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(Continued from page 72 )<br />
Flavor<br />
of the Day<br />
Dinnertime in Del Mar<br />
DATE<br />
It’s Friday night, and Flavor Del Mar is packed.<br />
In the main bar/lounge area, after-work stock<br />
broker types in loosened ties are rubbing<br />
elbows with dudes in flannels and dudettes<br />
in high-boots and short-shorts. Despite their<br />
differences in appearance, the factions are comingling<br />
well (and you just know that suits and scenesters alike<br />
will all end up across the street at Jimmy O’s later this<br />
evening—it’s not just Del Mar’s finest night spot, it’s<br />
also the only one).<br />
A smiling hostess escorts the daters across a small<br />
footbridge to a private table by the fireplace in the<br />
main dining room. They order dinner, drinks and<br />
dessert, chatting and smiling the entire time. From<br />
the magazine crew’s vantage point, the couple seems<br />
to be hitting it off.<br />
After about an hour and a half at Flavor, Jessica and<br />
J.R. head back to the limo for the quick ride inland to<br />
Club M, the new restaurant, nightclub and sports bar at<br />
the luxurious and regal five-star Grand Del Mar resort.<br />
Before they go inside to enjoy exclusive bottle service by<br />
the dance floor. they’re split for mid-date debriefings.<br />
<strong>Pacific</strong>SD: How’s it going so far?<br />
JESSICA: He’s really sweet. He’s fun. We get along<br />
really well.<br />
J.R.: It’s going really well. I think that she’s a really<br />
cute girl and she’s got a great personality, which<br />
goes a long way with me.<br />
How was dinner at Flavor?<br />
JESSICA: I had the scallops and he had the short<br />
ribs. Everything was amazing, I’m a huge fan of<br />
the chef there.<br />
J.R.: Flavor was awesome. I had the short ribs,<br />
which were amazing. It was prepared a little<br />
different than what I’m used to, unbelievable. She<br />
had the scallops, which were really good, too.<br />
What was your first impression of your date?<br />
JESSICA: I have a confession I have to make—<br />
J.R. and I actually know each other. He’s kind of<br />
casually dating one of my best friends.<br />
J.R.: Let’s just say I was shocked, because we knew<br />
each other.<br />
Is this the type of person that you would<br />
normally date?<br />
JESSICA: Yeah, he’s cool, he’s sweet, he’s outgoing<br />
and fun—and just, like, down-to-earth. We get<br />
along really well.<br />
J.R.: She’s great; she’s everything that I look for.<br />
What’s the least attractive thing your date has<br />
done so far?<br />
JESSICA: Nothing.<br />
J.R.: I guess the least attractive thing is that I went<br />
out with her best friend.<br />
What would your parents say if you brought<br />
your date home?<br />
JESSICA: I think they would approve. He’s like a<br />
generally nice guy.<br />
J.R.: Oh, they would love her. I come from a big<br />
family—I have seven brothers and sisters—and<br />
she’s kind of got like a little spunky personality,<br />
which goes a long way with my family.<br />
Rate your date’s looks on a scale from one to 10.<br />
JESSICA: I would say probably like an eight.<br />
J.R.: She’s a 10.<br />
How about for personality?<br />
JESSICA: Like a nine or a 10. He’s funny.<br />
J.R.: Ten.<br />
Does your date want<br />
to kiss you right now?<br />
JESSICA: No.<br />
J.R.: Yes.<br />
Do you want to kiss your date right now?<br />
JESSICA: No<br />
J.R.: Yes<br />
Out of 49 <strong>Pacific</strong>SD blind dates, this is the<br />
first time (we know of) that a dater was<br />
already dating the other dater’s best friend.<br />
Here at America’s Finest magazine, while we certainly<br />
wouldn’t want to break up BFFs—with Jessica giving<br />
J.R. an eight and a 10, and J.R. being ready to give<br />
and/or receive a kiss—at least we can cross our<br />
fingers and hope for melodrama.<br />
After the mid-date interviews, Jessica<br />
and J.R. head into Club M for<br />
drinks and dancing. Inside, the<br />
crowd is a little older than what<br />
you’d find on Garnet Avenue<br />
or in the Gaslamp, but the<br />
energy level is high, and the<br />
dance floor is hopping.<br />
(Continued on page 76 )<br />
THANK YOU!<br />
Flavor Del Mar<br />
1555 Camino Del<br />
Mar, Del Mar,<br />
858.755.3663,<br />
flavordelmar.com<br />
74 pacificsandiego.com {January 2011}