11 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.<br />
Gemeente Museum, Den Haag<br />
€ 10 Members / € 15 Non-Members<br />
Museum entrance fee of € 13.50 not<br />
included (Entrance is free with Museum<br />
Card)<br />
Maximum 20 / Minimum 12<br />
Registration/Cancellation Deadline:<br />
<strong>January</strong> 13<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
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<strong>Dutch</strong> Products Class<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Member and long-term resident<br />
of the Netherlands, Carol Slootweg,<br />
will explain <strong>Dutch</strong> cooking and cleaning<br />
products. She teaches cooking classes, so<br />
she is an expert in using local products and<br />
converting American recipes. Carol and<br />
Greetje Engelsman have co-produced a<br />
book entitled <strong>Dutch</strong> Products, which will be<br />
available for € 10. Join this class and you<br />
Credit: Gemeente Museum<br />
will never be confused about cooking or<br />
cleaning products in the Netherlands again!<br />
If you have questions, contact Greetje at<br />
awcthehague.newcomers@gmail.com.<br />
Friday, <strong>January</strong> 25<br />
10 a.m. – Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
Guided Tour Behind the Scenes<br />
of Panorama Mesdag<br />
Panorama Mesdag gives you a 360-degree<br />
vista of the sea, dunes and fishing village of<br />
Scheveningen as it was in 1881. Step back<br />
in time and experience a unique view of our<br />
cultural heritage—the oldest 19th century<br />
panorama in the world on its original site.<br />
This cylindrical painting, more than 14 meters<br />
high and 120 meters in circumference,<br />
was painted by one of the most important<br />
painters of the The Hague School, Hendrik<br />
Willem Mesdag, with help from his wife<br />
and friends. A very impressive piece of art!<br />
We will have a guided tour in the Panorama<br />
Mesdag, as well as a behind-the-scenes<br />
look. Join us and be amazed!<br />
Wednesday, <strong>February</strong> 13<br />
10:30 a.m.<br />
Museum Panorama Mesdag<br />
Zeestraat 65, Den Haag<br />
www.panorama-mesdag.nl<br />
€ 7 Members / € 12 Non-Members<br />
Tour does not include € 8.50 admission<br />
fee for the museum (Free with Museum<br />
Card)<br />
20 Maximum / 15 Minimum<br />
Registration Deadline: <strong>February</strong> 7<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O Handbag & Art Auction<br />
We will have an afternoon of bubbly, bites<br />
and fun, bidding on donated items from our<br />
own Club Members to support the F<strong>AWC</strong>O<br />
charity, Hope Beyond Displacement.<br />
Donations of once-loved handbags or art, to<br />
be auctioned off, can be dropped off at the<br />
clubhouse during opening hours between<br />
<strong>January</strong> 8 and <strong>February</strong> 14.<br />
Thursday, <strong>February</strong> 21<br />
Begins at 1 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Sign up at www.awcthehague.org<br />
Playball Netherlands is now<br />
taking bookings for <strong>2019</strong>!<br />
Want to get your little one involved?<br />
www.playballkids.com to see the fun for ages<br />
2-7 years<br />
Email kidsplayball@hotmail.com to arrange a<br />
FREE trial class<br />
www.facebook.com/PlayballNetherlands<br />
Or call Maggie on: 0627214347<br />
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2018 <strong>AWC</strong><br />
Holiday<br />
Bazaar<br />
by Naya Pessoa<br />
Last month our <strong>AWC</strong> hosted the annual<br />
Holiday Bazaar and I’m happy to report<br />
that volunteers and attendees ended<br />
the two-day event with bellies full of baked<br />
sweets and warm memories. The vendor list<br />
was extensive with 40+ participants, with<br />
quite a few returning from last year combined<br />
with new vendors from The Hague area. It<br />
was a full showcase of talent including handmade<br />
arts and crafts products, accessories<br />
for adults and children, jewelry, chocolate<br />
sculptures, wine, and so much more variety.<br />
This year’s Holiday Bazaar was one of<br />
many firsts: trying out the new venue at the<br />
Hilton The Hague, new faces on the organizing<br />
committee, and a new sponsorship<br />
from PlayBall Netherlands.<br />
The Kids’ Corner activities were organized<br />
by Holly Savoie, and professionally<br />
supervised thanks to the staff of PlayBall<br />
Netherlands, which donated its staff and<br />
time for both days—which is an incredible<br />
gift to the <strong>AWC</strong> and to the parents<br />
who attended the Holiday Bazaar! Many<br />
thanks to Teresa Mahoney for bringing<br />
PlayBall Netherlands into the loop. To top<br />
off the festivities for the kids, thank you<br />
to Roberta Enschede for helping recruit<br />
our dear Santa “Peter” Claus who stopped<br />
by to say hello. Rest assured that Santa and<br />
everyone else made a pit-stop for cookies<br />
and other treats at the Bake Sale organized<br />
for the first time by Cathleen Owens.<br />
Thank you to everyone who contributed<br />
their culinary skills so we could start gaining<br />
that requisite holiday weight!<br />
The success of the event is fully attributable<br />
to the event’s committee members for their<br />
attention to detail (and deadlines!). A special<br />
thank you dedication to:<br />
Jaimie Keppel – Chair<br />
Teresa Insalaco – Finance<br />
Laurie Martecchini – Volunteer Coordinator<br />
Cathleen Owens – Bake Sale<br />
Amber Gatewood – Public Relations<br />
Emily van Eerten – Raffle<br />
Holly Savoie – Kids’ Corner<br />
We appreciate the valuable guidance from<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> President Suzanne MacNeil as she<br />
answered questions and offered advice<br />
while some of us navigated uncharted<br />
waters. This was the first year for Jaimie<br />
Keppel to serve as the Chair of the Holiday<br />
Bazaar, and she unquestionably rocked it!<br />
Jaimie’s role in the Holiday Bazaar was<br />
spotlighted in an article in the <strong>Dutch</strong> publication<br />
AD, thanks to the efforts of Amber<br />
Gatewood who spread the word in classic<br />
print and digital media.<br />
At the end of the day, our efforts would be<br />
nothing were it not for our fearless volunteers<br />
who offered to roll up their sleeves<br />
in preparation before, during, and after the<br />
event. Laurie Martecchini was tasked<br />
with the coordination of volunteers—both<br />
skills and scheduling—and it is fair to<br />
say she is a professional at it! Speaking<br />
of professional, did you see the raffle display?<br />
Another successful display from the<br />
experienced Raffle Organizer, Emily van<br />
Eerten, who coordinated raffle prizes and<br />
ticket sales. It really is such a gift to be<br />
able to work with committee members who<br />
are so incredibly committed to this annual<br />
event. Not everyone’s efforts are immediately<br />
visible during the two-day event, but<br />
trust that they were surely hard at work—<br />
shout out to the finance team of Teresa<br />
Insalaco and the Club’s Treasurer, Sheyla<br />
Karman.<br />
Personally, it was my first Holiday Bazaar<br />
and I can’t believe what an experience I’ve<br />
been missing. To top it off, it is incredible<br />
to see how such a beautiful event comes together<br />
through 100% volunteer effort. The<br />
gathering of the community—young and<br />
old, <strong>Dutch</strong> and international, entrepreneurs<br />
and customers—is unmatched, and thank<br />
you to everyone who shared with friends<br />
and family!<br />
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Holiday<br />
Bazaar<br />
Volunteers<br />
LaTasha Baker<br />
Laurie Martecchini<br />
Liduine Bekman<br />
Loren Mealy<br />
Lori Schnebelie<br />
Lynne Roukema<br />
Marianne de Beer<br />
Marsha Hagney<br />
Mary Ellen Brennan<br />
Melissa Ride<br />
Michele Jacquemain<br />
Michelle Voorn<br />
Naomi Keip<br />
Anne van Oorschot<br />
Belgin Genc<br />
Cathleen Owens<br />
Celeste Brown<br />
Chelsea Wald<br />
Claire Talbot<br />
Deana Kreitler<br />
Dominique Duysens<br />
Dory Ritchie<br />
Elaine Pimm<br />
Emily van Eerten<br />
Emma Patterson<br />
Georgia Regnault<br />
Naya Pessoa<br />
Rachel Hines<br />
Sabine Crowley<br />
Shanon Gonzalez<br />
Sheyla Karman<br />
Silke van Eerten<br />
Sue Cramp<br />
Susan Cave<br />
Suzanne Dundas<br />
Suzanne MacNeil<br />
Teresa Insalaco<br />
Teresa Mahoney<br />
Una Mulvihill<br />
Ginnie Rempt<br />
Heather DeWitt<br />
Holly Savoie<br />
Jaimie Keppel-Molenaar<br />
Jan de Vries<br />
Jan Essad<br />
Jo van Kalveen<br />
Julie Bravo<br />
Julie Mowat<br />
Julie van der Wolf<br />
Kimberly Carlton<br />
Lana Heidar
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<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat<br />
1 2 3 4 5<br />
Clubhouse Closed through <strong>January</strong> 7<br />
6 7 8 9 10 11 12<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Buddy Check 12<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Board Meeting<br />
6:30 p.m.<br />
Clubhouse Closed through <strong>January</strong> 7<br />
Heart Pillow Workshop<br />
Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Evening Book Club<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
WWDP Post Holiday Party<br />
6:30 p.m.<br />
13 14 15 16 17 18 19<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Winter Welcome Back<br />
Coffee<br />
10:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.<br />
Defend Yourself Class<br />
7 p.m.<br />
Winter Welcome Back<br />
Borrel 6 - 8 p.m.<br />
20 21 22 23 24 25 26<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch Noon<br />
Guided Tour of Femmes<br />
Fatales—Strong Women in<br />
Fashion 11 a.m.<br />
Daytime Book Club 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> Products Class<br />
10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Thirsty Thursday 6 p.m.<br />
27 28 29 30 31<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Martin Luther King Jr.<br />
Tribute and Dinner<br />
5:30 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
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<strong>February</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat<br />
1 2<br />
Save the Dates:<br />
March 20: Lunch Bunch with Art Tour<br />
April 13: Benefit Event<br />
April 25: Keukenhof Castle Tour<br />
3 4<br />
5<br />
6 7<br />
8 9<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Wassenaar Coffee and<br />
Conversation 9:30 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Board Meeting<br />
6:30 p.m.<br />
10 11<br />
12<br />
13<br />
14<br />
15 16<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Heart Pillow Workshop<br />
Noon<br />
Guided Tour Behingd<br />
the Scenes of Panorama<br />
Mesdag 10:30 a.m.<br />
Coffee 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>February</strong> General Meeting<br />
10:30 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Buddy Check 12<br />
Evening Book Club<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
17 18<br />
19<br />
20 21<br />
22 23<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O Handbag & Art<br />
Auction 1 p.m.<br />
Women in Need TLC Dinner<br />
5 p.m.<br />
Thirsty Thursday 6 p.m.<br />
24 25<br />
26<br />
27 28<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Daytime Book Club 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
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Holocaust Memorial Day<br />
The new <strong>AWC</strong> Website is now up and running!<br />
Please visit<br />
www.awcthehague.org<br />
for all of your Club-related needs:<br />
Payment of Membership dues, registration for activities and events,<br />
Membership directory, etc.<br />
If you have any questions about the website, please contact<br />
awcthehague.communications@gmail.com.<br />
On <strong>January</strong> 27, 2005, the U.N. General<br />
Assembly held a special session in<br />
remembrance of the liberation of<br />
Auschwitz on that same day in 1945. It declared<br />
the 27th of <strong>January</strong> the International<br />
Day in Memory of the Victims of the<br />
Holocaust.<br />
Since that time, there are ceremonies and<br />
projects worldwide. In the Netherlands, the<br />
Nooit Meer Auschwitz lecture (Never Again<br />
Auschwitz) is held each year in Amsterdam.<br />
Private Art Tour<br />
by Susanne MacNeil<br />
There are gems hidden among us. One of those gems, a private art collection, was opened<br />
to Members for a tour. The who and the where remain private, but the reactions from those<br />
who took part speak volumes.<br />
Credit: Roel Wimmenhove<br />
Emily van Eerten: “What an amazing private art tour we had today! I’m so thankful to<br />
our host, and to Suzanne MacNeil, Jane Choy and Marsha Hagney for arranging it. I’m<br />
feeling rather smug for signing up for it not having had any clue what it would be. Fortune<br />
favors the bold! Since I respect the host’s request for privacy, I’ll just leave it there.”<br />
Jo van Kalveen: “It was incredible. I felt so moved by all that we saw and heard about.”<br />
Heather DeWitt: “It truly was a very special event!”<br />
Marsha Hagney: “What a wonderful morning!”<br />
Michelle Voorn: “Thank you for putting this together. It was an amazing experience! And,<br />
as unique and particular as it was, it had passion, love, and most of all approachability. Plus,<br />
who can resist interesting and beautiful art!”<br />
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F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />
by Julie Mowat, <strong>AWC</strong> The Hague F<strong>AWC</strong>O Representative<br />
Handbag and Art Auction<br />
by Teresa Mahoney<br />
Federation of American Women’s Clubs Overseas, a United Nations NGO with<br />
consultative status with the UN Economic and Social Council<br />
www.fawco.org.<br />
On November 5, the inspiring Amanda Lane,<br />
Executive Director of Collateral Repair<br />
Project (CRP), joined us for coffee and gave<br />
a presentation about their program. Our Club<br />
will be raising money for their community<br />
center programs for refugees, which is the<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O Target Fundraiser: Hope Beyond<br />
Displacement. Please see the facing page<br />
about our Handbag and Art Auction to be<br />
held on <strong>February</strong> 21.<br />
Amanda shared stories about the refugees<br />
and how CRP makes a difference in their<br />
lives. She was able to tell us how the money<br />
we raise will be used for the SuperGirls program,<br />
gender-based violence program, salon<br />
and auto skills, women’s empowerment,<br />
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school supplies and uniforms, etc. With the<br />
additional funds raised by F<strong>AWC</strong>O Clubs<br />
through the end of <strong>February</strong>, they hope to:<br />
• Fund participation for 30 more women<br />
in the Economic Empowerment<br />
Program for hair styling, beauty and<br />
self-employment skills,<br />
• Renovate a playground,<br />
• Launch the After School Club at a new<br />
community center in downtown Amman,<br />
reaching more refugee children,<br />
• Translate the SuperGirls’ curriculum<br />
into Arabic to ensure it can be used in<br />
the future by all staff,<br />
• And create a dedicated space for women<br />
to learn and train.<br />
It was a wonderful chance to ask questions<br />
and learn more about refugees in Jordan.<br />
You can learn more by visiting www.<br />
collateralrepairproject.org.<br />
One Billion Rising is the biggest massaction<br />
to end violence against women in<br />
human history. The theme of SOLIDARITY<br />
remained the focus of One Billion Rising<br />
2018, with the call to “Rise, Resist,<br />
Unite!”. F<strong>AWC</strong>O encourages its Clubs to<br />
participate, and last year we had so much<br />
fun in a flash mob dance in Leiden with<br />
Leiden University. Save the Date: <strong>February</strong><br />
14. We hope to do something again this year!<br />
Visit www.onebillionrising.org for more<br />
information.<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s Biennial Conference is March 21<br />
to 24 in Edinburgh, and all <strong>AWC</strong> Members<br />
are invited to attend. It is a great way to<br />
learn about all the things F<strong>AWC</strong>O has to<br />
offer. There will be excellent speakers<br />
and workshops. Please ask me or Teresa<br />
Mahoney if you have any questions. Register<br />
at www.fawco.org.<br />
You might find this hard to believe, but<br />
despite all these years of being involved<br />
with <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>, I have never written<br />
a single article! Well I am finally inspired to<br />
do so because I am thrilled to be in charge of<br />
the Handbag and Art Auction that will take<br />
place <strong>February</strong> 21, and am excited to get everyone<br />
involved. For you new Members, I will<br />
explain the details more in-depth in a minute.<br />
For us veterans, I just want to reminisce a<br />
little about some of the emotional moments<br />
we have experienced together at previous<br />
Handbag Auctions.<br />
Remember the<br />
time when Dru desperately<br />
wanted that<br />
beautiful pink Chanel<br />
bag but the bidding<br />
went beyond her budget<br />
and she very reluctantly<br />
had to stop?<br />
Then Nancy stepped<br />
in, bought the bag, and<br />
presented it to Dru as<br />
a present. Drew burst<br />
into tears—and, oh my<br />
gosh, I am tearing up thinking about it now.<br />
What<br />
about when<br />
Lara won<br />
the beautiful<br />
white-beaded<br />
bridal clutch<br />
donated by<br />
her own<br />
mother Georgia? There were very few dry<br />
eyes in the room after that touching motherdaughter<br />
moment.<br />
Did you hear about Melissa bidding on<br />
that gorgeous vintage Hermes scarf as a surprise<br />
for me? (Have I mentioned my scarf<br />
obsession?) Again, the bidding started going<br />
high, and suddenly Melissa thought “Crap<br />
(sorry for the swearing but you know how<br />
Melissa thinks!) what if Teresa had actually<br />
donated that scarf!?” So<br />
she stopped bidding only<br />
to have Susan swoop in,<br />
buy it, and present it to<br />
her as a gift. And I am<br />
the happy recipient of that auction highlight!<br />
New Members, you can tune back in<br />
now… So how does the auction work?<br />
First: Over the next few weeks, have a<br />
look to see if you have any well-loved handbags<br />
that need a new home. Accessories like<br />
scarves or gloves are appreciated, too. This<br />
year we are introducing a new category: art.<br />
If you have any nice pieces that need a new<br />
home, please donate those as well.<br />
Second: Bring those lovely auction items<br />
to the Clubhouse during office hours through<br />
<strong>February</strong> 14.<br />
Third: Relax while my team and I put<br />
together a catalog and get some bubbly and<br />
snacks ready. The lovely and talented Loren<br />
has volunteered to be auctioneer again this<br />
year, so thank goodness success is assured!<br />
Fourth: Come to the Auction <strong>February</strong><br />
21! There will be bubbly, good cheer, lots of<br />
fun and, of course, snacks! All proceeds go to<br />
the very worthy and well researched F<strong>AWC</strong>O<br />
Charity: Hope Beyond Displacement. Have a<br />
look at the facing page for more info in case<br />
you missed Amanda Lane’s inspiring presentation.<br />
When she explains about all the good<br />
work they are doing, you just want to throw<br />
money at her! How much nicer to throw money<br />
to support the charity while also getting a few<br />
handbags in return.<br />
Ok, I feel I have gushed enough. Here’s the<br />
condensed message for those who have dozed<br />
off despite the plethora of exclamation points:<br />
Handbag and Art Auction<br />
Thursday <strong>February</strong> 21<br />
starting at 1 p.m.<br />
Please drop off auction items (wellloved<br />
handbags and art) at the<br />
Clubhouse starting now!<br />
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Restaurant Recommendations<br />
by Audrey Goodman<br />
Thank you to <strong>AWC</strong> Member Michelle Voorn, for submitting the following restaurants<br />
to be featured this month. Please send your recommendations to goingdutchmag@<br />
gmail.com.<br />
Cencalli<br />
Authentic Mexican restaurant. They even<br />
make their own tortillas!<br />
Korte Houtstraat 14C, 2511 CD,<br />
Den Haag<br />
070 215 7547<br />
cencalli.com<br />
Mexican, Latin, Spanish<br />
€€ - €€€<br />
Tuesday, 5 – 10 p.m.<br />
Wednesday – Saturday,<br />
11:30 a.m. – 4 p.m. & 5 – 10 p.m.<br />
Closed Sunday & Monday<br />
KUA Mexican Kitchen<br />
They make their own mole and have a<br />
pozole to die for!<br />
Torenstraat 77, 2513 BP, Den Haag<br />
070 737 1335<br />
Kuarestaurant.nl<br />
Mexican, Latina, Vegetarian<br />
€€ - €€€<br />
Tuesday – Sunday, 5:30 – 11 p.m.<br />
Closed Monday<br />
Madestein Restaurant & Events<br />
Relaxed but trendy restaurant, with a variety<br />
of dishes. And a very pretty location by a<br />
lake.<br />
Madepolderweg 100, 2553 EG,<br />
Den Haag<br />
017 424 4843<br />
madestein.nl<br />
French, <strong>Dutch</strong>, Seafood<br />
€€ - €€€<br />
Monday – Saturday, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m.<br />
Sunday, 9 a.m. – 10 p.m.<br />
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Chat, Craft & Cake Open House Recap<br />
by Susanne Dundas<br />
“You are all so talented.”<br />
“I must have the recipe for the Sarah Bernhardt cookies.”<br />
Yes, we enjoyed the accolades, but Chat, Craft & Cake was more pleased to welcome<br />
some new faces (and Rebecca Wood, a former <strong>AWC</strong> Member visiting from Texas)<br />
during our community-wide open house on November 27. It was also nice to display<br />
our projects and admire what other CCandCers have accomplished through<br />
the years. Chat, Craft & Cake meets every Tuesday at the Clubhouse from 10 a.m.<br />
until noon.<br />
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“Your stitches are so precise.”<br />
“You designed that yourself?!”<br />
Sarah Bernhardt Bars<br />
Submitted by Hilde Hatlestad Volle<br />
Ingredients:<br />
Almond Base<br />
400 g almonds<br />
400 g sugar<br />
4 tsp baking powder<br />
6 egg whites<br />
Chocolate buttercream<br />
250 g butter<br />
200 g powdered sugar<br />
6 egg yolks<br />
4 tsp cocoa powder<br />
2 tsp vanilla sugar<br />
Chocolate glaze<br />
200 g chocolate (I used milk chocolate, but<br />
use the dark one if you prefer that)<br />
2 tbsp butter<br />
Directions:<br />
Grind the almonds and mix them with the<br />
baking powder. Whisk the egg whites until<br />
stiff. Add the sugar little by little and whisk<br />
until it is a thick merengue. Fold in the almonds.<br />
Put the mixture in a roasting pan (approx.<br />
30x40 cm) and bake it in the oven on 175°C<br />
for 20 minutes. Let it cool in the pan until<br />
completely cold.<br />
Whisk soft butter together with the powdered<br />
sugar. Whisk in the egg yolks until you get a<br />
fluffy buttercream. Then whisk in the cocoa<br />
powder and the vanilla sugar. Spread it all<br />
over the almond base and put it in the fridge<br />
for a couple of hours. If you can’t fit the pan<br />
in the fridge you can divide it in two and put<br />
in on serving plates.<br />
Melt the chocolate together with the butter.<br />
Spread it over the cold cake in a thin layer.<br />
Let it cool in the fridge again until the chocolate<br />
glaze is stiff. Slice the cake with a sharp<br />
knife – and enjoy!<br />
P.S. – This cake is excellent for the freezer. I<br />
slice it and put it in the freezer, then I take out<br />
as much as I need/want. Thaw it for 10 – 15<br />
minutes before serving.<br />
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Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.<br />
Tribute and Dinner<br />
by Roberta Enschede<br />
On November 2, 1983, President Ronald Reagan signed a bill making the third Monday<br />
in <strong>January</strong> a federal holiday in honor of the birth of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. At the<br />
time he noted that Dr. King’s 39 years changed America forever, “The conscience of<br />
America has been touched,” he said.<br />
Since 1986, we have commemorated Martin Luther King Day in this community. Then<br />
as now, there is much to reflect upon and much to do. The poet Nikki Giovanni wrote, “If<br />
we are wrong, then the Constitution of the United States is wrong. This is a sacred poem.”<br />
Dan Rather, former news anchor who covered Dr. King commented, “There are Lifters and<br />
Leaners. While thousands leaned on him, I never saw his shoulders give way or his back<br />
bent.” Former Secretary of State General Colin Powell warned, “We cannot forget where<br />
we came from.”<br />
In these times, General Powell’s statement is more urgent than ever. It is a call to action!<br />
In November 2018, the FBI released a report that documented a significant increase in hate<br />
crimes. The totals included a doubling of anti-Arab hate crimes and a 37 % increase in anti-<br />
Semitic incidents. African-Americans made up nearly half of all the victims of hate crimes.<br />
We will never forget what happened when people were praying in the Mother Emanuel<br />
Church in Charleston, South Carolina or in the synagogue in Pittsburgh or on the streets of<br />
Credit: TJ Brown<br />
Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 27 at 5:30 p.m.<br />
Hotel Den Haag-Wassenaar, Zijdeweg 54, Wassenaar<br />
(just off the A-44 at the bridge)<br />
€ 30 Adults / € 15 Children under 12<br />
Charlotteville, Virginia, when men<br />
carrying torches reminiscent of Nazi<br />
times and the KKK shouted “Jews<br />
will not replace us.” They even carried<br />
signs emblazoned with the words<br />
“Diversity is a code word for White<br />
Genocide.” They explained, “We’re<br />
just going up there to, like, stand up<br />
for the white race and defend our<br />
heritage, keep the Confederate monuments<br />
from coming down.” Rep.<br />
John Lewis, a hero of the Civil Rights<br />
Movement, said, “I cannot believe in<br />
my heart what I am witnessing today<br />
in America. Why do people put each other down because of their race or what part of the<br />
world they come from. We can and must do better.”<br />
Like Rep. Lewis, our speakers Lois Mothershed-Pot and Reverend Harcourt Klinefelter<br />
lived through the times and the struggles. Like his, theirs are the voices of history who see<br />
their personal experiences manifest not in the past, but in the world today and tomorrow.<br />
Lois was the first African-American student in her university and the first Black President<br />
of the National Christian Students Union. Her sister, Thelma Mothershed, was one of the<br />
Little Rock Nine, the young high school students who tried to integrate Central High School<br />
in Little Rock against the orders of Governor Orval Faubus. Ultimately President Eisenhower<br />
had to send in the National Guard. Her father was a U.S. Army officer in WWII, who fought<br />
in Europe and the Pacific in the segregated U.S. Army. He fought for freedom that was not<br />
his in the army or back home in Little Rock.<br />
Reverend Harcourt Kinefelter finished his studies in Theology at Yale University and<br />
went down South to find Dr. King. He worked for him for three years till his death. Since<br />
that time, he has devoted his life to non-violent conflict resolution.<br />
Agence France Presse – Getty Images<br />
We hope you will come and bring the children. TS Galloway from Chicago will be<br />
there with his trombone and other musician friends. TS used to play with Count Basie and<br />
before that with Ben Branch in Chicago for Dr. King’s rallies. We’ll have some wonderful<br />
singing too and U.S. Deputy Chief of Mission, Shawn Crowley, will speak as will some of<br />
our young people.<br />
Though so much of the news has been negative this past year, we know “deep in our<br />
hearts, we shall overcome someday.” Please join us for a simple dinner, the kind Dr. King<br />
would have liked. Join us to share the words and wisdom of the young and the people who<br />
were there and remember.<br />
Sponsored by OAR – Overseas Americans Remember<br />
Anneke Beeuwkes, Michelle Beier, Roberta Enschede, Tove McGrew, and Jessie Rodell<br />
For reservations or further information, please contact Roberta Enschede at<br />
oarinnl@yahoo.com.<br />
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The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />
by Eileen Harloff<br />
A Tale of Two Dams<br />
Under this intriguing headline was a twopage<br />
story that opened up a whole new world<br />
for me—that of sophisticated food and cooking.<br />
It was reported that on an evening at<br />
the end of October 2018, for a ticket costing<br />
$180, some 80 people were served a modern<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> menu at the James Beard House in<br />
New York City. This is the site of the James<br />
Beard Foundation, the most prestigious culinary<br />
institute of America, and to be invited to<br />
prepare a meal there is not only a great honor,<br />
but also an opportunity to receive international<br />
recognition. Five <strong>Dutch</strong> restaurants were<br />
involved—Choux, Vermeer and Kaagman,<br />
and Kortekaas from Amsterdam, and Aloha<br />
and Dertien from Rotterdam (hence the “two<br />
dams”). These restaurants were selected by<br />
010/020, an organization that was set up two<br />
years ago with the aim of highlighting the<br />
“diversity of the large city gastronomy within<br />
and outside the Netherlands.” This entails an<br />
exchange of chefs at local, national and international<br />
levels, and promoting the “activist<br />
chef,” who regards cooking as an art, not just<br />
a job, and chefs as agents of change, who operate<br />
with a social agenda. This means cooking<br />
with natural ingredients, using more vegetables<br />
and biological products, paying cooks<br />
and food personnel decent wages, avoiding<br />
unnecessary waste, and the like.<br />
As for the menu of the <strong>Dutch</strong> dinner last<br />
October, three creative examples include<br />
sunflower seed cream with apple espuma,<br />
calves brain with oysters, and pig cheeks<br />
with fermented pears. As for me, I’ll stick to<br />
my peanut butter cookies and tuna fish sandwiches—at<br />
least I’ll know how to pronounce<br />
them.<br />
From Restauranteur to<br />
Archaeologist<br />
Among the cultural treasures of the City of<br />
Delft for visitors to see in the coming year<br />
may well be artifacts that restauranteur Jon<br />
Cornelese found in his recently purchased<br />
building located next to the Grote Kerk.<br />
These were discovered when he was checking<br />
for a potential leak in the floor and came<br />
upon a cellar with two parts—one dating<br />
back to the 15th century and the other to the<br />
13th century. Archaeologists were called in to<br />
inventory the site, and their findings were impressive.<br />
There were blue tiles (one of which<br />
featured an elephant, long before elephants<br />
were widely known), clay pipes, a beer tankard<br />
dating back to 1280, and even a human<br />
leg bone. There were also several bricks that<br />
were identified as coming from the 13th and<br />
14th centuries and had probably been part of<br />
Credit: Fred Leeflang<br />
Credit: Museum Mondial<br />
Miniatures at Their Minimalist<br />
They were created in the Soviet era. They<br />
require a microscope to see and recognize<br />
them. They are few in number. They are<br />
unique and truly spectacular. They are 14<br />
of the many miniatures created by Mykola<br />
Syadristy, a well-known artist in his home<br />
country of the Ukraine. They are on display<br />
in Museum Mondial in Volendam, which<br />
was created especially for this purpose after<br />
a visit that Mural Bilan made to an exhibition<br />
of Syadristy’s work in Turkey. What<br />
he saw astonished and impressed him, and<br />
he enthusiastically told his neighbor in the<br />
Netherlands, Marc van Hartog, who was<br />
then Director of the Stedelijk Museum in<br />
Zwolle. He too was impressed, and an exhibition<br />
was arranged in his museum. In the<br />
meantime, Bilan and van Hartog envisioned<br />
a museum dedicated to just the works of<br />
Syadristy, who agreed to the plan if he himself<br />
could select its location. The three men<br />
visited many sites and finally, in the small<br />
town of Volendam, the artist chose a site on<br />
items on display are portraits of Rembrandt<br />
and Yuri Gagarin, the first person in space,<br />
a bug on a foot and a 1.8 millimeter beautifully<br />
detailed windmill. The materials used<br />
by the artist are pliable gold and fruit pits.<br />
The history of the artist is as fascinating as<br />
his works. Born in 1937 in Ukraine, then a<br />
part of Russia, he was an engineer by career<br />
and a diver for sport. As such, he learned to<br />
slow down his breathing, which stood him<br />
in good stead in his art, whereby a slight<br />
trilling of the hand could lead to the destroying<br />
of a work in progress. The KGB—<br />
the Russian Secret Service—wanted to<br />
recruit him to make miniature devices for<br />
listening in on people’s conversations, but<br />
he refused and as a result he was arrested<br />
and tortured. Fortunately, he survived and<br />
has become a well-known artist. Museum<br />
Mondial is open Tuesday to Sunday, from<br />
10 a.m. to 6 p.m.<br />
The Last Post Office<br />
In November the only remaining post office<br />
in The Hague was closed. The era of<br />
the local post office, with the head office<br />
next to the Grote Kerk in the center of town,<br />
is over. They have been replaced by neighborhood<br />
postal agencies in stores, tobacconists,<br />
and supermarkets. One of the most<br />
unusual of these locations is situated across<br />
the street from the former central office and<br />
is in the shop Papegaaien Paleis, or Parrot<br />
Palace. Here can be found some 300 parrots<br />
of various colors, attributes and countries<br />
of origin. As the owner of the Palace<br />
says, “nowhere else in the Netherlands can<br />
you buy stamps or send packages among<br />
parrots” and, incidentally, you may even be<br />
prompted to buy one.<br />
Credit: James Beard Foundation<br />
a nearby cloister of that time. These bricks<br />
have now been donated to the Grote Kerk,<br />
whose tower is currently under renovation.<br />
While the archaeological findings have delayed<br />
the opening of the new restaurant by<br />
half a year, they have earned their keep as<br />
a unique addition to the finished building.<br />
Cornelese plans to place a glass floor over<br />
the cellar, which will house the WCs, and<br />
thereby take the customers 800 years back in<br />
time with a simple “wash room visit.”<br />
the harbor, with a beautiful view. And so<br />
Museum Mondial was established.<br />
Syadristy loaned the 14 works to the museum.<br />
Among this collection is a gold replica,<br />
3.85 millimeters small and containing<br />
256 details, of the Santa Maria, the lead<br />
ship that Christopher Columbus sailed to<br />
America. Syadristy commanded that this<br />
work of art should be so placed in the museum<br />
that it looked out over the harbor. Other<br />
Credit: Parrot Palace<br />
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Thanksgiving in<br />
Leiden
Women in Need TLC Dinner<br />
by Holly Savoie<br />
Continuing the tradition of community outreach, the <strong>AWC</strong> is hosting its annual TLC<br />
Dinner on Saturday, <strong>February</strong> 23. Our goal is to share a bit of TLC with some women<br />
outside or inside our Club, who are experiencing personal struggles and could use a<br />
building up. A personal struggle might be trying to pay bills without enough funds, watching<br />
a loved one suffer, grieving the loss of a spouse or child, dealing with the collapse of a<br />
marriage, battling cancer or other illness, or losing a job and struggling to find a new one.<br />
You can always tell who the strong women are. They are the<br />
ones you see building each other up. ~Anonymous<br />
We want to provide an opportunity for women to put their trouble behind them for a few<br />
hours and maybe make some new friends, to support one another and make connections.<br />
Our goal for this project is to have these women walk away after a relaxing evening and see<br />
that the <strong>AWC</strong> is an organization of strong women determined to make a difference in the<br />
lives of those around us.<br />
If you know of a woman who could benefit from this uplifting and fulfilling evening, please<br />
send her name and a bit of her “story” to me by <strong>January</strong> 19 at hpsavoie@comcast.net and<br />
the committee will send out an invitation. If you would like to be involved, there are several<br />
ways that you can help:<br />
• Donate or find sponsors for gifts for the guests.<br />
• On the night of the event itself, we need the help of six volunteers to decorate and serve<br />
the ladies.<br />
• We are also looking for musicians who are willing to donate their services.<br />
Saturday, <strong>February</strong> 23<br />
5 – 10 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Guests by Invitation Only<br />
Volunteers Needed<br />
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8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues<br />
by Liliana Todorovic<br />
While many people rejoice at the arrival<br />
of Sinterklaas and oliebollen,<br />
changes in the weather can bring<br />
about changes in our emotional state. With<br />
the temperature dropping and days getting<br />
shorter, it’s easy to get caught up in a flurry<br />
of negativity.<br />
Seasonal affective disorder (SAD), or winter<br />
depression, is characterized by changes<br />
of mood during the colder, darker days of<br />
autumn and winter. You are suffering from<br />
SAD if, at the turn of the season, you are<br />
suddenly experiencing never-ending negative<br />
moods, exhaustion first thing in the<br />
morning and throughout the day, sugar and carbohydrate cravings, lethargy, irritability, or<br />
feelings of worthlessness and despair.<br />
The recognition of the impact of the seasons on our emotional wellbeing dates back to<br />
Ancient Greece. As early as around 400 BC, pioneer physician Hippocrates described how<br />
seasonal changes influence our health. It is believed that seasonal affective disorder is triggered<br />
by our brain’s response to a decrease in daylight. Shorter days can disrupt our biological<br />
clock, the circadian rhythm, and decrease our levels of serotonin and melatonin,<br />
chemicals crucial to regulating our mood and sleep. Luckily, most symptoms subside with<br />
the arrival of spring.<br />
In the meantime, here are eight things you can do to beat the winter blues:<br />
1. Take advantage of your lunch break to step outside and soak in some rays. Studies have<br />
shown that vitamin D deficiency can affect up to 50% of people in the northern hemisphere.<br />
If you are new to the Netherlands and hail from warmer climates, the lack of<br />
sunshine might be affecting your health and wellbeing. Breaking up your day by going<br />
for a walk can boost your positive energy. Taking vitamin D and B12 supplements is<br />
proven to be beneficial.<br />
beta-carotene, and vitamin C and E. If you are in the mood for comfort food, try<br />
cooking a protein-rich curry with pumpkin, sweet potatoes, chickpeas or lentils and<br />
a sprinkling of turmeric, a spice known for its health benefits. Instead of bingeing on<br />
desserts—share your holiday cookies with your friends or your office.<br />
4. Stick to a regular sleep schedule. Because seasonal depression is caused by changes in<br />
the circadian rhythm, it’s important to make sure that you wake up and go to sleep at<br />
roughly the same time. Create an evening routine to help you unwind by stowing away<br />
electronics an hour before bedtime, doing a guided meditation, or cozying up with a<br />
good book.<br />
5. Use light therapy to improve your mood. Healthy light exposure prevents the development<br />
of severe winter depression by reducing the level of melatonin, which makes<br />
you sleepy, and increasing the level of serotonin. Studies show that a highly effective<br />
treatment for seasonal depression is the exposure to a light box, or SAD lamp, which<br />
mimics sunlight. Basking under the lamp every morning for up to one hour will significantly<br />
improve your mood and energy levels. The use of dawn-simulating alarm<br />
clocks, that progressively lighten up in the early hours to imitate the sunrise, is also a<br />
good option. Don’t be afraid to brighten your mood by wearing bright colors, lighting<br />
candles and sitting by a fireplace.<br />
6. Invest in a negative ion generator, or ionizer. About the size of an air purifier, this<br />
device is proven to fight effects of seasonal depression by increasing healthy air molecules<br />
in your home, the same that can be found on mountains, beaches and waterfalls.<br />
When inhaled, negative ions increase the flow of oxygen in our bloodstream and the<br />
production of serotonin. Negative ion generators make us feel rejuvenated and less<br />
drowsy, like a deep breath of crisp, mountain air.<br />
7. Spend time with your friends and loved ones. As the end of the year approaches, many<br />
people struggle with deadlines at work, exams, or the holiday rush. Take a break from<br />
the grind to connect with an old friend. Instead of stressing out about Christmas presents,<br />
why don’t you give a friend something even more precious: the chance to spend<br />
some quality time together trying a new activity?<br />
8. Talk it through. Seasonal depression can take away our ability to see the light at the end<br />
of the tunnel. If you are feeling hopeless, do not be afraid to seek help. A good, long<br />
talk with a professional therapist, who can can help you identify and personalize coping<br />
mechanisms, is the best cure for seasonal depression.<br />
2. Stay active. As much as we all want to<br />
cozy up at home during the winter, it’s<br />
important to keep moving. Don’t wait<br />
until the New Year to decide to get fit.<br />
Try a new sport with a friend, go to the<br />
gym, join a yoga class—all of this will<br />
lead to an increase in the production of<br />
serotonin, the feel-good hormone.<br />
3. Fight the urge to load up on<br />
carbohydrates and sugar. You can<br />
boost your energy by eating fruits and<br />
vegetables loaded with antioxidants,<br />
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Clues in the Calico<br />
by Susan Cave<br />
I<br />
am a collector of old quilts. I bought my<br />
first in 1969 when I was in graduate school<br />
at the University of Georgia. It snowed<br />
in December, my thin dorm blanket left me<br />
freezing and I resorted to sleeping under my<br />
coat. I was envious of girls whose mothers<br />
arrived with armfuls of colorful quilts, both<br />
new and old. I was foreign and had no notion<br />
of them. I found a pink and white one at<br />
the local flea market for $3. It cost $2 for a<br />
box of soap powder and six quarters for the<br />
communal washer and dryer. I have been<br />
studying quilts and their stories ever since.<br />
She can spot the pattern. I can spot the fabric<br />
age and type. We feel the weight, look at the<br />
stitching, the color damage, the edges and<br />
the measurements, discuss and between us<br />
we can make the quilts tell their stories. And<br />
what stories they turn out to be.<br />
Some clues are easy to recognize, others<br />
are very subtle, and the obscure messages<br />
send us running for the textbooks. There were<br />
distinctive eras of fashionable quilt making—<br />
from the early 1840s through the 1850s, the<br />
1880s to 1900, and the Depression quilts of<br />
the 1930s. Some designs hit us in the eyes the<br />
minute we see them. The Double Wedding<br />
Ring and the Dresden Plate are classic patterns<br />
of the Depression, and they are both<br />
part of Sherry’s collection in Leiden. Others<br />
are more elusive and take time.<br />
Gentleman’s Fancy, Chinese Holidays, Flying<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong>man, Henry of the West or Hearts and<br />
Gizzards? Occasionally we come up with<br />
several names for the same pattern and try<br />
to correlate the correct one with the time it<br />
was made.<br />
My quilt journey has taken me across<br />
continents and time zones. I have a Ralli from<br />
the Sind province of Pakistan, a Kantha dated<br />
in Bengali from eastern India, a modern New<br />
Zealand quilt celebrating the end of the Maori<br />
land wars, an English quilt made in 1890<br />
by a man called Wilbur Blenkinsopp, and a<br />
signed and dated 1906 Swiss silk quilt from<br />
Berne. From the U.S., I have a quilt made by<br />
a woman born a slave, a patchwork from a<br />
girl belonging to the Sauk and Fox tribe of<br />
Oklahoma, and a cross stitch quilt made by<br />
a lady from Virginia who met Martin Luther<br />
King, Jr. in person. That same lady, nearing<br />
the end of her time, gave me a Tree of Life<br />
quilt made for her great grandmother’s wedding<br />
in 1884. The maker was the bride’s part<br />
Iroquois grandmother. I feel privileged to be<br />
the guardian of such treasures.<br />
Earlier this year I received an unexpected<br />
email from a lady living on the west coast of<br />
the U.S. named Sherry Cook. Both of us were<br />
members of the American Quilt Study Group<br />
of Lincoln, Nebraska, and our profiles of collecting<br />
were remarkably similar, as we started<br />
around the same time. She collected vastly<br />
more than I ever did, as I was limited by my<br />
irregular trips back to the U.S. But surprise,<br />
surprise, some of her Depression-era quilts,<br />
made from feed sacks, were being exhibited at<br />
the Textile Research Centre (TRC) in Leiden.<br />
Did I want to go and see them? I shared this<br />
news at the <strong>AWC</strong> with Chat, Craft and Cake<br />
(CC&C) members who meet every Tuesday at<br />
the <strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse, and off we went to meet<br />
the Director, Dr. Gillian Vogelsang-Eastwood,<br />
and enjoy the exhibition.<br />
Sherry is in the process of donating a<br />
substantial number of quilts to the TRC and<br />
Gillian has plans for a major exhibition in<br />
2020, coinciding with the 400th anniversary<br />
of the Mayflower. The TRC already had quilts<br />
(American and English) but no specialists<br />
who could identify and catalogue the collection.<br />
Between us, <strong>AWC</strong> Member Beverley<br />
Bennett and I have about 75 years of experience<br />
in quilting and collecting. We felt we<br />
could add value to the details sent by Sherry<br />
and add to the conversation of the others.<br />
Loren Mealey, not a quilt maker but an expert<br />
in textile and design in the CC&C group,<br />
was keen to offer her skills to the TRC too,<br />
so the three of us volunteered.<br />
The clues are in the calico, the batting,<br />
the design, the making, and sometimes in the<br />
papers of the quilt. It is like a detective story.<br />
Few quilt makers had the foresight to sign<br />
and date their work, so we can only make an<br />
educated best guess. But we read and analyze<br />
the clues and categorize them by pattern and<br />
style. Quilts, like clothing, follow fashion.<br />
Beverley and I fortunately have good visual<br />
discriminating skills and good memories.<br />
One of Sherry’s quilts turned up with a<br />
date of 1940, but no further information. By<br />
a process of elimination and lots of research,<br />
we are now satisfied that the quilt date was<br />
out by 100 years and have assigned the date<br />
at 1840. It is indigo and white, and possibly<br />
the most valuable of the entire collection.<br />
Beverley has used her considerable skill to<br />
preserve small parts which were falling away<br />
and we are confident that researchers will be<br />
able to study it for the next 100 years.<br />
Each time we go to the TRC, we wonder<br />
what we will find. There is a quilt made by<br />
three different pairs of hands and a pre-Civil<br />
War quilt where a new fabric from the 1980s<br />
was expertly used in a mend. The modern<br />
dyes gave it away. Another quilt was made<br />
using the pages of a Sears Roebuck catalogue<br />
in the days when a wedding ring cost<br />
$24.99, and some women made quilts using<br />
new fabrics but adding blocks from their<br />
grandmothers sewing boxes, so the making<br />
spanned decades. Every now and then we<br />
find initials or a name. One day we wondered<br />
aloud, “Who was Amy?”<br />
For me, one of the greatest charms of<br />
the American quilt are the pattern names.<br />
The lyricism of Jacob’s Ladder, the Rose<br />
of Sharon, Crown of Thorns, and The Old<br />
Rugged Cross evoke a simpler time when<br />
the Bible was the only book in the home.<br />
And whoever thought of naming a patchwork<br />
Loren has been left open-mouthed when<br />
Beverley and I get excited about saw teeth,<br />
prairie points, feathers, butted edges, nibbed<br />
corners, quilting in the ditch, husks, lozenges,<br />
long arms and broken dishes. Standing back,<br />
we must sound daft, but it all adds to the story.<br />
We hope that by the time the exhibition<br />
arrives in 2020, we will have added to the<br />
collection, filled in the missing years and<br />
the TRC will have the largest quilt holding<br />
in Europe. The American quilt is an amazing<br />
example of women’s social history and we are<br />
privileged to be part of it at the TRC.<br />
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Announcements<br />
The Arts Society Lecture<br />
The Gods of Egypt<br />
Tanja van der Zon, Art Historian and<br />
Exhibition Manager at the Rijksmuseum<br />
van Oudheden in Leiden, will introduce<br />
us to the fascinating world of the Gods<br />
of the ancient Egyptians. Where did the<br />
Gods live and what was their purpose in<br />
the Netherworld? Myths and stories will<br />
show their extraordinary existence and<br />
influence. Nonmember fee is € 13. www.<br />
theartssocietythehague.org<br />
Tuesday, <strong>January</strong> 15 at 8 p.m.<br />
Doors open at 7:15 p.m.<br />
Cultural Centrum Warenar<br />
Kerkstraat 75, Wassenaar<br />
International Literature Festival<br />
Writers Unlimited, an annual international<br />
literature festival connecting over 80 authors,<br />
poets and musicians from all over the<br />
world with each other and with audiences,<br />
will take place from <strong>January</strong> 17 – 20 on 13<br />
stages around The Hague. The theme of the<br />
24th edition is Who Wants to Live Forever?,<br />
focusing on the future, including the relationship<br />
between humans and robots, impact<br />
of technological innovations, and hope<br />
and fear for the political future. There are<br />
programs in English as well as <strong>Dutch</strong>. www.<br />
writersunlimited.nl<br />
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Rotterdam International Film<br />
Festival<br />
The 48th International Film Festival<br />
Rotterdam (IFFR) takes place from <strong>January</strong><br />
23 – <strong>February</strong> 3. One of the largest audience<br />
and industry-driven film festivals in the<br />
world, IFFR offers a line-up of carefully selected<br />
fiction and documentary feature films,<br />
short films and media art from 50 countries.<br />
This year’s festival will move through a<br />
plethora of emotion, and will consider how<br />
our feelings can be evoked, understood or<br />
manipulated by images in a contemporary<br />
world. www iffr.com<br />
Burns’ Night Supper<br />
The St. Andrew’s Society extends an<br />
invitation to the <strong>AWC</strong> to attend their annual<br />
ceilidh (Scottish country dancing) and dinner<br />
in honor of Robert Burrns, Scotland’s most<br />
famous poet. Dinner will include haggis<br />
(dispatched with a swirling sword), neeps<br />
(turnips) and tatties (mashed potatoes);<br />
please note if you’d prefer vegetarian<br />
haggis when booking your tickets for € 40<br />
with Marion at maria.janine@ziggo.nl. No<br />
dancing experience is necessary as you will<br />
be encouraged to join in with step-by-step<br />
instructions by a caller―the dance teacher<br />
who walks everyone through each dance.<br />
www.standrews.nl<br />
Friday, <strong>January</strong> 25<br />
Door open at 6:30 p.m.<br />
Prompt start at 7 p.m.<br />
BSN Leidschenveen<br />
Vrouw Avenweg 640, Den Haag<br />
Grab Your Skates<br />
Winter is here and in addition to the<br />
chance of skating on natural ice, there are<br />
several outdoor rinks that have been set<br />
up around The Hague. The seaside resort<br />
of Scheveningen offers ice skating in front<br />
of the Kurhaus through <strong>January</strong> 20 (www.<br />
cooleventscheveningen.nl). Although<br />
Leidsenhage, the large shopping center with<br />
free parking in Leidschendam, is largely<br />
under construction, its large rink is once<br />
again open daily through March 3. This rink<br />
is occasionally closed for private parties,<br />
so be sure to check the calendar first (www.<br />
iceparadise.nl).<br />
Feel at Home in The Hague Fair<br />
Whether you are new to The Hague and its<br />
surrounding area or have lived here for years,<br />
you shouldn’t miss the biggest international<br />
community event in the region. There<br />
will be an International<br />
Food Court and more than<br />
150 exhibitors providing<br />
information on every aspect<br />
of life in and around The<br />
Hague as well as shows and<br />
displays from local schools,<br />
theater groups, musicians<br />
and sports teams. Be sure to<br />
stop by the <strong>AWC</strong> table. Free<br />
tickets are offered online:<br />
www.feelathomeinthehague.<br />
com/registration<br />
Sunday, <strong>February</strong> 3<br />
11 a.m. – 5 p.m.<br />
Den Haag Stadhuis<br />
Spui 70, Den Haag<br />
www.<br />
feelathomeinthehague.com<br />
Art Fair in Rotterdam<br />
The 20th edition of Art Rotterdam, an<br />
international art fair for contemporary<br />
modern art, takes place from <strong>February</strong> 7 –<br />
10 in the Van Nelle Factory, a UNESCO<br />
World Heritage Site. Built in 1931, this<br />
factory produced tobacco, coffee and tea<br />
from until 1995. It is an iconic example of<br />
the Modern Movement in the Netherlands.<br />
This is an excellent opportunity to visit this<br />
unique site in addition to browsing around<br />
an art fair known for discovering up-andcoming<br />
talent. Discounted tickets are<br />
available online: www.artrotterdam.com<br />
Chinese New Year Festival<br />
There is a lot to see at the official opening<br />
of the annual Chinese New Year Festival<br />
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2018 Photo by Richard Mulder
Announcements (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 53<br />
Saturday, <strong>February</strong> 9. In and around The<br />
Hague Stadhuis (City Hall), the national<br />
celebration is organized with Chinese<br />
dragons and lions dancing, performances<br />
by Chinese and <strong>Dutch</strong> artists, and an Asian<br />
market in the Stadhuis starting at 11 a.m.<br />
www.chineesnieuwjaar-denhaag.nl<br />
The Arts Society Lecture<br />
The Art of Turner<br />
William Turner (1775 – 1851) once said,<br />
“The only secret I have is damned hard<br />
work.” He was the classic example of a<br />
self-made man, experimenting and taking<br />
landscape painting to a radically new level,<br />
truly exploring the face of nature and the<br />
sublime. Lecturer Sarah Stopford majored<br />
in art history at Harvard and English at<br />
Cambridge. She has a special interest in<br />
the connections between literature and<br />
visual arts. Nonmember fee is € 13. www.<br />
theartssocietythehague.org<br />
Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 12 at 8 p.m.<br />
Doors open at 7:15 p.m.<br />
Cultural Centrum Warenar<br />
Kerkstraat 75, Wassenaar<br />
46th ABN AMRO World Tennis<br />
Tournament<br />
Over 100,000 spectators are expected at<br />
this annual indoor tennis tournament from<br />
<strong>February</strong> 9 – 17 at the Ahoy Rotterdam.<br />
The event offers men’s singles, men’s<br />
doubles and the World Wheelchair Tennis<br />
Tournament. Ladies’ Day will be on<br />
Tuesday, <strong>February</strong> 12 featuring tennis of<br />
the very highest standards. Tickets for Kids’<br />
Day on Wednesday, <strong>February</strong> 13 can only<br />
be purchased through the Ahoy Box Office.<br />
www.abnamrowtt.com<br />
Blues Festival Delft<br />
Delft is home to the Netherland’s biggest<br />
indoor blues event from <strong>February</strong> 22 – 24.<br />
More than 70 <strong>Dutch</strong> and foreign bands perform<br />
at more than 30 cafés and restaurants<br />
throughout the city during this free festival.<br />
If you love Chicago and Texas blues, blues<br />
rock and acoustic Delta blues, you’ll feel<br />
right at home. www.delftblues.nl<br />
Children’s Books Illustrator<br />
Exhibit<br />
The House of the Book within the<br />
Meermanno Museum in The Hague is<br />
presenting a major exhibition about Quentin<br />
Blake, the British illustrator of over 300<br />
children’s books including such Roald<br />
Dahl classics as Charlie and the Chocolate<br />
Factory, and Matilda. Through March 3,<br />
the exhibition will provide an overview<br />
of the complete oeuvre of the worldfamous<br />
illustrator, who began illustrating<br />
children’s books in 1960. Visitors can gain<br />
an insight into his thought process as he<br />
explains step-by-step how he uses a text as<br />
the basis for an illustration. In addition to<br />
many original drawings, there will also be<br />
photographs, illustrations and miniatures.<br />
www.meermanno.nl<br />
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Proost! Questionnaire<br />
Answers by Michelle Voorn<br />
Why are you living in the Netherlands, and<br />
when did you arrive?<br />
My initiation to living in the Netherlands<br />
was in 2000, of course, for love. Stayed<br />
three years and then moved back to Houston.<br />
Second round, same said love reason, and<br />
this time work moved us back. We arrived in<br />
June of 2018.<br />
Give us a quick wrap-up of your family.<br />
My birth family is all over the U.S. and my<br />
brother is in Mexico City. In the Netherlands,<br />
my <strong>Dutch</strong> (well-Texanized) husband Sander<br />
and I have two Texas-born boys: Aidan (13)<br />
and Liam (12).<br />
What do you enjoy most about the <strong>AWC</strong>?<br />
Probably like many before me have said, it<br />
has taken away some of the loneliness of being<br />
a newcomer and leaving home behind.<br />
Not to mention, the social activities are so<br />
varied, from art, to coffee, to royal parades. I<br />
am having so much fun getting to know new<br />
lovely women, whom I hope will become<br />
close friends.<br />
Where is your favorite place in the<br />
Netherlands?<br />
Many don’t know, but I suffer from tinnitus<br />
(the perception of ringing/noise in the ears).<br />
Although mine is a loud engine room with<br />
a mixture of low pitch electrostatic hum,<br />
24/7… so it’s easy to say THE BEACH,<br />
Kijkduin or Scheveningen! The sounds of the<br />
ocean and the waves mask the noise which<br />
my silly brain has decided to recreate. I guess<br />
I should feel connected to Van Gogh since<br />
they now suspect he also suffered from tinnitus.<br />
Which locations haven’t been ticked off<br />
your bucket list?<br />
Maldives, Seychells, Tahiti… oh wait, other<br />
than lazying around on a beautiful beach?<br />
Too many to count. But I’d love to go to Asia,<br />
Japan being one of my top spots in the bucket<br />
list; China, Thailand. Then closer to this<br />
side, I am still missing the Nordic countries<br />
(Denmark, Norway, Sweden). Egypt. The<br />
Transiberian Express. I better think about<br />
getting a job to subsidize all these dreams!<br />
What’s your hobby?<br />
I’m not going to pretend I don’t like TV, I am<br />
a Nordic Noir junky… dark mystery/detective<br />
TV series. I do love the dystopias like<br />
The Handmaids Tale. I can’t get away from<br />
Grey’s Anatomy, and the new one A Million<br />
Little Things. Plus all the cooking shows<br />
from Netflix, particularly Chef’s Table!<br />
Cooking! In the last year or two I started focusing<br />
more on my native Mexican cuisine.<br />
There is so much variety and depth that the<br />
world hasn’t gotten to see and experience, so<br />
I have to start at home.<br />
Then I love reading! Although the move gave<br />
me “Fried Brain Syndrome” (FBS), my brain<br />
and I have had a hard time finishing a book in<br />
the last few months. I’ll get back into it soon.<br />
Music, love music as well. And board games.<br />
Pffff… I have too many and not enough time<br />
for them all!<br />
What is your favorite flower?<br />
Orchids, definitely orchids.<br />
What is your favorite drink?<br />
Again, with limiting me to a single favorite<br />
one… coffee, water, fresh teas (fresh ginger,<br />
cardamom pods, clove and star anise is<br />
my current fave), then there’s vodka (Texas<br />
Tito’s), and wine. And I’ve discovered my<br />
taste has evolved into a good Scotch or<br />
Bourbon.<br />
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