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Page 8 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN September-October 2012<br />
Atlantan’s bar mitzvah project part of a continuum of giving<br />
By Jeanie Franco Marx<br />
Three years ago, when Jack Morgan, a<br />
rising 10th grader at Northview High,<br />
decided to train a yellow lab/golden retriever<br />
puppy as his bar mitzvah project, he<br />
knew he’d made a commitment: to love,<br />
teach, and bond with a pup named Tara for<br />
14 months, then give her up to help someone<br />
with a disability. It would be a sacrifice,<br />
because he loves dogs so much, but if it<br />
would benefit someone else, he was ready<br />
to do it.<br />
Tara went to class twice a week for<br />
more than a year. “Every Thursday night,<br />
Jack was in charge of taking Tara to class,”<br />
reports his mother, Marci Morgan. <strong>The</strong><br />
whole family participated in raising Tara,<br />
but Marci and Jack were the primary caregivers.<br />
After more than a year of getting<br />
attached to Jack and his family, Tara spent<br />
another year in training with Canine<br />
Companions for Independence—first in<br />
Orlando and then in Santa Rosa,<br />
California—to determine what type of person<br />
she would be best suited for.<br />
Eventually, the Morgans, of Johns<br />
Creek, Georgia, learned about filmmakers<br />
Tami Pivnick and Susan Broude, of Sedona,<br />
Arizona, who adopted Tara in January<br />
2011. Tami is hearing impaired; she reads<br />
lips but cannot hear the phone or doorbell<br />
ring. But Tara can. She knows how to let<br />
Tami know whether it’s her cell phone or<br />
the doorbell; she also alerts Tami to emergency<br />
sirens, smoke detectors, and signal<br />
from appliances such as the microwave,<br />
washer, and dryer. “Tara responds to different<br />
sounds,” says Tami, as Tara rests on her<br />
feet. “She also lets me know when Susan is<br />
calling me from the other side of the<br />
house.”<br />
This dog is food-trained, Tami<br />
explains. “We withhold food, because she<br />
must be within a certain weight. She’s an<br />
athlete; she’s always working.” If someone<br />
knocks at the door, she’ll poke Tami. “She<br />
usually goes to the door first, then comes<br />
and gets me.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> couple was in town, at Atlanta’s<br />
Sophia Academy, to preview their powerful<br />
documentary, Bullied to Silence, a visual<br />
and emotional journey into the lives of<br />
teens who’ve been bullied and scarred for<br />
life. “It also presents the bully and goes<br />
beyond the tragedies of ruined lives to offer<br />
a message of hope,” says Susan. “This film<br />
offers the viewer a chance to be a catalyst<br />
for change, to stop the verbal and cyberbullying.”<br />
All film participants are willing<br />
to consult with any troubled teen. Some of<br />
those who did not survive their trials by bullies<br />
still live through stories told by family<br />
and friends.<br />
<strong>The</strong> filmmakers seek funding to give<br />
their film “legs,” so it can travel to schools<br />
everywhere. <strong>The</strong>y hope to teach educators,<br />
parents, and students about the seriousness<br />
<strong>The</strong> Morgan family with Tara: (front,<br />
from left) Dick, Marci, and Michael;<br />
(back) Jack<br />
of bullying, in order to stop this continuum<br />
of pain.<br />
At the Atlanta screening, when the film<br />
ended, there was silence, then everyone<br />
applauded and many were emotional.<br />
Questioning hands went up all over the<br />
auditorium.<br />
“What do you do when a teacher<br />
allows bullying?” asked one student.<br />
Another admitted to being bullied at<br />
school. “Are any of these bullies in this<br />
room?” asked the filmmaker. “Yes,” he<br />
replied.<br />
“It’s never about you,” Susan explains.<br />
“It’s about the bully needing to feel good<br />
about himself or herself. Find a way to be<br />
heard,” she urges. “Take responsibility.<br />
Report it.”<br />
Full circle: Jack Morgan gets a<br />
long-awaited visit from Tara, the<br />
puppy he trained to be a service<br />
dog<br />
Susan Broude, Tami Pivnick, Tara, Jack Morgan, and Marci Morgan<br />
<strong>The</strong> duo finished the film in a year,<br />
working 16-hour days, seven days a week.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> worst kind of bullying is any bullying,<br />
if it hurts you inside,” says Susan. “<strong>The</strong><br />
most important thing to do is not to stay<br />
silent. If you do, you start to disappear.” For<br />
information, visit<br />
www.bulliedtosilence.com.<br />
After the film’s preview, Tara’s two<br />
families finally met. <strong>The</strong>re were hugs and<br />
thanks all around, and Tara sniffed and got<br />
excited, reacquainting herself with her first<br />
family.<br />
Jack Morgan’s bar mitzvah project had<br />
come full circle. Instead of just receiving<br />
gifts, he gave a gift—one that keeps on giving.