This Is My Brave - The Show with Flourishing Families
Hosted by the Ruderman Family Foundation, Flourishing Families presents This Is My Brave - The Show features the stories of parents of young adult and adult children who live with a mental illness and/or substance use disorder. Prepare to be inspired by this amazing cast of storytellers!
Hosted by the Ruderman Family Foundation, Flourishing Families presents This Is My Brave - The Show features the stories of parents of young adult and adult children who live with a mental illness and/or substance use disorder. Prepare to be inspired by this amazing cast of storytellers!
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HOSTS<br />
TUESDAY, MAY 23, 2023
Compassion<br />
in Action<br />
ASL THERAPIST<br />
AND MENTAL HEALTH<br />
SUPPORT RESOURCE LIST<br />
At Karuna, we’re dedicated to championing the<br />
needs and experiences of people living <strong>with</strong><br />
mental illness as we work toward our mission<br />
of developing and delivering transformative<br />
medicines to those in need.<br />
Use your phone to scan the QR code for a list of ASL<br />
<strong>The</strong>rapists and Mental Health Support organizations.<br />
LEARN MORE AT KARUNATX.COM<br />
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HOSTS<br />
PRODUCTION TEAM<br />
Courtney Joly-Lowdermilk <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> Director<br />
Gary Horwitz <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> Staff<br />
Lisa Augustine <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> Staff<br />
Mataiah Crossely <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> Staff<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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DEAR FRIENDS,<br />
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR JOINING US IN THE AUDIENCE TODAY!<br />
What a journey it has been since <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> produced its very first show in Arlington, Virginia, in 2014 – a show<br />
inspired by our co-founder and former Executive Director, Jennifer Marshall. I know that she and her co-founder,<br />
Anne Marie Ames, never imagined at that time the success that <strong>Brave</strong> would realize. Since 2014, <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> has<br />
produced 89 more shows in dozens of cities across the U.S. and in Australia. Story by story, <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> is shining a<br />
light on mental illness and addiction and helping end the stigma that has so long surrounded these issues.<br />
COVID-19 presented us (and the world) <strong>with</strong> challenges we never could have expected. If there’s any good that came from<br />
the global pandemic, it is that our society is finally understanding the need to prioritize mental health and wellness. And<br />
we at <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> are here for it! Storytelling has and will always be a path to authentic connection and healing.<br />
We are especially proud to have a platform in place where all stories can be shared and all storytellers can be affirmed<br />
and celebrated.<br />
We are thrilled to collaborate on this very special edition of <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> - <strong>The</strong> <strong>Show</strong> <strong>with</strong> Boston University Center<br />
for Psychiatric Rehabilitation’s <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> program! I am incredibly honored that this cast of amazing mothers<br />
has stepped forward to share their powerful personal testimonies of living well and thriving as parents of young adult<br />
children who are managing a mental health challenge or substance use disorder. I know that this show will shine a light<br />
on this unique circumstance and let other parents who are facing something similar know they are not alone.<br />
Especially now, opening up conversations in this community about mental health through storytelling will have a lasting<br />
impact for so many. We hope that the stories you hear tonight will spark important conversations in your circles!<br />
Every time a story is told — every time we shine a light on mental illness and substance use disorders — we let someone<br />
know that they are not alone. We can give someone the gift of hope and provide them <strong>with</strong> a sense of community based<br />
on shared experiences.<br />
YOU ARE A VITALLY IMPORTANT PART OF THIS STORY, TOO.<br />
Mental illness does not discriminate. It may affect your family. It may affect the family of<br />
someone you love. We need to acknowledge that mental illness is something that a family<br />
may encounter in this lifetime. We must stop the secrecy that stigma has imposed on us<br />
and begin to share openly and honestly about our experiences.<br />
Together, we can work to end the stigma. We have come so far in nine years, but we<br />
still have so much more work to do. <strong>The</strong>re are millions more stories to be shared,<br />
and we will start by sharing a few more on this stage here <strong>with</strong> you tonight.<br />
THANK YOU FOR JOINING US ON THIS JOURNEY.<br />
Erin Gallagher,<br />
Executive Director<br />
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OUR MISSION<br />
<strong>The</strong> mission of <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> is<br />
to empower individuals to put their<br />
names and faces to their personal<br />
stories of recovery from mental<br />
illness and/or addiction.<br />
“So much power in real stories of struggle & hope.”<br />
DAWN LITTLEFIELD, AUDIENCE MEMBER, DEKALB SHOW<br />
OUR VISION<br />
Someday, we will live in a world where we won’t<br />
have to call it “brave” for talking openly about<br />
mental illness. WE WILL SIMPLY CALL IT “TALKING.”<br />
<strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>, Inc., a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, is the leading platform for individuals to share their<br />
stories of living successful lives despite a diagnosis of a mental illness or addiction. Our main event is <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong><br />
<strong>Brave</strong> - <strong>The</strong> <strong>Show</strong>, a live stage production featuring a cast of individuals who use the performing arts to share their<br />
stories and inspire others. We’re opening up the conversation about mental health disorders in communities all<br />
across the country.<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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ORDER<br />
OF SHOW<br />
OPENING REMARKS<br />
Courtney Joly-Lowdermilk<br />
Suzanne Buchko<br />
Carla Carlisle<br />
Sharline Cordner<br />
Kamilah Mitchell<br />
Jeanne Murphy<br />
Krystal Livingston<br />
Wen-Ling Lai<br />
Quatavia (NSOMANY WORDS) Jones<br />
Letting Go<br />
A Healing Space<br />
Lost Files<br />
Not Yours<br />
Person<br />
I Know<br />
To Repeat or Rewrite<br />
“Message in a Memory” and “Kiki”<br />
CLOSING REMARKS<br />
Courtney Joly-Lowdermilk<br />
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BRAVE AUDIENCE ETIQUETTE<br />
Please DO take out your cell phones during performances and<br />
SHARE on your social media platforms that you are watching!<br />
SHARE your photos, favorite lines or takeaways using the hashtag<br />
#STORYTELLINGSAVESLIVES and tagging us @THISISMYBRAVE<br />
Help us tell the world that we’re here, and you’re watching!<br />
Laugh at the funny, be comfortable <strong>with</strong> the sad,<br />
be inspired by the resilience.<br />
Need a break during the show? We understand. Things can get heavy.<br />
Please exit quietly, and let your friends and family know that you’re okay.<br />
We’ll be here when you’re ready :)<br />
THIS IS MY BRAVE’S 2023 NATIONAL SPONSORS<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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for illustrative purposes only.<br />
Creating a future where disease is a<br />
thing of the past.<br />
At Janssen Neuroscience, we have a bold and ambitious goal – to create a<br />
future where serious mental illness and debilitating neurological disorders<br />
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A NOTE<br />
FROM THE PRODUCER<br />
DEAR CHERISHED COMMUNITY MEMBERS,<br />
Thank you for joining and supporting <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> presents <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> <strong>The</strong> <strong>Show</strong>.<br />
<strong>This</strong> <strong>Show</strong> is a true partnership between <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong>, a program that embraces and<br />
supports family members in their recovery, and <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>, an organization that embraces the<br />
evidence-based art form of storytelling to empower individuals in their recovery. <strong>Families</strong> and <strong>Brave</strong><br />
are steeped in the values of personhood, hope, choice, empowerment, and recovery. <strong>The</strong> marriage<br />
of these two programs was inevitable. Still, Katie and Erin, this project was only realized <strong>with</strong> your<br />
leadership and friendship. Thank you for taking a chance on this idea.<br />
<strong>This</strong> is a first-of-its-kind performance, which means, Storytellers, you took on leap of faith on this<br />
project too. Week after week, you logged into evening Zoom rehearsals after a full day of work,<br />
after putting dinner on the table, and during bedtimes. Always, you found the energy to show your<br />
authentic selves and support your sisters. You have cultivated an unwaveringly reliable connection<br />
and community here that will deservedly take the global stage for the world to touch and hold onto.<br />
All too often the journey of family recovery is a lonely one. Storytellers, thank you sharing your<br />
profound wisdom, tender love, fierce advocacy, and overwhelming joys and heartaches. Your<br />
brave words empower us to sustain our brave and hopefulness. Recovery is possible. Hope is essential.<br />
<strong>This</strong> <strong>Show</strong> was inspired by the thousands of families who’ve touched our lives at the Center for<br />
Psychiatric Rehabilitation over the last 40 years and the ongoing need for more open and real<br />
exchange between families in support of family healing and recovery. <strong>This</strong> <strong>Show</strong> is dedicated to the<br />
remarkably brave caregivers whose stories will go untold.<br />
<strong>This</strong> <strong>Show</strong> was made possible by our friends at <strong>The</strong> Ruderman Family Foundation. Thank you for<br />
your commitment to and support of this work. <strong>This</strong> <strong>Show</strong> will live on through <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong><br />
supported by the Gayle Berg Endowed Fund and carried by the team at the Center: Mataiah, Gary,<br />
Lisa, Dori, & Larry.<br />
Thank you for joining us tonight to elevate these Storytellers’ voices and reminding families<br />
everywhere that they are not alone.<br />
Sincerely,<br />
Courtney Joly-Lowdermilk<br />
Director of <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong><br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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HOSTS<br />
<strong>This</strong> program is made possible by the generous partnership between the<br />
Ruderman Family Foundation and the Center for Psychiatric Rehabilitation at Boston University.<br />
To learn more about <strong>The</strong> Ruderman Family Foundation, please visit<br />
https://rudermanfoundation.org/.<br />
ABOUT THE FLOURISHING FAMILIES PROGRAM<br />
A comprehensive, educational program that supports parents, guardians,<br />
and caregivers of young adults who live <strong>with</strong> a mental health and/or substance<br />
use conditions to heal and build sustainable, health-promoting relationships.<br />
Interested in learning more?<br />
Scan this QR code <strong>with</strong> your phone<br />
to visit the program website.<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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THE<br />
CAST<br />
SUZANNE BUCHKO (SHE/HER)<br />
Shortly after her youngest daughter joined her family through<br />
adoption, Suzanne Buchko left the practice of law to become a full<br />
time parent. Before that time, Suzanne was an actor, playwright, civil<br />
rights lawyer, Master Gardener and history enthusiast. After meeting<br />
her daughter, she became an advocate for her daughter and other<br />
children, learned to navigate the labyrinth of educational and public<br />
support systems for children and young people <strong>with</strong> disabilities,<br />
facilitated mindfulness and meditation programs for caregivers of<br />
people <strong>with</strong> developmental differences and participated as a LEND<br />
Fellow at the University of Wisconsin at Madison. Suzanne is a writer<br />
who regularly blogs at Chasing Joy (https://chasingjoy.net/), and<br />
she loves to sing in her UU society choir. She can be reached at<br />
suzbuchko@gmail.com.<br />
CARLA CARLISLE (SHE/HER)<br />
Carla is from Charlotte, NC. She is the Executive Director of <strong>The</strong><br />
Compassionate Companion (TM) in which she gives keynotes and<br />
workshops for caregivers using lived experience and supported by<br />
evidence based tools. A proud boy mom, Carla has dedicated her<br />
life to bringing awareness to mental health, suicide prevention, and<br />
how we all need help sometimes. A multi-award winning author, she<br />
did a TEDx talk about becoming trauma informed and jumped at the<br />
opportunity to be a part of <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> to bring awareness to<br />
and acceptance of mental health conditions. To learn more, visit her<br />
website at https://carlaacarlisle.com/.<br />
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SHARLINE CORDNER (SHE/HER)<br />
Ms. Sharline Cordner is a dynamic individual who has overcome many<br />
challenges in her personal and professional life. A mother of one and<br />
grandmother of two, she is also a domestic violence survivor and a<br />
woman of strong faith. With over 33 years of experience in the field of<br />
administration in the corporate sector/state enterprise, she has been an<br />
active trade union advocate and holds certificates in Industrial Relations<br />
and Public Relations, as well as Corporate Events Management from<br />
George Washington University.<br />
After a personal experience <strong>with</strong> mental health issues and retrenchment,<br />
Sharline started her own plant and events decor company, SHACORDS.<br />
She became a mental health advocate after her son suffered from<br />
mental trauma in the workplace, and she sought professional help. Her<br />
experience highlighted the stigma and lack of resources for mental<br />
health treatment in Trinidad and Tobago, leading her to pursue Youth<br />
Mental Health First Aid certification from the US and conflict resolution/<br />
mediation training from the Conflict Resolution and Mediation Centre of<br />
Trinidad and Tobago.<br />
As founder and president of Mental Health Reality Wellness Trinidad and<br />
Tobago (MHRWTT), Sharline is dedicated to educating and advocating<br />
for mental health solutions and wellness of mind, locally, regionally, and<br />
internationally. MHRWTT is an NGO that strategically brings together a<br />
team of mental health professionals, individuals <strong>with</strong> lived experiences,<br />
and others to work collaboratively in advocating for mental health.<br />
Her commitment, dedication, and experience make her a perfect agent<br />
of change, working <strong>with</strong> institutions, government bodies, citizens,<br />
sporting associations, corporations, and religious organizations. and<br />
communities to bring the conversation on mental health to the forefront.<br />
https://www.mentalhealthrwtt.org/<br />
Instagram: @mhrwtt<br />
Facebook: @MHRealityWellnessTT<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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THE<br />
CAST<br />
QUATAVIA (NSOMANY WORDS) JONES (SHE/HER)<br />
Quatavia Brazzley was the product of a 15-year-old child <strong>with</strong><br />
mental health issues put into foster care after her parents became<br />
addicted to crack and heroin in the 80’s. She is a mother of six, wife,<br />
grandmother, and survivor of the New York City foster care system.<br />
Quatavia fell in love <strong>with</strong> poetry as a child when she was introduced<br />
to “On the Subway” by <strong>The</strong> Last Poets. As a spoken word artist, she is<br />
known as “Nsomany Words”. A name given to her by a peer because<br />
of her ability to get straight to the point. She understands that the<br />
pen is mightier than the sword and that the power of life and death<br />
is in the tongue, so she uses her words to inspire and promote<br />
healing, love, and forgiveness. She is a firm believer that “We are<br />
what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a<br />
habit” (Will Durant). Quatavia represents an attitude of embracing<br />
your beautiful uniqueness and all of the experiences that brought<br />
you to this place and time. Remembering that love heals a multitude<br />
of pains of the past, helps push through problems of the present,<br />
and eases the anxiety of what the future may hold. Understanding<br />
that her experiences and stories are lived to help others through<br />
theirs. From growing through teen pregnancy and homelessness,<br />
foreclosure and fighting the public school system to properly care<br />
for her children <strong>with</strong> mental health needs to advocating for families<br />
that have members <strong>with</strong> mental health issues <strong>with</strong> the Charlotte<br />
Police Department. She will use her voice to help, to heal, and remind<br />
us to laugh out loud, dance like nobody’s watching, love a little bit<br />
harder, and know that we were created to be captivating.<br />
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WEN-LING LAI 賴 文 玲 (SHE/ 她 )<br />
Wen-Ling Lai 賴 文 玲 is a blessed child of God, wife, mom, and<br />
hospice spiritual care counselor in the NJ/PA area. Wen-Ling<br />
accepts and appreciates how mental health breaks or makes<br />
the total wellness of her beloved, especially her two young adult<br />
children. Wen-Ling continues to recover from overfunctioning in<br />
attempts to live <strong>with</strong> her undiagnosed and well-hidden anxiety.<br />
Having learned about death attempts by suicide <strong>with</strong>in her family<br />
of origin, Wen-Ling has been praying for 1) suicide ideations and<br />
attempts to skip her and all generations to come in the family! &<br />
2) that everyone knows help is always available via the 988 Suicide<br />
and Crisis Lifeline.<br />
As an ordained minister, Wen-Ling loves journeying <strong>with</strong> people so<br />
“their deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet” (Frederick<br />
Buechner)! Music of many varieties, prayers, and hot pot (Chinese<br />
fondue) comfort her soul like no other. Walking <strong>with</strong> the family<br />
dog Tay on trails and talking <strong>with</strong> friends are her favorite ways to<br />
process tough stuff in life. If she were to ever get a tattoo, it would<br />
be “ 台 灣 製 ” (MiT or Made in Taiwan) on the back of her neck!<br />
Not just during Asian American & Pacific <strong>Is</strong>lander Month, Wen-<br />
Ling draws inspiration, healing, and comfort from songs, sounds,<br />
and meditations from BRAVESPACE, hosted by the Smithsonian<br />
Asian Pacific American Center. Join her or stop by when you get a<br />
moment via https://www.asianpacificheritage.gov/.<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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THE<br />
CAST<br />
KRYSTAL LIVINGSTON (SHE/HER)<br />
Krystal Livingston was born and raised in Seattle, WA, the youngest<br />
of six and the mother of four. Three of whom brought her to work as<br />
a Certified Peer Counselor in Washington State the summer of 2015.<br />
She has been a Parent Partner in a community mental health agency,<br />
and she currently works as a State Certified Peer Trainer, training the<br />
Wraparound <strong>with</strong> Intensive Services (WISe) Workforce for Washington<br />
State Health Care Authority. Krystal is also the Operation Coordinator<br />
for Washington State Community Connectors. She was voted by the<br />
City Council to serve a term, sharing the peer voice and perspective<br />
as a member of the Behavioral Health Advisory Board (BHAB) and later<br />
the BHAB representative on the Mental Illness and Drug Dependency<br />
Advisory Board (M.I.D.D.).<br />
Krystal has participated in and led many trainings and presentations<br />
across Washington and other states. As a black woman recognizing<br />
the lack of culturally relevant, effective, and inclusive mental health<br />
policies and care, she has advocated for and led various teams of BIPOC<br />
volunteers for project deliverables for the state, in creating culturally<br />
specific guides and curriculum targeting the WISe Workforce.<br />
Though Krystal comes from a large supportive family, one’s mental<br />
wellness was not a topic open for discussion. With the revelation that<br />
her two eldest sons were living <strong>with</strong> addiction which eventually led<br />
to their displacement, she realized they needed a different type of<br />
support. Being presented <strong>with</strong> the opportunity to do her practicum in<br />
a community mental health agency became her introduction to peer<br />
work and how vital it was to one’s recovery. She became increasingly<br />
passionate about peer work on her family’s path to wellness and the<br />
opportunity to model diversity, cultural sensitivity, hope, empowerment,<br />
and resilience to those facing similar challenges through sharing her<br />
own lived experiences.<br />
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KAMILAH MITCHELL (SHE/HER)<br />
Kamilah Mitchell is a mother of two and a grandmother of five who<br />
has spent most of her years plugging away in corporate America.<br />
She began using creative writing as an outlet at a young age creating<br />
poems and short stories. She enjoys the feeling of expressing<br />
thoughts <strong>with</strong>out interruption. As a domestic abuse survivor, she<br />
decided to use that outlet to help other survivors cope, heal, and<br />
thrive. That idea blossomed into a new and more fulfilling career.<br />
Kamilah is now the sole owner and operator of <strong>The</strong> Lighthouse Bulb,<br />
LLC; a mental and emotional well-being practice where she guides<br />
clients along various paths to healing. In her free time, you’ll find her<br />
watching or providing tarot readings as a fun way to continue healing<br />
and strengthening her intuition and discernment. To learn more about<br />
Kamilah and her practice, visit https://linktr.ee/thelighthousebulbllc.<br />
JEANNE MURPHY (SHE/HER)<br />
Jeanne is a New Yorker by birth and attitude who lives near<br />
Baltimore, Maryland <strong>with</strong> her family. She is a spouse, parent, health<br />
care provider, and consultant. Jeanne loves creative writing, hiking,<br />
singing, and petting her brindle pitbull mix. She was a member of<br />
the first <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> group and is thrilled to tell you a story<br />
about her experiences today.<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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PRODUCTION<br />
TEAM<br />
COURTNEY JOLY-LOWDERMILK (SHE/HER)<br />
Courtney is from Woonsocket, Rhode <strong>Is</strong>land and now lives <strong>with</strong><br />
her family in Manchester-by-the-Sea, Massachusetts. She directs<br />
Strategic Services Initiatives at the Center for Psychiatric<br />
Rehabilitation at Boston University. She joined the Center team in 2014<br />
and directed NITEO and the College Mental Health Education Programs<br />
through 2021 and worked closely <strong>with</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> on their College<br />
Edition program. For the last 17 years, Courtney has taught, developed,<br />
and directed in the fields of special education, disability and access<br />
services, and psychiatric rehabilitation. Most recently she developed<br />
<strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong>, promoting positive health and recovery for the<br />
parents, guardians, and caregivers of young adults who live <strong>with</strong><br />
mental health and substance use conditions. She attributes all<br />
these successes to the nurturing wisdom and energy of colleagues,<br />
students, and families, especially her family.<br />
GARY HORWITZ (HE/HIM)<br />
Gary Horwitz serves in the <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> program at the Center<br />
for Psychiatric Rehabilitation at Boston University as a co-leader at<br />
training workshops and a coach for participating parents. Gary has<br />
collaborated in the drafting of the training and coaching manuals, and<br />
develops coaching training for <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> team members. He<br />
has taught a number of classes in the Adult Recovery Program including<br />
Developing an Agile Mindset, Strategic Decision-Making and Conflict<br />
Resolution. Gary is an attorney, founding his own law practice in 1989,<br />
specializing in divorce mediation and high conflict divorce cases.<br />
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LISA AUGUSTINE (SHE/HER)<br />
Lisa is a people-first medical doctor and mental health rehabilitation<br />
technician from Johannesburg, South Africa. She is a training associate<br />
and coach for <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> and the College Mental Health<br />
Education Programs at the BU CPR. Lisa believes in the practice<br />
of equitable and accessible preventative and rehabilitative mental<br />
health strategies to achieve public health and wellness goals. She is<br />
passionate about working <strong>with</strong> and supporting young adults living <strong>with</strong><br />
mental illness, their families and first-generation college students at<br />
Boston University and is a proud representative of the BU CPR’s values<br />
and mission.<br />
MATAIAH CROSSLEY, LICSW (SHE/HER)<br />
Mataiah Crossley, LICSW, is a Clinical Social Worker at a Community<br />
Behavioral Health Center and has been practicing in an outpatient<br />
setting for 6 years. Within the past year, Mataiah expanded her scope<br />
of practice and now operates her own private practice in addition to her<br />
community-based work. She has experience working <strong>with</strong> individuals<br />
<strong>with</strong> mental health challenges and uses an eclectic clinical approach to<br />
best match the needs and preferences of the population she serves.<br />
Her passion for supporting young adults and families has influenced her<br />
work as a Co-facilitator and Coach for <strong>Flourishing</strong> <strong>Families</strong> at the Center<br />
for Psychiatric Rehabilitation at Boston University for the past 2 years.<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave<br />
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THIS IS MY BRAVE<br />
LEADERSHIP<br />
Photo credit: EmmiClaire Photography<br />
ERIN GALLAGHER<br />
Executive Director<br />
NATASHA WEST<br />
Director of Marketing<br />
Erin (she/her) is proud to be a part of the <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong><br />
team as Interim Executive Director. Following the suicide<br />
of her son, Jay, in 2016, Erin and her husband became<br />
passionate mental health advocates and have worked<br />
tirelessly to influence policy on appropriate responses,<br />
particularly in the public schools, to suicide warning signs.<br />
She enjoys working <strong>with</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> volunteers towards<br />
ending the stigma associated <strong>with</strong> mental health and<br />
substance use disorders in honor of Jay. When Erin is not<br />
working, she enjoys spending time at her alma mater, James<br />
Madison University, visiting her oldest daughter, Lindsay. She<br />
alsov loves logging hours <strong>with</strong> husband Tim while watching<br />
fastpitch softball played by her youngest, Laurenne, who is a<br />
student at Mt. St. Mary’s University in Maryland.<br />
Natasha (she/her) joined <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> in 2022 as<br />
the Director of Marketing, <strong>with</strong> more than eight years of<br />
marketing experience in mental health and health care.<br />
Prior to joining <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>, Natasha worked for various<br />
mental health nonprofits as a digital marketing consultant<br />
where she focused on data-driven strategy development.<br />
Natasha received a B.A. in Communications <strong>with</strong> an<br />
emphasis in Social Media and Communication Technology<br />
and a M.S. in Integrated Marketing Communications from<br />
West Virginia University. When Natasha is not working, she<br />
loves backpacking, hiking, concerts, and planning future<br />
travel <strong>with</strong> Peanut and Khaleesi (dog and cat).<br />
KATIE GRANA<br />
Director of Programming<br />
Katie Grana (she/her), Director of Programming <strong>with</strong> <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong><br />
<strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>, has been <strong>with</strong> the organization since 2019.<br />
With a history in sales and client management, her transition<br />
to the world of mental health advocacy was natural, as she<br />
herself lives <strong>with</strong> PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Katie<br />
believes in the mission and vision of <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> and is<br />
inspired to do this work every day.<br />
Katie lives in St. Louis, MO and is a proud St. Louis Cardinals<br />
and St. Louis Blues fan. She loves spending time <strong>with</strong> her<br />
dogs, her partner, and her family and friends.<br />
MARLON DELEON<br />
Program Coordinator<br />
Marlon (he/they) is a lot of things, and among them he is a<br />
husband, father, disabled Navy submarine veteran, retired<br />
grade school violinist, budding guitarist, aspiring writer,<br />
recovering alcoholic, and strives to love all neighbors. In<br />
2016 he took the stage in Valparaiso, Indiana for his first<br />
<strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> <strong>Show</strong>. After that, his life was peaches<br />
and unicorns forever. Actually, in some ways, it was just<br />
the beginning. In 2017 he married his best friend, Andrea,<br />
and later that year they welcomed their first child. 2018<br />
brought them their second child, and 2019 brought Marlon<br />
the diagnosis of Bipolar Type II. In 2021 Marlon shared more<br />
of his story in the virtual APIDA Community show, and he<br />
ecstatically joined the <strong>Brave</strong> staff in 2022. Marlon truly<br />
believes that #StorytellingSavesLives and he will never<br />
underestimate the importance of sharing the message that<br />
it’s ok to ask for help.<br />
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THIS IS MY BRAVE<br />
OUR FOUNDERS<br />
Photo credit: Alicia Bruce<br />
JENNIFER MARSHALL<br />
Co-Founder<br />
Jenn (she/her) was diagnosed <strong>with</strong> Type 1 Bipolar Disorder in 2006 at the age<br />
of 26. She’s had four hospitalizations <strong>with</strong>in five years – two in 2005 before any<br />
diagnosis was reached, and two more because she was trying to protect her<br />
newborn son (postpartum psychosis) in 2008 and her unborn daughter in 2010 –<br />
and all were because she was unmedicated at the time. Writing her way through<br />
life <strong>with</strong> a mental illness became her way of healing, and her award-winning blog<br />
BipolarMomLife became an inspiration to many. Jenn created <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong><br />
because she learned first hand how powerful and therapeutic it was to live<br />
openly and not hide her diagnosis. She wanted to give brave individuals from the<br />
community a platform through which to creatively share their stories of living <strong>with</strong><br />
mental illness to educate and inspire others. After leading <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>, Inc. for<br />
seven years, Jenn stepped down from her role as Executive Director in 2022. She<br />
lives outside Washington, DC <strong>with</strong> her husband and two children.<br />
Board of Directors<br />
Jessica Kennedy, Chairperson<br />
Adam Bromberg<br />
Dr. Kyaien Conner<br />
Tammy George<br />
Kristine Haataja<br />
Ric Waldman<br />
Advisory Board<br />
Doreen Gentzler<br />
Dr. Mark Komrad<br />
Dr. Robert Post<br />
Dr. Hayley Sherwood<br />
Photo credit: Shoot Photo Inc.<br />
ANNE MARIE AMES<br />
Co-Founder<br />
Anne Marie held a variety of PR and strategic communications positions throughout<br />
her career, but her favorite job was creating and producing <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>. She<br />
found her passion and her mission – to help others share their stories – and made<br />
tremendous contributions to the organization from launching the initial concept to<br />
strategizing on growth and expansion over the four years of her tenure. Anne Marie’s<br />
sudden passing on August 23, 2017, was a shock to the many who loved her, and she<br />
is deeply missed.<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave
THIS IS MY BRAVE<br />
RESEARCH<br />
DR. KRISTIN KOSYLUK<br />
Lead Researcher<br />
Kristin Kosyluk is an Assistant Professor of Mental Health Law and Policy at the University of South Florida in the College<br />
of Behavioral and Community Sciences. She also directs the STigma Action Research (STAR) Lab at USF. <strong>The</strong> STAR Lab<br />
conducts community-engaged research aimed at understanding and addressing the stigma surrounding mental illness<br />
in order to promote recovery among people living <strong>with</strong> mental illness.<br />
Kristin has served as the lead evaluator of <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>’s programming for the past eight years, and she has produced<br />
two College Edition <strong>Show</strong>s at USF. Eliminating the stigma around mental illness in order to promote treatment seeking<br />
and recovery and prevent suicide is Kristin’s passion, fueled by her clinical experiences as well as her own experiences<br />
<strong>with</strong> depression and anxiety and those of friends and loved ones.<br />
When Kristin is not conducting stigma research or teaching the amazing students at USF about recovery and evidencebased<br />
practices, her greatest joy is spending time <strong>with</strong> her husband, David, and six-year-old daughter, Emma. Kristin is<br />
a lover of crafting, especially crochet and dollhouse miniatures.<br />
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IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF IMMEDIATE HELP<br />
PLEASE CALL 911<br />
<strong>The</strong> 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (formerly known<br />
as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline) provides<br />
free and confidential emotional support to people in<br />
suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day,<br />
7 days a week, across the United States.<br />
CALL OR TEXT THE LIFELINE ANYTIME, 24/7.<br />
Línea de Prevención del Suicidio y Crisis: 1-888-628-9454<br />
OPTIONS FOR DEAF + HARD OF HEARING<br />
For TTY Users:<br />
Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988.<br />
THE CRISIS TEXT LINE CAN BE ACCESSED<br />
BY TEXTING:<br />
STORY TO 741-741<br />
Envía un mensaje de texto con la palabra AYUDA al 741741 para<br />
comunicarte de manera gratuita con un Consejero de Crisis.<br />
TAKE A MENTAL HEALTH SCREENING...<br />
IT’S EASY AND FREE!<br />
Taking a mental health screening is one of the quickest and<br />
easiest ways to determine whether you are experiencing<br />
symptoms of a mental health condition.<br />
Mental health conditions, such as depression or anxiety, are<br />
real, common, and treatable. And recovery is possible.<br />
We are thrilled to partner <strong>with</strong> Mental Health America, which<br />
offers 10 mental health screens. You can share your results<br />
<strong>with</strong> your physician or health care provider.<br />
Take a free and confidential screening today by visiting:<br />
HTTP://BIT.LY/BRAVESCREEN<br />
www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave
THIS IS MY BRAVE<br />
HISTORY<br />
FROM A BLOG TO A SHOW<br />
In August of 2011, more than six years after Jennifer<br />
Marshall’s bipolar disorder first surfaced, she decided<br />
to start a blog. It became a place where she turned to<br />
write about her life as a wife and young mom to two<br />
small kids, and writing helped her begin to heal. She<br />
titled it: Bipolar Mom Life. Jennifer wrote anonymously<br />
at first, because she was afraid of being judged. She<br />
also worried that disclosing her mental illness may make<br />
future employment opportunities difficult. For eighteen<br />
months, Jennifer wrote and found community online.<br />
Other writers who were openly sharing their stories of<br />
overcoming mental illness inspired her, and when she<br />
landed her first paid writing job, Jennifer decided to stop<br />
hiding behind a pen name.<br />
When WhatToExpect.com published her first article <strong>with</strong><br />
Jennifer’s byline, it was also picked up by AOL.com (the<br />
parent company). <strong>The</strong> outpouring of support and gratitude<br />
when that piece hit the Internet <strong>with</strong> her real name was<br />
overwhelming. She knew immediately that disclosing was<br />
the right decision. She could finally talk about all parts of<br />
her life, and not just the shiny, fun moments.<br />
About six months later, Jennifer had the idea to launch<br />
a theater show. A simple storytelling show where<br />
individuals from the community could tell their stories<br />
through creative expression to break down the stigma<br />
associated <strong>with</strong> mental illness. She wanted to give<br />
individuals from the community the same opportunity<br />
she had – a stage on which to share their story of living<br />
a successful life despite mental illness. Jennifer met her<br />
Co-Founder, Anne Marie Ames, at a mutual friend’s party<br />
and recruited her to help put the project out to the world.<br />
Jennifer and Anne Marie launched <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong><br />
on Kickstarter in October of 2013 and the excitement<br />
surrounding the project grew and grew. <strong>The</strong>y offered<br />
tickets to the first show and handmade “BRAVE”<br />
bracelets, among other items, as rewards for financial<br />
pledges of support. Within 31 days, the campaign had<br />
surpassed their goal of $6,500 to fund the first show,<br />
ending up <strong>with</strong> over $10,000 in contributions. It was clear<br />
that the community wanted to help bring this show to life<br />
– they believed in the vision and Jennifer and Anne Marie<br />
were dedicated to delivering an exceptional production.<br />
After the success of the debut show in 2014, Jennifer<br />
and Anne Marie began receiving interest from<br />
individuals in other cities to bring the show to their<br />
community. <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong>, Inc was formed<br />
as a 501(c)(3) and the organization began to<br />
expand to new cities through the support of<br />
volunteers willing to donate their time and<br />
expertise to coordinate shows.<br />
Photo credit: Jim Folliard<br />
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“I finally feel comfortable <strong>with</strong> my mental<br />
health story in a way I never have before.<br />
Like the power it used to hold over me is gone.”<br />
ERIN TROIA, 2018 ARLINGTON STORYTELLER<br />
FROM ONE SHOW TO NATIONWIDE + AUSTRALIA<br />
Since 2014, <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> has produced more than 90<br />
unique shows in cities across the United States featuring<br />
over 1000 storytellers sharing true, personal stories on<br />
overcoming depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, PTSD,<br />
psychosis, OCD, postpartum depression, borderline<br />
personality disorder, dissociative identity disorder,<br />
trichotillomania, anorexia, bulimia, sexual assault,<br />
alcoholism, substance use disorder and more.<br />
In 2017, <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> expanded internationally <strong>with</strong> the<br />
help of mental health advocate Tim Daly, who leads our<br />
NPO in Canberra, Australia – <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> Australia,<br />
or TIMBA for short.<br />
Jennifer and Anne Marie may have created the space<br />
for these brave stories to exist, but <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong><br />
wouldn’t be the incredible community it is if it weren’t<br />
for all the amazing people who have bravely come<br />
forward to share their stories. “It’s my opinion that we<br />
won’t be able to end the stigma surrounding mental<br />
illness and addiction until we put our names and faces<br />
on our stories,” says Jennifer.<br />
THIS IS MY BRAVE<br />
IS DOING THIS<br />
ONE PERSON<br />
& ONE STORY<br />
AT A TIME<br />
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THIS IS MY BRAVE’S<br />
PROGRAMS<br />
THIS IS MY BRAVE IS MORE THAN JUST A SHOW...<br />
• Opportunities for transformation and community building<br />
• Youth and young adult initiatives<br />
• Virtual programming<br />
• Inspirational speakers bureau<br />
• Integral research on the power of storytelling<br />
VISIT OUR WEBSITE TO LEARN MORE<br />
DESTIGMATIZING<br />
MENTAL ILLNESS<br />
ONE PERSON AND<br />
ONE STORY AT A TIME<br />
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THIS IS MY BRAVE’S IMPACT<br />
Since 2014, <strong>This</strong> <strong>Is</strong> <strong>My</strong> <strong>Brave</strong> has...<br />
produced<br />
90<br />
shows<br />
<strong>with</strong> over<br />
1000<br />
storytellers<br />
18,500+<br />
audience<br />
members<br />
2022<br />
College Edition - USF<br />
New Hampshire<br />
Broward County, FL<br />
in 53 cities and 300k<br />
Los Angeles, CA<br />
2019<br />
in the U.S. YouTube<br />
Philadelphia, PA<br />
High School Edition Pilot<br />
and Australia video views<br />
Stories from the College College Edition Pilot<br />
Athlete Community* Baltimore, MD<br />
New York City, NY<br />
2016<br />
DeKalb, IL<br />
Concord, NH<br />
Orlando, FL<br />
Arlington, VA<br />
Eagle Valley, CO<br />
DeKalb, IL<br />
Philadelphia, PA<br />
Baltimore, MD<br />
Stories from the<br />
Houston, TX<br />
Veteran Community*<br />
Sterling, VA<br />
Denver, CO - Spring<br />
Orlando, FL<br />
•<br />
•<br />
Denver, CO - Fall<br />
Columbus, OH<br />
2021<br />
2017<br />
Greenville, SC<br />
Carroll County, MD<br />
Stories from the<br />
Bentonville, AR<br />
Iowa City, IA<br />
Black Community - vol 1*<br />
Northwest AR<br />
Boise, ID<br />
Oklahoma City, OK<br />
Stories from the<br />
Boise, ID<br />
Boston, MA<br />
Valparaiso, IN<br />
Black Community - vol 2* •<br />
Canberra, Australia<br />
Washington, DC<br />
College Edition - season 2* 2018<br />
Cedar Rapids, IA<br />
•<br />
New Hampshire*<br />
Arlington, VA - Spring D.C. Women’s Summit, 2015<br />
National Teen <strong>Show</strong>*<br />
Arlington, VA - Fall<br />
Washington, DC<br />
Arlington, VA<br />
Stories from the<br />
Baltimore, MD<br />
Des Moines, IA<br />
Boston, MA<br />
APIDA Community*<br />
Bentonville, AR<br />
Germantown, MD<br />
Harrisburg, PA<br />
<strong>Brave</strong>TV*<br />
Bethesda, MD<br />
Jacksonville, FL<br />
Iowa City, IA<br />
<strong>Brave</strong> Beyond the Stage* Boise, ID<br />
Kansas City, MO<br />
Los Angeles, CA<br />
#<strong>Brave</strong>Days*<br />
Boston, MA - Spring<br />
Lewiston, ME<br />
New York City, NY<br />
•<br />
Boston, MA - Fall<br />
Los Angeles, CA - Spring<br />
2020<br />
Charlotte, NC - Spring Los Angeles, CA - Fall 2014<br />
<strong>Brave</strong>TV pilot*<br />
Charlotte, NC - Fall<br />
Napa, CA<br />
Arlington, VA<br />
Napa Valley<br />
Elkins Park, PA<br />
Perth, Australia<br />
& St Helena, CA<br />
Ft. Lauderdale, FL<br />
Sedona, AZ<br />
Houston, TX*<br />
Iowa City, IA<br />
Valparaiso, IN<br />
St Louis, MO*<br />
Lansing, MI<br />
Washington, DC<br />
Washington, DC-area* Los Angeles, CA<br />
Wheeling, WV<br />
Hampton Roads, VA*<br />
Mullumbimby, Australia<br />
* indicates virtual programming<br />
New Hampshire*<br />
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www.thisismybrave.org<br />
@thisismybrave @thisismybrave<br />
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