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getting better, such as mucus clearing, cough subsiding, breath calming down <strong>and</strong><br />

wondering how it all got better.<br />

Keep a calm attitude even when you are experiencing troubling symptoms by<br />

constantly telling yourself something like "If I get more angry, frustrated, anxious or<br />

depressed, it won't be helpful. If I stay positive <strong>and</strong> somehow manage to get a smile<br />

on my face or find something funny to laugh about, I will be helping the healing<br />

forces.”<br />

Yes, there is something in the age old saying, "<strong>Mind</strong> over matter!"<br />

Question 5<br />

I worry far too much. I can't remember not worrying about something or<br />

another. I'm afraid a worry quickly spreads its tentacles <strong>and</strong> strangles me. How do I<br />

break a pattern that is so ingrained in me <strong>and</strong> keep getting worse as my lung disease<br />

progresses. I can generally manage my worries but when I get another respiratory<br />

infection <strong>and</strong> don't feel well, it gets harder to fight the worries with positive<br />

thoughts. I feel like I have no energy left to keep fighting the ugly beast of worry.<br />

What should I do when my mind <strong>and</strong> body feel overwhelmed <strong>and</strong> tired?<br />

Answer<br />

Congratulate yourself for what you already have been doing to manage your<br />

worries. You have been making some progress in controlling worries in spite of your<br />

severe medical condition.<br />

Let me now come to your question as to what to do. To begin with recognize that<br />

"work of controlling worries" is energy saving <strong>and</strong> not energy wasting. Fighting with<br />

the disease <strong>and</strong> the symptoms is very exhausting but the less energy you spend on<br />

worries, fears, <strong>and</strong> distress over why it is happening to you is the energy you save to<br />

do other work.<br />

Here are four suggestions to get you started:<br />

1. Come to terms with the "final stage of growth" that is, death.<br />

Personally, I don't fear or feel bad about my death but I hope <strong>and</strong> pray that my last<br />

phase is not too painful or too long.<br />

2. Immerse yourself in spirituality <strong>and</strong> spiritual growth. Note that spirituality is<br />

different from religion. For example, spiritual belief is that God is one but people <strong>and</strong><br />

religions call him (or her) by different names <strong>and</strong> that we are all one whether we see<br />

ourselves one or not.<br />

3. Don't try to "stop worrying!"<br />

<strong>In</strong>stead, get really good in diverting your thoughts <strong>and</strong> emotions to something good<br />

such as love <strong>and</strong>/or compassion.<br />

When worry hits you, recognize it right away <strong>and</strong> say, "Worry! My old friend!" Right<br />

ways start sending your love to each <strong>and</strong> every loved ones of yours or feeling<br />

compassion <strong>and</strong> sending love for all the people you heard on radio or TV being<br />

afflicted by floods, hurricanes, tornadoes, starvation, etc. Of, for example, pray for<br />

everyone else you know or hear about being sick<br />

4. Do some helping act for someone else, which you can do even when you are

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