Mountain Times- Volume 48, Number 51: Dec. 18-24, 2019
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The <strong>Mountain</strong> <strong>Times</strong> • <strong>Dec</strong>. <strong>18</strong> - <strong>24</strong>, <strong>2019</strong> COLUMNS • 47<br />
The Movie<br />
Diary<br />
By Dom Cioffi<br />
Upping the competition<br />
Ask anyone who knows me, and they’ll tell you<br />
I have a highly competitive streak. I don’t deny it.<br />
In fact, I point to it as a contributing factor in the<br />
many successes I’ve had in life.<br />
When I was very young, I had a hard time<br />
losing at anything. It wasn’t uncommon for me<br />
things didn’t go my way while play-<br />
a game or sport. I remember<br />
the emotional toll that<br />
losing took on me, like<br />
it was a direct slight to<br />
my worth as a person.<br />
I even reached a point<br />
where I stopped<br />
playing board games<br />
to cry if<br />
ing<br />
because the thought<br />
of losing was too<br />
much to handle.<br />
Later, during high<br />
school and college,<br />
my competitiveness<br />
jumped up a notch. At that stage, I had to<br />
win. I wouldn’t go so far that I’d cheat, but<br />
I’d look for every competitive advantage<br />
I could find. The difference during this<br />
period and my youth was that the sadness<br />
from losing turned into anger.<br />
This usually manifested in sports, which<br />
I was heavily involved in. I played with a<br />
profound intensity, demanding that everyone<br />
I competed with also play at this level.<br />
And if things didn’t go my way, it took<br />
everything in my power not to explode at<br />
myself or those around me.<br />
Luckily, I usually held it in check. It was<br />
afterwards when no one was around that<br />
I usually lost control. I had several losing<br />
moments when I nearly broke my hand by punching the<br />
steering wheel or shower wall.<br />
I’ve now calmed down to a point where I’ve learned<br />
to lose. Don’t get me wrong… I still like to win and try my<br />
hardest to win every time I engage in any competitive situation;<br />
I just don’t let it define me in any way.<br />
This holiday season was a perfect example.<br />
I decided sometime in October that I was going to<br />
knock out all my Christmas chores ahead of time. My plan<br />
was to decorate the inside and outside of my house, get<br />
my tree up, do all my Christmas shopping, mail all of my<br />
holiday cards, and make plans for a holiday party all before<br />
<strong>Dec</strong>. 1.<br />
I approached things the same way last year and was<br />
pleased with the results. By getting everything done ahead<br />
of time, I left myself with a very relaxed holiday.<br />
In fact, it was so relaxed that my wife<br />
and I made a couple trips to the mall just to<br />
walk around and watch the madness. It was<br />
weirdly exhilarating not to be part of the<br />
chaos, but merely a curious spectator.<br />
So, as soon as our Thanksgiving meal<br />
ended, I put my plan into action. By the<br />
end of Black Friday, I had ordered almost<br />
all of my Christmas gifts online, taking<br />
advantage of numerous sales. I had also<br />
decorated the entire outside of my house, complete with<br />
wreaths and garland strung across several windows and<br />
doors, with accompanying white lights for holiday bling.<br />
Red bows added a final splash of color to make things pop.<br />
During the following weekend, I attacked the inside of<br />
my house, spicing it up from top to bottom with the boxes<br />
of decorations that we’ve collocated over 30 years. I then<br />
put up our tree (yes, it’s fake) and reset several hundred<br />
blown out lights. Fake trees are supposed to be easier, but<br />
I can say after owning one for a couple years, it’s not that<br />
much easier. And when you buy one as expensive as ours,<br />
it’s definitely not saving you any money.<br />
Eventually, my<br />
wife had to pull<br />
me aside to<br />
gently tell me<br />
to calm down.<br />
In the following days, I got all of my Christmas cards in<br />
the mail and secured everything for a holiday party. When<br />
<strong>Dec</strong>. 1 hit, I was officially done. Or so I thought.<br />
This is when my competitive juices started kicking in.<br />
While out jogging, I started to see other people decorating<br />
their houses with much more flare. It seemed like<br />
everywhere I looked, there was a house that looked more<br />
Christmassy than mine. Before I knew it, I was back in the<br />
stores looking for more lights and decorations.<br />
I then started to question the validity of my indoor<br />
decorating, feeling like I had neglected some rooms over<br />
others and contemplating whether I needed to upgrade<br />
older decorations. Again, I hit the stores for more ornamentation<br />
in my quest to have the perfect<br />
holiday environment.<br />
Eventually, my wife had to pull me aside<br />
to gently tell me to calm down. She explained<br />
very nicely that I was in danger of<br />
going full Clark Griswold if I didn’t reign in<br />
the over-decorating. I begrudgingly agreed<br />
and then tried really hard not to punch the<br />
shower wall.<br />
This week’s film, “Jumanji: The Next<br />
Level,” also has its share of competitive<br />
frustrations. In the fourth installment of the popular franchise<br />
(originally created by writer Chris Van Allsburg), the<br />
same cast of characters are back to play the game again,<br />
this time with an interesting twist to their personalities.<br />
At its heart, this a big budget children’s movie that will<br />
get a chuckle or two out of adults, but ultimately leave<br />
them feeling listless. However, given the magic of the<br />
holiday season, just seeing little ones entertained is reason<br />
enough to go.<br />
A “C” for “Jumanji: The Next Level.”<br />
Got a question or comment for Dom? You can email<br />
him at moviediary@att.net.<br />
Looking Back: Simple gifts are memorable<br />
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from page 46<br />
playing “mother” to them. One of mine had long blonde<br />
hair that must have been acceptable to me in the dead of<br />
winter but I thought she would be cooler in the summer<br />
with short hair. So I cut off most of it. The scissors that<br />
children were allowed to use probably played a role in<br />
the look of a haircut “gone bad”! I loved the doll anyway<br />
which goes to show that<br />
children are not judgmental<br />
when it comes to<br />
appearance.<br />
I asked my husband,<br />
Peter, what he liked to find<br />
under his family’s Christmas<br />
tree. Model airplanes<br />
were always a welcome<br />
present and a train set was<br />
probably his favorite. Peter’s fascination with trains<br />
probably came from spending a lot of time at the train<br />
station in Plainfield, New Jersey as he went there with<br />
his mother when she dropped off and picked up his dad<br />
who worked in New York City. The train set was permanently<br />
placed in their basement and was enjoyed by him<br />
and his friends year round.<br />
For me, getting a record player was probably one of<br />
my most fun gifts. The turntable held one vinyl record<br />
at a time. There was an arm with a needle at the end. You<br />
placed the needle on the record and the music began.<br />
By the end of Christmas Day my parents had heard “Old<br />
McDonald Had a Farm” about 100 more times than they<br />
cared to. Kids love repetition and that gift allowed for<br />
plenty of that!<br />
As they say, “You can never go back.” Maybe not in<br />
time but you can go back in your memories and that’s a<br />
fun thing to do.<br />
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