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The way<br />

WE were<br />

Marie & Arnold Jackson<br />

Camille Anding<br />

Sitting aboard their thirty-eight<br />

foot cruiser anchored to a pier in<br />

the Barnett Reservoir, Marie and<br />

Arnold Jackson laugh and joke<br />

about the circumstances that<br />

afforded them dating privileges.<br />

She was a 10th grader from<br />

Toomsuba, Mississippi, and he<br />

was a freshman at a community<br />

college in Meridian.<br />

Arnold worked as a grocery<br />

sacker in the Meridian A&P<br />

Grocery, and it was Marie’s mother<br />

who ran the cash register next to<br />

him. The two became good friends,<br />

and over time Marie’s mom invited<br />

him to join their family for a meal.<br />

Marie’s fond memory of that<br />

first meeting was actually the<br />

reverse order. “Usually the girl<br />

carries the boy home to meet her<br />

parents. Mother brought the boy<br />

home to me,” Marie said through<br />

her jovial laughter.<br />

After three years of dating<br />

and one quarter away from<br />

Arnold’s graduating from the<br />

University of Southern<br />

Mississippi, the two were wed<br />

on April 12, 1968. Arnold soon<br />

got a job that moved the<br />

newlyweds to Macon, Georgia.<br />

The next move carried them to<br />

California.<br />

Arnold’s appetite for better<br />

job opportunities kept him<br />

actively pursuing education and<br />

advancing his options. Law school<br />

was one of those opportunities,<br />

and while working days (with<br />

Marie’s help) and attending night<br />

classes, he added attorney to his<br />

job titles. That degree led him into<br />

the oil business where he and<br />

three other businessmen eventually<br />

launched Denbury Resources, Inc.<br />

While his jobs carried him<br />

throughout the states, Marie was<br />

a stay at home mom to their three<br />

daughters. When they were 5th,<br />

6th, and 9th graders in 1983, the<br />

Jacksons’ lives took a drastic turn.<br />

Marie’s parents were in a serious<br />

train/car collision that killed her<br />

father and put her mom in a<br />

six-week coma. One leg had to<br />

be amputated, and her eyesight<br />

was destroyed.<br />

Marie understood then why<br />

God’s plan for her hadn’t<br />

included a degree and career,<br />

because the next thirty years she<br />

was her mother’s caregiver in their<br />

home until her mother’s death.<br />

8 • Fall 2018

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