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Nancy & George Stallings<br />

Camille Anding<br />

It’s typical in the small towns of<br />

the delta for everyone to know their<br />

neighbors and their neighbors’ friends.<br />

Families grow up together and even go<br />

on vacations together. At least that’s<br />

the way it was for the Carithers and<br />

the Stallings growing up in Leland,<br />

Mississippi. As many as five families<br />

would vacation together.<br />

Nancy Carithers and George<br />

Stallings grew up going to the same<br />

Leland school with just one grade<br />

separating them. So, going on family<br />

vacations together was like going with<br />

friends and schoolmates.<br />

It was the husbands of those families<br />

who most often chose the vacation<br />

locations. Since the men enjoyed<br />

hunting and fishing, those locations<br />

were always on the water or somewhere<br />

near recommended hunting sights.<br />

Nancy and George will always remember<br />

one memorable vacation spot –<br />

Kentucky Lake. Nancy and a family<br />

friend set out on a walking tour of the<br />

water’s edge and soon found<br />

themselves in a snake-infested area.<br />

“I heard their screams,” George<br />

said, remembering the day he became<br />

Nancy’s hero. He rushed to their aid<br />

and carried them to safety, one at a<br />

time, on his back. He was fifteen and<br />

Nancy was fourteen, but in Nancy’s<br />

eyes, his heroic gesture turned that<br />

neighborhood friend into her beau.<br />

It was on Grenada Lake on another<br />

family vacation when George asked<br />

Nancy to go with him to a movie in<br />

Grenada. She was sixteen, and George<br />

was seventeen. They would agree that<br />

love began to blossom in the Temple<br />

Theater!<br />

The young couple talked of future<br />

plans as their relationship continued<br />

to grow. George decided he wanted to<br />

be a doctor, so Nancy thought nursing<br />

would be the most logical choice for<br />

her future occupation. George<br />

enrolled at Mississippi State and began<br />

the pre-med courses while Nancy<br />

finished her senior year in high school.<br />

Nancy had to change her career<br />

plans when she learned that State<br />

didn’t offer a nursing degree. Instead<br />

of choosing a college that did, Nancy<br />

chose being close to George and<br />

changed her major to elementary<br />

education.<br />

During George’s junior year and<br />

Nancy’s sophomore year, they were<br />

married on June 1, 1969, at First Baptist<br />

Church in Leland. A large crowd<br />

attended the wedding and watched as<br />

the newlyweds drove away to Dauphin<br />

Island on the Gulf Coast – just weeks<br />

before Hurricane Camille would<br />

wreak havoc on the entire area.<br />

They returned to college as a<br />

married couple and moved into<br />

University Village. George was an<br />

alternate on the medical school list<br />

and continued his studies in hopes<br />

someone would drop out of the list of<br />

med students, allowing him acceptance<br />

into the school. His dreams of<br />

becoming a doctor appeared to vanish<br />

when the list never changed. However<br />

his military draft status went to 1A<br />

during the height of the Vietnam War.<br />

When Nancy’s pregnancy test read<br />

positive, George joined the National<br />

Guard. Nancy did not want to birth<br />

and raise their first child alone.<br />

8 • NOVEMBER 2023

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