February 6, 2009 - Seven Lakes Times
February 6, 2009 - Seven Lakes Times
February 6, 2009 - Seven Lakes Times
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NEWS <strong>February</strong> 6, <strong>2009</strong> <strong>Seven</strong> <strong>Lakes</strong> <strong>Times</strong> 29<br />
What happened to respect for your elders?<br />
Dear Editor:<br />
i never thought i would live<br />
long enough to say this, but you<br />
know the world has become a<br />
vile place when your eighty-four<br />
year old grandmother is verbally<br />
assaulted while checking out<br />
at her local grocery store.<br />
No folks, i’m not joking. This<br />
actually happened right her in<br />
Moore County.<br />
This past Saturday, my grandmother<br />
finished her weekly shopping<br />
at her local grocery store –<br />
S.O.S.<br />
(Continued from page 26)<br />
the Food Lion in <strong>Seven</strong> <strong>Lakes</strong>.<br />
She had about $90.00 worth of<br />
groceries, which we all nowadays<br />
isn’t even enough to fill up half of<br />
a shopping cart. The store wasn’t<br />
particularly busy, so she pulled<br />
into checkout line number two,<br />
which is fairness, is an Express<br />
Lane. Before remodeling, the<br />
store had large hanging signs that<br />
spelled out in clear lettering “12<br />
items or Less.” Now the sign is<br />
smaller and less visible: my<br />
grandmother didn’t even notice.<br />
nine member Board of Directors<br />
that changes every couple<br />
of years has the ability to effectively<br />
manage in-house staff.<br />
Another example? The Board<br />
hired a new maintenance supervisor<br />
who was supposed to survey<br />
the operation and get back<br />
to the Board with recommendations<br />
in six months or so. Presumably,<br />
one option for handling<br />
maintenance is to outsource<br />
all the work.<br />
The SLLA took at look at that<br />
once in the past, and that’s the<br />
way the SLWLA handles it now.<br />
A Westside analysis found that<br />
in-house maintenance saves<br />
money on an operating basis<br />
— but you have to make a substantial<br />
capital investment in<br />
machines and facility to realize<br />
those savings. We hear that<br />
many of the SLLA’s machines are<br />
aging and will need to be<br />
replaced.<br />
it’s an excellent time to take a<br />
comprehensive look at the whole<br />
question of in-house vs. out-ofhouse<br />
maintenance. So what<br />
does the SLLA Board do? They<br />
buy three pickup trucks — a<br />
pretty clear signal that no one is<br />
seriously considering a new way<br />
of doing business in the maintenance<br />
operation.<br />
Here’s a tiny example of how<br />
we are not rethinking the way the<br />
community is run. My barber is<br />
closed on Monday. So is my<br />
optician. My dentist closes on Friday.<br />
My bank stays open late on<br />
Friday for the convenience of<br />
folks who don’t work banker’s<br />
h o u r s . S o w h o s ays t h e<br />
Landowners Office needs to be<br />
open bankers hours?<br />
Here’s another one. i pay all my<br />
bills online. My insurance payments<br />
are deducted automatically<br />
from my checking account every<br />
month. The SLLA stretches its<br />
staff to send out a massive mailing<br />
twice a year and process<br />
the ballots and checks that are<br />
returned. Writing a check for<br />
$850 in May has a bigger psychological<br />
impact than pulling out<br />
$75 a month automatically.<br />
Those are little ideas. They<br />
may not work. Outsourcing maintenance<br />
or administration are<br />
big ideas. They may not work<br />
either.<br />
As she was unloading her groceries,<br />
a man and his wife pulled<br />
up behind her. The gentleman,<br />
if you could call him that, tapped<br />
her on the shoulder and asked<br />
if she saw the Express Lane<br />
sign. To top it all off, he then<br />
continued, “Or can you not read?”<br />
My grandmother stood there,<br />
insulted and humiliated all<br />
because she was inconveniencing<br />
him by taking a few<br />
extra minutes of his time.<br />
What happened to show<br />
But what is clearly not going<br />
to work is running the public<br />
debate through the same mudhole<br />
over and over and over<br />
and over again.<br />
it’s time for the leaders — and<br />
the critics — of <strong>Seven</strong> <strong>Lakes</strong><br />
North and South to park the<br />
past, step out of the box, and<br />
take a fresh look at how the<br />
Association does business.<br />
Otherwise, a year from now, a<br />
decade from now, it will just be<br />
more of the S.O.S.<br />
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respect for our elders? i was<br />
raised to treat those older than<br />
me with the respect and honor<br />
that they have earned…that they<br />
deserve. To the man that made<br />
these comments – was that necessary?<br />
i’m sure at some point<br />
you must have had a mother. i<br />
want you to stop and ask yourself<br />
how you would feel if someone<br />
said that to your own mother.<br />
if you were a true gentleman,<br />
you would have helped her<br />
unload her cart. But wait, that’s<br />
right…we now live in a world<br />
where it’s all about me, me, me,<br />
and to heck with patience for<br />
anyone else. Patience is a virtue<br />
that we have lost, and it is sad.<br />
To the man who made those<br />
comments, my grandmother is a<br />
remarkable woman! And guess<br />
what? She can read! She worked<br />
her way through Woman’s College,<br />
now uNC-Greensboro,<br />
during World War ii. She raised<br />
three children, all of who attended<br />
and graduated from college.<br />
She has five grandchildren, four<br />
of whom graduated from college<br />
and one who served in the<br />
u.S. Marine Corps. i myself had<br />
a full scholarship to uNC-G and<br />
my sister is currently at Cornell<br />
university on a full scholarship<br />
to get her doctorate degree in biochemistry.<br />
We would not have grown into<br />
the adults we are without the<br />
love and life lessons taught to us<br />
by my grandmother! Maybe next<br />
time, before you speak, you<br />
should practice what my grandmother<br />
taught us long ago…”if<br />
you nothing nice to say, don’t<br />
say anything at all.”<br />
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