Anneme Beyaz Elbiseler Giydireceğim - Türkiye İş Kurumu
Anneme Beyaz Elbiseler Giydireceğim - Türkiye İş Kurumu
Anneme Beyaz Elbiseler Giydireceğim - Türkiye İş Kurumu
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I Am Going To Dress Up My Mum With White Dresses<br />
orphanage” they look down on us, or pity us, and label us… when we go outside in Erzincan “look these<br />
are from… orphanage, these are…”and they look at on a bad way and say “nothing will be of these<br />
girls”. That’s how they approach me and it is negative”<br />
“… because we are staying in the orphanage, even in the job environment…people suddenly start<br />
looking at us differently...”<br />
“(talking about the assault of her friend…) “you ask me whether I talked about my personal life and<br />
, that I stayed in an orphanage?” I didn’t tell them that I was staying in an orphanage.”<br />
“… They didn’t know I was from the orphanage. I didn’t tell them on purpose. I knew how they<br />
would have approached me. But, I wish I had. I went through that situation…I though they would be<br />
bad to me because I am from an orphanage”<br />
“The disadvantage of being a girl, and from the orphanage, is that that there is a prejudgement on<br />
being from an orphanage, there is everything. To be very frankly they think that “these girls have stayed<br />
in an orphanage, need money, as long as we give them money, we can buy everything, and buy their<br />
bodies.”<br />
“the ones that are staying in the orphanage, can be how can I say it…I mean that they can go in any<br />
direction…that’s how they look at us mostly…especially men. That’s why I didn’t say anything in the<br />
beginning. I just introduced my self, then told them, then it didn’t mean anything.”<br />
- HHaavviinngg nnoo kknnoowwlleeddggee oonn wwoorrkkiinngg lliiffee aanndd rriigghhttss……<br />
“…They tell us that “you will be a civil servant” I didn’t even know what it was to be a civil servant,<br />
do they sit and write stuff? They just sit and deal with the files that arrive…on my mind…I don’t think<br />
they do much…they would actually say that thought.”<br />
“I understood the significance of your pronunciation, clothes and body language while working. I<br />
learned the importance of looking at the person while talking to them”<br />
“I didn’t have social security. I didn’t know about stuff like that. Now its like can I lead my own life<br />
and receive my pay cheque, its all ok”<br />
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