2011 Proceedings - National FFA Organization
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ilEy pAgEtt continuEd<br />
when we identify our fears, make those<br />
fears fearful of us, accept the opposition<br />
and choose to run towards that adversity<br />
full force.<br />
We can choose courage every day.<br />
Caleb from the Mont Belvieu <strong>FFA</strong> Chapter<br />
in Texas chose courage by asking to<br />
attend national <strong>FFA</strong> convention despite<br />
his fear of being left out. Jaci of the<br />
Woodward <strong>FFA</strong> Chapter in Oklahoma<br />
chose courage by participating in the<br />
Miss Oklahoma pre-teen pageant<br />
despite the possibility of failure. Let’s<br />
ask someone to dance even if we are<br />
unsure if they will accept. Let’s try out for<br />
that team, even if we don’t make it. Let’s<br />
commit to not running from our fears, but<br />
running at our fears…head on! We should<br />
choose to be courageous so that we may<br />
live. Live a life with no regrets, with no “I<br />
wish I would haves” and no should of or<br />
could of’s.<br />
let’s commit to not running<br />
from our fears, but running<br />
at our fears…head on!<br />
We all can do it on our own. We can<br />
each be courageous by ourselves, but do<br />
we have the ability to help someone else<br />
face their fears? What if we helped others<br />
be courageous? What if we encouraged<br />
courage? Once we start walking in<br />
courage, choose to face our fears, we<br />
can pass the torch to the people around<br />
us and unleash this huge amount of<br />
courage in them also, it evolves and<br />
grows. We can be courageous for others.<br />
In the second grade, I was that guy.<br />
You know the kids I’m talking about. The<br />
ones who have the 68 pack of crayons<br />
instead of just a 24 pack. The ones who<br />
over achieve every time and write their<br />
first, middle and last name on every<br />
paper. The ones who are surrounded<br />
by a group of people at all times during<br />
recess. That was me. I was a smooth<br />
talker to my second grade lady friends,<br />
had my teacher, Mrs. Neagle wrapped<br />
around my finger and had one of the<br />
coolest families around. I mean, I really<br />
kinda liked my family. Not bad for a<br />
second grader! Life couldn’t get much<br />
better. In the evenings after school I<br />
would play with these sweet Disney<br />
action figures on our brown short shag<br />
carpet at home. My favorite was Aladdin.<br />
Or Simba. More Aladdin than Simba, but<br />
sometimes more Simba than Aladdin.<br />
They were both good. They’re both<br />
favorites. Yeah… I played with Disney<br />
toys. I’m ok with it. One evening, while<br />
the Genie was fighting off bad guys like<br />
Jafar and Cruella DaVille, my perfect<br />
world was suddenly interrupted by what<br />
would later become my greatest fear.<br />
The story of our lives, right! Just<br />
when we think things are exactly the<br />
way we want them and we are feeling<br />
safe, secure, content and comfortable…<br />
it is interrupted and fear sets in. On<br />
September 20, 1997, I became aware of<br />
my greatest fear.<br />
As an eight year old boy, there is only<br />
one thing that could take my mind off of<br />
those Disney action figures - competition<br />
with my two older sisters, Amy and<br />
Machelle. There were lots of friendly<br />
competitions in our household while<br />
growing up – anything from who got<br />
shotgun, who made the best grades at<br />
school to who got to answer the family<br />
telephone. To me, answering the phone<br />
before anyone else in the house was like<br />
winning a gold medal every time. Every<br />
time it rang, I would race to the phone to<br />
make sure that I grabbed it first. I would<br />
typically answer, “Hello! Pagett Residence<br />
here. Thanks for calling. My parents are<br />
home unless you’re selling something!”<br />
I was the one who answered the phone<br />
that September day.<br />
“Hello.”<br />
“Hi, Mr. Pagett?”<br />
“Yeah!”<br />
“Is this Wade Pagett?”<br />
“Dad!!”<br />
I handed the phone off to my dad and<br />
darted back to the living room, a little<br />
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disappointed that the call wasn’t for me.<br />
But, before I could even take my seat, my<br />
dad was speeding to the hospital while<br />
Amy and I were left to hold down the<br />
fort.. Later that evening, my grandparents<br />
came over to deliver the news that my<br />
oldest sister, Machelle, who had just<br />
moved to college in August, had passed<br />
away in a severe car accident on her way<br />
home. At eight years old, it is difficult to<br />
comprehend that someone is gone and<br />
that you won’t ever see them again.<br />
Wait! How could this happen? Losing<br />
my sister meant that my family would<br />
fall apart, that things would change and<br />
I would be one of two Pagett children<br />
instead of three and that our house<br />
would be much emptier. I was left without<br />
a Machelle, a sister, a friend. No longer<br />
would I wake up past my bedtime and<br />
sneak in on her and her friends watching<br />
movies in our living room. No longer<br />
would I wake her up early on Christmas<br />
morning. No longer would I utter the<br />
words ‘Chelle and hear a response. That<br />
night, I felt fearful.<br />
I’d cry myself to sleep at night and<br />
insisted on sleeping in the same room<br />
as Amy. But, even with all the hurt I<br />
felt, looking back nearly 15 years later,<br />
I cannot even fathom what my parents<br />
were going through. Here they were,<br />
two proud parents with good jobs, a<br />
good home and three kids, when all of<br />
a sudden, poof, our lives were changed<br />
forever. They worked hard to hold it all<br />
together. Somehow, they must have<br />
dug deep inside and prayed a lot, they<br />
mustered up enough courage to enable<br />
our courage. They would lay awake<br />
with me at night, talk me to sleep, smile<br />
even when it hurt and dragged our<br />
family to church. They even started a<br />
scholarship fund in memory of Machelle<br />
which allowed others the chance to<br />
courageously pursue an education. My<br />
mom and dad were brave for others, for<br />
our family and for me.<br />
Soon enough, like a chain reaction,<br />
their bravery rubbed off on others. It<br />
rubbed off on me. I wanted to be brave<br />
like them so I began opening up to