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Blue Water Woman of the Year issue for Spring 2020 featuring Marcy Kuehn,Ila Shoulders, Marcia Haynes, Julianne Ankley, Laura Scaccia, and Kelly Strilcov.

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A CENTURY

of civic leadership

Ila Shoulders is a woman driven by faith.

Faith in the Lord has helped her through life’s ups and downs. And, over

the past 100 years of her life, Shoulders has had reason to question that faith

– and she’s certainly been given reason to question her faith in humanity

itself – but she did not question that faith. In return, her faith in the Lord not

only comforted her, but led her to a place where she brought comfort to her

community. Shoulders has volunteered

thousands of hours of her time, during

her very long life, to help make the Blue

Water Area a better place to live.

“There is so much I depend on God

for,” said Shoulders. “I depend on Him

for everything. He is my everything.”

Shoulders – who celebrated her 100th

birthday on January 10 of this year – has

been named the recipient of the Blue

Water Woman Civic Leader Award for

her lifelong dedication to making the

community better.

“She’s very inspiring,” said Donna

Schwartz of Port Huron, who nominated

Shoulders for this award. “When she

becomes involved, she’s a change-agent for

any organization or cause she believes in.

She is a brilliant woman.”

Shoulders said she got involved in

community events for a simple reason: “I

wanted to see my community become

better, and I wanted to see people become

better, and I wanted to keep busy.”

Born in Letahatchie, Alabama in 1920,

Shoulders moved to Michigan when she

was four years old.

“Our family moved because black

people were being lynched just for being

black, and it was not safe for us in the

south,” she said.

After Shoulders graduated from high

school, she attended Port Huron Junior

College, now known as St. Clair County

Community College. She married Earl

Shoulders Sr. and together they had four

children.

Shoulders worked for the St. Clair

County Economic Opportunity Committee and helped establish the first

Head Start daycare program in St. Clair County. She later worked for the

Michigan Employment Security Commission, and then retired from the

Social Security Administration.

Shoulders is most proud of her volunteer efforts, especially those that helped

establish the Peoples Clinic in Port Huron. The clinic provides free healthcare

to those who cannot afford it.

“I worked at the clinic for 21 years,” she said. “We started it because a group

of people saw that people were not getting the healthcare they needed.”

She noted that it took a while to help spread the news throughout the

neighborhoods that free healthcare was available to people.

“People who don’t have much, don’t expect much, and they feel they don’t

deserve it,” she said.

Shoulders was also instrumental in establishing the Blue Water Citizens

Against Crime neighborhood watch group and the Southside Coalition.

Schwartz noted that due to Shoulders’ involvement, residents on the

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ILA SHOULDERS

south side of Port Huron were able to drive drug trafficking out of their

neighborhoods.

Shoulders has been recognized for her volunteer community leadership

roles throughout her life. She received a Spirit of Port Huron Lifetime

Achievement Award, the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Drum Major Award,

and the Distinguished Service Award from the Port Huron Council Parent-

Teacher Association (PTA).

Shoulders was also an active volunteer

with Blue Water Habitat for Humanity

and the Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts.

During the course of her life, she’s

been witness to much change in the Blue

Water Area and beyond, particularly the

ways in which people of color are treated,

and the benefits that came to them with

the establishment of the Civil Rights Act

of 1964.

“The Civil Rights Movement was a

great thing for black people,” she said.

“Before that, right here in Port Huron,

we couldn’t live anywhere we wanted to.

Landlords had an unwritten law between

them that they wouldn’t rent to black

people.

“And jobs opened up…before that, we

were refused jobs because of our color. It

made things very hard for people.”

Shoulders recalled a painful medical

incident.

“I was pregnant and I had a toothache,

so I went to the dentist downtown here,

and he looked at me and said, ‘I don’t

treat black people.’ So I went to another

dentist and he told me, ‘I don’t treat

pregnant women.’ A friend of mine took

me to Canada. The dentist was a really

nice person. I went to him for years. I

brought my kids to see him. He really

spoiled me.”

Regarding the state of race relations

in the country today, Shoulders said:

“Things are a little better, but the change

is subtle. It’s not as good as it should be.

“Prejudice is a terrible thing. People

need to not be prejudice. But that’s a hard thing to conquer. It’s taught in the

home. Little kids see no prejudice. It’s taught to them. It’s a sad situation in

our culture.”

Throughout her life, whenever difficult situations arose, Shoulders turned

to her faith for support and comfort. She grew up attending St. Paul’s church

in Port Huron, and as an adult became a founding member of Faith Christian

Community Church.

“All of my friends, we went to the same church,” she said. “We had to go

to church before we could do anything else. Any time the church doors were

open, we had to be there.

“My church means I have a home, and after I leave here, I have a Heavenly

home.”

Her favorite hymn also mirrors the way Shoulders views her past century of

life: “I like to think of that song we sing all of the time: ‘He’s been good to me,

He’s been good to me.”

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