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PAGE 16— SUNDAY VANGUARD, AUGUST 18, 2019<br />
What I miss<br />
about Nigeria<br />
— Ogeh Cynthia<br />
By EKAETTE BASSEY<br />
anada-based Nigerian actress, Ogeh Cynthia, who also runs a PR and<br />
C entertainment outfit, LQP Image Consulting and Ogeh Cynthia<br />
Entertainment, in this interview, speaks on life as a Nigerian in diaspora,<br />
reasons behind celebrity marriage crash and lots more. Excerpts;<br />
Can you tell us more about yourself?<br />
I’m a fabulous daughter, a committed<br />
mother and a dependable partner. I’m<br />
called ‘The Lion Queen’ by those who love<br />
me. I’m also an actress and a business woman<br />
who is devoted to serving God and humanity.<br />
You have been scarce in movies, why?<br />
I have been very busy working behind the<br />
scenes. We now run a production company<br />
that produces drama, marketing campaigns<br />
and advertisements. We are working on a<br />
major TV series for Africa cinema. Please stay<br />
tuned.<br />
Besides acting, you’re also into so many<br />
other things, can you give us a breakdown?<br />
I’m an entrepreneur who is on the lookout<br />
for great investment opportunities. My<br />
partners and I are into general merchandising<br />
like, event and entertainment production,<br />
marketing and advertisement, content<br />
creations, relationship counselling, car<br />
importation, advocacy, and charity work.<br />
As a Nigerian in diaspora, how have you<br />
been coping?<br />
It is not easy living outside of your home.<br />
Trust me, I miss Nigeria all the time. There is<br />
no place like home. The western society is<br />
structured and very straight forward. Anyone<br />
who is determined and ready to put in the<br />
work will definitely make it. I am comfortable<br />
here but I miss my Nigeria.<br />
Do you have plans to shoot your own<br />
movies anytime soon?<br />
Yes. We are currently working on some<br />
quality projects.<br />
What do you miss about Nigeria?<br />
I miss the freshly harvested and cooked meal.<br />
I miss family and friends. I miss my village<br />
in Anambra state.<br />
How have you been<br />
coping with running an<br />
NGO in this poor<br />
economic state of the<br />
country?<br />
We have been<br />
fortunate so far. We are<br />
blessed with<br />
remarkable pair of<br />
human beings who are<br />
committed to our<br />
cause. They volunteer<br />
their time and support<br />
our programs with<br />
resources. We are<br />
currently working on a<br />
major healthcare<br />
intervention for our<br />
people. We will let you<br />
know as soon as we are<br />
ready to launch.<br />
Donors and partners<br />
are welcome.<br />
As a relationship<br />
consultant, what do<br />
you think is<br />
responsible for the<br />
alarming rate of<br />
celebrity marriage<br />
crash and baby mama<br />
syndrome?<br />
Marriage or any kind of committed<br />
relationship requires deep commitment and<br />
maturity. Committed relationship is a contract<br />
and a covenant that is binding. The parties<br />
involved must keep to their own side of the<br />
agreement. Marriage crash is as a result of a<br />
default in such agreement. These days, people<br />
are more conscious of avoiding exploitation.<br />
Baby mama on the other hand is a derogatory<br />
term created to shame and demean<br />
women. I find the term very irritating. I<br />
will rather use the term single<br />
motherhood to describe them. Single<br />
parenthood is not an easy thing. I<br />
will not degrade anyone working<br />
hard to raise responsible<br />
children.<br />
You started ‘Black and<br />
White Gala Ball’ in Canada<br />
but later stopped. Why?<br />
The Black and White Gala<br />
Ball Canada, was a pet<br />
project created to bring<br />
Africans together in an<br />
environment where they<br />
are respected and<br />
recognized. We ran it for<br />
two years before we<br />
moved to other projects.<br />
We are presently<br />
mentoring and<br />
shaping the future of<br />
young Africans in<br />
Canada. Africans are<br />
often associated with<br />
ineptitude and<br />
e c o n o m i c<br />
backwardness, we<br />
are increasingly<br />
changing that<br />
narrative. We are<br />
equipping these<br />
young minds with<br />
skills and<br />
leadership<br />
qualities that will<br />
propel them into<br />
management<br />
positions.<br />
Baby mama is a<br />
derogatory term<br />
created to shame<br />
and demean<br />
women. I find the<br />
term very irritating<br />
You seem<br />
to have a special<br />
kind of love for<br />
Anambra State, with<br />
regards to your famous<br />
Facebook page, what’s<br />
behind that?<br />
Anambra is home, and<br />
home is where the heart is.<br />
I want my people to access<br />
some of the beautiful things<br />
I have seen in Canada.<br />
Anambra state has a<br />
reputation<br />
for<br />
industriousness and<br />
business acumen. Anambra<br />
State is blessed with wealthy<br />
men and women who can do<br />
great and mighty things for<br />
our people. We can do better.<br />
We should do better. We must<br />
start it now. We must change<br />
the trajectory of our society.<br />
Looking back, what fond<br />
memories do you have of<br />
your home town?<br />
Many fond memories. I love<br />
moving from town to town. I<br />
love learning about each town<br />
and how their customs differ<br />
from our own. I adore the<br />
wealth of our humanity and<br />
the richness of our culture.<br />
Do you miss core Nigerian foods?<br />
I eat almost all the Nigeria foods that I love.<br />
What I miss most is my inability to cook with<br />
freshly harvested leaves. In Canada, our<br />
Nigeria vegetables are either dried or frozen.<br />
How fluent are your children in Igbo<br />
•Ogeh<br />
Cynthia<br />
language?<br />
T h e y<br />
understand Igbo<br />
language but they<br />
are not fluent in<br />
speaking it. They<br />
mix their Igbo with<br />
English. We are<br />
working on them<br />
speaking Igbo more<br />
fluently. I will admit, our<br />
progress has been slow.<br />
We will keep trying until<br />
success is achieved.<br />
Should more women<br />
venture into politics?<br />
Absolutely Yes. I’d love<br />
to see more women doing<br />
wonders for the nation.<br />
How do you think<br />
women can take their<br />
place in the society?<br />
As a people, we must<br />
pull down all visible and invisible walls<br />
socially constructed to limit and restrain<br />
women. Every Nigerian female should be<br />
encouraged to take up space in every sector<br />
•Ogeh<br />
Cynthia<br />
of our society. We need women occupying<br />
leadership positions in business, banks,<br />
entertainment, politics, markets,<br />
manufacturing, real estate and religion.<br />
What life lessons has been instrumental<br />
to your success so far?<br />
One of my greatest inspirations in life is<br />
the Bible verse which states: “I can do all<br />
things through Christ who strengthens me”.<br />
My mum endorsed the significance of<br />
education to me. She is my strongest human<br />
inspiration.<br />
Would you say you’re a fulfilled woman?<br />
I am a woman who is contented with her<br />
life. I am a woman in fullness of her agency. I<br />
love me because I am an original. I love God<br />
and I love humanity.<br />
What’s next for you in terms of projects?<br />
First, we are seeking for partners with<br />
visionary ideas. We are working on new<br />
campaigns for our charitable work. We also<br />
have some new products coming into the<br />
market soon. Creating and making things is<br />
a big part of our identity. Don’t worry, we will<br />
continually keep you updated.