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February 29, 2012 - Temple Emanuel of Beverly Hills

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By Rabbi Laura Geller<br />

RabbiGeller@tebh.org<br />

The Rest <strong>of</strong> My Life<br />

The English word “sabbatical” comes from the word<br />

“Shabbat.” It was first used in 1886 to refer to a year’s absence<br />

granted to researchers which typically occurred once in every<br />

seven years <strong>of</strong> teaching. The idea emerged from the Biblical<br />

injunction to let the land lie fallow every seven years to give<br />

it a chance to regenerate. Not a bad idea for those who are<br />

teaching and researching to have a chance to take a breath<br />

and regenerate a bit. In fact, it is probably a good idea for all<br />

<strong>of</strong> us! Pr<strong>of</strong>essors and rabbis are among the lucky few whose<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>essions encourage this privilege. The clergy at <strong>Temple</strong><br />

<strong>Emanuel</strong> are grateful to have leadership who recognizes that<br />

it is important for clergy to have time to reflect, study and<br />

renew ourselves.<br />

Over my almost 17 years as rabbi here, I have taken two<br />

separate months <strong>of</strong> sabbatical leave, both in the summers<br />

when I studied as a Rabbinic Fellow in the Hartman Institute in<br />

Jerusalem. In January I will take another month <strong>of</strong> sabbatical<br />

leave to give me some time to think about a project which<br />

I hope will benefit the congregation and myself as well:<br />

reaching out to baby boomers and helping them discover<br />

meaning and purpose through their connection to Jewish<br />

experience and our synagogue.<br />

My greatgrandparents’ lifetime was characterized by three<br />

major life stages: childhood, midlife and old age. The idea<br />

that “adolescence” was a life stage didn’t develop until the<br />

early years <strong>of</strong> the twentieth century. For my parents, there<br />

was childhood, adolescence, midlife and then retirement<br />

at 65 to Florida. For the Boomer generation it seems to be<br />

different. We are seeing a lot being written about another<br />

life stage between midlife and old age, sometimes called<br />

“the third stage” or the “encore stage.” It constitutes a very<br />

large cohort, getting larger by the year. As <strong>of</strong> January, 2011,<br />

a person in the United States will turn 65 every eight seconds.<br />

(4) TEMPLE TOPICS /// JANUARY – FEBRUARY <strong>2012</strong><br />

The well known social scientist Steven Cohen has written:<br />

“Boomers (people born between 1946 and 1964) are the<br />

first generation in human history… to reasonably anticipate<br />

living well and wholesomely into their 80’s and 90’s if not<br />

beyond…. Jews (as others) are not only living longer, they<br />

are living in an age <strong>of</strong> meaning-seeking, with the interest<br />

and wherewithal to make living a life <strong>of</strong> meaning an ultimate<br />

and reasonably obtainable objective for any point in their<br />

lives. As such, this aging, yet largely healthy generation <strong>of</strong><br />

American Jews poses a challenge and an opportunity to<br />

a society and community that is as yet unprepared for the<br />

totally new policy and planning opportunities that loom in<br />

the near future.”<br />

My sabbatical project will begin with my catching up on the<br />

literature that relates to this third stage; it turns out there<br />

is quite a bit, but not much <strong>of</strong> it focused on the Jewish<br />

community. I also intend to meet with people already thinking<br />

about these questions around the country. I’m hopeful that<br />

when I return to work in <strong>February</strong>, we can begin a series <strong>of</strong><br />

informal conversations that will help us clarify how best to<br />

create a culture within our congregation that helps the Baby<br />

Boomers among us celebrate the next stage <strong>of</strong> our lives.<br />

Let me know after <strong>February</strong> 1 if you would be interested in<br />

being part <strong>of</strong> one <strong>of</strong> these conversations.<br />

I’ll be back in time to welcome one <strong>of</strong> my heroes, Anat<br />

H<strong>of</strong>fman, Director <strong>of</strong> the Israel Religious Action Center,<br />

sponsored by the Reform Movement, and a leader <strong>of</strong> Women<br />

at the Wall, on Friday night <strong>February</strong> 3. More information<br />

about her visit is on page 22. I hope I’ll see you there.<br />

Save the Date:<br />

Behrendt Scholar-in-Residence<br />

Rabbi Rachel Cowan�<br />

Senior Fellow, Institute for Jewish Spirituality<br />

March 9 and 10<br />

"Growing Older and Wiser"<br />

"Bringing Mindfulness into Your Daily Life"

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