Siouxland Magazine - Volume 3 Issue 1
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Passion<br />
energy<br />
intensity<br />
purpose<br />
Shifting Focus Towards Passion<br />
By Stacie Anderson<br />
Words are powerful. It’s interesting how we attach so<br />
much emotion to a word. Then we string these words into<br />
a story that we repeat over and over, often unaware of<br />
how it affects our inner being.<br />
I have been told that I can be intense on more than one<br />
occasion. In my mind, whether it was intended that way<br />
or not, I interpreted that as a character flaw - thinking that<br />
my intensity made others uncomfortable. I equated it to<br />
words like harsh, severe or extreme even though I could<br />
have gravitated towards focused, deliberate or strong.<br />
This word, intense, became a theme that<br />
kept creeping up.<br />
Several years back, I asked someone to describe me in<br />
three words, and you guessed it, one of those words was:<br />
intense. This time, with further inquiry as to why she chose<br />
that word, a new word surfaced. In that process of going<br />
deeper and exploring, she gave me a different answer that<br />
she said better articulated what she meant. The word was<br />
passionate. This word immediately resonated with me.<br />
At that moment, there was a shift. Nothing changed,<br />
and yet, everything changed. I was still the same intense<br />
person, but now with a new interpretation, a recognition<br />
of how my energy could be focused to inspire someone.<br />
How I showed up each day after that was slightly different.<br />
The intensity that I channeled stemmed from experiencing<br />
the loss of my mother as a child. Death is a masterful teacher.<br />
The reality is, life is short, and that no matter how strongly<br />
you wish, you can’t roll back time for even a moment to<br />
make an adjustment that would change the outcome. We<br />
aren’t promised more than this present moment and it’s up<br />
to each of us how we choose to use it.<br />
There is no arguing that I can be intense, but when you’ve<br />
stood in a moment that changes you, that clarifies what is<br />
important in life with no certainty of how much time you’ll<br />
have, you get passionate. At least I did.<br />
I’d like to think that from that deep pain, my capacity for joy<br />
increased, that my awareness was heightened in a way that<br />
guides me to appreciate all the ways life expresses itself.<br />
That I was abruptly nudged to focus on what I have and<br />
not what I lost.<br />
With an intensity to extract every drop of life’s experiences<br />
out of my days, I am certain there have been moments<br />
where I was “intense.” In the past, I’ve struggled with<br />
boundaries. In my attempt to encourage others to live<br />
fully and face their fears, I’m sure I’ve overstepped. I<br />
so desperately wanted to reach people at their core,