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The Gallaghers of Ballinrobe

IN MARCH 2020, Pat Gallagher had an idea. He asked his brother, Owen, what he thought of writing a book about the family of their father, James Gallagher, who grew up in the early decades of the 20th century in the West of Ireland in the small town of Ballinrobe, County Mayo. The shutdown from COVID-19 was just beginning, and the thinking was they would have more time on their hands than usual. What better way to spend quarantine than exploring the stories of our aunts, uncles and other relatives. The task turned out to be much more complicated (and rewarding) than anticipated. It involved sifting through ship manifests, census, birth and marriage records, newspaper archives, and, most enjoyable, sessions delving into the memories of extended-family members. Sorely missed was the chance to hear first-hand the tales from our deceased cousins John O'Brien and Pete Gallagher. This book's stories and more than 500 images are the result of the past year's journey. The goal was both simple and ambitious: making the memories of the Gallaghers of Ballinrobe ours forever.

IN MARCH 2020, Pat Gallagher had an idea. He asked his brother, Owen, what he thought of writing a book about the family of their father, James Gallagher, who grew up in the early decades of the 20th century in the West of Ireland in the small town of Ballinrobe, County Mayo. The shutdown from COVID-19 was just beginning, and the thinking was they would have more time on their hands than usual. What better way to spend quarantine than exploring the stories of our aunts, uncles and other relatives.
The task turned out to be much more complicated (and rewarding) than anticipated. It involved sifting through ship manifests, census, birth and marriage records, newspaper archives, and, most enjoyable, sessions delving into the memories of extended-family members. Sorely missed was the chance to hear first-hand the tales from our deceased cousins John O'Brien and Pete Gallagher. This book's stories and more than 500 images are the result of the past year's journey. The goal was both simple and ambitious: making the memories of the Gallaghers of Ballinrobe ours forever.

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earned the American Service Medal, the European-African-

Middle Eastern Service Medal, a Good Conduct Medal and

a Victory Medal. He arrived back in the U.S. on July 23,

1945. There is a ticket in his possessions showing that

Uncle Tom spent at least one evening (Oct. 5, 1945) after

returning to the States at the Victory Service Club in Los

Angeles. It was a spot run by a Christian organization that

offered servicemen a free bed for the night. But the ticket

warns: “Watch your valuables; there are thieves abroad.”

Uncle Tom eventually received an honorable

discharge on Feb. 13, 1946, from Fort Dix, N.J.

AFTER THE WAR

Uncle Tom’s separation papers from the military

were among the possessions he held onto that are now kept

by his nephew Pat, Uncle Jim’s son. His “Report of

Separation” says he left the Army at the “convenience of

the government” during demobilization from the war. It

indicates he had received the first $100 of a total of $300

“muster out pay.”

The form also lists “none” under the heading

“wounds received in action.” But not long after his military

service, Uncle Tom had trouble with one of his eyes. There

are no specific records about the problem (it may have been

a detached retina) or whether it was related to his time in

the Army.

Uncle Tom was treated at Will’s Eye Hospital in

Philadelphia. He spent time recovering at a veterans facility

in Delaware. A discharge card indicates he entered the VA

Hospital on Oct. 16, 1947, and was released Feb. 13, 1948.

President Truman had approved a temporary Veterans

Administration hospital in May 1946 at what is now the

New Castle County Airport. The first patients were

admitted that August. Construction of a permanent building

began in March 1948, with formal dedication of the

Elsmere facility in April 1950.

It was at the first VA facility that Patsy DeAscanis

remembers a happy visit around Thanksgiving. She recalls

Uncle Tom in a wheelchair coming into the large

auditorium filled with cornstalks and other decorations that

for her were an introduction to a modern America to which

she hadn’t previously been exposed. Patsy and her brother,

Johnny, were there at the same time as their cousins Pete

and Mary. They had a great time running around, laughing

and having fun. Mary remembers a ping-pong table in the

room. Patsy said the cousins were playing with an abandon

they would never have shown anywhere else; she suspects

Uncle Tom would have encouraged their parents to “let

them go, let them go.”

A visit to Ballinrobe in 1970 provided the opportunity

for a reunion with Uncle Owen, top right, and Aunt

Nora and her husband Pat Murphy. Aunt Ann and

Aunt Mary were also there.

Patsy fondly recalls her uncle accompanying her

as a girl to Wilmington’s Memorial Day parade along

Delaware Avenue. He would point out the groups marching

from the different wars, including veterans in the distinctive

hats of the Spanish-American War. Patsy had been to the

parades before and never even considered asking to buy

any of the flags, balloons or other souvenirs being hawked.

So it was a treat when Uncle Tom offered to buy her

whichever one she wanted. She chose a stick you could

wave around to make the toy bird on the end fly. Uncle

Tom never marched in the parades, himself. He was always

a little skeptical of people he would refer to as “flag

wavers.”

One souvenir Uncle Tom brought home from the

war was a German Luger he had somehow obtained. His

nephew Pat Gallagher remembers Uncle Tom showing the

pistol to him. It was stored away in the rafters of the

basement of the home on Champlain Avenue. Uncle Tom

also brought with him some knowledge of the German

language, but he apparently wished he could have learned

more. Years later, Uncle Tom found it hard to understand

how his nephew Pete could take two years of German in

high school at Archmere Academy and not be able to hold a

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