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The <strong>Mountain</strong> <strong>Times</strong> • <strong>Jan</strong>. <strong>13</strong>-<strong>19</strong>, <strong>2021</strong> COLUMNS • 31<br />

There’s an old saying that suggests that every decision<br />

we make is either based on love or fear. I’ve always found<br />

solace in that proverb and try to remember it when I am<br />

evaluating something in my life<br />

that requires judgement.<br />

How often do we say things or<br />

have an opinion on something<br />

that we barely understand? Quite<br />

often, we simply have an immediate<br />

reaction and that becomes<br />

our belief. Those are the moments<br />

where I try to ask myself<br />

The Movie<br />

Diary<br />

By Dom Cioffi<br />

why I think or feel a certain way.<br />

And more times than not, I can<br />

trace the origin of my opinion<br />

back to love or fear.<br />

I also try to extend this point<br />

to others. When someone says or does something that<br />

brings me immediate agitation, I’ll recite that line in my<br />

head and then proceed to break down the possibilities<br />

for their stance. It’s amazing how this tiny mental act can<br />

defuse an otherwise intolerable situation.<br />

Now, I realize the world is not a black and white place,<br />

and forcing it to be such can bring a lot of heartache. But<br />

if you’re okay with some broad brushstroke generalizations,<br />

that little axiom can help bring some clarity.<br />

Not surprisingly, over<br />

the last week, I’ve found<br />

myself resorting to this<br />

love/fear adage on countless<br />

occasions.<br />

The new year obviously<br />

got off to a rough start.<br />

Most of us hoped that seeing<br />

Dec. 31 in our rearview mirror meant better things<br />

to come, but it hasn’t started off that way. In fact, it’s<br />

jumped to a new level of chaotic.<br />

The news networks have had a field day with the<br />

available content, parsing it out to the general public<br />

who eagerly soak up every tasty morsel set in front of<br />

them. It’s easy to make broad generalizations about our<br />

I keep moving. I can feel my ski slide<br />

underneath me as I collapse onto my<br />

front leg. With each stride, I move forward,<br />

onward and upward through the<br />

darkness. I swing my left hip forward,<br />

feeling the resistance of my skins as I<br />

drag my ski along the snow. Paying close<br />

attention, I can feel the different<br />

fibers of the skin latching<br />

onto the surface at the end of<br />

each stride. One foot in front<br />

of the other, as I deliberately<br />

work toward my goal of the<br />

summit.<br />

I pause to catch my breath,<br />

desperate for a moment of respite<br />

on my arduous journey.<br />

And in this moment, I pause<br />

to look up in the direction of<br />

my travel. The morning light is<br />

beginning to dawn and I can<br />

barely make out the summit<br />

up ahead. She seems so far away and forbearing,<br />

making a timely ascent appear<br />

almost impossible. I check my watch,<br />

anxious that I’ve already been climbing<br />

too long without enough progress. And I<br />

begin to worry that I won’t make the summit<br />

in time.<br />

...the current social environment<br />

... is not very forgiving for certain<br />

transgressions. One wrong post can<br />

Livin’ the<br />

Dream<br />

By Merisa<br />

Sherman<br />

follow you for years.<br />

Just keep moving<br />

Feel the love<br />

current political and social misfortunes,<br />

but I think any learned<br />

person would agree, that the ills<br />

of our country are multi-layered<br />

and not easily discerned.<br />

Like most 16-year-olds, my<br />

son barely watches the news. In<br />

fact, most of his “news” comes<br />

from the comedy channels he<br />

watches either on television,<br />

streaming services, or YouTube.<br />

But most of his stances on wellknown<br />

issues are derived from<br />

memes, those comical little symbolic<br />

messages that find their way<br />

around the world via the internet.<br />

I hate to say it, but it seems like<br />

we have a whole generation of kids<br />

generating opinions based on tiny<br />

pictures with a few words of text.<br />

Don’t get me wrong, I like a good<br />

meme as much as the next guy,<br />

but basing an opinion or making a<br />

stance because of a meme is dangerous<br />

and irresponsible.<br />

My son showed me several memes that originated<br />

over the past week. Some<br />

were funny, some were<br />

poignant, and some were<br />

just plain stupid. And a few<br />

of them were borderline<br />

inappropriate.<br />

I talked to my son about<br />

the dangers of passing<br />

memes around via his social channels. I also reminded<br />

him that the current social environment he lives in is not<br />

very forgiving for certain transgressions. One wrong post<br />

can follow you for years. At this point, not a week goes<br />

by that there isn’t a news story about someone being<br />

cancelled because a social mob decided something they<br />

said or wrote was deemed offensive.<br />

At this point, I can make a choice. I<br />

can choose to turn around and go home,<br />

fearful of the hard climb to come and<br />

unwilling to trust the unknown. To return<br />

to the warmth of my bed and the comfort<br />

that I know awaits me. I can choose to<br />

turn around here, convincing myself that<br />

I am satisfied with a lower<br />

peak. Persuading myself that<br />

the skiing will be good enough<br />

from here, I can choose not<br />

to continue my ascent rather<br />

than push onward toward the<br />

true goal: the mountaintop.<br />

In my short burst of<br />

despair, I look down at my<br />

skis and remind myself that<br />

there is only one way that I<br />

will be reaching the top of<br />

the mountain on this or any<br />

other morning. There is only<br />

one way that I can maneuver<br />

around this bend in the trail, and through<br />

the trees up ahead. There is only one way<br />

that I can push through this steep section,<br />

one in which I will undoubtedly slip<br />

backwards several times. I must learn to<br />

trust myself.<br />

That’s what makes this week’s<br />

film so intriguing.<br />

“No Safe Spaces” is a documentary<br />

that examines the current<br />

social climate surrounding humor<br />

and outspokenness and the<br />

seemingly inexhaustible need for<br />

the public to ferret out individuals<br />

who have crossed the line of<br />

what the mob deems offensive.<br />

Commentated by radio talk<br />

show host Dennis Prager and<br />

comedian Adam Carolla, “No<br />

Safe Spaces” visits college campuses<br />

to interview students and<br />

faculty about their need for safe<br />

spaces. The film also delves into<br />

various free speech controversies<br />

that have occurred over<br />

the last few years, including<br />

the Jordan Peterson event in<br />

Canada and the Bret Weinstein<br />

event at Evergreen College.<br />

This is one of those films that<br />

gets under your skin. The more I watched it, the more<br />

agitated I became. Personally, I don’t like the trend<br />

that this film exposes. And while the content is only<br />

a year old, there have already been countless more<br />

examples of innocent people’s lives being ruined by<br />

cancellation.<br />

What I appreciated most about this documentary is<br />

that the producers took the time to get opposing viewpoints.<br />

One-sided arguments inside documentaries<br />

always make me suspicious.<br />

Check this one out if you’re concerned about the<br />

social trends occurring in our country and want a<br />

well-informed and educated overview.<br />

A vexing “B” for “No Safe Spaces” (available as a<br />

rental on multiple streaming services).<br />

Got a question or comment for Dom? You can email<br />

him at moviediary@att.net.<br />

Seed packets…the first<br />

sign of spring!<br />

I know the skiers aren’t thinking like I am. Their season has just begun and they don’t<br />

want to think about it ending. I, on the other hand, am excited because flower and veggie<br />

seeds are in the stores! Seed catalogs have begun to arrive and I get to spend time<br />

looking for something different to grow this year.<br />

I promised an occasional garden column during the winter so<br />

let’s take a “look forward” to the pleasure we will get from playing<br />

in the dirt!<br />

When the pandemic arrived gardening became a very popular<br />

way to spend free time…time that people never had before.<br />

Seed packets disappeared from shelves at a rapid clip.<br />

I have always been an early buyer of seeds. I look for ads<br />

in <strong>Jan</strong>uary that offer excellent discounts, up to 40% in some<br />

Looking<br />

Forward<br />

By Mary Ellen Shaw<br />

cases. There is nothing more satisfying than heading to a store<br />

on a cold winter day and seeing all those packets with brightly<br />

colored flowers and delicious looking veggies.<br />

I make sure to bring my list and have always been able to find<br />

just about everything I plan to grow.<br />

Last year my handy husband, Peter, made me a wooden box with slots to hold<br />

the packets. I divided the box into veggie and flower sections. I put the packets in<br />

alphabetically – beans to zucchini and asters to zinnias! Now it’s so easy to find<br />

what I am looking for. When all the seeds in the packet aren’t used, I can put a paper<br />

clip on the packet and back in the slot it goes. It will be right where it belongs<br />

for a fall planting of spinach or radishes.<br />

Once you get home with your seeds you may be motivated to grow something<br />

right away. Who wants to wait over four months for that to happen? You don’t have<br />

Livin’ the dream > 33 to. Grow lights to the rescue!<br />

Looking forward > 33

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