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flu of your life for four out of seven days a<br />
week, and you never know which days will<br />
be affected.<br />
We knew that God was with us always,<br />
and believed He would lead us through this<br />
ordeal. Yet, our faith had never been tested<br />
in this way. I had been through this with many<br />
church members as a pastor, though I had<br />
never experienced anything like this before.<br />
Since the doctor put me on high steroid<br />
doses, I instantly became fully diabetic, taking<br />
insulin injections daily. I continued as pastor<br />
and, though I missed a few Sundays, I did my<br />
best to serve the church and its members for<br />
that year. In the spring of 2017, I had kyphoplasty<br />
on my T7 vertebrae. The doctor filled in<br />
the broken parts of the vertebrae with a type<br />
of bone cement to prevent more collapse.<br />
That lowered the pain and frequent injections<br />
make the pain bearable.<br />
The standard treatment is chemotherapy<br />
for as long as it takes to decrease your rogue<br />
white blood cells. After the chemo decreases<br />
the cancer enough, most people have their<br />
own stem cells taken out of their blood in<br />
preparation for a stem cell transplant. However,<br />
before the foundation of the world, the Lord<br />
Jesus knew me, and He knew I would need<br />
spare parts.<br />
I have an identical twin, Ralph, who lives<br />
in Meridian. After eleven months of chemo,<br />
I entered UMMC August 12, and received a<br />
dose of strong chemo that day and the next.<br />
By the 14th the chemo had killed all my<br />
blood, stem cells, and bone marrow. I lived<br />
on infused blood. On Monday August 14,<br />
I received a bone marrow transplant from<br />
Ralph, including stem cells. The photo of us<br />
was taken the afternoon of the bone marrow<br />
transplant.<br />
Mindy stayed by my side for the next 24<br />
days in UMMC as my body absorbed the new<br />
marrow. I do not remember many of the days.<br />
The sickness is hard to describe but more<br />
intense than the chemo. My church graciously<br />
gave me 120 days off to get through this. I<br />
needed it since I had to stay in isolation for<br />
100 days at home after leaving the hospital.<br />
I wore masks before it was cool.<br />
As a child, as I felt the Spirit of God calling<br />
me to salvation, I asked Jesus into my heart,<br />
surrendering my life to Him. My sins were<br />
forgiven and I was washed in the Blood of<br />
the Lamb. Then in 2017, my brother’s bone<br />
marrow and stem cells from his blood saved<br />
me again. I was twice saved by the blood.<br />
Praise the Lord Jesus!<br />
For the next few months, our home was<br />
in quarantine. All food was prepared specially<br />
with multiple strict cleanliness measures. I<br />
slept many days, too weak to get up for long.<br />
More than once, Mindy had to give me the<br />
attitude pep talk for often I dwelt in a dark<br />
place. I knew she loved me before that, but<br />
I then saw her love in action for well over a<br />
year. Slowly, I began to improve as Ralph’s<br />
bone marrow took root in me and began to<br />
make red blood cells, five types of white<br />
blood cells, and platelets. Mindy worked hard<br />
to get me through the chemo, transplant, and<br />
isolation. I loved her since I met her in 1974.<br />
Now I love her more and ever appreciate her<br />
devotion to me.<br />
By Thanksgiving 2017, I was better and<br />
returned to work. Life slowly returned to<br />
normal until March 2018 when I had emergency<br />
triple-bypass heart surgery that failed,<br />
and I had to go through it again three weeks<br />
later. Both surgeries failed, so the doctors<br />
used seven stents to get my blood flowing.<br />
One of the chemotherapies can lead to heart<br />
problems. Through all that, thank God I did<br />
not experience a heart attack.<br />
Within a few months after the last stent,<br />
the leaders of the church I served for 17½<br />
years forced my resignation with one-day’s<br />
notice. As unworthy as I am to serve anywhere<br />
as pastor, I thank God that He allowed<br />
me to serve Him there for that many years.<br />
After all we endured, I knew God had plans<br />
for us. Obviously, it was not at that church.<br />
We understood that no church would call<br />
a 64-year-old pastor with recent serious<br />
health issues, so we began to explore other<br />
options. Within a few months, we decided to<br />
pursue work in real estate. We earned our real<br />
estate licenses and began working with Rita<br />
McIntosh, owner of McIntosh and Associates.<br />
We became two of the associates. God<br />
blessed our work and continues to do so.<br />
Through a series of heavenly events, we<br />
became members of Bethel Baptist Church,<br />
off Highway 468 south of Brandon. The godly<br />
members there welcomed and loved us as<br />
Mindy became the pianist and I the minister<br />
of music. After four years as minister of music,<br />
I became the minister of outreach and<br />
evangelism in February of this year.<br />
Every day is a blessing, as we continue<br />
to see God’s hand in all areas of our lives.<br />
Though not as energetic as before, I still have<br />
more than enough energy to work and serve<br />
the Lord. I thank God for my brother, who is<br />
my best friend and hero. I thank the Lord daily<br />
for my wonderful wife, Mindy. We are closer<br />
than ever. I thank the Lord Jesus Christ, for I<br />
am twice saved by the Blood.<br />
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