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ACC Accord Summer 2021 Issue 111

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feature<br />

This may look a bit confusing<br />

but the therapy takes a person<br />

through the different aspects of<br />

this model and gradually helps the<br />

client to develop a personal inner<br />

map of themselves focusing on<br />

their strengths and potential. The<br />

therapy helps clients to explore<br />

the helpful patterns that facilitate<br />

this potential and also to change<br />

the unhelpful patterns that hinder<br />

who they truly are. The therapy can<br />

be used as an individual therapy<br />

but I have also developed a group<br />

programme based on the model<br />

called ‘Free to be Me’ which is a<br />

16 week personal development<br />

course.<br />

Figure 1:<br />

HCBT formulation<br />

Holistic CBT uses generic spiritual<br />

language so that it is inclusive to<br />

all faiths and spiritualties, while<br />

still being a model rooted in<br />

Christian tradition and Biblically<br />

based. Clients are encouraged to<br />

use language that feels authentic<br />

to them and so some clients<br />

use terms such as identity or<br />

consciousness instead of spirit.<br />

Within the course I describe God<br />

as Life’s Source and Flow and some<br />

clients wish to use the term God<br />

whereas others use terms such as<br />

the Universe or the Divine. This feels<br />

a really important aspect of therapy<br />

particularly when it is used with<br />

people of all different faiths and<br />

with varied relationships with God.<br />

Having worked outside of Christian<br />

circles I have found so many people<br />

with genuine experiences of God<br />

and also people that have been<br />

very hurt by the church. Many feel<br />

a real sense of loss and spiritual<br />

abandonment that they do not feel<br />

able to connect with God through<br />

church because of these past<br />

hurts. So by not using names such<br />

as ‘God’ or ‘Jesus,’ which might<br />

trigger painful memories, people<br />

may be willing to talk about their<br />

relationship with the Divine and<br />

have a desire to reconnect, when<br />

these trigger words are removed<br />

but we are still talking about<br />

the same divine being. This was<br />

something I saw in the first Free<br />

to be Me group which I ran at a<br />

hospital in East London. We had<br />

a group made up of Christians,<br />

Hindus and Muslims and also a<br />

woman who emphatically told me<br />

she was an atheist. However by the<br />

end of the course she shared how<br />

her father had taken her to church<br />

as a child and she felt drawn to go<br />

back as a result of the course. This<br />

isn’t the goal of the course but is a<br />

side effect of people reconnecting<br />

with their spiritual side and<br />

wanting to be all that they are in<br />

God.<br />

So inclusive and welcoming<br />

language is an important principle<br />

of the Holistic CBT model. Another<br />

aspect is about developing a<br />

person and not just solving a<br />

problem; focusing more on<br />

potential and purpose rather than<br />

problems. By doing so, we find<br />

ways to overcome the problems<br />

indirectly because we connect<br />

with our God-given strengths and<br />

passions.<br />

Holistic CBT uses different<br />

modalities such as art and reflective<br />

writing to explore ideas and it<br />

recognises the importance of<br />

peer support, connecting with<br />

creation and connecting with the<br />

Creator. Holistic CBT has come<br />

out of my own spiritual journey<br />

and so it also draws from Christian<br />

contemplative traditions and<br />

encourages people to connect with<br />

the still centre within them and<br />

to respond from that place which<br />

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