Stop Violence workbook 1 - Unesco
Stop Violence workbook 1 - Unesco
Stop Violence workbook 1 - Unesco
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Literacy and Life Skills <strong>workbook</strong> 2<br />
However, many of us find it hard to forgive<br />
when we or our family members have been<br />
harmed by someone. Forgiving takes time.<br />
Like grieving, it will take more time for some<br />
than for others. Try not to turn your anger<br />
against yourself or to harm anyone with your<br />
anger. If you find that you’re harming yourself<br />
or others, then you will need to go into an<br />
effective anger management class or into therapy.<br />
Life Skills Activity<br />
The way we think of course affects how<br />
we manage our anger. Suggest<br />
statements or philosophies that would be<br />
helpful to calm anger.<br />
LIFE SKILLS CORNER<br />
Here are some suggestions:<br />
Accept that most things in the world are out<br />
of your control<br />
Accept that it is your choice to get angry<br />
about those things<br />
No one can force you to be angry<br />
Life will not give us all the same things. It is<br />
no use being bitter about that every day.<br />
No one likes to be around an angry person.<br />
No one feels like helping an angry person<br />
Ask yourself: do you like being angry. Do<br />
you like to complain? If so, take action to<br />
help yourself or seek help<br />
Put yourself in the other person’s shoes<br />
If you live each day as if it were your last,<br />
you will realize that life is too short to be<br />
angry over everything<br />
Learn good conflict solving skills<br />
Learn to laugh at yourself and to see<br />
humour in situations<br />
Talk it over – we often have problems<br />
because we do not communicate well<br />
Do not expect the other person to view<br />
things the way you do<br />
Follow up by both of you finding ways to<br />
avoid this ever happening again. What<br />
would you do if it happened again?<br />
Avoid four letter words, sarcasm,<br />
exaggeration and ‘put downs’<br />
Try not to look at things that make you<br />
furious but helpless<br />
Our Anger Can Be Caused By Very<br />
Real Problems<br />
Much of our anger may be unnecessary. But<br />
sometimes our anger is caused by very real<br />
problems in our lives. Not all anger is wrong,<br />
and sometimes it is a natural response to our<br />
problems. If you feel anger, you can choose to<br />
use this anger to resolve problems instead of<br />
just simply flaring up. For example, various<br />
associations against drunk driving have been<br />
formed because someone was angry that a<br />
relative or friend was harmed or killed by a<br />
drunk driver.<br />
Many people also believe that that every problem<br />
has a solution, and it adds to our frustration<br />
to find out that this isn’t always the case. The<br />
best attitude is not to solve the problem immediately,<br />
but to think how to face the problem.<br />
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