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<strong>OP</strong>Prairie.com sound off<br />

the orland park prairie | May 9, 2019 | 19<br />

Social snapshot<br />

Top Web Stories<br />

From opprairie.com as of Friday, May 3<br />

From the Editor<br />

Finding strength in snapshots<br />

1. Community continues to show family<br />

support after death of second child<br />

2. News from Your Neighbors: Slow your roll:<br />

Food trucks get support, with restrictions in<br />

Mokena<br />

3. Teen ballerina ready to take her next steps<br />

4. Rave on! Boykin taken in third round of<br />

NFL Draft by Baltimore<br />

5. Stavropoulos finds a college home as she<br />

is one of 39 athletes honored at Sandburg<br />

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The Bridge Teen Center posted the accompanying<br />

image April 29, with the note, “It was an<br />

intense Friday Night during our Thumb Wrestling<br />

Tournament. Congratulations to our winners!”<br />

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BILL JONES<br />

bill@opprairie.com<br />

Less than two weeks<br />

after the death of a<br />

second child, Orland<br />

Park resident Aggie<br />

Boruc invited me into her<br />

home to talk about her<br />

11-year-old son, Adrian,<br />

who died April 19 following<br />

complications from<br />

a genetic disorder called<br />

Alagille syndrome.<br />

I want you to read that<br />

sentence one more time.<br />

I cannot imagine the<br />

strength it takes to invite<br />

a stranger into your home<br />

following such hardship,<br />

and to sit for nearly an<br />

hour recounting stories<br />

that, yes, remind of the<br />

good times but also irritate<br />

a wound that is still<br />

fresh. I have heard these<br />

stories more times than I<br />

would like to count, with<br />

the considerable responsibility<br />

of telling what<br />

often is someone’s final<br />

story. And I’m not sure I<br />

could handle being on the<br />

other side of the table.<br />

We write stories such<br />

as these for a number of<br />

reasons. Mostly, we want<br />

people to be remembered,<br />

whether it is because they<br />

played prominent roles<br />

in a community, because<br />

they did something<br />

great with their lives or<br />

because their stories have<br />

things others can take<br />

away from them. They<br />

are never about the death<br />

so much as how these<br />

people lived their lives.<br />

After my time at Aggie’s<br />

home, I learned that<br />

Adrian was a “neighborhood<br />

kid” who everyone<br />

seemed to love. He was<br />

a student at Century Jr.<br />

High School well-supported<br />

by his peers over<br />

the last three months, and<br />

one with a positivity and<br />

toughness to educate others<br />

on his struggles. He<br />

suffered because of his<br />

illness, but he remained<br />

positive in the face of<br />

it. He was a source of<br />

strength to a single<br />

mother. He had a huge<br />

personality, despite his<br />

small stature.<br />

The story about his<br />

life on Page 7 is inherently<br />

incomplete. As<br />

with stories at wakes and<br />

funerals, they are simply<br />

anecdotes. Sharing them<br />

helps us keep memories<br />

of Adrian alive, despite<br />

the loss. They illustrate<br />

what he meant to his<br />

family and friends, and<br />

what others can learn<br />

from his story. And there<br />

is strength to be found<br />

in those snapshots of<br />

Adrian’s life.<br />

It’s not a complete<br />

picture, though. I know<br />

about Adrian, but I did<br />

not know Adrian. The<br />

memories of the moments<br />

in between those anecdotes<br />

are not mine. They<br />

belong to people who saw<br />

him in the halls at school<br />

or shared a dinner table<br />

with him. They belong<br />

to his friends and his<br />

neighbors and his mother.<br />

But Adrian’s story can<br />

mean something to all of<br />

us. And Aggie’s strength<br />

in telling it shows us how.<br />

Please read her words<br />

carefully.<br />

On the way to Aggie’s<br />

house that afternoon, I<br />

was stunned while turning<br />

into the Brooks Hills<br />

subdivision to see ribbons<br />

on every tree, light pole,<br />

street sign — not just<br />

around Aggie’s home but<br />

for blocks and blocks.<br />

The show of support was<br />

universal, and I learned<br />

in talking to Aggie just<br />

how much it meant to<br />

a mother who suddenly<br />

found herself feeling<br />

alone. A community<br />

helped to remind her she<br />

is not. Please don’t let her<br />

forget that anytime soon.<br />

“Thanks to Bob Feldman of Nothing Bundt<br />

Cakes for coming out to the lacrosse game<br />

tonight. Your support of @SandburgLax is<br />

much appreciated!”<br />

@EaglesAthletics — Sandburg Athletics, on<br />

Thursday, May 2<br />

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Sound Off Policy<br />

Editorials and columns are the opinions of the author. Pieces from 22nd<br />

Century Media are the thoughts of the company as a whole. The Orland<br />

Park Prairie encourages readers to write letters to Sound Off. All letters<br />

must be signed, and names and hometowns will be published. We also<br />

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not publication. Letters should be limited to 400 words. The Orland<br />

Park Prairie reserves the right to edit letters. Letters become property<br />

of The Orland Park Prairie. Letters that are published do not reflect the<br />

thoughts and views of The Orland Park Prairie. Letters can be mailed<br />

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Condo #3, Orland Park, Illinois, 60467. Fax letters to (708) 326-9179 or<br />

e-mail to bill@opprairie.com.<br />

Letters to the Editor<br />

Knock it off with the<br />

robocalls<br />

I have been a citizen of<br />

Orland Park for almost<br />

31 years, and have never<br />

felt the need to voice my<br />

opinion publicly to The<br />

Prairie or whatever publication<br />

preceded it.<br />

Enough is enough.<br />

I am so very tired of<br />

getting these horrible,<br />

hateful phone calls from<br />

the politicians that apparently<br />

“lost” the last election<br />

[Editor’s Note: The<br />

phone call, as with several<br />

political robocalls during<br />

election season, was made<br />

anonymously and has not<br />

been traced to any particular<br />

individual.] This<br />

last phone call, bringing<br />

up one of the trustee’s<br />

family members who had<br />

nothing to do with Orland<br />

Park politics, is the<br />

final straw.<br />

I have to believe this<br />

effort is coming from the<br />

coven of politicians that<br />

lost half their strength.<br />

Assuming that is the case,<br />

I cannot wait to vote the<br />

remaining three out of office<br />

at the first opportunity.<br />

They are an embarrassment<br />

to the Village with<br />

their antics.<br />

The people of Orland<br />

Park have spoken. We<br />

were tired of having the<br />

same mayor for eons and<br />

did something about it.<br />

We were tired of having<br />

the coven of six do<br />

everything possible to<br />

hamstring the Village<br />

from moving forward,<br />

and we did something<br />

about it.<br />

How about we give the<br />

new trustees a chance to<br />

do their thing?<br />

Better yet, children,<br />

how about you all work<br />

together and play nice?<br />

Best idea yet? Stop<br />

harassing us with these<br />

horrible, negative phone<br />

calls!<br />

Michelle Whalen<br />

Orland Park resident<br />

visit us online at www.<strong>OP</strong>Prairie.com

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