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PAGE 40 — SUNDAY VANGUARD, OCTOBER 13, 2019<br />
You are unstoppable!<br />
Shout out to the Girl-Child out there!<br />
Yes! We celebrate you as<br />
generations who are<br />
taking the world stage. The<br />
foundation has been laid for you<br />
to build your voices on, your<br />
aspirations and dreams. Nothing<br />
can stop you except you stop<br />
yourself. But you know what? You<br />
can just happen suddenly. Anyone<br />
who happens suddenly disappears<br />
suddenly. That is why you are<br />
being built by your parents,<br />
guardians, teachers, counselors,<br />
religious fathers, government, your<br />
environment, just to mention a few.<br />
All you need is the confidence that<br />
will take you up there which is<br />
education. Getting to the top goes<br />
beyond sagging and drug abuse. It<br />
goes beyond exam malpractices.<br />
The one that will participate will<br />
answer to obedience: girls who will<br />
diligently follow instruction.<br />
As we celebrate the girls today,<br />
the boys are not left out. You are<br />
celebrated and you are who you<br />
are. Nothing can change it! It<br />
is just that the world is a stage<br />
for everyone and any society<br />
that fails to harness the energy<br />
and creativity of its women is<br />
at a huge disadvantage in the<br />
modern world.<br />
Have a blessed week<br />
As the world celebrates the<br />
brilliance of girls around the<br />
world who are raising their<br />
voices, leading movements, and<br />
challenging the status quo, gradually,<br />
our society is recognizing the<br />
unstoppable momentum toward<br />
unequivocal civil equality for every girl<br />
child. It is becoming clearer that girls<br />
are not sex slaves and the stereotypes<br />
about the role of women as confined to<br />
the domestic and family sphere where<br />
girls are often socialized to assume<br />
domestic and care responsibilities, with<br />
the assumption that they will be<br />
economically dependent on men is no<br />
longer acceptable. Girls are proving<br />
they are unscripted and unstoppable.<br />
This year's theme, “GirlForce:<br />
Unscripted and Unstoppable”, is a<br />
clear message for every girl child out<br />
there that nothing can stop them from<br />
being who they dream to become. A<br />
quote by Zulaykho Ermatova, 22, from<br />
Uzbekistan on UNICEF site says,<br />
"Whatever life you choose, it’s up to you<br />
and it depends on your interests. Share<br />
your ideas. Get support from your peers,<br />
teachers and families. Get things done.<br />
Nobody can stop you if you believe in<br />
what you do and follow your dream."<br />
A Statement by UN Women<br />
Executive Director Phumzile Mlambo-<br />
Ngcuka for International Day of the<br />
Girl, 2019 says, “There’s no doubting<br />
the unstoppable power of today’s young<br />
women and girls to stand up for their<br />
rights and the future they want. They<br />
are a fierce force to be reckoned with. I<br />
see the marches, hear their clear voices,<br />
and witness their impatient challenge<br />
to systems and societies that are too<br />
slow to take action on issues of both<br />
personal and global concern. From<br />
resisting violence against women, to<br />
climate action, to asserting the rights<br />
of a girl and a woman to determine<br />
what happens to her body, UN Women<br />
stand by them and work to amplify their<br />
power and their calls for change”.<br />
Continuing, she said, "It is not all<br />
girls that are able to be that vocal and<br />
that self-assured because for some, life<br />
has not brought knowledge that opens<br />
doors to a bigger life, saying that across<br />
the world, 15 million girls of primary<br />
school age are out of school and likely<br />
never to learn to read or write. She<br />
added that each year, 12 million girls<br />
are married before the age of 18—<br />
Girls are unstoppable as the world celebrates<br />
International Day of the Girl-Child<br />
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•Aloma Mariam Mukhtar •Ogunseye, First Female Professor •Ire Aderinokun-Tech queen<br />
•Professor Alele-Williams<br />
nearly one every two seconds. For<br />
millions of girls, violence—and the fear<br />
of it—is a lurking, limiting threat, and<br />
a present danger for girls both at home<br />
and in public spaces".<br />
Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka<br />
however assured every girl child in<br />
today’s generation that she sees<br />
powerful role models who have<br />
already found their voice and are<br />
taking the world stage to exercise that<br />
power as new leaders and her wish is<br />
that every stakeholder will work<br />
urgently for a new generation equality,<br />
to end the circumstances that currently<br />
limit the world’s least privileged<br />
children, and give their full support to<br />
the movements that allow them all to<br />
flourish.<br />
To every girl child out there, have<br />
confidence that you can bring about<br />
change in your own life as well as other<br />
girls' lives. There are many first<br />
females in almost all sectors now that<br />
grew up in the same environment<br />
where gender inequality of all sorts<br />
thrived but they broke barriers to<br />
become who they are today in their<br />
chosen careers, they dared to dream,<br />
they were unstoppable! You too are<br />
unstoppable.<br />
• Captain Chinyere Kalu is the first<br />
female pilot in Nigeria.<br />
• Florence Nwanzuruahu Nkiru<br />
Nwapa was a Nigerian author best<br />
known as Flora Nwapa. She was the<br />
first African woman publisher.<br />
• Elizabeth Abimbola Awoliyi was<br />
the first female physician in Nigeria.<br />
She earned her medical degree in 1938<br />
from the University of Dublin<br />
•Chioma Ajunwa is the first African<br />
woman, as well as the first Nigerian, to<br />
win an Olympic gold medal in a track<br />
and field event. She jumped 7.12<br />
metres at a long jump event in the 1996<br />
Atlanta Olympic Games.<br />
•Professor Adetoun Ogunseye is first<br />
•Captain Chinyere Kalu<br />
female Professor In Nigeria. She<br />
attended Queen’s College, Yaba,<br />
Lagos. At the University of Ibadan<br />
(where she was the first female student),<br />
she received the prize for the best<br />
female graduating student and got a<br />
scholarship to proceed to Cambridge.<br />
•Justice Aloma Mukhtar made<br />
history by becoming the first female<br />
Chief Justice of Nigeria. She was also<br />
conferred with the National Award of<br />
GCON (the second highest honour in<br />
the land)<br />
•Prof. Grace Alele-Williams was the<br />
first Nigerian woman to become the<br />
vice-chancellor of a Nigerian<br />
University. She studied at Queens<br />
College, University College, Ibadan<br />
and then the University of Vermont,<br />
before receiving a PhD in Mathematics<br />
education from the University of<br />
Chicago.<br />
•Ambassador Adenike Ebun<br />
Oyagbola is the first woman to ever be<br />
appointed as a Federal Minister in the<br />
history of Nigeria under the regime of<br />
Alhaji Shehu Shagari. She was also a<br />
Nigerian Ambassador to Mexico.<br />
•Blessing Liman is the first female<br />
military pilot of the Nigerian Air Force.<br />
On her achievement she has been<br />
quoted elsewhere as saying; “As a first<br />
female pilot I would want to make a<br />
mark that would encourage other<br />
females to join the military because I<br />
believe that all females have equal<br />
opportunity to exercise their rights in<br />
whatever they choose to..”<br />
•Maureen Nkeiruka Mmadu is the<br />
first Nigerian women’s football coach<br />
attached to a top European club. She<br />
is a former Super Falcons midfielder<br />
and is the first Nigerian to have played<br />
100 games for the national team.<br />
•Ibukun Abiodun Awosika: She is<br />
the first board chairperson of First<br />
Bank of Nigeria . Making her the first<br />
woman to assume this position since<br />
the establishment of First Bank of<br />
•Chioma Ajunwa<br />
Nigeria in 1894. She is also the<br />
Chairman, Board of Trustees of Women<br />
in Management and Business<br />
(WIMBIZ).<br />
•Sandra Aguebor is Nigeria’s first<br />
lady mechanic. She studied<br />
mechanical engineering at the Auchi<br />
Polytechnic graduating in 1991 as the<br />
first Nigerian woman to be certified as<br />
an auto-mechanical engineer.<br />
•Chief ‘Folake Solanke (SAN) is the<br />
first female Senior Advocate of Nigeria<br />
and the first Nigerian female lawyer<br />
to wear the silk gown as Senior<br />
Counsel. She is the first Commissioner<br />
of Western State and is a former<br />
Chairperson of the Western Nigeria<br />
Television Broadcasting Corporation<br />
(WNTBC).<br />
•Dr. Abimbola Ayodeji Abolarinwa<br />
is first female Urologist in Nigeria. Her<br />
medical career started in 2004 after<br />
graduating from University of Ibadan.<br />
She worked as a Medical officer for 2<br />
years before she commenced her<br />
residency training at the Lagos State<br />
University Teaching Hospital, Ikeja.<br />
•Captain Abimbola Jayeola<br />
(Captain AB) is Nigeria’s First Female<br />
Helicopter Captain. In February 2016,<br />
Captain Jayeola was widely celebrated<br />
for her heroism in saving the lives of 11<br />
Nigerians onboard a 5B BJQ Bristow<br />
helicopter headed to Lagos from Port<br />
Harcourt.<br />
•Olabisi Alofe-Kolawole is the first<br />
female public relations officer (FPRO)<br />
of the Nigeria Police Force. She has a<br />
degree in law from Ogun State<br />
University and a master’s in police<br />
leadership and management from<br />
University of Leicester, UK. She is also<br />
a member of the pool of investigators<br />
assisting the office of the Prosecutor at<br />
the International Criminal Court (ICC)<br />
at The Hague in the investigation of<br />
Sexual and Gender-Based Violence as<br />
international crimes.<br />
•Dr. Salamat Ahuoiza Aliu: is a<br />
neuro-surgeon at National Hospital,<br />
Abuja. She is the first indigenously<br />
trained female neuro-surgeon in<br />
Nigeria as well as the first female to be<br />
certified a neuro-surgeon in West<br />
Africa.<br />
•Margaret Ekpo is nationally and<br />
internationally recognized as an Icon<br />
of Nigerian politics and a pioneer<br />
activist of women’s rights. Margaret<br />
Ekpo was one of three women<br />
appointed to the House of Chiefs, in<br />
the 1950s. The others were Chief (Mrs)<br />
Olufunmilayo Ransome Kuti<br />
(appointed into the Western Nigeria<br />
House of Chiefs); and Janet Mokelu<br />
(appointed along with Margaret Ekpo<br />
into the Eastern Nigeria House of<br />
Chiefs).<br />
•Mo Abudu: Mosunmola is an<br />
entrepreneur and pacesetter in the<br />
media industry. She is the first woman<br />
in Africa to launch a pan African TV<br />
Channel.<br />
•Tara Fela-Durotoye: She is a<br />
Nigerian makeup artiste and lawyer.<br />
A pioneer in the bridal makeup<br />
profession in Nigeria, she launched the<br />
first bridal directory in 1999, set up<br />
international standard makeup<br />
studios and established the first<br />
makeup school in Nigeria.<br />
•Agbani Darego is a former Most<br />
Beautiful Girl in Nigeria best known<br />
as the first native Sub-Saharan African<br />
to win Miss World.<br />
•Admiral Itunu Hotonu is the first<br />
woman to attain the rank of Rear<br />
Admiral (a two-star General), in the<br />
Nigerian Navy. She was also the first<br />
female military officer to attend the<br />
then National War College, now<br />
National Defence College, where she<br />
emerged the best overall graduating<br />
student and won the Commander-in-<br />
Chief’s prize as well as the<br />
Commandant’s prize for the best<br />
research.<br />
•Ire Aderinokun – First Nigerian<br />
woman to become a google dev expert.<br />
•General Aderonke Kale – First<br />
female army general in Nigeria.<br />
•Sarah Jibril – First woman to run<br />
for president in Nigeria.<br />
Do you know this expression?<br />
To hold your tongue<br />
This idiom does not actually mean that you should stick your<br />
fingers in your mouth and grab a hold of your tongue. It means<br />
that you should not talk.<br />
People "hold their tongues" when they are in situations where<br />
they want to talk, but it would be better if they didn't. So, while<br />
their tongue is ready to do some talking, they "hold" it and don't<br />
say anything. For example, when your parents are talking with<br />
their friends and you feel like you want to contribute but you have<br />
not been called into the conversation, it is better to hold your<br />
tongue and just listen instead of interrupting.