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Rabbi‘s Message<br />
President‘s Message<br />
<strong>the</strong> <strong>shofar</strong><br />
Elul 5769,Tishri , Heshvan 5770 September/October 2009 VOLUME 120<br />
I start with a well known tale.<br />
Meyer, a lonely widower, was<br />
walking home along Delancy<br />
Street one day wishing something<br />
wonderful would happen into his<br />
life when he passed a pet store and<br />
heard a squawking voice shouting<br />
out in Yiddish. ―Vus macht du…<br />
yeah, du…outside, standing like a<br />
putzeleh?‖ Meyer rubbed his eyes<br />
and ears. He couldn‘t believe it.<br />
The proprietor sprang out of <strong>the</strong><br />
door and grabbed Meyer by <strong>the</strong> sleeve. ―Come in here,<br />
fella, and check out this parrot!‖ Meyer stood in front<br />
of a bird that cocked his little head and said: ―Vus?<br />
Kenst reddin Yiddish?‖ Meyer turned excitedly to <strong>the</strong><br />
store owner. ―He speaks Yiddish?‖ ―Vuh den? Chinese<br />
maybe?‖ In a matter of moments, Meyer had<br />
placed five hundred dollars down on <strong>the</strong> counter and<br />
carried <strong>the</strong> parrot away with him. All night he talked<br />
with <strong>the</strong> parrot. In Yiddish. He told <strong>the</strong> parrot about<br />
his adventures coming to America. They shared some<br />
walnuts. The parrot told him of living in <strong>the</strong> pet store.<br />
More walnuts. They both went to sleep. Next morning,<br />
Meyer began to put on his tallit all <strong>the</strong> while saying<br />
his prayers. The parrot demanded to know what he<br />
was doing and when Meyer explained, <strong>the</strong> parrot demanded<br />
to learn. So he went out and hand-made a<br />
miniature tallit for <strong>the</strong> bird, a kippah even, and taught<br />
him every prayer, how to read Hebrew, and taught him<br />
Torah.<br />
One morning, on Rosh Hashanah, Meyer rose and got<br />
dressed and was about to leave when <strong>the</strong> parrot demanded<br />
to go with him. Meyer explained that <strong>the</strong> Shul<br />
was not a place for a bird, but <strong>the</strong> bird made a terrific<br />
argument and so he took him to shul on his shoulder.<br />
They made quite <strong>the</strong> spectacle. Everyone questioned<br />
him, including <strong>the</strong> rabbi and cantor. They refused to<br />
allow a bird into <strong>the</strong> shul on <strong>the</strong> Holy Days. But<br />
Meyer swore <strong>the</strong> bird could daven and ultimately <strong>the</strong>y<br />
relented. Wagers were made with Meyer. Thousands<br />
of dollars were bet that <strong>the</strong> parrot could not daven,<br />
speak Yiddish or Hebrew. All eyes were on <strong>the</strong> parrot<br />
during services. As <strong>the</strong> prayers and songs went by, not<br />
one peep from <strong>the</strong> bird. Meyer began to become annoyed.<br />
―Daven!‖ Nothing. ―Daven parrot, you can<br />
daven, so daven! Everybody‘s looking!‖ Nothing.<br />
After Rosh Hashanah services were concluded, Meyer<br />
found that he owed his shul and his friends some four<br />
thousand dollars. He left <strong>the</strong> shul fit to be tied. Several<br />
blocks from <strong>the</strong> shul, <strong>the</strong> bird began to sing an old<br />
Yiddish song, happy as a lark. Flabbergasted, Meyer<br />
stopped and looked at him. ―You miserable bird! You<br />
cost me over four thousand dollars. Why? After I<br />
made you a tallit and a kippah, and taught you <strong>the</strong><br />
prayers and how to read Hebrew and <strong>the</strong> Torah! And<br />
after you begged me to bring you to Shul on today of<br />
all days, why?‖ (continued on page 2)<br />
Dear Friends,<br />
As we move into <strong>the</strong> fall, <strong>the</strong><br />
High Holy Day season reminds<br />
us of <strong>the</strong> need for introspection<br />
and retrospection. In <strong>the</strong> same<br />
way that we all look back on<br />
<strong>the</strong> past year and see what we<br />
can improve upon personally,<br />
your Board of Trustees is doing<br />
<strong>the</strong> same thing at an administrative<br />
level.<br />
As I mentioned in my last message to you, we were<br />
able to reach and surpass some of <strong>the</strong> goals that were<br />
set last year, but o<strong>the</strong>rs fell short. Our Board had a<br />
retreat on August 30th to go over those areas that<br />
need some extra work, we added new goals to <strong>the</strong><br />
list and come up with new and exciting ways to be<br />
successful on all fronts. In addition to <strong>the</strong> Board retreat,<br />
we will also be attending a leadership workshop<br />
in September, put toge<strong>the</strong>r by our own Leadership<br />
Development Committee. This workshop will<br />
help us develop our leadership skills to better serve<br />
<strong>the</strong> congregation. As always, I will keep you updated<br />
on our progress!<br />
To start 5770 off with a bang, we have so many activities<br />
coming up! Our fabulous Clergy and our Religious<br />
Practices Committee have been working diligently<br />
to make <strong>the</strong> High Holy Days very meaningful<br />
for all. Watch for innovations within <strong>the</strong> services<br />
designed to enhance our worship! Selichot will start<br />
off our Holy season with a concert by many of our<br />
talented congregants, followed by Selichot services.<br />
After Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we‘ll meet<br />
again for a wonderful Sukkot celebration, followed<br />
by an amazing Simchat Torah service. If you missed<br />
it last year, you‘ll want to make sure to be <strong>the</strong>re this<br />
year as <strong>the</strong> Torah scrolls are unrolled around <strong>the</strong><br />
sanctuary and we continue our Torah reading from<br />
Deuteronomy back to Genesis! Our wonderful Simchat<br />
Shabbat band will be on hand that evening to<br />
add to <strong>the</strong> fun.<br />
(continued on page 6)<br />
INSIDE THIS ISSUE<br />
Rabbi‘s Message p. 1<br />
President‘s Message p. 1<br />
Around <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> p. 10<br />
B‘nai Mitzvah p. 2<br />
Calendar p. 3-4<br />
Committee News p. 6<br />
Early Childhood Education p. 8<br />
High Holy Days p. 5<br />
Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School p. 9<br />
From <strong>the</strong> Board and Spotlight p. 7<br />
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The Shofar is published 6 times per year in January, March, May, July, September & November
Sept—Oct 2009<br />
Rabbi’s Message continued from page 1<br />
―Don‘t be so upset already,‖ <strong>the</strong> parrot replied. ―Think of <strong>the</strong> odds on Yom Kippur!‖<br />
The High Holy Days ahead of us are utilized for many things; although hopefully not for wagers. For many<br />
<strong>the</strong>y represent an exceptionally meaningful opportunity for cleansing and renewal, for a reaffirmation of faith<br />
and for a reconnecting to people and tradition. For o<strong>the</strong>rs, <strong>the</strong> Days are approached with ambivalence to<br />
words and traditions distant from our lives and serve to fur<strong>the</strong>r flame <strong>the</strong> personal struggle of spiritualism,<br />
identity and faith.<br />
While one may hope to attain <strong>the</strong> former, <strong>the</strong> latter should not be undervalued. Both are important along <strong>the</strong><br />
continuum of life. One must learn to walk before one learns to run, yet <strong>the</strong>re is no less merit in a slow and<br />
meditative hike than in a fast and spirited mile run. Walking or running, it is required that we approach <strong>the</strong>se<br />
Days, with all of <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>the</strong>mes and traditions and liturgical idiosyncrasies, with open hearts and minds. Guaranteed,<br />
what today seems meaningful will in time seem not so, and what this year seems irrelevant will next<br />
year, or perhaps in ten or twenty, prove more meaningful than can be imagined.<br />
In my day, I have gone on many a backcountry adventure. Inevitably <strong>the</strong>re are times when <strong>the</strong> hiking is difficult<br />
and distasteful and times when <strong>the</strong> hiking is glorious and inspiring. Yet time spent in expedition always<br />
provides much to learn regardless of <strong>the</strong> difficulty or <strong>the</strong> inspiration. Metaphorically, <strong>the</strong> Holy Days allow us<br />
<strong>the</strong> opportunity to stop, take off our packs - right where we are - and consider our journey. Perhaps, this year<br />
you will use <strong>the</strong>se Days to soak in <strong>the</strong> vistas and sunshine surrounding you. Perhaps this year, you will use<br />
<strong>the</strong>m to appreciate <strong>the</strong> difficulty amid <strong>the</strong> downpour and <strong>the</strong> aches. Each is valuable in its season, and since<br />
none of us walk exactly <strong>the</strong> same journey, we are seldom ever at <strong>the</strong> same place at <strong>the</strong> same time. There is a<br />
season for every purpose and a time for every way-point along <strong>the</strong> journey of our lives. The key, no matter<br />
where we are along our way, is to make <strong>the</strong> most of <strong>the</strong>se moments while we have <strong>the</strong> breath to take, until our<br />
journey takes up again.<br />
On behalf of Adrienne, our family and myself, we pray you and your loved ones a year of discovery, hope<br />
and peace.<br />
Faithfully, David<br />
Samantha Stegman<br />
October 24, 2009<br />
6 Heshvan 5769<br />
Samantha has grown up in <strong>the</strong> temple community,<br />
having attended Avoim, Ganon Gil and Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong>.<br />
She is currently an eighth grade GATE student<br />
at Twin Peaks Middle School, where her favorite<br />
subjects are science and band. Her real passion,<br />
as all her friends (and neighbors) know, is percussion.<br />
Samantha plays in <strong>the</strong> Jazz Band, Wind Ensemble,<br />
and has been recruited as a middle-schooler<br />
to play percussion in <strong>the</strong> Poway High School Emarald<br />
Brigade Marching Band. She is also an accomplished<br />
clarinet player. Samantha is looking forward<br />
to sharing this day with her older sister Haley,<br />
her parents, Shari and Richard, her family and<br />
friends from both near and far, as well as <strong>the</strong> entire<br />
congregation.
(Please feel free to cut out this page for your fridge!)<br />
SEPTEMBER SERVICES AND EVENTS<br />
Services<br />
Friday, September 4<br />
7:00 pm Erev Shabbat Service with<br />
Conversion ceremony for David Ingamells<br />
Saturday, September 5<br />
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service. Grant Ingamells becomes<br />
Bar Mitzvah<br />
Friday, September 11<br />
7:00 pm Erev Shabbat Neginah (Music) Service.<br />
Howard Marcus‘ 100th birthday.<br />
Oneg sponsored by Freda Heller in honor of Dr. Marcus‘ birthday.<br />
Saturday, September 12<br />
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service<br />
7:30 pm Selichot Concert and Service<br />
Friday, September 18<br />
7:30 pm Erev Rosh Hashanah<br />
Saturday,September 19<br />
8:30 am Traditional Rosh Hashanah Service<br />
11:30 am Contemporary Rosh Hashanah Service<br />
2:30 pm Rosh Hashanah Children's Service<br />
4:00 pm Tashlich at Lake Poway<br />
Sunday, September 20<br />
10:00 am Second Day Rosh Hashanah Service<br />
Friday, September 25<br />
7:00 pm Erev Shabbat Service<br />
Saturday, September 26<br />
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service<br />
Sunday, September 27<br />
7:30 pm Kol Nidre Service<br />
Monday, September 28<br />
10:00 am Yom Kippur Morning Service<br />
1:00 pm Children's Service<br />
2:30 pm Adult Discussion<br />
3:30 pm Afternoon/Yizkor/Neilah Service<br />
Sept—Oct 2009<br />
Events<br />
Thursday,September 10 7:00 pm Ganon Gil Back to School Night<br />
Sunday, September 13 9:30 am First Day of Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Pancake Breakfast<br />
Thursday, September 17 6:30 pm Board of Trustees Meeting, Members are welcome<br />
Tuesday, September 22 10:00 am Tuesday Sisterhood Torah Study<br />
Thursday, September 24 10:00 am Thursday Sisterhood Torah Study<br />
Sunday, September 27 10:30 am. Sisterhood New Member Brunch<br />
TAS BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />
<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong> is preparing an update to our Business Directory. It will be available prior to<br />
Chanukkah. For a nominal cost you can advertise your company/business services to our congregation.<br />
If you want to be included, please send your ad and payment to<br />
.<br />
<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong><br />
Business Directory<br />
15905 Pomerado Rd.<br />
Poway, CA 92064<br />
Rates are as follows:<br />
$10 1/8 page (business card)<br />
$20 1/4 page (2.5‖ x 5.5‖)<br />
$50 1/2 page (8.5‖ x 5.5‖)
Saturday, October 3 4:00 pm Chavurah Havdalah Mixer in <strong>the</strong> Sukkah<br />
Sunday, October 4 9:30 am Men's Club Brunch<br />
1:30 pm Men's Club Car Rally<br />
Thursday, October 8 10:00 am Adult Education series on Health Care Issues with Kay Weitzman<br />
continues on October 15 and October 29<br />
Sunday, October 11 12:00 pm Ganon Gil Animal Extravaganza fundraiser<br />
3:00 pm Sisterhood Wine and Cheese event<br />
Tuesday, October 13 10:00 am Sisterhood Book group<br />
Thursday, October 15 6:30 pm Board of Trustees Meeting, All Members are welcome<br />
Sunday, October 18 12:00 pm 1st <strong>Temple</strong> Family BBQ<br />
2:00 pm Adult Education Lecture - Dr. Steven Baird will speak on<br />
Jewish Genealogy<br />
Monday, October 19 7:00 pm Choosing Judaism Seminar/Workshop I with Rabbi David Castiglione<br />
Thursday, October 22 10:00 am Thursday Sisterhood Torah Study<br />
12:00 pm Rap with Rabbi<br />
Friday, October 23 6:00 pm New Member Shabbat Dinner<br />
Sunday, October 25 11:00 am Jewish Food Festival<br />
Monday, October 26 7:15 pm Election Preview<br />
Thursday, October 27 10:00 am Tuesday Sisterhood Torah Study
High Holy Day Prayer Books<br />
It is customary that our members bring<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir own prayer books to High Holy Day<br />
services. It is necessary that each congregant<br />
have his or her own book. If you do<br />
not have Avot v’Imahot prayer book stickers<br />
in your prayer books, you may pick <strong>the</strong>m up<br />
at <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> office. You may also purchase<br />
Gates of Repentance in advance at <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong><br />
office for a cost of $25 each.<br />
In our use of The Gates of Repentance<br />
during our TAS High Holy Day worship, you<br />
may have observed variations in <strong>the</strong> text. The<br />
newer editions differ in <strong>the</strong> gender sensitive<br />
features. Please understand that <strong>the</strong>re is<br />
nothing we can do about <strong>the</strong>se differences<br />
between <strong>the</strong> older and newer editing and<br />
please feel free to contact our clergy with<br />
your questions. Please note that we use <strong>the</strong><br />
newer edition from <strong>the</strong> pulpit.<br />
Yizkor Services Reminder<br />
Monday, September 28 at 3:30 p.m.<br />
and<br />
Saturday, October 10 at 10:00 a.m.<br />
At <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong>, we observe Yizkor<br />
Memorial Services four times during<br />
<strong>the</strong> year - on Yom Kippur, Simchat Torah,<br />
Pesach and Shavuot.<br />
In keeping with Reform tradition, our congregation<br />
observes Yizkor during Yom<br />
Kippur afternoon services on Monday, September<br />
28 at 3:30 p.m. and during our Simchat<br />
Torah services on Saturday, October<br />
21 at 10:00 a.m.<br />
Need To Purchase Extra High Holyday<br />
Tickets For Family Members?<br />
Please contact Debbie Savitsky<br />
at <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> Office.<br />
Cost is $90 per ticket for family members.<br />
Absences From School For The<br />
High Holy Days<br />
Absences from school for <strong>the</strong> High Holy<br />
Days are considered excused absences for<br />
internal purposes by <strong>the</strong> Poway Unified<br />
School District. This means that students<br />
will not be penalized for attendance awards<br />
or academic honors when absent from school<br />
for <strong>the</strong> High Holy Days. A formal letter<br />
should be written to <strong>the</strong> school explaining <strong>the</strong><br />
absence. A sample letter is available on <strong>the</strong><br />
<strong>Temple</strong> website, www.adatshalom.com. If<br />
you have questions regarding this matter,<br />
please feel free to contact <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> office.<br />
Dues Update<br />
If you have not yet made arrangements to<br />
pay your 2009/10 dues, please contact Debbie<br />
Savitzky immediately. High Holy Day<br />
tickets will only be sent to those members in<br />
good standing. Please call Debbie or Jane<br />
Sable-Friedman if you have any questions or<br />
concerns about your bill.<br />
Parking<br />
We encourage you to come early and carpool<br />
if possible. Additional parking will be available<br />
on Yom Kippur morning at St. Bart‘s<br />
church North on Pomerado Road. Shuttle<br />
will be available from 9:45 am on Yom Kippur<br />
morning. Once <strong>the</strong> services begin we ask<br />
that you proceed to <strong>the</strong> South Social Hall entrance.
Sept—Oct 2009<br />
COMMITTEE NEWS AND EVENTS<br />
Chavurah Meet and Greet<br />
Under <strong>the</strong> Sukkah<br />
Saturday, October 3<br />
4:00 - 6:00 pm<br />
See enclosed flyer for details<br />
Please join us for our first<br />
Family BBQ<br />
Immediately following<br />
Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong><br />
Sunday, October 18<br />
at Noon<br />
Event is FREE but<br />
donations will be accepted<br />
First Day of Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong><br />
PANCAKE BREAKFAST<br />
For Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Families<br />
September 13, 9:30 am<br />
Please join us - It‘s a blast!<br />
Save <strong>the</strong> Date for<br />
TAS Jewish Food Festival<br />
October 25, 2009<br />
from 11:00 a.m.—7:00 p.m.<br />
Join in <strong>the</strong> fun and help with <strong>the</strong> planning!<br />
Contact Hannah Cohen or see flyer<br />
Enclosed with this edition of <strong>the</strong> Shofar<br />
President’s article continued from page 1<br />
In October, we can all come toge<strong>the</strong>r at <strong>the</strong><br />
Men‘s Club Car Rally, <strong>the</strong> Sisterhood Wine &<br />
Cheese event, our first <strong>Temple</strong> barbeque of <strong>the</strong><br />
year and of course, our first annual Jewish<br />
Food Festival!<br />
The Jewish Food Festival (JFF) Committee<br />
has been logging countless hours in <strong>the</strong> planning<br />
of this exciting event. THIS IS OUR MA-<br />
JOR FUNDRAISER THIS YEAR and will<br />
need <strong>the</strong> support of EACH AND EVERY<br />
CONGREGANT to make it successful! Please<br />
sign up to volunteer in one or more areas that<br />
need staffing. Cooking has begun already but<br />
more people are needed! Please contact Mindy<br />
Shanes, <strong>the</strong> JFF Volunteer Coordinator at 858-<br />
486-2100 or via email at mshanes@san.rr.com.<br />
You may also check <strong>the</strong> JFF link from our<br />
website to learn about all <strong>the</strong> volunteer opportunities<br />
for this great event.<br />
I hope that this High Holy Day season<br />
brings you renewed strength and hope and on<br />
behalf of Larry, Rachel & Ben, I wish you all a<br />
Shana Tovah!<br />
Janet
Sept—Oct 2009<br />
FROM THE BOARD<br />
Minutes from <strong>the</strong> June Meeting<br />
New members of <strong>the</strong> Board of Trustees were introduced.<br />
Gail Littman made a Powerpoint presentation on<br />
fundraising and also reported that an anonymous donor<br />
has offered to underwrite Board members‘ trips to <strong>the</strong><br />
URJ Biennial in November if those members have not<br />
made a previous financial contribution to <strong>the</strong> URJ.<br />
All TAS committees will be required to submit <strong>the</strong><br />
new Event Information Request Form to <strong>the</strong> Executive<br />
Committee prior to any scheduled fundraising events<br />
regardless of whe<strong>the</strong>r funding outlays from TAS are<br />
being requested.<br />
The timeline for TAS staff evaluations will be coordinated<br />
with future staff contract negotiations.<br />
An Operations Review committee is being formed to<br />
audit TAS financial transactions on a periodic basis to<br />
ensure transparency and accuracy. The TAS By-laws<br />
will be reviewed in 2010 and <strong>the</strong> Archive Committee<br />
has also been reformed.<br />
The BOT passed a resolution to repay <strong>the</strong> cemetery<br />
loan at such time that we have a surplus in net income,<br />
not to exceed 10% of that surplus. The Board also<br />
passed a motion to approve a new logo for TAS.<br />
All b‘nai mitzvah students will receive a copy<br />
of <strong>the</strong> Mishkan Tefillah, embossed with <strong>the</strong>ir name, as<br />
an additional gift from TAS at <strong>the</strong> time of <strong>the</strong>ir ceremony.<br />
Submitted by Lorraine Thall, Recording Secretary<br />
Did you enter Judaism<br />
as an adult?<br />
Would you like to share <strong>the</strong> joy<br />
and help to guide <strong>the</strong> Jewish<br />
journey of ano<strong>the</strong>r?<br />
<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong>‘s Outreach Committee<br />
is looking for Mentors to reach out to<br />
individuals who have newly joined or<br />
soon will join <strong>the</strong> Jewish People. It‘s a<br />
way to share your experiences, lend your<br />
insights, and provide a caring hand.<br />
All that is required is an open heart and<br />
<strong>the</strong> gift of friendship. Working with <strong>the</strong><br />
Rabbi, we‘ll provide any guidance you<br />
need.<br />
Please e-mail <strong>the</strong> Rabbi at<br />
rabbic @adatshalom.com if you would<br />
like to share in this mitzvah.<br />
An initial meeting for TAS Mentors is<br />
scheduled for Monday, October 26 at 6:30<br />
pm in <strong>the</strong> library at <strong>the</strong> temple.<br />
BOARD MEMBER IN THE SPOTLIGHT<br />
Two years ago I moved out to San Diego to be near my three daughters, one of whom was<br />
expecting my first grandchild. At that time I knew no one else in Sou<strong>the</strong>rn California, but I<br />
had strong roots in my former temple, <strong>the</strong> choir, and Hadassah. Today I have a beautiful 21<br />
month old granddaughter, am active in <strong>the</strong> TAS choir, and am your new Membership Cochair,<br />
along with <strong>the</strong> fabulous Keith Liker. I have lived on both coasts, twice, and in nine<br />
cities, so I know what a challenge it can be to get settled into a new community. One thing I<br />
learned along <strong>the</strong> way is how important it is to jump into ―<strong>the</strong> deep end‖, to get active in<br />
your community; it is <strong>the</strong> only way to meet people and make friends. And I hope to use<br />
those experiences on Membership to help our temple be known as <strong>the</strong> friendliest schul in San Diego.<br />
Wherever I have lived, I have always been a member of a temple, even when my children were grown<br />
and I was living away from <strong>the</strong>m as a single. For me, temple membership has always been about much more than<br />
just educating my children, though that is certainly important. The temple is <strong>the</strong> heart of our Jewish community,<br />
where we come for friendship, for solace, for education, and for shared experiences. I have always gotten more<br />
out of my activities than I think I have given. One of my focuses this year is to reach out to unaffiliated singles in<br />
<strong>the</strong> North County, especially those over 40. If you have single friends who have never felt comfortable coming to<br />
services alone, please let <strong>the</strong>m know we welcome <strong>the</strong>m here. The second Friday night service of <strong>the</strong> month is Single‘s<br />
Shabbat when Singles are especially invited to Shabbat Services.<br />
While Keith and I are <strong>the</strong> chairs of this committee, we both strongly believe that every temple member is<br />
critical to our efforts to add and retain members. You are <strong>the</strong> heart and soul of our congregation and I invite each<br />
and every one of you to join us as we reach out to people who have not had <strong>the</strong> opportunity to experience <strong>the</strong><br />
warmth and friendship of <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong>. I am counting on all of you to help us grow <strong>the</strong> TAS family and<br />
look forward to getting to know all of you as good friends.<br />
L‘<strong>Shalom</strong>, Carol Gendel
Sept—Oct 2009<br />
EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION<br />
A New Year of Learning and Fun<br />
As summer camp has come to a close, many happy memories remain in <strong>the</strong> minds of our campers.<br />
The children of Camp Kayetz cooked and splashed and danced and sang and much more. There<br />
were ―scary‖ stories told in a real tent, a visit with a very special <strong>the</strong>rapy dog named Bear, some lovely<br />
celebrations of Shabbat in <strong>the</strong> courtyard with Rabbi David, an old fashioned cook out, a chance to sit in<br />
<strong>the</strong> driver‘s seat of a big Poway Fire Department truck, a home grown salad made exclusively from<br />
freshly picked vegetables from our garden and best of all, <strong>the</strong> opportunity to spend time with friends.<br />
The children were involved in <strong>the</strong> making of a number of Jewish foods, such as noodle kugel, matzo ball<br />
soup and challah. They also prepared some o<strong>the</strong>r summer delights, such as fruit smoothies and red,<br />
white and blue sandwiches for 4th of July. It was a great summer and we‘ll do it all over again next<br />
summer, so see us in <strong>the</strong> spring if you would like your child to join in <strong>the</strong> excitement.<br />
Looking ahead to <strong>the</strong> New Year, many wonderful events and activities are planned. Our intergenerational<br />
music program with <strong>the</strong> Jewish Family Service Senior Program will continue. (This program<br />
was actually written up in an article in <strong>the</strong> July Jewish Journal!) Along with making music, <strong>the</strong><br />
children will be doing some cooking projects with <strong>the</strong> seniors as well. This is such a unique and special<br />
bond! We feel very fortunate to be able to offer this as part of our early childhood program.<br />
Ano<strong>the</strong>r important aspect of <strong>the</strong> preschool curriculum is <strong>the</strong> many ways we observe and celebrate<br />
our Jewish heritage. Along with daily prayer, blessings and routine practice of mitzvot, <strong>the</strong> children<br />
enjoy Judaic art, music, Hebrew, cooking and will be lead by Rabbi David almost every Friday for<br />
Shabbat. Parents join <strong>the</strong>ir children for a number of holiday occasions. The children always enjoy seeing<br />
Cantor Lori and Rabbi David as <strong>the</strong>y help us to understand more about each experience throughout<br />
<strong>the</strong> year.<br />
Shana Tovah from Everyone at<br />
Ganon Gil Early Childhood Center<br />
Safety Week at Camp Kayetz this Summer<br />
Animal Extravaganza!!!<br />
Ganon Gil will have its Fall fundraiser on Sunday, October<br />
11. This year it will be a fabulous family day with all kinds<br />
of animal fun. The Helen Woodward Animal Center‘s Ani-<br />
Mobile will be coming and doing educational presentations<br />
throughout <strong>the</strong> afternoon. There will be food, games and an<br />
animal <strong>the</strong>med movie in <strong>the</strong> social hall complete with popcorn<br />
and candy! Help support TAS and Ganon Gil by attending<br />
or volunteering to help with <strong>the</strong> planning or during<br />
<strong>the</strong> day of <strong>the</strong> event.<br />
All are welcome!
MOSAD SHALOM RELIGIOUS SCHOOL<br />
From <strong>the</strong> Desk of Susan Cohn, Education Director<br />
Dear Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Parent:<br />
I hope <strong>the</strong> summer provided you with opportunities for new knowledge through relaxed learning and<br />
pleasure.<br />
According to Professor Richard Nesbitt, in his recent book Intelligence and How to Get It<br />
―Intelligence and academic achievement are very much under people‘s control.‖<br />
Here are some items to consider:<br />
Jews achieved complete male literacy – <strong>the</strong> better to read <strong>the</strong> Talmud – 1,700 years before<br />
any o<strong>the</strong>r group.<br />
One-quarter of Jewish adults in <strong>the</strong> US have earned a graduate degree, compared with 6 % of <strong>the</strong><br />
population as a whole.<br />
Of all <strong>the</strong> Nobel Prizes in Science that have been awarded to Americans, one-third are Jewish<br />
Americans.<br />
Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School is place of great diversity and opportunity. We are committed to enhancing<br />
your child‘s intelligence; we are committed to enhancing your child‘s spiritual awareness and<br />
we are committed to enhancing your child‘s moral development. We do this by providing outstanding<br />
teachers, rigorous learning opportunities and a dynamic and exciting environment that will nurture our<br />
student‘s innate abilities.<br />
Now, as I begin my fifth year as Education Director of Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School, I thank<br />
you for your continuing support which has allowed us to reach new heights for our school. With your<br />
help and God‘s, we will continue to climb even higher.<br />
May <strong>the</strong> New Year of 5770 bring to all of us good health, much happiness and prosperity, and<br />
<strong>Shalom</strong>. Best wishes for a sweet year. L‘Shana Tovah U‘Metuka.<br />
There are<br />
family education<br />
programs for all<br />
students and<br />
parents K-7<br />
Sept—Oct 2009<br />
Hebrew for Credit is suited for all levels of learning.<br />
Participants receive High School credit and<br />
make lasting friendships at <strong>the</strong> same time.<br />
2008-2009 Hebrew for Credit Students & Faculty<br />
Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Recycling Campaign<br />
Out of concern for our environment and our economy, Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> will have a variety of recycling<br />
opportunities this year. To start <strong>the</strong> year, please consider recycling your gently and lovingly used<br />
Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> textbooks – <strong>the</strong> ones you have doubles of. We encourage families to keep at least one<br />
copy of each book for your family‘s Judaica Library. However any EXTRAS that you have would be<br />
greatly appreciated. We are accepting <strong>the</strong> following titles in <strong>the</strong> front office ASAP, for ‗recycling:‘<br />
Introduction to Jewish History by Rossel<br />
Journey Through Jewish History by Rossel<br />
My Land of Israel by Nover<br />
A Child‘s Bible, Books 1 & 2 by Rossel<br />
Welcome to Israel by Rivlin and Gevirtz<br />
The New Hebrew Through Prayer (Texts), 1, 2 & 3<br />
Let‘s Talk, Modern Hebrew for Teens, Tarnor and Ziv<br />
Derech Bina (The Hebrew Primer) and Derech Chochmah<br />
We cannot accept any o<strong>the</strong>r books for recycling at this time and we do not need any workbooks.<br />
Many thanks for your consideration and donations. Look for future recycling opportunities.
MAZAL TOV TO:<br />
Sheila & Irvin Argeanton on <strong>the</strong> birth<br />
of Sheila‘s grandson, Jackson Marc<br />
Shoemaker<br />
Josh & Melanie Wilner on <strong>the</strong>ir local move<br />
Andrew & Audrey Wachtman on <strong>the</strong>ir local<br />
move<br />
Sonny Singer on <strong>the</strong> loss of her bro<strong>the</strong>r,<br />
Donald Halper<br />
The following on <strong>the</strong>ir special birthdays:<br />
Calvin Schwartzman<br />
Joan Poticha<br />
Lotte Lehman<br />
Liz Schwartz<br />
Jeff Ninberg<br />
Mark Lohkemper<br />
Marcia Gilberg<br />
Nicki Gagne<br />
Sue Milner<br />
Renata Rose<br />
Patty Yurman<br />
Rose Shapoff<br />
Alan Moore<br />
Dr. Allan Rozenberg<br />
Sue Gilson<br />
Lynne Charap<br />
Libby Silverstein<br />
Stacy Steinberg<br />
Wayne Hamburger<br />
Dr. Clifford Wolf<br />
Stan Becker<br />
The following on <strong>the</strong>ir special anniversaries:<br />
Rabbi David & Adrienne Castiglione<br />
Richard & Gail Finegold<br />
Judy & Jack Yoslov<br />
Joel & Arlene Moskowitz<br />
OUR CONDOLENCES TO:<br />
Jeri Ann Karlsberg on <strong>the</strong> loss of her mo<strong>the</strong>r,<br />
Mimi Weinberg<br />
Lou Wilson on <strong>the</strong> loss of his granddaughterin-law,<br />
Mary Wilson<br />
Freda Heller on <strong>the</strong> loss of her daughterin-law,<br />
Debra Heller<br />
Penny Audick on <strong>the</strong> loss of her fa<strong>the</strong>r,<br />
Louis Starr<br />
The family of Es<strong>the</strong>r Tucker<br />
ENTERTAINMENT<br />
BOOKS<br />
Get your 2010 edition<br />
Available now through <strong>the</strong><br />
<strong>Temple</strong> office.<br />
Cost is still only $40!<br />
Get yours today.<br />
The following Tributes were received in<br />
June-July 2009<br />
ADULT EDUCATION<br />
Memory of:<br />
Abraham Feldman<br />
by June Feldman<br />
Edward Groff<br />
by Leonard and June Jacobson<br />
Shirley Idels<br />
by Helene Idels<br />
Josephine Diamond<br />
by Natalie & Shel Diamond<br />
Ray Weitzman<br />
by Kay Weitzman<br />
Sonya Singer‘s bro<strong>the</strong>r<br />
by Kay Weitzman<br />
Recovery of:<br />
Richard Stegman<br />
by Kay Weitzman<br />
Honor of:<br />
Natalie and Shel Diamond‘s special<br />
anniversary<br />
by Bernice Samuel<br />
Joey Thall‘s Bar Mitzvah<br />
by Kay Weitzman<br />
Appreciation of:<br />
Maud Pincus<br />
by Gerry Voit<br />
Lynne Elson<br />
by Emanon Havurah<br />
CANTOR LORI WILINSKY<br />
FRANK’S DISCRETIONARY FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Paula Desow<br />
by Jeffrey Platt<br />
by Alice Platt Harris<br />
Helen Wexler<br />
by Sharon Prescott and family<br />
Nancy Grobe‘s Mo<strong>the</strong>r<br />
by Sharon Prescott and family<br />
Melvin Fields<br />
by Lorraine Fields<br />
Mimi Weinberg<br />
by Lorraine Field<br />
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EDWARD LEVIN DISABILITY<br />
ASSISTANCE FUND<br />
Honor of:<br />
Gertrude Pincus<br />
by Howard Pincus<br />
Recovery of:<br />
Bob Lasser<br />
by Elliott Edelstein and<br />
Hannah Cohen<br />
Dick Schedtler<br />
by Elliott Edelstein and<br />
Hannah Cohen<br />
Gail Littman<br />
by Elliott Edelstein and<br />
Hannah Cohen<br />
FRED OKEN HIGH HOLY<br />
DAY MUSIC FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Alejandro Moena<br />
by Angelica Teal<br />
Leah and Abraham Schwartzman<br />
Harry Oken<br />
by Ruth and Calvin Schwartzman<br />
Sophie Levine<br />
by Jan and Merv Blum<br />
Sydney Kent<br />
by Barbara and Jerry Kent<br />
GANON GIL EARLY CHILD-<br />
HOOD CENTER FUND<br />
Recovery of:<br />
Dick Schedtler<br />
by Rosemarie Litoff<br />
GENERAL TRIBUTE FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Peter Silverstein<br />
by Libby Silverstein<br />
Arnold Sirk<br />
by Lucille Sirk<br />
Matilda Wind<br />
Naye Kallick<br />
by Sid Bernsen<br />
Jack Goldstein<br />
Lee Goldstein<br />
Bob and Fran Goldstein<br />
Morris Krantz<br />
by Florence Krantz<br />
Muriel Burdman<br />
by Lisa and Steven Altman<br />
Meyer Sugarman<br />
by Sylvia Sugarman<br />
Helen Wexler<br />
by Anne Pinkel<br />
Sonya Singer‘s Bro<strong>the</strong>r<br />
by Bernice Samuel<br />
by Joan Ossip<br />
Mike<br />
by Sid Bernsen<br />
Fred Rosenberg<br />
by Sid Bernsen<br />
Gloria Bernsen<br />
by Sid Bernsen
Recovery of:<br />
Gail Littman<br />
by Chuck and Suzi Gold<br />
Natalie Diamond<br />
by Freda Heller<br />
Dick Schedtler<br />
by Bob & Fran Goldstein<br />
Honor of:<br />
Chandler, Keaton, Zachary Weisz Bar‘<br />
Mitzvahs<br />
by Freda Heller<br />
Fran and Bob Goldstein‘s<br />
50th anniversary<br />
by Freda Heller<br />
Janet Pollack, President<br />
by Gerry and Steve Voit<br />
Rose Shapoff‘s special birthday<br />
by Bernice Samuels<br />
Al Baskin‘s marriage<br />
by Marian Rav<br />
Appreciation of:<br />
Jonathan and Kimberly Weisz<br />
by Freda Heller<br />
Janet and Larry Pollack<br />
by Freda Heller<br />
Howard Levin<br />
by Gerry and Steven Voit<br />
Leslee Simon<br />
by Anne Pinkel<br />
<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong><br />
by Natalie Diamond<br />
Rabbi David<br />
Es<strong>the</strong>r Wulff<br />
by Robin Daus & Keith Liker<br />
Donation<br />
Debra Capozzoli<br />
GOODMAN KAPLAN CAMP SWIG/<br />
NEWMAN SCHOLARSHIP FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Zelda Carmen<br />
Freda Heiner<br />
Rachel Swartz<br />
by Louis Zuckerman<br />
Jacob Blitzer<br />
by Len and Sue Milner<br />
HOWARD AND LOTTIE MARCUS<br />
HOLOCAUST MEMORIAL FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Fishl Fischlowitz<br />
by Emma Rad Fischlowitz<br />
HELEN & SAMUEL LEVITT<br />
LIBRARY FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Max Pincus<br />
by Howard and Maud Pincus<br />
Gertrude Pincus<br />
by Howard Pincus<br />
ISRAEL GRANT FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
William Elson<br />
by Lynne Elson<br />
JESSE ROSSMAN MEMORIAL<br />
YOUTH LOUNGE FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Andre Krasnow<br />
Hyman Glick<br />
by Kate Tucker<br />
LEO SLOV EDUCATIONAL FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Michael Frischer<br />
by Mat<strong>the</strong>w and Judith Pollack<br />
Honor of:<br />
Phil and Irma Ames anniversary<br />
by Lucy and Michael Lehman<br />
by Holly and Jerry Swirsky<br />
MARCIA & GERALD GILBERG<br />
PRAYER BOOK FUND<br />
Honor of:<br />
Bernice and Jack Sandbrand‘s 60th<br />
anniversary<br />
by Marcia and Gerry Gilberg<br />
MUSIC FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Robert Schiff<br />
Rose Goldstein<br />
by Evalyn and Arthur Schiff<br />
Elsie Weiss<br />
by Carol Amster<br />
by Ruth and Phil Slonim<br />
by Sid Bernsen<br />
by Edward Fernandez<br />
by The Mayers Family<br />
by Sandie and Daniel Courson<br />
by June and Leonard Jacobson<br />
by The Stern Family<br />
by Kate Tucker<br />
Edith Dosik<br />
by Gary Dosik<br />
Marvin Saks<br />
by Gary and Daryl Saks<br />
Mimi Weinberg<br />
by Lee and Jerri Karlsberg<br />
by June and Len Jacobson<br />
Recovery of:<br />
L. and A. Yenofsky<br />
L and A Yenofsky<br />
Richard Stegman<br />
by Freda Heller<br />
Appriciation of:<br />
Randi Rose Weinberg<br />
Cantor Lori<br />
by Robin Daus and Keith Liker<br />
Honor of:<br />
Elizabeth Titan and Alan Baskin<br />
Marriage<br />
by Pauline Lester<br />
OLSMAN CHILDREN’S<br />
LIBRARY FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Leah and Abraham Schwartzman<br />
Harry Oken<br />
by Ruth and Calvin Schwartzman<br />
Sophie Levine<br />
by Jan and Merv Blum<br />
Sydney Kent<br />
by Barbara and Jerry Kent<br />
RABBI DAVID CASTIGLIONE’S<br />
DISCRETIONARY FUND<br />
Memory of:<br />
Israel Swartz<br />
by Anne Pinkel<br />
Meyer Sugarman<br />
by Barry and Cathleen Sugarman<br />
Morris Greifer<br />
by Ms. Leslie Joseph<br />
Appreciation of:<br />
Rabbi David<br />
by Phyllis Mehlman<br />
Rabbi David<br />
by Al Baskin and Elizabeth Titus<br />
Honor of:<br />
Marriage of Alan and Liz Baskin<br />
Recovery of:<br />
Bob Lasser<br />
by Andrea and Dick<br />
SANCTUARY 2000<br />
Memory of:<br />
Aunt Beatrice<br />
by Phil and Irma Ames<br />
Recovery of:<br />
Natalie Diamond<br />
by Phil and Irma Ames<br />
SISTERHOOD BEAUTIFICATION<br />
FUND<br />
Honor of:<br />
Lauren Milana‘s Birthday<br />
by Cara Haberman
<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong> Funds<br />
I wish to make a donation to <strong>the</strong> following fund(s):<br />
(minimum donation is $10 per tribute)<br />
Restricted Endowment Funds<br />
_____ Alexander B. Klotz Family<br />
_____ Olsman Children‘s Library<br />
_____ Bessie Desow—Lois Lorber Memorial<br />
Scholarship<br />
_____ Grace & Leonard Rapoport Culinary Arts &<br />
Dance<br />
_____ Goodman Kaplan Camp Swig/Newman<br />
Scholarship<br />
_____ Howard & Lottie Marcus Holocaust Memorial<br />
_____ Howard & Lottie Marcus Lecture<br />
_____ Howard & Lottie Marcus Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong><br />
Enrichment<br />
_____ Marcia & Gerald Gilberg Prayer Book<br />
_____ Maurice & Jane Gilmore Lectureship<br />
_____ Reed Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Scholarship<br />
_____ Sally Aries Cultural Arts<br />
_____ WRJ/Sisterhood <strong>Temple</strong> Beautification<br />
_____ Helen and Samuel Levitt Library Fund<br />
_____ <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong> Endowment Fund<br />
Gloria Bernsen, Ruth Cagan, Harold &<br />
Ca<strong>the</strong>rine Johnson, Miriam Jubelirer, Anne<br />
& Irving Pinkel, Stanley J. & Doris Rubin<br />
Misc Funds<br />
_____ Adult Education<br />
_____ Capital<br />
_____ Cantor Lori W. Frank‘s Discretionary<br />
_____ Danny Fogel Facility Enhancement<br />
_____ Dr. Joe Weiss Memorial Social Action<br />
_____ Edward Levin Disability Assistance<br />
_____ Fred Oken High Holy Day Music<br />
_____ Ganon Gil Early Childhood Center<br />
_____ General<br />
_____ Harold Sandler Special Circumstance<br />
_____ Israel Grant<br />
_____ Jesse Rossman Memorial Youth<br />
Lounge<br />
_____ Leo Slov Educational<br />
_____ Music<br />
_____ Rabbi Moss Camp Swig/Newman<br />
Scholarship<br />
_____ Rabbi Castiglione‘s Discretionary<br />
_____ Rabbi Prinz‘ Discretionary<br />
_____ Rabbi Prinz Tribute for <strong>the</strong> Well Being<br />
of TAS<br />
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Phone: (858) 451-1200<br />
Fax: (858) 451-2409<br />
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David Castiglione<br />
Lori Wilinsky Frank<br />
Marilyn Milne<br />
Susan K. Cohn<br />
Jane Sable-Friedman<br />
Executive Committee<br />
Janet Pollack<br />
Marty Teal<br />
Nuriel Lapidot<br />
Sid Bernsen<br />
Howard Solomon<br />
Lorraine Thall<br />
Adam Colton<br />
Auxiliary Presidents<br />
Lauren Milana<br />
David Shanes<br />
Deborah R. Prinz<br />
Leo Slov<br />
Henry Reed<br />
Jan Liebman<br />
Rabbi<br />
Cantor<br />
Early Childhood Director<br />
Education Director, Mosad<br />
<strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School<br />
Executive Director<br />
President<br />
1st Vice President<br />
Vice President<br />
Vice President<br />
Vice President<br />
Recording Secretary<br />
Treasurer<br />
WRJ/Sisterhood<br />
Men’s Club<br />
Rabbi Emeritus<br />
Education Dir. Emeritus<br />
Treasurer Emeritus<br />
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