Mountain Times - Vol. 50, Number 2, Jan. 13-19, 2021
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The <strong>Mountain</strong> <strong>Times</strong> • <strong>Jan</strong>. <strong>13</strong>-<strong>19</strong>, <strong>2021</strong> COLUMNS • 31<br />
There’s an old saying that suggests that every decision<br />
we make is either based on love or fear. I’ve always found<br />
solace in that proverb and try to remember it when I am<br />
evaluating something in my life<br />
that requires judgement.<br />
How often do we say things or<br />
have an opinion on something<br />
that we barely understand? Quite<br />
often, we simply have an immediate<br />
reaction and that becomes<br />
our belief. Those are the moments<br />
where I try to ask myself<br />
The Movie<br />
Diary<br />
By Dom Cioffi<br />
why I think or feel a certain way.<br />
And more times than not, I can<br />
trace the origin of my opinion<br />
back to love or fear.<br />
I also try to extend this point<br />
to others. When someone says or does something that<br />
brings me immediate agitation, I’ll recite that line in my<br />
head and then proceed to break down the possibilities<br />
for their stance. It’s amazing how this tiny mental act can<br />
defuse an otherwise intolerable situation.<br />
Now, I realize the world is not a black and white place,<br />
and forcing it to be such can bring a lot of heartache. But<br />
if you’re okay with some broad brushstroke generalizations,<br />
that little axiom can help bring some clarity.<br />
Not surprisingly, over<br />
the last week, I’ve found<br />
myself resorting to this<br />
love/fear adage on countless<br />
occasions.<br />
The new year obviously<br />
got off to a rough start.<br />
Most of us hoped that seeing<br />
Dec. 31 in our rearview mirror meant better things<br />
to come, but it hasn’t started off that way. In fact, it’s<br />
jumped to a new level of chaotic.<br />
The news networks have had a field day with the<br />
available content, parsing it out to the general public<br />
who eagerly soak up every tasty morsel set in front of<br />
them. It’s easy to make broad generalizations about our<br />
I keep moving. I can feel my ski slide<br />
underneath me as I collapse onto my<br />
front leg. With each stride, I move forward,<br />
onward and upward through the<br />
darkness. I swing my left hip forward,<br />
feeling the resistance of my skins as I<br />
drag my ski along the snow. Paying close<br />
attention, I can feel the different<br />
fibers of the skin latching<br />
onto the surface at the end of<br />
each stride. One foot in front<br />
of the other, as I deliberately<br />
work toward my goal of the<br />
summit.<br />
I pause to catch my breath,<br />
desperate for a moment of respite<br />
on my arduous journey.<br />
And in this moment, I pause<br />
to look up in the direction of<br />
my travel. The morning light is<br />
beginning to dawn and I can<br />
barely make out the summit<br />
up ahead. She seems so far away and forbearing,<br />
making a timely ascent appear<br />
almost impossible. I check my watch,<br />
anxious that I’ve already been climbing<br />
too long without enough progress. And I<br />
begin to worry that I won’t make the summit<br />
in time.<br />
...the current social environment<br />
... is not very forgiving for certain<br />
transgressions. One wrong post can<br />
Livin’ the<br />
Dream<br />
By Merisa<br />
Sherman<br />
follow you for years.<br />
Just keep moving<br />
Feel the love<br />
current political and social misfortunes,<br />
but I think any learned<br />
person would agree, that the ills<br />
of our country are multi-layered<br />
and not easily discerned.<br />
Like most 16-year-olds, my<br />
son barely watches the news. In<br />
fact, most of his “news” comes<br />
from the comedy channels he<br />
watches either on television,<br />
streaming services, or YouTube.<br />
But most of his stances on wellknown<br />
issues are derived from<br />
memes, those comical little symbolic<br />
messages that find their way<br />
around the world via the internet.<br />
I hate to say it, but it seems like<br />
we have a whole generation of kids<br />
generating opinions based on tiny<br />
pictures with a few words of text.<br />
Don’t get me wrong, I like a good<br />
meme as much as the next guy,<br />
but basing an opinion or making a<br />
stance because of a meme is dangerous<br />
and irresponsible.<br />
My son showed me several memes that originated<br />
over the past week. Some<br />
were funny, some were<br />
poignant, and some were<br />
just plain stupid. And a few<br />
of them were borderline<br />
inappropriate.<br />
I talked to my son about<br />
the dangers of passing<br />
memes around via his social channels. I also reminded<br />
him that the current social environment he lives in is not<br />
very forgiving for certain transgressions. One wrong post<br />
can follow you for years. At this point, not a week goes<br />
by that there isn’t a news story about someone being<br />
cancelled because a social mob decided something they<br />
said or wrote was deemed offensive.<br />
At this point, I can make a choice. I<br />
can choose to turn around and go home,<br />
fearful of the hard climb to come and<br />
unwilling to trust the unknown. To return<br />
to the warmth of my bed and the comfort<br />
that I know awaits me. I can choose to<br />
turn around here, convincing myself that<br />
I am satisfied with a lower<br />
peak. Persuading myself that<br />
the skiing will be good enough<br />
from here, I can choose not<br />
to continue my ascent rather<br />
than push onward toward the<br />
true goal: the mountaintop.<br />
In my short burst of<br />
despair, I look down at my<br />
skis and remind myself that<br />
there is only one way that I<br />
will be reaching the top of<br />
the mountain on this or any<br />
other morning. There is only<br />
one way that I can maneuver<br />
around this bend in the trail, and through<br />
the trees up ahead. There is only one way<br />
that I can push through this steep section,<br />
one in which I will undoubtedly slip<br />
backwards several times. I must learn to<br />
trust myself.<br />
That’s what makes this week’s<br />
film so intriguing.<br />
“No Safe Spaces” is a documentary<br />
that examines the current<br />
social climate surrounding humor<br />
and outspokenness and the<br />
seemingly inexhaustible need for<br />
the public to ferret out individuals<br />
who have crossed the line of<br />
what the mob deems offensive.<br />
Commentated by radio talk<br />
show host Dennis Prager and<br />
comedian Adam Carolla, “No<br />
Safe Spaces” visits college campuses<br />
to interview students and<br />
faculty about their need for safe<br />
spaces. The film also delves into<br />
various free speech controversies<br />
that have occurred over<br />
the last few years, including<br />
the Jordan Peterson event in<br />
Canada and the Bret Weinstein<br />
event at Evergreen College.<br />
This is one of those films that<br />
gets under your skin. The more I watched it, the more<br />
agitated I became. Personally, I don’t like the trend<br />
that this film exposes. And while the content is only<br />
a year old, there have already been countless more<br />
examples of innocent people’s lives being ruined by<br />
cancellation.<br />
What I appreciated most about this documentary is<br />
that the producers took the time to get opposing viewpoints.<br />
One-sided arguments inside documentaries<br />
always make me suspicious.<br />
Check this one out if you’re concerned about the<br />
social trends occurring in our country and want a<br />
well-informed and educated overview.<br />
A vexing “B” for “No Safe Spaces” (available as a<br />
rental on multiple streaming services).<br />
Got a question or comment for Dom? You can email<br />
him at moviediary@att.net.<br />
Seed packets…the first<br />
sign of spring!<br />
I know the skiers aren’t thinking like I am. Their season has just begun and they don’t<br />
want to think about it ending. I, on the other hand, am excited because flower and veggie<br />
seeds are in the stores! Seed catalogs have begun to arrive and I get to spend time<br />
looking for something different to grow this year.<br />
I promised an occasional garden column during the winter so<br />
let’s take a “look forward” to the pleasure we will get from playing<br />
in the dirt!<br />
When the pandemic arrived gardening became a very popular<br />
way to spend free time…time that people never had before.<br />
Seed packets disappeared from shelves at a rapid clip.<br />
I have always been an early buyer of seeds. I look for ads<br />
in <strong>Jan</strong>uary that offer excellent discounts, up to 40% in some<br />
Looking<br />
Forward<br />
By Mary Ellen Shaw<br />
cases. There is nothing more satisfying than heading to a store<br />
on a cold winter day and seeing all those packets with brightly<br />
colored flowers and delicious looking veggies.<br />
I make sure to bring my list and have always been able to find<br />
just about everything I plan to grow.<br />
Last year my handy husband, Peter, made me a wooden box with slots to hold<br />
the packets. I divided the box into veggie and flower sections. I put the packets in<br />
alphabetically – beans to zucchini and asters to zinnias! Now it’s so easy to find<br />
what I am looking for. When all the seeds in the packet aren’t used, I can put a paper<br />
clip on the packet and back in the slot it goes. It will be right where it belongs<br />
for a fall planting of spinach or radishes.<br />
Once you get home with your seeds you may be motivated to grow something<br />
right away. Who wants to wait over four months for that to happen? You don’t have<br />
Livin’ the dream > 33 to. Grow lights to the rescue!<br />
Looking forward > 33