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Page 8 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN September-October 2012<br />

Atlantan’s bar mitzvah project part of a continuum of giving<br />

By Jeanie Franco Marx<br />

Three years ago, when Jack Morgan, a<br />

rising 10th grader at Northview High,<br />

decided to train a yellow lab/golden retriever<br />

puppy as his bar mitzvah project, he<br />

knew he’d made a commitment: to love,<br />

teach, and bond with a pup named Tara for<br />

14 months, then give her up to help someone<br />

with a disability. It would be a sacrifice,<br />

because he loves dogs so much, but if it<br />

would benefit someone else, he was ready<br />

to do it.<br />

Tara went to class twice a week for<br />

more than a year. “Every Thursday night,<br />

Jack was in charge of taking Tara to class,”<br />

reports his mother, Marci Morgan. <strong>The</strong><br />

whole family participated in raising Tara,<br />

but Marci and Jack were the primary caregivers.<br />

After more than a year of getting<br />

attached to Jack and his family, Tara spent<br />

another year in training with Canine<br />

Companions for Independence—first in<br />

Orlando and then in Santa Rosa,<br />

California—to determine what type of person<br />

she would be best suited for.<br />

Eventually, the Morgans, of Johns<br />

Creek, Georgia, learned about filmmakers<br />

Tami Pivnick and Susan Broude, of Sedona,<br />

Arizona, who adopted Tara in January<br />

2011. Tami is hearing impaired; she reads<br />

lips but cannot hear the phone or doorbell<br />

ring. But Tara can. She knows how to let<br />

Tami know whether it’s her cell phone or<br />

the doorbell; she also alerts Tami to emergency<br />

sirens, smoke detectors, and signal<br />

from appliances such as the microwave,<br />

washer, and dryer. “Tara responds to different<br />

sounds,” says Tami, as Tara rests on her<br />

feet. “She also lets me know when Susan is<br />

calling me from the other side of the<br />

house.”<br />

This dog is food-trained, Tami<br />

explains. “We withhold food, because she<br />

must be within a certain weight. She’s an<br />

athlete; she’s always working.” If someone<br />

knocks at the door, she’ll poke Tami. “She<br />

usually goes to the door first, then comes<br />

and gets me.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> couple was in town, at Atlanta’s<br />

Sophia Academy, to preview their powerful<br />

documentary, Bullied to Silence, a visual<br />

and emotional journey into the lives of<br />

teens who’ve been bullied and scarred for<br />

life. “It also presents the bully and goes<br />

beyond the tragedies of ruined lives to offer<br />

a message of hope,” says Susan. “This film<br />

offers the viewer a chance to be a catalyst<br />

for change, to stop the verbal and cyberbullying.”<br />

All film participants are willing<br />

to consult with any troubled teen. Some of<br />

those who did not survive their trials by bullies<br />

still live through stories told by family<br />

and friends.<br />

<strong>The</strong> filmmakers seek funding to give<br />

their film “legs,” so it can travel to schools<br />

everywhere. <strong>The</strong>y hope to teach educators,<br />

parents, and students about the seriousness<br />

<strong>The</strong> Morgan family with Tara: (front,<br />

from left) Dick, Marci, and Michael;<br />

(back) Jack<br />

of bullying, in order to stop this continuum<br />

of pain.<br />

At the Atlanta screening, when the film<br />

ended, there was silence, then everyone<br />

applauded and many were emotional.<br />

Questioning hands went up all over the<br />

auditorium.<br />

“What do you do when a teacher<br />

allows bullying?” asked one student.<br />

Another admitted to being bullied at<br />

school. “Are any of these bullies in this<br />

room?” asked the filmmaker. “Yes,” he<br />

replied.<br />

“It’s never about you,” Susan explains.<br />

“It’s about the bully needing to feel good<br />

about himself or herself. Find a way to be<br />

heard,” she urges. “Take responsibility.<br />

Report it.”<br />

Full circle: Jack Morgan gets a<br />

long-awaited visit from Tara, the<br />

puppy he trained to be a service<br />

dog<br />

Susan Broude, Tami Pivnick, Tara, Jack Morgan, and Marci Morgan<br />

<strong>The</strong> duo finished the film in a year,<br />

working 16-hour days, seven days a week.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> worst kind of bullying is any bullying,<br />

if it hurts you inside,” says Susan. “<strong>The</strong><br />

most important thing to do is not to stay<br />

silent. If you do, you start to disappear.” For<br />

information, visit<br />

www.bulliedtosilence.com.<br />

After the film’s preview, Tara’s two<br />

families finally met. <strong>The</strong>re were hugs and<br />

thanks all around, and Tara sniffed and got<br />

excited, reacquainting herself with her first<br />

family.<br />

Jack Morgan’s bar mitzvah project had<br />

come full circle. Instead of just receiving<br />

gifts, he gave a gift—one that keeps on giving.

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