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Trump vs. Clinton in the Race to the White House
By Kollengode S Venkataraman .................................................... 2
India in the 2016 Rio Olympics
By K S. Venkataraman ................................................................... 8
“My Journey in Indian Classical Dances” —
A Grandmother talks to her Granddaughter
By Moha Desai ............................................................................ 12
Musings on Mother Teresa’s Sainthood
By Kollengode S Venkataraman................................................... 17
Eishan Ashwat’s Pleasant Manch Pravesh Recital
By Shailesh Surti ........................................................................ 18
Insightful Introspection in a Vipassana Session
By Asawari Jadhav ....................................................................... 19
Reaching Your Potential Through Teaching
By Archana Janardhanan ............................................................. 22
Helping Disadvantaged Girls’ Education in Rural India
By Dr. Mani Balu ........................................................................ 25
My Take on Musical Instruments — a Poem
By Milun Kumar Jain ................................................................. 27
A Jain Sannyasi’s Advice for Addressing the Gender Ratio
By K S Venkataraman ................................................................. 32
On the Cover: On Saturday, September 10, a warm, blue-sky day in the
‘Burgh, the Pittsburgh Indian Community and Friends organized their 2nd annual
fund-raising event at North Park, that involved 5-k/1-k walking/jogging/
running events. Many volunteer organizations set up tables to raise awareness
for their causes. This picture is the “One-Your-Mark-Get-Set-and-Go” moment
at the start of the running event. More details in the next issue. •
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Trump vs. Clinton in the Race to the White House
This November, millions of voters in the US will ponder which box
to check — whether to go with Hillary Clinton, or with Donald Trump,
or to simply leave both boxes blank. Sigh! Several expressions describe
my dilemma — between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea, or a rock and a
hard place; and Morton’s Fork, all describing situations people face in life
with Itwo or more equally bad options. My horizon is already on 2020.
t is unbelievable that the Republican Party, out of the seventeen candidates
seeking the nomination — some of them astute pols rooted in
the GOP system — ended up electing a neophyte in US electoral politics,
Donald Trump. One would think that someone like Trump, a billionaire
real estate mogul and casino owner with dicey political and legal business
dealings and decisions, would prefer to stay away from the glare of public
scrutiny to which presidential candidates get exposed to.
Trump does not have the backing of the GOP heavy weights and elected
officials in Congress and the states, not to speak of rich donors, think tank
types, and conservative columnists. Many have publicly walked away from
him. Only Right-wing talk show hosts on radio and cable TV are rooting
for him. Trump’s foolhardy courage is remarkable.
The lack of courage among potential Democratic candidates was pitiful.
Fearing the Clinton Machine, nobody had the spine to throw their
hat in the ring! If Hillary Clinton wins the election in November, as is
predicted by analysts, pundits and bookmakers, she will thank Republicans
for giving her Donald Trump as her opponent. With much passion
against her among Republicans and many Independents, and many
Democrats
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lukewarm towards her, Hillary was vulnerable otherwise.
n spite of all the negatives, the billionaire Trump’s bravado on a
host of domestic, immigration, foreign policy, and defense issues, as
outlandish as they are, resonate well with the working class, mostly white
and less educated Americans. It is not hard to understand this.
In the US, only 33% of whites have a bachelor’s degree or better; 90%
have a high school diploma or its equivalent. (The stats are worse for
blacks and Hispanics). They worked grueling hours in assembly lines, steel
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mills, fossil fuel industries, and mining/metal industries, but lived comfortably,
with all the accoutrements of a good life — two-car garages, boats,
vacations... ... Globalization and Free Trade wiped out these jobs, and
the less educated working class bore the brunt of this brutal transition.
In the 2012 election cycle both the GOP and the Democratic candidates
were vying with each other to offer tax cuts for the “middle
class.” When pressed to define middle class, they said it was families
with an annual income under $250,000! In the US, only around 6% of
households have annual income more than $200,000. See below (Source:
US Census, 2014):
That is, political candidates saw themselves as “Middle Class,” even
though in terms of their income, net worth, and other intangible assets
like access to resources and their wide social and political network, they
are the Ruling Elite. With this bizarre definition of middle class, people
making between $60,000 and $100,000 can call themselves the “working
poor,” while the American median family income is around $55,000.
No wonder, the upper echelons of the GOP establishment was outof-sync
from the problems of the white working class, the base of the
GOP. In the primaries, these Republican voters, in disgust, opted for a
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total outsider, the billionaire Trump, whose rhetorical flourishes resonated
with them on many domestic, immigration, military, and trade issues,
which they saw as the causes for their anxieties. By electing Trump, they
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the GOP establishment.
his does not mean that it is party time for Hillary Clinton and her
followers before the elections are over. For one, Hillary Clinton is
not in the mold of Golda Meir, Margaret Thatcher, and Angela Merkel, all
first-time women leaders of their countries. Meir was the prime minister
of Israel (1969-74); Thatcher was the prime minister of the UK during
the Reagan years, and Merkel, the current chancellor of Germany. These
women became powerful world leaders on their own steam.
Hillary owes her political career to being the wife of Bill Clinton, the
popular two-term Democratic president. Without being First Lady with
Clinton as her last name, one wonders whether the parochial New York
voters would have elected a Hillary Rodham as their US Senator, just two
years after she became a legal resident there. Everything in her political
career in later years emanates from her being Mrs. Clinton and having stuck
with him through the thick and thin of his not entirely stellar lifestyle.
So, Hillary Clinton is the American strain of the Asian archetype of
wives and daughters of politicians becoming presidents and prime ministers:
Corazon Aquino (Philippines); Sirimavo Bhandaranaike (Sri Lanka);
Indira Gandhi (India); Khaleda Zia and Sheikh Hasina (Bangladesh); and
Benazir Bhutto (Pakistan). Without their hubbies and daddies, there is no
way any of these women could have come to wield so much power.
Hillary Clinton, as President Obama’s Secretary of State, carefully
built her image for occupying the White House by visiting over
110-plus countries, honing her image both inside the US and outside. However,
nonpartisan — or at least less partisan — observers see her imprint
on US foreign policy as lackluster, despite her rock star image.
If people remember the highlights and lowlights of the 2008 Democratic
primaries, Hillary Clinton’s campaign against Sen.Barack Obama then
contained veiled racist flourishes to win over working-class white voters,
something she now vehemently condemns in Trump. But that is politics.
Even many women voters are turned off by Hillary Clinton’s negatives.
If Trump ever goes past Hillary in the delegate count and walks into
the White House, he too will have to thank his stars that he had Hillary
Clinton as his opponent. At least on this score, the two are even.
So, come November, both candidates’ negatives will energize their
opponents to bring voters to the polling booth on Election Day. If
the weather on that day is bad, only hard core supporters will show up,
and anything can happen. In any case, it is unlikely that it would be a
Clinton vs. Trump... ... Continued on Page 26
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India in the 2016 Rio Olympics
Kollengode S Venkataraman
One Indian news item this summer that drew global attention — from
the media in Europe, North America, and even China — is why India
with its 1.2 billion population does so poorly in the quadrennial summer
Olympics. If you Google-search on this topic and read the top 10 news
stories, you will get a good idea of why it is so. There was no smirk in
these stories. They were simple, straightforward, and matter of fact. In
every social group — extended families, ethnic/caste groups, temples,
churches, corporations, hospitals, even nation-states — outsiders readily
see what is wrong that the insiders do
not see, or refuse to acknowledge, or are
embarrassed to admit.
This year, India’s medal count was
abysmal, even by Indian standards. The
total medal count in the last five Olympics,
including the 2016 at Rio are: 1,
1, 3, 6, 2 out of over 700 gold, silver
and bronze medals. Only two medals in
2016, one bronze for wrestling, and the
other, a silver, in badminton, both won
by women. Cherish the irony here, given
the macho atmosphere of the Indian
Sakshi Malik after winning her Bronze
for wrestling in the 2016 Olympics.
Look at her gleeful, joyous smile! In
the Indian context, Sakshi, like the
other winner Sindhu, is not “fair.” But
she is not just “lovely,” but gorgeous.
sports scene!
Shobha De, the ultimate gossip columnist
titillating anglicized Indians,
stirred the pot on the India Olympics
this year with the tweet, which, in translation
read, “Go to Rio, click your selfies,
and return empty-handed.” De is the mother of the phrase Bollywood she
coined in derision decades ago for the Bombay-based Hindi film industry.
Now, Bollywood is mainstream, and has given birth to Lollywood (for Lahore,
Pakistan), and Kollywood (Kodambakkam, Tamil), and Mollywood
(Malayalam), and Tollywood (Tollygunj, Bangla, and also Telugu).
She was widely berated for her comment. Among the many thoughtful
responses to De’s comment, one stood out. I regret not jotting down the
name of person. I do not have the exact words. If I can paraphrase his
comments, it went something like this:
“Why everybody is piling of the poor performance of the Indian athletes
in Rio? For all the money India spends every year and the vast
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infrastructure it has in national science labs, IITs and IIMs, nobody asks
why India’s record is poor in Nobel prizes? And for the 100-plus years
of history in the film making, why India’s record is so poor in the Grammys,
Emmys and Oscars?”
A valid point, requiring soul searching and serious discussion.
In any case, if you scan the hard copies of any Indian English newspapers,
one glaring observation stands out: over 90% of the column
inches are taken up by the raw, personality-based political news at the
national and state levels; news and gossip about films and film personalities;
cricket news; European culinary trends in the Indian Metros; real
estate; how Indian techies are ruling the world (?), and fashion.
With these items taking up so much oxygen for the greater part of every
year, not much is left for anything else. Add to this the Indian ethos of
disdain for all physical activities in general.
In many countries, sports & athletics are a serious business with governments
pumping in lots of money. They identify youngsters before
they are 10, and train them in gymnastics, track and aquatic events, and
all others. That is the only way to nurture excellence in sports.
However, excellence in sports and athletics is not a priority for the Indian
middle class — unless it sees money in it, lots of it, as in cricket. That
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Sakshi Malik with Prime Minister Modi on her
return to India.
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is how India killed field hockey, a
very intense game in which India
excelled years ago. If America is
obsessed with sports from high
school onwards, India is antipodal
in its total apathy to school/college
sports. The governmental indifference
to providing the critical
athletic infrastructure and training
is only a reflection of the Indian
middle class’ apathy for sports.
Besides, nurturing and demanding
excellence and weeding out incompetency and under performance are
not priorities in today’s India in most facets of human endeavor. Acquiring
wealth using any and every way possible, and flamboyantly consuming it
are the main pursuits for a big chunk of the Indian middle class. The poor
performance of India in Olympics is only a glaring manifestation of this
underlying ethos of today’s India. Given this Indian disdain, we need to
admire the Indian athletes for their persistence with very few resources
and the ridicule of the elites a la Shobha De, when they return with very
few medals. •
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“My journey in Indian Classical Dances”
A Grandmother talks to her Granddaughter
By Moha Desai, Bridgeville, PA
Shrimati Tani Desai, mother of Shambhavi Desai of Bridgeville, grew up in a traditional
Nagar Brahmin family in Bombay in the 1950s and 1960s. She had the rare experience of
earning her degree in Bharatanatyam from MS University in Baroda in the 1960s by staying
in a hostel far away from her home, something that was unusual then. Moha, daughter of
Shambhavi and Priyadarshi Desai, talked to her grandma on how she got interested in Bharatanatyam
that propelled her to go and earn a degree in the dance form in the 1960s.
Talking to her granddaughter for this article.
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I had a blessed opportunity of sharing the stage and performing a
dance piece with my grand-ma (Tani-ma) earlier this summer. She is now
in her 60s. It was a magical
experience! In the course of
talking to her as her granddaughter,
I knew that she
earned a degree in Bharatanatyam
from the MS University
in Baroda. This was
in the 1960s. With my own
exposure to the Indian classical
performing arts tradition
in the US, I sat with her
to hear from her about her
times, her journey in working
for a degree in dance and much more. Here are some excerpts:
Tani-ma, when you were growing up, what was the society around
you, and what was your home environment like?
“I was fortunate to be born and brought up in a large close-knit family
in Mumbai with five uncles and aunts.
My extended family had an active interest
and knowledge about music, dance and
dramatics. My father -- the eldest in the
family -- played the flute while other
younger uncles and aunts played violin,
percussion, Jal Tarang, or were good singers.
One of my uncles and brothers were
good theatre actors.
“My first guru and uncle, Shri Arjun
Desai, trained me in Bharatanatyam and
Manipuri dance styles from age five to
sixteen. He also introduced me to Guru
In her student days.
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Devendra Sinha, who taught me Manipuri as well. So, looking back,
music and dance had virtually been our way of life while growing up.
I was not even conscious about it. It is like a fish not knowing that it is
immersed in water.”
What were the priorities for girls then in general and how did you fit
in to those priorities?
“Life during the 1950s and 1960s was
definitely not the same for girls as it is these
days. Although performing arts were a way
of life for me, having a good education was
the first priority. I had my schooling in Saint
Teresa’s Convent, where discipline and good
academics were stressed. I did not get to perform
Bharatanatyam or Manipuri at my school
like how you all do, but had to do a ‘bookbalancing
dance’ taught by one of our enthusiastic
teachers at school!
In her prime giving a recital.
“Like any other girl, I used to help out
with the house-hold chores which included ironing our own clothes,
talking care of younger siblings and cousins and so on. All this was in
addition to a full-day of school, homework, and dance classes/practices
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every single day in the evenings; and we used to walk two miles to and
from our school! As a senior dance student, I was a part of more than 17
dance ballets in a lead role and other solo performances. I had to manage
my time very wisely.
“After I completed my high school, I was really at a crossroads. I
loved math and wanted to major in commerce for my Bachelors’ degree at
a college in Mumbai while continuing my dance in my free time. Luckily,
my parents and uncles recognized my passion for dance, and persuaded
me to go to M.S. University,
Vadodara and
major in Bharatanatyam
at the Department of
Performing Arts. This
was the only University
at that time in India that
offered degrees and post
graduate level courses
in dance. I finally went
With her students flanked by her daughter and
granddaughter
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to Vadodara, stayed in
a hostel for four years
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and pursued dance. My parents had done the right thing for me. I had
found my home away from home! I eventually did my Masters’ degree
here -- after I had your mom and your mashi!! It was very unusual at
that time!”
What was the attitude of your fellow neighbors and acquaintances?
“The attitude of the people was mixed. Many of our acquaintances
were happy for me when I chose to go to Baroda for majoring in dancebut
many others raised their eyebrows at the fact that a young girl from
a Nagar Brahmin family was 1) leaving the city, 2) staying in a hostel,
and 3) then pursuing dance as against other more conventional areas of
studies. This did not dampen my spirits but instead helped me to stay
focused and determined.”
What was the curriculum for students pursuing a degree in dance?
“The curriculum for the Bachelors’ of Performing Arts (BPA) -- formally
known as Bachelors in Music (B.Mus.) -- is an exhaustive four-year
degree course that is divided into theory and practical in each year. It
includes all important aspects of Natyashastra, Abhinaya Darpana,
Bharatarnava, covering the basics of music, dramatics, and the study of
all other classical dance styles, folk dances of India, as well as western/
modern dance theories and
dances of Southeast Asia.
The practical included from
the basic adavus to full
Margams with training in
the Tala system and Nattuvangam.
The syllabus also
had other subjects like Cultural
History, Aesthetics,
Tani Desai teaching her students now.
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English, Psychology, Physics
and Economics.”
At the university, in the Bharatanatyam coursework, and in the practical
classes, what was the language they used for teaching?
“The official language of teaching was English; but teaching was usually
done using a blend of English, Gujarati and Hindi as we had students
from all over India and abroad too. Our teachers went to great lengths to
explain the Tamil and Telugu terms and translated them as required.”
What changes did you see in dance over the years?
“ Well, there are many changes — most of them good. My Guru,
Smt. Anjali Mehr in Baroda, introduced us to choreographing Padams in
other regional languages, in addition to the traditional Tamil and Telugu.
Many experimental works had already started in our times, but now they
Journey in Dance... ... Continued on Page 23
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The Ellis School’s Centennial Gala in Mid October
Nearly 500 alumnae, students, family members, community leaders,
administrators and friends of The Ellis School will gather on Saturday,
October 15, at Pittsburgh’s Carnegie Music Hall to celebrate the school’s
first 100-years of educating girls and young women. With “More Power
to Her” as the theme, the Centennial Gala will highlight the school’s
many milestones showcasing the school’s students, alumnae, educators
and leaders, past and present.
Founded in 1916 by Sara Frazer Ellis, The Ellis School is Pittsburgh’s
only independent school for girls and young women, educating students
from Pre-K through Grade 12. This private school prepares students
through quality education in an all-girls environment.
With a student-to-teacher ratio of six-to-one, it provides an intimate
learning environment and individual attention with a rigorous, challenging
curriculum.
The Centennial Gala will recognize thirteen of its alumnae as Ellis
Laureates for their outstanding achievements in medicine, finance, law,
performing arts, business, education, technology, and journalism. For
more information, visit www.theellisschool.org. •
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Musings on Mother Teresa’s Sainthood
On Sunday, September 4, the Vatican ceremonially conferred sainthood
on Mother Teresa, based on miracles she is supposed to have carried
out in people’s lives. As the Reuters reported (www.tinyurl.com/
Bureaucratic-Path-to-Sainthood), the process of conferring sainthood
is “more bureaucratic than beatific.” Also read this: www.tinyurl.com/
AFP-Story-on-Mother-Teresa. So, we reproduce part of our obituary on
Mother Teresa’s death in the October 1997 issue of the Patrika:
“In the midst of Calcutta’s mean streets — it could be the slum of any
other city — a European nun working with the poorest and the sickest
eventually drew the attention of leaders in India and outside, including
those perched in the Vatican. With her global reach, one might even say,
many indigenously run nonsectarian relief agencies in India did not get
the attention and support even within India.
“Mother Teresa lived among the poorest and sickest in an overcrowded
city where whatever infrastructure was there was falling apart. And the
revered Mother saw no reason for at least tolerating modern family planning
methods that excluded abortion.
“No doubt, it is noble to give the wretchedly poor dignity at least in
their death. An equally noble act is to make... ... the uneducated poor,
recognize that if they do not have large families, they have better chance
of getting their children out of poverty, and society may be able to give
citizens dignity not only in death, but in life as well. And it is here that
one believes Mother Teresa could have had greater impact.”
If we do not bring these wretched souls into world in the first place,
there is no need for somebody to save them after all. Poverty, I
concede, has many contributing factors. However, for destitute families,
such as those in the slums of Kolkata, Manila, Mexico City, Paris, or
Detroit, large family is one major contributing factor. The deprivation
Mother Teresa saw in Calcutta’s slums did not move her to question
Vatican’s edict on family planning. Her loyalty
to the Vatican on this point was stronger than
her compassion to the human suffering she was
staring at every moment in Calcutta.
The Vatican’s intransigence on family planning
is astounding, given its global reach. After
all, a majority of even working class Catholics
worldwide practice family planning, not caring
its pastoral injunctions. So, the halo around Mother Teresa’s sainthood is
not sublime. It is more like the blemishes we see on the moon.
— By K. S. Venkataraman •
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Eishan Ashwat’s Pleasant Manch Pravesh Recital
By Shailesh Surti
e-mail: shailesh.surti@gmail.com
Pittsburghers have witnessed many Arangetrams by young Indian-American
dancers. However, we have not witnessed a Manch Pravesh, the
first solo recital of Hindustani classical music by a student after years of
learning, marking the student's beginning of a deeper understanding of
the art form. Eishan Ashwat's Manch Pravesh recital was on June 18 at
the Sri Venkateswara Temple Auditorium.
a young boy growing up in Pittsburgh with no previous expo-
For sure to this music, to pursue vocal music with passion, many stars
have to align. Eishan found encouragement from his parents, Shirish
and Anuradha Ashwat. They live close to Shambhavi
Desai, a faculty member of the Pandit Jasraj Institute
of Music (PJIM). She trains under Guru Pandita Tripti
Mukherjee. Shambhavi initiated Eishan into vocal music
when he was seven. Later, he learned from Pandita
Tripti Mukherjee, following the traditions of the Mewati
Guru Shambhavi
Desai
Gharana.
He practiced for countless hours, sometimes with his
Guru Shambhavi and with Shambhavi's husband Pryadarshi
Desai, who plays the harmonium. While preparing for the recital,
he had guidance from the Sangeet Martand Pandit Jasraj himself.
The recital was in front of invited guests well versed in the nuances
of Indian vocal music. Eishan gave a full recital, a total of eight
compositions in different genres, starting with a Bada Khayal (Khayal in
Persian means imagination) in Raga Madhuvanti set to Vilambit (Slow
tempo) Ek Taal. He handled the long and serious Bada Khayal, generally
sung by the professionals, with ease and elan.
This was followed by a Chhota Khayal in the same Raga set to Teen
Taal. Eishan here introduced some complex taans. He used tradition-
Solo Recital... ... Continued on Page 32
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Insightful Introspection in a Vipassana Session
By Asawari Jadhav, Peters Twp., PA
e-mail: asawari.jadhav@gmail.com
Asawari Jadhav grew up in Nagpur, India before living for a decade in the UK. She
arrived in the US twelve years ago. She now lives in Peters Township with her family and
works as a Technical Project Manager for Bombardier Transportation. Her hobbies include
playing on the sitar and reading.
Editor’s note: Vipassana is a simple and yet difficult meditation technique practiced
and perfected for over 2000 years by the Southern School of Buddhists, the Teravadins, in
Myanmar, Sri Lanka, and Southeast Asia. The etymology of Vipassana is in the Sanskrit
dhatu (root) drsh meaning “to see, gaze, look.” The prefix vi here means “total” or “comprehensive.”
Vipassana stands for a “comprehensive insight into oneself,” which is easily said,
but can be done only with open-mindedness, patience, and practice.
Over the last few years, I have heard the word
“Vipassana” from many believers in the
family. The thought of maintaining noble silence
for ten days, meditating close to over ten hours
each day, disconnecting myself from a device that
is almost embedded in my palm, and not being able
to run my family, seemed next to impossible.
I had recently tried to question the rat race I was
running. I was slowly observing the agitation, anger,
an overwhelmed mind, and an impulsive reaction to situations about which
I had no control! I finally did end up signing for a ten-day course -- over
eleven to be precise as the first day is considered Day Zero.
For those who have not heard about Vipassana, I need to tell you that
this is more than a course/workshop: students are not allowed to read,
write, connect, listen, exercise or take part in any form of entertainment
or physical indulgence.
Once I signed up, I realized what I was in for, and the reality had
begun to sink in. The thought of getting up at four in the morning
and being totally disconnected from the outside world was starting to find
every excuse to not join! Fortunately, my earlier wise decision to stick it
out for eleven days prevailed over the strong thought to quit. For most of
you who have not already checked the Dhamma website, here is a brief
summary of the schedule:
Wake up call at 4 a.m. with a one-hour break for breakfast between
meditation sessions. A lunch break and rest for two hours and another
four-hour meditation session (with breaks). A tea break at 5 p.m. with the
last session ending in a discourse by Shri Satya Narayan or S.N.Goenka
before retiring 9:30 p.m.
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My first day was tolerable, though I found myself dozing off from
being in a quiet dark room with long hours of sitting. By the
end of the second day, the pain had started to sink in making me very
uncomfortable and even the stretching and walks were beginning to be
ineffective. My mind was everywhere almost like a spring. Before I could
realize it, I was designing fancy comfortable meditation chairs and redoing
the window treatments in the Vipassana Center.
On the third day, I was starting to lose it. The OCD (Obsessive Compulsive
Disorder) in me had started to organize my memories into stacks. I
was kind of spring cleaning the rooms in my brain. Every time I needed a
break from cleaning, I would start to pay attention to my breathing. Slowly,
I began to question my imagined veracity of the source of my problems,
and almost learned a new way of looking at many situations.
Fourth day is when the real “Vipassana” starts. I had already started
to adjust and enjoy my own company.
By Day Five, I got into a pattern of changing cushions and positions
where I did not get into a torturous physical situation. My mind was craving
for the intellectual stimulation, even though craving and aversions were
two things I was training my mind to stay away from.
During my breaks I had counted the mugs in the café, read every
instruction in the center and estimated the age of the trees! I thought a
lot about my family and by the end of Day Five, I was convinced that
my husband had forgotten to pick up my thirteen-year-old from camp,
and my seventeen-year-old had forgotten his passport for a trip abroad.
Panic started to set in. I had created a situation where I really needed to
get out. The discourse in the evening revealed that it was normal to have
thoughts of quitting.
Day Six and onward got progressively better. I was beginning to feel
grounded, calmer, felt less affected by past heartaches. I had almost made
peace with my worst enemies.
Day Ten seemed still a long way to go but the bittersweet feeling had
started to set in. I had started to accept what was served. Even though
the quality of the food was beyond my expectations, I had tried things
that I would never even attempt before. I felt lighter inside. I had never
recognized the weight of the ego I had carried all along.
Before breaking the Noble Silence on the tenth day, I had started to
wonder if my own voice would startle me. I was at peace with my own
thoughts. However, I was also curious to verbally connect with the fifteen
other women who had shared their energies with me in the meditation
room. Women from different walks of life, diverse not only in nationalities
but also in age and cultures!
It has been only a few days since the completion of the session, and I
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am certain I will continue to observe the changes in me from this experience.
Here is a summary that I would love to share with you:
Vipassana is not a meditation retreat. It is a process by which
you strengthen your mind and increase awareness and practice
equanimity. The technique to do this is to observe your breath and bodily
sensations without developing a craving or aversion to them. It is simple
and difficult at the same time. The focus is to realize that “Change is the
only constant thing in life.”
Every misery arises from the fact that we as humans are constantly
reacting to something that is inevitably going to change. It is unrealistic
even to hope to drag everybody you are not able to deal with to Vipassana.
The need for changes in people should come from within individuals. A
ten-day course can just set the direction for you but do not expect to come
out with an aura on your head.
Just because you are not paying attention to it, does not mean the world
will fall apart! Things still move on when you are not in control. I realized
that Peace and Happiness is a State of Mind.
The ten most physically difficult days of my life beat the most exotic
locations I’ve visited. So, if you’re ready for introspection, consider attending
a 10-day Vipassana session to make an impression on yourself. •
Journey in Dance... ... Continued from Page 17
are being accepted with a more open mind than before.
“As long as the basic technique and the signatures of the art form are
not compromised, such changes are healthy. What pains me though at
times is the rampant commercialization at the cost of creativity. On the
brighter side, learning Bharatanatyam or any other classical dance form
has become fairly common in all parts of India and abroad, and by people
from every kind of socioeconomic background. That says it all!”
What keeps you going, Tani-Ma?
“A lot of things! Gratitude, satisfaction and passion. Gratitude towards
God, my parents, my husband and my family — that I could pursue dance
all my life in spite of many challenges along the way. It gives me immense
satisfaction and pleasure that I could pass on the same passion to my three
daughters and the third generation as well.
“It is satisfying that I could inspire hundreds of students through my
dance institute, Pagrav, over five decades, and hope to do so as long as
I can! Dance, like any other art form is a Sadhana (pursuit with a total
commitment) to connect directly with God. One has to follow the Three
Ds to excel: devotion, dedication and discipline. There are no other
shortcuts.” •
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Reaching Your Potential Through Teaching
By Archana Janardhanan
e-mail: archana913@gmail.com
Archana grew up in the North Hills. After completing her B.A. in English at the University
of Michigan in 2004, she worked in New York City for several years before pursuing
her master’s degree in Elementary Education at Duquesne University. She now teaches
fifth grade at Bradford Woods Elementary School in the North Allegheny School district.
It is no secret that medicine and engineering are the most popular
career choices for Indian-Americans. It makes sense: our parents
came here with hopes for a better life for their children.
They groomed us to be well-educated to choose
life paths which would ensure financial security.
However, the world has changed in the intervening
years. The goals of second and third generation Indian
Americans are not necessarily the same as those of our
parents. As the new generations of Indian Americans
emerge, I think it may be important for parents to let
their children explore other professions in which we
may thrive. Young people these days have a heightened awareness and
empathy for others that parents need to recognize.
This is why I would like to make the case for teaching. Education is
a field in which you are mentally and emotionally challenged each day.
There is a level of satisfaction in teaching that no paycheck or prestige
could Fbestow. That satisfaction stems from several aspects of the job.
irst, let me start with the students. The students are the heart of
the profession. They will bring out the best and worst parts of you
and thereby allow you to learn some major life lessons.
This year, I had a young student who came to my class at the end of
the school year after attending several other schools in the same year.
My understanding was that he had behavioral issues which caused some
problems with other students.
When he came to my class, he was absolutely wonderful for one week.
After that, there was a steady decline in his behavior. He said and did
inappropriate things on a daily basis and was even suspended after two
weeks. Every time he got in trouble, I spoke to him about his actions and
why they were wrong. It seemed I was getting nowhere and my frustration
with him was only growing. In the last week of school, I approached him
about another transgression.
The night before, I had read an article about how teachers can prevent
suspensions by practicing empathy. I decided to put this into practice.
When I approached him about what he did, I didn’t speak about his
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wrongdoing. Instead, I told him I wanted him to be happy. I wanted him
to love school and to make friends and to do well in all of his subjects.
I told him that I wanted to assist him in practicing behaviors that would
help him succeed.
For the first time, he looked me in the eyes when I spoke to him. I
will never forget that conversation because I believe it was the first time I
connected with him. It made me realize that unless you make an authentic
connection with your students — for that matter, with people in general
— you Scannot have a meaningful impact on them.
econd, your colleagues can be a major source of job satisfaction.
When you teach, you are in the trenches every day. You rely on
your colleagues for advice, resources, moral support and laughter. Teachers
are some of the most wonderful people you will ever meet. They are so
used to putting others before themselves that they are usually willing to help
you at the drop of a dime. My colleagues have taught me that when you
think Tless of yourself and more of others, you’re happier all around.
he third reason teaching is a worthwhile profession is that you are
able to leave your lasting personal imprint on students’ lives. While
it is often necessary to adhere to district curriculum standards, once you
get used to teaching them, you may use your creativity at your will.
This year, I decided to finish the year with a fun science project. I
wanted to make my students aware of the resources all around them and
have them incorporate them into our lessons. I decided to arrange a walking
field trip to the local community nature reserve. My students took plastic
containers and jars and collected various specimens at the reserve.
We then walked back to school and created terrariums (enclosed
ecosystems). The students observed the activity in their terrariums each
day and kept an ongoing log. For the rest of the year, when they came to
science class, they ran to the back of the room to look at their terrariums.
I have never witnessed such excitement for a project before this one. We
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had accomplished our learning objectives while having fun and bringing
nature indoors.
While teachers do not make the salary that doctors and engineers
make, we have a noble profession all the same. I know that when
I look back on my life at the end of it, I will be satisfied and at peace with
myself because I have impacted others’ lives in my own way.
If you are trying to finding your life’s path, no matter what age you
are, I encourage you to consider teaching. We must bring our best and
brightest to this profession because I can think of no one who deserves it
more than our children. •
Clinton vs. Trump... ... Continued from Page 8
landslide victory for Hillary Clinton, either in terms of the popular vote
nationwide, or in the delegate count.
That is why it is a choice among Worse, Worse, and Worse, come
November. Leaving the box blank is also not a good option. There
is, however, one silver lining for both candidates in this scenario: Whoever
wins, voter expectation for both is so low that even if their performance is
barely a passing grade, people would sigh in relief, “After all, it is not as
bad as it could have been!” And
their cronies will spin this as their
master’s great accomplishment!
Endnote: In this election cycle,
with no coattail effect, and with
so many negatives for both Hillary
Clinton and Donald Trump,
candidates for the US House and
Senate for both parties are pretty
much running on their own. If the
anti-establishment mood plays
into the voters’ psyche, people
may simply vote against sitting
members seeking re-election to
the US House and Senate. So, the
elections to the US Congress will
be as important. The US Senate
leadership may change hands and
in the House, the GOP majority
will erode, maybe even evaporate.
We are certainly living in interesting times.
— By Kollengode S Venkataraman •
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Helping Disadvantaged Girls to Get Education
in Rural India
By Dr. Mani Balu, Monroeville, PA
e-mail: balus61@mail.com
Dr. Balu, a retired clinical pediatrician, practiced in Uniontown, PA for 23 years, and
now lives in Monroeville, PA. He goes to Chennai every winter with his wife Shantha, and
helps people afflicted with leprosy, an entirely manageable disease, but with lots of social
stigma.
Leprosy is a chronic disease caused by a slow-multiplying bacteria, with five years
of incubation period. The disease affects the skin, the peripheral nerves, the mucosa of
the upper respiratory tract, and the eyes. This disease is curable with Multi-Drug Therapy
(MDT) (Source: WHO). This disease affects in a totally different way healthy young girls
in families with elders afflicted with leprosy.
In 2004 I met two dedicated women in Pittsburgh in a conference —
Becky Douglas of Atlanta and Padma Venkatraman of Chennai — who
work helping leprosy patients. Their work and involvement in helping
leprosy patients, who are the most misunderstood, neglected and ostracized
people of the world, impressed me immensely. I joined them to start a
Mobile Leprosy Clinic in Chengalpattu (near Chennai), which has the
biggest leprosy hospital in Asia. Understandably, leprosy patients gravitate
towards that town, living in and around the hospital, as they are not
allowed to live in the main streets of any town.
While visiting their living quarters, I found out that the girls above 12
or 13 years of age are not allowed to go to school by their parents because
there are no lavatories or rest rooms in these schools. With help from
some of my friends, we started building rest rooms in these schools. We
were very thrilled that this alone increased the number of girls attending
schools.
These bright children in these remote villages are denied education
because of their parents’ poverty and ignorance on the part of the public,
but through no fault of their own. That is the reason for this article.
Most immigrants from India in US are here because of our education,
enjoying a comfortable life for ourselves and our children and grandchildren.
In 1956 when I was in medical school in Madras Mr. R. Venkatraman,
then Labor Minister of Tamil Nadu (who decades later became India’s
president) came to our Medical School. In his address, I remember him
telling us this: “Each one of you pay Rs. 200 as your annual fee and
the government spends Rs.15,000 on every one of you yearly to run the
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medical college.” Padma Venkatraman, with whom I now work to help
the leprosy patients, is R.Venkatraman’s daughter.
I could not have become a doctor if the annual fee was any higher than
Rs.200! Only the government-subsidized education enabled me to accomplish
whatever I did in my life. This is probably true for most of us.
In that spirit, I appeal to all of you to help the less fortunate children in
India to reach their full potential.
In the past several years I have met many dedicated NGOs in Tamil
Nadu helping the needy -- AIM (All India Movement) for Seva, The
Tamil Nadu Foundation (TNF), Ekal Vidyalaya, Udavum Karangal, to
name a few. I am sure there are equally good or better NGOs in other
parts of India.
I always feel if each one of us helps our own village where we come
from, India will be a better country. Two years ago, I saw a big banner in
the Guindy Engineering College in Chennai, once a premium institution
in Chennai. It read “EDUCATE A CHILD WHO IS NOT YOURS” Let
us do this together.
If you want for further details, contact me at 724 438 8242 (H), 724
322 7175 (C) or e-mail: balus61@mail.com •
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My Take on Musical Instruments
by Milun Kumar Jain, Wexford, PA
Milun Jain is starting 7th grade at Marshall Middle School, Wexford. This poem of Milun’s
(when his class teacher was Mrs. Phyllis Chvostal) won second place in the Junior
Music in Poetry Contest sponsored by Pennsylvania Federation of Music Clubs, Class 1 a
couple of years ago.
On a piano I see black ‘n’ white keys
Sure, violin reminds me of a waterfall
The trumpet leads the marching band
While the cello sounds so low
This is my take on musical instruments!
The viola soothes me to sleep
The double bass can wake me up
The flute evens the hills and valleys
And the guitar makes me rock and roll
This is my take on musical instruments!
The drums appear to be in a war
While the saxophone plays real loud
The harp vibrates my arm and body
The triangle shakes my heart and mind
This is my take on musical instruments!
As I strike the xylophone with the mallet
The bagpipes take me to Scotland
As grunt I am as the harmonica
Happy-go-lucky I go with the clarinet
This is my take on musical instruments!
I can use the trombone like a telescope
And the tuba buzzes like butterflies
Through the maze-like tubing of the horn
My whistle goes loud and clear
This is my take on musical instruments!
•
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More on Tayir, Dahi, Mosaru, or Perugu
By Kollengode S Venkataraman
The write up in the last issue for making authentic tayir (dahi, mosaru,
or perugu) had surprising reader responses. It was a good point for conversation
for me with friends in social gatherings, much to the chagrin
of my wife. More importantly, I received e-mails from readers enquiring
how they can get the starter tayir. A couple of them even came to my place
to get the starter tayir. They made the original stuff at home, carefully
following the instructions. They were pleased with the outcome.
One reader from the American mainstream was surprised that it is so
easy to make this at home. She commented that the one she made at home
tasted much better than the standard Dannon fare from grocery stores.
By now, tayir and its other Indian variants are common words for our
readers. So I will no more italicize them going forward.
One reader was so impressed with the tayir he made at home that he
enquired the shelf-life of the starter tayir, if he goes on vacation. As a matter
of fact, I was away for 2 weeks in July-August. I kept the starter tayir
in a small container in the refrigerator, making sure that the starter tayir
is filled to the brim of a container, and the container was closed with an
air-tight lid. When I returned from my vacation, the starter tayir was well
preserved in its original condition. When I made a fresh batch of tayir, it
came out just perfect. Note: If the container is partially filled and closed
with a lid, the trapped air in the container may spoil the starter tayir.
Usha Gowda of Monroeville, who is originally from Karnataka, is one
of my friends. She suggested this improvement for making mosaru (the
Kannada term for tayir): After adding the starter stuff to the milk that
is boiled-and-cooled to room temperature, put a small piece of dry red
chilly into the vessel and gently stir it and let it sit. Some phytochemical
in the red chilly accelerates the fermentation and the mosaru is ready in
5 to 6 hours; it sets also a little thicker, and slices better. Indian green
chilly also works just fine.
Finally, an e-mail came from my demanding English teacher at the
engineering school where I took a course in writing at the behest
of my professor. I am eternally thankful to him for asking me to take the
course, and to the demanding teacher for sensitizing me to the nuances of
writing for different audiences. She, now in retirement, is in our mailing
list. I am one student of hers, maybe her only student, to edit and publish
a community magazine. She enjoyed the tayir story, which made her recall
her rips to India decades ago. Her letter appears on the next page.
Separately, very perceptively, she also said this: Regarding your comment
about the tayir starter, yes, the difference in yogurts around the world
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is always in the starter. Someone should do a study about the role that
plays in a country’s food culture and unique gestalt of each cuisine!
Note: gestalt, a German word, refers to something that is made of many parts
and yet is somehow more than or different from the combination of its parts;
broadly, the general quality or character of something.
A Letter to the Editor On the Story on Tayir
Dear Editor Venkat:
Enjoyed your article on your adventures making tayir. I have always
regretted not getting to Kerala during the time I spent in India in 1970
-- but I did travel in the eastern portion of South India.
I loved, loved, loved the dosas and also idlis with coconut chutney.
Also, the curries served on a banana leaf. The only reprise of any of
these I’ve encountered was in Berkeley in the late 1970s or early 1980s
when a tiny grandmother made fantastic dosas in a tiny restaurant space
in an arcade of many small shops and eateries. Heavenly ... ... as long as
it lasted. No idlis, though. So your article brought all this back. Lovely
memories.
Best wishes,
Charlene Spretnak, Professor Emerita, Ojai, California •
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Solo Recital... ... continued from Page 20
al Bandishes (lyrics) for this Raga with sweet and romantic sentiments. The
next item was a Khamaj Thumri a light classical piece in Taal Adha.
Eishan next rendered a Dhrupad piece, composed by the legendary
musician Tansen, in Raga Vasanat set in Chautaal. The Dhrupad style
involves an elaborate aalap, followed with layakari with the rhythm.
He then rendered a Haveli Sangeet piece, sung in Vaishnava Temples,
a Krishna Bhajan set in taal Deepchandi, followed by a Trivat in Raga
Kirwani.
Since his family is from Karnataka, he also recited a Kannada Bhajan
of Purandara Dasa in Raga Bibhas. As is customary, the last piece was
in Raga Bhairavi, a Meera Bhajan.
It gives me great pleasure to record that Shri Kulkarni on the Tabla,
and Dr. Nadkarni on the Harmonium, both veteran musicians in
their own standing, provided encouraging support to Eishan.
The program was well received and enjoyed by all. Hopefully, a few
youngsters in the audience were persuaded to take up vocal music. Eishan
displayed his versatility by singing in seven ragas set in eight different
taals, from the ancient genres of Dhrupad to more recent Khayal, Thumri
and Bhajan in his first solo recital.
Eishan knows this is just the beginning of his musical journey. With
passion, hard work and guidance from his gurus, he will go far.
Eishan is an Eagle Scout. He just graduated from South Fayette High
School with high academic honors. He is going to the University of Pittsburgh
in a program that will admit him to the medical school. Staying in
Pittsburgh will allow him to continue his training under his Gurus.
Pittsburgh is very fortunate to have PJIM-trained dedicated Adya Gurus
of the Mewati Gharana. We look forward to more Manch Praveshes in
Pittsburgh by young musicians. •
In the words of the Tamil ascetic Siva-vaakkiyar:
The Transcendental One pervading the earth and all the space above
“is far, far, and far away,” say the ignorant and the lazy.
O Fools! Why are you running from place to place searching for It!
Realize It in your own self, and be still!
Siva-vaakkiyar’s time is between the 10th and 11th centuries. •
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The PIC-5k Events This Year
This year’s PIC-5k event was held on September 10 at the North
Park Boathouse. The first pictures below show the volunteers who
made this happen and some participants. More in the next issue. •
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is the brainchild of Nila Chakraborty, a second-generation Indian-American with
a passion for Indian fashion wear. This portal enables people in USA & Canada
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technology, customer service, and a global network of suppliers, this portal
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A Jain Sannyasi’s Radical Advice for
Addressing the Gender Ratio in Northern India
The Digambar (literally, sky-clad) Jain Sannyasi (monk), Muni
Tarun Sagar, addressed the Haryana assembly in late August, bluntly
talking about social and political issues amid applause and laughter
from lawmakers. He is known for kadve pravachan (literally “bitter
discourses”), kadve because of the harsh truths he candidly conveys.
The Muni lauded Prime Minister Narendra Modi’s call for ‘beti
bachao, beti padhao’ (“Educate Girls, Save Girls”).
For a sannyasi, he was well attuned to current events: he lauded India’s
“daughters” Sakshi Malik and PV Sindhu, the two Indian athletes
among the 160-plus Indian Olympic contingent to return home with
Olympic medals, for “saving India from disgrace” at the Rio Olympics.
He addressed Haryana’s poor gender ratio on account of gender
selection and female infanticide (for children 6 years and younger, the
ratio is 839 girls to 1000 boys, with the India’s national average 919
girls to 1000 boys.) Left to nature, this ratio is 995 girls to 1000 boys
at birth. As an aside, less than 1% of live human births are Intersex,
births in which the newborns do not fall into the clear-cut male-female
binary classification.
The Jain sannyasi said there are not enough women for young
Haryanvi men to marry. To reverse the skewed gender ratio, he offered
these radical changes in public behavior:
• politicians having daughters should be given preference for
contesting elections,
• people should not marry off their daughters into families not having
daughters; and
• sannyasis should not take bhiksha (alms) from families that do not
have daughters.
The message drew applause from the lawmakers.. By KSV •
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