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February 6, 2009 - Seven Lakes Times

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NEWS <strong>February</strong> 6, <strong>2009</strong> <strong>Seven</strong> <strong>Lakes</strong> <strong>Times</strong> 29<br />

What happened to respect for your elders?<br />

Dear Editor:<br />

i never thought i would live<br />

long enough to say this, but you<br />

know the world has become a<br />

vile place when your eighty-four<br />

year old grandmother is verbally<br />

assaulted while checking out<br />

at her local grocery store.<br />

No folks, i’m not joking. This<br />

actually happened right her in<br />

Moore County.<br />

This past Saturday, my grandmother<br />

finished her weekly shopping<br />

at her local grocery store –<br />

S.O.S.<br />

(Continued from page 26)<br />

the Food Lion in <strong>Seven</strong> <strong>Lakes</strong>.<br />

She had about $90.00 worth of<br />

groceries, which we all nowadays<br />

isn’t even enough to fill up half of<br />

a shopping cart. The store wasn’t<br />

particularly busy, so she pulled<br />

into checkout line number two,<br />

which is fairness, is an Express<br />

Lane. Before remodeling, the<br />

store had large hanging signs that<br />

spelled out in clear lettering “12<br />

items or Less.” Now the sign is<br />

smaller and less visible: my<br />

grandmother didn’t even notice.<br />

nine member Board of Directors<br />

that changes every couple<br />

of years has the ability to effectively<br />

manage in-house staff.<br />

Another example? The Board<br />

hired a new maintenance supervisor<br />

who was supposed to survey<br />

the operation and get back<br />

to the Board with recommendations<br />

in six months or so. Presumably,<br />

one option for handling<br />

maintenance is to outsource<br />

all the work.<br />

The SLLA took at look at that<br />

once in the past, and that’s the<br />

way the SLWLA handles it now.<br />

A Westside analysis found that<br />

in-house maintenance saves<br />

money on an operating basis<br />

— but you have to make a substantial<br />

capital investment in<br />

machines and facility to realize<br />

those savings. We hear that<br />

many of the SLLA’s machines are<br />

aging and will need to be<br />

replaced.<br />

it’s an excellent time to take a<br />

comprehensive look at the whole<br />

question of in-house vs. out-ofhouse<br />

maintenance. So what<br />

does the SLLA Board do? They<br />

buy three pickup trucks — a<br />

pretty clear signal that no one is<br />

seriously considering a new way<br />

of doing business in the maintenance<br />

operation.<br />

Here’s a tiny example of how<br />

we are not rethinking the way the<br />

community is run. My barber is<br />

closed on Monday. So is my<br />

optician. My dentist closes on Friday.<br />

My bank stays open late on<br />

Friday for the convenience of<br />

folks who don’t work banker’s<br />

h o u r s . S o w h o s ays t h e<br />

Landowners Office needs to be<br />

open bankers hours?<br />

Here’s another one. i pay all my<br />

bills online. My insurance payments<br />

are deducted automatically<br />

from my checking account every<br />

month. The SLLA stretches its<br />

staff to send out a massive mailing<br />

twice a year and process<br />

the ballots and checks that are<br />

returned. Writing a check for<br />

$850 in May has a bigger psychological<br />

impact than pulling out<br />

$75 a month automatically.<br />

Those are little ideas. They<br />

may not work. Outsourcing maintenance<br />

or administration are<br />

big ideas. They may not work<br />

either.<br />

As she was unloading her groceries,<br />

a man and his wife pulled<br />

up behind her. The gentleman,<br />

if you could call him that, tapped<br />

her on the shoulder and asked<br />

if she saw the Express Lane<br />

sign. To top it all off, he then<br />

continued, “Or can you not read?”<br />

My grandmother stood there,<br />

insulted and humiliated all<br />

because she was inconveniencing<br />

him by taking a few<br />

extra minutes of his time.<br />

What happened to show<br />

But what is clearly not going<br />

to work is running the public<br />

debate through the same mudhole<br />

over and over and over<br />

and over again.<br />

it’s time for the leaders — and<br />

the critics — of <strong>Seven</strong> <strong>Lakes</strong><br />

North and South to park the<br />

past, step out of the box, and<br />

take a fresh look at how the<br />

Association does business.<br />

Otherwise, a year from now, a<br />

decade from now, it will just be<br />

more of the S.O.S.<br />

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respect for our elders? i was<br />

raised to treat those older than<br />

me with the respect and honor<br />

that they have earned…that they<br />

deserve. To the man that made<br />

these comments – was that necessary?<br />

i’m sure at some point<br />

you must have had a mother. i<br />

want you to stop and ask yourself<br />

how you would feel if someone<br />

said that to your own mother.<br />

if you were a true gentleman,<br />

you would have helped her<br />

unload her cart. But wait, that’s<br />

right…we now live in a world<br />

where it’s all about me, me, me,<br />

and to heck with patience for<br />

anyone else. Patience is a virtue<br />

that we have lost, and it is sad.<br />

To the man who made those<br />

comments, my grandmother is a<br />

remarkable woman! And guess<br />

what? She can read! She worked<br />

her way through Woman’s College,<br />

now uNC-Greensboro,<br />

during World War ii. She raised<br />

three children, all of who attended<br />

and graduated from college.<br />

She has five grandchildren, four<br />

of whom graduated from college<br />

and one who served in the<br />

u.S. Marine Corps. i myself had<br />

a full scholarship to uNC-G and<br />

my sister is currently at Cornell<br />

university on a full scholarship<br />

to get her doctorate degree in biochemistry.<br />

We would not have grown into<br />

the adults we are without the<br />

love and life lessons taught to us<br />

by my grandmother! Maybe next<br />

time, before you speak, you<br />

should practice what my grandmother<br />

taught us long ago…”if<br />

you nothing nice to say, don’t<br />

say anything at all.”<br />

Alison Lee<br />

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