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Karibu Magazine July 2022 (updated)

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ALICE NDEBU<br />

FOUNDER - LIVERPOOL USHIRIKA WOMEN’S GROUP<br />

My name is Alice Ndebu. I live in<br />

Liverpool, UK. I am married and we<br />

have four children Eric, Jack, Jackie,<br />

and Grace. Eric lives in Kenya with<br />

his own family. The rest live and<br />

work in the UK. We are blessed<br />

with several grandchildren too. I<br />

was born in Central Kenya, a small<br />

village called Kabuku in Limuru.<br />

Our late dad was a civil servant<br />

and he retired as a Provincial<br />

Probation Officer. My mum was a<br />

housewife but she also managed<br />

small enterprises. My sister and<br />

I spent most of our childhood in<br />

various primary schools based on<br />

our Dad’s work transfers. I spent<br />

my formative years at St Francis<br />

Girl’s Primary School and later at<br />

Mang’u High School.<br />

My interest in Nursing was sparked<br />

by my cousin. She was among<br />

the best four nurses in Kenya.<br />

She was my role model. I admired<br />

her uniform, white apron, and<br />

matching cap. Because of her,<br />

I pursued a Nursing career and<br />

now, I have been practicing for<br />

over 48 years! I started off in<br />

Mombasa, where I met a smart,<br />

handsome Kenya Navy officer<br />

called Samuel Ndebu. Today we<br />

have been married for over 44<br />

years. After Samuel took early<br />

retirement we decided to come<br />

to the UK to give our children a<br />

high-quality education. In 2001<br />

I came to Liverpool on my own<br />

to secure a nursing role and was<br />

successful. Six months later my<br />

family joined me. Life as a nurse<br />

in the UK came with ups and<br />

downs. Back in Kenya, I was a<br />

Senior Nurse running a dialysis<br />

unit in a large hospital. However in<br />

the UK, despite my expertise and<br />

years of experience, I was treated<br />

like a junior nurse. I nevertheless<br />

remained positive and let my<br />

work speak for itself. Eventually,<br />

my peers and supervisors learned<br />

that I was nothing close to their<br />

preconceived notions and began to<br />

respect me as I deserved. Today we<br />

are more than colleagues they are<br />

my second family.<br />

Community outreach and support<br />

are traits I learned from my Mother.<br />

She has always been at the heart of<br />

the community. Back in Kenya, I ran<br />

a small low-cost clinic to provide<br />

affordable village health services.<br />

I admired her uniform,<br />

white apron, and matching<br />

cap. Because of her, I<br />

pursued a Nursing career<br />

and now, I have been<br />

practicing for over 48 years!<br />

I also joined various “chamas”<br />

(informal corporative societies) to<br />

invest our savings. After meeting<br />

a few Kenyan families in the UK,<br />

I came up with ideas to support<br />

the community. In Liverpool,<br />

I became friends with 5 lovely<br />

Kenyan women. We met once a<br />

month to socialise and encourage<br />

one another. After a couple of<br />

meetings, I realised that this was<br />

the exact type of forum I was a part<br />

of back in Kenya. I proposed that<br />

we formalise the group’s outputs to<br />

include savings the same way we<br />

did back in Kenya with the merrygo-round.<br />

This was well received<br />

and that is how Liverpool Ushirika<br />

Women’s Group was born - more<br />

than 16 years ago.<br />

The Pioneers were myself as the<br />

first Chairlady, Florah Birengo<br />

(Treasurer), Pauline Ngugi<br />

(Secretary) alongside members<br />

Alice Gichuki, Priscilla Kiragu and<br />

Elizabeth Fikirry. Each of us invited<br />

our friends and today we have a<br />

total of 24 registered members. We<br />

have a rule that the chairperson<br />

steps down after 6 years. Our<br />

Mission<br />

was initially to hold prayer<br />

sessions, intercessions for family<br />

issues, and counsel individuals. We<br />

held monthly meetings<br />

each first Monday of<br />

the month. Today the<br />

group is dedicated<br />

to mutual support<br />

morally, spiritually, and<br />

financially. We have a<br />

membership kitty. The<br />

‘merry-go-round’ money<br />

is shared between<br />

two members each<br />

month. We to create<br />

space for women to network and<br />

share information. We organise<br />

holidays both locally and abroad.<br />

In Merseyside, we reach out to<br />

newcomers and help them settle<br />

quickly. On reflection, I see that<br />

my small idea has grown bigger<br />

than we initially anticipated.<br />

Despite some internal conflicts,<br />

we have stuck together through<br />

the years. All Ushirika sisters love<br />

one another. We all look forward<br />

to each first Monday of the<br />

month when we meet. Through<br />

the Liverpool Ushirika Women’s<br />

Group, our families have come to<br />

know each other better. I pray it<br />

continues.<br />

14<br />

5TH EDITION | JULY <strong>2022</strong>

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