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Mountain Times- Volume 48, Number 51: Dec. 18-24, 2019

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The <strong>Mountain</strong> <strong>Times</strong> • <strong>Dec</strong>. <strong>18</strong> - <strong>24</strong>, <strong>2019</strong> COLUMNS • 47<br />

The Movie<br />

Diary<br />

By Dom Cioffi<br />

Upping the competition<br />

Ask anyone who knows me, and they’ll tell you<br />

I have a highly competitive streak. I don’t deny it.<br />

In fact, I point to it as a contributing factor in the<br />

many successes I’ve had in life.<br />

When I was very young, I had a hard time<br />

losing at anything. It wasn’t uncommon for me<br />

things didn’t go my way while play-<br />

a game or sport. I remember<br />

the emotional toll that<br />

losing took on me, like<br />

it was a direct slight to<br />

my worth as a person.<br />

I even reached a point<br />

where I stopped<br />

playing board games<br />

to cry if<br />

ing<br />

because the thought<br />

of losing was too<br />

much to handle.<br />

Later, during high<br />

school and college,<br />

my competitiveness<br />

jumped up a notch. At that stage, I had to<br />

win. I wouldn’t go so far that I’d cheat, but<br />

I’d look for every competitive advantage<br />

I could find. The difference during this<br />

period and my youth was that the sadness<br />

from losing turned into anger.<br />

This usually manifested in sports, which<br />

I was heavily involved in. I played with a<br />

profound intensity, demanding that everyone<br />

I competed with also play at this level.<br />

And if things didn’t go my way, it took<br />

everything in my power not to explode at<br />

myself or those around me.<br />

Luckily, I usually held it in check. It was<br />

afterwards when no one was around that<br />

I usually lost control. I had several losing<br />

moments when I nearly broke my hand by punching the<br />

steering wheel or shower wall.<br />

I’ve now calmed down to a point where I’ve learned<br />

to lose. Don’t get me wrong… I still like to win and try my<br />

hardest to win every time I engage in any competitive situation;<br />

I just don’t let it define me in any way.<br />

This holiday season was a perfect example.<br />

I decided sometime in October that I was going to<br />

knock out all my Christmas chores ahead of time. My plan<br />

was to decorate the inside and outside of my house, get<br />

my tree up, do all my Christmas shopping, mail all of my<br />

holiday cards, and make plans for a holiday party all before<br />

<strong>Dec</strong>. 1.<br />

I approached things the same way last year and was<br />

pleased with the results. By getting everything done ahead<br />

of time, I left myself with a very relaxed holiday.<br />

In fact, it was so relaxed that my wife<br />

and I made a couple trips to the mall just to<br />

walk around and watch the madness. It was<br />

weirdly exhilarating not to be part of the<br />

chaos, but merely a curious spectator.<br />

So, as soon as our Thanksgiving meal<br />

ended, I put my plan into action. By the<br />

end of Black Friday, I had ordered almost<br />

all of my Christmas gifts online, taking<br />

advantage of numerous sales. I had also<br />

decorated the entire outside of my house, complete with<br />

wreaths and garland strung across several windows and<br />

doors, with accompanying white lights for holiday bling.<br />

Red bows added a final splash of color to make things pop.<br />

During the following weekend, I attacked the inside of<br />

my house, spicing it up from top to bottom with the boxes<br />

of decorations that we’ve collocated over 30 years. I then<br />

put up our tree (yes, it’s fake) and reset several hundred<br />

blown out lights. Fake trees are supposed to be easier, but<br />

I can say after owning one for a couple years, it’s not that<br />

much easier. And when you buy one as expensive as ours,<br />

it’s definitely not saving you any money.<br />

Eventually, my<br />

wife had to pull<br />

me aside to<br />

gently tell me<br />

to calm down.<br />

In the following days, I got all of my Christmas cards in<br />

the mail and secured everything for a holiday party. When<br />

<strong>Dec</strong>. 1 hit, I was officially done. Or so I thought.<br />

This is when my competitive juices started kicking in.<br />

While out jogging, I started to see other people decorating<br />

their houses with much more flare. It seemed like<br />

everywhere I looked, there was a house that looked more<br />

Christmassy than mine. Before I knew it, I was back in the<br />

stores looking for more lights and decorations.<br />

I then started to question the validity of my indoor<br />

decorating, feeling like I had neglected some rooms over<br />

others and contemplating whether I needed to upgrade<br />

older decorations. Again, I hit the stores for more ornamentation<br />

in my quest to have the perfect<br />

holiday environment.<br />

Eventually, my wife had to pull me aside<br />

to gently tell me to calm down. She explained<br />

very nicely that I was in danger of<br />

going full Clark Griswold if I didn’t reign in<br />

the over-decorating. I begrudgingly agreed<br />

and then tried really hard not to punch the<br />

shower wall.<br />

This week’s film, “Jumanji: The Next<br />

Level,” also has its share of competitive<br />

frustrations. In the fourth installment of the popular franchise<br />

(originally created by writer Chris Van Allsburg), the<br />

same cast of characters are back to play the game again,<br />

this time with an interesting twist to their personalities.<br />

At its heart, this a big budget children’s movie that will<br />

get a chuckle or two out of adults, but ultimately leave<br />

them feeling listless. However, given the magic of the<br />

holiday season, just seeing little ones entertained is reason<br />

enough to go.<br />

A “C” for “Jumanji: The Next Level.”<br />

Got a question or comment for Dom? You can email<br />

him at moviediary@att.net.<br />

Looking Back: Simple gifts are memorable<br />

><br />

from page 46<br />

playing “mother” to them. One of mine had long blonde<br />

hair that must have been acceptable to me in the dead of<br />

winter but I thought she would be cooler in the summer<br />

with short hair. So I cut off most of it. The scissors that<br />

children were allowed to use probably played a role in<br />

the look of a haircut “gone bad”! I loved the doll anyway<br />

which goes to show that<br />

children are not judgmental<br />

when it comes to<br />

appearance.<br />

I asked my husband,<br />

Peter, what he liked to find<br />

under his family’s Christmas<br />

tree. Model airplanes<br />

were always a welcome<br />

present and a train set was<br />

probably his favorite. Peter’s fascination with trains<br />

probably came from spending a lot of time at the train<br />

station in Plainfield, New Jersey as he went there with<br />

his mother when she dropped off and picked up his dad<br />

who worked in New York City. The train set was permanently<br />

placed in their basement and was enjoyed by him<br />

and his friends year round.<br />

For me, getting a record player was probably one of<br />

my most fun gifts. The turntable held one vinyl record<br />

at a time. There was an arm with a needle at the end. You<br />

placed the needle on the record and the music began.<br />

By the end of Christmas Day my parents had heard “Old<br />

McDonald Had a Farm” about 100 more times than they<br />

cared to. Kids love repetition and that gift allowed for<br />

plenty of that!<br />

As they say, “You can never go back.” Maybe not in<br />

time but you can go back in your memories and that’s a<br />

fun thing to do.<br />

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