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f positivity<br />

By Mark Lederer<br />

AP Psychology Teacher<br />

Marriage and Family Therapist Intern<br />

Mindfulness can be defined as bringing one’s attention<br />

to the present moment without judgment, to<br />

simply notice what is happening right now. While the<br />

definition may sound simple, the practice is not easy.<br />

The practice of mindfulness asks us to sit still with<br />

the totality of our experience, with all our thoughts,<br />

all our feelings, and all our sensations. It is in this<br />

space of stillness where we can cultivate compassion<br />

for ourselves and others, an understanding of<br />

the human condition, and the freedom to act on our<br />

deepest values.<br />

A growing body of research is demonstrating the<br />

benefits of mindfulness, from the reduction of depression<br />

and anxiety to increased performance in academics<br />

and athletics. For the developing adolescent<br />

brain, the practice of mindfulness strengthens those<br />

areas in the prefrontal cortex that are responsible for<br />

impulse control, emotion regulation, and the focusing<br />

of attention. For the adults who care for teens,<br />

mindfulness is a useful practice of self-care and of<br />

modeling for teens the calm presence that they need<br />

from adults in order to learn how to cope with strong<br />

feelings.<br />

Last summer, and continuing into this school year, 30<br />

faculty and staff from eight departments, including<br />

counseling, administration and athletics, took courses<br />

through Mindful Schools in Emeryville or through<br />

independent study. Last fall, our Parent Education<br />

program offered parents the opportunity to bring<br />

mindfulness to parenting. Our parent book club read<br />

The Awakened Family, by Dr. Shefali Tsabary, and our<br />

evening speaker series featured Mindfulness-Based<br />

Stress Reduction for Teens expert Gina Biegel,<br />

LMFT.<br />

Mindfulness is also incorporated into our retreat program.<br />

The freshman retreat focuses on noticing and<br />

befriending one’s emotions. The retreat begins and<br />

ends with mindfulness meditations where students<br />

are invited to simply observe and learn from their<br />

feelings before acting on them. The Kairos retreat for<br />

juniors and seniors incorporates mindfulness into<br />

the training of retreat leaders and is a foundational<br />

practice for the overall theme of being present to<br />

oneself, others and God.<br />

<strong>Winter</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> <strong>2017</strong> // 15

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