TOWN HAPPENINGS A Heart for Helping Others CHAPMAN ALUMNA'S NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE INSPIRES HER HOSPICE WORK Chapman University alumna Michelle Wulfestieg is Orange County’s 2018 National Philanthropy Day Outstanding Founders Award honoree Article Dawn Bonker 22 <strong>KUDOS</strong> Newport Beach | <strong>April</strong> <strong>2019</strong>
Michelle Wulfestieg, third from left, was among several Orange County leaders honored for their philanthropy by the Association of Fundraising Professionals, Orange County, at its annual 2018 National Philanthropy Day celebration. CHAPMAN UNIVERSITY ALUMNA MICHELLE WULFESTIEG HAS TOLD THE STORY OF HER NEAR DEATH MANY TIMES, BUT TEARS STILL SPRING TO HER EYES WHEN SHE RECOUNTS THAT WINTER NIGHT IN 2008. She had just left a print shop with her completed master’s thesis in hand when she suffered a massive stroke, sparked by a congenital brain lesion that had caused a childhood stroke that had left her partially paralyzed. She remembers a paramedic holding her shoulders, begging her to hang on. But, the lesion was shutting down her brain. She says a near-death experience engulfed her, blanketing her in peace and calm. “I remember thinking I can’t hang on anymore. This is it. I have to go. So I went,” says Wulfestieg (M.A. organizational leadership ’08). “I was completely surrounded by God and it had this beautiful warm light that surrounded me and I just knew that this is where I had come from and this is where I now belonged,” she says with an emotion-filled voice. But, not just yet, as it turned out. Wulfestieg says she heard what she believes were prayers and divine assurance guiding her back to life. Later, recovery from a coma and brain surgery was nearly overwhelming. But, as she struggled, the executive director of Southern California Hospice Foundation had a revelation. This must be what her clients felt like – wounded, frustrated and in pain. Unlike hospice patients, though, she was improving and she became convinced it was the reason for her survival. There was just one thing to do. Get back to work. Today, the foundation is growing and serves thousands of terminally ill children and adults and their families who need financial help and emotional support. Recently the organization launched a campaign to build a nonprofit hospice residence in Orange County. For her work, the Newport Beach resident was named 2018 National Philanthropy Day Orange County’s Outstanding Founder Award recipient. “It was exciting and just such a great honor,” Wulfestieg says. Among the other honorees were philanthropists Ling and Charles Zhang, founders of the Pick Up Stix restaurant chain, and the Ueberroth Family Foundation. But the day might never have arrived without the support of her Chapman community, she says. Chapman was a natural choice for her – she is a member of the Scudder family, which donated the Albert Schweitzer Collection to the University and counts many Chapman Panthers among its members. What she couldn’t possibly anticipate, though, was how friendships forged in class would help her beyond the classroom. “You become very close with these people because you share so much of your life with them,” she says. “They all have the same passion, the same vision, the same gusto for life and they just want to make a difference in their organizations, in their community, in their state, their country and in the world.” Those friends rallied around during her recovery, as she worked to regain speech, mobility and strength. Today, some even serve on the board of her organization. When commencement arrived, she surprised family, classmates and even herself. With help, she rose out of her wheelchair and walked across the stage to receive her diploma. “I just became determined,” she says. That turning point still motivates her as she works to make a difference by helping people receive the best quality of life they can hope for in their dying days. “For me, it’s this – don’t wait. You might not make 84. That’s why I wrote a book, typed with one hand and a damaged brain, called All We Have is Today. It’s a reminder. There is no guarantee of tomorrow.” <strong>KUDOS</strong> Newport Beach | <strong>April</strong> <strong>2019</strong> 23
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