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the orland park prairie | May 9, 2019 | 19<br />
Social snapshot<br />
Top Web Stories<br />
From opprairie.com as of Friday, May 3<br />
From the Editor<br />
Finding strength in snapshots<br />
1. Community continues to show family<br />
support after death of second child<br />
2. News from Your Neighbors: Slow your roll:<br />
Food trucks get support, with restrictions in<br />
Mokena<br />
3. Teen ballerina ready to take her next steps<br />
4. Rave on! Boykin taken in third round of<br />
NFL Draft by Baltimore<br />
5. Stavropoulos finds a college home as she<br />
is one of 39 athletes honored at Sandburg<br />
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The Bridge Teen Center posted the accompanying<br />
image April 29, with the note, “It was an<br />
intense Friday Night during our Thumb Wrestling<br />
Tournament. Congratulations to our winners!”<br />
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BILL JONES<br />
bill@opprairie.com<br />
Less than two weeks<br />
after the death of a<br />
second child, Orland<br />
Park resident Aggie<br />
Boruc invited me into her<br />
home to talk about her<br />
11-year-old son, Adrian,<br />
who died April 19 following<br />
complications from<br />
a genetic disorder called<br />
Alagille syndrome.<br />
I want you to read that<br />
sentence one more time.<br />
I cannot imagine the<br />
strength it takes to invite<br />
a stranger into your home<br />
following such hardship,<br />
and to sit for nearly an<br />
hour recounting stories<br />
that, yes, remind of the<br />
good times but also irritate<br />
a wound that is still<br />
fresh. I have heard these<br />
stories more times than I<br />
would like to count, with<br />
the considerable responsibility<br />
of telling what<br />
often is someone’s final<br />
story. And I’m not sure I<br />
could handle being on the<br />
other side of the table.<br />
We write stories such<br />
as these for a number of<br />
reasons. Mostly, we want<br />
people to be remembered,<br />
whether it is because they<br />
played prominent roles<br />
in a community, because<br />
they did something<br />
great with their lives or<br />
because their stories have<br />
things others can take<br />
away from them. They<br />
are never about the death<br />
so much as how these<br />
people lived their lives.<br />
After my time at Aggie’s<br />
home, I learned that<br />
Adrian was a “neighborhood<br />
kid” who everyone<br />
seemed to love. He was<br />
a student at Century Jr.<br />
High School well-supported<br />
by his peers over<br />
the last three months, and<br />
one with a positivity and<br />
toughness to educate others<br />
on his struggles. He<br />
suffered because of his<br />
illness, but he remained<br />
positive in the face of<br />
it. He was a source of<br />
strength to a single<br />
mother. He had a huge<br />
personality, despite his<br />
small stature.<br />
The story about his<br />
life on Page 7 is inherently<br />
incomplete. As<br />
with stories at wakes and<br />
funerals, they are simply<br />
anecdotes. Sharing them<br />
helps us keep memories<br />
of Adrian alive, despite<br />
the loss. They illustrate<br />
what he meant to his<br />
family and friends, and<br />
what others can learn<br />
from his story. And there<br />
is strength to be found<br />
in those snapshots of<br />
Adrian’s life.<br />
It’s not a complete<br />
picture, though. I know<br />
about Adrian, but I did<br />
not know Adrian. The<br />
memories of the moments<br />
in between those anecdotes<br />
are not mine. They<br />
belong to people who saw<br />
him in the halls at school<br />
or shared a dinner table<br />
with him. They belong<br />
to his friends and his<br />
neighbors and his mother.<br />
But Adrian’s story can<br />
mean something to all of<br />
us. And Aggie’s strength<br />
in telling it shows us how.<br />
Please read her words<br />
carefully.<br />
On the way to Aggie’s<br />
house that afternoon, I<br />
was stunned while turning<br />
into the Brooks Hills<br />
subdivision to see ribbons<br />
on every tree, light pole,<br />
street sign — not just<br />
around Aggie’s home but<br />
for blocks and blocks.<br />
The show of support was<br />
universal, and I learned<br />
in talking to Aggie just<br />
how much it meant to<br />
a mother who suddenly<br />
found herself feeling<br />
alone. A community<br />
helped to remind her she<br />
is not. Please don’t let her<br />
forget that anytime soon.<br />
“Thanks to Bob Feldman of Nothing Bundt<br />
Cakes for coming out to the lacrosse game<br />
tonight. Your support of @SandburgLax is<br />
much appreciated!”<br />
@EaglesAthletics — Sandburg Athletics, on<br />
Thursday, May 2<br />
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Letters to the Editor<br />
Knock it off with the<br />
robocalls<br />
I have been a citizen of<br />
Orland Park for almost<br />
31 years, and have never<br />
felt the need to voice my<br />
opinion publicly to The<br />
Prairie or whatever publication<br />
preceded it.<br />
Enough is enough.<br />
I am so very tired of<br />
getting these horrible,<br />
hateful phone calls from<br />
the politicians that apparently<br />
“lost” the last election<br />
[Editor’s Note: The<br />
phone call, as with several<br />
political robocalls during<br />
election season, was made<br />
anonymously and has not<br />
been traced to any particular<br />
individual.] This<br />
last phone call, bringing<br />
up one of the trustee’s<br />
family members who had<br />
nothing to do with Orland<br />
Park politics, is the<br />
final straw.<br />
I have to believe this<br />
effort is coming from the<br />
coven of politicians that<br />
lost half their strength.<br />
Assuming that is the case,<br />
I cannot wait to vote the<br />
remaining three out of office<br />
at the first opportunity.<br />
They are an embarrassment<br />
to the Village with<br />
their antics.<br />
The people of Orland<br />
Park have spoken. We<br />
were tired of having the<br />
same mayor for eons and<br />
did something about it.<br />
We were tired of having<br />
the coven of six do<br />
everything possible to<br />
hamstring the Village<br />
from moving forward,<br />
and we did something<br />
about it.<br />
How about we give the<br />
new trustees a chance to<br />
do their thing?<br />
Better yet, children,<br />
how about you all work<br />
together and play nice?<br />
Best idea yet? Stop<br />
harassing us with these<br />
horrible, negative phone<br />
calls!<br />
Michelle Whalen<br />
Orland Park resident<br />
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