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WINTER <strong>2021</strong>/<strong>22</strong> • Volume 11 Issue 4 • greybrucekids.com<br />

A FREE MAGAZINE FOR<br />

PARENTS AND CAREGIVERS<br />

10th Anniversary Issue<br />

FREE!


Child care costs add up<br />

Fortunately, families in <strong>Grey</strong> County may be eligible for a fee subsidy for<br />

children in licensed child care. You may be eligible if:<br />

• You are a <strong>Grey</strong> County resident • You are the child’s legal guardian<br />

• You are working, attending school or training • You have filed your taxes<br />

• You have a referral from another agency • Your child is living with you<br />

• You are a Canadian citizen or permanent resident<br />

If you meet the above eligibility, you can use the subsidy calculator on www.grey.-<br />

ca/childrens-services to estimate your monthly child care costs. Costs are calculated<br />

on a per-family basis and not per child. Families may have multiple children in<br />

licensed care. An income test will be completed when applying to confirm eligibility.<br />

Learn more and apply at www.<strong>Grey</strong>.ca/Childrens-Services<br />

PLAY • LEARN • GROW<br />

Find program calendars for<br />

EarlyON locations across <strong>Grey</strong> County at:<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>.ca/Childrens-Services


FROM THE PUBLISHER<br />

Celebrating 10 years!<br />

“The days are long but the years are short.”<br />

It’s a quote that every young parent hears at some point from well-meaning,<br />

experienced people, when they are in the trenches of parenting. It’s only when you are<br />

able to take a step back that you can truly appreciate this statement.<br />

CONTENTS<br />

4 Family<br />

10 Posture<br />

With this issue, we are celebrating our 10th anniversary of publishing <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong><br />

<strong>Kids</strong> and I’m not sure how we got here so fast. Publishing this magazine, much like<br />

parenting, is a true act of love. We started this publication when our daughters were<br />

four years and 10 months old (read our full story on Page 4), and have raised the<br />

magazine alongside them.<br />

Starting it was much like parenting – learning as you go, feeling overwhelmed, feeling<br />

proud, asking for help/not asking for help, late nights and early mornings, some tears,<br />

some laughs, and making mistakes, while celebrating our successes.<br />

It’s certainly much easier to shut down the laptop at night than put kids to bed, and<br />

publishing our three magazines (sister publications <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> and Huron-Perth<br />

Boomers) requires far fewer snacks, no toilet training or breaking up of fist-fights than<br />

raising a family. Yet, reflecting on the last 10 years, I recognize how much I have grown<br />

both as a parent and as a business owner.<br />

14 Healthy parents<br />

16 Cool <strong>Kids</strong><br />

<strong>22</strong> Grandparenting<br />

26 Resources<br />

30 Recipes<br />

The saying, “It takes a village to raise a child (or a business)” is also very apt. This<br />

publication has thrived because of you – our loyal readers, writers, graphic designers,<br />

advertisers, distributors, family, friends and local cheerleaders.<br />

I am honoured to have provided a free local resource for parents in <strong>Grey</strong> and <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

counties over the past decade. After the last 18 months, the only thing we know for<br />

sure is that nothing is for sure – you just have to enjoy the ride while you are on it!<br />

My thanks to our contributors in this issue – Dr. Brad Murray writes about posture<br />

and how it affects your children. Tori Hamilton shares her wisdom on how to stay<br />

healthy in all aspects of your life. Sande and Rick Irwin reflect on what being a<br />

grandparent means to them and how to<br />

maximize your time spent with grandkids.<br />

We also check in on some of our ‘Cool <strong>Kids</strong>’<br />

to see what they’re up to now (hint, they’re<br />

still awesome!).<br />

Thanks again for your continued support!<br />

Amy Irwin, Publisher<br />

Cover: Jace and Layne Irwin,<br />

daughters of <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong><br />

Publisher Amy.<br />

Photo by LPhotography<br />

WINTER <strong>2021</strong>/<strong>22</strong><br />

Publisher<br />

Amy Irwin<br />

amy@greybrucekids.com<br />

Magazine Design<br />

Becky Grebenjak<br />

Advertising inquiries<br />

amy@greybrucekids.com<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> welcomes your feedback.<br />

EMAIL amy@greybrucekids.com<br />

PHONE 519-524-0101<br />

MAIL P.O. Box 287, Ripley, ON N0G 2R0<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> is distributed for free in <strong>Grey</strong> and<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> counties, and is published each March, June,<br />

September and December. Distribution of this<br />

publication does not constitute endorsement of<br />

information, products or services by <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong>,<br />

its writers or advertisers. Viewpoints of contributors<br />

and advertisers are not necessarily those of the<br />

Publisher. <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> reserves the right to edit,<br />

reject or comment on all material and advertising<br />

contributed. No portion of <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> may be<br />

reproduced without the written permission of the<br />

Publisher.


FAMILY<br />

NEAR DEATH,<br />

THAI ISLANDS<br />

AND A<br />

GLOBAL PANDEMIC<br />

AN EVENTFUL 10 YEARS FOR GREY-BRUCE KIDS<br />

BY AMY IRWIN<br />

4 GREY-BRUCE KIDS • WINTER <strong>2021</strong>/<strong>22</strong>


When people do something difficult, they’ll quip that it<br />

almost killed them.<br />

Well, the first issue of <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> in late-2011 literally<br />

almost killed me.<br />

It was my 31st birthday, Oct. 25, and just three weeks before<br />

our first press deadline. I’d been feeling under the weather<br />

for a few days, but, as all Moms do, I powered through the<br />

discomfort to chase my young daughters and work on my new<br />

business venture – <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> magazine.<br />

Yet I knew something wasn’t right and Googled my symptoms<br />

– I was pretty sure my appendix had burst, and most likely a<br />

few days prior, which is very dangerous as you surely know.<br />

None of my husband, my sister or the ER doctor believed me<br />

because most people rush to the hospital when their appendix is<br />

first inflamed, thankfully not being able to stand the pain long<br />

enough to allow the useless organ to burst. Unfortunately, my<br />

high pain tolerance allowed me to live my regular life for days<br />

after, even as my bloodstream was poisoned from within.<br />

By the time the doctor believed me and cut me open, I was septic.<br />

What had been my appendix was gangrenous. They had to do two<br />

surgeries just to wash the infection off my other organs.<br />

I was in bad shape, delirious on medication, in incredible pain,<br />

unconscious for hours and the better part of days at a time, and<br />

there was a window where we didn’t know if I’d ever again hold<br />

my daughters, tell my husband a joke only I find funny, or put<br />

the first issue of <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> into your hands.<br />

Thankfully, I turned the corner, making incremental<br />

improvements and leaving the hospital 17 days later, weak and<br />

so tired. Still – somehow – we hit our first deadline that very<br />

week and here we are, 10 years later, celebrating the 41st issue of<br />

our little local magazine that almost never was.<br />

A SERVICE DIRECTORY?<br />

My husband Dwight and I were both born and raised in Ripley,<br />

and we graduated from Conestoga College in Kitchener in<br />

2002; me with a diploma in social services, he in journalism.<br />

We immediately moved to Alberta to start our careers, and, after<br />

getting married in 2004, we quit our jobs and sold our house<br />

in Big Sky Country to go backpacking across New Zealand and<br />

Australia for 10 months. Eventually we landed in Port Hope,<br />

Ont., where we welcomed our daughter Layne in 2007.<br />

I was newly pregnant with our second daughter when we moved<br />

back to Ripley in 2010, so I had no job from which to take<br />

maternity leave after her birth just a few days before Christmas.<br />

As I said in my first Publisher’s Note, “I immediately realized,<br />

despite the fact there are thousands of families in <strong>Grey</strong> and<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> which face the same challenges mine does, there was<br />

no publication dedicated solely to parents and caregivers.”<br />

Families need easy access to services, baby groups, breastfeeding<br />

information, health care, and much more, so I decided I’d be the<br />

one to bring that information to local parents and caregivers.<br />

After brainstorming different options, we landed on a free-forpick-up,<br />

widely distributed magazine that we called <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong><br />

Left: The Irwin family (clockwise, Dwight, Amy, Layne and<br />

Jace) in Ha Long Bay, Vietnam, in December 2019. Above:<br />

The family photo that marked the 1st anniversary of <strong>Grey</strong>-<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong>, in 2012.<br />

<strong>Kids</strong>. With my background in social services and a natural<br />

business acumen, and my husband’s newspaper writing and<br />

editing experience, we convinced ourselves we could do this.<br />

Somehow, through my hospitalization, a few weeks of very<br />

little sleep for Dwight, and a lot of help from our parents,<br />

our first issue made it to press on time, and on Dec. 1, 2011,<br />

we distributed 10,000 copies across <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong>. We were<br />

astonished by the feedback, with many commenting on the<br />

professional look of the product and the interesting articles,<br />

made better by being written by local people for local people.<br />

NO TOPIC TOO BIG<br />

With our backgrounds in social services and journalism, our<br />

intention was never to have <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> be a “fluffy”<br />

magazine. There would be no topic too big for our little<br />

publication and, right from Issue 1, we met the challenge head<br />

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on, interviewing Kincardine native Kendra Fisher – a former<br />

teammate of mine on our high school hockey team – about the<br />

mental health issues that cost her a shot at playing goal for Team<br />

Canada and a good chunk of her 20s.<br />

Ten years ago, mental health was still a rather taboo subject, and<br />

we were one of the first publications to tell Kendra’s story. She<br />

has since become well known provincially and nationally for her<br />

Mentally Fit program and impactful speaking engagements.<br />

In 2013, Dwight spoke to Walkerton’s Yolanda Cameron about<br />

the suicide of her son Wes, which could have torn her and<br />

husband James to pieces but instead led to them launching<br />

Wes for Youth Online, which in 2020 helped over 830 youth<br />

through times of crisis, undoubtedly saving lives. Even today,<br />

the story’s lede still brings tears to my eyes.<br />

“For two years, pain has been a constant companion of Yolanda<br />

Cameron. It drains from her eyes and undercoats each laugh,<br />

sometimes in the same breath. Always, it threatens to best her, to keep<br />

her all to itself, shutting out the world. Yet she refuses to give in. She<br />

can’t bear the thought of another family experiencing her ultimate<br />

pain, the unexplainable loss of a child.”<br />

And, on Yolanda’s advice from eight years ago, we still do not<br />

let our kids keep their phones or iPads in their rooms at night,<br />

allowing them to be unavailable for essentially the first time all<br />

day, get a good night’s sleep and recharge their batteries. She told<br />

us she wished she had known to do the same for Wes.<br />

Jace Irwin, 18 months<br />

at the time, helps Mom<br />

with her first Summer<br />

issue in June 2012.<br />

We’ve tackled racism, and separate series on the local LGBTQ+<br />

community, Ontario’s youth justice system, and how to keep<br />

kids safe online. We talked to the family of Ava Morgan,<br />

who, as an eight-year-old, chose to live life as her true self –<br />

a transgendered girl in a small town. We attended the first<br />

birthday party of the Coutts quadruplets in Tiverton. I joined<br />

a group of locals in Nicaragua and wrote about the people<br />

who live in, and scavenge for food from, a local dump. We<br />

(hopefully) educated local parents on the dangers of vaping,<br />

the local opioid crisis, marijuana as it was moving from illegal<br />

substance to sold in downtowns across the region, ‘sexting,’<br />

education, human trafficking, being money-wise at a young age,<br />

and so very much more in what has felt like a very short decade.<br />

Some of this we’ve written ourselves, while we’ve leveraged the


expertise of local professionals for countless stories on the topics<br />

of health and wellness, travel, finance, social justice, and every<br />

other topic that impacts local families.<br />

We’ve seen regular features come and go like TidBits, Tales<br />

from Tots (thanks COVID!), Our Town, arts and crafts, kids’<br />

books, and others, as we’ve received feedback from readers and<br />

adjusted our focus on what’s important to them. The best – and<br />

sometimes hardest – part of publishing <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> is there<br />

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ADDING TO THE FAMILY<br />

As <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> grew, one thing we kept hearing was<br />

there was no local magazine for people whose kids were grown<br />

and had flown the coop. These older parents and/or young<br />

grandparents loved <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> but wanted something<br />

that impacted their lives today, not the lives they led when the<br />

children were at home.<br />

So, in December 2014, we launched <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> Boomers,<br />

the area’s only magazine for adults 50+. Once again, we were<br />

met with a wave of enthusiasm from readers, advertisers,<br />

contributors, and distributors that surprised us, and its<br />

The Community Education Department<br />

would like to thank you for your continued<br />

support and patience during the global<br />

pandemic. The safety of everyone sharing<br />

our schools is our greatest concern.<br />

The start of indoor Community Education<br />

programs currently remains delayed.<br />

Unfortunately Beginner Driver Education is<br />

cancelled in our schools for the <strong>2021</strong> – 20<strong>22</strong><br />

school year. We hope to bring this program<br />

back in the future.<br />

Community Education will continue to stay<br />

in touch and provide updates as information<br />

becomes available. If you have any questions,<br />

please feel free to reach out - we are<br />

happy to hear from you.<br />

Thank you again for<br />

your patience as we<br />

adjust and plan.<br />

Learning Today, Leading Tomorrow<br />

www.bwdsb.on.ca<br />

Inquire Early, Discover Often, Guide Your Child’s Path.<br />

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popularity continues today. Then, in the spring of 2016, we<br />

added Huron-Perth Boomers to our suite of publications,<br />

and now publish all three every quarter, and still offering free<br />

distribution to our faithful readers.<br />

Above: Amy gets to know an elephant at a sanctuary in the<br />

jungle of northern Thailand. We spent a night frolicking in the<br />

grass, mud and river with the five resident elephants at the<br />

no-electricity sanctuary, in November 2019.<br />

Below: Dwight finishes up the Spring 2020 issue in our<br />

hostel’s restaurant on the Thai island of Koh Lanta.<br />

GBK AROUND THE WORLD<br />

In July 2019, we took our magazines on the road, as our family<br />

embarked on a one-year trip around the world as part of a<br />

sabbatical program offered by Dwight’s (other) employer. The<br />

beauty of technology – as well as help with magazine delivery<br />

from family and other community members – meant we could<br />

prepare and publish three issues simultaneously, even as the<br />

four of us backpacked through 12 countries – the U.S., western<br />

Canada, London, UK, Paris, a Kenyan safari, various Indonesian<br />

islands, Thailand, Laos, Vietnam, Cambodia, Malaysia and Sri<br />

Lanka.<br />

Unbeknownst to many, we completed our Fall 2019 issue from<br />

a hostel in Nanaimo, B.C., not having been home for six weeks<br />

at that point. It was a challenge to focus on our <strong>Winter</strong> 2019/20<br />

issue while experiencing the mind-blowing and tongue-numbing<br />

flavours found in the street food and the stifling humidity of<br />

the cities and jungles of northern Thailand that November. Our<br />

Spring 2020 issue was fine-tuned with feet buried into the sandfloored<br />

restaurant at our hostel on the tiny Thai island of Koh<br />

Lanta in February 2020, with final edits completed in a swaying<br />

hammock.<br />

Unfortunately, on March 16, 2020, after 18 days of fresh fruit<br />

smoothies made with produce from the stand next door, and<br />

surfing morning and night at our quiet beach, we scrambled<br />

to catch one of the last flights off the island of Sri Lanka. The<br />

COVID-19 pandemic had finally forced us home, our year-long<br />

travels ending three months early.<br />

While our kids experienced the sights, sounds, smells, and tastes<br />

of international travel during our nine months as backpackers,<br />

the Summer 2020 issue was a completely different experience –<br />

for one, we were stuck in our house, during the early days of the<br />

pandemic. It was the also first of five issues of <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong><br />

that were only available online, and we’re very happy to be back<br />

in print with this, our second issue since the pandemic brought<br />

the world to a stand-still.<br />

We are incredibly fortunate to own a business that could be<br />

operated from some of the most stunning – and sometimes<br />

rustic – places in the world. And I apologize if I took a while to<br />

respond to your email… you’d be surprised how little wifi there<br />

can be on the savannah of the Maasai Mara in Kenya, or during<br />

a two-day boat ride down the Mekong River between Thailand<br />

and Laos, or at an electricity-free elephant sanctuary in the Thai<br />

jungle...<br />

THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT<br />

I sometimes pause to consider there are readers out there who<br />

first picked up <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> when they were raising a preteen<br />

or full-blown teenager and are now grandparents! I hope they<br />

picked up at least one nugget of information that made them<br />

a better parent then, and a better grandparent now. I also hope


that they have shared our magazine with their children, as they<br />

themselves become new parents.<br />

The fact our publication is now spanning generations is why<br />

we’re still excited every time we send an edition to the printer<br />

– even 40 issues after our first.<br />

Thank you to all our readers, contributors, distributors and<br />

advertisers – we certainly wouldn’t be here today without you.<br />

We cannot thank our families enough for their assistance and<br />

advice over the years – from those difficult first days when I<br />

was in the hospital to organizing the distribution while we<br />

experienced the world, we are forever indebted to you.<br />

To our wonderful daughters Layne and Jace – who grace the front<br />

cover of this issue – you are our inspiration and, though we can’t<br />

say we’re always perfect at taking the advice we offer within these<br />

pages, please know that we love you with all our hearts and can’t<br />

wait to see what great impact you’ll have in this world.<br />

GBK<br />

AMY IRWIN is the Publisher of <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong>, which is celebrating its<br />

10th anniversary with this issue. Follow GBK on Facebook and access<br />

our archived issues at www.greybrucekids.com. She is also the Publisher<br />

of <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> and Huron-Perth Boomers magazines.<br />

Jace, left, and Layne enjoy sunset at Dream Beach on the<br />

Indonesian island of Nusa Lembongan.<br />

BY PLAYING A CRITICAL ROLE IN<br />

CANADA’S CLEAN ENERGY FUTURE.<br />

brucepower.com<br />

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HEALTH<br />

Importance<br />

OF POSTURE<br />

DO YOU CRINGE AT YOUR CHILD’S POSTURE?<br />

BY DR. BRAD MURRAY<br />

10 GREY-BRUCE KIDS • WINTER <strong>2021</strong>/<strong>22</strong>


Most of us, as parents, have at one time told our children<br />

to sit up straight and don’t slouch. Most of us likely do so<br />

without knowing why.<br />

With the increase in use of smartphones, video games, tablets,<br />

and home-schooling due to COVID, it may seem like your kids<br />

are looking at a screen the majority of their day. In fact, one<br />

study found that children and adolescents spend an average of<br />

five to seven hours a day with their head flexed forward.<br />

Poor posture, including only 15 degrees of forward bending,<br />

as with looking down at a phone, has been shown to triple the<br />

stress of your head on your neck. This can lead to forward head<br />

posture, and associated neck pain, headaches, neck and upper<br />

back stiffness, joint dysfunction, shoulder and trap pain, and<br />

numbness in the arms. This is often referred to as ‘text neck’ or<br />

‘tech neck.’<br />

Chronic forward head position may lead to a number of other<br />

issues as well. These may include the head position that stays<br />

forward, decreased in neck curvature (decreased lordosis),<br />

increase in the mid-back curvature (increased kyphosis),<br />

misalignment of spinal joints, increased rate of wear on spinal<br />

joints, sore and strained muscles, muscle imbalance, early<br />

spinal disc degeneration, permanent changes in the shape of the<br />

spine, Thoracic Outlet Syndrome, and the possibility of more<br />

difficulty breathing and digesting food.<br />

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WHAT IS POSTURE?<br />

Posture can be referred to as the overall position of your body as<br />

you stand, sit, lie down, or with movements.<br />

Good posture involves training your body to stand, walk, sit<br />

and lie, so as to place the least strain on muscles, ligaments, and<br />

joints while you are performing these activities.<br />

When sitting, it is best to sit up straight with support behind<br />

the lower back, knees and elbows and 90 degrees, feet flat on the<br />

floor, and have the screen placed just below eye level.<br />

Ideally, when standing, our ears should be aligned with our<br />

shoulders, which are aligned with our hips, knees, and ankles.<br />

What can kids do to reduce the stress placed on the body with<br />

screen time?<br />

• Get up and move – go for a walk around the room, get a<br />

drink of water every 15 minutes.<br />

• Stretch – reach up with your arms, look up to the ceiling<br />

and hold for 10 seconds every 15 minutes.<br />

• Take breaks from screens when possible and try to limit the<br />

time spent on electronics.<br />

• If possible, try standing with electronic use, as long as<br />

screens are near eye level.<br />

• Maintain good posture<br />

In order to help maintain a healthy posture long term,<br />

getting into a wellness routine that focuses on mobility and<br />

strengthening is a good way to keep your child feeling young<br />

while promoting good posture. Our bodies are designed to be<br />

dynamic, and therefore movement is important. Both flexibility<br />

and strength play a significant role in how your posture<br />

develops. Flexibility and mobility of the spine and body can be<br />

improved with stretching, soft tissue techniques, chiropractic<br />

adjustments, and strengthening exercises.<br />

SIMPLE STRETCHES<br />

• Doorway stretch. Place forearms on the door frames, elbows<br />

at 90 degrees, and lean forward.<br />

• Cat/camel. On hands and knees, raise upper/mid-back<br />

while bringing head down, then raise head upwards while<br />

letting your upper/mid-back arch downward.<br />

• Trapezius stretch. Reach your hand on your head and pull<br />

your head down to the side toward your hip.<br />

• Thoracic extension. Lie on your stomach and push up off<br />

the floor with your forearms to stretch your upper back.<br />

• Foam roller mobility. Lie on your back on top of a foam<br />

roller placed across your upper back, and roll up and down.<br />

• Neck range of motion. Move your neck forward, backward,<br />

side-to-side, and rotate each direction.<br />

• Scap retractions. Sit with your elbows at your side and pull<br />

your shoulder blades back and down.<br />

• Wall angels. Standing with your back and arms against the<br />

wall with elbows near 90 degrees, slowly raise and lower<br />

your arms, keeping your back and arms against the wall.<br />

• Superman. Lying on your stomach, reach arms out in front<br />

and raise your chest and legs off the floor.<br />

These are just a few of the many stretches and exercises that<br />

may help with maintaining a good posture, and there are many<br />

more available. Additionally, having strong core muscles enables<br />

proper posture from the pelvis upwards to the upper back and<br />

neck. Including core strengthening exercises to your child’s<br />

wellness routine would be highly recommended and beneficial.<br />

Realistically, and as a parent of teenage boys, I understand your<br />

kids may not be as excited or motivated as you are to perform<br />

all these exercises. So, start slowly. Pick one stretch, one mobility<br />

exercise, and one or two strengthening exercises. Make it fun by<br />

challenging your kids to see how long they can hold stretches,<br />

or how many sets and reps they can do versus mom or dad.<br />

Have them set a timer on their phone so they will be reminded<br />

to get up and move and stretch every 15 minutes while on their<br />

devices. Pick a time of day to work on their exercises.<br />

Good posture is about more than standing up straight so you<br />

can look your best. It is an important part of your long-term<br />

health. Making sure that you hold your body the right way,<br />

whether you are moving or still, can prevent pain, injuries, and<br />

other health problems.<br />

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years. Contact him at 519-528-5083, drbrad@lucknowchiropractic.com<br />

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12 GREY-BRUCE KIDS • WINTER <strong>2021</strong>/<strong>22</strong>


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HEALTH<br />

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YOUR<br />

IT’S IMPORTANT PARENTS STAY HEALTHY IN TRYING TIMES<br />

BY TORI HAMILTON


As parents, it’s easy to find ourselves solely focused on caring<br />

for our children. Parenting, though exhausting at times, is<br />

such a rewarding experience.<br />

We gladly give our energy, time, and money to make sure that<br />

our kids have a childhood brimming with positive experiences.<br />

Every waking moment is spent cleaning, organizing, hugging,<br />

washing, wiping, cooking, consoling, helping… well, you get<br />

the point.<br />

With the pandemic approaching two years, there is another layer<br />

of expectations on us to have it all together, and it’s heavy. This<br />

constant feeling of having to stay ever-vigilant in case of another<br />

school shutdown or a change in public health guidelines, layered<br />

on top of the usual parenting challenges, has many of us on<br />

the verge of collapse. After a while, giving ourselves fully to our<br />

families can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and even resentment.<br />

If these feelings resonate with you, you are not alone. Whether<br />

you have a teenager struggling with isolation, a nine-year-old<br />

who is struggling academically, or a toddler who hasn’t been in a<br />

grocery store let-alone on a playdate – we are all in this together.<br />

One of the biggest predictors of a child’s mental health and<br />

well-being is their parents’ mental health and well-being. As<br />

we enter parenthood, we can lose sight of things we enjoyed<br />

doing. The truth is, there are many of us running around with<br />

an empty tank right now. It’s hard to stay present for our kids<br />

when we feel this way. We may begin to use unhealthy coping<br />

mechanisms to help us get through our days. Our mental health<br />

can suffer too, which can lead us to act in a way that is not<br />

consistent with our parenting values and beliefs.<br />

Above all else, our kids want happy, healthy parents. When we<br />

shift our perspective to recognize that our wellness impacts our<br />

entire family, it doesn’t seem selfish at all to invest in ourselves.<br />

When we make our own needs a priority, our kids learn that it’s<br />

OK to prioritize their own wellness.<br />

Below are some ideas of what we can do to put our wellness first.<br />

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we can’t be good at everything. When you fail (and you will<br />

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An example – I have never been a morning person, and I<br />

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FILL YOUR CUP<br />

Emotional needs<br />

• Talk to a therapist or health care provider who<br />

has training in perinatal mood and anxiety<br />

problems.<br />

• Learn as much as you can about pregnancy and<br />

postpartum depression and anxiety.<br />

• Build an empathy team of like-minded friends<br />

who are simply there to listen, not fix things.<br />

• Positive self-talk. Tell yourself you are loved and<br />

keep a gratitude list.<br />

Social needs<br />

• Get support from family and friends. Ask for<br />

help when you need it.<br />

• Join a support group in your area or online.<br />

• Unfollow social media accounts and avoid<br />

websites that make you feel bad about your life.<br />

• Plan a coffee date with a friend or a daily phone<br />

call to socialize.<br />

• Set up “date nights” with your partner once a<br />

month.<br />

Physical needs<br />

• Drink lots of water! Aim for at least two litres<br />

per day, as dehydration is common.<br />

• Make time for eating and focus on balanced,<br />

healthy nutrition.<br />

• Aim for eight hours of sleep a day, however, that<br />

looks for you.<br />

• Sit in the sunlight each morning (Vitamin D!).<br />

• Physically connect with loved ones – a 10-20<br />

second hug releases oxytocin.<br />

Spiritual needs<br />

• Pause for a moment, listen to the birds,<br />

appreciate the blue sky, be in the moment and<br />

breathe.<br />

• Develop a yoga and/or mindfulness-based<br />

routine.<br />

• Start a gratitude or reflective journal.<br />

Practical needs<br />

• Outsource/delegate.<br />

• If you have older children, give them a chore list<br />

and develop a self-care routine for them.<br />

• Don’t track your baby’s sleeping and feeding<br />

routines if it impacts your mental health.<br />

• Say “no” to extra work when possible.<br />

• Work on a budget with your partner.<br />

Mental needs<br />

• Listen to a podcast or audiobook while doing<br />

work around the house.<br />

• Watch a season (or two or three) of a favourite<br />

show.<br />

• Decorate your home, paint, shop, reorganize –<br />

make your space your own.<br />

right for you and your family. Life will go so much smoother for<br />

you that way. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing –<br />

they’re not perfect either. Those pictures on social media? Fake<br />

news. People are often too busy with their own lives that they’re<br />

not as focused on our lives as we may think.<br />

Spend some time thinking about what makes you, you!<br />

Becoming a parent is such a huge transition, and it can swallow<br />

us up in one bite. Do yourself a favour and think back to what<br />

used to really lift your soul before having kids. What did you<br />

love spending your creative energies on? Did you love to paint?<br />

Did you practice yoga, go for walks in the forest, sing along to<br />

punk music in your car, or skip rocks on the water? I want you<br />

to write down your favourite thing and then brainstorm ways<br />

you can add it back into your life – even just a little – now that<br />

you have kids. Talk to your partner, family, and friends about<br />

what you love doing and ask them to help you. Chances are,<br />

there will be a way you can do it. This will be the best selfcare<br />

you will ever have. It will fill your cup up so that those<br />

mundane, everyday tasks don’t feel as heavy, and you may find it<br />

easier to connect with your kids.<br />

Recognize your triggers. We all have them. Triggers are<br />

things that can set you off emotionally and throw you into a<br />

fight, flight, or freeze mode. These triggers are often related to<br />

previous experiences that we had, and we automatically go into<br />

self-preservation mode. Once you start noticing these triggers<br />

and what your body does in reaction to them, then you can<br />

anticipate it happening. When you know they are coming and<br />

you can name these feelings, the after-effects won’t last as long.<br />

This means that you can snap out of your funks much faster and<br />

go back to enjoying your life.<br />

I’ll give you an example – when I have something important<br />

coming up, I usually end up with knots in my stomach and I<br />

can’t eat or sleep. I go into hyper-vigilance (flight) state, trying<br />

to clean my disaster of a house at record speed, leaving my kids<br />

and husband in complete awe and utter confusion. Then I get<br />

snappy because I haven’t eaten and I’m exhausted. Now that I<br />

recognize this behaviour, I can spend less time in this state by<br />

doing something that calms me down. This could be listening to<br />

a mindfulness track, doing 10 minutes of yoga or forcing myself<br />

to take a break to eat. We all have traumas and triggers. Our kids<br />

often pick up on them before we do, which isn’t fair to them.<br />

Figuring out what sets you off will make your home run much<br />

more smoothly.<br />

Set boundaries and stick to them. I don’t know about you, but<br />

for me COVID-19 has put a lot of strain on my relationships.<br />

Once you know your triggers (again, write them down), it’s<br />

important you set boundaries to protect yourself as much as<br />

possible. Here’s another example – when my kids playfully hold<br />

onto my leg and want a ride, it makes my stomach flip and my<br />

skin crawl. I used to get upset at them for it, which is completely<br />

unfair. Now, I have been able to set a clear, age-appropriate<br />

boundary so that we both don’t need to be in that awkward<br />

situation. They now know that my foot is a no-sit zone.<br />

This can apply to your kids, friends, family, the school system,<br />

your co-workers, daycare, whatever. You may get some pushback


ut stick with it. Change is hard for all of us, and, while setting<br />

boundaries is often new for us, people will pick up on it. Having<br />

clear boundaries in the long run will help solidify all of your<br />

relationships, as miscommunications become less frequent and<br />

everyone knows where you stand. Setting boundaries isn’t easy,<br />

but it’s so worth it.<br />

Try to spend more time in conscious awareness. Have you<br />

ever driven for 10 minutes to the store and not remember the<br />

trip? That’s because you were probably thinking of a million<br />

things that you have (or feel like you have) to do. Maintaining<br />

conscious awareness takes a lot of practice, but it will make<br />

parenting so much easier.<br />

The next time your kids are acting out, try this – once they are<br />

relatively settled post-meltdown, sit down with them in a quiet<br />

place. Look at their face, touch their hair, smile at them, and tell<br />

them you love them. See them for who they are. Eventually, you<br />

will see the wall fall and they will begin pouring out their heart.<br />

Ask them why they had their meltdown and empathize with<br />

them. They will never feel so connected, and a connected child<br />

is much easier to reason with than one who feels alone.<br />

Shoot for 10 minutes of connection a day with each of your<br />

children. Sounds easy enough, right? If you’re finding it hard to<br />

stay connected for that long, try setting a timer for yourself. As<br />

your kids start looking forward to these special moments, you<br />

may find that attention-seeking behaviours lessen, and drop-offs<br />

become less stressful.<br />

If you find yourself saying, “Everything is fine,” and it’s not,<br />

indeed, fine – stop. Most likely, everything right now in your<br />

life is not fine. I’m not fine. You’re not fine. We are not fine. So<br />

why do we say it? Often we don’t want to burden others, or even<br />

ourselves, with what’s really going on.<br />

The best thing to do? Talk it through with someone who will lift<br />

you up. The important thing is to find someone who can listen<br />

without trying to fix the situation, place blame or try to tell you<br />

what your problem is – it can be a therapist, a friend, family<br />

member, whoever. Just be careful with who you share your<br />

truths with. Once you have commiserated and feel a bit better,<br />

work through some small changes you can make to your life,<br />

and then plan to take some even smaller steps to get there. Some<br />

situations (such as leaving an abusive relationship) involve big<br />

changes and you will need lots of support. Remember, any sort<br />

of change includes ups and downs, good days and not-so-good<br />

days.<br />

Eventually, you will see a shift and you won’t want to look back.<br />

TORI HAMILTON, BScN, RN, IBCLC, PMH-C, is a mom of four and has<br />

been a Registered Nurse for 10 years with experience in Obstetrics.<br />

She helps parents navigate the postpartum period, with a focus on<br />

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COOL KIDS<br />

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NOW<br />

EDEN BABBITT<br />

<strong>Winter</strong> 2019/20<br />

Over the past two years Eden, now 15<br />

and in Grade 10, has continued her<br />

work with Eden for Our Environment.<br />

Her Instagram page features tips on<br />

greener living as well as updates on her<br />

projects. Last Christmas, Eden sold<br />

tickets and raffled off a gift basket filled<br />

with environmentally friendly goodies,<br />

raising over $500 for the Jane Goodall<br />

Institute of Canada.<br />

This is also around the time the idea for<br />

her summer <strong>2021</strong> adventure was born.<br />

After chatting about her family’s annual<br />

trip to the cottage, Eden was thinking<br />

about how she could get there with as<br />

little environmental impact as possible.<br />

She has always loved biking and decided<br />

she would embark on a mission to ride<br />

to Tobermory from her house in Lurgan<br />

Beach, near Point Clark.<br />

Eden began working with her trainer Vy<br />

Waller, as well as three other women, for the<br />

190 km ride. The team consisted of Eden,<br />

Vy, Sandy Elston, Terri Rintoul and Jen<br />

Bedford. Together the five of them built up<br />

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THEN<br />

NOW<br />

CHRISTOPHER PENNINGTON<br />

<strong>Winter</strong> 2015/16<br />

Christopher, 16, lives in Kincardine. He was diagnosed<br />

with kidney disease in 2015 and, since then, he and<br />

his family and friends have raised $85,000 for the Kidney<br />

Foundation of Canada.<br />

Christopher chooses to embrace his disease and search for<br />

options to bring awareness to his community by participating<br />

in and chairing local walks. His passion to search for a cure for<br />

kidney disease and a world without failure is truly incredible at<br />

such an early age.<br />

Christopher has been recognized many times for his efforts,<br />

receiving a Volunteer of the Year Award in 2016, the Excellence<br />

in Fundraising Award from the Ontario Kidney Foundation<br />

in 2017, the Meridian Good Neighbour Award in 2018 from<br />

the Kincardine and District Chamber of Commerce, and a<br />

Huron-<strong>Bruce</strong> Remarkable Citizen Award in 2019. He was also<br />

awarded the Ontario Junior Citizen Award in 2020, as well as<br />

the Kidney Walk of Excellence Award.<br />

He plans to continue raising funds for the charity that’s closest<br />

to his heart.<br />

their endurance for the two-day journey. As she trained, Eden also<br />

worked hard to raise funds and sponsorships for the trip.<br />

On Aug. 18 her team biked the first 100 km, ending in Wiarton.<br />

The next day, they rode the remaining 90.1 km, arriving at the<br />

Tobermory ferry terminal just after noon, accompanied by an<br />

OPP cruiser with sirens blaring and lights flashing.<br />

Eden raised $5,355 for her favourite charity, the Jane Goodall<br />

Institute of Canada. She was also successful in inspiring people<br />

to think about their own environmental impact and learn how<br />

to make better, greener choices. On Sept. 17, Eden travelled to<br />

Toronto to deliver her donation in person. She was welcomed by<br />

the staff of the JGIC with much enthusiasm and gratitude.<br />

Eden attends Sacred Heart High School in Walkerton. She<br />

is starting an environmental committee there and continues<br />

to work tirelessly to bring awareness and raise funds with the<br />

hope of protecting the natural world. Eden also works for At<br />

Last Forest Schools as a leader, teaching the next generation of<br />

children all about the wonders of nature and the need to protect<br />

our Earth from the devastating damages of climate change.<br />

Keep your eyes open – you haven’t seen the last of Eden Babbitt.<br />

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NOW<br />

THEN<br />

OLIVIA AND HARPER LITTLE<br />

<strong>Winter</strong> 2017/18<br />

Olivia and Harper Little, of Port Elgin, are<br />

in Grade 6 and 3 respectively at Edge Hill<br />

Country School, which is a big change for them<br />

as they’ve been home-schooled until this year.<br />

Olivia – who lives with the rare disease Cystinosis<br />

and is well known locally as the face of the Liv-<br />

A-Little Foundation – has been fortunate to have<br />

her health remain stable. She has joined the swim<br />

team and was the top fundraiser last year. Her<br />

favourite stroke is the fly, and she loves being in<br />

the water with her team.<br />

Harper is on her way to becoming a master at<br />

crocheting, and she will ‘art and craft’ any material<br />

left behind.<br />

Compassion, kindness and understanding remain<br />

their super-powers.<br />

CORBIN CUNEO<br />

Spring 2013<br />

Corbin is currently in Grade 11 at John Diefenbaker Secondary<br />

School in Hanover. His favourite classes are gym and<br />

manufacturing (welding).<br />

His interests include playing basketball and hockey, four-wheeling,<br />

cars, hunting, and, of course, PlayStation.<br />

Corbin recently got a job at Harvey’s, and his future education plans<br />

include either law enforcement or the skilled trades.<br />

Corbin, the first Cool Kid featured in <strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Kids</strong>, is holding<br />

the signed Owen Sound Attack stick he received for being<br />

recognized by the magazine and the team, an early partner of the<br />

Cool Kid feature.<br />

20 GREY-BRUCE KIDS • WINTER <strong>2021</strong>/<strong>22</strong>


THEN<br />

NOW<br />

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FAMILY<br />

Best. Job. Ever.<br />

WHO KNEW BEING A GRANDPARENT WOULD BE SO MUCH FUN?<br />

BY SANDE AND RICK IRWIN


Crouched down – so close to the earth that I can smell the<br />

rich, dark soil – I peer at the tiny bug making its way across<br />

the puddle in the driveway; a puddle that must seem like a vast<br />

ocean.<br />

A little hand reaches out to offer a safe resting place, no fear of<br />

creepy crawlies, just an inquisitive child wanting to explore. It is<br />

during these encounters that I feel the most blessed to have the<br />

best job in the world, one that has no schedule, no limits, no<br />

judgment... just pure, in-the-moment wonder.<br />

On Nov. 7, 2012, my husband Rick and I were promoted to<br />

the best job ever… we became grandparents. From that day on<br />

we became Nana and Ba (our granddaughter Gracie’s choice as<br />

she learned to say Grandpa), and knew that every day we would<br />

work on developing a loving, supportive and joyful relationship<br />

with her and with her brother Gavin, who arrived over three<br />

years later.<br />

Grandparents provide a different type of relationship than<br />

parents do with their kids. Speaking for ourselves, it is a more<br />

relaxed experience. Without the pressures that come with raising<br />

children, our role as grandparents is one of unconditional love<br />

and support, filling our time together with imaginative play and<br />

creativity, while passing down skills and knowledge. Grandkids<br />

love to learn and what better way to spend time than learning<br />

something together.<br />

The pandemic has made it difficult for some families to nurture<br />

the grandparent and grandchild relationship. In our case, our<br />

grandkids live in the U.S., and with border closures, it has<br />

been a challenge to see them. Thankfully with technology, we<br />

can talk every day and share some of their milestones and daily<br />

happenings. We have had tours of Gracie’s doll house, been<br />

shown her dolls and their extensive wardrobe, listened to tales<br />

from Girl Scout meetings, checked out all the cool bugs and<br />

reptiles in her book, and enjoyed a dance party or two. Gavin<br />

will call and ask what we did that day, telling us all we need to<br />

know about tractors, showing us his latest creations, and playing<br />

dress up.<br />

Many times when the kids video chat, all they want to do is<br />

play around with the settings to become dragons or catch pizza<br />

instead of chatting. What is a grandparent supposed to do?<br />

Play along, enjoy the giggles, become a pizza eating dragon!<br />

Sometimes we read a book or have the kids read to us. There are<br />

many ways to interact using the Internet such as family Bingo<br />

games or watching movies together. We have even organized<br />

charades, favourite jokes nights and trivia calls with them.<br />

Our grandkids know they can call any time to share anything<br />

with us... even if it is a 30 second call to say they just saw a<br />

snake eat a frog on TV! It always makes our hearts sing when we<br />

receive a voicemail notification from them and have fun sending<br />

one back.<br />

When the kids are here we are completely invested in their time<br />

with us. The chore list is shortened so that our precious time<br />

with them is maximized. The great outdoors never fails to keep<br />

us all active as we build memories together. Sharing our love of<br />

respecting Mother Nature through gentle exploration, teaching<br />

them how things grow, and child-led play has us looking at the<br />

world with new wonder as we experience it through their eyes.<br />

Gracie wants to be a master baker so we spend time learning<br />

how to make macarons or basket weave pastry for a pie. While<br />

the pie is baking, you will find us outside saving a bug or<br />

learning to change a tire. Gavin is all about farm work and you<br />

never see him without his John Deere hat. If he isn’t outside on<br />

the tractor with Ba, you will find him and Nana building a Lego<br />

city or helping Ba bake cookies.<br />

Sometimes letting their time with us be child-led allows for a<br />

day filled with learning together about a mushroom we saw on<br />

a walk in the woods, or tracks left by a woodland creature. Just<br />

the simple question, “What do you want to learn about today?”<br />

opens an incredible opportunity for adventure.<br />

Many times our everyday activities around our property and<br />

in the house allow for learning and play... nothing fancy or<br />

planned, just sharing our knowledge. It’s important for us<br />

to spend time doing things they find interesting but just as<br />

important to do things with them that you enjoy or they may<br />

not have the opportunity to be exposed to, such as planting a<br />

garden or raising chickens. It’s all a part of sharing what you love<br />

with an open heart and open mind. You might not really like<br />

painting rocks but the time spent chatting and being creative is<br />

time well spent.<br />

We like to travel with our grandkids and do our best to<br />

introduce them to different cultures and experiences. It adds<br />

an element of pureness to travel since they don’t have any<br />

judgments and always live in the moment. There’s nothing like<br />

returning to a place you have visited previously and visiting<br />

again with your grandkids... I guarantee you will have a totally<br />

different experience seeing it through their eyes.<br />

World travel with our grandkids started early with a volunteer<br />

trip to Nicaragua when Gracie was five and Gavin was 18<br />

months. Watching them playing with the local kids reminded<br />

us that we are all the same no matter how you live or what you<br />

have.<br />

Volunteering and giving back has always been a part of our<br />

family life. As grandparents it’s important to us to instill this<br />

value within our grandchildren, whether it be locally, such as<br />

picking up garbage or helping at an event, or global service,<br />

such as designing a bookmark to raise funds for sea turtles or<br />

gathering supplies for a sloth sanctuary.<br />

We truly believe that experiences are better than things, and you<br />

don’t have to travel far – there is so much to do in our own area.<br />

Spend a night in a yurt, plan a day-long road trip, go on a search<br />

for the best poutine, do a scavenger hunt or Bingo at a local<br />

provincial park, take them to a play or a concert, visit the local<br />

library, museum or art gallery, take a class together, volunteer<br />

at an event, hike or cycle the local trails, or pick up litter in a<br />

playground. The things to do are truly endless.<br />

A lovely way to nurture the grandparent/child relationship is by<br />

having routines and traditions.<br />

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The kids know that when they come to visit we always have slow<br />

mornings, waffles, Nana’s butter tarts, and cookouts. We do our<br />

best to follow bedtime routines and homeschooling agenda that<br />

their parents have set in place.<br />

Every day is an opportunity to start a new tradition. We are<br />

going to start having “world cuisine and traditions” days, where<br />

we will learn things throughout the time they are with us about<br />

a chosen country. What do they eat there, what do kids play<br />

there, what traditions do they have and how do they live? It will<br />

be fun to do some cooking together with ingredients they might<br />

not have an opportunity to try otherwise.<br />

Being a grandparent isn’t just about fun and games though. It<br />

does come with a learning curve.<br />

It means taking a step back and respecting that you are not the<br />

parent and what that means when it comes to boundaries and<br />

different perspectives. Keeping an open and positive dialogue<br />

with the child’s parents is key to developing a supportive<br />

environment.<br />

There have been times we have raised our eyebrows, but it is<br />

important to recognize that our ideas of child-rearing might<br />

be different than theirs. We’ve let our daughter and son-in-law<br />

explore what works for them and develop their own parenting<br />

THINGS YOU CAN DO TO CULTIVATE<br />

A MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP<br />

WITH YOUR GRANDKIDS<br />

• Read a chapter book together.<br />

• Ask what they would like to learn about.<br />

• Have them teach you how to play their<br />

favourite game.<br />

• Plan a trip... imaginary or real.<br />

• Cook together... share a family recipe or<br />

find a new one to add to the collection.<br />

• Build a fire and have a cookout.<br />

• Play charades over Zoom.<br />

• Go on a scavenger hunt.<br />

• Watch a movie or documentary about<br />

the Earth and animals.<br />

• Do outdoor activities like archery, hiking,<br />

cycling, and tree identification.<br />

• Plant a garden.<br />

• Learn a new skill together such as knottying<br />

or making jam.<br />

• Let them help with everyday chores<br />

and activities.<br />

• Get dirty, jump in puddles and dance in<br />

the rain.<br />

• Share your stories of growing up.<br />

style, knowing they will ask for our opinion or advice when<br />

needed. We don’t have to agree, but being respectful and having<br />

a clear understanding of their style will allow you to develop<br />

your own way of grandparenting, one that will compliment<br />

theirs.<br />

Being their cheering squad and acknowledging their struggles<br />

and triumphs as a parent is sometimes all they need... not<br />

your opinion. It’s also important for parents to know what<br />

boundaries, if any, the grandparent might have, and to be clear<br />

on what they see as their role.<br />

Asking grandparents to watch the kids every once in a while is<br />

OK but be careful not to take advantage of their generosity...<br />

they have already raised their family and who knows, maybe<br />

they now have the time to pursue interests they didn’t previously.<br />

We cherish the relationships we have nurtured with our<br />

grandkids. If, for whatever reason, that is not possible for you,<br />

then get creative and seek out alternatives. Adopt a senior<br />

friend or neighbour that your child can develop a grandparent<br />

relationship with. Find them a common interest or maybe<br />

something they would like to learn from each other. Schedule<br />

video chats if they are unable to get together.<br />

If there is one thing we’ve learned as grandparents and can pass<br />

along is to slow down. Spend more time together exploring and<br />

experiencing the world. Don’t fill your calendar up with group<br />

activities. Time is so important and, as grandparents, we usually<br />

have this luxury, but just by taking one thing off your calendar<br />

and spending that time together, planned or not, will allow you<br />

to be more in the moment. We have also learned that being<br />

active and healthy makes it a lot easier to keep up with our<br />

grandkids, and opens the door to try new things together.<br />

Who says Nana can’t go ziplining in Costa Rica with her<br />

seven-year-old granddaughter? Or how about physical work like<br />

stacking wood with Ba? We have learned to be more flexible and<br />

tolerant, and not worry so much about crossing things off the<br />

‘to do’ list. If we are in the middle of something and Gracie or<br />

Gavin have a question or want to show us something, we stop<br />

and become invested in this gift of a moment with them.<br />

Being a grandparent has been life-changing. Sometimes it can<br />

be frustrating and sometimes it can be challenging, but it is<br />

filled with love, snuggles, and giggles. Be kind to yourself when<br />

it comes to navigating this new role, because you are learning as<br />

you go.<br />

It’s not always what you expect it to be, but if you remember<br />

that the relationship is more important than “the rules,” you will<br />

be rewarded with a relationship that will continue to be special<br />

as your grandchild grows.<br />

My greatest hope is that my grandkids will still want to spend<br />

time at Camp BaNana, exploring and sharing stories when they<br />

are teenagers and adults. GBK<br />

SANDE and RICK IRWIN are self-proclaimed foodies, homesteaders<br />

and adventure travellers, living in rural <strong>Bruce</strong> County. Sharing their love<br />

for life brings them great joy.


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RESOURCES<br />

ABUSE<br />

Assaulted Women’s Helpline<br />

Crisis line: 1-866-863-0511<br />

www.awhl.org<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />

(<strong>Bruce</strong> and <strong>Grey</strong> Children’s Aid Societies<br />

amalgamated April 1, 2012)<br />

1-855-3<strong>22</strong>-4453<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384; 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Saugeen First Nation - Kabaeshiwim<br />

Respite Women’s Shelter<br />

519-797-2521<br />

cgeorge@saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

Sexual Assault and Partner<br />

Abuse Care Centre<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Services<br />

1-888-525-0552 or www.gbhs.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Victim Services <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Perth<br />

Crisis: 1-866-376-9852<br />

Administration: 1-888-577-3111<br />

info@victim-services.com<br />

www.victim-services.com<br />

Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />

Owen Sound - 1-866-259-4823<br />

Walkerton - 1-866-994-9904<br />

attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />

http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />

Women’s Centre (<strong>Grey</strong> and <strong>Bruce</strong>)<br />

Administration: 519-376-0755<br />

Crisis: 1-800-265-37<strong>22</strong><br />

womenscentre@bmts.com<br />

www.bmts.com/~womenscentre<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Women’s House Serving <strong>Bruce</strong> and <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Sexual assault crisis: 1-866-578-5566<br />

Crisis line: 1-800-265-3026<br />

Administration: (519) 396-9814<br />

crisis@whsbg.on.ca<br />

www.whsbg.on.ca<br />

Kincardine<br />

BREASTFEEDING<br />

Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />

1-866-507-<strong>2021</strong> or 519-881-1920<br />

RN/certified Lactation Consultant available<br />

www.bafht.com<br />

Walkerton<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

RN/Certified Lactation Consultant<br />

519-506-4348<br />

www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

La Leche League Canada<br />

Owen Sound; 519-376-5916; www.lllc.ca<br />

Moms Walkerton<br />

New Mom support<br />

320 Durham St.., Walkerton; 519-379-6769<br />

Support groups<br />

Southampton, Port Elgin, Paisley, and Tara -<br />

519-797-2010<br />

Kincardine, Ripley, Tiverton, and Lucknow -<br />

519-368-4847<br />

South-<strong>Bruce</strong> Breastfeeding Buddies -<br />

519-881-1920<br />

Wiarton and <strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula - 519-534-0912<br />

Markdale - 519-369-3381<br />

Owen Sound - 519-372-1330<br />

The Mama Nurse<br />

www.themamanurse.com<br />

CHILDBIRTH<br />

Glamma Doula<br />

Christine Piotrowski, Postpartum Doula<br />

www.glammadoula.com; 519-477-9985<br />

Hanover and District Hospital Obstetrics/<br />

Family Centred Care Birthing Centre<br />

519-364-2340<br />

admin@hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />

www.hanoverhospital.on.ca<br />

Midwives <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

519-371-2886<br />

www.midwivesgreybruce.com<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Owen Sound Hospital Labour and Delivery<br />

519-376-2121<br />

www.gbhs.on.ca/owensound.php<br />

Walkerton Hospital Family Birthing Centre<br />

519-881-1<strong>22</strong>0<br />

www.sbghc.on.ca<br />

CHILD CARE<br />

Acorn Montessori<br />

705-606-1642<br />

Thornbury<br />

Amabel-Sauble Child Care Centre<br />

519-4<strong>22</strong>-3611<br />

Sauble Beach<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach<br />

519-599-2577<br />

Bobi’s Playschool<br />

519-538-5483<br />

Meaford<br />

Brockton Child Care Centre<br />

sbross@brockton.ca<br />

Brooke Montessori Toddler Program<br />

519-376-3447<br />

Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

519-881-0431 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula Family Centre<br />

519-793-4100<br />

Lion’s Head<br />

Chesley Nursery School<br />

519-363-9544<br />

Durham Nursery School<br />

519-369-6973<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

519-376-7324<br />

www.greycounty.ca/childcare<br />

Hanover Montessori Children's House<br />

1-800-906-7036 or 519-364-6455<br />

Happy Hearts Day Care Centre<br />

519-376-1284<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Inglenook Creche Day Care<br />

519-371-9471; Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> & Us Community Childcare<br />

and Family Education Centres<br />

Ayton - 519-665-20<strong>22</strong><br />

Dundalk - 519-923-2182<br />

Durham - 519-369-9911<br />

Holstein - 519-334-3132<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3692<br />

Osprey - 519-9<strong>22</strong>-2333<br />

Paisley - 519-353-7<strong>22</strong>0<br />

www.kidsandus.ca<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> Street Nursery School - Port Elgin<br />

519-389-9050<br />

Kinhuron Integrated Day Nursery School<br />

Co-op<br />

519-396-4532<br />

Kincardine<br />

Le Jardin des decouvertes - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-4411<br />

Military Family Resource Centre - Meaford<br />

519-538-1371 x6753<br />

mfrc.meaford@sympatico.ca<br />

www.mfrcmeaford.com<br />

Meaford Co-operative Nursery School<br />

519-538-3854<br />

Nawash N'Shiime Day Care Centre<br />

519-534-3909<br />

Neyaashiinigmiing (Cape Croker)<br />

OneList – Find and apply for child care<br />

brucecountychildcare.ca<br />

greycountychildcare.ca<br />

Queen of Hearts Nursery School<br />

109 Balmy Beach Rd., Owen Sound<br />

www.queenofheartsnurseryschool.com<br />

Sandbox Daycare - Hanover<br />

519-506-7263<br />

Saugeen First Nation G’Shaw-da-Gawin<br />

Day Care Centre<br />

519-797-2419<br />

gshawdagawin@bmts.com<br />

www.saugeenfirstnation.ca<br />

Tobermory Primary Place<br />

519-596-2606<br />

Unity House - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-8686<br />

Viola Jean’s Garden Daycare - Owen Sound<br />

519-416-5633 or 519-371-2362<br />

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Wiarton <strong>Kids</strong> Den Day Care/<strong>Kids</strong> Club<br />

School age Program<br />

519-534-4434<br />

Wiarton Nursery School<br />

519-534-2121<br />

Wooden Hill Child Care Centre (La Colline<br />

De Bois) at Notre Dame School<br />

519-376-6952<br />

Owen Sound<br />

YMCA Childcare<br />

Arran Tara - 519-376-0484<br />

Hanover - 519-364-4938<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-96<strong>22</strong><br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-0484<br />

Port Elgin - 519-832-6<strong>22</strong>5<br />

Ripley - 519-395-5570<br />

ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

DIET/NUTRITION<br />

EatRight Ontario<br />

Ministry of Health Promotion and Sport<br />

1-877-510-5102; www.eatrightontario.ca<br />

Foodlink <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

Find locally grown meat, fruit and produce<br />

www.foodlinkgreybruce.com<br />

Good Food Box<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />

519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

519-506-4348; www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384, 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

Ontario Student Nutrition Program <strong>Grey</strong><br />

<strong>Bruce</strong><br />

www.osnp.ca<br />

EDUCATION<br />

Academy of Learning - Owen Sound<br />

1077 2nd Ave. E., Suite B (2nd floor)<br />

519-371-6188 or www.academytraining.ca<br />

Adult Learning Centres<br />

Collingwood, Port Elgin, Markdale, Owen<br />

Sound, Walkerton, Wiarton<br />

www.adultlearningcentres.com<br />

Bluewater District School Board<br />

1-800-661-7509 or www.bwdsb.on.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong>-<strong>Grey</strong> Catholic District School Board<br />

519-364-5820 or www.bgcdsb.org<br />

Conseil Scolaire Catholique Providence<br />

(French Catholic School Board)<br />

1-888-768-<strong>22</strong>19; www.cscprovidence.ca<br />

Edgehill Country School, Durham<br />

www.edgehillschool.org<br />

Georgian Tutors<br />

www.georgiantutors.com<br />

EMPLOYMENT SERVICES<br />

JobsWork<br />

Aimee Kim, Job Developer, akim@clkd.ca<br />

519-396-9434 x<strong>22</strong>3<br />

Leads Employment Services<br />

1051 2nd Ave. E Owen Sound<br />

1-866-955-3237<br />

www.leadsservices.com<br />

Live<strong>Grey</strong><strong>Bruce</strong><br />

www.livegreybruce.ca<br />

VPI Employment Strategies (Walkerton)<br />

519-881-4900 or 1-855-260-4900<br />

jobswalkerton@vpi-inc.com<br />

www.vpi-inc.com<br />

YMCA Employment Services<br />

1450 1st Ave. W., Suite 4A, Owen Sound<br />

519-371-9<strong>22</strong>2<br />

employmentservices@ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

FAMILY SUPPORT<br />

211 Ontario<br />

Online database of services in your area<br />

www.211ontario.ca<br />

Aspire Youth Services Inc.<br />

Ryan McLeod, CPT, RSW, MSW, CYC (BA)<br />

ryanmcleodplaytherapy@gmail.com<br />

aspireyouth.ca; 416-417-7098<br />

Big Brothers Big Sisters<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-4449<br />

www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/bbowensound<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3565<br />

www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca/kincardine<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family Services<br />

1-855-3<strong>22</strong>-4453<br />

www.bgcfs.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Mentorship<br />

504 10th St., Suite 2, Hanover<br />

519-506-5065<br />

www.brucegreymentorship.ca<br />

Chippewas of Nawash Unceded First Nation<br />

- Native Child Welfare - Cape Croker<br />

519-534-3818<br />

supervisor.ncw@gbtel.ca<br />

www.nawash.ca<br />

EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />

Chesley, Hanover, Kincardine, Markdale,<br />

Meaford, M’Wikwedong (Owen Sound), Owen<br />

Sound (East Ridge), Port Elgin, Thornbury,<br />

Wiarton<br />

1-800-616-8116<br />

Family Support Initiative<br />

Peer support for family of those with mental<br />

health issues<br />

519-371-4802; fsi@hopegb.org<br />

mhagb.ca<br />

Grandparent Network<br />

For grandparents raising grandchildren<br />

Meets first Monday of month at 9:30 a.m.<br />

Owen Sound<br />

Call Mary Nuckowski at 519-371-2498<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Supervised Access Program<br />

519-371-5991; pc-superacc@bmts.com<br />

www.supervisedaccess.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> Help Phone<br />

1-800-668-6868 (24 hours)<br />

www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />

Multiples in <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

For families with or expecting multiples<br />

http://multiplesinbrucecounty.webs.com<br />

Nemesis Group Services<br />

Owen Sound; 519-372-2425<br />

www.nemesisgroupservices.com<br />

Parent Help Line<br />

1-888-603-9100<br />

Penetangore Wellness<br />

Art and family therapy<br />

www.penetangorewellness.com<br />

Salvation Army<br />

Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />

Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />

Wiarton - 519-534-0353<br />

Victim Services <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Perth<br />

Crisis: 1-866-376-9852; Admin: 1-888-577-3111<br />

info@victim-services.com;<br />

www.victim-services.com<br />

Victim/Witness Assistance Program<br />

1-866-259-4823 - Owen Sound<br />

1-866-994-9904 - Walkerton<br />

attorneygeneral@ontario.ca<br />

http://bit.ly/ujKyeE<br />

FINANCIAL SUPPORT<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach (Thornbury)<br />

519-599-2577; info@bvo.ca; www.bvo.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Children are Special Foundation<br />

Directs donations to the children programs<br />

provided by <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Child and Family<br />

Services (formerly Children’s Aid)<br />

1-855-3<strong>22</strong>-4453 ext 4133<br />

Social Services<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County - 1-800-265-3119<br />

www.grey.ca/health-social-services/<br />

Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County - 1-800-265-3005<br />

www.brucecounty.on.ca/ontworks.php<br />

Walkerton<br />

United Way of <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

519-376-1560 or manager@unitedwaybg.com<br />

www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com<br />

YMCA of Owen Sound and <strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong><br />

519-376-0484 or ymcaowensound.on.ca<br />

FOOD BANKS/HOUSING<br />

Beaver Valley Outreach - Thornbury<br />

519-599-2577<br />

info@bvo.ca or www.bvo.ca<br />

Durham District Food Bank<br />

Monday and Friday, 9 a.m.-noon<br />

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RESOURCES<br />

Flesherton and Area Food Bank<br />

Marian Doyle, 519-599-3576<br />

Kincardine Ministerial Food Bank<br />

519-396-2185 or circlek@bmts.com<br />

Lion’s Head and District Food Bank<br />

519-793-3860 or helen.rick@amtelecom.net<br />

Markdale and District Food Bank<br />

519-986-3094<br />

Meaford Food Bank<br />

519-538-4550<br />

Paisley Food Bank<br />

Immanuel Evangelical Mission Church<br />

307 Balaclava St.; 519-353-5270 (Carol)<br />

Salvation Army<br />

Hanover - 519-364-3450<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-0957<br />

Port Elgin - 519-389-3942<br />

Tobermory Food Bank<br />

519-596-1501<br />

Walkerton and District Food Bank<br />

519-881-0168<br />

Wiarton Food Bank<br />

519-534-0353<br />

Habitat for Humanity <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

1-866-771-6776 or habitatos@bmts.com<br />

www.habitatgreybruce.com<br />

Ontario Tenants Rights<br />

ontariotenants@hotmail.com<br />

www.ontariotenants.ca<br />

Safe ‘n Sound Homelessness Initiative<br />

519-470-7233; www.safensoundgreybruce.com<br />

Subsidized housing<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County - 1-800-265-30<strong>22</strong><br />

www.brucecounty.on.ca/socialhousing.php<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> County - 376-5744<br />

Online: http://bit.ly/vVG1k0<br />

HEALTH CARE<br />

Auditory Health Care<br />

202 Cayley St., Walkerton<br />

519-881-4994 or info@auditoryhealthcare.com<br />

Brockton and Area Family Health Team<br />

1-866-507-<strong>2021</strong> or www.bafht.com<br />

Walkerton<br />

Canadian Mental Health Association<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>-<strong>Bruce</strong> Branch<br />

Administration - 519-371-3642<br />

Crisis: 1-877-470-5200<br />

jralph@cmhagb.org; www.cmhagb.org<br />

Collingwood General and Marine Hospital<br />

705-445-2550<br />

www.cgmh.on.ca<br />

Connect Rehabilitation, Yoga and Fitness<br />

1100 16th Ave. E., Owen Sound<br />

admin@connectrehab.com; 519-372-2121<br />

www.connectrehab.com<br />

ConnexOntario Help Lines<br />

Drug and alcohol - 1-800-565-8603<br />

Gambling - 1-888-230-3505<br />

Mental health - 1-866-531-2600<br />

www.connexontario.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Services (hospitals)<br />

Lion’s Head - 519-793-3424<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />

Meaford - 519-538-1311<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />

Southampton - 797-3230<br />

Wiarton - 534-1260<br />

www.gbhs.on.ca<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit - Owen Sound<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Hanover and District Hospital<br />

519-364-2340/info@hdhospital.ca<br />

www.hdhospital.ca<br />

Healthy Babies, Healthy Children<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit<br />

519-376-9420 or 1-800-263-3456<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

Hanover Family Health Team<br />

519-506-4348 or dford@hanoverfht.ca<br />

www.hanoverfht.ca<br />

Healthy Smiles Ontario<br />

Dental for families making under $20,000/yr<br />

Register through the health unit<br />

Online: http://bit.ly/JAqJbY<br />

Honouring Life Network<br />

Indigenous youth suicide prevention<br />

www.honouringlife.ca<br />

Hope<strong>Grey</strong><strong>Bruce</strong> - Owen Sound<br />

Mental Health and Addiction Services<br />

519-371-4120 or www.mhagb.ca/gbchc/<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

1-800-567-2384 or 519-371-4773<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

<strong>Kids</strong> Help Phone (24 hours)<br />

1-800-668-6868 or www.kidshelpphone.ca<br />

Kincardine Family Health Team<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-2700<br />

Ripley - 519-395-2601<br />

www.kincardinefht.ca<br />

Mino Bimadsawin Health Centre<br />

57 Mason Dr., Saugeen First Nation<br />

519-797-3336<br />

M’Wikwedong Native Cultural Resource<br />

Centre - Owen Sound<br />

1-866-202-2068 or admin@mwikwedong.com<br />

www.mwikwedong.com<br />

Owen Sound Crisis Pregnancy Centre<br />

1-888-371-2004<br />

oscpc@wightman.ca<br />

Pediatric clinics<br />

Hanover - 519-364-2340<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />

Markdale - 519-986-3040<br />

Owen Sound - 519-376-2121<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1<strong>22</strong>0<br />

Penetangore Wellness<br />

Art and family therapy<br />

www.penetangorewellness.com<br />

Poison Control Centre<br />

1-800-268-9017<br />

Postpartum depression<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit - 1-800-263-3456<br />

Keystone Child, Youth and Family Services -<br />

1-800-567-2384<br />

Sandra Hall Physiotherapy<br />

519-270-6528; shallphysio12@gmail.com<br />

www.sandrahallphysiotherapy.com<br />

South <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong> Health Centre (hospitals)<br />

Chesley - 519-363-2340<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3331<br />

Durham - 519-369-2340<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1<strong>22</strong>0<br />

www.sbghc.on.ca<br />

South East <strong>Grey</strong> Community Health Centre<br />

55 Victoria St., Markdale<br />

519-986-<strong>22</strong><strong>22</strong> or 1-855-519-<strong>22</strong>20<br />

info@segchc.ca or www.segchc.ca<br />

St. John Ambulance First Aid training<br />

519-364-7004 or grey.bruce@on.sja.ca<br />

Online: http://bit.ly/t3Ye8g<br />

TeleHealth Ontario<br />

1-866-797-0007<br />

Thames Valley Children’s Centre<br />

519-396-3360 or 1-866-590-88<strong>22</strong><br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

LIBRARIES<br />

Blue Mountains Public Library/<br />

L.E. Shore Memorial Library<br />

Thornbury<br />

519-599-3681 or thebluemountainslibrary.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Public Library<br />

opac.brucecounty.on.ca; 519-832-6935;<br />

libraryinfo@brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Cargill - 519-366-9990<br />

Chesley - 519-363-<strong>22</strong>39<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3289<br />

Lion’s Head - 519-793-3844<br />

Lucknow - 519-528-3011<br />

Mildmay - 519-367-2814<br />

Paisley - 519-353-7<strong>22</strong>5<br />

Port Elgin - 519-832-<strong>22</strong>01<br />

Ripley - 519-395-5919<br />

Sauble Beach - 519-4<strong>22</strong>-1283<br />

Southampton - 519-797-3586<br />

Tara - 519-934-2626<br />

Teeswater - 519-392-6801<br />

Tiverton - 519-368-5655<br />

Tobermory - 519-596-2446<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-3240<br />

Wiarton - 519-534-2602<br />

Collingwood Public Library<br />

519-445-1571; www.collingwoodpubliclibrary.ca<br />

Dundalk/Southgate Public Library<br />

519-923-3248; http://southgate-library.com/<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Highlands Public Library<br />

Flesherton - 519-924-<strong>22</strong>41<br />

Kimberley - 519-599-6990<br />

Walter Harris Memorial Library (Markdale) -<br />

519-986-3436; greyhighlandspubliclibrary.com<br />

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Hanover Public Library<br />

519-364-1420 or www.hanoverlibrary.ca<br />

Meaford Public Library<br />

519-538-1060<br />

www.meaford.ca/meaford-library-home.html<br />

Owen Sound and North <strong>Grey</strong><br />

Union Public Library<br />

519-376-6623; www.owensound.library.on.ca<br />

West <strong>Grey</strong> Public Library system<br />

www.westgreylibrary.com<br />

Durham (main) branch - 519-369-2107<br />

Elmwood and area - 519-363-3321<br />

Neustadt - 519-799-5830<br />

Ayton/Normanby - 519-799-3242<br />

MUSEUMS<br />

Billy Bishop Heritage Museum - Owen Sound<br />

519-371-0031 or www.billybishop.org<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Lighthouse Museums<br />

Cabot (Lion’s) Head - 519-795-7780<br />

Chantry Island (Southampton) - 866-318-8889<br />

Kincardine - 519-396-3468<br />

Point Clark - 519-395-2494<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Museum, Cultural Centre &<br />

Archives - Southampton<br />

519-797-2080 or www.brucemuseum.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula Visitors Centre<br />

519-596-<strong>22</strong>33 or http://bit.ly/rQQFf6<br />

Tobermory<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Power Visitors’ Centre<br />

519-361-7777; www.brucepower.com<br />

Chesley Heritage & Woodworking Museum<br />

519-363-9837<br />

Craigleith Heritage Depot - Thornbury<br />

519-599-3131<br />

www.thebluemountains.ca/Craigleith-Heritage-Depot.cfm<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> Roots Museum & Archives<br />

Includes county’s archives<br />

1-877-GREY ROOTS; www.greyroots.com<br />

RR4 Owen Sound<br />

Meaford Museum<br />

519-538-5974<br />

www.visitmeaford.com/meaford-museum.html<br />

Owen Sound Marine and Rail Museum<br />

519-371-3333<br />

www.marinerail.com<br />

Paddy Walker Heritage Society - Kincardine<br />

519-396-1850<br />

www.walkerhousekincardine.com<br />

South <strong>Grey</strong> Museum - Flesherton<br />

519-924-2843 or museum@greyhighlands.ca<br />

www.southgreymuseum.ca<br />

St. Edmunds Township Museum - Tobermory<br />

519-596-2479 or online http://bit.ly/vEdicK<br />

Tobermory Maritime Association<br />

519-596-2700; www.tobermorymaritime.ca<br />

Treasure Chest Museum - Paisley<br />

519-353-7176 or http://bit.ly/1PjTS1D<br />

ONLINE SUPPORT<br />

www.211.ca<br />

www.pathwaysawareness.org<br />

www.mentallyfit.ca<br />

www.shelternet.ca<br />

www.targetyouth.ca<br />

www.thehealthline.ca<br />

www.wesforyouthonline.ca<br />

PLAYGROUPS<br />

Kincardine Toy Library and Playgroup<br />

249 <strong>Bruce</strong> Ave.; Wednesday, 9:30-11:30 a.m.<br />

Pine River Moms<br />

519-389-7136; jill.ricica@gmail.com.<br />

Thursdays during school year, info on FB<br />

EarlyON Child and Family Centres<br />

Chesley, Hanover, Kincardine, Markdale,<br />

Meaford, M’Wikwedong (Owen Sound), Owen<br />

Sound (East Ridge), Port Elgin, Thornbury,<br />

Wiarton; 1-800-616-8116<br />

SPECIAL NEEDS<br />

Autism Ontario <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Chapter<br />

<strong>22</strong>6-787-0333 or marti@autismontario.com<br />

http://bit.ly/tO6kam; Owen Sound<br />

Autism Parent Support Group<br />

Community Living Kincardine & District<br />

519-396-9434 or www.clkd.ca<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

1-800-265-3005 or www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> Peninsula (Wiarton) Association<br />

for Community Living<br />

519-534-0553<br />

Community Living Kincardine & District<br />

519-396-9434; www.clkd.ca<br />

Community Living Meaford<br />

519-538-4165<br />

Community Living Owen Sound<br />

and District<br />

519-371-9251 or communitylivingowensound.ca<br />

Community Living Walkerton & District<br />

519-881-3713 or www.clwalkerton.org<br />

Georgian Riding Association<br />

for Challenged Equestrians<br />

519-372-2721; grace@log.on.ca<br />

Wicklen Stables, RR5 Owen Sound<br />

Hope Haven Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />

519-986-1247<br />

www.hopehavencentre.org<br />

Keystone Child, Youth & Family Services<br />

Owen Sound; 1-800-567-2384<br />

kcyfs@bmts.com or keystonebrucegrey.org<br />

PRANCE Therapeutic Riding Centre<br />

519-832-25<strong>22</strong> or prance@bmts.com<br />

Miramichi Farms, Hwy. 21 Port Elgin<br />

Reading Rescue Ontario<br />

519-794-4745 or soehner@bmts.com<br />

www.readingrescueontario.ca<br />

Holland Centre<br />

South <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Youth Literacy Council<br />

519-364-0008 or info@sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />

www.sgbyouthliteracy.org<br />

Hanover<br />

Special Therapy and Education<br />

Program of Saugeen (STEPS)<br />

519-797-1935<br />

info@stepsahead.ca; www.stepsahead.ca<br />

Southampton<br />

Thames Valley Children’s Centre<br />

519-396-3360, 1-866-590-88<strong>22</strong><br />

Paula.Holla@tvcc.on.ca or<br />

Clare.Matthews@tvcc.on.ca<br />

www.tvcc.on.ca<br />

United Way of <strong>Bruce</strong> <strong>Grey</strong><br />

519-376-1560; unitedwaybg@bmts.com<br />

www.unitedwayofbrucegrey.com/<br />

Owen Sound<br />

SPEECH/LANGUAGE<br />

<strong>Bruce</strong> County Childcare Services<br />

1-800-265-3005; www.brucecounty.on.ca<br />

Walkerton<br />

Closing the Gap Healthcare Group<br />

Rehab Express <strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong><br />

1-866-990-9901 or www.closingthegap.ca<br />

Owen Sound<br />

<strong>Grey</strong> <strong>Bruce</strong> Health Unit - Owen Sound<br />

1-800-263-3456<br />

publichealth@publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

www.publichealthgreybruce.on.ca<br />

South West Community Care Access Centre<br />

In-Home Services<br />

Owen Sound - 519-371-2112<br />

Walkerton - 519-881-1181<br />

www.sw.ccac-ont.ca<br />

VOICE for Hearing Impaired Children<br />

Support, speech and language therapy<br />

<strong>Grey</strong>/<strong>Bruce</strong> chapter is free to families<br />

www.voicefordeafkids.com<br />

WISH PROGRAMS<br />

Children’s Wish Foundation of Canada<br />

1-800-267-9474<br />

on@childrenswish.ca or www.childrenswish.ca<br />

Ajax, ON<br />

Make-A-Wish - Southwestern Ontario Chapter<br />

519-471-4900 or www.makeawishswo.org<br />

London, ON GBK<br />

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RECIPES<br />

Turkey time!<br />

BAKED TURKEY SPRING ROLLS<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

4 oz rice vermicelli<br />

2 tbsp vegetable oil<br />

1 onion, diced<br />

3 cloves garlic, minced<br />

1 tbsp grated fresh ginger root<br />

2 cups shredded red cabbage<br />

1 lb turkey, cooked and coarsely chopped<br />

½ tsp each salt and pepper<br />

2 large carrots, grated<br />

2 cups bean sprouts<br />

1 pkg large square spring roll wrappers<br />

1 egg yolk, beaten<br />

SWEET CHILI SAUCE<br />

¾ cup hoisin sauce<br />

¼ cup water<br />

2 cloves garlic, minced<br />

1 tbsp each liquid honey and rice vinegar<br />

2 tsp sambal oelek or hot chili sauce<br />

INSTRUCTIONS<br />

Sweet Chili Sauce: In bowl, whisk together hoisin sauce,<br />

water, garlic, honey, vinegar and sambal oelek until honey is<br />

dissolved. Set aside. Cover rice vermicelli in hot water and soak<br />

10 minutes or until soft. Drain very well, using fine sieve to<br />

extract as much liquid as possible. Cut into 2-inch lengths and<br />

set aside.<br />

In large skillet, heat 1 tbsp of the oil over medium-high heat;<br />

cook onion, garlic and ginger, stirring, until softened, about<br />

three minutes. Reduce heat to medium and add cabbage; cover<br />

and cook until tender-crisp, about five minutes. Add turkey and<br />

1 cup of the sauce, salt and pepper; cook, stirring to coat, for<br />

two minutes. Transfer to bowl. Stir in carrots, bean sprouts and<br />

rice vermicelli; let cool. Lay one spring roll wrapper on work<br />

surface with point facing away from you. Place 1/2 cup of the<br />

turkey mixture just below centre. Fold bottom point of wrapper<br />

over filling. Roll over once, so filling is enclosed. Fold over sides<br />

and continue rolling. Using fingertip, dab egg on top point of<br />

wrapper and seal. Repeat with remaining filling and wrappers.<br />

Place on greased baking sheet. Cover and refrigerate for up to<br />

two days. Brush remaining oil lightly all over spring rolls. Bake<br />

in 425 F oven, turning once, until crisp and golden, about 25<br />

minutes. Serve with remaining sauce.<br />

TURKEY, CAULIFLOWER AND PASTA BAKE<br />

INGREDIENTS<br />

3 cups penne pasta<br />

3 cups small cauliflower florets<br />

3 tbsp butter<br />

1 onion, diced<br />

¼ cup all-purpose flour<br />

1 tsp dried sage leaves<br />

½ tsp each salt and dried thyme leaves<br />

Pinch pepper<br />

2 ½ cups sodium-reduced chicken broth<br />

2 cups shredded havarti cheese<br />

1 ½ cups turkey, chopped and cooked<br />

4 cups torn spinach leaves<br />

1 cup fresh breadcrumbs<br />

INSTRUCTIONS<br />

Bring large pot of water to boil. Add pasta and return to boil;<br />

cook six minutes, stirring occasionally. Add cauliflower; cover<br />

and return to boil. Uncover and cook for two minutes or until<br />

pasta is al dente. Drain well.<br />

Meanwhile, in medium saucepan, melt butter over mediumhigh<br />

heat. Add onion and cook until slightly softened, about<br />

two minutes. Stir in flour, sage, salt, thyme and pepper,<br />

gradually stir in broth; bring to boil, whisking often. Cook a<br />

few minutes or until slightly thickened. Remove from heat. Stir<br />

in 11/2 cups of the cheese until melted.<br />

In large bowl, combine pasta mixture, turkey, spinach<br />

and sauce. Pour into a greased 12-cup casserole dish. Toss<br />

breadcrumbs with remaining cheese; sprinkle evenly over all.<br />

Bake in 375 F oven for 25 to 30 minutes or until bubbly and<br />

top is golden. Let stand for five to 10 minutes before serving.<br />

Recipes courtesy Foodland Ontario<br />

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