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Anneme Beyaz Elbiseler Giydireceğim - Türkiye İş Kurumu

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I Am Going To Dress Up My Mum With White Dresses<br />

“The first was very important for me. I saw that I didn’t know anything. Although I have been a lot,<br />

I didn’t know anything, I learned about, what I did in the past, what I am doing now, in what type of a<br />

job I should have and my rights. If the employer want respect my rights, I know what I should do.”<br />

“…I completed all of my shortcomings here, I think. I learned how to talk to someone my age and<br />

my elders, I learned to be scared, I knew a little before, I was scared that people would react badly.”<br />

“(She is forming a link between the trainings and Turkey) … I think it will be better for women as<br />

at least 23 more girls are looking towards the future. They will show themselves in the equal position<br />

of maybe on a better position than man. Those that participated in this course are aware of that now, at<br />

least are getting to understand it better.”<br />

““AAllll tthhee yyoouunngg ppeeooppllee sshhoouulldd ttaakkee tthhee ssttrreennggtthheenniinngg ccllaasssseess pprriioorr ttoo ssttaarrttiinngg tthheeiirr jjoobbss””<br />

Within this Project the strengthening trainings were directed at girls that have been grown up in<br />

orphanages or inexperienced young girls or factory workers, to help them to deal with problems that<br />

may arise and to learn about different institutions and companies. The interviews have shown that, these<br />

trainings have really had a strengthening effect. For instance, nearly all of them were happy with the<br />

civil servant exam that they had taken, and linked their success to this project.<br />

“The Project is so perfect…you said that “we will do it, it will happen”. That was good for me. I<br />

had no fears of worries. I hope to get a certificate from the course and… go to university… I decided to<br />

go back to school. I feel more confident now. I will have a certificate. My exam went well. Even though<br />

I was scared. I am fine now.”<br />

“I though the strengthening classes would be different and actually it was something completely<br />

different. For instance, I was scared of marriage, I was scared of communicating, I feel developed now.<br />

I know how to act on a better level. I know what I have to do when I start my job.”<br />

“Young people should definitely have this training before starting work, because all of them were<br />

lessons that are necessary.”<br />

“We received a lot of information on numerous topics by visiting various institutions. All of them<br />

were aspects that are significant for us. We had the opportunity to witness how people are working in<br />

a hard manner, and even though we didn’t work ourselves we came close to it.”<br />

“For instance I had decided to divorce with my husband. I had given a consent paper to my sister…I<br />

told my sister “how can I afford this, how can I find a lawyer” the bar! The teacher said that “those that<br />

are in financial difficulty, can ask for legal advice from us. You can receive advice from the Bar. You can<br />

go to Women’s associations” and stuff. We have learned a lot about the law.<br />

“The education is really good and qualified. Especially the strengthening class. We have learned a<br />

lot. I was telling my fiancée the last day, I was saying “I”, “have learned about my rights”, “I am not as<br />

easy as before”, he told me why I had gone to that place, you talk more (she laughs). So I learned a lot.<br />

None of us knew that much. Whoever says that they did is lying. The stuff we knew wasn’t based on<br />

anything.”

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