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Rabbi‘s Message<br />

President‘s Message<br />

<strong>the</strong> <strong>shofar</strong><br />

Elul 5769,Tishri , Heshvan 5770 September/October 2009 VOLUME 120<br />

I start with a well known tale.<br />

Meyer, a lonely widower, was<br />

walking home along Delancy<br />

Street one day wishing something<br />

wonderful would happen into his<br />

life when he passed a pet store and<br />

heard a squawking voice shouting<br />

out in Yiddish. ―Vus macht du…<br />

yeah, du…outside, standing like a<br />

putzeleh?‖ Meyer rubbed his eyes<br />

and ears. He couldn‘t believe it.<br />

The proprietor sprang out of <strong>the</strong><br />

door and grabbed Meyer by <strong>the</strong> sleeve. ―Come in here,<br />

fella, and check out this parrot!‖ Meyer stood in front<br />

of a bird that cocked his little head and said: ―Vus?<br />

Kenst reddin Yiddish?‖ Meyer turned excitedly to <strong>the</strong><br />

store owner. ―He speaks Yiddish?‖ ―Vuh den? Chinese<br />

maybe?‖ In a matter of moments, Meyer had<br />

placed five hundred dollars down on <strong>the</strong> counter and<br />

carried <strong>the</strong> parrot away with him. All night he talked<br />

with <strong>the</strong> parrot. In Yiddish. He told <strong>the</strong> parrot about<br />

his adventures coming to America. They shared some<br />

walnuts. The parrot told him of living in <strong>the</strong> pet store.<br />

More walnuts. They both went to sleep. Next morning,<br />

Meyer began to put on his tallit all <strong>the</strong> while saying<br />

his prayers. The parrot demanded to know what he<br />

was doing and when Meyer explained, <strong>the</strong> parrot demanded<br />

to learn. So he went out and hand-made a<br />

miniature tallit for <strong>the</strong> bird, a kippah even, and taught<br />

him every prayer, how to read Hebrew, and taught him<br />

Torah.<br />

One morning, on Rosh Hashanah, Meyer rose and got<br />

dressed and was about to leave when <strong>the</strong> parrot demanded<br />

to go with him. Meyer explained that <strong>the</strong> Shul<br />

was not a place for a bird, but <strong>the</strong> bird made a terrific<br />

argument and so he took him to shul on his shoulder.<br />

They made quite <strong>the</strong> spectacle. Everyone questioned<br />

him, including <strong>the</strong> rabbi and cantor. They refused to<br />

allow a bird into <strong>the</strong> shul on <strong>the</strong> Holy Days. But<br />

Meyer swore <strong>the</strong> bird could daven and ultimately <strong>the</strong>y<br />

relented. Wagers were made with Meyer. Thousands<br />

of dollars were bet that <strong>the</strong> parrot could not daven,<br />

speak Yiddish or Hebrew. All eyes were on <strong>the</strong> parrot<br />

during services. As <strong>the</strong> prayers and songs went by, not<br />

one peep from <strong>the</strong> bird. Meyer began to become annoyed.<br />

―Daven!‖ Nothing. ―Daven parrot, you can<br />

daven, so daven! Everybody‘s looking!‖ Nothing.<br />

After Rosh Hashanah services were concluded, Meyer<br />

found that he owed his shul and his friends some four<br />

thousand dollars. He left <strong>the</strong> shul fit to be tied. Several<br />

blocks from <strong>the</strong> shul, <strong>the</strong> bird began to sing an old<br />

Yiddish song, happy as a lark. Flabbergasted, Meyer<br />

stopped and looked at him. ―You miserable bird! You<br />

cost me over four thousand dollars. Why? After I<br />

made you a tallit and a kippah, and taught you <strong>the</strong><br />

prayers and how to read Hebrew and <strong>the</strong> Torah! And<br />

after you begged me to bring you to Shul on today of<br />

all days, why?‖ (continued on page 2)<br />

Dear Friends,<br />

As we move into <strong>the</strong> fall, <strong>the</strong><br />

High Holy Day season reminds<br />

us of <strong>the</strong> need for introspection<br />

and retrospection. In <strong>the</strong> same<br />

way that we all look back on<br />

<strong>the</strong> past year and see what we<br />

can improve upon personally,<br />

your Board of Trustees is doing<br />

<strong>the</strong> same thing at an administrative<br />

level.<br />

As I mentioned in my last message to you, we were<br />

able to reach and surpass some of <strong>the</strong> goals that were<br />

set last year, but o<strong>the</strong>rs fell short. Our Board had a<br />

retreat on August 30th to go over those areas that<br />

need some extra work, we added new goals to <strong>the</strong><br />

list and come up with new and exciting ways to be<br />

successful on all fronts. In addition to <strong>the</strong> Board retreat,<br />

we will also be attending a leadership workshop<br />

in September, put toge<strong>the</strong>r by our own Leadership<br />

Development Committee. This workshop will<br />

help us develop our leadership skills to better serve<br />

<strong>the</strong> congregation. As always, I will keep you updated<br />

on our progress!<br />

To start 5770 off with a bang, we have so many activities<br />

coming up! Our fabulous Clergy and our Religious<br />

Practices Committee have been working diligently<br />

to make <strong>the</strong> High Holy Days very meaningful<br />

for all. Watch for innovations within <strong>the</strong> services<br />

designed to enhance our worship! Selichot will start<br />

off our Holy season with a concert by many of our<br />

talented congregants, followed by Selichot services.<br />

After Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we‘ll meet<br />

again for a wonderful Sukkot celebration, followed<br />

by an amazing Simchat Torah service. If you missed<br />

it last year, you‘ll want to make sure to be <strong>the</strong>re this<br />

year as <strong>the</strong> Torah scrolls are unrolled around <strong>the</strong><br />

sanctuary and we continue our Torah reading from<br />

Deuteronomy back to Genesis! Our wonderful Simchat<br />

Shabbat band will be on hand that evening to<br />

add to <strong>the</strong> fun.<br />

(continued on page 6)<br />

INSIDE THIS ISSUE<br />

Rabbi‘s Message p. 1<br />

President‘s Message p. 1<br />

Around <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> p. 10<br />

B‘nai Mitzvah p. 2<br />

Calendar p. 3-4<br />

Committee News p. 6<br />

Early Childhood Education p. 8<br />

High Holy Days p. 5<br />

Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School p. 9<br />

From <strong>the</strong> Board and Spotlight p. 7<br />

FISHLOWITZ CULTURAL CENTER<br />

GANON GIL EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER (858)451-6558 MOSAD SHALOM RELIGIOUS SCHOOL (858) 451-8480<br />

15905 Pomerado Road ·Poway, CA 92064 · 858-451-1200 · FAX (858) 451-2409 · wwwadatshalom.com<br />

The Shofar is published 6 times per year in January, March, May, July, September & November


Sept—Oct 2009<br />

Rabbi’s Message continued from page 1<br />

―Don‘t be so upset already,‖ <strong>the</strong> parrot replied. ―Think of <strong>the</strong> odds on Yom Kippur!‖<br />

The High Holy Days ahead of us are utilized for many things; although hopefully not for wagers. For many<br />

<strong>the</strong>y represent an exceptionally meaningful opportunity for cleansing and renewal, for a reaffirmation of faith<br />

and for a reconnecting to people and tradition. For o<strong>the</strong>rs, <strong>the</strong> Days are approached with ambivalence to<br />

words and traditions distant from our lives and serve to fur<strong>the</strong>r flame <strong>the</strong> personal struggle of spiritualism,<br />

identity and faith.<br />

While one may hope to attain <strong>the</strong> former, <strong>the</strong> latter should not be undervalued. Both are important along <strong>the</strong><br />

continuum of life. One must learn to walk before one learns to run, yet <strong>the</strong>re is no less merit in a slow and<br />

meditative hike than in a fast and spirited mile run. Walking or running, it is required that we approach <strong>the</strong>se<br />

Days, with all of <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>the</strong>mes and traditions and liturgical idiosyncrasies, with open hearts and minds. Guaranteed,<br />

what today seems meaningful will in time seem not so, and what this year seems irrelevant will next<br />

year, or perhaps in ten or twenty, prove more meaningful than can be imagined.<br />

In my day, I have gone on many a backcountry adventure. Inevitably <strong>the</strong>re are times when <strong>the</strong> hiking is difficult<br />

and distasteful and times when <strong>the</strong> hiking is glorious and inspiring. Yet time spent in expedition always<br />

provides much to learn regardless of <strong>the</strong> difficulty or <strong>the</strong> inspiration. Metaphorically, <strong>the</strong> Holy Days allow us<br />

<strong>the</strong> opportunity to stop, take off our packs - right where we are - and consider our journey. Perhaps, this year<br />

you will use <strong>the</strong>se Days to soak in <strong>the</strong> vistas and sunshine surrounding you. Perhaps this year, you will use<br />

<strong>the</strong>m to appreciate <strong>the</strong> difficulty amid <strong>the</strong> downpour and <strong>the</strong> aches. Each is valuable in its season, and since<br />

none of us walk exactly <strong>the</strong> same journey, we are seldom ever at <strong>the</strong> same place at <strong>the</strong> same time. There is a<br />

season for every purpose and a time for every way-point along <strong>the</strong> journey of our lives. The key, no matter<br />

where we are along our way, is to make <strong>the</strong> most of <strong>the</strong>se moments while we have <strong>the</strong> breath to take, until our<br />

journey takes up again.<br />

On behalf of Adrienne, our family and myself, we pray you and your loved ones a year of discovery, hope<br />

and peace.<br />

Faithfully, David<br />

Samantha Stegman<br />

October 24, 2009<br />

6 Heshvan 5769<br />

Samantha has grown up in <strong>the</strong> temple community,<br />

having attended Avoim, Ganon Gil and Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong>.<br />

She is currently an eighth grade GATE student<br />

at Twin Peaks Middle School, where her favorite<br />

subjects are science and band. Her real passion,<br />

as all her friends (and neighbors) know, is percussion.<br />

Samantha plays in <strong>the</strong> Jazz Band, Wind Ensemble,<br />

and has been recruited as a middle-schooler<br />

to play percussion in <strong>the</strong> Poway High School Emarald<br />

Brigade Marching Band. She is also an accomplished<br />

clarinet player. Samantha is looking forward<br />

to sharing this day with her older sister Haley,<br />

her parents, Shari and Richard, her family and<br />

friends from both near and far, as well as <strong>the</strong> entire<br />

congregation.


(Please feel free to cut out this page for your fridge!)<br />

SEPTEMBER SERVICES AND EVENTS<br />

Services<br />

Friday, September 4<br />

7:00 pm Erev Shabbat Service with<br />

Conversion ceremony for David Ingamells<br />

Saturday, September 5<br />

10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service. Grant Ingamells becomes<br />

Bar Mitzvah<br />

Friday, September 11<br />

7:00 pm Erev Shabbat Neginah (Music) Service.<br />

Howard Marcus‘ 100th birthday.<br />

Oneg sponsored by Freda Heller in honor of Dr. Marcus‘ birthday.<br />

Saturday, September 12<br />

10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service<br />

7:30 pm Selichot Concert and Service<br />

Friday, September 18<br />

7:30 pm Erev Rosh Hashanah<br />

Saturday,September 19<br />

8:30 am Traditional Rosh Hashanah Service<br />

11:30 am Contemporary Rosh Hashanah Service<br />

2:30 pm Rosh Hashanah Children's Service<br />

4:00 pm Tashlich at Lake Poway<br />

Sunday, September 20<br />

10:00 am Second Day Rosh Hashanah Service<br />

Friday, September 25<br />

7:00 pm Erev Shabbat Service<br />

Saturday, September 26<br />

10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service<br />

Sunday, September 27<br />

7:30 pm Kol Nidre Service<br />

Monday, September 28<br />

10:00 am Yom Kippur Morning Service<br />

1:00 pm Children's Service<br />

2:30 pm Adult Discussion<br />

3:30 pm Afternoon/Yizkor/Neilah Service<br />

Sept—Oct 2009<br />

Events<br />

Thursday,September 10 7:00 pm Ganon Gil Back to School Night<br />

Sunday, September 13 9:30 am First Day of Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Pancake Breakfast<br />

Thursday, September 17 6:30 pm Board of Trustees Meeting, Members are welcome<br />

Tuesday, September 22 10:00 am Tuesday Sisterhood Torah Study<br />

Thursday, September 24 10:00 am Thursday Sisterhood Torah Study<br />

Sunday, September 27 10:30 am. Sisterhood New Member Brunch<br />

TAS BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong> is preparing an update to our Business Directory. It will be available prior to<br />

Chanukkah. For a nominal cost you can advertise your company/business services to our congregation.<br />

If you want to be included, please send your ad and payment to<br />

.<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong><br />

Business Directory<br />

15905 Pomerado Rd.<br />

Poway, CA 92064<br />

Rates are as follows:<br />

$10 1/8 page (business card)<br />

$20 1/4 page (2.5‖ x 5.5‖)<br />

$50 1/2 page (8.5‖ x 5.5‖)


Saturday, October 3 4:00 pm Chavurah Havdalah Mixer in <strong>the</strong> Sukkah<br />

Sunday, October 4 9:30 am Men's Club Brunch<br />

1:30 pm Men's Club Car Rally<br />

Thursday, October 8 10:00 am Adult Education series on Health Care Issues with Kay Weitzman<br />

continues on October 15 and October 29<br />

Sunday, October 11 12:00 pm Ganon Gil Animal Extravaganza fundraiser<br />

3:00 pm Sisterhood Wine and Cheese event<br />

Tuesday, October 13 10:00 am Sisterhood Book group<br />

Thursday, October 15 6:30 pm Board of Trustees Meeting, All Members are welcome<br />

Sunday, October 18 12:00 pm 1st <strong>Temple</strong> Family BBQ<br />

2:00 pm Adult Education Lecture - Dr. Steven Baird will speak on<br />

Jewish Genealogy<br />

Monday, October 19 7:00 pm Choosing Judaism Seminar/Workshop I with Rabbi David Castiglione<br />

Thursday, October 22 10:00 am Thursday Sisterhood Torah Study<br />

12:00 pm Rap with Rabbi<br />

Friday, October 23 6:00 pm New Member Shabbat Dinner<br />

Sunday, October 25 11:00 am Jewish Food Festival<br />

Monday, October 26 7:15 pm Election Preview<br />

Thursday, October 27 10:00 am Tuesday Sisterhood Torah Study


High Holy Day Prayer Books<br />

It is customary that our members bring<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir own prayer books to High Holy Day<br />

services. It is necessary that each congregant<br />

have his or her own book. If you do<br />

not have Avot v’Imahot prayer book stickers<br />

in your prayer books, you may pick <strong>the</strong>m up<br />

at <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> office. You may also purchase<br />

Gates of Repentance in advance at <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong><br />

office for a cost of $25 each.<br />

In our use of The Gates of Repentance<br />

during our TAS High Holy Day worship, you<br />

may have observed variations in <strong>the</strong> text. The<br />

newer editions differ in <strong>the</strong> gender sensitive<br />

features. Please understand that <strong>the</strong>re is<br />

nothing we can do about <strong>the</strong>se differences<br />

between <strong>the</strong> older and newer editing and<br />

please feel free to contact our clergy with<br />

your questions. Please note that we use <strong>the</strong><br />

newer edition from <strong>the</strong> pulpit.<br />

Yizkor Services Reminder<br />

Monday, September 28 at 3:30 p.m.<br />

and<br />

Saturday, October 10 at 10:00 a.m.<br />

At <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong>, we observe Yizkor<br />

Memorial Services four times during<br />

<strong>the</strong> year - on Yom Kippur, Simchat Torah,<br />

Pesach and Shavuot.<br />

In keeping with Reform tradition, our congregation<br />

observes Yizkor during Yom<br />

Kippur afternoon services on Monday, September<br />

28 at 3:30 p.m. and during our Simchat<br />

Torah services on Saturday, October<br />

21 at 10:00 a.m.<br />

Need To Purchase Extra High Holyday<br />

Tickets For Family Members?<br />

Please contact Debbie Savitsky<br />

at <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> Office.<br />

Cost is $90 per ticket for family members.<br />

Absences From School For The<br />

High Holy Days<br />

Absences from school for <strong>the</strong> High Holy<br />

Days are considered excused absences for<br />

internal purposes by <strong>the</strong> Poway Unified<br />

School District. This means that students<br />

will not be penalized for attendance awards<br />

or academic honors when absent from school<br />

for <strong>the</strong> High Holy Days. A formal letter<br />

should be written to <strong>the</strong> school explaining <strong>the</strong><br />

absence. A sample letter is available on <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>Temple</strong> website, www.adatshalom.com. If<br />

you have questions regarding this matter,<br />

please feel free to contact <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong> office.<br />

Dues Update<br />

If you have not yet made arrangements to<br />

pay your 2009/10 dues, please contact Debbie<br />

Savitzky immediately. High Holy Day<br />

tickets will only be sent to those members in<br />

good standing. Please call Debbie or Jane<br />

Sable-Friedman if you have any questions or<br />

concerns about your bill.<br />

Parking<br />

We encourage you to come early and carpool<br />

if possible. Additional parking will be available<br />

on Yom Kippur morning at St. Bart‘s<br />

church North on Pomerado Road. Shuttle<br />

will be available from 9:45 am on Yom Kippur<br />

morning. Once <strong>the</strong> services begin we ask<br />

that you proceed to <strong>the</strong> South Social Hall entrance.


Sept—Oct 2009<br />

COMMITTEE NEWS AND EVENTS<br />

Chavurah Meet and Greet<br />

Under <strong>the</strong> Sukkah<br />

Saturday, October 3<br />

4:00 - 6:00 pm<br />

See enclosed flyer for details<br />

Please join us for our first<br />

Family BBQ<br />

Immediately following<br />

Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong><br />

Sunday, October 18<br />

at Noon<br />

Event is FREE but<br />

donations will be accepted<br />

First Day of Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong><br />

PANCAKE BREAKFAST<br />

For Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Families<br />

September 13, 9:30 am<br />

Please join us - It‘s a blast!<br />

Save <strong>the</strong> Date for<br />

TAS Jewish Food Festival<br />

October 25, 2009<br />

from 11:00 a.m.—7:00 p.m.<br />

Join in <strong>the</strong> fun and help with <strong>the</strong> planning!<br />

Contact Hannah Cohen or see flyer<br />

Enclosed with this edition of <strong>the</strong> Shofar<br />

President’s article continued from page 1<br />

In October, we can all come toge<strong>the</strong>r at <strong>the</strong><br />

Men‘s Club Car Rally, <strong>the</strong> Sisterhood Wine &<br />

Cheese event, our first <strong>Temple</strong> barbeque of <strong>the</strong><br />

year and of course, our first annual Jewish<br />

Food Festival!<br />

The Jewish Food Festival (JFF) Committee<br />

has been logging countless hours in <strong>the</strong> planning<br />

of this exciting event. THIS IS OUR MA-<br />

JOR FUNDRAISER THIS YEAR and will<br />

need <strong>the</strong> support of EACH AND EVERY<br />

CONGREGANT to make it successful! Please<br />

sign up to volunteer in one or more areas that<br />

need staffing. Cooking has begun already but<br />

more people are needed! Please contact Mindy<br />

Shanes, <strong>the</strong> JFF Volunteer Coordinator at 858-<br />

486-2100 or via email at mshanes@san.rr.com.<br />

You may also check <strong>the</strong> JFF link from our<br />

website to learn about all <strong>the</strong> volunteer opportunities<br />

for this great event.<br />

I hope that this High Holy Day season<br />

brings you renewed strength and hope and on<br />

behalf of Larry, Rachel & Ben, I wish you all a<br />

Shana Tovah!<br />

Janet


Sept—Oct 2009<br />

FROM THE BOARD<br />

Minutes from <strong>the</strong> June Meeting<br />

New members of <strong>the</strong> Board of Trustees were introduced.<br />

Gail Littman made a Powerpoint presentation on<br />

fundraising and also reported that an anonymous donor<br />

has offered to underwrite Board members‘ trips to <strong>the</strong><br />

URJ Biennial in November if those members have not<br />

made a previous financial contribution to <strong>the</strong> URJ.<br />

All TAS committees will be required to submit <strong>the</strong><br />

new Event Information Request Form to <strong>the</strong> Executive<br />

Committee prior to any scheduled fundraising events<br />

regardless of whe<strong>the</strong>r funding outlays from TAS are<br />

being requested.<br />

The timeline for TAS staff evaluations will be coordinated<br />

with future staff contract negotiations.<br />

An Operations Review committee is being formed to<br />

audit TAS financial transactions on a periodic basis to<br />

ensure transparency and accuracy. The TAS By-laws<br />

will be reviewed in 2010 and <strong>the</strong> Archive Committee<br />

has also been reformed.<br />

The BOT passed a resolution to repay <strong>the</strong> cemetery<br />

loan at such time that we have a surplus in net income,<br />

not to exceed 10% of that surplus. The Board also<br />

passed a motion to approve a new logo for TAS.<br />

All b‘nai mitzvah students will receive a copy<br />

of <strong>the</strong> Mishkan Tefillah, embossed with <strong>the</strong>ir name, as<br />

an additional gift from TAS at <strong>the</strong> time of <strong>the</strong>ir ceremony.<br />

Submitted by Lorraine Thall, Recording Secretary<br />

Did you enter Judaism<br />

as an adult?<br />

Would you like to share <strong>the</strong> joy<br />

and help to guide <strong>the</strong> Jewish<br />

journey of ano<strong>the</strong>r?<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong>‘s Outreach Committee<br />

is looking for Mentors to reach out to<br />

individuals who have newly joined or<br />

soon will join <strong>the</strong> Jewish People. It‘s a<br />

way to share your experiences, lend your<br />

insights, and provide a caring hand.<br />

All that is required is an open heart and<br />

<strong>the</strong> gift of friendship. Working with <strong>the</strong><br />

Rabbi, we‘ll provide any guidance you<br />

need.<br />

Please e-mail <strong>the</strong> Rabbi at<br />

rabbic @adatshalom.com if you would<br />

like to share in this mitzvah.<br />

An initial meeting for TAS Mentors is<br />

scheduled for Monday, October 26 at 6:30<br />

pm in <strong>the</strong> library at <strong>the</strong> temple.<br />

BOARD MEMBER IN THE SPOTLIGHT<br />

Two years ago I moved out to San Diego to be near my three daughters, one of whom was<br />

expecting my first grandchild. At that time I knew no one else in Sou<strong>the</strong>rn California, but I<br />

had strong roots in my former temple, <strong>the</strong> choir, and Hadassah. Today I have a beautiful 21<br />

month old granddaughter, am active in <strong>the</strong> TAS choir, and am your new Membership Cochair,<br />

along with <strong>the</strong> fabulous Keith Liker. I have lived on both coasts, twice, and in nine<br />

cities, so I know what a challenge it can be to get settled into a new community. One thing I<br />

learned along <strong>the</strong> way is how important it is to jump into ―<strong>the</strong> deep end‖, to get active in<br />

your community; it is <strong>the</strong> only way to meet people and make friends. And I hope to use<br />

those experiences on Membership to help our temple be known as <strong>the</strong> friendliest schul in San Diego.<br />

Wherever I have lived, I have always been a member of a temple, even when my children were grown<br />

and I was living away from <strong>the</strong>m as a single. For me, temple membership has always been about much more than<br />

just educating my children, though that is certainly important. The temple is <strong>the</strong> heart of our Jewish community,<br />

where we come for friendship, for solace, for education, and for shared experiences. I have always gotten more<br />

out of my activities than I think I have given. One of my focuses this year is to reach out to unaffiliated singles in<br />

<strong>the</strong> North County, especially those over 40. If you have single friends who have never felt comfortable coming to<br />

services alone, please let <strong>the</strong>m know we welcome <strong>the</strong>m here. The second Friday night service of <strong>the</strong> month is Single‘s<br />

Shabbat when Singles are especially invited to Shabbat Services.<br />

While Keith and I are <strong>the</strong> chairs of this committee, we both strongly believe that every temple member is<br />

critical to our efforts to add and retain members. You are <strong>the</strong> heart and soul of our congregation and I invite each<br />

and every one of you to join us as we reach out to people who have not had <strong>the</strong> opportunity to experience <strong>the</strong><br />

warmth and friendship of <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong>. I am counting on all of you to help us grow <strong>the</strong> TAS family and<br />

look forward to getting to know all of you as good friends.<br />

L‘<strong>Shalom</strong>, Carol Gendel


Sept—Oct 2009<br />

EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION<br />

A New Year of Learning and Fun<br />

As summer camp has come to a close, many happy memories remain in <strong>the</strong> minds of our campers.<br />

The children of Camp Kayetz cooked and splashed and danced and sang and much more. There<br />

were ―scary‖ stories told in a real tent, a visit with a very special <strong>the</strong>rapy dog named Bear, some lovely<br />

celebrations of Shabbat in <strong>the</strong> courtyard with Rabbi David, an old fashioned cook out, a chance to sit in<br />

<strong>the</strong> driver‘s seat of a big Poway Fire Department truck, a home grown salad made exclusively from<br />

freshly picked vegetables from our garden and best of all, <strong>the</strong> opportunity to spend time with friends.<br />

The children were involved in <strong>the</strong> making of a number of Jewish foods, such as noodle kugel, matzo ball<br />

soup and challah. They also prepared some o<strong>the</strong>r summer delights, such as fruit smoothies and red,<br />

white and blue sandwiches for 4th of July. It was a great summer and we‘ll do it all over again next<br />

summer, so see us in <strong>the</strong> spring if you would like your child to join in <strong>the</strong> excitement.<br />

Looking ahead to <strong>the</strong> New Year, many wonderful events and activities are planned. Our intergenerational<br />

music program with <strong>the</strong> Jewish Family Service Senior Program will continue. (This program<br />

was actually written up in an article in <strong>the</strong> July Jewish Journal!) Along with making music, <strong>the</strong><br />

children will be doing some cooking projects with <strong>the</strong> seniors as well. This is such a unique and special<br />

bond! We feel very fortunate to be able to offer this as part of our early childhood program.<br />

Ano<strong>the</strong>r important aspect of <strong>the</strong> preschool curriculum is <strong>the</strong> many ways we observe and celebrate<br />

our Jewish heritage. Along with daily prayer, blessings and routine practice of mitzvot, <strong>the</strong> children<br />

enjoy Judaic art, music, Hebrew, cooking and will be lead by Rabbi David almost every Friday for<br />

Shabbat. Parents join <strong>the</strong>ir children for a number of holiday occasions. The children always enjoy seeing<br />

Cantor Lori and Rabbi David as <strong>the</strong>y help us to understand more about each experience throughout<br />

<strong>the</strong> year.<br />

Shana Tovah from Everyone at<br />

Ganon Gil Early Childhood Center<br />

Safety Week at Camp Kayetz this Summer<br />

Animal Extravaganza!!!<br />

Ganon Gil will have its Fall fundraiser on Sunday, October<br />

11. This year it will be a fabulous family day with all kinds<br />

of animal fun. The Helen Woodward Animal Center‘s Ani-<br />

Mobile will be coming and doing educational presentations<br />

throughout <strong>the</strong> afternoon. There will be food, games and an<br />

animal <strong>the</strong>med movie in <strong>the</strong> social hall complete with popcorn<br />

and candy! Help support TAS and Ganon Gil by attending<br />

or volunteering to help with <strong>the</strong> planning or during<br />

<strong>the</strong> day of <strong>the</strong> event.<br />

All are welcome!


MOSAD SHALOM RELIGIOUS SCHOOL<br />

From <strong>the</strong> Desk of Susan Cohn, Education Director<br />

Dear Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Parent:<br />

I hope <strong>the</strong> summer provided you with opportunities for new knowledge through relaxed learning and<br />

pleasure.<br />

According to Professor Richard Nesbitt, in his recent book Intelligence and How to Get It<br />

―Intelligence and academic achievement are very much under people‘s control.‖<br />

Here are some items to consider:<br />

Jews achieved complete male literacy – <strong>the</strong> better to read <strong>the</strong> Talmud – 1,700 years before<br />

any o<strong>the</strong>r group.<br />

One-quarter of Jewish adults in <strong>the</strong> US have earned a graduate degree, compared with 6 % of <strong>the</strong><br />

population as a whole.<br />

Of all <strong>the</strong> Nobel Prizes in Science that have been awarded to Americans, one-third are Jewish<br />

Americans.<br />

Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School is place of great diversity and opportunity. We are committed to enhancing<br />

your child‘s intelligence; we are committed to enhancing your child‘s spiritual awareness and<br />

we are committed to enhancing your child‘s moral development. We do this by providing outstanding<br />

teachers, rigorous learning opportunities and a dynamic and exciting environment that will nurture our<br />

student‘s innate abilities.<br />

Now, as I begin my fifth year as Education Director of Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School, I thank<br />

you for your continuing support which has allowed us to reach new heights for our school. With your<br />

help and God‘s, we will continue to climb even higher.<br />

May <strong>the</strong> New Year of 5770 bring to all of us good health, much happiness and prosperity, and<br />

<strong>Shalom</strong>. Best wishes for a sweet year. L‘Shana Tovah U‘Metuka.<br />

There are<br />

family education<br />

programs for all<br />

students and<br />

parents K-7<br />

Sept—Oct 2009<br />

Hebrew for Credit is suited for all levels of learning.<br />

Participants receive High School credit and<br />

make lasting friendships at <strong>the</strong> same time.<br />

2008-2009 Hebrew for Credit Students & Faculty<br />

Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Recycling Campaign<br />

Out of concern for our environment and our economy, Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> will have a variety of recycling<br />

opportunities this year. To start <strong>the</strong> year, please consider recycling your gently and lovingly used<br />

Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> textbooks – <strong>the</strong> ones you have doubles of. We encourage families to keep at least one<br />

copy of each book for your family‘s Judaica Library. However any EXTRAS that you have would be<br />

greatly appreciated. We are accepting <strong>the</strong> following titles in <strong>the</strong> front office ASAP, for ‗recycling:‘<br />

Introduction to Jewish History by Rossel<br />

Journey Through Jewish History by Rossel<br />

My Land of Israel by Nover<br />

A Child‘s Bible, Books 1 & 2 by Rossel<br />

Welcome to Israel by Rivlin and Gevirtz<br />

The New Hebrew Through Prayer (Texts), 1, 2 & 3<br />

Let‘s Talk, Modern Hebrew for Teens, Tarnor and Ziv<br />

Derech Bina (The Hebrew Primer) and Derech Chochmah<br />

We cannot accept any o<strong>the</strong>r books for recycling at this time and we do not need any workbooks.<br />

Many thanks for your consideration and donations. Look for future recycling opportunities.


MAZAL TOV TO:<br />

Sheila & Irvin Argeanton on <strong>the</strong> birth<br />

of Sheila‘s grandson, Jackson Marc<br />

Shoemaker<br />

Josh & Melanie Wilner on <strong>the</strong>ir local move<br />

Andrew & Audrey Wachtman on <strong>the</strong>ir local<br />

move<br />

Sonny Singer on <strong>the</strong> loss of her bro<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

Donald Halper<br />

The following on <strong>the</strong>ir special birthdays:<br />

Calvin Schwartzman<br />

Joan Poticha<br />

Lotte Lehman<br />

Liz Schwartz<br />

Jeff Ninberg<br />

Mark Lohkemper<br />

Marcia Gilberg<br />

Nicki Gagne<br />

Sue Milner<br />

Renata Rose<br />

Patty Yurman<br />

Rose Shapoff<br />

Alan Moore<br />

Dr. Allan Rozenberg<br />

Sue Gilson<br />

Lynne Charap<br />

Libby Silverstein<br />

Stacy Steinberg<br />

Wayne Hamburger<br />

Dr. Clifford Wolf<br />

Stan Becker<br />

The following on <strong>the</strong>ir special anniversaries:<br />

Rabbi David & Adrienne Castiglione<br />

Richard & Gail Finegold<br />

Judy & Jack Yoslov<br />

Joel & Arlene Moskowitz<br />

OUR CONDOLENCES TO:<br />

Jeri Ann Karlsberg on <strong>the</strong> loss of her mo<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

Mimi Weinberg<br />

Lou Wilson on <strong>the</strong> loss of his granddaughterin-law,<br />

Mary Wilson<br />

Freda Heller on <strong>the</strong> loss of her daughterin-law,<br />

Debra Heller<br />

Penny Audick on <strong>the</strong> loss of her fa<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

Louis Starr<br />

The family of Es<strong>the</strong>r Tucker<br />

ENTERTAINMENT<br />

BOOKS<br />

Get your 2010 edition<br />

Available now through <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>Temple</strong> office.<br />

Cost is still only $40!<br />

Get yours today.<br />

The following Tributes were received in<br />

June-July 2009<br />

ADULT EDUCATION<br />

Memory of:<br />

Abraham Feldman<br />

by June Feldman<br />

Edward Groff<br />

by Leonard and June Jacobson<br />

Shirley Idels<br />

by Helene Idels<br />

Josephine Diamond<br />

by Natalie & Shel Diamond<br />

Ray Weitzman<br />

by Kay Weitzman<br />

Sonya Singer‘s bro<strong>the</strong>r<br />

by Kay Weitzman<br />

Recovery of:<br />

Richard Stegman<br />

by Kay Weitzman<br />

Honor of:<br />

Natalie and Shel Diamond‘s special<br />

anniversary<br />

by Bernice Samuel<br />

Joey Thall‘s Bar Mitzvah<br />

by Kay Weitzman<br />

Appreciation of:<br />

Maud Pincus<br />

by Gerry Voit<br />

Lynne Elson<br />

by Emanon Havurah<br />

CANTOR LORI WILINSKY<br />

FRANK’S DISCRETIONARY FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Paula Desow<br />

by Jeffrey Platt<br />

by Alice Platt Harris<br />

Helen Wexler<br />

by Sharon Prescott and family<br />

Nancy Grobe‘s Mo<strong>the</strong>r<br />

by Sharon Prescott and family<br />

Melvin Fields<br />

by Lorraine Fields<br />

Mimi Weinberg<br />

by Lorraine Field<br />

Get <strong>the</strong> Shofar On-Line<br />

Available on our website<br />

www.adatshalom.com<br />

If you would like to go paperless<br />

and read <strong>the</strong> <strong>shofar</strong> on-line only,<br />

you may OPT-OUT of receiving a<br />

copy via US Mail. Simply call <strong>the</strong><br />

temple office 451-1200 or e-mail<br />

us at jliebman@adatshalom and<br />

we will remove you from that<br />

mailing list.<br />

EDWARD LEVIN DISABILITY<br />

ASSISTANCE FUND<br />

Honor of:<br />

Gertrude Pincus<br />

by Howard Pincus<br />

Recovery of:<br />

Bob Lasser<br />

by Elliott Edelstein and<br />

Hannah Cohen<br />

Dick Schedtler<br />

by Elliott Edelstein and<br />

Hannah Cohen<br />

Gail Littman<br />

by Elliott Edelstein and<br />

Hannah Cohen<br />

FRED OKEN HIGH HOLY<br />

DAY MUSIC FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Alejandro Moena<br />

by Angelica Teal<br />

Leah and Abraham Schwartzman<br />

Harry Oken<br />

by Ruth and Calvin Schwartzman<br />

Sophie Levine<br />

by Jan and Merv Blum<br />

Sydney Kent<br />

by Barbara and Jerry Kent<br />

GANON GIL EARLY CHILD-<br />

HOOD CENTER FUND<br />

Recovery of:<br />

Dick Schedtler<br />

by Rosemarie Litoff<br />

GENERAL TRIBUTE FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Peter Silverstein<br />

by Libby Silverstein<br />

Arnold Sirk<br />

by Lucille Sirk<br />

Matilda Wind<br />

Naye Kallick<br />

by Sid Bernsen<br />

Jack Goldstein<br />

Lee Goldstein<br />

Bob and Fran Goldstein<br />

Morris Krantz<br />

by Florence Krantz<br />

Muriel Burdman<br />

by Lisa and Steven Altman<br />

Meyer Sugarman<br />

by Sylvia Sugarman<br />

Helen Wexler<br />

by Anne Pinkel<br />

Sonya Singer‘s Bro<strong>the</strong>r<br />

by Bernice Samuel<br />

by Joan Ossip<br />

Mike<br />

by Sid Bernsen<br />

Fred Rosenberg<br />

by Sid Bernsen<br />

Gloria Bernsen<br />

by Sid Bernsen


Recovery of:<br />

Gail Littman<br />

by Chuck and Suzi Gold<br />

Natalie Diamond<br />

by Freda Heller<br />

Dick Schedtler<br />

by Bob & Fran Goldstein<br />

Honor of:<br />

Chandler, Keaton, Zachary Weisz Bar‘<br />

Mitzvahs<br />

by Freda Heller<br />

Fran and Bob Goldstein‘s<br />

50th anniversary<br />

by Freda Heller<br />

Janet Pollack, President<br />

by Gerry and Steve Voit<br />

Rose Shapoff‘s special birthday<br />

by Bernice Samuels<br />

Al Baskin‘s marriage<br />

by Marian Rav<br />

Appreciation of:<br />

Jonathan and Kimberly Weisz<br />

by Freda Heller<br />

Janet and Larry Pollack<br />

by Freda Heller<br />

Howard Levin<br />

by Gerry and Steven Voit<br />

Leslee Simon<br />

by Anne Pinkel<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong><br />

by Natalie Diamond<br />

Rabbi David<br />

Es<strong>the</strong>r Wulff<br />

by Robin Daus & Keith Liker<br />

Donation<br />

Debra Capozzoli<br />

GOODMAN KAPLAN CAMP SWIG/<br />

NEWMAN SCHOLARSHIP FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Zelda Carmen<br />

Freda Heiner<br />

Rachel Swartz<br />

by Louis Zuckerman<br />

Jacob Blitzer<br />

by Len and Sue Milner<br />

HOWARD AND LOTTIE MARCUS<br />

HOLOCAUST MEMORIAL FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Fishl Fischlowitz<br />

by Emma Rad Fischlowitz<br />

HELEN & SAMUEL LEVITT<br />

LIBRARY FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Max Pincus<br />

by Howard and Maud Pincus<br />

Gertrude Pincus<br />

by Howard Pincus<br />

ISRAEL GRANT FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

William Elson<br />

by Lynne Elson<br />

JESSE ROSSMAN MEMORIAL<br />

YOUTH LOUNGE FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Andre Krasnow<br />

Hyman Glick<br />

by Kate Tucker<br />

LEO SLOV EDUCATIONAL FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Michael Frischer<br />

by Mat<strong>the</strong>w and Judith Pollack<br />

Honor of:<br />

Phil and Irma Ames anniversary<br />

by Lucy and Michael Lehman<br />

by Holly and Jerry Swirsky<br />

MARCIA & GERALD GILBERG<br />

PRAYER BOOK FUND<br />

Honor of:<br />

Bernice and Jack Sandbrand‘s 60th<br />

anniversary<br />

by Marcia and Gerry Gilberg<br />

MUSIC FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Robert Schiff<br />

Rose Goldstein<br />

by Evalyn and Arthur Schiff<br />

Elsie Weiss<br />

by Carol Amster<br />

by Ruth and Phil Slonim<br />

by Sid Bernsen<br />

by Edward Fernandez<br />

by The Mayers Family<br />

by Sandie and Daniel Courson<br />

by June and Leonard Jacobson<br />

by The Stern Family<br />

by Kate Tucker<br />

Edith Dosik<br />

by Gary Dosik<br />

Marvin Saks<br />

by Gary and Daryl Saks<br />

Mimi Weinberg<br />

by Lee and Jerri Karlsberg<br />

by June and Len Jacobson<br />

Recovery of:<br />

L. and A. Yenofsky<br />

L and A Yenofsky<br />

Richard Stegman<br />

by Freda Heller<br />

Appriciation of:<br />

Randi Rose Weinberg<br />

Cantor Lori<br />

by Robin Daus and Keith Liker<br />

Honor of:<br />

Elizabeth Titan and Alan Baskin<br />

Marriage<br />

by Pauline Lester<br />

OLSMAN CHILDREN’S<br />

LIBRARY FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Leah and Abraham Schwartzman<br />

Harry Oken<br />

by Ruth and Calvin Schwartzman<br />

Sophie Levine<br />

by Jan and Merv Blum<br />

Sydney Kent<br />

by Barbara and Jerry Kent<br />

RABBI DAVID CASTIGLIONE’S<br />

DISCRETIONARY FUND<br />

Memory of:<br />

Israel Swartz<br />

by Anne Pinkel<br />

Meyer Sugarman<br />

by Barry and Cathleen Sugarman<br />

Morris Greifer<br />

by Ms. Leslie Joseph<br />

Appreciation of:<br />

Rabbi David<br />

by Phyllis Mehlman<br />

Rabbi David<br />

by Al Baskin and Elizabeth Titus<br />

Honor of:<br />

Marriage of Alan and Liz Baskin<br />

Recovery of:<br />

Bob Lasser<br />

by Andrea and Dick<br />

SANCTUARY 2000<br />

Memory of:<br />

Aunt Beatrice<br />

by Phil and Irma Ames<br />

Recovery of:<br />

Natalie Diamond<br />

by Phil and Irma Ames<br />

SISTERHOOD BEAUTIFICATION<br />

FUND<br />

Honor of:<br />

Lauren Milana‘s Birthday<br />

by Cara Haberman


<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong> Funds<br />

I wish to make a donation to <strong>the</strong> following fund(s):<br />

(minimum donation is $10 per tribute)<br />

Restricted Endowment Funds<br />

_____ Alexander B. Klotz Family<br />

_____ Olsman Children‘s Library<br />

_____ Bessie Desow—Lois Lorber Memorial<br />

Scholarship<br />

_____ Grace & Leonard Rapoport Culinary Arts &<br />

Dance<br />

_____ Goodman Kaplan Camp Swig/Newman<br />

Scholarship<br />

_____ Howard & Lottie Marcus Holocaust Memorial<br />

_____ Howard & Lottie Marcus Lecture<br />

_____ Howard & Lottie Marcus Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong><br />

Enrichment<br />

_____ Marcia & Gerald Gilberg Prayer Book<br />

_____ Maurice & Jane Gilmore Lectureship<br />

_____ Reed Mosad <strong>Shalom</strong> Scholarship<br />

_____ Sally Aries Cultural Arts<br />

_____ WRJ/Sisterhood <strong>Temple</strong> Beautification<br />

_____ Helen and Samuel Levitt Library Fund<br />

_____ <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Adat</strong> <strong>Shalom</strong> Endowment Fund<br />

Gloria Bernsen, Ruth Cagan, Harold &<br />

Ca<strong>the</strong>rine Johnson, Miriam Jubelirer, Anne<br />

& Irving Pinkel, Stanley J. & Doris Rubin<br />

Misc Funds<br />

_____ Adult Education<br />

_____ Capital<br />

_____ Cantor Lori W. Frank‘s Discretionary<br />

_____ Danny Fogel Facility Enhancement<br />

_____ Dr. Joe Weiss Memorial Social Action<br />

_____ Edward Levin Disability Assistance<br />

_____ Fred Oken High Holy Day Music<br />

_____ Ganon Gil Early Childhood Center<br />

_____ General<br />

_____ Harold Sandler Special Circumstance<br />

_____ Israel Grant<br />

_____ Jesse Rossman Memorial Youth<br />

Lounge<br />

_____ Leo Slov Educational<br />

_____ Music<br />

_____ Rabbi Moss Camp Swig/Newman<br />

Scholarship<br />

_____ Rabbi Castiglione‘s Discretionary<br />

_____ Rabbi Prinz‘ Discretionary<br />

_____ Rabbi Prinz Tribute for <strong>the</strong> Well Being<br />

of TAS<br />

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Phone: (858) 451-1200<br />

Fax: (858) 451-2409<br />

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David Castiglione<br />

Lori Wilinsky Frank<br />

Marilyn Milne<br />

Susan K. Cohn<br />

Jane Sable-Friedman<br />

Executive Committee<br />

Janet Pollack<br />

Marty Teal<br />

Nuriel Lapidot<br />

Sid Bernsen<br />

Howard Solomon<br />

Lorraine Thall<br />

Adam Colton<br />

Auxiliary Presidents<br />

Lauren Milana<br />

David Shanes<br />

Deborah R. Prinz<br />

Leo Slov<br />

Henry Reed<br />

Jan Liebman<br />

Rabbi<br />

Cantor<br />

Early Childhood Director<br />

Education Director, Mosad<br />

<strong>Shalom</strong> Religious School<br />

Executive Director<br />

President<br />

1st Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Recording Secretary<br />

Treasurer<br />

WRJ/Sisterhood<br />

Men’s Club<br />

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Treasurer Emeritus<br />

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