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MDF Magazine Issue 64 April 2021

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PEOPLE

reach a certain age. But I believe that this is something

you can say for any individual, because no one has

the certainty of what's going to happen tomorrow.

Abandoning every hope, convinced that there is no

future for DMD patients, would be like stopping to drink

and eat, because eventually life is going to end and

nothing can change that. Whereas life must be planned,

dreams must be pursued, and human relations must be

cherished, no matter what. Because otherwise, at the

age of twenty, you find yourself with no passions, no

interests, no love: and so, you don't have a present.

I owe my parents the fact that I've never felt different:

so, as they did, allow your children to take risks, to fail

sometimes, to savour life in every aspect good or bad.

You'll see the results, and your kids will be grateful. Just

remember that first we must realize that we're normal

and we can have a full life, than [sic] we can show it to

the world. You cannot live your life hoping in a miracle,

in a prodigious remedy that is going to fix everything.

In this last few years, research has taken a giant leap

forward, trials on man has started, showing that maybe

a cure is not so far away. But what would happen if

you spent your whole life just waiting for a cure that will

finally allow you to live what society calls ‘a normal life’,

it [sic] the treatment doesn't reach you in good time?

You would have lost a life just waiting, not living. You

must become aware of the fact that you can live a full,

happy, satisfactory and meaningful life, that maybe our

disease isn't all bad after all.

We must try and embrace our condition, and then we

can start to see upsides. Believe me, they are just as

many as the downsides. As my friend Pat Moeschen

likes to say ‘Membership has its privileges’. And so,

we have reserved parking, we don't have to queue at

amusement parks, movie tickets are less expensive.

In my country, people think twice before insulting you

in your face. And if they do so, we can ‘wheel’ them

down! And, in a relationship, a disabled person has

the absolute certainty that the person with whom he's

involved, really loves him for what he is.

Once we have learned that our disability is not an

obstacle in the pursuit of happiness, if the cure were

to arrive, it would still be great. But if this weren't to

happen, it would not be a problem. Because we had

understood that we are, and always be, the makers of

our future.

Thank you."

Article available at: https://www.duchenneuk.org/lucabuccella

WCMX (wheelchairs can’t

make an X-split?)

By Rothea Louw

BMX is a well-known sport and

phenomenon.

Every street in every town has at

least one prospective Mat Hoffman

riding and jumping up and down

over the pavements. It was only

of late that I learnt that BMX is the

abbreviation of bicycle motocross.

It is not just a name like Giant or

Trek bicycles.

Aaron “Wheelz” Fotheringham is the

name of one of these prospective

riders. The difference is that he

does not ride a bicycle. He flies by

wheelchair and competes against

BMX riders on the international

stage.

Aaron comes from Las Vegas and

lives in the United States. He has

spina bifida but no fear. He started

using a wheelchair at the age of

eight (8) after he lost the ability to

use his legs.

It was during this time that his

brother, who was an avid skater,

motivated Aaron to get on his chair

and try to skate along. With his

wheelchair and his mom cheering

him on, he changed the concept

of wheelchairs forever. On open

stages he did back flips and front

flips. He fell more on landings than

he succeeded, but he persevered.

He calls his sport and the magic that

he does “wheelchair motocross”, or

WCMX.

A famous saying of Aaron is:

“I am on a wheelchair, not in a

wheelchair.” Another is from an

interview, when he commented: “It

is a wheelchair, not a prison.”

Although that attitude is easier

to state than to put into practice,

it is still an inspiration for many

wheelchair users.

Click on the following link to

take a flip and a fall with Aaron:

https://www.youtube.com/

watch?v=UQuBzShOFew

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