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HOIST has been around<br />
for seven years. <strong>Focus</strong> had<br />
the pleasure of speaking<br />
with Boy Aaron, this year’s<br />
president.<br />
What is HOIST’s<br />
background?<br />
HOIST is a leather group<br />
based in Memphis that<br />
is part of a larger body<br />
called the <strong>Mid</strong>-America<br />
Conference of Clubs<br />
(MACC). While the group<br />
has been around locally for<br />
the past seven years, we<br />
celebrate the leather culture<br />
that has thrived in LGBTQ+<br />
spaces for decades.<br />
Our group hosts a local<br />
run where it celebrates<br />
friendship. We also promote<br />
and create a community of<br />
leather enthusiasts which<br />
is a safe space for gay,<br />
bisexual, and trans men to<br />
explore their interests.<br />
Describe the history of<br />
Leather in the LGBTQ+<br />
Community.<br />
Historically speaking, in<br />
the United States, leather<br />
communities began after<br />
WWII. It spawned after a<br />
large number of soldiers<br />
returned from war and<br />
attempted to create<br />
clubs that captured the<br />
brotherhood which existed<br />
during the war.<br />
Within the straight<br />
community, clubs like the<br />
Hells Angels were very<br />
popular and allowed for<br />
acceptance. On the gay<br />
side, various leather groups<br />
popped up. These leather<br />
groups were a safe place<br />
to gather, enjoy each other,<br />
and explore common<br />
interests. You might notice<br />
in many of the leather<br />
groups' logos there is<br />
iconography and a presence<br />
of military symbols. That<br />
comes straight from this<br />
military history.<br />
During the ’60s and<br />
’70s, politics became more<br />
present in leather culture,<br />
where you’ll notice police<br />
and authority figures<br />
embodied more. This is<br />
because during this time<br />
the leather tribe acted<br />
as radicals for protecting<br />
pride–they were considered<br />
the champions of pride.<br />
There have always been<br />
conservative elements in<br />
gay pride as well as radical<br />
movements. For example,<br />
throughout the ’80s and<br />
’90s, marriage equality<br />
was part of the more<br />
conservative side. Leather<br />
was more radical with their<br />
styles of representation.<br />
Why is Leather essential in<br />
the community?<br />
Gay men’s sexual interest<br />
is stigmatized. You see it<br />
in Memphis. You see slut<br />
shaming. Not just with<br />
women, but with men.<br />
You see folks who have<br />
harnesses or leather in<br />
their closets, and they feel<br />
sexy in them. But still, you<br />
won’t see them wear them<br />
in public even if that would<br />
be appropriate. You see<br />
men who are more like<br />
bears, men who might feel<br />
shy or feel not as outgoing<br />
because they feel like they<br />
might be rejected.<br />
The leather community<br />
here at HOIST tries to be<br />
a home for all of that. We<br />
are here for folks who are<br />
doubly stigmatized. Gay<br />
men are already stigmatized<br />
as it is. When folks want<br />
to explore their likes, we<br />
want to be a safe place that<br />
allows that community for<br />
them without judgment.<br />
Many members are in<br />
poly relationships or have<br />
interests in various forms<br />
of fetish and kink and<br />
they want to meet others<br />
like them. The leather<br />
community is a safe place<br />
where they can do so.<br />
Beyond that, we are also<br />
educators. We have a<br />
tradition that goes back<br />
many decades. We have<br />
accumulated knowledge<br />
of how to perform fetish,<br />
kinks, and non-traditional<br />
relationship types in a<br />
safe, sane, and consensual<br />
environment. That is critical<br />
to what we do. We want to<br />
be able to teach people how<br />
to engage in life in ways that<br />
are healthy for all people<br />
and members involved.<br />
Safe. Sane. Consensual.<br />
The Leather community is<br />
growing.<br />
Tell us about Sex & Love in<br />
the Leather Community.<br />
Relationship types in<br />
the leather community are<br />
unique. There are different<br />
relationship dynamics like<br />
Daddy/Boy or Master/Slave.<br />
A lot of these really come<br />
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